#sexatoxbridge

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One thing sexatoxbridge got right was that they were lying about Maya’s age. It was a whole drama with Liam answering and then blocking her. Unfortunately she is still a proud larrie and also thought Maya’s family was paying Liam for the “stunt”…

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I remember she actually got a book deal on the basis of a few blog posts but she ran out of inspiration and the book never got written! What a wasted opportunity.

She seems to be working as a dog walker these days.

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A cautionary tale. How one fledgling journalist sacrificed her career on the altar of Larry Stylinson.

Hello! Where could I read the character assassination posts you wrote on Buzzfeed?? I'm very curious :)

Well certainly not on Buzzfeed, that’s for sure. 

Now this is a story all about how my life got switch turned upside down…

Back in the ominous year of two-thousand and sixteen and Louis Tomlinson had just awkwardly announced on Twitter that he was a father whilst simultaneously out clubbing according to a couple sources in da club, so take that as you will. And I wrote this post about how incredibly bizarre the entire situation is. So I decided to write about it on Buzzfeed, since I was already building a portfolio there in anticipation of applying for their editorial fellowship. 

I’d had some articles go viral before so the editor of Buzzfeed UK had told me to email him anything I wrote, so I sent him this and he replied:

Within two days it had over 64,000 views. 

Then I wrote another article called, “Why is it so hard for people to believe that Louis Tomlinson has had a baby” where I showed some pictures that people had sent to me which highly insinuated that the photos on Louis’ IG had been photoshopped. 

The original article was nearing the 100k mark

So I wrote another article about how Louis’ actions seemed to be mimicking how Simon Cowell acted when he had his son and I named it, “Is Louis Tomlinson’s bizarre behaviour just him mocking Simon Cowell?” in which I dug up a bunch of articles from a couple years ago about Simon which were buried deep in the internet and was like, “Look all of this was printed about him.” 

Then, as I was making another Buzzfeed post about RBB and SBB I was logged out and couldn’t log back into my account. Then I realised that all of my articles were missing so I emailed the editor, who had previously been putting all my work on the homepage and he told me I’d have to talk to the Community Editor and basically never spoke to me again. The Community Editor said

Which is the exact opposite of how they’d treated me for almost two years. My original article that went viral was about my blog, so clearly using my “brand” had never been an issue before. Not only did they delete the article about Simon Cowell, but they deleted my entire 26 article portfolio aka my application to work for them. At this point I was like, “Fine. I don’t want to work for a bunch of a-holes like you anyway, I’ll publish them myself. I own a website.” So I put the articles on my website and an hour later I got this error message when I tried to look at it

Mind you this is a website that I pay for myself and which holds the entirety of my blogging catalogue since 2010, so when I thought it had all been deleted I was like

Luckily, it had not been deleted, but someone had flooded the server it’s hosted on with traffic to my site, causing it to crash. I spoke to the IT department and this had apparently never happened to one of their servers before, and it was indeed due to a targeted attack on my own website. 

So for a hot minute I was like, “Well I can’t really risk my entire writing career just because I think Simon Cowell is a monster.” But then I thought, that is exactly how we get the media narrative we have today. 

I then setup a mailing list (which anyone can subscribe to here) and basically copied and pasted the articles (which I had recovered through archive.org) and sent every single one of them to over 2,000 people. They can hack websites and threaten news outlets all they want, but they can hardly demand that thousands of people delete an email…at least that was my logic. 

Short story long…here’s all the articles I wrote which resulted in my being personally victimised by Regina Simon Cowell:

Is Louis Tomlinson A Victim of A Character Assassination Campaign?

Why Is It So Hard For People To Believe That Louis Tomlinson Has Actually Had A Baby?

Is Louis Tomlinson’s Bizarre Behaviour Actually Just Him Mocking Simon Cowell?

And bonus, the original thesis on Larry I wrote for Buzzfeed:

Some People GENUINELY Think That Louis Tomlinson And Harry Styles Are In A Relationship

[alarrytale]

Hello marte❤️

I have also been here since 2012 and I have known the wonderful larry blogs like Bulletprooflarry (Kati), Tellmethisisnotlove (Gabi), the-love-laws, 28nachos (Amy), sexatoxbridge and legohousedea.

The thing is they were so firm in their believes, even when 1D went on hiatus and the solo stuff started both kati en gabi (for example) never thought larry were on a break or broken up and hooking up with others during those times.

Why do you think those larries were firmer in their believes than the larries nowadays? Because there is less proof than back in the day? Also, do you think that if Kati, Gabi and the OG larrie blogs would be here in 2024 they'd change their minds as well like Gina did (about break up and hook ups with others)?

I'm not sayin it's wrong to change your mind. It's actually good to evaluate what you know with current time. However I feel like present day (big) larrie blogs are starting to buy into louis'and harry's fake image (womanizer and chav)....which is weird because back in 2013 louis and harry both got an extreme closet with extreme images but the OG larries back then never bought into it from what I can remember....

