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strawberrickys · 2 years ago

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hi I saw u write for epex too and I'm absolutely in to them these days. if u don't mind could u write epex members when u fall asleep on them (before dating)

aaa plz i love epex 😭 yesyes this is so cute

im doing this in bullet points, hope you don't mind ��️ if you wanted headcanons or if you want me to elaborate on any of them plz don't be afraid to ask! — not proofread, lowercase intended

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epex — falling asleep on them !! (pre-relationship)

×× 곽 다윗 —★ kwak dawit ! wish ···

• will let you sleep unless you look uncomfortable 💀

• hes probably used to his members leaning on him and sleeping on him all the time but.. you??

• oh he's a wreck

• wants you to be comfortable and if it looks like you're in pain even in the slightest he will move you or wake you up

• overall just wants you to rest well, doesn't care that you're leaning on him

×× 금 동현 —★ keum donghyun ! keum ···

• 100% confused and WILL wake you up 💀

• "do you want to sleep? i can come back another time"

• vv worried and wants to know if you're getting enough sleep

• if you tell him you are actually tired he would be so conflicted

• he wants to spend time with you but he wants you to sleep

• prob just ends up letting you sleep on him after, win-win lol

×× 서 경민 —★ seo kyungmin ! mu ···

• will not intentionally wake you up but the second your head hits his shoulder he tenses up enough to scare both him AND you 💀

• will apologize and let you sleep on him ☹️

• WILL take photos of you but will 100% delete them if you don't like them lol

• texting EVERYONE for moral support

• "omg omg guys they're sleeping on me what do i do help help help" but no matter what anyone says he's not gonna move you until you wake up

• has ruined your sleep before, will not let it happen again 💀

×× 조 민우 —★ cho minwoo ! a-min ···

• confused but will let you sleep

• will 100% just. look at you.

• not like out of adoration but like why are you sleeping in the middle of the day and why on me look (out of adoration too)

• eventually understands because he's had his moments too

• might look at something on his phone and laugh a little too loud 💀

• will apologize even if you don't hear him or wake up lol

×× 김 현우 —★ kim hyunwoo ! baekseung ···

• nervous and will tell everyone who walks in the room to be quiet 💀

• will make sure you stay asleep because he wants you to rest and he needs to calm down

• will be vv sweet and will ask one of the members to bring you a blanket or something

• he won't hear but said member will walk away grumbling about how whipped he is

• v soft and just wants you to be warm and happy ☹️ need

×× 권 예준 —★ kwon yejun ! ayden ···

• will try to wake you up, ultimately fails, doesn't try again 💀

• "why me and why now." FEAR. someone help this boy 😭

• thinks that you meant to fall asleep on him and will get delusional /lhj

• will not be able to function until you wake up, whatever he was doing has been long abandoned

• might fall asleep too ngl 💀

×× 서 예왕 —★ seo yewang ! yewang ···

• takes him a second to realize what's going on but will let you sleep lol

• will try to wake you up but when you don't he won't push it

• if you're tired, you're tired, and he wants you to rest

• (so you guys can actually hang out 😭💀)

• will watch you and will make sure you're still sleeping and not just leaning on him to make him nervous 💀

×× 이 재호 —★ lee jaeho ! jeff ···

• you have broken him. congratulations.

• the most scared of them all a literal chill would run down his spine I think 😭

• would be 100% still and would NOT move

• will totally wake you up out of fear plz help him ☹️

• he'd wake you up like yejun but will not give up until you wake up 💀

• will ask you why you fell asleep on him but totally didn't mean to lol

• his ears are bright red please dont mention them he already knows

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thank you for reading this far! ❤️ feedback, likes, and reblogs are always appreciated.

— strawberrickys, 2023.

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circular-bircular · 6 months ago

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Mmm. I caught a few free minutes today to sit down and respond, so let's unleash this one, shall we?

Below the cut is an ENORMOUS ask, and a (incredibly long, as much as I may try otherside) response. It's about the recent "censorship" (???) drama.

TL;DR: Everyone is allowed to be angry in life, and policing that is kind of outrageously infuriating, especially in spaces where people struggle with things like emotional regulation! I'm allowed to be upset and express that upset, just as much as anyone else. Me expressing frustrations isn't "demonizing" people or attacking them, and I'm sorry if it comes across that way. If you feel I'm attacking you by posting on my own blog how I'm upset about something, or feel I'm attacking you by reblogging posts on tumblr to dissect ableism in articles you yourself posted... Figure out that feeling, or block me? Good lord.

I am not posting anything more about this topic. Please don't send asks about it, or I will simply be deleting them.

