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(I can not and WILL not take credit for this, a beautiful piece of literature that I came across today on Facebook. I found it very relatable and believe it's a message that should be shared .. just to make it clear that even though were are 'mothers' we do also know what we mean, when its said) ... ⁣ ⁣ When a mother says she's tired, that's all she meant!⁣ ⁣ She did not say she wants to drop her son and forget that he or she exists.⁣ ⁣ When a mother says she wanted some time alone, just her, that's all she meant!⁣ She didn't say she's sorry to be a mother and that motherhood was a mistake in her life.⁣ ⁣ When a mother says she needs help to get things done, that's exactly what she meant!⁣ She is not saying that she is incapable.⁣ ⁣ When a mother makes noodles for dinner, it does not mean she does noodles every day of the week and that her son/daughter is a child who does not know vegetables and meats.⁣ ⁣ When you arrive at a mother's house and face disorganization, it doesn't mean that every day that house is disorganized.⁣ ⁣ When a mother says she'd love to go out with her friends, that's all she meant! She doesn't want to go back to being "Single / not a mother" and like it as if she had no responsibility.⁣ ⁣ When a mother says she's worried and afraid, that's what she meant! She didn't say she's going to falter, and much less she's a coward.⁣ ⁣ When you listen to a mother screaming, it doesn't mean she just screams, probably she has spoken 300 times with normal voice tone.⁣ ⁣ When you see a nervous mother, on the edge of madness, doesn't mean every day she's in that situation.⁣ ⁣ There is a whole context, a whole situation.⁣ ⁣ Do not invent untruths to judge someone, let alone a woman who every day, at all times, gives up her own life to live the life of another being that she knows is much more important than her.⁣ In the world there is no human being able to give up and donate as much as a mother!⁣ And they deserve a lot of understanding and fewer trials. ✍️💖⁣ ⁣⁣ #divinefeminine #women #womban #strengt #devotion #unconditionallove #momlife #mothers #postnatalmentor #postnatalrecovery #insperation #poetry #beautiful #art #insperation #hiroshaven https://www.instagram.com/p/BwK-tyTHXZ1/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=15nvwh5antdvw

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Not much longer left to go for the event we have all been waiting for!⁣ ⁣ BUSINESS BABY SHOWER!⁣ ⁣ Tickets are on sale now, treat that special someone .. just because. ⁣ ⁣ Imagine being in a room where women teach each other different ways 'they make it work' whether it be finances, business and family. ⁣ ⁣ Be apart of something great this year, let's connect with each other and watch this network blossom. ⁣ ⁣ Tag a mum who needs to see this opportunity! #Mumtreprenuer #momlife #hiroshaven #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #postnatalcoach #networking #event #mumsinbusiness #babyshower #newbaby #newbusiness #businessevent #linkinbio #eventbrite https://www.instagram.com/p/B7y8JudAxaj/?igshid=sslvssbzhoe7

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"I AM A PRIORITY"⁣ ⁣ Say it enough until you truly believe it. Embrace the fact that without a happy and healthy whole you, there is no happy home. And for that reason alone MOTHERS ARE A PRIORITY. ⁣ ⁣ Housework? it can wait. Rest if you must. Rejuvinate as and when it is necessary. You are not going to feel connected 100% of the time, and this is ok! ⁣ ⁣ Dinner? Order take out, or accept the help, inspiration will not always be there, it will not kill you or the kids to have a day, or 2, or 3 off! ⁣ ⁣ Do not overwork yourself for the standards put against you/us in the day we are living in, because to be quite honest .. to someone out there, no matter how much your doing, you could always still be doing MORE! Bizarre. ⁣ ⁣ So in this very moment, STOP whatever it is you are doing and say it out loud "I AM A PRIORITY".⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ #momlife #newborn #newmom #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #healthymom #positive #happymom #healthymom #healthymind #hiroshaven #postnatalcoach #naturalhealing #workingmom #priority #queen #shecan https://www.instagram.com/p/B7t27rVghNc/?igshid=1b624jgweb42r

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The female mind and body was truly a divine creation. Hiros Havens ethos is to nurture both during the postnatal recovery stage. ⁣ ⁣ Something I have taken pride in with each of my babies is our transition back into the world. Some of us can adjust alot faster than others .. yet the most important thing is that we do it with confidence, support, strength and grace. ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ Building relationships is so important, but never forget the importance of the relationship you have with yourself. ⁣ ⁣ Eat well, speak well, think positively, act positively, watch positive videos, listen to beautiful music and sounds, get out in nature, love and be loved.⁣ ⁣ These small steps all contribute to a healthy postnatal recovery journey and can help both mother and babies transition back into 'normality' be one of the most beautiful journeys you will ever have.⁣ ⁣ #maternitymentalhealth #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #healthymom #positive #happymom #healthymom #healthymind #hiroshaven #pnd #letstalk #postnatalcoach #naturalhealing #getbacktonature #divinefeminine #mothers #devotion #unconditionallove #momlife #newmom #postpartumdepression #newborn #summerbaby https://www.instagram.com/p/B1HhNvCAvxv/?igshid=m58ii15jdnko

