#selfship help

[foleys-help-blog]

Fun Selfshipping Activities!

Print out pictures of them to hang up on your wall!

If they wear jewelry, make it!

Make stickers of them! (There's tutorials on youtube of how to make stickers at home, or, you can get sticker paper on amazon for pretty cheap!)

If you do make stickers, put them on your sketchbook, journal, laptop, or whatever you feel like putting them on!

Make a google slides presentation on them! Alternatively, you could also write an essay about them.

If they don't have a canonical style of handwriting, find or try to write in a way they would write!

If they do, try making your own font of their handwriting that you can download and use. Or, try to learn how to write similarly to them, maybe write letters to yourself from their perspective.

If they have a birthday or there's a holiday coming up (irl or canonical), make a card for them!

Make them in the sims, or some other character creation making game. Or you could make a Minecraft skin of them.

Draw them as a character from another source. For example, draw them as a pony from MLP, or draw them in the style of a cartoon you like!

Make a playlist of Youtube videos you'd think they'd enjoy watching, and perhaps watch them again and pretend like you're watching them with your f/o.

Make food they canonically like, or you'd think they'd like!

Make a tier list as if they were making it! Like a fruit tier list, for example.

Compile an Amazon list or Pinterest board of clothes they would wear!

If you're able, buy snacks you think they would enjoy!

Name a stuffed animal after them or name a stuffed animal something you think they would name it.

Make yourself a sticky note as if they made it (like a doodle, a simple 'I love you', or something silly!)

If your f/o has a particular interest, look into it! Study it even, if you'd like!

Take quizzes as if you were them. Could be something serious, or something silly you find on uquiz.

If your f/o is romantic and you would want to have children with them, pick out baby names! Compile a pinterest board of baby clothes or toys you and your f/o would purchase together.

Build you and your f/os dream home in a building game (like Minecraft or The Sims)

Plan out a vacation of somewhere you'd want to go with your f/o. Maybe you could make a Google slides "brochure" to convince them to go.

If your f/o has a canon perfume or cologne they wear, or alternatively, their source created one for them (primaniacs website has a long list of series they've made scents for!) put the scent notes into fragranticas "search by notes" feature to find a dupe, or make one yourself you think they'd wear!

Compile a list of flowers you think (or know) your f/o likes, make them into a bouquet and maybe look up the meanings for each flower.

Compile a list of candles or body lotions your f/o would buy!

[kiji0]

Reblog this with a pic of ur f/o and I’ll assign sign them a Valentine’s Day gift

[selfshipping-haven]

that's the mood for tonight amirite fellas

[artastic-friend]

Time to see if tumblr supports a post with 28 images.. (aka, long post warning)

Hi guys! been a little while since I shared Hellopaint doodles!!

(an excuse for me to post lazy art XD) /j

Here are a bunch from today and yesterday!!

DJ trying its best and struggling at crafting time with Sun:

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Music Man being fruity as ever:

love them sm grr

Mini!!!

Some drawings for @wakebymoonsleepbysun, our token DCA liker 😁:

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And now all the drawings I did yesterday as well:

hypothetical where I wanna learn to DJ but mostly to spend one-on-one time with DJMM only for me to have to fake sucking at it so that I can have more lessons 😁

extra:

Uh just casual simping, nothing to see here, go on, keep scrolling:

Me as a mini music man that wakey drew me as a little while back

DJ getting the best kind of compliment, A compliment from a little old lady:

*collapses on the floor* I DID IT THAT'S ALL OF THEM OMG

[karume-selfshipper]

Imagine snuggling on the couch with your F/O. They insist on you laying on top of them while you snuggle, wholly convinced that's the only way you'll both be comfy.

Are they significantly taller than you? To the point where you have to use their chest as a pillow... Their arms enveloping you completely, pinning you snuggly against them. One hand gently tangling in your hair as they rub your back slowly, almost lulling you to sleep. Even if the only other thing they can do is kiss the top of your head periodically/sporadically.

Or are they only slightly taller than you? Where you can comfortably rest your head/chin on their shoulder as you snuggle. Their arms comfortably tight around your waist as you trade kisses to the neck and face. Every so often going after your lips at the risk of getting a little spicy.

Maybe you're the tall one but boy are they stubborn about holding you in their lap. Arms wrapped tightly around you as you try to balance over them and not squish them... but they are tough little buggers and love having your chest so close to their face. Easier for them to trail soft kisses as far up your neck as they reach.