Okay. For context, these two asks (combined below) came in about 3 days ago. I was wondering if I should post them in a different format to slim them down, but genuinely, I think I want to present this as I received it. Here it is (with your system name censored, anon -- I recognize your concerns about harassment):

abt frameaclouds post :: politely + trying to come to the table not to argue but to point this out I dont think you can blame a blogger for seeing people reblogging their post from you legit screaming "how dare you" or "fuck you" at them and them then assuming that it's probs best to just block and keep back from that whole group of folks. I liked some of your additions and thought they were interesting as one of frameaclouds followers.... but the way you and others focused almost entirely on nitpicking LB Lee's stuff and some ways things were phrased (ex. - like point 3; all frameacloud said was that DID does not require trauma. you then... agreed and shouted at them?), and the way a lot of you jumped to calling it censorship and silencing when frameacloud refused to engage afterwards, really kind of makes it look like you're interpreting their post and actions in the worst light possible. it makes it seem like you're coming from a place of bad faith. you mentioned some cool perspective in your reblog, where you talked about how it came off to someone who had your specific background and knowledge and what u found the issues to be, but you haven't done the reverse: you haven't considered how your reblog was going to come across to an otherkin whose been around for a really long time and who is probably used to dealing with tons and tons of trolls who are going to take what they say in the least generous way possible, twist their words, + use it to belittle and harass them. like this is an otherkin who's been around since the grilling times and usenet days. and a bunch of people who seem to be in ur circles citing back to the post and kind of beating their chests about it even tho frameacloud is making a point not to fight or argue about it and to just block and move on...and u urself described ur response as a 'rant' which has a pretty diff connotation than 'discussion' or 'criticism'...well its likely to just project that kind of image further, that ur just here to flame war, even if thats not what ur doing or how u want to come across. ik that's how it came across to me and even after seeing some of ur past posts on ur blog that i really liked im still a little skeptical that this ask isnt gonna be either trashed mocked or taken out of context by u or someone who follows u. and also i want to remind people that like......... u r not owed access to anyone on socmed. frameacloud and any other blogger is allowed to block anyone for any reason. and its unhealthy to say that ur owed other ppls blogs and posts to platform on. respect other ppls boundaries without villainizing them cuz otherwise ur just opening up a can of worms to lie in. and ik u said in a later post that theyre well within their rights to block u but u also reblogged a post before that calling it censorship. so like... this is what i mean about coming off as disengenuous and troll-y, stuff like this is why even if i liked some of ur reblog i wont rb it. if i rb it and end up deleting it later am i gonna be told by others that im 'censoring' u? if i make a mistake and say something wrong in a tag am i gonna get jumped with a 5k word essay from four different ppl telling me how much i suck? its a hypothetical but only sorta with whats been happening on ur blog and elsewhere in this discussion. its bad form and its not super fair to frameacloud who still hasnt done legit anything yet but block ppl and i really cant say enough how much i dont blame them with some of whats been said n what sort of conclusions ppl r jumping to abt them. (also now that im thinking of the context if u did come across as bad faith engagement to frameacloud then they probably didnt respond to ur ask because it screamed BAIT to them cuz ik in their shoes id think the same. i mean their blog 99% runs on queue...the last post they reblogged that wasnt on their queue was ONE post on the 11th from their boyfriend and be4 that ONE on the 9th...all while u have someone gossiping in a prev ask that they 'often do this'. i can see frameaclouds POV)

like i swear im not trying to start a fight but can u see how this comes off. claiming u want a discussion and then thanking someone who is calling blocking censorship, saying that theyre in their rights to block but then posting an ask that says this blog that makes maybe like two or three original posts a month "does this often", the original aggro all over the reblogs that stem from ur first reblog in the reblog chart... like frameacloud is the one who blocked first but u have to srsly consider why they did + why they refuse to engage at all + what it looks like to ppl outside of the type of syscourse ur used to, like them and like me. if u want ppl to listen, then this isnt a good way to promote the kind of discussions u say u want. it just drives ppl away and maybe it feels temporarly vindicating but its not helpful. i want to see the things ur talking abt talked abt more but if its always going to be like that and theres no way for it to be less like trekking thru a field of mines where someone might blow up at u for something u dnt even realize is wrong at the time then i dunno

...

So, first off, I apologize profusely to everyone for how long-winded I am. I write a LOT, a habit I have always, always tried to break, and I now realize just how much it is to see thousands of words in response to things. This is nearly 1k of words I woke up to right before leaving for my vacation. Talk about wild to read right after waking up. (I also apologize because what follows is similarly so long winded and I cannot figure out how to not do this).

I attempted to write up my response. Took a full day and a half, writing and writing and writing. And here's the thing, I wrote around 3k words trying to explain my perspective, trying to acknowledge what I agreed and disagreed with from your asks, from your perspective, and just...

Dude, I am so fucking done with this shit. Not your asks in particular, but with syscourse in general.

This ask presents me with a damned if I do, damned if I don't scenario. I could leave it to rot in my inbox, but then I'm a hypocrite for not engaging with discussions about things, which is what I say I want people to do. I could finish writing up my 3k+ word response, but then my words are going to be twisted as they always are because I'm long winded and I am just trying my best to (probably over)explain myself.

Or... I can just. Explain as briefly as possible here what I'm feeling, thinking, and doing.

So... Here goes my best shot.

One:

First and foremost, I could care less at this point about frameacloud. Good fucking lord, I have tried to keep their username in my head through all of this, but it's genuinely so hard and I just end up scrolling up. I have never interacted with this user before this, and I clearly won't be again. My beef is not with them. I could care less about this user or their business; they are a tumblr user who exists. Wow!

