#she could be meaner

[ofbreathandflame-archive]

All I’m saying is, everyone is always saying Nesta is nasty and mean…but I think she doesn’t go low enough😭

[mountainmagpie]

Every friend group should include:

[gideonisms]

my hot take that will get me screenshotted by 2-3 ianthe bloggers is that griddlehark is actually more toxic than harrianthe. when you think about it both parties can Leave harrianthe eventually even if they'd still have to see each other. The power imbalance just isn't that severe. and I don't even think ianthe wants it to be. I think SHE thinks she wants it to be a sexy power imbalance but when it comes down to it and the moment arrives when harrow would fuck her out of desperation to be safe, ianthe turns away. She doesn't want harrow that way. She wants harrow to forget Gideon so they can be lyctors together forever. She wants to mutually maim each other. I think it's even consensual maiming. harrow broke one of gideon's ribs when gideon tried to leave her!

[venvellan]

astarion approves of mean choices, fandom cheers

lae'zel approves of mean choices, fandom booing

yall actually love mean characters AND you love citing their trauma to defend them. but you treat one of these people like a silly quirky murderboy and the other like she doesn't deserve basic respect

[bluespiritshonour]

It just hit me now how alike Katara and Zuko are. And how biased I personally am.

Katara does something cruel/insensitive.

Me: God forbid women do anything.

Zuko does something cruel/insensitive.

Me:

[annyankers]

I’ve been brainstorming for YEARS on how to make an oc i like for shipping buffy with for stories where i do want her to have a happy healthy relationship but i’ve commandeered spike like in spanya stuff and i think i finally cracked it

Vampire guy who looks like young ville vallo/the crow who’s thing that makes him a Special Acceptable Vampire™️ is his tragic backstory. His sister was the slayer before buffy, meaning she died and buffy was called. She dies around 18 and him 25, vampires attacked their whole family and turned them to hurt her. So its like cruciamentum, family massacre, death. To make it REALLY tragic i’m consider she might have killed herself or gone suicide by external force after what happened to her family. And it destroys him, only made worse bc he cleans up the mess of their fucked up family, like their sister was simply Too Young to be left like that forever etc.

So he goes on the hunt for the next slayer and the council to protect the next one better and also Get Revenge against the council. He does a lot of evil shit but he’s too busy with being sad or working on his music career to get too deep into villainy. Totally soulless, never gets one, he’s just a very chill sad maniac and i think buffy would absolutely get all 🥺 at him so like thank GOD i finally have SOMETHING jdjccn

[aroace-polyshow]

ummm revamped showtime at 25 mafuyu thoughts. smth smth her mom was a struggling actress who gave up on it and i am debating on whether she immediately pushes mafuyu to do acting as a way of living vicariously through mafuyu’s future success or her initially not allowing mafuyu to act bc she believes its a pointless and worthless thing to pursue from her own experience but then she sees actual potential in mafuyu and the way people praise her and decides to let her act. either way bc of her past failure she really pressures mafuyu into aiming for fame and stardom and performing on big famous stages when mafuyu originally only wanted to make people smile with shows. mafuyu then loses this true passion for shows and forgets why she wanted to do them at all like her whole thing in canon. yeah

[blcssom]

closed starter for @tcrnished

"oh, i'm sorry, are you trying to make me jealous by flaunting your new bimbo?" it was working spectacularly. "you could've at least tried to pick someone who doesn't look like the walmart version of me. it's a little pathetic, actually."

[rusquared]

having watched all of Fleabag with a friend of mine, some kinda switch has been flipped in my brain that allows me to consume media now. so i binged all the available episodes of The Apothecary Diaries.

[outrockoakley]

IN:

SAYING I LOVE YOU MORE TO MY FRIENDS

MAKING GIFTS

LEARNING MORE LGBT+ HISTORY

SEWING MORE PATCHES ON MY LEATHER JACKET + CLOTHES

TALKING TO STRANGERS

BEING MEANER TO ANYONE WHO TAKES ADVANTAGE OF MY KINDNESS

TRAVELLING

LETTING THE DAYS GO BY, LET THE WATER HOLD ME DOWN

RECONNECTING WITH FAMILY

LEARNING TO LOVE FOOD

TREATING MYSELF BETTER

TOP SURGERY (PLEASE)

OUT:

OVERWORKING MYSELF

BEING AFRAID OF WEARING COLOR

NOT DRESSING WEIRD ENOUGH

LETTING SHAME STOP ME FROM BEING CONFIDENT

WATCHING THE YEAR PASS BY FROM MY BEDROOM WINDOW

SELF SABOTAGING MY HAPPINESS

NOT LETTING MYSELF DO SOMETHING BECAUSE I "DON'T KNOW ALL THE RULES"

ALLOWING MY ANXIETY TO TURN ME INTO ITS PRISONER

[boysborntodie]

Nobody's actually allowed to hate Cherry ever. Like hating on any other character can be excused but if you hate Cherry, then I'll just assume you're misogynistic.

[eastgaysian]

i think after trying and failing for several playthroughs and many hours im going to have to accept i just don't have strong feelings on shadowheart. yuri potential is awesome 👍 but she is just kind of like . fine. to me

[knittinglizards]

i think while the story doesn't line up exactly (of course, since the book is like 40 pages in a simple fairytale style and the actual plot has a ton of moving parts and is like Their Actual Lives) nina fits the half that eats the other in the nameless monster book way better even though the book character is called johan. like 1. he is in effect already the nameless one whose identity was swallowed up by hers (through no fault of either of them, not that either remember this at the point I'm at in this rewatch), 2. he seems to have rejected at every turn opportunities to live like. a normal life lol. matches well the 'we don't need names' line, 3. if she had succeeded in killing him like she tried to several times (and he seemed to be like. fine with as an outcome) everyone who had witnessed and could fully understand the worst parts of her life would be dead. except like poppe i guess. which isn't The Same as 'he had a name but there was no one left to call him by it' but similar

[starscelly]

obsessed with that era of time where ppl were complaining abt kate being so rude, mean, etc how could tyler possibly like her what the hell! as if he has not on record said he loves mean women and women who will - DIRECT QUOTE - “put him in his place”. hello.

[syntax-stonefly]

there’s a lot of stressful things about moving house for the first time but i think the weirdest part is finding art from when i was 10

[futuremrscameron]

i’m always pro sarah being a bitch to rafe