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cherrysnax · 1 year ago
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I hate asking but I can’t draw due to chronic pain and my gfs last job literally made them develop asthma and we are very desperate right now. we’ve been surviving off of my gfs last paycheck and my savings and making it stretch but we just can’t anymore
we are two black disabled lesbians in a household of 6. we don’t have many groceries and our main priority is my little brother, my cat and my grandma. my gf is trying to get a job but is currently facing employment discrimination and is getting ghosted and rejected constantly. atm I’m STILL waiting to speak to a doctor because my chronic pain is making it to where I can’t stand or hold anything heavier than a drawing without significant difficulty.
usually I would offer commissions but I’m in too much pain to draw, I’m sorry. I just wanna be able to get some groceries
my PayPal is here
my cashapp is https://cash.app/$silvertheestallion and my gfs is $Peachjammn
my Venmo is @cherryadventure2
thank you for reading
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communistkirby · 4 months ago
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9/15
hey folks, it's the middle of the month, so we're starting our rent post early. we've got $1147 to raise by the 1st of October, and we're still out of a job, so any help would be greatly appreciated!
please share this around wherever you can, including other platforms, but remember:
Dont Tag This With ANYTHING.
cash
ven
pay (ignore my deadname)
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spamton · 2 years ago
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Transgender Household in need of help
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Heya! I'm Kacper, a fully-out transgender man living in the UK. As you may know, the UK isn't very friendly towards people like us. I live together with a West-Asian trans woman and an agender person. We are all mentally ill and 2/3rds of us are employed as of now (last one has interviews booked all over next week), but our current living situation isn't the best. Our rent is extremely high, and we have to move by the end of July.
So, basically... We need help with gathering money for our house deposit so we can move out. Unfortunately with our salaries and our high rent this is impossible at the moment, so we have to turn to you guys for help again. No matter what, our next housing will come to cheaper than what we pay right now, and will make it so living will be better for all of us.
If we do not get this, we will have to move back to our parents houses. In some cases, this would be extremely dangerous, maybe even deadly.
We have all discussed this, and we are asking for £1200 total. Every little helps - we just have to get this sorted by the end of pride month, so we can start our moving process as soon as possible.
KACPER'S PPAL >> [HERE] RILEY'S PPAL >> [HERE] CARL'S PPAL >> [HERE]
Please ignore our deadnames <3 cheers!
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camryn-aisling · 7 months ago
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Last July, I had my first colonoscopy at the age of 26. I was suffering from dysregularity, frequent diarrhea, and cramping. At the time, the diagnosis was post-infection irritable bowel syndrome caused by some form of infectious colitis.
Unfortunately, over the course of the following year, my symptoms gradually intensified and eventually became largely unresponsive to lifestyle-change-based treatment. It's gotten to the point that, for the past two months, I've been having to rely on max dose immodium to maintaining a semblance of normality in the bathroom.
Thinking that perhaps he had misdiagnosed ulcerative colitis, my gastroenterologist prescribed a course of budesonide. Sadly, it was completely ineffectual. As such, I was scheduled for yet another colonoscopy.
A few days ago, on June 20th, less than a year after my first one, I had the second colonoscopy of my life. Many more biopsies were taken this time. I haven't yet gotten the results. Frankly, I'm terrified of what they might find.
To add insult to injury, my insurance has a massive deductible, so I'm on the hook financially for pretty much the entire procedure.
I don't yet know what the total cost will be. Last time, it was about five thousand dollars. With all the extra biopsies this time, it might be a bit more, but I won't know what the pathology bill is for a while.
I've been running a fundraising campaign on other sites since June 11th and have managed to raise a decent amount of money.
Unfortunately, donations seem to have stalled at $2,987.18, a little over $2,000 short of our $5,000 goal.
Thus, I have come to beseech thee, tumblr. I need thy aid. Please help me however you can. For those of you who can afford to spare some money, direct contributions are greatly and sincerely appreciated. If you aren't able to donate, then I ask that you please share this post with as many friends, associates, and acquaintances as you can.
If you'd like to donate, you can use either paypal or cashapp:
https://paypal.me/camrynaisling (please ignore the deadname)
https://cash.app/$CamrynAisling
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this.
Let's go!
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trans-clown-catgirl · 3 months ago
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HEY PLEASE HELP MY HOMELESS GF MOVE TO CANADA WITH OUR ROMANTIC PARTNER
So my girlfriend Daisy cut contact with her pretty damn abusive and bigoted family a few years ago and as a result of housing issues she ended up needing somewhere to stay; she's currently in a homeless shelter in NY and needs the money to get a Canadian temporary residency so she can move in with our partner who lives there.
