#qverlord

[queerzaza]

Zaza I've realised that I'm autistic and I've talked to my therapist and he agrees with me. I want to reach out to a support group for autistic people that my college has but I'm scared people will judge me because my diagnosis isn't official. I'm afraid people will think I'm just self diagnosing myself and trying to get attention. Should I wait for something official before I do anything?

Short answer: No, you should go. 

Explanation: First, what’s wrong with getting attention? You deserve attention, everyone does. Plus, that’s what support groups are for- getting and giving attention. By design, support groups are all about a give and take within a community that shares some commonality. They’re about bringing attention to the individuals involved, not about judging one another’s “worthiness”

Secondly, it sounds like you’ve done your research and your therapist agrees with your self-diagnosis. IMHO that’s sufficient to join a support group. Remember that if things change or don’t feel right, you can leave at any time. 

Thirdly, people judge others, it’s just part of life. Does that mean you don’t belong or won’t be accepted? Certainly not. Chances are, you won’t even be the only self-diagnosed person in the room! People generally don’t attend support groups to be judgemental and exclusionary, they go for the support (give/take). 

The bottom line, you’re not joining this group to make fun of them, your joining to get help and help others. That means you belong and I hope you’ll go to the next meeting. I know it’s scary to join a new support group, but they’re one of the best tools out there- so go! Wishing you all the good luck, dove!

[kati67]

This or that

Thanks for tagging me @marykk1990

1 coffee or tea

2 early bird or night owl 

3 chocolate or vanilla

4 spring or fall

5 silver or gold 

6 pop or alternative 

7 freckles or dimples

8 snakes or sharks (neither really but if I do have to choose)

9 mountains or fields

10 thunderstorms or lightning

11 egyptian or greek mythology (though I love all mythologies)

12 ivory or scarlet

13 flute or lyre

14 opal or diamond

15 butterflies or honeybees (both)

16 macaroons or eclairs

17 typewritten or handwritten

18 secret garden or secret library (also both, reading in a secret garden!)

19 rooftop or balcony (I’d rather have my garden)

20 spicy or mild 

21 opera or ballet

22 London or Paris

23 Vincent Van Gogh or Claude Monet (even though I’m Dutch...)

24 denim or leather

25 potions or spells

26 ocean or desert

27 mermaids or sirens (sirens are more interesting, mythology-wise)

28 masquerade ball or cocktail party (neither only in Labyrinth)

I’m going to tag @ikathrine @x5vale @qverlord @shazzykins and @inannamoon but only if you want to do it. 

[basim-ibnishaq]

TV Show Tag Game

Rules: Attach 10 gifs from 10 of your favorite TV shows without naming them and tag 10 people!

Tagged by: @dillislazii 💜💜

Tagging: @dinorsaur @starksrhodes @ssamwinchester @captainsassymills @cptnvers @agentdaisybarnes @winterwldow @starkandtheseance @qverlord @picassho-18

[yuzupomegranate]

Thank you!

To @eggsyhqrt, who wrote me a fluffy little something here.

You are wonderful, thank you so much!!! I love it when people take the time to comment a video or to send me a sweet compliment, but you took the time to write an entire ficlet! Is it really for me?? I feel so lucky, and I don't really know how to thank you properly... I'm sorry! I'm glad you appreciated the video that much, and felt the angst enough to write fluff, this means a lot to me! I can now imagine Eggsy on his tiptoes kissing Harry, and this pleases me A LOT. I particularly liked the part "Naturally, Eggsy acted like these things greatly affronted him.", because I think it's the cutest with the kissing. I will find a way to thank you properly, I promise, but in the meantime all I can say is thank you a million times, you rock!

I also want to mention @lady-mephistopheles here, because she wrote fluff for @elletromil and me, and I feel like I can never thank people enough. So thank you again and again and again!