My upset was about how the conversation was cut off. That's all. That's it. Wow, it sucks how all conversations are cut off when people block others for any reason. I hate how long MY blocklist is, strictly for my mental health. I hate how many people I have to block to keep myself healthy, because it cuts off communication. Is it... condemning myself to saying, "It's a shame that they cut off communication like that" when I've blocked plenty of very vocal syscoursers?

No. As I've said numerous times through all this, people should be able to block whoever they want. Even if I talk about how upsetting that may be, I mean absolutely no ill will to the person who literally should not know I'm talking about how upset I am, because said person has me blocked.

Two:

I don't care why they blocked me. Maybe they personally hate me, maybe they heard about me from who-is-page or whoever (I know I've bumped heads with them in the past once or twice before), maybe they thought I was a troll, maybe they thought I was overly angry, whatever-

That literally means nothing to me other than " :( Fucking goddamn it, that means my response will be hidden."

What I am upset about isn't that they blocked me; I'm upset that the conversation was cut short and hidden in all aspects. By that I mean, I don't care I was blocked and hidden; I care that every single user who reblogged either me or SAS's reply was also hidden. Like. Every single tag was. I don't know if that's tumblr's doing, or OPs doing, or what have you, but again -- it doesn't matter.

All I'm saying is "damn, buddy, that sucks."

Three:

They didn't respond to my ask, and I mentioned that in my follow up post to show I tried to reach out genuinely. I didn't want people to think I was posting this without trying to reach out originally. That was all. It was once again me complaining that the conversation was completely cut off, regardless of the reason why it was cut off.

And here's where I'll address the elephant that I see, or at least the first one.

I'm allowed to be however angry I want on my blog, on my posts, and in my life. I'm allowed to shout, curse, and be pissed off. And no, they don't need to engage with it, and no, I don't need to be happy about that fact.

This is a tumblr blog, sir.

I'm not a medical professional or a debater on a stage in front of a podium. I'm a 26 year old trauma survivor who got upset about a fucking severely ableist post. I think I should be allowed to be a bit pissy about it.

Being told so frequently recently that I need to "be nice to convince people" is such whiplash, because less than a year ago, I was that person. I was the person telling everyone to let go of their anger, to be nice to convince the other side, that everyone needs to be polite. I did this so much that I literally was known as the Respectability Politics Syscourser. That was a legitimate label I used. I was told so often that I was a filthy centrist and that I was worse than homophobic bigots because I was trying to get everyone to just be nice to each other. I got fucking harassed for simply posting "Everyone should respect each other" to the syscourse tags.

Is that healthy?

A topic I discuss most frequently with my therapist at the moment is reclaiming anger. I struggle severely with loyalty and fawning, convinced that if I show any negative emotion whatsoever, I'll be hurt and shoved aside and abandoned by those I love. (Ouch). Here's just a few things I've learned in the past year or so:

Anger is the part of you that knows you deserve better.

Anger is a form of self-love.

Anger is a secondary emotion; what emotion lies under it? (This is the one I struggle with the most)

In... Fall of last year (the exact month escapes me), I ended up blowing up due to how long I had kept myself censored and kept myself "polite" for others. Due to how much anger I'd shoved aside and kept under wraps for the benefit of others. Because being angry would "reflect badly" on me and my friends; because it would make what I had to share less accessible to others.

... I'm done with doing that. Therapist's literal orders. In fact, if my therapist had his way, I would not have a system blog, be part of any system servers, or talk to anyone online who has DID, because the fact fucking is, none of you are safe to talk to. It will always be a triggering space. (Thankfully, my therapist also acknowledges that he is a singlet, doesn't know my brain, and that I am my own person who can make my own choices).

If OP of the post decided to make a big huge post blowing up in anger and frustration at how horrible I am, good for them. If you block me out of anger, good for you! I do not care, because I will be happy you are doing what is best for you. I am happy OP did what's best for them.

And equally, upset that a convo about ableism was hidden.

That brings me to:

Four:

Out of all the shit said and reblogged through that little single blip on the syscourse radar (I think around 10 posts out of 20 in that single 24 hours), I do regret posting that ask about OP "doing this often". That one is on me, and tbh, I'm gonna delete it. It was drama, and I do try to avoid that. I hardly added anything to it, and while I know my perspective on why I posted it, I also acknowledge that it'll do literally jack shit to explain why. So I'm just gonna delete it and move on.

But in everything else, I was only lamenting the fact that every response was hidden beyond those agreeing with OP.

I thanked Candlelight (the first user to call it censorship from what I can see) for stating that the responses were all hidden, but moreover, for mentioning that they didn't agree with everything I said. I spoke on that post primarily driven by anger at Lee's ableism. I KNOW it was not a perfect post. That's because I'm not a Perfect Debater(TM).

All I wanted was A DISCUSSION ABOUT ABLEISM!

(Note: This is commonly seen as yelling; for me, via text, I see this as EXTREME EMPHASIS. Sorry it apparently comes across as yelling! I see it as yelling a bit in my mind, but I can see how the TONE is lost in those cases. Right now, my tone is exhausted frustration, but I see no need to ACTUALLY raise my voice at you.)

