#rping with new people stresses me out and the people i used to rp w dont really rp anymore or its otherwise hard to keep a thread going ):

[indig0trolls]

sighs I wish I could write

[grpcquickfessions]

Write up that post I would love to hear your thoughts and suggestions. I have been in that same situation and yes I did just go inactive. It wasn’t the right thing to do but I was so crippled by anxiety because when I tried to talk to an admin I got told exactly what that Anon was saying. First they tried to use the, “well it’s slow right now” excuse, but I pointed out there had been 45 new posts on the dash that day alone and as a new player I was getting no interactions despite responding to all recent starters. Then they used the “close group who have been writing together forever” excuse. Then finally indicated that my starter just wasn’t good or something people would respond to. It hurt my feelings so badly and I was so embarrassed I couldn’t bring myself to tell them I wanted to leave, so I just fizzled out. Everyone in this community wants to blame players, or say it’s “just a dead community” but no one wants to take a hard look at themselves.

TW; Long Post.

TL;DR: Everyone needs to pay more attention, be more open to listening and giving out warnings and be more kind!

P.S. - I will probably never talk this much again, so I apologize. I just had a lot to say and if you disagree, that's totally fine! Nothing I say is fact or should be taken as such. We should all respect each other's opinions and experiences! :)

As a former admin and a player, I've seen both sides of this argument. As an admin, my experience (I can not stress enough that this is my experience with this situation) with players coming to me about lack of interactions were sometimes players who didn't try plotting or interacting with anyone outside of the ship they wanted.

I once had a player continuously complain to me because she couldn't fathom why she wasn't making connections in the way she wanted to make connections, totally disregarding other player's requests/wants and being incredibly presumptuous in-character (I later found out that she just wanted the entire rp to center around her which -- ha, tough cookie).

I also had another player bully another member cause she wanted a particular ship. She left when she didn't get said ship, citing that no one wanted to interact with her character when in reality she refused to forge relationships with anyone outside of that particular ship (I found out about the bullying after the fact).

Needless to say, as a former admin, I always encourage people to take a long hard look at themselves, how they're interacting, if they're open to new ships (both platonic and romantic), and what kind of effort they're making. Anytime I'm in a situation where I feel like the odd man out, I examine myself first and foremost.

H O W E V E R ...

Also as a former admin and player, if you see a player actively trying, actively reaching out to people (though, granted this is a hard one unless you reach out to all your members and say "hey did xyz message you to plot? lol), constantly being active on the dash, giving out the best replies they can, kind in the ooc, and just generally doing what any average roleplayer is doing but is being ignored and your response is that the rp is "already established" then (and excuse my french) just close off the fucking roleplay to new members.

"Already established" is such a shit excuse. As an admin, you absolutely should be fostering an environment that's nothing short of welcoming both IC and OOC. I get it -- you can't make people interact but at the very least, you should be encouraging it if you notice a rise in bubble rping or a member being ignored and handing out repercussions if the situation isn't improving.

When I was more active, I was quick to hop into people's inboxes, DMs, what have you and say, "Hey, wanna plot?" "Hey, wanna make a connection with these two?" "Hey, if this player is down, wanna do this cool friendship/squad/love triangle/enemies/etc?"

And honestly, I've realized, 90% of the time, some groups don't even realize they're doing it. Because sometimes, it's genuinely not intentional.

One of the last few groups I was in was filled with the sweetest people I ever had the pleasure of rping with. They were super nice and everyone was interested in forging some sort of connection with my character. However, these connections were, for lack of a better word, dry. Because the group was established and everyone had already made any prominent connections, no one was really interested in doing anything outside of "casual friends." Which is fine! I love plotting friendships but when you have the same connection with every single character, it gets ... boring. And bored I was. And that boredom turned into annoyance and that annoyance turned into frustration and eventually, I just left.

Or another time, everyone was half-lovely IC but OOC? I was ignored. I'd say something and they skip right on by in the OOC chat. I left -- expeditiously.

I listed some suggestions here originally and I genuinely wish I had more to give but if you're an admin, please pay attention to your players. Please watch interactions closely after a complaint. Do not be afraid to make a post on the main letting members know you've noticed a lack in interactions and that it needs to be fixed. Don't be afraid to reach out to members who are bubble roleplaying privately and letting them know that it isn't okay. Be the example! And please don't be afraid to just make a private group for you and your friends. I've been in several groups where it was apparent that the admin and friends just wanted a background audience for their IC drama.

Also, only sort of relevant, but I wished more people were into chemistry as well as plotting. So much of rping today is premeditating connections instead of sometimes letting chemistry dictate the relationship. I think doing/having both is important and can lead to a lot more fun (plus, chemistry helped me meet my best friend!).

And like I said before, sometimes leaving is the best option. But, don't be afraid to let the admin know why you left (without being rude or passive-aggressive, of course).

As always, I'm open to more advice, more opinions and more thoughts.

At the end of the day, role-playing is for fun. Fun should never stress you out (unless you happen to be plankton and you've got a sea sponge who won't stop singing about it).

[cirilla-witcher-addington]

Looking for Contact : Cirilla Addington

Basics:

Full name: Cirilla Rochelle Amiira Addington

Age: Late Twenties (28-29)

Birthday: November 11th

Race: Half Elf [ Gilnean raised ]

Gender: Female

Sexuality: Bisexual

Marital status: Widowed

Features

Hair: Dark brown, almost black - wavy and a little unkempt. Often braided back or thrown up into a loose bun, naturally falls to just below her hips.

Eyes: Left - Dark lilac w/ silver flecks. Right - Magenta w/silver flecks.

Height: 5’5

Build: Curvy, Toned and athletic, strong biceps/broad-ish shoulders/toned thighs/an muscle definition (the works y’know?)

Noteable features/scars/tattoos: Three large hypertrophic scars: one coming from just under right cheekbone to the edge of her lips, one that starts above her left eyebrow down across her eye and curves across/through her cheek and across her upper lip, the third almost connects with the previous scar - starts on her lower lip and curves down to her chin and under her chin. An intricate raven skull tattoo peeks from the back of her neck.

