#selfship help

[foleys-help-blog]

Fun Selfshipping Activities!

Print out pictures of them to hang up on your wall!

If they wear jewelry, make it!

Make stickers of them! (There's tutorials on youtube of how to make stickers at home, or, you can get sticker paper on amazon for pretty cheap!)

If you do make stickers, put them on your sketchbook, journal, laptop, or whatever you feel like putting them on!

Make a google slides presentation on them! Alternatively, you could also write an essay about them.

If they don't have a canonical style of handwriting, find or try to write in a way they would write!

If they do, try making your own font of their handwriting that you can download and use. Or, try to learn how to write similarly to them, maybe write letters to yourself from their perspective.

If they have a birthday or there's a holiday coming up (irl or canonical), make a card for them!

Make them in the sims, or some other character creation making game. Or you could make a Minecraft skin of them.

Draw them as a character from another source. For example, draw them as a pony from MLP, or draw them in the style of a cartoon you like!

Make a playlist of Youtube videos you'd think they'd enjoy watching, and perhaps watch them again and pretend like you're watching them with your f/o.

Make food they canonically like, or you'd think they'd like!

Make a tier list as if they were making it! Like a fruit tier list, for example.

Compile an Amazon list or Pinterest board of clothes they would wear!

If you're able, buy snacks you think they would enjoy!

Name a stuffed animal after them or name a stuffed animal something you think they would name it.

Make yourself a sticky note as if they made it (like a doodle, a simple 'I love you', or something silly!)

If your f/o has a particular interest, look into it! Study it even, if you'd like!

Take quizzes as if you were them. Could be something serious, or something silly you find on uquiz.

If your f/o is romantic and you would want to have children with them, pick out baby names! Compile a pinterest board of baby clothes or toys you and your f/o would purchase together.

Build you and your f/os dream home in a building game (like Minecraft or The Sims)

Plan out a vacation of somewhere you'd want to go with your f/o. Maybe you could make a Google slides "brochure" to convince them to go.

If your f/o has a canon perfume or cologne they wear, or alternatively, their source created one for them (primaniacs website has a long list of series they've made scents for!) put the scent notes into fragranticas "search by notes" feature to find a dupe, or make one yourself you think they'd wear!

Compile a list of flowers you think (or know) your f/o likes, make them into a bouquet and maybe look up the meanings for each flower.

Compile a list of candles or body lotions your f/o would buy!

[nonhuman-fo-help]

🐸 Hello, and welcome to nonhuman f/o help!! This is a blog that provides a variety of things for those that selfship with nonhuman characters! Since so much of the selfship community caters to those that selfship with humans, I decided to make a blog dedicated to those with nonhuman f/os (and s/i's)! That includes robots, objects, monsters, demons, ghosts, furries, and anything else you'd classify as nonhuman!

🐸 You can find what we do/what requests we take here!

🐸 I would also like to say PROSHIP DNI, as well as adults that ship with minors. People that don't have nonhuman f/o's may interact/follow, but please don't send requests! If a request is declined it's likely because your f/o looks too outwardly humanoid

🐸 This blog is mainly for romantic selfshipping, but we will be making content for familial/platonic f/os as well!

🐸 More info under the cut!

🐸 Currently this blog is ran by threw mods! Main mod is Rory/ @boyfriendblogging , He/Him and 19. If a post wasn't signed off it was posted by me. Other mods are @batlesbianism / mod 🦇, They/Them, @sari-stars / mod 🪭, She/Her, and @spinydogfish / mod 🦭, He/It

🐸 This blog is double-friendly, but feel free to vent about doubles. The mods have a few f/o's they may not post for their personal comfort, though. You can name-drop your f/os if you want, I don't mind! Also feel free to claim anon tags

🐸 Yes, my layout is Kermit because the main mod selfships with him!

🐸 I hope everybody enjoys their stay here!