I think that's the thing that's pissed me off the most. Everyone and their brother wants to either agree or disagree with me about censorship. I have my own thoughts on censorship (it's basically always bad, but there's nuance on all things, is exclusion censorship, etc etc) but those are not relevant because nobody has even fucking addressed the ableism.

The articles -- linked by OP, but who gives a shit at this point -- came off as ableist. I reblogged OP's post because they are the ones who posted the ableist articles to the DID tags. That is how tumblr is used, is it not? And yes, I expressed my anger... at the articles... on the post that had the articles...

And OP hid those critiques for their own reasons... and I lamented that they were hidden... so I made a post about it while explaining the context ('Hey if you're wondering why I'm making this big huge long post AGAIN, OP blocked my response and everyone elses, and yes I have tried to resolve it, but this one's plan B for getting the word out that these articles and ideas are really harmful online')

Uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuugh. You see why this is so hard to keep short, right? I surely hope so. There's a LOT to tackle here, and a lot of emotions, and a lot of different topics/nuances.

FIVE: RAPID FIRE ROUND (With Review!)

I don't care about otherkin spaces or know shit about them. They're triggering for me. Bluh.

I don't blame OP for blocking me.

I don't hate you or want to attack you for this ask, sorry you feel that way.

If someone deletes a reblog, I just assume they made a mistake reblogging it? Do people attack others for this shit?

I nitpicked Lee's response because Lee's response was the most ableist shit I've seen in a bit, and I did that on OP's post because they're the one who posted it.

I didn't agree that DID does not always need trauma? I explicitly said it is always trauma based? I'm so confused about that point.

Is "Ranting" seen as trolling now? I use "rant" to mean "Shit, I went on for a LONG time." It's synonymous with ramble for me.

I don't know how to break it to everyone, but posting online means it is inherently unsafe, and someone may attack you or blow up at you. It's the world wide web. It sucks. (That doesn't mean it's deserved or that I endorse that behavior; it's just... life).

Ugh.

At the end of the day, I just want to be able to have my fucking disorder and scroll tags about my disorder without seeing:

It doesn't need trauma to form

Traumagenic systems are 'obsessed with suffering'

Endogenic systems are 'healthy' forms of plurality (As opposed to DID)

Yknow. Syscourse in general.

And similar shit.

Is that too much to ask??

Anon; I know this doesn't address all of your points. I KNOW I haven't gone point by point like I wanted to. My original draft did that, but I only got halfway before hitting 3k words, and you seemed... really adverse to a long ra- ramble, not rant. Sorry? Ugh.

Just take this, and I hope this topic doesn't come back to me, because I'm kinda done with it entirely at this rate.

#This is just gonna be unedited #I'm so tired of thinking about this while I'm relaxing on vacation #venting #I'm not tagging this in main tags #I just want it done thx

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raelyn-dreams · 8 months ago

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Hey There! Soo um sending this ask It's pretty uncomfortable for me ik and sorry! I'm a trans venezuelan person of color and I simply wanted to ask you If you would be ok with simply rebloging my urgent help and comms post? I'm seriously looking anywhere to help my father leave the country for a better future and in general live

Please note that you're allowed to refuse for any reason and delete this ask otherwise! And that's it, hope I don't bother and have a nice day!

https://www.tumblr.com/pumpyrunah/747619758623588352/important-update-10052024

No prob! I've been getting a lot of scammers in my inbox lately so I've been checking blogs jic, and this one seems legit 👍. Will reblog pinned, hope the best for you <3

#asks #aid #pumpyrunah

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cirqosmos · 2 years ago

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i know i’m not in the position to make decisions for your blog but if you suddenly lose interest in writing or in K-pop in general, please don’t delete your blog🥹 you’re the only writer i have rn because almost all of my favorite writers here deactivated which means that i will never ever get to read their wonderful works anymore… i love yandere and fairytale genres and you are one of the perfect writers for it! i really adore your works like, they became my bedtime stories lol i’m a silent reader of your works because i’m too shy to reveal my acc obviously why i’m in anonymous😭 you became one of my comfort writers the reason why i don’t want to lose another writer that’s special to me. I may not know you irl but i am your biggest fan. I’m sorry if this is long but i just want to tell you this because you deserve to support for being a wonderful writer. If anyone tells you otherwise, they’re missing out or just blind. Continue to inspire and make people happy! I wish you all the best and happiness in your life inside and outside tumblr. Are you already getting tired of reading? You better not because i don’t really write long letters for anyone. But don’t get ahead of yourself this is just a one time thing🙄🙄

#ily💛

HELPPP I LOVE YOUR SASSINESS IN THE END HAHAHA IT MADE ME LAUGH ILYYY 😭😭 i will treasure this rare and long letters of URS <33 and don't worry anonnie! i understand how u feel cuz I also have a very favourite fic that had disappeared bc the author had disabled her blog, so when i came back to check it a few months later, it's whoosh whoosh disappeared into atoms ?!?!? SOOO GUESS WHAT? I SPENT DAYS TRYING TO FIND A WAY TO GET THAT FIC AGAIN. And I found it after searching for hours by reblogging it in a different way AND I WAS ABLE TO READ IT AGAIN YAYYY !! so haha gotta stop telling bout me but my point is i truly understand how u feel so even if one day if I somehow lose my love for writing, I would never delete my blog cuz i've worked hard with all these fics to just delete. it's nah uh for me ✖️✖️

so don't worry, I won't delete my blog :D it has been my decision ever since I started this blog and SRSLY ANON I LOVE IT WHEN MY STORIES BECAME YOUR BEDTIME STORIES like that rlly aligned w my dream to be a children's book author so thank you, that rlly touched my heart 💜💜 this answer is getting too long haha, but in conclusion. i am so grateful for every word that you spent prob minutes to write, but it's still your precious time so I'm so so thankful for u! thank u very very much anonnie 💛💛💛

