#she stresses me tf out

[biblicalhorror]

Sometimes I'll just be minding my own business at my boring office job and my paleontologist bestie will send me a video of her starting chemical fires in the museum workyard and I'm just supposed to go on with my day

[heavensincarnate1111]

literally percy throughout pjo up until book 5

[proshipconfessions]

Responding to your last post about proshippers complaining about other proshippers. You didn't provide this option, but I really think it should depend on the content of the ask... And yes, this is a confession blog for proshippers/profic, etc. aligned people. Telling us to go to antiship confession blogs is horrifically stupid and is only going to put us in dangerous positions.

The proship community is not immune from being shitty. There are proshippers who act just like antis. People who think they can change their race and give themselves disabilities are straight up infecting the community as well. There are proshippers who are horrifically ableist against pwOSDDID, schizospec disorders, etc. There are proshippers who straight up use slurs they can not reclaim. There are proshippers who call people the r slur. I especially think proshippers with these disorders (including myself) should have a safe outlet to talk about the toxicity and abuse within our own community without telling us to basically become an anti. Because what the hell???

Of course, I can't read every single anon that you get, but if they are anything along the lines of what I'm talking about here, consider not deleting them. Especially don't tell people to "just become antis" or "just go to antiship confession blogs." That's harmful as fuck.

If anything, these confessions should serve as a reality check that our community isn't perfect. Or serve to remind people that this behavior shouldn't or won't be tolerated in the proship community. Not every self-proclaimed "proshipper" is actually a proshipper, especially if they act abusive, ableist, or harass people like antis do. I will die on this hill.

If you don't want to house confessions about these topics, that's fine. Just say so, and I'll make my own confessional blog where these topics are allowed.

You’re right that there are plenty of people who are proship and also shitty af. It’s something that I’ve both posted plenty of confessions about and have actually even—in case you haven’t been familiar with my blog for a while—made my own post about! It’s like one of just a few posts that I have made speaking directly from my mouth and not a confession. It’s just a post that I wrote about behavior that I hate seeing pop up far too commonly in this community. I literally can’t count how many people I have blocked, which includes not only antis, but also shitty proshippers and pricks who claim to be them while supporting harm caused to others in real life.

You’re also right that you can’t read every anon that I get. I would have much preferred that you even just ask what kind of thing I’m talking about instead of acting like you’re some secret second mod and I’m just some asshole who refuses to hold anyone or any behavior accountable as long as I agree with them on some level.

I really do wonder what you would think about one of the (many with a similar tone) asks that inspired this post.

Do you know how many anons I get with the same fucking attitude and the same fucking insistence that they’re right and I’m wrong and evil, and yet I’m somehow the perfect mouthpiece for their beliefs? What reality check is this supposed to be giving me? Please either stop assuming that everything I say is in bad faith or genuinely try to explain to me what the good content for my followers is in this ask. This is the behavior that I mocked in my post. I also have an old one that I think is somewhere in my drafts(?) where the evil behavior that they’ve seen among a bunch of proshippers that has made them hate all proshippers is venting about harassment from antis. The fake post I made mocking them is an amalgamation of those two, but you only get this one since I’m way too tired to go find the other one rn lol. If someone reminds me, I can reblog it with it later.

Also, I really can’t tell where I said in my post that I would tell these people to go to antiship blogs (other than my reference to a comment where I said that if all that people send to my inbox is how much they hate proshippers and basic proship ideology, then they should probably take that to an anti blog) instead of just deleting the ask, like I actually said in the post. The post that was really more of a way to let off some steam while getting some use out of the Tumblr polls that I practically never get to do anything with. Do you think that the person in those screenshots that I put above is more at home here than they’d be sending this to some anti’s blog?

But like to try to put myself in your shoes, you could’ve been having a shitty day when you sent this, you could be young, or hell, you could’ve seen someone say something similar to my statement recently while meaning this shitty completely different thing. Or maybe you’ve never seen my blog in your life and have no clue what kind of stuff I do/don’t post. My response might sound super defensive, and I hope that it doesn’t, and that I’m not jumping to conclusions, too. I’d hate to blow this out of proportion over what could easily be just a misunderstanding. If I’m being too harsh, sorry. I aim any coldness towards all of these bigoted ideas and the idea that I hold them, and not at you as a person, as I’m willing to believe that you’re an entirely rational person who just misunderstood me and lashed out at me bc of it. But if there is a next time, please try to give me the benefit of the doubt. I don’t ever intend to do anything harmful, and what I said wasn’t intended to imply anything like what you’re saying here at all. I’m not talking about proshippers venting. I’m talking about actual antis coming into my inbox with the “I’m like TECHNICALLY a proshipper, I guess, but I just despise proshippers and think that people who engage with certain types of fiction are inherently bad!!!” So unless you’re one of these people coming into my inbox, then I am NOT telling YOU to go to antiship confession blogs. And if you are… well, then you’re probably not gonna see this, since I’m going through and blocking all of these dickheads soon.