[Anon tags]

[selfshipping-haven]

that's the mood for tonight amirite fellas

[cherubimcryptid]

nonsharers who are "too possessive" or "too much" for other selfshippers despite minding your own business and ranting to yourself. i love you.

nonsharers who get called delusional, whether that is true or not. i love you.

personality disordered nonsharers. i love you.

mentally ill nonsharers. i love you.

autistic nonsharers. i love you.

nonsharers who DO have to fight the urge to be mean. i love you.

nonsharers who are more self destructive than outwardly destructive. i love you.

nonsharers who have lost friends over it. i love you.

nonsharers who are really, really tired of seeing posts like "don't harass doubles!", because you know already... me too. and i love you.

nonsharers who are making those posts. you don't have to make yourself appealing to anyone, okay? i love you.

sharers who support us. i love you!

and more! wait, one more thing:

you see all those "i love you"s?

your f/o has 10x as many for you. <3

[ministarfruit]

yuri month day 28: please be mine ♡

(femslashfeb prompt list)

[theselfshippingrose]

Going on f/o tag and trying to dodge unfiltered ships like

[selfshipcorner]

Happy Valentine's Day to selfshippers who aren't feeling the Valentine's Day spirit. Selfshippers who don't do much on this day for whatever reason. Selfshippers whose mental health, physical health, etc may be getting in the way of enjoying Valentine's Day. You aren't alone and I hope you can still manage to have a good day 🫂

Proship dni

[sucresanct]

sigh we all knew this is where things were headed _(:3 」∠)_

i want to give it hug :3

[xiaoshy]

idk how this works but i need self ship mutuals hello WHAT DO I DO

[foleys-help-blog]

Selfshipping Positivity: IRL relationship & multiple f/o's edition!

💖 There's nothing wrong with selfshipping while being in an IRL relationship! Your partner(s) and your f/o('s) love you more than words could express, and you deserve to enjoy the unique bonds you share with each of them!

🎆 Loving fictional characters doesn't diminish your IRL love at all. It's common to have feelings for fictional characters, even if not as deeply as self-shippers do. Plus, humans have a lot of love to give!

💖 Your f/o('s) understand(s) if you love your IRL partner more! They're even grateful you have someone to care for you when they can't.

🎆 Loving multiple f/o's is okay! Polyamory is okay IRL, and it's okay in ficto love too! Even if your f/o's aren't dating each other, they're perfectly okay with sharing you and know you're in good hands!

💖 Don't feel guilty for liking/looking for a type of relationship in fiction that you'd never want IRL! That's what fiction is for, you're not a bad person for it!

[iwaasfairy]

Sooooo…. guess whose selfship came home haHAHAHAHHAHHDGF im skirting back to the ol’ me skirt skirt

[selfshipping-haven]

Oh, you're feeling bad? Absolutely rotten? Go imagine your f/o right now. Imagine the relief to your nervous system as they put a hand gently across your face. Imagine you sinking into their arms, becoming as close to them as humanly possible.

[laurzvahll]

wanted to post something but Im still busy and haven’t drawn much so here old art of River , my mystreet insert/oc LOL (featuring @ootttteerr ‘s insert Akira)

they’re supposed to look like Sol I think I mentioned before that it’s a fun joke that they’re twins in different universes

[helgethas]

heyyy shoutout to the selfshippers who struggle with feeling lovey-dovey about their f/o(s).

maybe you don't think about them very often. maybe you can't imagine being affectionate with them. maybe you don't gush about them, or you find it hard to articulate how you feel about them. maybe you're not very active on your selfship blog, or maybe you don't have one in the first place. maybe you're neurodivergent or somewhere on the ace spectrum. maybe you're just independent.

for any reason at all, your f/o(s) would understand.

they know that affection is only one aspect of the feeling of love, and they would never assume that you "don't actually love" them just because you're less dependent on them. they would try to understand how you express your love in your own unique way, and they would give you all the space you need without crossing your boundaries or forcing anything on you. they would be patient and work with you to make sure both of your needs are met.

(pro/comship please do not interact.)

[tetzoro]

hiya friendz !! i’m making a lil personal bloggie to yap more so if you are interested in joining me over there then pls lemme know !! ❤︎

[deathdetermineslife]

your f/o would comfort you through any kind of mental health episode you have. ptsd flashback? manic episode? depressive episode? anything you may have, they're helping you through it. they'll comfort you or get you things you need. they'll help you ground yourself, they'll help calm you down if your anxiety is getting the better of you. if you need a blanket or a stuffed animal or something to drink to help with your upset, they'd get it for you immediately. your f/o loves you so very much.