#please have some compassion
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I feel fandom would get along a lot better if there was mutual understanding that liking a character, agreeing with a character, and thinking the character is well constructed/executed are all separate (if often overlapping) positions, each with their separate tastes and subjectivities. Also: character portrayals are intended to make the audience feel things; this is separate from (if often overlapping with) analyzing/appreciating their actions and role in the story.
#I would queue this because it's truly not character-specific#but there is always something happening with a character so that probably wouldn't help lol#anyway I'm making this nonrebloggable because I am not interested in the tomato throwing atmosphere out there#do not clown in bad faith on this post or in my inbox please I will just delete it#op#it's just over time I do see a pattern of like “I think X character was wrong in this” and some reactions being “you *hate* X character!”#or that if you like a character you *must* agree with them and/or have such a deep an endless compassion for their faults and mistakes#that it comes all the way back around to removing their agency because HOW could they do any different#and if you do not give them this grace then it is antithetical to you liking them or enjoying them or even just being neutral on them#when this is often not the case#like as an Essek and Jonas Spahr enjoyer their fuck-ups are very essential to why they have any sort of “grow as a person” arc#characters *have* to have texture and foibles or they are stagnant in the story - let your fave fuck up a bit! As a treat!#and lastly I'll just say that my point here is NOT that everyone is always positive or that haterism doesn't exist.#Some commentary just seems to happen at different frequencies from each other and it catalyzes more angst than it needs to
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It is impossible to feel pride while riding the bus but this is a new low for me.
#i am not a violent person#but the annoyance I feel when someone is watching tiktok on the bus at full volume without headphones is incalculable#is it that hard to just do something else#i don't need to listen to the same trending sound 50 times before getting to work#please have some compassion
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if you listen closely, you can hear the faint sound of me screeching
#have some compassion#PLEASE#ANNABETH REALLY IS HER FAVORITE DAUGHTER IN LAW FOR A REASON#THATS BABYGIRL#percabeth#THE FACT THAT IT WAS UNPROMPTED TOO???#IT WASNT EVEN WHAT HE WAS GONNA SAY#percy jackson#annabeth chase#percy jackson the lightning thief#percy jackon and the olympians#pjo#pjo tv#pjo tv show#percy series#pjo hoo toa#walker scobell#leah sava jeffries#leah jeffries
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I’ve rewritten this many times but I think simple is best: I enjoyed the cr3 finale and I think the cast deserve to have that happy ending, narrative or whatever be damned. Some of them irl had to evacuate due to the fires and while I understand the people upset by the lack of narrative weight (which is a term I’ve seen being thrown around) I just never saw a universe where Matt (who notoriously loves his friends) would’ve ever done something different than allow his friends to have their characters have their happy (or desired) endings. I don’t want to diminish anyone’s feelings, and I think a lot of the constructive criticism is actually very healthy to express. But god, truth be told, there’s been a lot of rancid negativity in the fandom as of late and with this finale people are lashing out and while that’s a testament to just how much people cared about Bells Hells and their story I honestly think some people just need to sit down and reflect before they type. I know there’s quite a few people who hate to hear it as an excuse but guys, it’s their game. And I think with all of the awful things happening in LA with the fires I think they deserve that happy ending. Don’t forget to be kind.