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Our ethos at Hiros Haven is to provide an inclusive service for families to prosper on their postnatal recovery journey. Whether that be through the use of our products or services. ⁣ ⁣ I always try to promote a clear message of including dads along this journey too. Yes, as a mother myself I am aware of the difficulty we endure becoming parents, I also watched women in my family for years hold the weight of the family with honour and dignity, their is an unlimited amount of strength that we possess in motherhood. Something that may not come as naturally during fatherhood. ⁣ ⁣ When a young man steps into fatherhood, his ego, masculinity, pride and focus do a huge 360! Especially in a society like todays, it may be deemed as 'weak' to speak openly about his emotions. Or become a running joke at work for requesting 'manternity'. ⁣ ⁣ I'm here to say, there is no shame in any of it. Masking our inner voice with the expectations of others only creates a dark hole, be open .. and positive about the transition and all of the feelings is may come with. ⁣ ⁣ MENtal health within the family requires more attention now then ever before. Do not fail to recognise the alarm bells and speak out. ⁣ ⁣⁣ 'It Takes A Village'.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Support mens mental health. Support new dads too. Check in on new dads this month. Encourage them. They are also experiencing this 4th trimester.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ #postpartum #postnataldepression #postpartumjourney #newdad #newdaddyife #dadtobe #daddy #daddymatters #menshealthmonth #mentalhealth #dadswithpostnataldepression #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #familymentor #hiroshaven https://www.instagram.com/p/BydnCgIAPDJ/?igshid=hcxbdcp27we8

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The mom who's planned delivery didn't go quite to plan⁣ ⁣ The mom who's too scared to ask for help⁣ ⁣ The mom who hasn't left the house in weeks, yet posts daily 'happy' social media selfies ⁣ ⁣ The mother who is always made up, yet never smiles ⁣ ⁣ The mother attending anything social for an excuse to drink⁣ ⁣ The mother ignoring her health and hygiene ⁣ ⁣ The mother laying in bed, staring at the wall at 4am⁣ ⁣ The mother who everyone is speaking about, but not speaking to.⁣ ⁣⁣ If you know a mother at the beginning of her journey then look no further. ⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ For any information about our products or services please enquire:⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ Hiroshaven2016@hotmail.com ⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ #divinefeminine #mothers #momlife #newmom #postpartumdepression #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #healthymom #naturalhealing #happymom #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #lookcloser #support #love #higherfrequency #hiroshaven https://www.instagram.com/p/BxnfYnWhVb1/?igshid=17x5uyi7znexi

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There are so many misconceptions about postnatal depression or baby blues or whatever terminology you prefer to associate with the transition of 'wombanhood into motherhood'.⁣ ⁣ When I speak, it's never from a medically professional perspective, and always from those views of either my own or my clients. Personally experienced first hand knowledge.⁣ ⁣ The one common factor that I have learnt on this journey is that PND has no face, no expiry date and certainly no preferences regarding shape, size or colour of victim. ⁣ ⁣ The truth is, at some point during this transition we will all have a day where we hit a little brick wall and ask the craziest of questions, 'am I doing ok', 'have I done the right thing', 'why is the baby crying', 'are they judging me'. ⁣ What defines the intensity of PND is how long we choose to suffer in silence. ⁣ ⁣ Naturally we build a defence mechanism to protect ourselves and our babies and we want everyone to believe (and can even be srongly convinced) that were absolutely fine. And it's easy to understand why in the day of 'perfection' and 'expectations' that social media have instilled upon us why so many mothers dont speak out. ⁣ ⁣ Hiros Haven postnatal mentoring packages offers a friendly solution to those lonely moments. A light push in the direction of self worth and natural healing. ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ If you know a mother at the beginning of her journey then look no further. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ For any information about our products or services please enquire:⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Hiroshaven2016@hotmail.com ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ #divinefeminine #mothers #devotion #unconditionallove #momlife #newmom #postnatalcoach #postnatalcare #postnataldepression #postpartumdepression #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #healthymom #naturalhealing #positive #happymom #healthymom #healthymind #hiroshaven https://www.instagram.com/p/BxiqYW5B47n/?igshid=z8wm4vgn0wh1