Accessories: Two eyebrow piercings on her right eyebrow - silver hoops, a nose ring - right side, a collection of ear piercings (all silver), often hidden under armour or clothes is a silver locket necklace. A gilded dagger kept on her thigh in a leather sheath. Two swords on her back - one steel, the other is silver edged. Her thick, fire resistant hunting cloak with fur lining and large hood. A few silver rings, (one is a claw-like one)

Personal

Profession: Monster Hunter - Blacksmith

Hobbies: Alchemy, Blacksmithing, Writing

Languages: Common, Thalassian

Habits: Nail Biter, Stress Smoking

Birthplace: Gilneas

Residence: Drustvar

Families/Relationships/Affiliation

Spouse: None

Children: Adopted daughter - Vanessa Addington

Parents: Baroness Lilara Addington - Mother, deceased. Baron Xander Addington - Father, deceased. Velkar Thorn - Step father, adoptive parent, deceased

Siblings: Jakob Thorn - step brother, MIA

Other family: Lacey James - Cousin

Affiliations: Order of Embers, Blackwood Family Estate

Titles: The Broken Lady, Grand Huntress and Spymaster of Blackwood Estate, Last of the Addington bloodline

Personality Traits

Extroverted / In Between / Introverted

Disorganized / In Between / Organized

Close Minded / In Between / Open Minded

Calm / In Between / Anxious

Disagreeable / In Between / Agreeable

Cautious / In Between / Reckless

Patient / In Between / Impatient

Outspoken / In Between / Reserved

Leader / In Between / Follower

Empathetic / In Between / Apathetic

Optimistic / In Between / Pessimistic (She’s more of a realist)

Traditional / In Between / Modern

Hard-Working / In Between / Lazy

Cultured / In Between / Uncultured

Loyal / In Between / Disloyal

Faithful / In Between / Unfaithful

Rp Hooks!

Contract work: Cirilla is not one to openly advertise her services, but has gained quite a reputation due to her line of work. She is said to be rather frank about payment and will only work if she gets it upfront. (Think of her reputation like that of Gerald from the Witcher, she’s relatively well known and has been active for about 4 years on WRA - albeit I myself have taken breaks here and there). However rude she may be about taking, the job always gets done.

Blacksmithing: She crafts her own weapons, sometimes taking commissions for others - her prices are steep-ish but you’d be darned if it’s not a well crafted weapon.

Brawling/Sparring: Either in the underbelly of Dalaran, or outside of old taverns. She’s brutal with fists and sword.

OOC

(Hiya! Cirilla is quite an old character of mine, but sometimes rp does fizzle out. I used to play her a lot but then she got less and less fun to play, y’know? Kinda sad. I put a lot of work into her and I feel like i haven’t gotten to rp her to her full potential yet - it would be exciting to get her back into the rp scene. Her toon is on WRA currently, but might move to MG soon. We’ll see how it goes first. I am mostly someone who likes the nitty gritty scenes of rp, like crime and dark rp BUT I am willing to expand my genres per se and just find some new buddies to rp with! I’m open to rp on other platforms than WoW, like discord and tumblr. Feel free to message me or whatevs on discord if my character is someone you’d like to interact with! - emi)

Stuff and Things! Important!

- Discord: Emi the smol #4321

- Tumblr: This blog do be my most active tbh

- Rp Availaibility and Experience: At the moment I’m not active in game on WoW, with COVID I don’t have a bunch of disposable income to keep my sub running for long amounts of time/time where I’m just not playing and wasting money. I will gladly rp on discord however! Idk if I can rp on tumblr super well, I haven’t tried to but am willing! I’ve been rping for about 4 or so years and will help any new rpers learn the ropes!

- Ciri vs. Emi: Compared to Cirilla’s cold hearted, detached demeanour I’m quite the opposite haha! Always try to bring some lightheartness and laughs to any conversations. If you are offended by IC actions and take it OOC then please reconsider rp, Ciri is not me, nor am I her. I will never intentionally harm people or their well being - but if I do something that makes you uncomfortable please let me know

[kusunokihime]

Things a new rp partner should know about me !

fun new meme here ! write 3-5 things a new rp partner (or those who want to be) should know about you and tag 3-5 people! it should be related to rp and not to other interests. (also don’t write you are a dork/gremlin/etc. this is tumblr, of course you are)

Tagged by: Nobody, I stoled it =w= Tagging: You!

I have...very spontaneous activity lately, ahaha~ Life this year has been super busy and it seems like there’s always something coming up to pull me away and keep me from getting drafts done OTL THAT SAID, I still love to write and I just need a bit more time than most ;w; If you can be patient with my schedule I promise we’ll get along lol

I’m actually really simple when it comes to RP and subjects within it. I have a lot of stress and negativity in my life, and therefore I typically (but not always!) don’t like to delve into darker subjects with roleplay. It’s my escape and something to lift my spirits, so mostly I enjoy softer, light-hearted threads. That’s not to say I WON’T do angst or drama threads. I do indulge on occasion and they can be really fun! But a majority of the time you’ll find fluff and slice of life on this blog cuz that makes me happy~

I love love LOVE AUs! I have...oodles of them. While canon is fun, it’s also a bit, um...limiting? Is that the right word? So a lot of the time I’d really like to branch out into crossovers and original verses, but I never know if anyone else is as interested in them as I am ;w; Especially ones of my own creation like Divine Light, and Nightwalkers.

I really like writing fics of our muses??? Like if you have an idea PLEASE throw it at me cuz 99% of the time I will gobble it up and spin you a tale. I almost like it more than RP itself since fanfics were my first introduction to fandom! So puhLEASE if you have an idea, don’t be shy. Shove it in my face. I will devour it.

I RP on Discord, too! In fact I uh...might be working on a thing to move some muses off the blog cuz things feel cluttered and not many get used .w. And I still have mixed feelings about RPing canons because in the end I’m really an OC nerd first and foremost and not everyone on Tumblr likes that ahaha. So if you’d ever like to do so with me just let me know cuz Tupperox makes juggling sO much easier, and...yeah. It’s just nice lol

[beyondthetemples]

Multimuse RP questions!