[yioh]

crazy to me that imane khelif is going viral for having her gender speculated instead of how she is a talented and hot asf athlete 😭 where are our priorities and why are they in the fcking gutter

[luv-again]

honestly ?? amy in cryptic castle is so funny to me bc she's pretty much her cheery self the whole time but also has the undertone of, 'gee fucking whizz i am sick of this shit'

like ??? the way she talks abt the black arms and eggman's robots and eggman himself when he appears in the egg breaker boss ? hilarious

she is so done

[lilbreed1ngdoll]

another 30min 😭😭😭😭

[danielnelsen]

peach (my cat) is having a full-day vet appointment to scan and possibly remove some teeth (the perks of only being allowed wet food)

completely unrelated, but anything regarding peach’s health or her being somewhere else or anything even mildly off with her routine or behaviour is probably by biggest anxiety and panic trigger

[cuteniarose]

The consequences of my poor financial decisions are here!!

[astoldbychae]

List 5 facts about a favorite sim of yours, and send this to 10 simblrs whose sims you adore ♥♥♥

I typically struggle with family gameplay (it's overwhelming at times because of all the damn messes and tantrums...) however this little one has grown a special place in my heart, she's just like her damn daddy (and he's literally my fave)...so I had to go with my girl GeGe for this one.

✨ Has the sense of humor of her papa & the sarcastic ass comebacks that'll even give her mama a run for her money. (I wonder who/what she'll be whenever she ages up)

✨ She's such a Whiz Kid & LOVES school (little mama sets her own alarm and makes sure to pick out her outfit the night before and everything; Science is her favorite class)

✨ Absolutely LOVES gaming (Papa put her onto Crash Bandicoot & she loves to play with him. We may just have a streamer in the making...)

✨ Bowling and Pizza Parties are her jam!

✨ She's a cheerful little bean and adores her siblings. (She really enjoys being a big sister & can't wait for Monet to have the baby, she rubs her tummy/snuggles with her every chance she gets. It's funny seeing Melo and her take turns following Monet around the house)

Thanks for the ask LadyBug! 💛

[lazarus-lazuli]

i might be autistic tbh bc whenever someone comes at me with a nasty attitude instead of getting offended or angry i am just Shocked. like speechless. flabbergasted. not even in a “how could you be mean to me, i am just a wittel forest creture i cannot change this 🥺” way but in a “how in the actual fuck am i meant to respond to that’ type of way

[autisticlancemcclain]

Ok hear me out I call my mom mama or mom duhhh but I also call her funny things like "Motherr (insert british accent)", or Parental Supervision especially when Im trying to annoy her. But I think mama and mom are obvi the winners

thank you for being reasonable

[confinesofmy]

my grandma does so much stuff to piss me off and i feel like i can't vent to anybody else in the family about it bc it sours them on her and makes them less likely to help her so then it always all comes down to me when she needs help so she's just getting more and more isolated, and weird in her interactions with me. and the cycle repeats again.

[gayemoji]

for how bad killing eve got the books are infinitely worse.

[kavehater]

I cannot fathom the level of self importance some people must have to behave this way

[actualnymph]

A turtle buried her eggs in my yard which is great but now I’m gonna be stressing abt them 😭

[9thhouselibrastellium]

she’s ALSO lowkey responsible for me and Oscar continuing to be friends bc there was a point in time I wanted to cut him off bc I felt it was what was best for me and she was like good call he’s evil and manipulating you and you’re too blind to see it and he’s going to physically abuse you someday and he doesn’t care about you and is laughing behind your back about how dumb you are to care about and trust him (note this was all projection bc she was in an abusive relationship) and that kind of made me go fuck you I’m going to be friends with whoever I want and you know nothing about him and I’m going to prove you wrong. and then I did