She needs to raise about 170 USD. With that, she should be able to get the temporary residency, and move out & have some form of stable housing. She's got pretty much no money on her right now, and finding a job in the U.S is absolute hell, so she needs the help. Below is her PayPal. (Ignore the fact her deadname is on it)
If you can lend any money whatsoever it'd mean the world; and if not, please reblog to potentially reach more ppl who could help!!
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nezoriy · 4 months ago
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Hey there. I'm Seymour (aka Stanislav in regular life), a Kyiv-based Ukrainian trans man, and I am crowdfunding for my top surgery.
Long story short:
The price is USD 1875 (75000 UAH). And frankly speaking, that's A Lot for me. So, I would really appreciate any donations, even just a dollar or two. If you can't donate but can share, it’ll be of a great help too.
GoFundMe unfortunately doesn't work in Ukraine and I haven't found any other reliable services which do (pls let me know if you know any). So unfortunately I can only provide my PayPal and bank info (pls do ignore my deadname lol):
BANK INFO
From abroad in USD:
IBAN
UA803220010000026208327480070
SWIFT/ BIC Code
UNJSUAUKXXX
Receiver
MURASHCHENKO STANISLAVA
EUR within Europe:
IBAN
GB46CLJU00997185886387
BIC code
CLJUGB21
Receiver
MURASHCHENKO STANISLAVA
SWIFT
IBAN
UA793220010000026207327851826
SWIFT/ BIC Code
UNJSUAUKXXX
Receiver
MURASHCHENKO STANISLAVA
Моно банка якщо раптом:
https://send.monobank.ua/jar/56y8VGhGBg
Номер банки: 5375411221737971
Long story long:
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I'm an artist, a queer activist, a writer and a LARPer. I'm employed full-time plus doing some side gigs plus trying to sell my artworks, but salaries in Ukraine just aren't that great. I'm making monthly about $1200 and half of that goes for the rent. Some medical bills for my partner and my doggo already left me with about -1750 USD on my credit card. I got another credit card approved for the surgery specifically and my partner and I are planning to move out to a cheaper place in December, but I’m planning the surgery for October, so paying off the debts will be hard for a while.
I know there're a lot of causes closer to home, whenever that home is for you. If I'm honest that's why I try to ask people from outside Ukraine bc here every donation we have to make is for the survival of our people. Something like a top surgery is frivoulos compared to that.
But if you do have a spare couple of dollars, they would make a huge difference for me. The exchange rate is 1USD=40UAH, so yeah. I would be tremendously happy for any donation you can make.
If you donate more than $20, pls get in touch with me (tumblr, instagram and twitter: @nezoriy, @stanmur in telegram), and I'll be happy to do a digital painting of yourself, your partner, your cat, your OC/DnD character etc. For a donation over $50 I'll draw for you pretty much anything you want.
Please share and donate if you can.
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godgavemenoname · 2 years ago
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god i hate to do this when so many other people are in need too, but we need help SO badly right now.
i had to quit my last job because im immunocompromised and i became severely ill after my coworkers got me sick twice in one month. im looking for a new job but work from home jobs are extremely competitive and it's hard to find an in-person job that i can perform despite my disabilities.
my fiancee and i saved enough to barely cover this month's bills, but there was recently a massive power outage due to a storm in our state and all our groceries went bad before they got the power turned back on. we tried to save what we could because it's all we had, but it gave me food poisoning which im still recovering from and so now we're officially out of food. i also have had to go to the ER for an unrelated issue (my severe asthma) and can't afford the short-term medication they prescribed me there, or the asthma meds that will prevent me from having to go to the ER again.
so we really, really need money to cover food & medications for this month. $400 is our starting goal for now. please spread even if u can't donate 😭💕 and please don't feel like u have to donate if you're struggling with poverty as well
(please ignore the deadname on my p*ypal...)
p*ypal: paypal.me/cryptidfriend105
c*shapp: $RaphaelSchmidt
v*nmo: crypticangels
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shouldaspunastory · 7 days ago
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FOR @tevivinter and @dadrunkwriting
Tobias Mercar x Emmrich Volkarin, (SFW, *CW: references to transphobia/deadnaming*, nonbinary rook, he/they pronouns, established relationship, hurt & comfort, found family), 909 words.