{{ I couldn’t figure out which RP blog to stick these on (since I have like. nine), so I figured I’d just skip to the Answering Part over here. =w=

Found here: https://memesfortheroleplayerssoul.tumblr.com/post/163688858676

is there a muse that you wish gets more attention? Honestly? Dove. There are a couple of people who've said they love reading about her, and I'm so absolutely eternally delighted for them, too deeply appreciative for words! A couple friends I met via rping her, and a couple friends I met in Certain discord servers, but that's about it anymore. But she's my baby, you know? I love her, she's amazing, and I wish more people took the time to write stories with her, because she just has so much potential! I mean, yeah, for angst of course, but also for healing and comfort, for action and fantasy, for mystical and mundane plots alike. She's so multi-faceted and fascinating to explore, I just... well, maybe it's more selfish in that I need help exploring some of the more mundane stuff with her. Because if it doesn't really Have Relevance to a Particular Plot, I generally won't wind up writing it, let alone publishing it. :P But this answer's already too long; I could rave about Dove for hours! All I'm trying to say is, I wish more people cared about OCs.

if you HAD to choose, who’s your favorite muse? Favorite to RP with? Far and away, Dove! Favorite for crack RPs, Srentha or Leyla. Favorite canon character is a GIGANTIC toss-up between Raven and Lapis. Favorite characters to explore for personal reasons are Ryou Bakura and Blue Diamond, but I have a hard time bringing myself to actually WRITE about them, for some reason...

is there a muse that not a lot of people roleplay with? (Besides the ones I haven't advertised? ^^';;) Maybe Phobia? She has only ever existed in comic canons-- though she WAS in the Teen Titans Go comics too! (The original series, not the... bastardization). Anyways, she's a much lesser-known muse. And my muse for her is wildly unreliable, she's a volatile and abrasive character, and my inspiration for her has run dry for awhile now...

if you HAD to choose, who’s your least favorite muse? Phobia. o_o See above, actually.

which one of your muses have you been playing the longest? Prooobably Dove? She was the one I started rping with, of course!

which one of your muses has the most ships? Ships in their canon, or ships in my rps? Because you're talking to a demigray here; I don't really do romance? But in my stories, Dove has 3 ships (all at different times in her life). In rps, Dove has been kinda-contemplating-it shipped a couple times, but never got to the point of, you know, kissing... and in fandom, Lapis probably has the most.

what is each of your muses’ otps? notps? ~ Dove and Srentha together~ (Don't have notps for them.) ~ Kary: food? sleep? Her canon boyfriend Eric ~ Leyla has a qpp named Toby in the stories. ~ Raven: I'm demonbirds trash. I don't even know how that happened, honestly. (Notps include B|BRae and, while not as strong of a NO in the jlvtt canon, ter/raven.) ~ Lapis Lazuli: OTP with Peridot! Intensely notp with jasper. ~ Blue Diamond: OTP with Yellow hardcore, no notps to speak of. ~ Phobia: Utterly unexplored??? I think she voluntarily abstains. ~ Ryou: OTP with Joey (thank my girlfriend for that one)! Notp with Yami Bakura, it’s absolutely 100% possibly my most violently-disgusted NOtp yet. Also with Diva because... What The Fuck??? But I won't rant about that just now. ~ Jess: I haven't really done much shipping, though Mistress and Trick are a hella canon, deeply bonded breeding couple. ~ Evangeline? Sorta-OTP with my gf's character Taex, though it's not exactly a ~romantic~ dynamic. Notp with Srentha, probably, considering she'd try to kill him, given the chance, and she’s pissed at Dove for marrying him.

why were you drawn to each one of your characters? Okay, listen, you can't just ask something like this and expect an easy answer! I could write an Actual Legitimate Essay on EACH ONE, because I only write a character when I'm Extremely Highkey Personally Emotionally Inspired by them!

UPDATE: I tried to summarize, I really did! But there's just so MUCH, and it turned into an essay on its own. --> https://beyondthetemples-ooc.tumblr.com/post/189837029682/why-were-you-drawn-to-each-one-of-your-characters

Summaries go like this: Dove is brave, complex enough to delve deeply in and constantly discover new facets of, and inspiring enough to create a positive experience while doing so. Srentha is fun, positive, and passionate, and legitimate ADHD representation. Leyla is a chill miracle child of creativity and quiet passion. Raven is the reason I'm still alive and perfectly reflected me at about age 14, so I have a very deep personal connection to her. Kary is so fun to explore because she's my polar opposite, as a temperamental pyrokinetic who revels in chaos and really just wants to have a good time. Evangeline is everything Dove suppresses, brought to life, so she's fun to explore as an extension of Dove! Lapis has a lot of struggles to explore and has done a lot of healing and growth that I'd like to expand on someday. Blue Diamond and Ryou Bakura were basically literally me, so I can explore the trauma and healing from their perspectives in a safe space. And Phobia? I just wanted to put characters' mettle to the test honestly, and see what would happen.

which muse is the most fun to write for? Oh, Srentha, absolutely hands down! Dove does have the best close-friends casual-fun kind of rp relationships, though. And Mistress the Mismagius has this sardonic teasing sense of humor that always makes me smile, especially with Murky (Murkrow).

is there another muse you’ve been thinking of adding or writing for? who? Oh stars, I don't need another one. =w= I've been... struggling to get my Ryou blog actually up and running for a long while now. Nobody new has inspired me lately, but I'm pretty stuck in my fandom ways.

what is something everyone should know about your muses before interacting? I stick it all in their bios! But, let's see... Dove: Even though she's Raven's half-sister, she keeps it DESPERATELY hidden, and nobody IC is supposed to know about that. Srentha is very deeply rooted in Azarathean pacifism and won't do much in battle besides help people retreat. Leyla has her father's heart condition and can't do anything too active. Kary will rarely use her powers, as conjuring even a simple spark stings her scar badly. Lapis is more than her toxic relationship! Blue Diamond is NOT the dictator she once was! Ryou does NOT want the spirit of the millennium ring in his life anymore! Jess just... sticks mostly to Sinnoh and rarely ever leaves. And Evangeline has a palpable evil aura about her; she makes SURE of it.

what’s a weird headcanon you have for each of your muses? Dove hates pie. Srentha loves colorful things. Leyla will cover everything in glitter if you let her. Kary will do anything for some good food and/or a nap. Ryou's hair is untamable. Lapis doesn't guard her gem as carefully as she should. Blue Diamond may be more emotional, but she won't sing about it as frequently as other Gems. Raven... doesn't wear underwear?

