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FINALLY going to see the Les Mis French revival au Châtelet tonight, I'm so excited (I've had the tickets since April lmfao)
Pardon my French, mais je pense que ça va être une dinguerie, trop trop hâte d'y être
Here's a barricade Eponine doodle to celebrate
#les mis people I've been letting you down the past few months#but tonight is the night#maybe this will reactivate the hyperfixation#les miserables#les mis#les mis eponine#eponine thenardier
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Boomers sure are offended when they think you’re rewarding your dog for “doing nothing”
“Your rewarding for nothing?! You’re just giving treats and hoping for the best!”
If you think my Malinois is doing “nothing” by volunteering a chin rest with her back turned to multiple dogs barking & lunging at her that’s a you problem. My girl gets as many treats as she wants and in return I get a calm dog who volunteers for multiple injections & blood draws in a row with a happy tail and no restraints. If being calm under stress isn’t reward worthy, I’d hate to see how you with your little Yorkie would react to the alternative. Ugh


#belgian malinois#dogblr#dog reactivity#cooperative care#compassionate care#positive reinforcement#vetblr#vet appointment#why are people like this
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Not to be old, but I am thinking about things we lost with the end of over the air TV syndication as a common cultural vector.
I was in a conversation (several conversations) about where to start with Star Trek, and where people started, and ended up formulating the thought that the best way to start is to just randomly encounter whatever happens to be on at the time and go from there. (I know a few people a little older than I am who started with The Animated Series which is a hell of a starting point.) And for decades that meant random reruns in syndication.
Then I just posted about the role of M*A*S*H in my childhood, and that too was all about it just being on kind of in the background all the time.
Then @piratecaptainscaptainpirates posted about seeing declining participation in OFMD stuff, and I was thinking about the same thing that happened gradually after the TAZ Balance finale, and then about fandoms for old shows (both recent-old, someone I follow has been posting a lot of Gallavant gifs? And old-old, like @frommybookbook with Perry Mason), and then, of course, Star Trek.
How much of Star Trek being THE fandom show is due to those years in the 70s and early 80s when TOS was in syndication at whatever random time on whatever local station? (similarly in the US with Doctor Who through the 80s on local PBS stations) When new fans can just happen upon the source material by turning on the TV on a Saturday afternoon, or every weeknight at 7, etc etc.
Idk, I'm sure someone with an actual scholarly background has written something about this, and idk what this means for the future of our little subculture(s), it just made me ponder the landscape that I grew up in that simply does not exist now.
#From my TAZ experience:#Some people continue to be deeply in it#And others become sleeper agents#I would consider myself a sleeper agent for TAZ at this point#Honestly the IWTV show reactivated a different sleeper agent lol#Also I still have an idea for a Trek fic that someday (someday!) I will write#There's also still a couple of taz fics I keep meaning to go back and reread and finish#That I was reading at the start of the pandemic but then Brain Broke#(I did not read ANYTHING books or fic for a couple of years)
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I just realized! Sanji had one of Zoro's earrings, but it looks like he gives it to Kuina. I'm assuming this is a way to let the crew know that he's still alive somewhere, right? Or it's something sad like: Sanji doesn't know if he'll make it out of there, but Kuina can so he can at least show that Kuina is Zoro's kid.
It's a bit of both, I think! I think it was hard for Sanji to part with it, cause he sees it as the wedding ring he never got to have, but he gives it to Kuina as some sort of proof that she's not lying. It's good that she has Zoros hair and generally looks similar to both of them, but... I have not yet explored that here, but I think Zoro changed in the aftermath of their 'deaths'. He's not gonna look at Kuina and go 'oh my kid', he's gonna be enraged by the thought that someone is trying to trick him.
#answered asks#zoro was always the one who is the most suspicious of new people (see robin) so I think Sanji kindaaaa can anticipate that#and there is no other thing he could give Kuina to prove that her story is true#he does tell her stories tho#zoro is usually good with keeping a cool head in stressful situations and not as reactive as the rest of the crew - but NOT with this#this is a situation that needs luffy and his uncanny instincts about people present#because luffy will KNOW
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i saw that u have ur own hc for curly and jimmy's backstory; do you have one for anya as well?
I do!!! It's actually a lot less depressing than you think!
I imagine that Anya grew up in an average happy family, well average for whatever lower middle class family is in a world we can assume exist in a place where late stage capitalism won. I'll try to keep this in line with how I describe Curly and Jimmy's backstories but she had a family that tried to uplift her when it matter. They paid attention to what she cared about and made sure they knew she cared. I believe they couldn't support her in school due to her path and the modern expenses but they encouraged her and her every choice. She didn't have parties but she got gifts to help her express and explore herself.
