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celebrate-lesbianism · 7 months ago

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I remember seeing kd Lang on TV for the first time and thinking she was so cool. And then I remember everyone else in the room laughing. About her clothes, her dykey haircut. Why would a woman want to look like that? God.

There are decades of shame that live inside of me, and piece by piece, I am carving it the fuck out.

#it was like in that one moment I simultaneously understood what it meant to be a butch lesbian and what it MEANT to be a butch lesbian #often what it means is to be laughed at #anyway kd Lang means everything to me #cheers to lesbian community and building each other up 🥂#kd lang #lesbian resilience #lesbian #lesbian community #butch lesbian #butch #personal #wlw #mine #lesbian pride

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howdoyousleep3 · 8 days ago

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never in my life have i wanted a Daddy more than i do rn 😭

#personal #i'm going to ramble and drop it all in the tags #i'd like to have a pity party for myself thanks #the election?#fucked i've just been scrambling for a week now to prepare for the worst that feels like it's rapidly approaching #vaccines updated birth control bought out stockpile of food started passport appointments made tasers and protective gear purchased #banned books put on a wishlist #the holidays?#trying to make them enjoyable instead of so so so triggering #husband's new job?#barely home he's barely home i feel like a solo parent #i'm absolutely drowing at home mainly alone with two toddlers who have found their spirit and resilience and attitude...#the new house?#we've been fighting we are not vibing it's taking forever for me to feel in love with it #we do not get along rn lol #writing? personal time? self care? nonexistent i have no time alone during the day and then i spend the two hours i have to myself at night #fighting sleep and doing nothing #took a shower today and when i got out my eyelash line started burning and then my eyes were burning and then my nose was running and #then my eyes were watering and i could barely open them and goop started building and then they were SWOLLEN to the point where i could see #the muscles bulging and then i couldn't move them left or right #so i drove I DROVE myself to the urgent care #turns out my water has way too much chlorine in it and now that i've started taking hot as fuck and steamy showers it's just made me #susceptible to severe allergic reactions to chlorine?#it's been horrible my eyes are so sore now and they're just now not sopping in goop #and yeah #just...#i live the same day every day and i'm spiraling and drowning and about to go off the rails while also trying to SUCK THE JOY out of the las #month we have before democracy crumbles so #i just wish i had a Daddy to take care of me and tell me things are going to be okay 😭#preferably a Big Daddy that would let me sleep for days and would bring me food and let me hug and snuggle on him and not talk

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okthatsgreat · 2 months ago

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i’m realizing that one of my favorite ways to create a character is by first establishing a major flaw of theirs and then examining how that will inevitably fuck them up a bit. then fleshing them out from there

#i’m realizing that’s how i created like. the majority of the characters i rp with LMAOOO i would start with flaws i think would be #interesting to examine in whatever story they’re in !!!!!!!! and then i’d build out positive traits/backstory in order to flesh them out #but starting with that major flaw really helps me build their character i’m realizing . i’m doing it with the new rp oc i’m trying to make #like for sae (after deciding she’s a fisherman) i wanted her to deal with impatience. sadie is self centered + controlling. erin is fake af #and even for dnd characters i’ve played like immian is a hermit and naive while tinni is SCARED as FUCK!#i really honestly believe flaws are greatttt for your characters story. like just in general really good for a guy to have negative traits #that will impact the narrative in a way that almost feels inevitable and thus force them to confront it OR succumb to it #so instead of starting with going Oh Well Sae is Nice and working from there i’m able to say oh sae is actually pretty hot headed deep down #which allows me to build more traits based off of that… she’s resilient bc she doesn’t want to BE hot headed. stubborn as fuck #wise bc she wants to grow. slow talking bc of her afi which connects to her backstory which connects to being hot headed #guys is this anything at all. is this microphone on. it’s 2am #lee chat

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shockjockey · 1 month ago

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genuine question: why do killers see this and decide that the survivors need to have the most miserable match of their lives

#you'd get more points by playing normally yeah?#but no we're gonna hard tunnel one after the other and bm on hook #like... why #dbd #dead by daylight #like im just running my funky lil totem build?#its not meta?#and you're screaming at me in egc about lithe off the record decisive resurgence resilience #bestie i dont have those you're picking on the wrong person

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elvenferretots · 1 year ago

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Pet owners can have a little anthropomorphism. As a treat.

