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[atthefishhouses]

The worst fate, they utterly agreed, would be to become like Mother and Dad, stuffy and frightened. Not one of them, if she could help it, was going to marry a broker or a banker or a cold-fish corporation lawyer, like so many of Mother’s generation.

Mary McCarthy, The Group (1963)

[steaksex]

Neeeeeeeeed to be a dumb mutt again i think. Need to make mistakes and not understand basic things and instead of getting yelled at i just get a condescending look and accomodations. Next time i eat so fast i feel sick or try to save the best bite of food for last i need someome to put that shit in those scary spiky dog bowls that make it harder for your dog to eat so fast they throw up. Smiel

[megaclubdiolis]

柄本 佑 || 「光る君へ」 (2024) · 第二十七回 「宿縁の命」 ​​​

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[asexual-vampire]

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[inklingofadream]

in general, I think sexuality becoming more acceptable to write and write about is great

but man, has the switch from reading some 50s and 60s sci fi to a book from the 1980s got me rethinking that. those love interests weren't necessarily portrayed *well*, but this is ridiculous

[xtrablak674]

Sex Death & The Future by Irene Elizabeth Stroud

[Originally published in LGNY (Now Gay City News), April 9, 1995, Issue No 1]

Adamo Melaney and Trevor Brown know more about HIV and AIDS then most young gay men in New York. But all they know is not enough to keep them from having unsafe sex. Adamo can list at least half a dozen things it also takes - counseling, friends, a support group, therapy, safer sex coaching from Project Achieve, hope for the future. And even then its not easy. Trevor, for reasons he only partly understands, has been having unsafe sex for months, and he can't seem to stop.

Adamo and Trevor are best friends. They met two years ago at GHMC, in a training for HIV/AIDS peer educators. A friend of Adamo's had just found out he was HIV positive, and he wanted to make sure that the same thing didn't happen to the rest of his friends. Trevor, who had been active in gay groups in college, was ready to take his activism to the next level. Since then they have been inseparable. As peer educators, they're a team: Adamo is the serious, analytical one, while Trevor is the theatrical and funny.

They avoid using fear tactics in their training sessions because they don't think fear results in permanent change. "What you're feeling when you have sex isn't going to link up to those things you're afraid of when your not having sex," Adamo says. But they are afraid.

They try to emphasize the positive aspects of sex, so that people don't feel they're losing something when they use a condom. But Trevor questions the honesty of that message. "It (sex) is wonderful without a condom," he says. "Plain and simple fact. It's not that I advocate going out there and doing that, but I think part of our education needs to say that, 'Fucking without a condom feels very good'."

They talk about the sexual freedom of gay culture in previous generations with a mixture of ridicule and envy. "We're not the generation that grew up in the seventies, " says Trevor. "Where fucking the dogs and other guys and then women and then the sink and the couch. And this is not the eighties where you're like in the bathhouses, and poppers ­he mimics snorts something up his nose­; "and cocaine, and drugs and everything's heavy I mean, we were growing up at that time where it was like, Oh. Sex. AIDS, You die.

But without the experience of actually seeing their friends die, it's still easy for young gay men, like all young people, to persist in feeling immortal. Trevor continues: "If it's not like right up in our face, like Pedro Zamora, Ah, y Pedro!, we don't believe it."

They've done HIV education for everyone from convicted teenage felons to the junior league. But they're frustrated because even their best safer sex education is still scatter-shot damage control.

"There was one child [in one of our groups] who had a child, "Trevor says."And girlfriend didn't even know about her body or how it worked"

"About her menstrual cycle," Adamo interrupts.

"You know what I am saying?" Trevor continues, "Menstrual cycle. Base thing. And we're actually talking about the five transmission body fluids, and girl friend doesn't even know about breast milk."

They wish sex education in school was constant from first grade on, Adamo, being analytical, compares sex to math:

"We're trying to teach people to go from addition to calculus in, like, an hour and a half You have to start at an early age with addition, subtraction, multiplication, geometry, and then you can work up to calculus. And calculus is like sex, when you finally decide to have sex."

They grow solemn when they start talking about what they're actually seeing among their friends. "I'll tell you right now, " Adamo says, [One of my best friends] has become infected. He probably was infected at the age of 22. And he tested positive almost 2 years ago Two other very close friend of mine have recently confided in me that they had unprotected anal sex, like in the last 3 months."

"Last year this time I couldn't even, say, like maybe name five people I know that have HIV," says Trevor. "Now this is like, oh boy, boyfriend got it, and girlfriend got it too, oh and did you just hear that he got it too?. These are all people I know. Some of them are people I even had sex with."

"It freaks me out," Adamo says, "And two of the people I mention that had [unsafe] sex, their very informed. And then, because its so right next to me, I was like, what if I do this? What if I decide to have unsafe sex even with everything I know? And its really upsets me. It's like if they're making this choice, maybe I might."

While Adamo begins to describe some of the things that help him stick with safer sex, Trevor is clowning around, pretending to be dying of thirst to get the waiter's attention. But when Adamo starts speculating about why his friends are slipping up, Trevor suddenly comes back to earth.