#yuanzfavourite💕

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kurt-cobain-is-jesus-in-disguise · 7 months ago

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TW: MENTION OF PEDOPHILIA, SEXUAL ASSAULT, CHILD PORNOGRAPHY ETC. ETC

Do not read if these topics trigger you

Okay, so I finished reading the book 'Lolita' by Nabokov like a week ago (it deeply disturbed me and you don't get the amount of hate I have for Humbert Humbert), and I got curious about what I'd find if I looked it up on tumblr. And figure you I got traumatised. I found this blog (there's prob many other similar blogs, but I don't have the nerves to search them up) from an (old?) man, who reblogs porn stuff of young girls (most of them look underage) and comments this creepy and disgusting shit under it, sounding very similar to the things Humbert did and said, if you make it a bit more modern and the language dirtier/less poised.

Now, this wasn't meant to have much to do with the book itself and more about this blog that deeply appalled me and I'm unsure what to do about it. I'm pretty new on tumblr compared to prob lots of other people here, so knows anyone what I can do????

Bc like....it wouldn't do much to report him, would it? His blog would simply get deleted and he could make a new one, right?

I know I probably can't do much but I'm so disgusted by this man, whoever he is, and its so horrifying that he and all those other men even get the possibility to post this stuff here, on tumblr, or literally anywhere else, like....

So, if anyone knows what to do, please, for the love of God, tell me bc I this is terrifying and utterly disgusting

Thanks :)

#sorry if this is messy asf #help please

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ildottre · 1 year ago

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Info thing :]

General;

✧ Name is Kane, I am an adult. Any non fem aligned pronouns. Neos/xenos as well (ae/aer/aem, xe/zir/xem, star/stars/starself, love/loveself. Collecting like Pokémon cards lmao)

✧ This is a roleplay blog for Il Dottore from Genshin Impact. May also include segments time to time, but focus is on Dottore. Will also be referred to as Prime. Canons or OCs, either can interact if wanted :D. If an OC though, please have some sort of info post / given info. Just general facts are alright, just give something so there's something to work with lol. Preferably also the relation to Dottore so I have something to go off of. (Ie, enemy/rival type relation, friend [close or new], seen as chosen family or actual like family, etc. Just relation stuff so ik how to react to stuff)

✧ Main OOC blog currently is @dottieroses . Can talk there as well if you'd like. Technically a sideblog, so you'll see l0velyr0 in likes and stuff but same person lol

Should be noted;

✧ This is based around Dottore. Which means it will have unsavory topics, considering how he is. So that being said, 16(/+) is the age encouraged to interact. Anyone can technically interact OOC, and RP wise, but still. Just a warning ahead of time.

(I know I can't really force anyone not to interact. This is just a warning. Topics may be mature, so for those if you're young, I encourage you to not interact w those.)

✧ Prime is the main one here that will be used. A lot of info isn't out, so it might seem OOC. There will be a lot of personal HCs. There will probably be things that seem off to yall. Segments may also be used, but that will only be time to time. Overall it is what it is, will try to be IC appropriately, but this is also for fun so. Is what it is

✧ Some things may seem specific in terms of character relationships. For example, Pantalone already has an existing relationship and that will be considered if replying to a Pantalone IC. Relations will be considered + there will be some thoughts on already existing ones. Some will be shaped by responses etc.

Askbox rules;

✧ Do not be disrespectful OOC. It's one thing for characters, as they may have a hate/dislike type of vibe. Or that type of relationship. But OOC wise, do not. Hate is not encouraged. If you send an ask just to hate just block and move on lmfao. I will not respond to such asks, it'll just be deleted.

↳ if you have a legitimate issue with something, send a respectful ask or a DM. Sending a hate ask will just be ignored and deleted. Please also consider that it may come across as annoyed/angry so there's also a possibility of accidently seeing it as that. Use tone notes (like what tone is/going for) / tone tags if needed ^^;

✧ Do not start drama or try to include me/this blog in it. I am not interested. If you're gonna start something, don't include me in it. Also goes for main blog.

✧ Do not send NSFW or any inappropriate images/things. To the askbox. OOC AND RP. If it happens, it happens, but DMs. That will not be public. There will probably be minors here so none of that. I will only do NSFW with other adults of legal age. Otherwise no.

Tags;

~ Behind The Scenes 🎭🍷 — OOC tag. Just for anything that isn't in character pretty much. As a side note, anything with the 🎭🍷 emojis will prob be for OOC as well

~ Things of Note — Important stuff. Things like announcements, notes, likely chara info/profile stuff, etc. Basically the 'should be noted' tag

~ Asks Answered 🎭🍷 — General answers for asks, anything outside of RP. So any OOC asks n stuff will have this when answered!