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Tobias feels his blood run cold. Ordinarily they'd ignore it. It's not an entirely uncommon name, and it doesn't belong to them anymore. But that voice. Even if it's been a few years since the last time that the elf heard it, makes his heart thump painfully against his ribs. Vishante kafas, they should have known. It was only a matter of time, simple probability that eventually one of their trips back home might carry this result. Minrathous is a big city, but not so large as to avoid them forever.
"Dearest," Emmrich says softly, voice laced with gentle concern, prompting Tobias to notice just how tightly they've begun to grip their partner's hand as the necromancer gracefully spins on his heels to stand in front of them, warm brown eyes searching theirs.
"Sorry," the elf mumbles softly, immediately making to loosen their grip, but Emmrich's ringed hand clasps theirs back tightly, refusing to let them pull away.
"What's wrong, darling?"
That name again in that voice rings out across the busy square causing the elf to flinch almost imperceptibly. But, of course, Emmrich, ever one with an eye for detail, and so achingly attentive, notices, a slight frown forming behind his thin mustache as he glances over his lover's shoulder to the woman approaching them.
Tobias sucks in a long, slow, steadying breath, allowing their head to drop, forehead resting for one brief moment against their lover's chest, before they straighten up, turning around to face the woman that stops in front of them.
"Mother," Tobias greets reluctantly.
"I knew it was you," Claudia Mercar crows.
"Actually," Emmrich interjects before Tobias manages to regain the use of their tongue, "I rather think you have the wrong person."
"I think I would know my own daughter," Claudia replies icily, clearly none too pleased with this stranger, cold, narrow green eyes scanning him, appraising, and based on the sour expression on her face, clearly not impressed. A sharp ache in the elf's chest reminds them they've been holding their breath a little too long, toes curling in their boots with the anxious urge to flee.
"If you think they are a woman, then it would appear you don't," Emmrich replies. His voice is the same calm and steady cadence that the elf has always found soothing, perhaps because he knows just how nervous and uncomfortable his lover is, but there's strength behind it, a fierceness behind those brown eyes as Tobias sneaks a sideways glance up at him. Emmrich's gaze remains fixed on Claudia's, but the hand that still clasps theirs gives them a gentle squeeze. "I'm sorry, my love. When you said not everyone was accepting about it- it didn't occur to me that your family might be among them." Claudia huffs.
"I would have thought you were old enough to recognize nonsense when you hear it."
"You're right," Emmrich nods, brows furrowing as his frown etches itself deeper into his face. "I do. Shall we go, darling," the necromancer asks softly, shifting his focus and wrapping a protective and reassuring arm around his lover.
"Disgraceful," Claudia snarls. "We took you into our house. Gave you our name-"
"Erased my heritage. Tried to shrink me, change me," Tobias spits, anger finally breaking the seal, helping them finally find all the words they've never had the chance to say. "Ignored me. All but threw me out when I couldn't be what you wanted. I was never your child. I was your vanity project. If you think I'm such a stain on your name, take it back. Your surname fits me as poorly as the other one you gave me." Claudia doesn't appear to know what to say to this, nor what to do about the small crowd that is busy pretending not to watch the exchange between them.
"You don't need their name," Emmrich whispers softly into Tobias's soft brown hair, hugging his lover as Tobias turns their back on her and into the necromancer's arms, pressing into his chest, breathing him in and doing their best not to shake from the stress of it all. "You don't need anyone's but the one you gave yourself. But... you could take mine, if you would have it."
It's too much to process right now, the full weight of those words. And knowing Emmrich, the older man will doubtless ask again in private under much quieter circumstances, probably with some manner of help from his skeletal protege. All Tobias knows now is a desire to flee, to be far away- from their mother, from all these curious eyes, and with the man who has never failed to make them seen and safe. "C-Can we go visit your parents," Tobias asks softly, voice barely a whisper as they cling, perhaps a little too tightly, wrinkling Emmrich's waistcoat as he holds them in his arms. Strange as the idea might once have been, the gardens of the Necropolis have become almost as much as sanctuary to Tobias as they have long been for Emmrich. A quiet place of peace, of calm amidst the storm, much like their lover himself.
"Of course," Emmrich replies fondly, pressing a kiss to the top of his lover's head as he deftly steers them through the crowd back towards the Eluvian that can take them to the Crossroads and on to the Necropolis. "They would have loved you, you know," Emmrich soothes gently. "Just as much as I do."
