#queerotic attraction

[radiomogai]

a few more aspec terms

filling in gaps

Amental: experiencing little-to-no mental attraction

Amenspec: being on the amental spectrum

Aqueerotic: experiencing little-to-no queerotic attraction

Aquerspec: being on the aqueerotic spectrum

@revenant-coining

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flag id: a flag with 7 stripes. in order, they are red, red-pink, light pink, very light orange, cream, light green, and faded sky blue. end id.

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tertierotic: describes any tertiary attraction and/or relationship with significant erotic, sexual, and/or sensual components. this term was coined with alloaro and aplatonic folks in mind, but is not exclusive to them.

[pt: tertierotic: describes any tertiary attraction and/or relationship with significant erotic, sexual, and/or sensual components. this term was coined with alloaro and aplatonic folks in mind, but is not exclusive to them. end pt]

a similar term to queerotic that includes any tertiary attraction for anon! queerotic is specifically queerplatonic or alterous plus erotic components, while this term describes any form of tertiary attraction plus erotic components.

the top two stripes represent erotic/sexual/sensual components, the green stripe represents alloaro and aplatonic tertierotic folks, and the rest of the stripes are adjusted from this tertiary attraction flag. the term is 'terti' from 'tertiary' + 'erotic'!

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[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Polyvariangled Pride Flag

Polyvariangled (formerly ambivarioriented/equivarioriented): an individual who has various orientations for multiple relationships. For example, one may be asexual and alloromantic to one partner, whilst being aromantic and allosexual to another partner. This may also include tertiary attractions, such as platonic, sensual, or other.

Must have different orientations for different individuals

Must be polyamorous or biamorous

Similar to schrosespec. See also: singulu-, kena-, apres-, queerotic, queeragamic, schrö-.

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flag id: a flag with 6 stripes. in order, they are light blu, medium dark green, dark grey, pink, light reddish-pink, and very light red. end id.

banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.

an alternate queerotic flag for anon!

they wanted a flag with a bit less focus on queerplatonic attraction/relationships and a bit more focus on alterous attraction/relationships, so i added a light blue stripe (often used to represent alterous attraction) and a light red stripe (inspired by this alterous flag), and i changed the flag format, since the original calls back to the queerplatonic flag specifically.

dni link

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would you make an alt flag for queerotic? It's just that the current flag has a very similar if not the same template as the queerplatonic one and to my understanding the term covers other types of tertiary attraction as well. my experience is not qp at all nor alterous but I relate to other tertiary attractions that are queerotic to me.

Also, I am not personally! a fan of gray.

based on the coining post, it seems queerotic is intended as a form of queerplatonic or alterous attraction specifically, as no other tertiary attractions are referenced in the post. however, i'm happy to coin an alternate term for you that's for any tertiary attraction with erotic/sexual/sensual components if you'd like!

[neopronouns]

I did some thinking and realized what bothers me is the flag being focused on qp attraction rather than the term referencing alterous attraction specifically. So yeah, if you can make a flag for queerotic that doesn't relate so much to the qp one as well as coin a term that covers tertiary attraction in general, I think it would satisfy my needs. It could be a twin term to queerotic like queer- smt/smt -queer or even -ero(tic) related. Thank you!

oops. I guess I said tertiary attraction in general instead of any tertiary attraction. I feel these two implie different things and "any" is more what I am looking for.

also, just like queerotic, I have alloaros and aplatonics in mind in regards of this term but anyone can use/identify as it

both queued!

[variant-archive]

can a queerotic relationship be another kind of tertiary attraction than queerplatonic or alterous? i don't experience either of those, but i do experience playful and cedural attraction with erotic/sexual components. i wanted to check with you before coining my own term /genq

I coined it with the intent of it referring to queerplatonic/alterous/emotional tertiary attraction, but corresponding attraction isn't necessarily a part of a relationship. So, a queerotic relationship doesn't require any specific form of attraction or any attraction at all, but queerotic attraction itself is more specific. I hope this helps!

[variant-archive]

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I've been in the neolabel community for over a decade! I was here when MOGAI was coined. I'm also the creator of the queer, omni, xenogender, ficto, and altersex flags along with many other flags and terms. I've collaborated on many too. I feel that gender education is my life's calling and I hope to do much more work for the community in the future! ☆

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I'm an aroallo bi gay. I also use gai, binotrix, floric, rosaen, queer, and homo. I'm POSIC and objectum. My primary attraction and relationship type is queerotic. I do not experience platonic or romantic attraction, but what I experience is indeed love and I'm polyamorous and happily partnered. ♡

I'm altersex (morphisex, phantasex). Atypically hormonally transitioned, paraphoric, and comfortably non-op/transine. AGAB nonconforming.

I use he/him, ae/aer, and ne/nym/nys pronouns and I dabble in others on occasion.

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Special interests are psychology, philosophy, spirituality, nature, aesthetics, and identity of course. Always down to talk about them.

I am an anti-radqueer radinclus.

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condone or participate in harassment or bullying or abuse towards anyone. Criticism is totally fine of course, there's a difference.

if the blog you're interacting from is primarily a discourse blog. I just don't want to see it, it's bad for my mind.

MAP/pedo, zoophile, necrophile, incest/consang, or create/condone/consume content supporting or catering to these things (including in fiction and ships).