Life was something I think Anya handled well. She was not the top student but she was a good student. She managed her job and school as well as she could and took the PE job so she could go back. She had nothing saved up but she planned in accordance, hence her concern about the baby. She had a good circle of people, maybe not someone who ever got her, but people that heard her out and understood enough to where she always got herself. She had partners and thought about futures but always thought about hers specifically first, not selfishly, but truly asking if they were facing the same directions.
She was always in her own head, not in a bad way though. She was always thinking about what she could do. I think she just liked knowing she could. I think she became a nurse because she wanted to give people choice in the same way she understood it. Doctors just fix a problem but nurses walk you through it, I think Anya
I genuinely believe that because she lived thinking of all the choices she had and all the ways she could overcome things, the fact that she was trapped on board with so little escape and choices, while not being heard or understood really just put the pin in her final acts of agency.
#i kinda have a separate post about her exact personality but that short post wont mention much about her backstory#like i think Anya is like a free bird and is passionate about what she does and also a little sardonic because she understand the futility#in somethings so its just like I see her a parallel to Curly because he's trapped in a futulity he purposely blinds himself to vs how she#sees it and tries to circumvent it#i hope this is close to what you wanted but yeah I think Anya is the most well adjusted outside what happened on the Tulpar#you watch her get taken down and assulted and strip of what she most valued about herself with no one to listen to her and it tore her apar#like i think shes competative and sarcastic. I think she's hyper aware and contemplative but she can't force people to ask the same questio#shes proactive and its so unique cause literally everyone else is reactive like i love you anya no matter what people try to do to your#character like sparkle on without Jimmy#anya mouthwashing#nurse anya#mouthwashing#mouthwashing game#ask#sirenc0re
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i was a chihuahua disliker in a past life but have Grown Up since then, but earlier i saw one that made me clench my fists in agony. i wanted her so bad...
#WHAT IS THAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT#WHY DOES SHE LOOK LIKE THAT OH MY GOD#she looks like a bug that got sunbleached... and she has permanent Sad Eyes. tell me she does not look very sweet#i'd call her chicory and we'd be soul bonded.#also the chihuahua disliking thing. i feel like that's one of those dumb things like not liking rap/country. like unfounded dislike i mean.#the chihuahua dislikery went away as soon as i realized that a lot of people grossly mishandle their small dogs#and don't attempt to do ANYTHING resembling training. and those two things together. create a very reactive dog.#anyway i don't need a second dog. goodbye everybody#i think though that if i had a dog for 20 years of my life. the day they leave is the day i jump in front of a truck. THAT'S TOO LONG.#that's my HUMAN CHILD. what do you mean#sergle.txt
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I’ll go ahead and say it so others don’t have to - the real reason some people complain or dislike Rook is cause they’re not the Inquisitor/Lavellan.
Hope now we can all stop waltzing around it, let people have different opinions, and accept they are just opinions and not The One and Only Truth or ground-breaking criticism they often pretend to be.
#dragon age#dragon age the veilguard#dragon age rook#solas#there is room actually for a conversation on rook with what’s missing#or constructive criticism on tonality and reactivity#but 90% of the ‘criticism’ i see online is just complaining and mind gymnastics#that people use because they don’t have the courage to jusr admit its a preference#veilguard#textpost#datv
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Useless Veilguard fact of the day: Day 16
Veil Jumpers are the only faction that doesn't have a faction-specific goodbye line with the companion of the same faction before the final battle of the game.
Check out the tag for more useless facts: #useless davg fact of the day!
#I've mentioned this before but not a part of this series and I really feel like saying that again#I kinda have a feeling that people are more conscious about the LoF getting sidelined rather than the VJ#for whom the reactivity is just SO bad it's depressing#dragon age#flowers blogs#useless davg fact of the day#flowers.txt#dragon age the veilguard#I will always find queue like it's written in the stars
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me: i care less about dragon age now, it's been almost decade, i am tired.
*a few crumbs of dragon age news*
THE BEACONS ARE LIT! GONDOR THEDAS CALLS FOR AID DISCOURSE!