which muse has the most aus or verses? I mean, the Lapis I was writing for was 97% canon divergent. Evangeline only exists as her own person (and not merely a partition of Dove's mind) in a DCUO-compatible timeline. But I don't really do aus or verses otherwise; it's just more stressful for me.

can you sort your muses from youngest to oldest? Sorting based on the ages I'll generally play them: Leyla (8-14), Dove (15-25), Kary (18+), Ryou (19+), Srentha (20+), Jess (22+), Phobia (23+), Lapis (5k+), Blue Diamond (10k+).

which muse is most willing to fight another muse? Oh, definitely Kary. (She won't fight Dove or Leyla, even if there's a really good reason. And Srentha has this weird power of defusing her. But anyone else, she can easily be provoked to fight on a dime.) Or maybe Evangeline, who will fight anyone at any time for any reason whatsoever?

do your muses get along with each other? Evangeline gets along with nobody. Dove/Srentha/Leyla are all a very tight-knit family, and Kary considers herself Dove's sister and Leyla's aunt. I've thought about what might happen if Lapis met Blue Diamond, but I don’t have the faintest idea of how that'd go? I did start an RP once where Lapis met Dove, and I planned to have them bond over homesickness and purpose-seeking, but then I lost the ehd I had that prewritten on, and never had the heart to try rewriting it. Ryou and Jess kinda exist in their own universe's bubble. (Jess has a whole cast of Pokemon creature muses she very much gets along with, though~)

would you ship any of your muses together? who? Dove and Srentha are hella-canon endgame already, that's been decided for like 12 years!

for each muse, is there a character you wish had a blog so you could interact with them? You know, I've never really been one much for wishing like that. I do wish Dove had a stable Raven again, since both of my all-time favorite Raven rpers have left the rp circle... but that's about it, really.

have you ever considered making a multimuse/is it easier having a multimuse? I mean, my Pokemon blog has like 19 muses built into the breeding center... 8F But no, I prefer to keep my drafts, rps, and tag systems for each muse on separate sideblogs. Tumblr's tags break WAY too often to shove them all in one place. (And with a sideblog, I don't have to log in and out every time I want to check for replies!)

which muse is the most problematic towards other muses? Toss-up between Phobia and Evangeline, obviously. Blue Diamond is a reformed Gem, the way I play her. (I don't care what anyone says, THAT'S CANON as HELL too!) But Evangeline actively goes out of her way to hurt and/or sacrifice people to her own ends,

which muse is most likely to make new friends? Probably Leyla, though now that SU has sent out a message across the Gem universe that Gems are welcome on Earth, Lapis could wind up meeting quite a lot of new acquaintances. It's much harder to befriend her, though. Srentha has a lot of charismatic energy too, and he’ll go out and make friends with anyone, given the chance.

which muses’ fandom do you like the best? Ahhh, don't make me CHOOSE like that! ;; Fandom like being a fan of them, or fandom like, liking the other people in the fandom? Because Steven Universe, Teen Titans, and YuGiOh all have incredibly special places in my heart, while having Their Issues amongst the fandom... Pokemon seems to be the best mannered fandom though, especially amidst the RP community.

is there someone playing the same muse/s as you and you really look up to them? Ohgosh, well there's a blog called, I think, melancholeyes?, that plays Blue so well, it's like reading canon scenes. I did see a blog that played a Ryou I respected, but I can't remember their name... and of course Larissa and Pix played great Ravens, but each a different version.

which muse do people send the most asks for? Probably Dove, thanks in large part to Caleb!

which muse is most likely to have kids? Leyla is already Dove's kid, so... 8F

is there a rule that someone keeps breaking for your muses? Not to my knowledge, but my rules aren't strict anyways.

can you sort your muses from weakest to strongest? ...Oh, stars. How am I supposed to sort them? Well, let's try this.

Weakest to strongest in combat (based on their style of choice): Ryou, Leyla, Srentha, Phobia, Evangeline, Jess, Kary, Dove, Lapis, Blue Diamond, Raven. ( * i switched raven and blue diamond around SO many times. both are immensely powerful with god-like abilities, but raven can literally destroy reality itself. so...)

Weakest to strongest by strength of heart and character: Phobia, Evangeline, uh... Kary? Srentha...? Uh... frICK THIS ONE'S HARD. Because they're all so strong in their own ways. Probably Leyla? Next tier is probably Blue, Lapis, and Jess, and Dove, Raven, and Ryou are highest tier.

which muse are you considering deleting? Phobia, and maybe sometimes Blue. (I actually... never got a single RP or follower on Blue. I'm still debating if I really WANT to rp as her, at least on Tumblr, knowing how toxic the fandom can get around the Diamonds...)

most importantly, are you having fun playing each one of your muses? Pretty much! Especially Dove, Srentha, Leyla, and Raven!~ Raven's wit and clipped verbiage can be tricky to for me sometimes, but all it takes is a little tlc on her dialogue, and it doesn't slow down my enjoyment one bit. :} And when I'm in a Pokemon-hyperfocus mood, writing the Pokemon team is ALWAYS a blast! (Especially the Pokemon; their personalities are so dynamic together.) With muses like Lapis and Blue, and even Kary, the mood for their emotionality waxes and wanes, but I don't write for them unless I'm in The Right Frame of Mind to KEEP UP with them, you know? I never push myself in an rp until it's not fun anymore; at least I know where my writing burnout limits are.

Phobia and Evangeline are both sadistic, and when you're a compassionate person, that can be very hard to write out in the painstaking detail of my style. But sometimes my mind just Won't Shut UP about 'Vangie unless I WRITE IT OUT. Which is a good exercise of course, stretching my horizons and all that, and I do love writing the drama and conflict they stir up.

But beyond the momentary discomforts, I'm just so eager to explore their lives and minds and adventures, so yes, I absolutely DO have fun writing for each and every one!