Radqueer. Transspecies, harmless things like transvoice etc. and all consensual paraphilas are ok though! :)

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you can interact if you're a minor but please don't try to befriend me. You can ask questions, ask for advice, ask for help coining something or making a flag, and we can chat about terms/identity/special interests and stuff. I care about y'all but please understand I'm paranoid about this because I have some trouble with boundaries and I overcompensate by being overcautious. Socializing publicly (in asks/replies/reblogs) is fine and welcomed!

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- practice kinks in harmful or irresponsible ways, or allow this (for example, not ensuring informed consent among all involved, practicing kinks while being unaware or heedless of the risks and safety protocols putting others in danger, spreading harmful misinformation, discussing kink with minors, posting kink content in non-kink tags or not mature filtering your kink account/content).

- are anti-kink, especially if you are intent on severing the kink and queer communities from one another's shared history. You may have an opposition to certain specific kinks for your own reasons, I'm fine-ish with that I guess, but you can't be against *most or all* kinks or against the concept, practice, or the kink community itself, or if you think that a person who is queer and sees their kink identity as part of their queerness isn't allowed to do so. Kink pride is valid af.

- if you're against kink at pride (when it's just people wearing their gear to show pride, obviously not sexual activity in public unless it's a space/event specifically for doing that).

- are anti-sex work(er) or think that being a sex worker makes you "tainted" or a walking NSFW entity. Your job isn't who you are.

- if you are against kink/sex related identity terms such as genders, alderns, allions etc

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do you think you could go a bit into detail about queerotic or just give me some other posts about it? i'm wondering if that's me and noticed you put that as one of your identities so i hope this isn't weird, but feel free to say no of course! ty :] (i'm allosexual + arospec if that helps)

no problem!

so queerotic refers to queerplatonic/alterous attraction or relationships that have significant erotic, sexual, or sensual aspects, with the erotic aspects of the attraction/relationship being tied to the emotional aspects. queerotic partners may use eroticism as an expression of emotional bonds, not just due to sexual attraction or for satisfaction, but not necessarily. basically, queeroticism is a non-romantically emotional and erotic/sexual/sensual attraction/bond/relationship. the coiner had alloaros and aplatonic folks, particularly those who feel that their sexual and alterous/queerplatonic attractions were tied to one another as opposed to being split, but the term is open to anyone and can also be used in tandem with queerplatonic.

a queerotic person might call their partner their 'foveo', which is a term referring to a physical/sexual partner and was coined as an alternative to 'friends with benefits' (though a queerotic partner doesn't Have to be called a foveo)

[variant-archive]

Fuck it. I'm gonna make that alloaro friendly qp term for explicitly sexual/sensual/erotic QPRs because that's my primary type of relationship and bc queeragam*c kinda pisses me off, miss me with that alloarophobia

My first instinct is to call it "queerotic" (as in queer + erotic) but I'm gonna look at other options too. I just like the word erotic and the concept of erotic attraction, and how it encompasses/relates to sexual, sensual, aesthetic and even alterous attraction.

[stormy-caffeine]

Cupio-Queerotic

Cupioqueerotic defines someone who has/desires a queerotic relationship, usually while having little to no sexual attraction.

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I've been feeling so much more content and confident since I found the term queerotic, even though I don't experience sexual attraction. The term alone works fine for me, but I love making flags and if someone wanted the clear distinction to be included, I wanted them to have that option as well.

The symbol came from me combining aspects of the cupioromantic and cupiosexual symbols found on LGBTA - while this isn't a cupioromantic orientation in itself, I thought combining the symbols to show that romantic attraction is not a focal point of this relationship, there are still levels of deep affection shown by the yellow cupid arrows.

Anyone is able to use this flag and add a different symbol if preferred, I just made one that I liked and thought fit. Blank symbol below.

Queerotic was coined by @variant-archive

[variant-archive]

Queerotic/Queeroticism/QE: A form of queerplatonic/alterous (attraction and/or relationship) that has significant erotic, sexual, or sensual components. It is an alterous, erotic emotional bond, and the erotic aspects of the relationship/attraction feel tied into the emotional aspects. While not necessary, queerotic relationships often use eroticism as a way to express emotional bonds, and not just for sexual attraction/satisfaction. A queerotic partner/relationship is called a QEP/QER for short, but individuals may also use QPP/QPR (queerotic and queerplatonic attraction/relationships are not mutually exclusive in any way and overlap).

Flag meanings:

Based off of one of the queerplatonic flags, but with adjustments to suit the term.

The green heart represents aromantic love and attraction, alloaros, and the concept of a non-romantic erotic and emotional bond. It's also a color used in the autoerotic and homoerotic flags. The darker green stripe represents arospecs in general.

Pink represents queerness, as one of the colors associated with queerplatonic. Yellow is also associated with QP, representing the platonic part, but I didn't use it in order to distance the term from platonic for apl folx like me who may feel weird about queerplatonic having the word "platonic" in it. It's also used in the autoerotic and homoerotic flags, represented here as a deeper shade.

Gray represents lack of “traditional” romantic attraction/romantic aspects of a relationship, including arospecs who are grayromantic and queerotic relationships that have some romantic component (like a wavership or semiship).

This term can be used by anyone but it's made with alloaros and aplatonics in mind, especially those who feel that their sexual and alterous/QP orientations/attraction are tied to one another, as opposed to being entirely split from one another.

See also: foveo.