#it really doesn't hurt to asign a little character to moments as long as you're not using it to explain or excuse behavior #it helps build empathy #also what does it hurt to put a critter in clothes or buy it toys that look like baby toys #and most critters are resilient enough to tolerate a hug or face kisses #understand that your animal isn't human #but enjoy the company of your animal #we put up with some of their weird quirks so they can tolerate a few of ours and be okay #understand that your animal is an animal but there's also no need to suck the joy and empathy out of having a pet

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shallowseeker · 10 months ago

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having a cas day ooooof

cas sundays

such an interesting guy, really

#i love the interesting ones #the hope-faith-cruelty tightrope #cas stuff #spn vs nihilism #cas military career and struggling w all that entails #cas existential crises and resilience he builds from it

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garaviel · 11 months ago

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Wake me up when the starcrossed exotic mission is doable by my dumb ass

#my squishy hunter barely hitting 1810 with shit weapons 😭😭😭#i want to thank strand and its chakrams for getting me halfway at least #just gotta find a better build and beef my resilience lol #listen im not a smart player my tactics are snipey snipey stabby stabby invisy and thats it babyyyy

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nubs-mbee · 2 years ago

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Was thinking about what names Jon or Martin would be partial to and then I thought of something very cute

#it’s true tho about tulips!!#especially if you live in the Midwest near the Great Lakes #winter drags on forever but those damn tulips always somehow find a way to bloom #so resilient and so bright :’)#there’s tulips growing outside my building!#not blooming yet but I imagine soon!

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athousandmorningss · 7 days ago

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thought i wouldn't survive that, but i did. thought i wouldn't survive that other thing, but i did. that i wouldn't survive that, either, but i did. on & on & on.

#building a kind of resiliency for all things #that feels like acceptance rather than resistance #& were you paying attention

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junipernight · 11 months ago

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The Avatar Chronicles by F. C. Yee are soooo good, but also, Yangchen is stressing me the fuck out right now.

#I just started The Legacy of Yangchen #I had to build up the emotional resiliency to re-read The Dawn of Yangchen first #I'm at a part shortly after they arrive at Taku btw #can someone hold my hand and tell me it'll be okay?#failing that can someone point me in the direction of some good Yangchen fanfic?#Avatar #Yangchen #The Legacy of Yangchen #The Dawn of Yangchen #f c yee #ATLA

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fruitless-vain · 11 months ago

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Me: surely there’s something in this house that makes Yoshi uncomfortable so we can work on building confidence today

Yoshi: seriously?

#Yoshi #wanting to practice confidence building in gear #to ensure her confidence and resilience are the same in and out of work

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whitecreekvalley-if · 11 months ago

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Personally I just like the mental image of an ex lawyer cityslicker who can barely lift a fucking toaster. Idk why this guy decided to try their hand at ranch work of all things, but hey, look at em nearly pass out on a day to day basis. I gotta love the spirit

Meanwhile Mace is throwing around 50lb bales of hay day in day out, and Judge carries 100lb calves by tossing them over his shoulders. Even Alice wrangling grown ass goats (and sometimes grown ass people).

MC and Sadie on the sidelines like

#wcv answered #resilience builds strength 😤#give it a few months and mc gonna be shredded

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forcedhesitation · 1 year ago

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like clockwork

#dbd #dead by daylight #thoughts about media #I was playing hux.#P100 survivor thinks that no one in this game is a killer main- and if they are. they have to be a blight/nurse/wesker main.#she was like “singularity is a trash killer!! you only killed us because of basement's location!!!”#imagine thinking you have the right to speak on strategy at all while being carried by dead hard/hope/MFT/resilience?#I killed her because she was up my asshole trying to get a flashlight save while injured.#and I run forced hesitation. which made it nigh impossible for her to escape when the other survivor went down.#her death had nothing to do with where the basement was lmao.#for the record I do not run a meta build on hux either. I don't even use generator slowdown. it's a full chase build.#which makes this girl look even more pathetic.#like you died to a B tier killer with no gen slowdown despite running a meta survivor build that exploits a broken haste bonus?#awww boo hooo let me play a sad song for you on the world's smallest violin 🥺🥺🥺

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turnipshepard · 4 months ago

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When I was a kid, my parents made my little sister and I share a room for awhile because they thought it would make us closer and build character. But it was hard on both of us, my sister because I was so much older than her and I bossed her around a lot, and me because my sister was terribly scared at night and would wake me up constantly by crying or turning on the lights.

None of this is a big deal, and my mom would always emphasize that she shared a room with two sisters and they were fine! Absolutely if my sister and I had had no choice but to share a room, we both would have been fine. But we did have a choice - there was an empty bedroom that my parents designated the “play room”, and that was the room I was begging to move into.

I think it’s an example of how you just can’t recreate what you have in childhood by forcing it if the circumstances are entirely different. My mom wanted for her daughters what she had with her sisters - a tight kinship forged by growing up side by side. But she and her two sisters were all within a year in age (a baby followed 11 months later by twins); my sister and I are 5 years apart. They all had to share a room because the house was small; there was no other choice. I think the idea that “sharing a room” in and of itself builds character is just a misreading. It’s the difference between “I’m participating in the family activity of making the best of what we have” vs “my mom is forcing me to share a room and I don’t know why”.

#also I don’t know what building character really means #I think they mean building resilience #which I also take some issue with but at least that would have a clear definition

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wicked-witch-ofthe-east · 1 year ago

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Just to let you all in on a secret… the silent revolution begins today.

#think global act local #build resiliency #green anarchy #solar punk #revolution #re evolution #empowerment #new era #new age #the wicked witch of the east #why does tumblr hate me #love #sustainability

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ismailfazil1-blog · 4 months ago

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