#cr spoilers#critical role#cr3e121#I’ve been following cr for a while#and I can’t say I’ve always been pleased with how things went#but by god people please have a little compassion#go crazy with your criticism go wild with your opinions#air you greivances#it’s good and healthy#but don’t attack the cast please#and just have a little understanding#sorry if this comes off as hostile or condescending#I’m not very good with tone#I just want to remind the fans that these are people who are going through some terrifying things rn#and while like any company they owe us grace and clarity and to hear our criticisms#it’s always going to be their story
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part of me never left that exile
#dsmp#c!tommy#c!dream#exile arc#dream stans dni#i just started thinking about them again#and i feel like i finally have the skills to draw them#also rambling about some artistic choices i took in these tags#the small disc (get it.. disc) is inspired by Church Prime#i think tommy being canonically religous and the follower of a church founded by dream is super interesting#i imagine the disc he holds as a sort of rosary or other prayer accessory#the church prime symbol is just a cross but i took creative liberties by doing a star#aka a pointy cross#because i didn't. want to mix real life religions people follow in with minecraft roleplay lmao#also like i already said its a disc. not a music one but the Symbolism.#the pin on tommys jacket next to the creeper one IS meant to be a music disc though!#i also tried to mirror the shape of dreams sword and the shape of the cross.#i changed dreams mask a lot from the typical circle smiley face design#because i kinda hate the real life guy with a passion and wanted to seperate the drawing from his branding#and i think the smile is a little goofy.#OH and the disc is also meant to resemble the compass.#also dreams hoodie sleeves are rolled up underneath the sleeve of his tunic because he's horrible.#i tried really hard to make him look insufferable... i think i only pulled it off for me specifically#fanart#dsmp fanart#artsp#dream fans dni#please
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it’s funny how things have gone full circle with malenia. she was so hated when the game first came out, but then people grew to like her. then the dlc came out and now people hate her again lmao
#i mean it’s hardly surprising given what we now know#she did all that awful shit and wasn’t even charmed#like i see people talk about how stupid miquella is because of this plan to essentially trap radahn#but that also makes malenia look stupid af too#‘go to caelid and kill radahn so i can marry him’ ans she was like sure#miquella wanted the one guy in the lands between who loves war and fighting to be his consort for his age of peace and compassion…#what a genius he is.#makes me wonder why he even needs some heavy weight to keep order for him when he can just charm people into submission#was radahn just there as a ceremonial position?#oh wait i forgot miquella thinks he’s super kind so that’s why he wants him#miq learnt about the gravity magic horse thing and swooned#honestly still can’t get over how incredibly stupid the twins look after the dlc#i think people like to imagine malenia was charmed just because it makes it all look slightly better on her part#like they are just making excuses for her#but holy shit the fact she was all but willing to fucking die so miquella could bag radahn..#what a thing to die for lmao#and he was apparently present after the battle? but didn’t do anything to help either radahn nor malenia?#instead he was helping a random redmane?#he obviously knew malenia had bloomed but ultimately didn’t care i guess#kind of like ‘oh well if she’s still alive when I get back i’ll deal with it then’#honestly wish miquella had just died in that cocoon at this point#tbh he doesn’t really do much in the dlc anyway they could have made it more about messmer and marika#hell bring melina into it please that would have been more interesting at this point#we didn’t need the dubcon incest plot micheal you could have left that one in the drafts#i gotta get this out of my head it’s driving me nuts#seriously need to move on from this game for my own sanity
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I'm not part of the good omens fandom like I enjoy the show but not to the extent that I feel the need to make fan content for it or go seeking out fan content which is frustrating rn because I don't know if the they're aware of the song Angel by first aid kit and I really hope they are
#good omens#im like they have to be aware of it right#it literally has the line#oh angel cant you see we're free#and#give me love and give me compassion self forgiveness and give me some passion i love you even if you dont love me#if your a good omens fan please tell me you guys are aware of this song !!
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#hey peeps hope you're having a good day today#inbox is turned off until further notice#too much anon hate#and too much suffering that others are experiencing hitting me all at once#this will give me time to kill off the compassion fatigue and recharge#so i can get drabbles done que up some things and catch a break#ill only say this: I'm only human at the end of the day and i can't help or save everyone and I'm not gonna be everyones cup of tea#please be mindful of that before hitting me with a brick instead of hitting the bricks and taking care of yourself#love ya 💙 thanks for understanding
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my professor has an extremely strict policy when it comes to attendance (we are in college which immediately makes that statement bullshit) and i'm sick rn so obviously i don't want to go because i'm in pain and because i run the risk of infecting my classmates but there are no exceptions for makeup work and i've got 2 quizzes to take today and if i miss them my entire grade will go down the drain except i don't really understand the concepts anyways so i'll probably fail the class no matter what but anyways i asked her hey can i just pop in to take the quizzes, then go home and miss the lecture? i will research and learn all of the material that you cover in the three hours of lecture time i'll miss tonight. and she's not answering. and class is in 4 hours.