And finally, nobody knows about this because I was keeping her safe inside my heart, but thousands and hundreds of cuddles for @qverlord for writing the most amazing angst stories for me. Time for confession: I skipped class for two hours so she would continue telling me the story. I am not even ashamed. Check out her tumblr! But don't try to take her away from me, I'd bite. (Just joking, I'd kill you)

[basim-ibnishaq]

answer 21 questions & tag 21 people you want to know better

i was tagged by @jamesbvck ♥️

nicknames: i don't really have one tbh

zodiac sign: gemini

height: 5"5

hogwarts house: ravenclaw/slytherin

the last thing i googled: ascension season 2 (which got cancelled so i'm sad lol)

favourite musicians: don't really have any in particular, i guess i listen to george ezra & noel gallagher's high flying birds a lot

song stuck in your head: it's not even a proper song it's just the background music on a game i was just playing lmao

following: 389

followers: 5.3k

do you get asks?: every now and then

amount of sleep: about 8 or 9 hours typically

lucky number: i don't think i have one

what you're wearing: pyjamas

dream job: anything that i enjoy doing tbh, i don't want to hate going to work

dream trip: love to visit sweden

instruments: i did a bit of recorder in primary school because everyone had to

languages: english, tiny bit of german, used to know some spanish

favourite songs: most things by nghfb

random fact: i learned to count to 10 in spanish from dora the explorer when i was in nursery

aesthetic: i don't really have a consistent aesthetic it changes every other day tbh lmao

tagging: @jaccbfrye @connieisland @okoye @jazon-todd @agentxthirteen @myotherbrotheraegon @dillislazii @picassho-18 @blackwidow-barnes @captainsassymills @kingslade-dvina @cptsteven @agentdaisybarnes @qverlord @starkandtheseance @solovalker @marveling-left-and-right @shewhowillrise @tiny--tony @wenellyb @arthurmorgansgf @wjnterbucky

[leavesdancing]

10 OTP's & Questions

@jaimistoryteller reminded me that I was tagged to do this back in January by @dearbluetravelers.

Write 10 OTPs and answer the questions, then tag 10 people.

1. James Bond/Alec Trevelyan/Q — James Bond

2. The Doctor/Rose Tyler — Doctor Who

3. John Reese/Harold Finch — Person of Interest

4. Laura Holt/Remington Steele — Remington Steele

5. Daniel Jackson/Jack O’Neill — Stargate

6. Illya Kuryakin/Napoleon Solo — The Man From U.N.C.L.E. (TV series)

7. James T. Kirk/Spock — Star Trek (The Original Series)

8. Clint Barton/Phil Coulson — Marvel Cinematic Universe

9. Amelia Peabody/Radcliffe Emerson

10. Steve McGarrett/Danno Williams — Hawaii Five-0

1. Do you remember the episode/scene/chapter that you started shipping number 6? No, I don’t.

2. Have you read a fic about number 2? Yes

3. If number 7 were to suddenly breakup today, what would your reaction be? Well, they’re not exactly canon...

4. Why is number 1 important? Because Alec Trevelyan is awesome, Q is brilliant, and James Bond is, well, James Bond.

5. Who has the strongest bond? Do I have to pick just one? Kirk/Spock

6. How many times have you read about/watched number 10? Not nearly as much as James/Alec/Q.

7. How many times has number 6 broken up? Well, again, not exactly canon.

8. If the world was suddenly thrust into a zombie apocalypse, which ships would make it out alive? All of them.

9. Did number 7 ever hide their relationship for any reason? LOL — again, not canon. I suppose for their Federation careers?

10. Is number 4 still together? They’re a canon ship. Yes, they’re still together!

11. Is number 10 canon? No, although they/their colleagues are constantly asked how long they’ve been married.

12. If all 10 ships were put into a couples Hunger Games, which would win? All of them.

13. Has anyone ever tried to sabotage number 5's ship? Yes, the show’s writers.

14. Which ship would you defend until death and beyond? All of them.

15. Do you spend hours a day going through number 3's tumblr posts? None.

16. If an evil witch descended from the sky and told you that you had to pick one of the ships to break up forever or else she’d break them all up forever, which ship would you sink? Steve/Danno. Sorry, boys.

I’m tagging @merindab, @jaimistoryteller, @mistflyer1102, @qverlord, @scriptrixlatinae, @peritwotone, @prosthetical, @opalescentgold