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A Holiday Survival Guide After Religious Trauma

The holidays arrive, adorned in nostalgia but pulsing with anxiety, especially for those who’ve experienced religious trauma. Navigating family dynamics during this time often involves setting boundaries—an essential to protect your psyche.

I want to clarify the difference between a boundary and a request. A boundaryis something you set to protect your emotional and mental health. It’s about what you will or won’t tolerate. For example, “I’m not comfortable discussing , and I’ll leave if it continues.” A requestasks someone to change their behavior without repercussions if they don’t comply. For example, “Please stop asking about my faith.” While requests can be part of setting boundaries, they depend on the other person, which is unpredictable. Boundaries, however, give you control over your responses.

What Boundaries Do You Want to Set?

Aretheycausingharm?

Wouldyoustillwantthisrelationshipiftheyneverchange?

Aretherethingsyoulikeaboutthemregardlessoftheirbeliefs?

Handling Heated Topics

Imagine you’re at a holiday dinner. Your uncle won’t stop complaining about “wokeness” and how badly Christians are persecuted. The comments are derogatory, and your patience disintegrates. How can you respond?

Decideonyourboundary“I’m not comfortable discussing politics/religion at dinner.”

Communicateyourboundary“I’d like to enjoy this meal without discussing politics/religion.”

FollowIf they persist, stay calm and re-enforce your boundary. “I’m leaving for a bit. Let me know when we can return to other topics.” You leave, not in anger, but with agency intact.

Boundaries Protect Everyone

While the process feels uncomfortable at first, it’s a compassionate milestone for yourself and family. Boundaries are the most effective tool for reprogramming—because they protect the self without sacrificing autonomy. Embrace them. They’re not control. They’re survival.

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[starspoilers]

Genderflex!Piper for 400, please *jeopardy music*

did,,, you mean genderflux or,,,

[nctsworld]

reqs are open you say 👀 kiss prompt you say 👀👀👀

kissing in a stairwell, giving them an artificial height equality + my tall boy sicheng pls :^)

hi babe here u go!! there’s less kissing and more.... fun times i’m sorry (??) i hope it’s okay and that i did sicheng justice 

love u n thank you for requesting!!

[nanairotsuru]

Thank you for the ask!! I had to rush it but I really anted to post it today! I really love drawing peach shes so fun and cute! <3 @feraguay25

[vestae-vocivus]

commande d'avatars

Salut toi ! *-* J'ai commencé à suivre ton travail il y a peu et laisse-moi te dire que c'est juste MA-GNI-FI-QUE. Tu as un véritable talent et je suis très contente de voir que tes commandes sont ouvertes. J'aimerais commander des avatars s'il te plait et voici le formulaire :). Un gros merci d'avance si tu prends la commande ! xxx

◊ PICTURE : https://imgbox.com/gallery/edit/bM7WTNaaYg/6CHEBoo3MWfMKgMj  ◊ QUOTE : time for war / ignorance is bliss / fire in my bones ◊ TYPE : avatar 200x320 ◊ MOODBOARD : tes n&b sont sublimes et tes textures aussi, les couleurs bleus et roses violets sont jolies aussi

Encore un gros merci xxxx

Hello toi !! avec plaisir de te faire une commande, malheureusement je n’arrive pas a accéder a ton lien “  ErrorThe specified gallery does not belong to you.” Merci de suivre mes postes, tu es adorable ( et j’aime également ce que tu postes ) tu peux me ré-envoyer ton lien ou le nom de la personnalité  ?  bonne journée 

xxx 

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Rules | DNI | Personal tag list

Rules;

Please don’t request twice in a row unless I’ve specified.

Don’t ask personal questions until i open a Q&A event

DO NOT; AND I REPEAT DO NOT sexualize minors on my page.

DNI LIST;

P*dophiles

Racists

Homophobes

Transphobes

“Trans-Racials”

MHA Fans (Unless we’re mutuals)

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[godfreygifs]

hi, absolutely adore the blog. could you do some more gifs of destiny? (preferably in season 2, because her hair is rad)

Will do! :D

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Can you do a trans! Aphrodite! Leo Valdez moodboard? Ty!

ur welcome!

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Could you do a allerashid and/or valkane in gold?

uh i did arellashid

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Could you do a zeus!nico aesthetic?

yep

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I’m not sure if you’re taking ship requests rn, but I would really like it if you could do a thalia x zoe aesthetic

sure!

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I was wondering if you could do a jerceo (jason/percy/leo whatever it’s called idk) aesthetic?

yeah!!

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Can you do a ship aesthetic between Katie Gardner and Piper McLean?? Thank you

yeah sure!

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Could you make a lesbian Clarisse (butch) aesthetic? I love your aesthetics sm!!

sure! tysm!!!

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Nico di Angelo with green?

mhm

[starspoilers]

Also considering you read Stars and S.T.R.I.P.E may I also request an aesthetic of either Courtney, Mary, and Josh or just Josh and Mary??? Ahhhh thank you sorry if it’s much

its not too much at all!! i love them!!!!