[tcescngs]

so i would just like clarify a few things, because it’s really been getting me down all day. i know  taemin’s mun has already posted, but i felt like i should too. 

the last thing i want to do coming into a new rp, is make people uncomfortable or feel like they’ve been left out. i’ve had that happen to me in rp’s before, where people ask to plot and then ghost when you reply, so i know how that feels and that is THE LAST thing i’d ever want to do. i’d never do that purposely to someone.  and i really, really hate the thought of people being uncomfortable it upsets me a lot and spikes my own anxiety after because i think about it constantly which is what i’ve been doing all afternoon. 

 i’d just like to also state that my choice for an fc was based on my love for jungkook, he’s one fc i use constantly because he’s the one i’m most comfortable with and tbh i’ve never actually had any connections w other bts fc’s bc i’ve. so that has nothing to do with the plots i have, he’s just an fc. i would like to think that i’m focusing on the character and i’d hate to think that i’m not, taesong is my bby whether he’s jeon jungkook or not tbh.  so that genuinely has nothing to do with it, i promise. 

so i’m apologising before it gets out of hand, and if anyone has any issues please come to me, my ims are open and i’d never be hurtful or rude towards anyone about anything, that’s the last thing i want i try to be friendly to everyone, and have plots. i too can be dramatic and a bit much when it comes to rping and reblogging things is just because i get excited and see something i think i should share, but i won’t just so it doesn’t make people think i’m leaving them out, or i’m fc chasing because i’m really, really, really not. i would never. 

i’m sorry to anyone i’ve caused stress too, it wasn’t my intention, i’m sorry again. my ims are always open if people want to plot with me and my children. sorry once more. 

[the-eros-experience]

Good answer, I guess. I was looking for the long answer though. Sorry for bothering if you're not comfortable with detailing

Actually nonnie, I prepared the long answer but as I was writing, I realized that what if you were only pertaining to them in general haha! But really, it’s not a bother at all! I think this is a fun ask!

Let’s begin. (Please forgive me if I mess up your pronouns ;__; I don’t want any more friendships to go down the drain because of the same mistake)

@gdivitya was the first Victor blog I’ve really interacted with even prior to this blog. What I love about rping with the muse is that I feel like he is textbook in-character. The style for this Victor is soft, funny and an absolute babe. Mun LM is like my big sister in a way already. She’s fun and makes me most comfortable. Even if she takes a while to reply each of them is worth it! Even the small interactions with her muse are great fun! I enjoy making art for her too

@ice-daddy-vitya was the first Victor that I interacted with on this blog. Another example of textbook in-character muse in my opinion. Mun Sushi is an absolutely lovely person who understood me and some of my struggles playing my muse in the early days of my blog. What I love with her portrayal is that her muse can range from the mentioned IC perfection to high and crack Victor who is unashamed to speak sex. ;) Thank you for making me laugh when you answered my funny asks. I hope we can interact again. It makes me happy to see she still keeps the cover header I made for her >w

@extra-vitya was the second Victor I interacted with and I think I was the first one her muse interacted with. The muse is incredibly flexible from one au to another. Victor can easily transition from one AU to another making her such a well rounded rper. Not to mention the frequency and quickness of Misty’s replies! I have the longest thread with her spanning over a thousand notes and I have other ongoing threads with her too!

@yurisgodonice I’m a sucker for this flavor of Victor. My threads with Ash’s muse has one common theme with them-- something dark and sexy transitioning to our muses’ character and relationship development. Her replies often get me fanning my face and I would normally have to bite my lip to keep in my squeals with all the steamy dominant Vitya. Whoop woop! *O*

@viktor-and-makka goodness lord I never thought it would be so much fun rping with a young Victor muse until I interacted with Ryan’s muse. He does the cutest replies whenever he speaks Makkachin’s thoughts and the baby in our babysitter thread! The way he RPs is as beautiful as his muse and brightens my rainy days.

@emperor-on-the-ice if you’re looking for RPs with carefully planned plots, this is the Victor to go! What I love RPing with Elliot’s muse is he’s another flexi-textbook in-character Victor in a story with a definite direction. We plot far ahead in the story so it’s all smooooth sailing when we RP together. Elliot’s replies never fail to make my day!

@russias-living-legend //SCREAMS AT THIS MUN jk can I just say like, Holly’s portrayal of Victor has become my personal brand of heroin. Her muse is beautiful from head to toe; inside and out -- a well rounded kind of Victor who stresses me and my muse out with his spontaneity, gets me fanning and dousing myself with cold water with the creativity of our muses’ intimacy, puts me into stitches laughing and rots my teeth with the fluff. I bow down to her art skills. ABSOLUTE TALENT IN WRITING AND DRAWING master I am not a worthy birb orz im lov u please do more high!Victor asks

@twoskaters-onecat what I love with the Mun is their fun style of RPing that introduced me to something new. I have never. ever. roleplayed Vicchan interacting with Makkachin and it’s the cutest thing ever?! Her muse is super good quality and I give him 14339570/101 poodles. Mun is one of the nicest and creative people I’ve met on tumblr too! 

@silversnowprincevitya has been a busy bean but I’m a patient bean if my partners need a break. I’ve also yet to get to know the mun much better as well. Another quality young Victor whom I rp with. Our role reversal AU is one of my favorites too. Their portrayal of Victor as a young skater makes me feel like this AU should be real; I demand it!

@russiasace a new Victor! I’ve yet to discover more about the mun but the way they RP Victor in our A/B/O Royalty AU thread is really really great quality! Although I feel bad that I’m not able to reply as often as I could because of difficult timezones, our very very lengthy replies make it all worth it! I love their portrayal of the sweet kid Victor and I’m excited to get a taste of the adolescent and adult Victor through the plot. I’m not afraid of long replies, bb don’t worry! I used to RP like, 500 words with one partner so give me all the walls of text! They excite me to work on it! ;)

Sooo yes! Here you go nonnie! I hope all the Victor blogs I rp with know they’re loved and I wish for more to come in the future!

[floravain-blog]

okay so i don’t have any icons on my new laptop,  but i’m in a Mood (tm) so get ready to read some gross shit. bc i love you all sm. 