#dragon age#it comes and goes#i love people's fan art/fic#and the crunchy lore deep dives some of you do are aces#trying to not get too excited#it's cool to see everyone get reactivated a bit tho#dragon age 4#da:tv#da:v#dragon age the veilguard#sometimes i still do dragon age fan art too and it's neat that people still care#so i know you're all out there like unicorns in the sea somewhere#i am def not looking forward to the shipping wars tho#fingers crossed for romanceable dwarves and more queer romance options for masc characters tho#also hoping for nonbinary options for player character like bg3 did it so cmon now
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my capacity to see a bad fandom take and just blithely say 'okay! I disagree' internally and move on because it's not my responsibility or concern that someone else thinks that has leveled up so tremendously over the years. I haven't quite escaped the pit of misery yet but I think I'm getting there
#the ability to say to oneself 'it's okay if you don't agree with me'#(and possibly adding a quiet bitchy 'I can't force you to be right' at the end if you're annoyed enough lol)#at seeing a bad take without ever internalizing it any deeper than that... indispensible.#if someone is really unpleasantly vitriolic or reactive about it I'll just block and move on. and never think about them again#a gift for me and for them I'm sure! but as long as people are being civil I'm getting pretty good at just going 'alright.#I think you're wrong but it's your prerogative to think that. away from me preferably but still'#when I was younger I always felt like a more negative take must be more valid/see something I didn't but over time (and a lot of therapy)#that kneejerk self-doubt is a lot easier to get through. sometimes. people are wrong! to me and my experience. and that's alright#if nothing else understand your own limitations in ever changing someone's mind for them and let it go lol#when I feel the real badfeels at a shitty take now I know it's just because I'm tired and threadbare and need to sleep haha#sometimes mental health progress is sooooo... boring and low-key but also brings so much relief#like doing admin work up here. *sees something so dumb I feel dizzy* file that shit under 'not my problem' and move on chief
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I think it would have been nice if the grocery shopping scene came a bit later tbh, like after we had some more time to get to know everyone. This is less a criticism and more wish fulfillment lmao
Let me use the shopping trip as a chance to make some nice gift purchases and get a smallish cutscene with them after. Perhaps let me turn that into a flirt option too while we’re at it. Lucanis specific, it would be 10/10 if we bought him that knife after hearing more about the wyvern thing. Like yeah he loves the gesture in the moment regardless but imagine how much more !! he would be if that exchange took place weeks prior & Rook Remembered
#listen him being demi is all the more reason there should have been more build up alright#I was just thinking about how this could have been a great opportunity for the tendrils of emotions to start Really making themselves known#PLUS built in reactivity to player input? 10/10#rookanis#lucanis dellamorte#people like thoughtful surprise gifts in general alright. place this scene right before the baked goods lock in and Bam. parallels.#veilguard spoilers#dragon age#dragon age the veilguard
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if 9&10 were "dont wander off", and 11&12 were "the doctor lies", 13s rule #1 is "dont question me"
"have we not had a good time together" shes pointing yaz to the rule that yaz very well knows is there: we can travel if you dont ask me any difficult questions. yaz knows this is the rule - "because you ask too many questions", "this team structure isnt flat" - but she also was the one to invite the doctor into her home so im pretty sure she also knows shes not gonna kicked out that easily. she has some leeway. which she has been using between revolution and flux, which is why the doctor reminds her of the rules
i dont think she'd kick her out though. she wouldnt. i think it's just that the more you break the rule, the more unpleasant she becomes to be around, and eventually youre gonna walk out on your own. she doesnt want you to, she'd rather you stay and dont ask questions. but if youre gonna try to ask questions anyway, i think thats whats gonna happen
and yaz must think so too. because she does back off. because she doesnt want that to happen either. and it does anyway
#dont question me/dont challenge me. questions are the sore spot but the challenge is one she says explicitly once#because you see this in how she is with other people too. dont try her patience. dont act like shes smaller. dont challenge her or Die#based on the giggle - 'i thought i was clever' 'what do i say?! because im always sooo certain' - i dont think 14 is like this#also based on the expressions of affection#hes not that......reactive. to this. specific thing#so i wonder if it runs over to 15#he seems chill. i think? he seems fairly chill. but also i think we've so far only seen him mostly in control of things#faced with the maestro temporarily not entirely in control hes Notably Less Chill#but still bigger picture. hes mostly in control of things right now i think#or uhhhh based on how eager he seems to get out of the role of doctor#hmmmmm#13 didnt want it but like. was stuck with it i think#didnt want it but nobody else was gonna do it. thats why 12 regenerated#15 comes out 14 Literally Quitting#he doesnt want it and hes decided hes not stuck with it. maybe#none of this is true btw im just saying words recreationally#like those 13 moments are super cherrypicked and i havent rewatched in forever so#dont believe me gfkjghgjh#this is based more on how i write them than what ive seen basically#anyway in terms of 14/yaz i think it takes yaz a while to figure out how to deal with 14 Not being like this#bc she got soooo practiced at handling 13. most of which was abt like not tripping this rule too much#she'd keep it up with 14 and he'd just do stuff that like breaks the rule from his side and yaz wouldnt have any idea how to deal with it#he'd show her hes chilled out a bit. about this. over and over and it'd still take her moooooonthssssssss to start relaxing#just muscle memory at this point. doesnt help that shes also like this#i wonder if 14 - in a sort of compelte reversal - wants to be told what to do and how to do and#seeks out situations where someone else knows more than him so he can sit down and say 'teach me'#i think thats what he does. about all the human stuff. hes like teach me. all of it. show me how to do this
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Do you think Wyll told his father all about Tav, how wonderful they are, and their entire love story before he proposed to them? Do you think Duke Ulder Ravengard watched his son's eyes light up with love and just softened, remembering bitterly just how much time and how much of his son's life he had missed in sending him away? Do you think he gave Wyll and Tav his blessing? Do you think he congratulated Wyll when he gleefully reported back that Tav said yes? Do you think father and son were considering the very tentative plans for a wedding when this was all over?