#all this to say professor: be a human being please.#have some empathy. have some compassion. have some humanity.
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honestly it's just frustrating. you have people finding misogynistic cishet dudes and defending their emotional neglect of their sexual partners because it superficially resembles aromanticism even when the men themselves do not identify as aromantic and are often neglecting their sexual partners specifically because they view a girlfriend as the only type of woman who deserves any type of effort and so if the chick they're fucking isn't their girlfriend they can treat her like dirt. and then when people are rightly like "hey fuck you for defending a misogynist" the same people who claimed the cishet guy who never at any point claimed to be aromantic was aromantic and therefore criticizing his misogyny is arophobia go into the aro tags to despair at how many people HATE aromantics so they can whip a bunch of bystanders into a frenzy because they've heard that people are discrediting aromanticism, and therefore are encouraged to read the original unrelated posts or people getting pissed at someone defending emotional abuse by calling it aromanticism in bad faith or not at all, and so you get a mountain of people theorizing that the attack on cishet aro men was manufactured by TERFs instead of people who think that girls who date guys deserve dudes who don't see them as a freelance contractor they can expect sex from without having to treat them with the bare minimum respect they feel a girlfriend is owed.
#aromantic#aro#cishet aro#like im certain some of its either bait or ppl who just are misogynistic or contrarians#who are just acting in bad faith#but the shockingly high amt of ppl who just could not be bothered to actually look into the source of the 'discourse'#before publishing long completely incorrect theories in response to someone making a clumsily worded poll#if youre one of them or worse you actually interpreted the original conversation in that bad faith#well. thats embarrassing. work on your reading comprehension and compassion so this doesnt happen again#bc as an aro guy myself i dont rlly wanna have my identity used as a shield for sex pests please and thank you
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tag the fucking epilogue spoilers or i'm gonna come to your fucking house and kill you with my bare hands
#yeah i still don't have it and won't for a few days because updates are slow for me#so can we all PLEASE behave#show some compassion#bg3#baldur's gate 3#bg3 patch 5
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Mental health family stuff etc.
There's something really mentally wrong with my Grandpa and nobody seems to give a damn they just think he's an asshole and so he's just going down that hill he's also stubborn as hell so that's part of it to I think he needs a psych eval I think has an untreated mental illness and he needs like mood stabilizers maybe and I think it might be too late um and the reason I think this is because one time when I was in college he was helping me try to fix the turn signal on my car and his hands were shaky so he was telling me how to do it we were using a ratchet and he told me like see you don't need a man to do this for you women can do anything men can do. And every now and then he says something like that and it's like wow you have a really compassionate heart. One time on Facebook he posted something about God or prayer and someone replied something like I didn't know you believed in that stuff and my grandpa said something like "if your wife had breast cancer you would pray too". Idk I believe he's a really good person but when he gets around people other than me he acts completely different at times it just makes me think something is wrong to make him act badly but maybe that's the optimist who believes in everyone until the bitter end in me.
#sometimes when i go home he tells me hey please come visit your grandma again soon she really likes having you around#or like he told me one time my ex aunt who i hate was being ugly to my gran because she repeated a story she had told her before#so like he has a good moral compass i think something is making him lash out some mental pain or chemical imbalance and hes had to accept it#i know this because i act the same way sometimes and i dont like it i think the same thing is wrong with us
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I don't know much about LOTR but I know Aragorn's weird. He's a weirdo. He doesn't fit in. Have you ever seen him without that stupid helmet? Wait no don't kick that
lmfaoooo
my great hope is that everyone who has not yet watched lotr now observing my unhinged posts will be compelled to watch lotr. i feel this way not only because i think its a beautiful story but also and more pragmatically because i genuinely think that for whatever flaws it may have its a very special phenomenon in filmmaking history.