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It takes 2 hands to clap. So join hands with family, near and dear and engage with them the expectations you have regarding their contribution to your family, your recovery and your relationships going forward. Without that communication .. there is nothing but expectations.. which essentially lead to disappointments. ⁣ ⁣ If you need a hand, ask for it. If you need a chat ring someone. If you need a break, let them know. ⁣ ⁣ The biggest mistake we make sometimes ultimately, is assuming that we are either alone or a burden. ⁣ ⁣ Loved ones will help where and when they can, sometimes you have to make the first move and there is no shame in that. This doesn't mean you cant cope. And it doesn't indicate your ability to parent, but as the old saying goes 'it takes a village to raise a child's let that village be your family. ⁣ ⁣ Plan today for tomorrow. Generationally speaking.⁣ ⁣⁣ If you know a mother at the beginning of her journey then look no further. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ For any information about our products or services please enquire:⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Hiroshaven2016@hotmail.com ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ #divinefeminine #mothers #devotion #unconditionallove #momlife #newmom #postpartumdepression #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #healthymom #positive #happymom #youarenotalone #mentalhealthawareness #hiroshaven https://www.instagram.com/p/BxdXa9HBSta/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1008y55a8vaav

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We are living in the very conflicting age of information. Where we have the ability to access whatever it is we want literally at our fingertips. At Hiros Haven we pride ourselves on trying better .. not harder .. daily, learning and creating habits to become stronger and wiser in order to help encourage this ethos amongst others and their families. ⁣ ⁣ These days, time is not much of a luxury as we spend so much of it busy being busy. Looking for the fastest and most convenient options whether that be 'fast food's or searching for nursery and work earlier on.⁣ ⁣ If we truly take a look at the bigger picture .. I'm talking 'stories for the grandkids' and longevity of our 'convenient' decisions, maybe we WOULD all look at our lives and choices more as investments.⁣ ⁣ Nothing is wrong with the odd convenience, however, allowing this concept to take over our lifestyles is truly having such a damaging impact on the little people around us, and even the rate at which we think things NEED to be done.⁣ ⁣ Plan today for tomorrow. Generationally speaking.⁣ ⁣⁣ If you know a mother at the beginning of her journey then look no further. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ For any information about our products or services please enquire:⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Hiroshaven2016@hotmail.com ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ #divinefeminine #mothers #devotion #unconditionallove #momlife #newmom #postpartumdepression #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #healthymom #positive #consiousparenting #convenience #ratrace #norush #slowdown #enjoylife #enjoyyourbaby #guiltfree #mumtrepreneur #pregnancy #workingmom #entrepreneur #hiroshaven https://www.instagram.com/p/BxdMwE8hefe/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=kur5dmerl1g9

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Since our previous post we have received a few enquiries regarding our postnatal coaching and what it is we provide.⁣ ⁣ This is a tailored service designed around any issues you may face during the early stages of parenthood. May that be 5 days postnatal and bonding or 5 years postnatal and an unplanned pregnancy. ⁣ We aim to deliver a friendly and professional service to ease the stress of your circumstances through our non judgemental and free flowing coaching sessions. ⁣ An initial consultation will last anything between 30-45 minutes where we discuss what the focus of our sessions. ⁣ ⁣ Hiros Haven ethos is to promote a healthy and loving postnatal transitional period. We offer both products and services aimed focused on the promotion of a healthy mother and family.⁣ ⁣ If you know a mother at the beginning of her journey then look no further. ⁣ ⁣ For any information about our products or services please enquire:⁣ ⁣ Hiroshaven2016@hotmail.com ⁣ ⁣ #divinefeminine #mothers #devotion #unconditionallove #momlife #newmom #newborn #postpartumdepression #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #healthymom #positive #happymom #happyfamily #familygoals #postnatalcare #postnatalcoach #naturalhealing #hiroshaven https://www.instagram.com/p/BxbxkKihMr0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1p98551uz54xq

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One of my favourite things about offering 1-2-1 postnatal coaching is learning about the diversity of families. I have just finished a 6 week programme with a mother who had been struggling with accepting a pregnancy. She feared her abilities and the amount of time she would have for her young growing family. The funny thing about this programme in particular was the uncanny likeness to my own circumstances. ⁣I was learning as I was advising, and in essence we almost counselled each other. ⁣ As mothers, it's natural to dive into many different currants of emotion and pregnancy only intensifies everything.⁣ ⁣ It's so cliche to dismiss pregnancy and family as a 'blessing'. Ofcourse it is. However in realtime, we must listen to the needs of mothers in order to support her emotional wellbeing. When a woman starts to internalise her thoughts and feelings, it could well be the beginning of a downward spiral.⁣ ⁣ If you know anyone that may require an extra listening ear, friendly advice and non judgemental understanding then send them our way.⁣ ⁣ #divinefeminine #mothers #devotion #momlife #familygoals #family #lifecoach #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #healthymom #positive #babyshower #gift #listen #baby #newmom #pregnancy #hiroshaven https://www.instagram.com/p/BxSPg9WnYYH/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1cxtshf4dw7tj

