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[workscounselingcenter]

A Holiday Survival Guide After Religious Trauma

The holidays arrive, adorned in nostalgia but pulsing with anxiety, especially for those who’ve experienced religious trauma. Navigating family dynamics during this time often involves setting boundaries—an essential to protect your psyche.

I want to clarify the difference between a boundary and a request. A boundaryis something you set to protect your emotional and mental health. It’s about what you will or won’t tolerate. For example, “I’m not comfortable discussing , and I’ll leave if it continues.” A requestasks someone to change their behavior without repercussions if they don’t comply. For example, “Please stop asking about my faith.” While requests can be part of setting boundaries, they depend on the other person, which is unpredictable. Boundaries, however, give you control over your responses.

What Boundaries Do You Want to Set?

Aretheycausingharm?

Wouldyoustillwantthisrelationshipiftheyneverchange?

Aretherethingsyoulikeaboutthemregardlessoftheirbeliefs?

Handling Heated Topics

Imagine you’re at a holiday dinner. Your uncle won’t stop complaining about “wokeness” and how badly Christians are persecuted. The comments are derogatory, and your patience disintegrates. How can you respond?

Decideonyourboundary“I’m not comfortable discussing politics/religion at dinner.”

Communicateyourboundary“I’d like to enjoy this meal without discussing politics/religion.”

FollowIf they persist, stay calm and re-enforce your boundary. “I’m leaving for a bit. Let me know when we can return to other topics.” You leave, not in anger, but with agency intact.

Boundaries Protect Everyone

While the process feels uncomfortable at first, it’s a compassionate milestone for yourself and family. Boundaries are the most effective tool for reprogramming—because they protect the self without sacrificing autonomy. Embrace them. They’re not control. They’re survival.

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[nctsworld]

reqs are open you say 👀 kiss prompt you say 👀👀👀

kissing in a stairwell, giving them an artificial height equality + my tall boy sicheng pls :^)

hi babe here u go!! there’s less kissing and more.... fun times i’m sorry (??) i hope it’s okay and that i did sicheng justice 

love u n thank you for requesting!!

[starspoilers]

For pride month, Bi!Bette Kane, please? I’m sorry if you’ve gotten this request a bunch—I think tumblr ate it, but if you just didn’t want to do it that’s fine too. I love your stuff. (Blue Lantern Steph is the best thing canon has ever done with her, shame it was only one page)

anon ur so valid ty,,, and its in my queue and set to post thursday!!

[vestae-vocivus]

commande d'avatars

Salut toi ! *-* J'ai commencé à suivre ton travail il y a peu et laisse-moi te dire que c'est juste MA-GNI-FI-QUE. Tu as un véritable talent et je suis très contente de voir que tes commandes sont ouvertes. J'aimerais commander des avatars s'il te plait et voici le formulaire :). Un gros merci d'avance si tu prends la commande ! xxx

◊ PICTURE : https://imgbox.com/gallery/edit/bM7WTNaaYg/6CHEBoo3MWfMKgMj  ◊ QUOTE : time for war / ignorance is bliss / fire in my bones ◊ TYPE : avatar 200x320 ◊ MOODBOARD : tes n&b sont sublimes et tes textures aussi, les couleurs bleus et roses violets sont jolies aussi

Encore un gros merci xxxx

Hello toi !! avec plaisir de te faire une commande, malheureusement je n’arrive pas a accéder a ton lien “  ErrorThe specified gallery does not belong to you.” Merci de suivre mes postes, tu es adorable ( et j’aime également ce que tu postes ) tu peux me ré-envoyer ton lien ou le nom de la personnalité  ?  bonne journée 

xxx 

[nanairotsuru]

Thank you for the ask!! I had to rush it but I really anted to post it today! I really love drawing peach shes so fun and cute! <3 @feraguay25

[im-gone-lol]

Rules | DNI | Personal tag list

Rules;

Please don’t request twice in a row unless I’ve specified.

Don’t ask personal questions until i open a Q&A event

DO NOT; AND I REPEAT DO NOT sexualize minors on my page.

DNI LIST;

P*dophiles

Racists

Homophobes

Transphobes

“Trans-Racials”

MHA Fans (Unless we’re mutuals)

Personal Tags -

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[vanveronicango]

Hi!!!!!!! There's a tiny tiny fuckin moment in the The Day That Was club scene when Klaus first finds Dave. It literally is just that when Klaus first goes to pull Dave's face toward him, Dave's eyes flicker a little up at him and I'm almost certain he even smiles just the tiNiest. IT KILLS ME EVERY TIME I TRY TO CATCH IT. Would you be able to gif it? I totally understand if you can't at all and i just wanna thank you for all you do already!!

hello love!! thank you SO MUCH for being so sweet! your wish is my command - here you go! i hope that’s the part you meant.. if not, don’t hesitate to let me know!!

[b99thingsv2]

Did anyone else tear up during the episode?! Cheers to Mr. and Mrs. Linetti ;)!

Now taking GIF requests!

Obligatory question mark: ?

[meeredy]

Grey if he hasn't been requested yet

okay! i will do it, i just need some time, so thank you!

[nctsworld]

kissing to prove there’s no chemistry, even though it’s a lie, the kiss proving it - this is so haechan no one can tell me otherwise

ahhhh i don’t think this is prob what you were looking for but here you go! hope it’s okay~

[starspoilers]

can you please do a hades!percy aesthetic?

hades!percy is the good shit tbh

[nanairotsuru]

This was actually really fun to draw! Thanks for the ask ^^ @sunshinesahara

[nctsworld]

hi !! could I request a black haired hendery gif set pls? thank you :)

hi i am a billion years late but here you go! thanks for requesting and hope you like it ^^

[nctsworld]

can it request a cute jaemin gif set?

pour vous anon! hope you like it <3 

[nctsworld]

could I request a winwin boyfriend concept set 👀

hey babe!!! ofc you can - here you go! i hope it’s okay and thank you for requesting babe~ 

[nctsworld]

Yangyang fluff friend to lovers orrr something like he sick and being clingy?? Hshhdjs sorry i don't really have a great idea :""

sorry i’m like a week late or smth on this but thanks for sending this in when i asked for cute yangyang fluff ideas n_n 

how about both??? hehe here you go!! (((he’s not super clingy i realize but i hope you still like it)))