"I can speak on that, " he says. "Because I'm one of those that backslid. Educator, Out there doing HIV education I've been having unsafe sex with this 40 year old man for the last four, five, six months"

"But you stopped right?" Adamo want to be reassured.

"No, still haven't. I can't break the chain."

"When's the last time?"

"Something like two weeks ago."

Adamo looks frightened. He puts his arm around Trevor, seemingly as much to get support as to offer it.

"Here I am HIV/AIDS education diva, " Trevor says. "I know how to get infected etc.You know, they said it perfectly in here" He points to Michael Warner's Village Voice article, which talks about the second wave of infection, that Adamo brought along.

"First it was the self-esteem issues, don't like myself very much, don't think I'm very attractive, whatever, looking for affirmation. Then I would get depressed. I get depressed a lot. So its like a pick-me-up. Since I don't drink or anything else, sex is like, Yeah, I feel so much better now. But then it's like a drug that picks you up and you fall even lower.

"First this guy was very resistant to safe sex. And for the first time things started to, when we were having sex, everything was cool, and then I was like forcing him, like, No, you use a condom. Don't do that. But there were certain things that were played around with, like a little penis in the anus, poking outside, playing with it...Oh, stop it, stop teasing. The next time, a little bit more, the next time just a little bit more, then a little lube and next thing you know...Oh, shit. And here you are at home. You've crossed the line once and that makes it so much easier the next time."

"It's not about having it in the sex shops, It's the bedrooms. Its where your more comfortable . If you do it with stranger...I'd be like, condom! But since I'd known him for a while it was just so much easier. And then after the first time, I said, 'You know we put each other at risk for HIV?' He said, 'Why are you scaring me?' I was like, 'I am not scaring you, I'm telling you what we did.' I was hoping he would feel guilty and it would not happen again. It happened again he called me and said can I come over, and I am like. Okay."

"So, like, I don't want to get tested because I don't want to know."

This isn't the first time that Trevor has had unprotected sex, but the last time was in a monogamous relationship with a lover who was also HIV negative. "I know he's out there doing this with other people," he says, "And I'm an educator, knowing if he is doing this with me, that he is doing it with other people. Lord knows how many other partners he may have. But then I sit there and I still do it, and it drives me absolutely out of my mind."

Adamo interrupts him. He wants to talk about why he's not having unsafe sex. After all, he's under the same pressures as Trevor.

"I have certain goals for my future, for my life, for the gay community," he says. "I'm not going to give in to becoming a statistic, like this percentage that's supposed to seroconvert by the time they're 30."

Trevor doesn't think becoming of those statistics would be so bad. "Well, if I do become HIV positive, then since I'm such a big mouth as an activist anyway, I would be a more effective tool." He is half-ironic, half-sincere. "I'd be so out there, 'Look I am HIV positive'. I'm fierce and..."

"Cutting edge gay," Adamo pipes up.

Trevor really believes he'd be a more effective educator if he were HIV positive, "I'm a perfectionist. And what more perfect way to teach about HIV/AIDS then to be someone HIV positive, who went through it."

Adamo seems horrified, but he tries not to look judgmental.

"So you have a self-fulfilling..."

"...Sort of," Trevor says. "But then there's peer pressure that I'm dealing with which is very deep I just found out my sister, she's not my sister but a really good friend, just found out she was HIV positive"

This is another new one for Adamo.

"Did he really?" he asks softly. He knows the friend Trevor is talking about.

"Yes, he did. And [he]'s a total mirror of myself AIDS drains you, it takes the life out of you. And to see a life energy in front of me like that, that's just like a mirror of me, go away, I'd rather be shivering, trembling with it, together, going out together, stars going out together"

This is too much for Adamo. He doesn't' want to be left this way.

"He's been having unprotected sex, and so has another friend of ours, and another friend of ours is positive, and my other best friend is positive, and I'm negative and I am having protected sex. What am I going to do, what's going to be going on when I'm in my thirties? Like, am I going to lose all these people? I can't deal with that."

"I don't really hang out that much with men in there mid and late thirties who went through losing all their friends. But the ones that I have really talked to, it's so sad. That's why I don't like them. Because they come out of this environment and experience of sadness and mourning and loss and I don't want to touch that, you know? And I don't want that to happen to me. I don't want to be one of those people I mean, I'd rather be one of those people then seroconvert. But it's going to very difficult to be living a life where I lose all these people."

Trevor wears a medallion Adamo Gave him, one of those things you get from a coin-operated machine. Stamped around its perimeter is the message BIG MOMMA LOVE AEMAO. It was supposed to say Adamo, but Adamo hit the E by mistake. Big Momma is a reference to a play Trevor was in. He wears it like a good-luck charm. It makes sense that Adamo gave it to him: For his own efforts to stay negative to be worthwhile, Adamo needs Trevor to protect himself.