~ Art tag 🎭🍷 — A r t

~ Inquiries Looked Into — IC ask answers. Asks that are answered IC as Dottore

~ The Doctor is In — Could be a starter tag, which'll it'll probably be used for that the most. But pretty much anything for roleplay. So will also be used alongside the IC ask tag and the like.

~ Check - Ins — Response thing, will be used for reblog responses

~ Segment is speaking ; (name) — Used for when segments are used, plus whichever's name. pretty self-explanatory I think. Will probably make a list for em tbh

꒦꒷ [ Name ] ꒷꒦ interactions — Pretty much for whoever interacts. Chara wise + for anons. Will be specific to the person or character of course! ^^

Other;

✧ Anons :: {N/A rn}

✧ Askbox is open, interactions are open. Feel free to interact if you want to :3

✧ Asks may take a while to get to unfortunately. Tumblr may have also eaten it. So if it seems like I've ignored it, I have not, I probably just haven't seen it or gotten to it yet.

✧ Length varies. Can do semi-lit to full on literate, often multiple paragraphs. Honestly depends on what's preferred and how much is returned.

I think that's about it,,I dunno, if needed will edit. Anyways hello there ppl :]

#~ behind the scenes 🎭🍷 「 OOC 」#~ things of note 「 important 」

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eponymous-rose · 7 years ago

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Dating stuff:

I mentioned chatting with a cute girl on a dating site and that’s still going really well and I’m enjoying the conversation a bunch, but I also heard from several dudes and decided to just go for it and set up a couple dates and...

I may actually be done with trying to date guys altogether, man. Had a very, very nice first date on Friday night with a dude who shared a lot of interests, but there were a few red flags. Any female friend I mentioned had him ‘casually’ going, “Oh, was that a romantic thing?” When I mentioned that I don’t eat beef or pork but it seriously doesn’t bother me that he does, he kept ‘jokingly’ prodding at how little sense that made, even after I told him I knew it was a weird thing and shut down the conversation a couple times. He offered me a drive home afterwards and kept ‘jokingly’ going too fast, revving the engine, etc.

Fundamentally, I know I overthink stuff, but someone not respecting minor boundaries ain’t someone I’m gonna trust to respect any other kinds of boundaries, so after worrying about it for a couple days (I mean, I had a huge party on Saturday and another date on Sunday), I sent him a message today saying that I just didn’t feel a romantic spark, would be interested in continuing to hang out in a platonic way (he brought that up as a possibility on the date when I mentioned to him that I’d had some very scary experiences with dating not too long ago!), but also understood if that would be too uncomfortable and wished him well.

... yeah. Dude called me up in a fury, saying that I didn’t ask him anything about his life (he grilled me constantly, I had trouble getting a word in edgewise), and how he’d never had anybody in all the years he’d dated met someone as inconsiderate as me. It turned into the world’s most obvious guilt trip, made me realize that he’d clearly planned to have this ammo at the ready to soothe his own insecurities, at which point I instantly stopped feeling bad, told him, yup, that’s on me, I’m the worst at caring about other people, you’ve cracked the code, Sherlock, but that I wished him the best and thought we probably shouldn’t try to hang out again.

The way dudes react after being “dumped” (it was one date!!! I had someone I actually really liked say “sorry, it’s not working out” after like a month of awesome dinners and my response was “aw man, that’s disappointing, but I wish you all the best!” and then I went home and got weepy and ate some ice cream and got the fuck over it; I’m not a paragon of emotional maturity but even I figured that one out) unfortunately seems to be the best litmus test I’ve ever discovered as to how much I’d even want to date them in the first place.

Now I get to wait and see if this dude’s gonna be like the last one I stopped seeing after one date who friggin’ stalked me and slipped handwritten love letters under my door for months. I feel sick.

#probs to be deleted so don't reblog please #misogyny///

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funkytoes · 5 years ago

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i know we all like to make fun of baby boomers for not understanding the humor, trends and memes of us youngsters but i, a millennial who is not even thirty, am already confused by the humor of the youngsters of today-- worm? wig snatching? i am so lost i have no idea how to relate to The Kids i’m always just hoping i can figure it out by context and not make a Fool out of myself 24/7

#funky's personal tag #please don't reblog this haha I'm probs gonna delete because it's just a stupid shit post #but #I really do get so confused lmao #but to be fair i rarely understood millennial humor haha #that's what I get i guess for never having tv growing up and living on a literal rock out to sea #and being homeschooled most of my childhood #so this post isn't quite accurate #i don't have great understanding of /anyone's/ humor lol

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ohimsummer · 3 years ago

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✰ READ THE SIGN

FIRST THINGS FIRST:

— have some age indicator in your bio or I will assume you are a minor (17-) and block.