I would love to hear your opinion on all this. Have a good day❤️

Hi, anon!

I think it's easier to be firm in your belief when you get constant validation and a stream of confirming information like we did when they were in the band. You build a confidence in your beliefs over years of validation. Coming in late to the fandom and having to read up on stuff isn't the same, so it's harder to build that confidence.

When the gaslighting ramps up and the signalling and queercoding stops or reduces, it's harder to resist the pressure to conform to the public narrative. If you're a latecomer you will have an even harder time of it, because you haven't maybe experienced the periods of validation. So you'll end up with old-timers who are really confident and validated and latecomers who are not confident and don't get real time validation.

The longer the gaslighting continues and we don’t get signals, evidence or new information or interactions between H and L the harder it is to keep your beliefs. You also tend to forget some of the things that shaped your beliefs as time passes. So some are starting to doubt what where previously firm beliefs.

I also think that some are very affected by other people's beliefs and base their own beliefs on others beliefs. That's not a good base for your own beliefs and is shaky ground. If others then change or amend their beliefs then you might get really insecure. Some of it is also down to fandom moods and the confidence you have in yourself as a person. So it's complex.

[mandolaurian]

ooh, seems i was tagged in a tag game (thank you @pearlsandpoppers). okay lets see: sun, moon, ascendant and venus color palette using these images.. fun!

well there it is. doesn't look too bad, honestly.

@suiine, @heartbreakfeelsogood, @sexatoxbridge, @tennessoui, @thedunesea, @elirwen, any of you up for this??

[mistlekissy]

x.)com/SexAtOxbridge/status/1830388628096266332 genuinely what reality do these people live in 😭

for some reason that account has me blocked even tho i'm not on twitter whatsoever LMAO good riddance

[harryfeatgaga]

https://twitter.com/SexAtOxbridge/status/1662151786554064912

He's barbie

LITERALLY

[reorientingtothexdaylight]

@sexatoxbridge well, it's an italian show about drugs, mafia, family and found family, and well, love. If you need help watching it, I can help!

very sexy of sky for having renewed blocco 181 for a second season

[larriefails]

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A cautionary tale. How one fledgling journalist sacrificed her career on the altar of Larry Stylinson.///

This was so funny! This maniac genuinely thought that Buzzfeed's readers would appreciate reading about 'babygate' and 'RBB and SBB'. Glad they fired her.

Simon Jones definitely sent out a cease and desist notice.

[sexatoxbridge]

In March I decided I wanted to write about music and that I wanted to cover BBC’s Big Weekend. It was almost financially and logistically impossible so I started working 70 hours/week and built a music website.

I now have a press pass and a trip booked to the UK in 3 weeks.

[boobear-harold]

Prince of Sunlight & Prince of Moonlight

[peachesannndgravy]

@sexatoxbridge me @ the Hot Topic section of Nightmare Before Xmas

losing your friend in hot topic

[peachesannndgravy]

Are you still friends with SAO?

Hell yes! Why wouldn’t we be friends anon? I just saw SAO last week && we had lots of fun. SAO showed me the coolest store ever because she knows how much I love Halloween. 

They’re currently at the Middlesborough festival in England. Can’t wait for SAO to come back to LA so we can play catch up again. 

[aqueermenagerie]

#two ghots sittin in a hot tub five feet apart cos they're not gay @sexatoxbridge

I swear this had me cackling for a good minute omg

[lululawrence]

I'd like to spread some sparkly fandom love in the direction of breakingjen, sharktoofs, chickenparmaskam, sexatoxbridge, lucystarkid and strangenewfriends for offering various kind words, messages of support, great conversations and fic comments over the past few months. It helps me more than you know 😃

oooh, sparkly fandom love!  i dig it!  here you go: @breakingjen, @sharktoofs, @chickenparmaskam, @sexatoxbridge, @lucystarkid, and @strangenewfriends!

[funreadingchick]

Hi :) I’m thinking of making more of these Rainbow/Chakra crystal bracelets to sell to help out with Harry’s Switchboard birthday drive. (this one strikes a chord with me bc the thought of LGBT+ kids feeling hurt & alone is heartbreaking…and I’d love to help in some small way)

I’d love to know if there’d be any interest before I make a bunch. Could you please reblog this…and like or comment if you’d probably order one (or more :) yourself…no obligation of course, I just want to gauge the level of interest.

They’d sell for around $15 US and $5 from each bracelet would go to Switchboard. I’m also playing with the idea of having little metal tags/charms made to attach to the bracelets…“I Study Rainbows” or maybe “STRONG” (bc it’s shorter) for the Rainbow ones - and “All the Love” for the pink Love bracelets. They’d cost approx $2-$3 extra…so let me know what you think about that too :)….also…feel free to tell me which styles are your favourite :) Thanks everybody 💜

P.S. these are stretchy elastic bracelets