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Believe it or not, but dads play a FUNDIMENTAL role in both pregnancy and postnatal recovery. He may not have endured carrying the tot for 9 months, but in essence he carried both of you. Emotions run high in fathers too, it has been said that they too develop 'pregnancy cravings' aswell as other pregnancy symptoms and this will be due to the connection the 3 (in twin cases 4) of you share. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I came across an article being shared on social media about a father feeling 'ignored' during the labour of his child *can be found on dadsnet* which was met with alot of criticism and angry commenters. Personally I am a mother myself, so to speak on behalf of a father would be wrong, however I understood the point he was trying to make. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Dads can be forgotten. And this WILL effect not only his bonding ability, but may also put a strain on his mental health. Time and communicationwith both you and baby during the crucial days of 'postnatal recovery' will encourage a healthy recovery aswell as boost his parenting confidence. When Daddy steps in to help, let him. Theres nothing more beautiful than a man becoming a father, encourage this transition.⁣ ⁣⁣ Discuss his maternity leave. Discuss his expectations. Discuss his desires to become a father. Ultimately, this new life wasnt possible without him.⁣ ⁣ #maternitymentalhealth #divinefeminine #mothers #devotion #appreciationpost #daddy #dadsofinsta #fatherhood #mentalhealth #parenting #relationship #growtogether #family #familygoals #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #healthymom #healthydad #hiroshaven https://www.instagram.com/p/BxIHpOhnzBx/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1mfp4wroo4xww

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Postnatal support is EVERYTHING. Make sure when visiting a new mom you respect her sanctuary, but also offer help, love, conversation. Shes still a human after all, but shes also going to be a little raw and maybe sensitive to her new title. ⁣ ⁣⁣ #divinefeminine #mothers #momlife #newmom #postpartumdepression #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #postnataljourney #positive #unconditionallove #love #loveyourself #loveher #respect #relax #sisterhood #hiroshaven https://www.instagram.com/p/Bw9eKk4nrK7/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=cz3jsbv2ni1m

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Friends and family can become offended with your 'harsh', yet practical approach when it comes to certain boundries that are put in place to protect the health and wellbeing of both your newborn and your post natal recovery. Nobody has the right to judge or undermine your BOUNDRIES.⁣ ⁣ Here are a few of my own, that have sometimes caused a little upset, however when met with persistence and understanding they are inevitably respected.⁣ ⁣ 1• No visits from ill children or adults for three months. Yes three. It's only in western culture that we rush out into the world with our newborns to 'show them off to the world' without realising all the harmful elements we are exposing both them and ourselves to. Sickness, disease, toxic fumes can all be avoided if we allow ourselves the time to REST. You will have plenty of time to 'catch up' with everyone once your healthy and healed. ⁣ 2• No face kissing- theres always one who thinks it's ok to stroke the babies face or worse yet LEAN IN FOR A KISS. The answers NO, that's if you were polite enough to care about the fact I can see the crumbs of your breakfast resting in the crease of your mouth. ⁣ ⁣ Both mother and baby deserve the time and respect to recover, adapt and prepare for the outside world and all it comes with. Never feel like your expectations are too much. Make it clear before baby arrives, this could help prevent unwanted disputes with close friends and family, as they sometimes feel exempt to BOUNDRIES.⁣ ⁣ #divinefeminine #mothers #devotion #unconditionallove #newmom #newborn #baby #health #postnatalrecovery #postnatalmentor #relax #pregnancy #healthymom #healthymind #hiroshaven #boundries #respect #naturalhealing https://www.instagram.com/p/Bw9c_5-nJsK/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=x5cp9lfq06wu

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Quick update regarding the netWORK shower that I have on the pipelines. I hope to confirm a venue early next weeks, just going through the dates and trying to divinely schedule the event along with other personal events and my pregnancy. ⁣ ⁣ I have already confirmed the attendance of a few 'women in business' who are excited to be apart of this project, shining light on community, embracing each other and supporting the journey of motherhood aswell as entrepreneurship. ⁣ ⁣ If you are someone who is available to be in attendance of this event, held in Birmingham between June/early July then dont hesitate to contact me to find out more. This will be the perfect opportunity to come along and meet other women in business and share your talents, advice, services and knowledge in a fun and inviting environment. ⁣ ⁣ #divinefeminine #entrepreneur #momlife #workingmom #dreambig #networking #supportsmallbusiness #babyshower #event #insperation #hiroshaven #pregnancy #postnatalmentor #postnatalrecovery https://www.instagram.com/p/BwrnIsFHRZQ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1ko351eqlblm7