I WRITE FOR:

JJK, AOT, OPM, MP100

spam reblogs are okay! please don't spam like me, i enjoy not being shadowbanned (also it's kind of annoying) </3

i interact with a few forms of dark content (blood/gore, dubcon, yandere), and write for it occasionally.

my inbox is always open!! send anything you'd like! 🫶🏾 sometimes replies are slow, dw I am still keeping your ask/s safe and sound under a snuggly blanket in my inbox :333

( any hate will be deleted or clowned on, it depends on my mood :3 )

my blog is mostly 18+, so MINORS DNI. if I am following a minor, you can tell because I prob don't know.

i will block blank blogs who also don’t have any posts. reblog or get off my lawn !

i will not write anything suggestive or nsfw for aged-up characters. if they don't have a canonical timeskip/adult version then i won't do it.

i will delete/ignore any asks that don’t follow my rules or make me uncomfortable!!

do NOT interact with me if you fall under this or basic dni criteria:

MAPs/p*dos, racists, zoophiles, terfs, proshippers, homophobes, transphobes, ableists

stealing/plagiarizing

#summy's rules #settin up my blog a lil more :3c #dni #do not interact #dni list

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garoujo · 2 years ago

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hi feel free to delete this, i dont have very many followers and was hoping for this to reach more people.. I've never done anything like this before so please bear with me

my son (4) was just diagnosed with type 1 diabetes, we're currently in the childrens hospital and the equipment for checking his blood sugar that our insurance covers (specifically the part that pokes his finger) doesn't work. (the doctors and nurses tried to see if they could get it but the needles for the poker are just too small/don't produce enough blood and we wont be able to use it) we talked to the pharmacy and its the only one our insurance covers sadly. being a stay a home mom i wont be able to afford a new one that would work for him so i was hoping if anyone has the extra money to help us be able to get a new one i would appreciate it greatly (it would be around $15 a box and the box would last anywhere from 1 month to 100 days depending on what my local pharmacy carries) i do have enough for the first box, but being a stay at home mom i don't have a income and am afraid of not having the money for the next one. anything could help so much (but please do not donate if you cannot afford it!!) my cashapp is $ivygracem (i will happy provide proof that your money went towards the lancets for him if you want me to)

i’ll post this 4 u my love ! but you’d probs be best making a post about it w all the details so that it can circulate & be boosted / reblogged etc <3 !

#ֹ ۪ ᥫ᭡ : [emmails]#ഒ : [mommy without milkers]#u could even link ur cashapp if that’s wat it’s called !

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dayandnightitsjustlife · 3 years ago

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Looking for people to follow!

Hi! i've been a tumblr user for 10 years! and i have been relatively low/inactive for the last few, and in that time, i've followed thousands of blogs, but i'm realizing many are super inactive these days!

I am fine with spoilers, especially if you tag them, i'm interested in most fandoms (i don't know a ton about some of the newer ones like Dream SMP and 99% of Kpop) but i'm open and willing to learn, however if you make your own art/writing/content, if you reblog things you find funny or cool, if you are active and in the current lore of the website ie the wizard blogging community, i would love to follow you!

please reblog this, because i want your followers to see it too and know that i want to follow them!! you can also just like it if you want, and if you have any blog suggestions, throw them in the replies, i'll read through em

I know this is an annoying post, but i genuinely want new people to follow! I'm gonna put some of my fave fandoms in the tags (don't worry i'll probs delete this post in a few weeks after it get some reblogs, so i won't spam those tags forever)

anyway, thanks, if you do interact, if not, hope this didn't bother you too much, hope the day treats you well, and you are healthy and happy!

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nikki-ships · 3 years ago

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((KAOMOJI IS LINK FOR CARRD))

If a post is tagged "reply don't reblog" or "delete later" then please don't reblog it.

MINORS DNI

I'm an avid multi-shipper, so if we have the same f/o you're totally fine to follow me :3 It is likely I will post some throuple content of me, my s/o, and our mutual f/os, too lol

This is a very self-indulgent blog, so this is a warning lol

Not everything here will be soft, fluffy, and cuddly. There is going to be angst, there is likely to be NSFT. Tags for the like will be listed below so you can blacklist if you decide you still want to follow:

Angst: #sad boi hours

NSFT: #lemon

Hardcore NSFT: #grapefruit

Suggestive Stuffs: #suggestive

More to be added as I realize they are needed.

I have every intention of tagging triggering/hardcore content (nsft or not) with appropriate tags, too. I probably won't rebl9g much hardcore NSFT tbh, but it's a just in case cuz some of my F/Os' content is LIKE THAT.

Just block them if you don't want to see them.

!!I'm not here to make people uncomfy!! I genuinely don't wanna do that hay fhsjd

I just wanna make selfshippin friends and have fun q3q

Other tags of note:

#nikki art

#nikki writing

#nikki talkin

#selfinsert ref (all reference sheets/designs for my selfinserts are here)

#other self shippers (where I will reblog other peoples' arts/writings, probs mostly arts lol)

#beloathed (a tag for my enemies lol I dont wanna craft tags for each of them)

#tag rambles oops (tagged when I ramble in the tags instead of the posts lmao)

(These ones are subject to change if I find something better to call them lol)

Art Series Tags:

#Lipstick Kisses: The Series

#pinned #nikki talkin #self insert #nikki writing #nikki art #other self shippers #self shipping #self ship promo #selfinsert ref #lipstick kisses: the series

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moonchair · 7 years ago

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oh dear if i ever reblog something reposted please do tell me i'll delete it i don't think i'd usually notice

okay eve!! i even have accidentally reblogged some reposts way before i started making gifs so i understand that a lot of ppl probs wont be able to identify reposts. whenever i see someone on my dash rb reposts, esp ‘old posts’ that i cant tell who made the content, i usually just suck it up (unless they’re someone i talk to v frequently) bc i dont want to be annoying and like how am i supposed to explain its a repost without providing the sources jfkdfjks so yeah now i know i could just tell u if i see a repost so its all cool

#p-hantasticpheels #ask

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thurisazsalail · 2 years ago

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- blog about whatever you want, it's YOUR blog. You want 15 side blogs with different aesthetics? GO FOR IT!