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chroniclyst · 2 years ago
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fucking christ i didn't want to have to ebeg again but here we are
hi! my name is charlotte, or red. i am a disabled bisexual trans jewish system living in st louis, missouri, and i am engaged to another disabled bisexual trans system who also lives here. you know the drill, don't tag with risky tags and only donate if you're financially able (and don't feel bad if you can't!), but please reblog.
on top of the current political situation surrounding trans healthcare, i was in a bad car accident yesterday during a storm and our car has been totalled and my phone was shattered, and i had to go to the er (less than a week from when i had to go for an allergic reaction) where i had the worst medical experience of my life. we are a one car household and i rely on that vehicle for my job. our gas bill is also unexpectedly high, and i need to take my cat to the vet for a dental cleaning.
my mother is going to be helping pay for a new car and possibly repairs to my phone, and our emergency savings will also go towards this situation, but we are going to need help with things like paying groceries, feeding our cats, rent, bills, and more, as i will not be able to get tips from delivery driving which provide a significant part of my fiance's and my income. i'm going to try to raise $750, with a stretch goal of $1000. it's big, but anything we don't use on our immediate survival will be going straight into our savings to try to rebuild.
my pypl dot me is @/redactedarachnid, my vnmo is @/fagdykes, my fiance's pypl is @/gillibeann02, and its vnmo is theroyalratbot. (please ignore his deadname.)
$0/$750
thank you.
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tsami · 3 months ago
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(please ignore my deadname lmao)
Help three disabled queers pay our bills
Hi everyone, I'm Justin, a chronically ill nonbinary transmasc. I've been job hunting since I got my degree in April, but I'm still unemployed.
My wife just got a new job, but it required her to pay $100 for a special license, meaning we do not have enough money to pay for food, or enough to pay our insurance bill.
please please donate! Even $5 would help.
$0/$100
If you can't help, please reblog so more people see this!!
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many-of-mycelium · 5 months ago
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hello !!
we are Many of Mycelium, but Mycel or Mold is okay !! please only call us Myc or Moldy if you consider yourself close to us !! we use they/it/myceliumself/mycself/moldself/🍄self/🍄‍🟫self pronouns !! we are a polyfragmented fictive-heavy adult-heavy system of many !! our host, Star, uses it/⭐self/🌟self pronouns !! another alter, A, uses they/them pronouns, but is alright with mutuals using it/its for them as well !! a third alter, M, uses she/🌈self/🍬self/🍓self/🌠self/🍭self/🧁self/🧶self/🐷self/🦄self/🦩self/🪡self and most cute pronouns !! a fictive of the RED Sniper from Team Fortress 2, Hunter, uses it/he/bug/they/🪲self/🎯self/🏹self/🌈self/🦉self/🦎self/🐊self/🧩self pronouns !! a subsystem, Allison, uses it/its pronouns, while its host, Doll, uses it/dollself pronouns, and the other alter, W.I.L.O.M., uses he/him pronouns !! a fictive of the Pro PRAT Cat, Grimalkin, uses any pronouns, but prefers they/it and radqueer-themed pronouns !! Anonymous, who claims to have come from another world though everyone doubts that, uses he/him pronouns !! he is cischaracter of [secret ;)], and finds it extremely uncomfortable when referred to as anyone but himself (most questions welcome) !! Thief, who has a complicated source, uses any pronouns !! a fictive of Ass Pancakes from Freak Fortress, Pancakes, uses it/they/he/xt/thxy/hx/🔷self/⚡self/🌈self pronouns !! he has a hard-to-read typing quirk that he feels very dysphoric typing without !! Star will provide translations whenever possible (virtually all of the time) !! we may deadname or misgender alters or the system despite not meaning to do so, so please be patient with us !! we are cisautistic and diagnosed with autism, and are questioning (cis-) ADHD, OCD, BIID, a dissociative disorder (we're not sure which one), and schizospectrum (also not sure, sorry) !! it's ok to send us friendly asks, but coining requests and flirting will probably be ignored !! /nm
our opinions often change on lots of things, but we will only be active on this blog when we support inakshatruth (pt: we support inakshatruth. end pt) and we fluctuate between using transIDs and dissomeis !! more about this below !! we are pro-para and some of us are paraphiles themselves !! our stance is pro c for yourmomphilia !! /j
some of us were active on a (now deleted) blog called wantedvisions (or wanted-visions, we don't remember, sorry) !! we also used to coin IDs on acidic-nebula-raincloud (also deleted) !!
we run a build-a-headmate blog called @team-bahtress !!
transition advice:
transautistic: [1 (long)] (link) [2 (long)] (link)
the #transid x alt term shipping tag (link) is exactly what it sounds like
we sometimes post alter packs and (much more rarely) coin terms !!