No matter what, your F/O just wants to make sure you're comfy. They adore snuggling with you every chance they get. Doesn't matter what else is going on, they just want to be close to you...

[deathdetermineslife]

your f/o would comfort you through any kind of mental health episode you have. ptsd flashback? manic episode? depressive episode? anything you may have, they're helping you through it. they'll comfort you or get you things you need. they'll help you ground yourself, they'll help calm you down if your anxiety is getting the better of you. if you need a blanket or a stuffed animal or something to drink to help with your upset, they'd get it for you immediately. your f/o loves you so very much.

[nimue-hidden-lake]

Being so overwhelmed with your feelings for your f/o that you can’t tell if you’re feeling dizzy or if you are overcome with every emotion possible?

Think about them for a moment – Their face. Their smile. Their voice. Their scent. Their touch. Imagine having them stand close to you…

Are you breathless? Is your heart pounding? Has your mind gone blank for a split second? Surely the thought of your F/O makes you feel something like that.

Or am I the only one getting worked up like this?

Proship / Comship do not interact please!

[kittyandco]

f/os that are completely devoted to you to the point of obsession. that think about you and your place in their lives constantly, that would do anything, absolutely anything, to keep you safe and by their side. you're what keeps them going on their journey or any other goal they're pursuing, especially if that goal is destructive. this world isn't good enough for you, love. i'm going to recreate it in your honor. you're going to be right by my side while i do it. you represent creation and hope to me.

[starstruckloves]

as much as i love the idea of my f/o standing up for me and dealing with my issues with others, i know they can’t do it forever (even though i’m sure they would in a heartbeat)

so imagine your tough f/o training you to be more confrontational with others and stand up for yourself! slowly getting it into your mind that you’re worth it and you deserve to be respected.

when someone does something that’s a bit iffy to you or downright disrespectful, maybe you’re f/o will whisper to you, “tell them how that makes you feel.” or if they are the really confrontational type, they’ll be more direct: “tell them to stop talking to you like that.”

but they understand if you get too nervous or way too stressed about it. they’ll always be there just in case to help you out if needed. they care about you after all ♡

[foleys-help-blog]

Selfshipping Positivity: IRL relationship & multiple f/o's edition!

💖 There's nothing wrong with selfshipping while being in an IRL relationship! Your partner(s) and your f/o('s) love you more than words could express, and you deserve to enjoy the unique bonds you share with each of them!

🎆 Loving fictional characters doesn't diminish your IRL love at all. It's common to have feelings for fictional characters, even if not as deeply as self-shippers do. Plus, humans have a lot of love to give!

💖 Your f/o('s) understand(s) if you love your IRL partner more! They're even grateful you have someone to care for you when they can't.

🎆 Loving multiple f/o's is okay! Polyamory is okay IRL, and it's okay in ficto love too! Even if your f/o's aren't dating each other, they're perfectly okay with sharing you and know you're in good hands!

💖 Don't feel guilty for liking/looking for a type of relationship in fiction that you'd never want IRL! That's what fiction is for, you're not a bad person for it!

[kiji0]

Would anybody want a drawing of them and their f/o in exchange for a short fic of my f/o?

[selfshipping-haven]

Oh, you're feeling bad? Absolutely rotten? Go imagine your f/o right now. Imagine the relief to your nervous system as they put a hand gently across your face. Imagine you sinking into their arms, becoming as close to them as humanly possible.

[yinyuedijun]

hello everyone i got a comm of me and 4* danheng... we had a western style wedding and then went to the night market !!

[simonlynch]

selfshipper tries to make ship playlist not using the same ten songs they always use, 479843 dead 254 injured

[selfshipcorner]

Imagine feeling frustrated all day and finally ranting to your f/o about it. Maybe it's been piling up for a while and it has made you prone to lash out. Imagine your f/o simply letting you rant as much as you need. No shame, no judgement, just lending an ear.

Imagine feeling so tired after letting out all those emotions and cuddling with them until you fall asleep. They hold you in their nice embrace, planting soft kisses on your head.

Or maybe you just need some time alone until you feel better so you don't lash out on your f/o. They'd also understand and give you as much time as you need to heal.

Afterwards they'll indulge you in anything you want. Comfort food, comfort show/film, a walk, doing a hobby you enjoy, sitting outside in peace, or anything else you feel would help.

Just know that your f/o doesn't think you're a bad person for having all these negative feelings. It happens to everyone and they want to help you feel better any way you want.

Prosh!ppers dni

[lunarbun-ships]

using my break to do more baby art..i missed them