If anyone tries to be whiny like "whaddabout the CHILDREN?" ma'am either supervise your kid, your kid can curate their own experience by hitting the block button, or accept that they don't want to. I'm not making myself "safe" (usually some super conservative xtian idea of safe) on the internet for you and your kid. If necessary, a caption at the top with 18+ Only is enough. ::shrugs:: no emotions about it or you'll burn out fast. Just block and delete the message.

- people use Notes as group chat sometimes. @ their usernames. Responses are limited, like twitter. Also, sometimes the tags are Gold for commentary.

- your posts will live FOREVER. i made a charity post for someone on twitter... a year ago. It had been edited at first to say the need was filled. Then I deleted it. NOPE a year later, the original is going around. If you make any kind of news or charity post, MAKE SURE THE DATE INCLIDING YEAR IS ON IT. Most of us don't realise that deleting the post or the BLOG doesn't matter. It's there forever if someone reblogs.

- unless you are SUPER POPULAR, a lot of chats are just Spam. Also, if you ARE popular, Tumblr throttles messages and randomly drops them. You just never see them. I also suspect they do a really bad job of deleting by spam keyword... but they're often legit messages, and spammers get through. Like phone spammers. Endless robo calls but a doctor can't call bc their number is auto-blocked. An email specifically for messages, like if you offered free tarot pulls, is prob better but harder.

- old security rules still exist. Break up your email like { my name / email @ mail dot com } to prevent spammers from flooding it. Paypal + other links sometimes, too? Not having clickable links is harder but tumblr seems to limit those. I have to read the new rules, tbh.

- if posting for help, use the tags and make your help links big and clear

P@ypal: myname

$A: $myname

- screenshots matter. If you are reposting an article, sharing the link is great! Also share important or fun sections by screenshotting, esp if there's a paywall or overlay. Most people don't know how to use an overlay blocker on their browser. An article may also be edited or removed later.

For ex: VICE had a REALLY LIKE SUPER HORRIFIC article they published as News, about secret rich people who get IVs of blood from blood banks meant for accident victims, so they could live forever. This is code for "rich jews are drinking blood for magic," a modern twist on medieval antisemitism. Jewish people are ~1.2% of Americans but make up 40% of reported hate crime targets. 🙄 and VICE published that. Of course, it was taken down. The only proof of it is screenshotted.

- omg I'm old. I have to tell people that how the internet works now is NOT secure at all and life before FB meant that you do NOT put all your diagnoses, age, location, etc anywhere on your freaking profile. It's fine if you decide to talk about, say, being autistic and finding like people to Follow and talk to on here. Please for the love of god, attempt some veneer of anonymity online. Cops can subpeona your accounts whenever, but you really don't want some 4channers doxxing you because they didn't idk like you being gay, or turning down their shit online. Make it harder.

- TERFs are everywhere and use very subtle language at first. These used to be called radfems, gender criticalists, and other names. These are people who increasingly want fascist things like sterilization for anyone with a penis, classify all people who have a penis as dangerous (and vagina = women, who can do no wrong. If a woman SHOULD do something wrong, she was brainwashed by men!) Shit like that. Like the VICE article, plays on existing trauma.

Use an extension called Shinigami Eyes on pc. It doesn't work on mobile.

If someone reblogs a red shinigami eyes blog, it's likely a TERF blog. I've seen a few false positives from debunkers but not usually. Even if the individual post is reasonable, it's called no-platforming. Any interaction is attention, and they really want attention. Like any group, they get to people by Just Asking Questions, "debating," and making a big scene where they're the victims for being told that... they can't just spread fear and hatred? Idk. But you'll see them a LOT here. And I'm sorry.

Also, tumblr is like twitter, actual fucking neonazis + hate groups are rampant here. You'll have to develop a thick skin, heavy Block button use, and if you really really want to shut down shit, screencap the argument or post with the blog name removed so people can't follow them.

- otherwise, tumblr is really cool. I think I've been here since... 2015? Earlier? I've learned all kinds of things for free and had a lot of lols. I can post photos easily w/ text and it isn't SO hashtag dependent like Instagram. I think you'll really like it, once you get used to it! And I've met a few penpals (with physical mail) here who i swear if life were different, I'd move 1000 miles and set up a commune space with. You might, too. It takes time.

- like with ANY social media... chill out. Log off for a week sometimes. It's good to reset your head with the "real world." Then come back. We'll be here. <3 ... whether you want us to be or not. 😆

I am new here !! Maybe someone could help me out with how it works here.

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