#she’s messaging me about instagram posts i like she’s asking questions about isreal and i wish i was joking | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

lilgynt · 6 hours ago

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if we are not established friends - and i mean we talk often or at length with clear enthusiasm from both sides. both of which had a normal relationship development rate YOU CANNOT SPAM MESSAGE ME OR VENT UR SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!

#personal #i’m gonna sound very mean i’m gonna very mean #before that first. 💯% my own fault!#okay not 100 but mostly #like do i start these convos or look for these connections. NO! but they come to me and i don’t shut them down #which makes me feel awful bc imagine trying to establish a friendship with someone and thinking okay we’re talking more this is going good #but from their side they are genuinely getting frustrated and annoyed at the frequency and just message itself and frankly you #the morally correct thing would be being the bigger person and saying no i’m sorry im not feeling this. but also that’s so much.#and i’d feel so bad when obviously this makes the other party feel like shit #but onto mean meaner than that whole bit i am straight stating to hate this girl im talking to #it feels like she doesn’t have a life outside of me sometimes!!!!!!!#like she sends an iphone game i respond within whatever length of time and regardless if it’s a minute or 3 hours she responds within the #same MINUTE. EVERYTIME #she’s asking about random people i kinda know she’s asking if i know anyone who needs a roommate or a laptop or a place she can stay #i’m not an asshole i was like okay are you okay and safe and she was but also just not ideal circumstances #she’s messaging me about instagram posts i like she’s asking questions about isreal and i wish i was joking #but at her grown ass adult age she’s referring to russia isreal etc as a bag of poops #this is bc i posted about the new cap movie and to not support it and also disney being evil blah blah #but she’s asking questions about israel and disney and. i have to answer bc it’s great for people to ask questions especially about this #but lord all mighty above it hurt. and she’s doing that thing of explaining that she did something but DOES support the movement but still #did a thing and is looking for validation which. is never fun.#like you don’t have to tell me that you have a disney plus account but you feel bad you know?#and she just messaged me about some dude ignoring her i think the ex that cheated idk #also the dude who asked for ten bucks he asked to talk twice this week and i was like no. bc i didn’t want to #once i figure out that i can block people purely for annoying me it’s over #it doesn’t matter if they haven’t done anything objectively wrong i’m allowed to say no more #straight up i’m just gonna start ignoring messaging from people i don’t fuck with #like second i dont have people im like okay i feel too bad to not respond to im never doing this shit again.#like nothing worse than working a 12 hour than getting a message from someone who’s humor and texting style you can’t stand asking to talk #i think partially i’m depressed but i am sick of talking to people bc THEY like me duh im easy to like i don’t like you back bc ur not

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