Do you?
Because I do. I think a great deal about it.
#bg3#baldur's gate 3#wyll ravengard#wyll x tav#ulder ravengard#i'm just saying i would have liked some reactivity to the wyll romance from his literal father#and maybe counselor florrick as well#like you mean to tell me these people who have known wyll his whole life wouldn't have some reaction to his being visibly smitten?#bg3 spoilers#baldur's gate 3 spoilers#tbh i wish there was more reactivity to romanced companions in their personal quests period#like wdym we're meeting an important person from this character's past & they have nothing to say about a romantic partner in tow?
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(Realizes that the most common transman experiences perfectly align with my life and feelings about myself and fascinations and who I want to be with) Ohhhh Okay i am fucked
#I do really wish i could just snap my fingers and pilot a cisman's body around#Rather than go through the crucible of visibly transitioning. it seems like a waste to do it when the times are so awful.#I honestly still doubt myself so much but#I can only do so many years of Why are you perceiving me as a woman#Before the shit starts getting real#People really just dont take you fucking seriously. Like even at this point where im at now i still dont know if im quote unquote valid#Because maybe its just a feminist issue and the misogyny is rampant#But an emotional sensitive defensive anxious reactive woman is what i am seen as. Somehow.#When I have gone lengths to ensure that even those close to me do not see a hint of my unchained emotional reality. Just really beats it in#I am entirely logical when I describe my experiences to my family. Clinical and detatched and intentional. And they think i am to be coddle#All the fucking time. Exhausting. I don't want that. I want to come to mutual understanding. Not to beg for emotional attention.#Thats the only thing that ever visibly cracks me. Being horribly misunderstood and taken out of context. Logical self defense being denied.#And being full of estrogen just reinforces that shit. Im a frustration crier. If I had testosterone maybe it wouldnt prove people right.#When you bite back as a woman you are just a bitch.#My fear is that I will be an emotional transgender man that wants to be coddled. I am afraid it will be worse to be that.#I really do just want to be able to live and work and be taken seriously when I say what I mean and what my mind is like.#I want a chance at life. I feel like I'm seen as a hapless girl. Damaged and begging to be freed of all responsibility#No bitch I want to move out and actively build a life for myself and RAISE MYSELF! after years of being misunderstood and alone#And also i want to do homosexual war reenactments with another man or something i dont know i just wish it could be me#Maybe ill just donate blood and faint again#Anyway. Joker. Society. I am the joker#Who wanna reply and tell me if im a valid transman or not. I get chest dysphoria when i have proper posture.#I get ass and hip dysphoria.#Low key having a bangin body as a woman though confuses me still bc maybe i just like being hot more than i gaf about transitioning#It reeeeeally helps that my face has an impeccable T zone. Its kind of masc as hell.
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Lunch break doodles of Null.
#anemometer spins faster when he’s worked up… which is often!#unlike Avery with his even keel - Null is pretty reactive#he is also the type to say no and stop when tickled#he does have things he enjoys - like being tickled - that he is shy about or won’t admit to#he stays in the lighthouse with Finn while Avery and Casper are at work - but he is pretty reclusive#he is less physically affectionate than the other three and mostly bonds by doing things with people#he’s an inventor and is very proud of his work#can be overly dramatic#very easy to get a rise out of him#sea and sky au#fluffyart#null
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some malkmus / pavement screengrabs from 1992-4
frankfurt 1994 - reading 1992 - australia 1993 - london 1992 - rennes 1992 - bielefeld 1992
#full on pavement stan mode has been reactivated. like a sleeper agent#there are not enough photos of stephen on tumblr. so i'm doing my part.gif#this bowl cut was giving. it helped him hide his face! and he only had like three shirts#people#decline and fall#reference#pavement#stephen malkmus
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