@wrathbinded // you’re okay i guess, babe. lmao. but honestly, you’ve been with me for 7 long, stressful, hard years. you’ve helped me get through a lot of shit, && i hope i’ve done the same for you. i love you more than anything, && i can’t wait to get married && move to cali <3 i know shit is stressful rn for you baby, but i’m right here && i got you <3 

@shokans  // you are honestly the sweetest, most amazingly talented person ever like ? i feel so blesst and honoured to have met you on this hell site. ilysm, && i really appreciate you as a person like.. idk. you're just really easy to talk to. also don’t get me started on your writing 90% of what takes me so damn long is just trying to....match ur shit LMAO. you deserve happiness, so treat yourself right okay bby?  xox

@whiiskerisms // DEVIN!! i’ve known you for TOO FUCKING LONG ! omg. idk what it is abt me that gives off this vibe of not being willing to talk to ppl or w/e but like... i hate that abt me lmao. because honestly anytime you tag me in anything or send me a message, my HEART!!! FLUTTERS!! you’re, to date, one of the only like. 3 naruto blogs i’ve rped with, && always my main on any blog like. sorry i didn’t ask lmfao. that’s just how it is. i love you with all my heart, like ??? you’re so precious to me, i just wanted you to know that. 

@edosannin  // kRIN!!! my irl bff && roomie!  i can’t get over how adorable you are like. you’ve honestly got some nerve. there are like. 5 ppl on this planet that i trust w/ my dogs ok && ur one of them. i know they’r the worst, but you’ve always had my back && are always willing to help out like. that’s so beautiful? you’re so beautiful? i want to smooch ur face come home from work RIGHT NOW so i can give you a smooch. 

@firebred // amy is the yang to my yin. we are absolutely the same human being like. some bitch got lazy && copy / pasted us in two different countries lmao. okay but honestly, you’ve always been there for me. i can’t thank you enough for being such an amazing friend. even if we go MONTHS without talking, i know you’re always right there. i never feel like i’m annoying u bc tbh if i was, u’d tell me lmao. ily so much && i can’t!!! wait to see you tomorrow omg!!!!

@kyougi // my sweet bean.... ducky wtf. you’re amazing ? our discord threads give me LIFE like. when we started rping that Good Shit i was so. flustered like...? how do you write like that, i’m so.... SHOOK lmao. you’re also irl the most talented person ever like. you’re so down to earth && i love that in a person like. how do u...do u like. can i have a lesson, you’re just so..comfortable. you know what i mean? i feel comfortable coming to you to shout about shit && which is really rare for me lmao. i always feel like i’m annoying ppl rip xox thank you sm for being wonderful <3 ily

@fugiri  // WE NEED TO RP!!!! you’re a treat && a real treasure to talk to like. i have been lowkey admiring you from afar until recently && like?  fuck my anxiety, you are ? a total sweetie like. you’re so funny && energetic when we talk like.i love your enthusiasm, i wish i could... do that lmao. why are all my babes so talented && sweet tf did i do to deserve you..... sigh..... also that thread we plotted for ita && sakura? giving me Life rn in this trying time lmao.

@raikodai // holy shit cali. i feel like every time we talk in group chat we just? highkey jive like.  you know what i mean? honestly i love talking to you sm. your blogs are always SO BEAUTIFUL LIKE ???? i really wanna talk with you more, && maybe plot out some stuff because i’m a weak bitch for you ok. my actual love. dog daddy..... we are connected, remember? LMAO. we’ve had like one 1-1 ooc convo && im not over how we were dealing w/ the same shit at the same time lol. 

@redfangcd // niju, like. when i can jive abt dogs w/ someone.... i know it’s Real lmao. sorry, you’re stuck w/ me now. thank u sm for putting up w/ me && like. letting me take 100000 yrs to reply to you w/o making me feel bad about it like? i’ve always been really bad at keeping contact w/ ppl && i really appreciate that like...i don’t feel like you hate me when i take a week to send you two words RIP. you’re an amazing mun && a fantastic writer. thank you so much for everything in general <3 ily !!

      * final note, i love literally everyone on this list so fucking much. you’re all amazing, beautiful people && i cherish all of you so fucking much. thank you for making me feel welcome && at home <3 

[grandschemed]

All salty questions please

1. how salty are you feeling right now?

i had my cup of coffee and it’s 9:15 and i don’t have any work to do at work at the moment so u know?? i actually feel pretty good i’m chill it’s all good but please continue reading under the cut for more salty unpopular opinions by yours truly :*

2. what are your unpopular opinion(s) of the fandom you’re rping in?

3. what rp trends are you so over and can’t wait for it to die?

4. have you ever made a call out post or wanted to?

i don’t think i have??  i’ve never really had an issue with somebody to the point that i felt as if i needed to make a callout post which thank god??? i’m grateful i’ve ( for the most part ) had really positive experiences so far 

as for callout culture itself ?? i have mixed feelings about it bc the majority of callout posts i’ve read seem kind of Harsh bc ur essentially damning this person from the roleplay community forever esp. bc i personally don’t think roleplaying is That Deep u know??  like theft is annoying and whatnot but idk if it’s something i’d call somebody out for personally - MAYBE I WOULDN’T MIND CALLOUT POSTS if anons didn’t go overboard telling said individual to die / kill themselves ??? 

HOWEVER i think there are instances in which callout posts are necessary esp. when calling out tumblr users for being a racist / pedophile / etc. THAT’S SUBJECTIVE AS HELL i know but pedophilia is GROSS AS FUCK and SO IS RACISM and god forbid i accidentally follow / write with any of those people because ew ew ew EW it’s good to know who to avoid in the community at the same time so ... Yeah i’ve got mixed feelings about callout posts

5. a ship everyone in the fandom you’re in loves, but you can’t stand?

since i’m a multimuse part of 1002 fandoms i’ll focus on haikyuu!! except i’m pretty sure i’m going to get my ass roasted alive but i really can’t stand i/waoi LMAO but that’s mostly out of bias and the fact that a lot of i/waoi shippers have ruined it for me by viciously hating on u/shijima as a character calling him a r/apist and saying that u/shioi is abusive when u/shijima has done literally nothing ever to abuse o/ikawa like what ?? if anything i/waoi is the abusive ship considering i/waizumi’s the one who physically hurts o/ikawa all the time LOL

shitty shippers aside idk i/waoi’s personally just not really my jam?  to be honest all the super popular hq!! ships aren’t rly my jam - i don’t even really have good explanation for why i dislike i/waoi as much as i do from an unbiased point of view but i prefer them as friends ?? in all honesty ??  JUST MY 2 CENTS THO 