(i would never presume to insist anyone has to read the books. theyre bangers though)
that said if you, gentle reader, never do watch lotr. and ur seeing my crazy posts. yes. the biggest takeaway from all of this is indeed that aragorn, prophesied king of the realm and the best dude you will ever meet, is a weirdo
many tolkien characters are weirdos in out-of-story-context. and then several tolkien characters are weirdos in in-story-context, too, which makes them great fun. in fact, it could be argued that there's so much cross-cultural race and power-level mixing in the proverbial dnd party (and all subsequent side quests), that every single character is at one point perceived as a massive weirdo by any other given character in the story.
and theyre all the good guys <3
#except gollum hes a weirdo and also a mongrel creature. but still deserving of great compassion <3#dont quote me on this & please remember im always a little unserious#theres some commentary to be made here on neurodivergence of the author & corresponding character traits but i have complex thoughts on#philology of such lables and philosophical quibbles with the concept itself despite its practical modern uses. SO. i wont go there#point stands tho .....#phil reads lotr#and for those jumping to say movie aragorn is too cool or whatever first of all book aragorn is also very cool.#secondly movie aragorn is canonically scripturally biblically a textbook horse girl. WHAT MORE DO YOU WANT
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The one thing I will say: in addition to being reminded how much callousness and cruelty there is in this world, I have been reminded how much love there is too.
To all the people who have asked each other if they're okay. To everyone telling each other to stay alive. To everyone offering whatever aid and compassion and sympathy they can. To everyone getting angry at the people responsible simply because they cannot stand the thought of harm coming to other people. It may not seem like much, but it is so, SO valuable. I see you, I appreciate you, I love you, and you are the reason I am not giving up.
#mel cries about the orange guy#to my friend's husband who is in almost every privileged position he could be in and still texted me sobbing at 4 am because he was so#scared for everyone who doesn't have the safety net he does. to my old coworker who sent me pictures of her cat and said 'don't die'#to the person in the writing discord server who said that art is never wasted and always worth it even in times of despair#to the people whose reactions have been 'here are some organizations I trust whose goal is to help people'#to the people I see asking everyone in the US and other countries affected by this decision if they're okay and if they need anything#to the people who have vowed that they will have to take us all down kicking and screaming and biting and together.#KEEP DOING THIS. It's hard. It's SO hard. But kindness and love and compassion and understanding and concern for your fellow humans#is always ALWAYS worth it. if you take away ONE thing from knowing me please PLEASE let it be that.
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just kinda makes you seem like an asshole outside of your muse tbh
//Okay, enough.
//I'm not the one who started the slur interpretation. The community did. I only bring it up when asks implicitly bring it up first. I'm on this blog because I like writing. I like writing slimy asshole characters because it's fun to come up with wordplay.
//Every other RP blog on Rotomblr expects the courtesy of separating the muse from the mod, and I'm no different. This is a villain blog. Designed to be a villain. Does the Jenny blog get these kinds of asks, with no reading comprehension at all?
//I'm not exactly having a great time right now, so I'd appreciate a little bit of basic understanding.
#pokeblogging#rotomblr#pokemon irl#pkmn irl#ooc#ooc post#ooc announcement#announcement#out of character#//I'm not going to respond to any more of these- I'm just having a shitty fucking week#//Please for the love of god- learn some reading comprehension-#//Figure out how to ignore a made up word that doesn't effect any actually real people#//Tumblr morality doesn't work on me because I base my moral compass on actual harm done to actual people-#//You have a block button- learn how to use it instead of making it everyone elses problem#//... sorry for the tag rant- brain is fucked rn- was almost made homeless yesterday so I'm fragile
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hey, so i’m voting for harris. i don’t like her as much as the next person, but that’s my decision. if you have a problem with that or think i’m lesser than you because of that, go ahead and unfollow/block me. thanks 👍🏻
#this is the only political thing i’ll post i promise#just#i’m tired of feeling disrespected for what i think is right. i really hate to get controversial#but living in a red area is starting to really affect me and the people i considered friends.#have some compassion please.#rachel’s rambles
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