"For me," Trevor says, "HIV and AIDS is like a very comforting slow suicide. Its not like BOOM, jump, Its not like BOOM, take the gun. Its slow suicide. Its sort of like playing Russian Roulette, nearly, but it's a lot calmer, It's like you shot yourself but you don't know you got shot yet."

Adamo asks softly "Why are you shooting yourself in the first place?"

[Afterwords: Whew, there was a lot going on here! There is Adam and our very codependent relationship, in so many instances we're finishing each others sentences, but I think even then the lines between plutonic and romantic were being blurred. There was an intimacy in our friendship that belie a strictly plutonic categorization, albeit sexual lines were never crossed. It goes without saying this is the subtext that laces this interview, and something I can see clearly as I can see his face in my mind.

I actually forgot how in-sync we used to be. But then you add his friends, my friends, our mutual friends to the canvas and it adds so much more color, depth and texture. The final touches are our peers whom are seroconverting and those struggling to remain safe, it was an excellent snapshot of the mid-nineties, all of this while trying to figure who we were, what we wanted, and trying to make our way in this still very much AIDS-world.

I was only a handful of years out of college where I should have actually been graduating as a senior, but my homelessness lead to me leaving in an attempt to have more stability, and establish a home for myself. The one thing that I know now, that I didn't know then is the role my sexual abuse as a child played into my sense of self-worth, esteem and value.

The writer did an excellent job capturing our humanity, and I sincerely applaud her efforts there, but with time and distance there is another angle that should have been broached, additional factors that may be at play that distinguish Adam and my own struggle. It is noteworthy that Adam was a whyte cisgendered, educated, affluent man and I was a Black gender non-conforming, semi-educated, dark-skinned person from a lower class background. I realize as a cisgendered whyte lesbian woman she may not have wanted to explore our socially economical differences especially since there wasn't a clear visual that accompanied the article. But to me in hindsight its a noticeable omission, and adds another level of nuance to the story.

Let's be clear revisiting this time period and the extremely complex emotional, psychological, and social issues I was dealing with only a year after earning the right to drink, I applaud myself for having the presence of mind and sense of agency to own my behavior and the consequences of those actions. So many young people these days seem to abhor culpability in favor of blaming everyone but themselves for their behavior and misdeeds, I am glad to see that I was never one of them.

Navigating sexual desires, versus common sense is complicated even for the most mature of adults. Add peer pressure, drugs, alcohol and a hot piece of ass, and all good sense will end up on the floor like your discarded underwear. For a young person to understand what is right, but then having to maneuver the landmine of their emotions, insecurities and past traumas to attempt to make the right solution is asking a lot of anyone. I admire myself now and then for having the audacity to vocalize the hard truths of the situation, Adam may have been the analytical one, but I was all heart, speaking truth to power.

Clearly I am not dead, and I didn't seroconvert before thirty, my choices may have been hard for my friend, but ultimately they were my choices, and they should have been respected. Its sad to say that these very issues were the exact ones that ended the friendship fourteen year later. Adam had a hard time distinguishing what he felt and what I wanted and needed, and it lead to him conflating some misdeeds that someone else had done to him, with me perpetrating the same to other. Nothing could have been farther from the truth.

Time hopefully gives you wisdom, and I can now see the toxic nature of the codependency we had developed, and how that tainted what could have been a great friendship. The irony isn't lost on me that he became a therapist and if anyone should have understood the unhealthy signs it should have been him. But seeing his own faults was always a blindspot for Adam, spending his days helping folks find their own truths, he often shied away from and avoided his own, that has never been my faith.

My thoughts on my relationship with Adamo https://www.tumblr.com/xtrablak674/742039691416780800/adamo-melaney

[Photo by Brown Estate]

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[chubbygaysunite]

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[ayuvyaayurveda5]

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Ayurvedic stamina Increase tablets for men are formulated from natural ingredients derived from herbs, minerals and plant based sources. All ingredients are selected based on their traditional use in Ayurveda, which focuses on overall well-being and balancing the body natural energies. These tablets aim to support overall vitality, improve, stamina and reduce stress through natural means, aligning with ayurvedic principles.   

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Which

The selection of ingredients may prioritize specific nutrients thought to enhance stamina and energy, such as caffeine, B-vitamins, or amino acids. They are more specific and targeted on improving stamina, mental alertness and reduce fatigue. These medicine don’t consider overall.

Ayurvedic ingredients what makes ayurvedic stamina tablets most potent:

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Safed musli : it is often touted as a natural aphrodisiac they may help improve libido and sexual performance. It is belived to enhance physical  stamina and vitality.it might helps in erectile disfunction and increase.sexual desires. It helps to stay erect during intercourse. It also increase male potency. It improves quality and quantity of sperm.

Shilajit : it is often used in traditional ayurvedic medicine to improve mens health . It helps in decreasing stress. It improves health and physical strength. It helps mens to stay young. It regulates testorance hormone.

Masaparni : masaparni is traditionally considered aphphrodisiac and may be use to enhance libido and sexual performance in men. The chemical compound present in the root of masaparni improves vigour in men and improves quantity and quality of semen.

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