what's your pfp ?? what's inakshatruth ?? (link)
some of us made carrds with a few of our IDs !! we don't have a premium Carrd account, we just have multiple !!
cw: possibly eyestrain/hard to read (pt: cw: possibly eyestrain/hard to read. end pt)
https://mycelium-star.carrd.co/
https://mycelium-a.carrd.co/
https://mycelium-m.carrd.co/
https://mycelium-hunter.carrd.co/
https://mycelium-allison.carrd.co/ (their collective and separate IDs)
https://mycelium-grimalkin.carrd.co/
https://mycelium-anonymous.carrd.co/
https://mycelium-thief.carrd.co/
https://mycelium-pancakes.carrd.co/
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transgenderbeastieboy · 1 month ago
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hello tumblr ! i am reaching out for urgent help . me and my partner @forestisntonfire are struggling financially Very Badly . we need about $330 to pay rent within 5 days . we also are barely making ends meet between the 4 of us that live in our apartment . i have a cashapp , linked below , and they have set up a gofundme as well , also linked . i hate asking people for financial help but it’s all i have left at this point .
also please ignore my deadname in the gofundme it required a legal name .
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kerryeurodynes · 1 year ago
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help appreciated!
anyway going off this post, between the garage’s money + my car payment and phone bill coming out on the 20th and 21st respectively, plans to get a bit of groceries or get some household things have been dashed. my mother and i haven’t really been able to get any since beginning of october besides a few little things here or there since our food stamps were cut down to $22/mo, so if anyone is able to spare a little $$ to help with any of my upcoming expenses (car repairs, car payment, phone bill, or groceries, since the first three combined are $856 alone ($480 for the repairs, $273 for payment, $103 for phone bill), rounded up slightly for the change values), since help with one helps with all, that’d be lovely! not necessary, but literally anything is appreciated because it’s a Struggle out there and expenses are the worst! car, phone, groceries, whatever. thank you and once again a general blanket Apologies for feeling it necessary to ask! again, totally not necessary, but truly any help is dearly appreciated and helps alleviate a little bit of stress. rbs are fine!
(as always with the caveat of Ignoring Deadnames Please) paypal: @ironheading / venmo: @/eurodynes (without the /, it links to a random blog without it)
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timeparalyzed · 9 months ago
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Hey Y’all, I’m in need of assistance
I’m throwing this out here. My roommate lost his job 2 months ago, and I’ve been supporting us as much as I can in the interim with my job, but I am falling behind.
We need help with rent & groceries so if anyone is able to contribute anything, we super appreciate it ❤️
Pics attached of the status of our situation.
Ca$hApp: $AtlasM94
Pay.Pal: gelae1 or [email protected] (please ignore my deadname)
Censored some words because of the algorithm
Sharing this post is also very appreciated, thanks to all in advance!
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vadvis · 1 year ago
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hi. my shit roommate gave less than 3 weeks notice abt moving out and is refusing to pay bills.
(9/29/2023) i found out 12 hrs ago that my idiot roommate is straight up just not paying their share for october. they gave 0 notice that they were moving until less than 3 weeks ago and made absolutely no implication that they didn't intend to pay bills until yesterday evening when i came to collect from them.
thankfully we have just enough to pay our mortgage + car payment for october but we're fully unable to pay utilities for the time being and will not have money for gas, groceries, cat food, etc. until who fucking knows. thankfully some of our close friends have extended to help in whatever way they can but like. damn dude lol.
i know i made a post about being broke pretty recently but we were just starting to get better and well. this is putting me out around $850 for the month. so.
venmo is kennes64
paypal is [email protected] (ignore deadname ty)
please rb even if you cant send shit because i do not. know what else to do at this point lmao.
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greenslime69 · 2 years ago
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Help us afford a new freezer (and food)!
Yesterday (April 2nd) we realised our freezer had stopped working and all the food in it had thawed, which is a big problem for us.
I live with my mum, we're both disabled, she has terminal cancer, and I am her carer. Having a working freezer is important because we often don't have the time or energy to get or cook fresh food, and with unplanned hospital stays it's always a concern that non-frozen food will go off before we can get home and eat it.
Fortunately, we're both on benefits so I'm not asking for the entire cost of a freezer, but buying one ourselves is going to put a big dent in our budget for the month, not to mention restocking it with food. Any amount of money will help, no matter how small 💚
Ko-fi
PayPal (please ignore my deadname)
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