#see hear love

[storge]

SEE HEAR LOVE (2023) dir. John H. Lee

[khaoray]

2023 WATCHLIST

⤷ See Hear Love (2023)

[questintheskies]

[passionforfiction]

Watch "『SEE HEAR LOVE　見えなくても聞こえなくても愛してる』予告映像 | プライムビデオ" on YouTube

See Hear Love

What a beautiful story! Needless to say, I loved it. Manga artist becomes blind due to illness. A deaf young woman goes in search of the man who inspires her through his story. These two come together, bringing love to their lives and the desire to keep living.

I recommend it! And I would love to read the manga it's based on.

[uhuru-154]

See, Hear, Love - 2023

[shlnews]

SHL 豪華追加キャストが解禁！

日本映画界屈指の実力派俳優が勢揃い！

高杉真宙 山本舞香 深水元基 山口紗弥加 夏木マリの出演が決定！

次第に目が見えなくなる病を患った漫画家（山下智久）と、それを支える生まれつき聴覚障害を持つ女性（新木優子）の切なくも温かい愛に溢れた��ブストーリー。原作は電子マンガ・ノベルサービス「ピッコマ」で100万以上いいね!を集めた人気ウェブ漫画家 NASTY CAT 作の「見えなくても聞こえなくても愛してる」。

この度、高杉真宙、山本舞香、深水元基、山口紗弥加、夏木マリらの参加が明らかに。

ドラマ、映画、舞台にバラエティまで出演オファーが相次ぐ高杉真宙が演じるのは、ヒロイン・響に片想いする社長・植村大輔。そして山下演じる漫画家のアシスタントで、彼に想いを寄せる中村沙織に若き実力派としてTVに映画に引っ張りだこの山本舞香。医療サポートタクシーの強面運転手で、実は真治の漫画「ONLY FOR YOU」のファンである菅原哲也役に深水元基。響と親しくなるジャズカフェのオーナーで、実は高杉演じる社長の秘書である遠山恵役に山口紗弥加。そして真治の唯一の家族で、破天荒でありながら孫に深い愛を注ぐ祖母・泉本多恵役に夏木マリと、演技に定評がある多彩な顔ぶれだ。山下×新木が織りなす切なく温かいラブストーリーに、この屈指の実力派キャストが加わり、人間関係の深みをもった重層的な物語を作り上げている。

続報をお楽しみに！

[littlelightfish]

Funny things I found out playing with language setting in Netflix while looking episode 15:

Chilchuck's scream sounds HAUNTED in brazilian portuguese. Give it a try if you can.

(You can hear it here)

In spanish dub, Senshi says: "tocó mis senos de hombre", which means "he touched my man boobs" in Spanish. And I think that's the best dub line one so far.

[st-hedge]

I hadn’t drawn the house of hades boys in years! Curse me! This isn’t exactly a remake of an old painting but it’s in the vibe of how I used to draw them all the time. Poetic and stealing kisses

[what-am-i-doing-in-this-fandom]

Yeah, I don't know about you, Fidds, but I'd fold at this 🙏

Previous!!

Next!!

First!!

[chloesimaginationthings]

Phone dude caused an Afton family reunion in FNAF 3,,

[radioroxx]

this is kerdly 2 me. btw

[storge]

Even if I cannot see or hear you, I can now see and hear you wherever I am.

SEE HEAR LOVE (2023) dir. John H. Lee

[camofag]

the public reaction to i saw the tv glow is like a perfect case study into how cis people take up queer spaces and unknowingly mock and enjoy trans suffering. sitting in the theater, i had a pit in my stomach the entire time. so many times, i would tear up and then someone else in the theater would laugh. and i wouldn’t cry because how would they look at me when the lights came back on? because they don’t see it. they don’t see the pain. they think it’s funny. i left the theater completely silent, not saying a word to my boyfriend and he didn’t say a word to me until partway into the drive home. the people around us immediately got to picking it apart, explaining what it all meant to each other, dumbing it down, making theories. cis people see the the movie, just like transness, as something to debate. a conversation. something to dissect because it makes them uncomfortable if they don’t understand it in their easily digestible way.

[questintheskies]

[passionforfiction]

Recount of Movies I Watched in 2023

These are none Korean Movies that I watched this year. I must admit that when I started working on this list I was surprised to see how many movies I watched this year. There were a lot of movies interesting enough to make me go to the movies. It was nice watching them with family and friends.

Some of these are biographical, others are romantic, others adventurous, intriguing or just fun.

[giantkillerjack]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

[plain-text version of this post can be found under the cut]

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

Plain-text version:

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

P.S. Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.