#please sir i beg you

[oldirontender]

WHY IS IT NOT ON SPOTIFYYYYY 😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬💢💢💢🤬🤬👹👹👹👹👿👿👿👿🤬🤬🤬🤬

[ponderingmoonlight]

That shot has me in a choke hold

Like fuck, let me kneel in front of you while you look at me like this sir

[tiramegtoons]

[dixidin]

MANLYBADASSHERO LOVERS WE WINNN

[awkwardbakugou]

if we're not talking about this then im not talk cuz UGH! 😩😩😩

[not-the-coffee-machine4]

Me: *tries to see what the Queen fans on TikTok have to say*

*Jim hate*

*”facts” that may or not be actually true*

*”Freddie Mercury was bisexual-“*

*Using Barbara Valentin as evidence*

*thinking things that happened in the movie actually happened irl*

*general misinformation about everyone and everything*

Me: aaaaand back to Tumblr I go

(open tags at your own risk, there’s a whole essay in there)

[lloydfrontera]

i'm also obsessed with lloyd still thinking about javier's looks even when he's five seconds away from dying. he's so upset he's gonna die for javier's handsome ass. he's literally like "you better live a good long life after this you bastard. and i hope you lose your hair and get stinky feet" cause he thinks it's unfair javier will not only get to live but also continue on being unnaturally pretty.

he really said

[cower-before-power]

Do you think Lucanis also recites terrible erotic poetry or is that just a Zevran thing

[centralkvetchmonolith]

This page* from Unmasking Autism by Dr. Devon Price is a great example of why I can't stand Price's writing. Validating autistic existence (and complaining about how autistic behavior gets pathologized) is eminently possible without lying/swinging hard into the opposite absolutes.

Not only does he say "completely harmless" about behaviors that have readily identified harms, he labels common autistic behaviors (which should absolutely be understood, & contextualized as part of human experience) as "healthy", which at its most innocuous is saying that these behaviors are present in otherwise unremarkable autistic people but which I interpret to mean he believes these are *necessarily euadaptive* behaviors. The absolutism of "complete[ness]" and necessity has no place in serious writing about psychology.

Anyway that's the point I wanted to make, but here are some specifics about how these normal and understandable behaviors (many of which I exhibit) aren't harmless:

1) Not noticing surroundings can be super dangerous! Not noticing that people are trying to talk to you is mildly inconvenient (which is a harm)!

2) *Needing* to know what to expect implies that being thrust into an unfamiliar situation w/o information causes distress irrespective of the actual contents of the situation. That's a harm (despite merely being an extreme version of a universal part of human experience)!

3) The more rigid a structure is, the more catastrophically and frequently it breaks. Rejecting deviations often means rejecting necessary activities like eating, or like leaving a dangerous situation.

4) Taking a long time to fully respond to a question is fine. Giving no sign that you're considering — or have even heard — the question is distressing to yr conversational partner. I highly recommend going "hmm" or cocking yr head to the side when you think about things, if this is true of you.

5) Taking information into consideration is a healthy behavior. It is physically impossible to know literally all information about a decision. Depending on your definition of "all", this behavior may lead to spinning your mental wheels while never making an actual decision, which mad sucks to experience and to cooperate with.

6) Alexithymia (i.e. not knowing how you feel) also sucks to experience! Just because you can't name or even identify the existence of a feeling doesn't mean you don't have it! Like the other behaviors I've mentioned, alexithymia has no inherent moral weight.

Anyway! I love being autistic, and wouldn't choose otherwise even if I could, but some parts of it are maladaptive even when the only other people you interact with are also autistic, and I wish Dr Price would acknowledge that.

ETA: apparently it's page 243 in the physical book! Thanks @heightjoke

[archaeos]

I'm a teaching assistant for a class on human evolution right now and I am *begging* my undergraduates to stop using "homos" when they mean hominins.

[kedreeva]

Went to let the birds out and found this furious little (baby) lad in one of the trenches, exhausted from trying to get out of the coop he so bravely wiggled his way into. I fetched him out and let him go outside the pen. Hopefully he won't be trying that again.

[sarahjtv]

I just realized we never got an official artbook from Kohei Horikoshi throughout the entire 10-year run of My Hero Academia. I don't know if mangaka do this during their manga's publication, but it feels weird that we haven't gotten one yet from Horikoshi. I would buy his artbook in a heartbeat if he ever makes one in the future.

[hottreesinurarea]

Don't think about the fact that "dream demon" is probably a title humans assigned to Bill and not what he actually is. ESPECIALLY don't think about how much it others him from everyone else in his home dimension.

[meetingthestarcatchers]

currently having a jakedown

want him to focus on fucking me as much as he focuses on playing the guitar

[kindahoping4forever]

AshtonIrwin: Straight To Your Heart. A dream that's been forming to reality for a long time. Ask me about the creative process in the comments!