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pynkhues · 5 days ago

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sorry you had a tough night :(

Thanks, anon, it’s okay. My sister just rang me in tears and we ended up on the phone for five hours just talking through all this stuff with her divorce again. We’re still waiting for the child custody and relocation verdict to come through (the judge said Dec or Jan), and her ex is just using this window of time to continue to be just - - extremely cruel to her, to put it mildly. It’ll be okay, but I think a lot of it just caught up to her last night, and it’s hard to comfort her when we’re currently in different states. Hopefully that won’t be the case soon though if she wins.

#if she wins she gets to move herself and the children to Melbourne #the judge gave her permission to enroll them in school here at least which feels hopeful?#but yeah #she’s really stuck in limbo with her abusive ex in a regional town she never agreed to move to right now #it’s been a nightmare #and she’s been so strong but I think the fact that she has to stay and see him on Christmas Day under the current interim court orders #was just the straw that broke the camel’s back last night #but yeah she left the call in a better place than she came onto it so I think I helped #we were really hoping to have the verdict by Christmas though which isn’t going to happen #rl #but yeah I was like ‘at least I have yoga in the morning’ and then the class was hard and also I had one of the sub instructors #who I don’t…love #so it didn’t help in the way I wanted #I AM making myself a bacon and egg sandwich rn though so hopefully that will haha

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