6. have you ever sent something to one of those burn book blogs?

lol no i might be extra but i aint That Extra laughs in all seriousness i rly haven’t had any major problems w/ other roleplay blogs to the point that i was tempted to send something to a burn book blog

7. has someone made you unfollow/block them without a second thought because of a petty reason?

i’m trying to remember if there were any instances in which i did so for a petty reason but most of the time ??? i usually unfollow if somebody writes something Inherently Problematic / over-the-top purple prose / they don’t follow me back ... there was one time when i unfollowed somebody bc i asked them for their autoplay bc i rly liked the song and i just wanted to listen to it??? LMAO but they thought i was going to steal from them just bc we wrote the same muse and i was like Bro. I JUST LIKED UR AUTOPLAY what the hell i just wanted to listen to it 200 times in a row on youtube chill so i unfollowed them bc lmao how dare you assume i’d steal from somebody in the first place Get Over Yourself Susan

8. are you good at dealing with personal problems?

i’d say so?? again i usually don’t rly have roleplaying issues but problems aside from those i usually like to vent on twitter and i feel Much Better after that??  im a pretty chill person irl and shit doesn’t rly get to me so i can come off as kind of blunt / insensitive but i feel like i get over most stuff pretty quickly - there’s no reason to get Angry and make somebody suffer when somebody tries to fuck you over imo??  True Vengeance is aspiring to be happier / richer / more successful / fulfilled than that person will ever be - that’s my Fuck You to those people y’know?? 😂😂😂 life is so much better when i focus on me and figuring out what i can do to fulfill my emotional needs - i feel very lucky with what i have and all my friends and family who cherish + support me of course though !!

9. what’s your opinion on duplicates?

i may come off as a confident self-assured person but even i get shaken time to time y’know??  but for the most part i don’t rly mind duplicates??  in fact i like to try to befriend them to get over any anxiety i might have over duplicates and i think it’s a silly thing to be uncomfortable by duplicates personally bc again roleplaying rly ain’t that deep you guys - in fact you guys both like the same character so you guys chose to write the same character??  duplicates + i already have a connection in that sense!!  also duplicate muse threads are SUPER COOL to write in my opinion bc it lets your muse face themselves and they can rly see themselves for who they really are which i think is Always Cool because i love writing threads in which i get to explore emotional depth with my muses ?? PLUS DUPLICATES ARE COOL bc it’s kind of interesting to see how other people interpret the same character you write bc everybody has different opinions 

i know the anxiety might be there but i think the best advice my mom has ever given me is not to compare yourself to other people even if you think they’re better than you or something and i know that’s hard advice to follow for everybody but roleplaying is a hobby and it’s done for fun - there’s so many other things you can stress about in life so why let roleplaying be one of those things??  focus on yourself and focus on your muse and developing that muse with other people and people will want to come to you to write with them.  preferences will always be a thing - it’s only natural but focus on having fun with your muse as opposed to worrying about other people!!

10. any fandom(s) you don’t want to rp in or crossover to?

11. are you for or not for purple prosing?

12. has someone in the rp community ever made you upset/cry?

i don’t think..... so??  upset maybe but not to the point of crying??  i mean again i’ve never really had a truly terrible experience but i did have an ex-writing partner who used to constantly guilt trip me until i finally broke it off with them because it was starting to affect my real life relationships and whatnot and i didn’t want to bear that burden anymore as much as i wanted to be their friend but i couldn’t singlehandedly bear all of their problems for them anymore because it wasn’t healthy for me nor was it good for them so i cut them out of my life for both of our sakes - i’ve had great times with this person but ultimately, i’m glad i did what i did and i’m proud of myself for being able to focus on my own emotional needs

13. ever told someone not to follow/rp with a particular person because something that happened to you in the past?

i ... can’t remember laughs I DON’T THINK SO???  people have told me not to write w/ certain people before when i go into new communities blind but for the most part i don’t think i’ve really had an overly terrible experience to the point that i felt i had to tell other people not to roleplay with / follow them ... i’ve been very blessed with a good experience so far!!

14. ever knew someone that everyone loves but you can’t stand?

i would say ‘can’t stand’ is kind of harsh but i dislike them because of a petty reason???  it’s fine tho bc they stay in their lane and i stay in mine - it’s all good imo.  i for the most part have enough decency not to hate on other people’s ships but this person kept telling me about how much they dislike my ships to my face on a consistent basis which again PETTY and i know they weren’t in a good place at the time but shrugging emoji idk i just thought it was kind of rude ??

15. have you ever done something out of spite?

i do everything out of spite im jk but seriously if you tell me i can’t do smth i will only do said thing with 100% more effort out of sheer spite like THERE WAS SOMEBODY who told me i couldn’t ship a certain ship so i proceeded to flood my dash with 300% more ship content you’re welcome headass spite is a Great Motivator

me: i’m a chill person and im going to be the happiest person ever :)also me: u test me bitch and im coming for ur entire life

16. what would you say to the one who hurt you in the past?

i hope you are incandescently happier than you were before.  i hope you are in a better place and i hope you are still writing with people who appreciate you and can give you the attention you deserve.  i hope you are a better person today and i wish you nothing but the best in a life without me, but i do not miss you nor do i ever want you back in my life.  i cherish the good times we had together, but we are better off without each other regardless of what you might still think and i hope you don’t.  i hope you recognize what you did and i hope you are a wonderful person today.

17. what are your opinions when someone makes negative posts constantly on their rp blog?

if you make more negative posts than roleplay content i’m gonna unfollow you??  i understand you’re having a hard time with your life but honestly i followed you to write with you - it’s not that your well-being doesn’t matter to me but i write to have fun + destress and ultimately, roleplaying is about myself??  im not doing this for other people - im doing this for me.  i don’t mind occasional negative posts ( ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY’RE TAGGED !! ) but if you’re consistently complaining about how much you think you suck compared to everyone else or how you think nobody wants you around, then i’m going to unfollow you because i came to write with you because i thought you were COOL!!  i know people just want to vent ( LORD KNOWS I VENT A LOT even if it’s about little stuff ) but consider making a twitter / a personal tumblr in which you can do so instead of your roleplay blog which is for roleplaying ???  idk that’s just my opinion but i try to keep my roleplaying blog strictly related to the content - i don’t even want to flood my blog with too many ooc asks bc u guys didn’t follow me to read my constant ooc posts ( even if i feel like i write a lot LMAO ) - u guys followed to write w me !!!!

