#reclaim sexuality

[notmyname99]

Some... sluts... just want to reclaim their sexuality.

Be nice.

[wis-art]

this piece is about being transgender

my ko-fi

[fagitsukareita]

thinking about how warped tori’s sense of privacy must be considering there are ALWAYS ghosts everywhere to him, to a point where he actually gets more weirded out when there AREN’T any ghosts around him

[the-incident-on-show-day]

okay okay but. hear me out. lister bird gets to be a little genderfluid. as a treat.

[karamazovposting]

Not Grushenka being friends with both Kalganov and Rakitin that woman is a fag hag fr

[the-eyes-of-andyserkis]

[westerberg]

From “Sex Will Be Good Again” by Katherine Angel

[nervoustragedyluminary]

"all people who talk about transandrophobia are white " Zionists" ... Oh also all the Black trans men who talk about it are sexual predators if they exist which they don't because everyone who talks about transandrophobia is white "

Do some of you hear yourselves?

Like ive seen contradicting accusations in the notes one person says "they sexualise everything" the next is "they're prudes who hate sex positivity " like not to mention the infantalisation and "stolen trans valor" & "you're not the sexuality you say you are actually" like how is this criticising misogyny and transmisogyny?

Also just the sheer hatred and erasure of intersex and multi gender people like geez

Like what was actually said because all of the notes aren't talking about that they're just making up a caricature of a "theyfab trender who isn't really as trans as real trans people but are invading lesbian spaces to force real lesbians to fuck men" to be mad at rather than "this specific thing they said was misogynistic /lesbiphobic"

Instead it's all just like "no you have to detransition to reclaim misogynistic slurs that have been used against you or to be a lesbian otherwise you hate women" or "trans men must be binary & only use binary terms and" male terms" or else they're fakers" like what? In the 70s radfem fried fuck is going on?

Like you know that nonbinary people exist right?

That trans butches (of all agabs) exist right?

That intersex people who might use language that seems "contradictory" at first exist right? Like idk if someone is being misogynistic surely there's misogyny to point to rather than claiming that their identity/existence itself is misogynistic?

[rainbowtvz]

*grits teeth*

i do not want to discourse here or anywhere anymore but it does kind of affect me as a transmasc bi person when i see shit that indirectly misgenders me and implies that bisexuality is an icky no good word and identity and you have to be bi and gay and bi and lesbian and bi and straight at the same time or support them or you're an evil stinky stinky terf like... hello where am, i

[jackdaw-and-hattrick]

The press went NUTS when they found out the Dick was working as a pole dancer. It was big news, and everyone wanted to know how Bruce Wayne felt about his Baby Boy working as a stripper. B was… well, he was ticked. Not at Dick, no, he was just proud of him for getting a well paying job in an area he enjoyed. No, B’s fury sat squarely on the press. Papers that had gleefully printed sexual photos and articles about him were now aghast about Dick.

See, B’s whole “playboy” cover wasn’t originally exactly Bruce’s idea. He remembered vividly as a teenager the perceived humiliation of these adults sexualizing every little thing he did and of the constant anxiety of trying and failing to control his image; the way they seemed to pounce on any tiny flaw in his appearance or behavior and the paranoia that developed after the first of many photos of him was published of him just… going about his day, paired with a big red headline blasting him for daring to be a teenager. He remembered being terrified of being seen wearing a swimsuit and refusing to eat in public. So eventually, him leaning into this sexualization as a cover story wasn’t so much because he liked it, but because he knew how eagerly everyone would eat it up.

Now here was Dick, making an informed, consensual choice about how he wanted to be perceived, and they wanted to vilify him for it. So yes, B may have flew off the handles a bit, and yes, it probably wasn’t the best move to punch a reporter, but he had fought Hell to protect his kids from what he had gone through, and that sure as fuck wasn’t going to change any time soon.

[year2000electronics]

since we're talking about it, here's the stupidest hill i'm willing to die on: there hasn't been an actual new tumblr sexyman since like 2017, it was a specific phenomenon in time that's over and now people just pick any popular character and try and say that's onceler 2. tumblr sexymen are guys who are shipped en masse with themselves, get wildly mischaracterized to the point of being unrecognizable, are oddly isolated from the narrative, completely inescapably eclipse other stuff in the tag, and have thirst posts etc that wildly break containment. until we get swarms of unironic final boss benrey/chill benrey before he got caught in the door that one time on ao3, i'm putting the term up on a shelf. thank u very much for ur time and i hope you have a pleasant day

every day i talk about sexology i only descend more into the insanity. this phrase is literally undefinable. it has a definition in the same way religion has a definition. because every time you try to define a religion, you turn your back and realize "oh shit! the way ive defined it has left out this crucial big religion!" and so you fix your definition until its a rambling of nothing thats vague enough to encompass anything and yet means precious little. there is no hope for any of this anymore. nobody even knows what we're trying to say anymore.

[catgirl-catboy]

Hey, you! The LGBTQ+ person that gets uncomfortable by some popular fandom headcanons. You are valid. So long as you tag your wank and not harass fans that disagree with your headcanons, it is completely okay to hate/feel creeped out by a headcanon. You aren't being homophobic to not enjoy reading one specific character as one specific sexuality, even if the rest of the fandom absolutely disagrees with you.

[xochimillilili]

Post cancelled I want positivity on here and a wild probably cold and cough fueled ramble is not positive at all, even if I feel so, I do not want to look back and see a post written with a smile on my face and tears in my eyes. I want to see stuff I like and adore and dream for

I think this really either shows how fucking sick in the head I am or just really bad at healthy coping mechanisms, but I went to the bad place and made myself cum 5 times by myself over the place on the ground it happened.

Is this reclamation or is this sick? I didn´t feel pleasure over the memory, I cried, but the feeling of marking the place as mine and feeling so good just by myself and the memory of words of other people´s and mine intertwining in a sick lewd dance inside my head made me feel nice and like myself again.

I refuse to die and I am going to reclaim my sexuality and myself in the sickest fucking way possible.

[kiisaes]

not to talk about lily orchard on my silly goofy blog but i read her 100 writing tips again out of morbid curiosity and some of them are just objectively wrong. like, stuff u know isn't true if u've paid attention in even one high school level english class

[what-is-it-to-be-pk-esque]

Can we talk about how cute the graveyard scene is!?!? Oh my goddddddddddd this is never leaving my fucking brain

Like I cannot get over how beautiful and sweet and unexpected the entire Astarion romance arc is!? For what was nearly an enemies to lovers situation (depending on how you played)?? What the actual fuck, I didn't see a ton of spoilers but I had seen some by accident I think, and yet it still absolutely surprised me in all the best ways. So so adorable, romancing him forever. jesus

[gale-dekarios]

you know how when astarion and tavurge start dating, he becomes noticeably more sincere? i think, to fuck with them, he'll occassionally crank the seduction to 100 out of nowhere just to make tavurge trip and fluster. like he goes from Their Sweet Boyfriend to an actual succubus before leaving them behind like nothing happened.