18. do you hold grudges for long?

i say no but at the same time i’ve been really bitter towards an ex-best friend for three years now.  NONE OF THESE GRUDGES ARE ROLEPLAY-RELATED but again my way of vengeance is to be way happier and more successful than her and never ever see her again because that’s the decision she made??  we used to be Super Close but then she got a boyfriend and her entire life revolved around her boyfriend and we never spent any more time together after that like ??? it’s clear who she chose over me so if she doesn’t want to make the effort to spend time with me then i see no effort to give her any thought.  also the fact that she, as a white individual, complained to my other best friend behind my back that i’m apparently too “sensitive” about popular media.  like really?  wow, must be nice to have all the representation you could possibly ever ask for, karen.  get the fuck out of here with that attitude /:  

also SUPER PERSONAL but i’m salty about my kind-of-ex because he basically acted like he was really invested in me when he was still hung up on somebody else and i let myself be emotionally vulnerable around him until he confessed to me that he just wanted to be friends because he was still into his ex and then proceeded to neglect our friendship because he’d spend all of his time with his ex ( who he predictably got back together with + who turned out to be a really shitty selfish manipulative person who he broke up with anyway ) which was Fine i was already used to that anyway with SEE: ABOVE FRIEND but then after he broke up with her he’s tried to come back into my life on various occasion because he’s never had as Great of a Friend as me and frankly i can’t forgive him or myself for making myself invest any sense of emotion into him it makes me so angry to think i was actually upset because i actually cared a lot about him and he made me feel like i wasn’t good enough and how fucking dare he make me feel like that ever?  i’m the Fucking Best and he deserves absolutely nothing from me he deserves perfect indifference and i hope he never ever feels fulfilled in his life i wish him a great and terrible lack of satisfaction for the rest of his miserable life xoxo i’m going to be SO MUCH HAPPIER THAN THAT ASSHOLE i’m years and years better off without him i hope he pines for my friendship for the rest of his life

19. wild card: ask the mun any type of salty asks.

20. if you’re feeling salty right now, this ask gives you a free reign to pour out your frustration.

i feel like question 18 let me do that so i’m good but also ??? fuck the gangsta. novel ??? for its HORRIBLE characterization of worick + nic’s relationship ???  the gangsta. novel treats their relationship as if nic is some dog/servant to worick which in itself is gross in concept because haha yay a poc character forcibly being subservient to a white character THAT’S COOL :)))))))) but also ??????? uh AUTHOR ARE WE READING THE SAME MANGA ?????

worick has never treated nic as a dog / servant even when they were children - worick even taught him how to read / write ??? worick and nic were e/o’s first and only friends for a long while ??? they’ve lived together for so many years - they canonly share shirts, they’re business partners, worick was genuinely hurt to see nic in so much pain.  not only does worick NOT see nic as a dog / servant HE LOVES NIC ???  HE LOVES HIM SO MUCH THEIR RELATIONSHIP MEANS SO MUCH TO ME they’ve been through so much together and worick since he was 14 has literally supported the both of them via Really Horrible Means that i won’t get into - i’ll leave it up to your imagination but he split the profit he made from what he did with nic ???  there’s no way worick would’ve done that shit if he viewed nic as somebody beneath him esp. when survival was so difficult for two 14-year-old boys with no funds or resources they’ve survived together through thick and thin and there’s a special relationship they have and i love worick and nic okay I LOVE THEM SO MUCH EVEN IF THEY MAKE SHITTY DECISIONS AND WHATNOT nobody will ever convince me otherwise 

also if you’ve made it to the end i commend you and thank you for reading my salty opinions / personal problems / issues :* i hope you all have a wonderful day :**

[cvaroleplay]

Heeey i’m alive

Still dealing w/ a whole lotta nasty stress tho 

Man, tho I wanted to type out a few posts but I don’t wanna spam, so I’m gonna drop everything in here. 

1.) I really wanted to add my one single FNaF muse, being the Marionette, but tumblr seems to despite FNAF w/ a passion.... I don’t blame em for certain things, but I just wanted to RP my Marionette... He’s a child in a fake body, and he isn’t violent or mean. He’s a scared child, and only acts scary when he sees other innocent people in danger (children or not). 

I don’t really like RPing much of the stuff seen in FNAF despite the fact I’m a huge fan of horror and animated/cartoony gore... My Marionette is just a child who was pretty much cursed to stay in that fake body. 

I also have a Purple Guy but he’s very different from every single one I seen on tumblr because it drives me NUTS that people seem to sexualize him and make him some edgy sexy serial killer (pukesalittle). I hate the fandom version of him and made my own. I don’t use him much tho because well... s’ kinda uncomfortable to RP for me. 

2.) I really wanna RP w/ so, so many people but... they’re mutuals only, and I don’t think they’re interested in following back because I don’t... talk.... 

I’m a giant coward who can’t bring himself to talk to anyone. I’m sorry...;; 

3.) I also wanted to bring in Graystripe, my unicorn, but since he was originally a MLP OC, well... I dunno how people would take it? He’s evolved into his own character outside the fandom, gaining a semi human form, and a regular non pony unicorn form..... But man... idk... I still wish I could RP w/ some MLP people, but the fandom of it makes me nervous as hell. I’ve only had amazing experiences w/ my old MLP RP community, but it’s long since gone, and I dunno any new ones... /sigh

4.) I also really wanna bring in pokemon gijinka! But i’m also p scared of losing RP partners over it... 

5.) Final thing is life update. Dealing w/ a lot of stress. Dad had some kinda heavy surgery and is recovering. I’ve been having issues focusing on anything, and my insomnia skyrocketed again. Been pulling all nighters in a row again. 

BUT m’ dog had puppos. 8 big ol’ puppers. They’re adorable as heck.