#participation trophies

[poke-of-the-month]

I would like to award the Finalist ribbon to Pippin for getting 2nd place with 29 votes! This was such a fun event and I’m super excited to start up next month’s tournament!

I’m so so happy to announce that Fable has won 1st place with 30 votes for this month’s tournament! Congratulations to our Pokémon of the Month winner for December Dragon Type Tournament!

Please don’t forget to vote for next month’s theme in this form here! The voting will be open until December 20th, when folks can then start submitting their Pokémon for the next tournament!!

[grits-galraisedinthesouth]

Has anyone posted the video footage of the Meghans DRIVER blocking NYC streets?

OPLaura Poirot

*Start of video** "A police interaction in New York because of Harry and Meghan and their driver who was, allegedly, blocking the street to shoo the paparazzi away. Harry's motorcade blocked a street in Manhattan."

There are a total of four black SUV's on the move & the driver might not know that you need express permission from the city to block roads. One of the photographers makes it clear to the officers at the scene." *English chatter about their driver trying this all night.*

"Do you see the photographers who are there being dangerous or disorderly? On the contrary, if anyone has to move away it is the driver who is a part of H&M's motorcade. The special royal treatment that Harry and Meghan enjoyed no longer exists in New York for them."

"As to the details of the possible paparazzi chase, it is still unclear. But they are serious allegations. This evening's videos and pictures, offer a different perspective on the events. " *End of video clip**

From Diane @SisterAne1

Police operation in NY because of Harry and Meghan. Their driver allegedly blocked the road with his SUV. Allegedly to get rid of paparazzi. You can see a situation in which a SUV from Prince Harry's convoy of drivers is blocking a street in Manhattan. Harry and Meghan are (1)

traveling with a total of four of the black vehicles this evening. What the driver probably doesn't know is that blocking a road isn't allowed without express permission from the city. One of the photographers makes that clear to the policeman in this scene. The police (2)

Officers do not see the photographers who are on site as dangerous or disorderly. On the contrary, if someone has to move away, it's the driver of the black SUV in Harry and Meghan's column. The special royal treatment that Harry used to enjoy no longer exists in NY for him (3)

wife. It is unclear what is involved in a possible paparazzi chase. One thing is clear: Prince Harry's allegations are to be taken seriously. as well as the videos and pictures of the evening that give a different perspective on the events. (4)

[never-forget-viva-la-pluto]

Participation trophies are not 'handouts' like many boomers seen to think, the way I see it, they are a product of capitalism making it harder to participate in things and thus event organizers want to create incentive. If anything a participation trophy isn't a "you suck but we are tiptoeing around your feelings" it is a "thank you for taking time on your day off to make up the numbers for our event here is a t-shirt".

It boggles my mind that people think that participation trophies make 1st 2nd and 3rd place trophies mean less, personally if I was at an event and I won 1st, but was only 1 of 3 people to show up, I'd feel like the title meant much less than if I won 1st out of 60 or 100 people, even if they all got a little trophy as a thank you for making up the numbers.

[rogueartistjyn]

CEO bonuses are just participation trophies.

They get them even if they run the company into the ground.

[mylittlesecrethaven]

"Participation Trophies Are Ruining Competitions" Says My Parents Who Got Mad When I Didn't Want To Accept A Participation Ribbon/Trophy Or Whenever I Didn't Want To Keep An Award I Didn't Think I'd Earned

[impish-community-tumbler]

I expect Improvements this upcoming season

when my stuff finally recharges I plan to give this combination a try.

Smoke Screens artillery and AP rounds.

[lesser-mook]

Anime Hype #90: How to make history

This is the same energy as "first female president" ok? Does the Country she's leading get immunity to nukes or something? Special buff stats? Everyone gets free groceries for a week? not the first to do it better. You just did as a female.

Pure infantilization.

[headlesshorsemanxiii]

10000 likes!

Yay. I tapped a button 10,000 times.

I'm really not sure that's particularly something that merits an award, but fuck it, I guess I'm getting one, regardless of my perceived irrelevance of it. . .

[medinabasketball]

The Facts About Participation Trophies: Do They Help or Hurt Our Kids?

In youth sports and activities, participation trophies have become a familiar sight—small tokens handed out to every child, regardless of the scoreboard. For some, these trophies are symbols of encouragement, a way to celebrate effort and foster inclusivity. For others, they represent a troubling shift towards rewarding mediocrity, potentially setting kids up for unrealistic expectations in the real world. But where does the truth lie? Are these trophies truly beneficial, or do they do more harm than good? Let’s dive into the facts and explore the impact of participation trophies on our children’s development.

Participation trophies have their origins in the world of youth sports, where they were introduced as a way to recognize every child's involvement, not just the top performers. Traditionally, awards were reserved for those who excelled, but over time, there has been a shift towards inclusive recognition. This change reflects a broader cultural movement towards valuing effort and involvement, aiming to ensure that every child feels acknowledged and appreciated, regardless of their skill level.

The primary goal of participation trophies is to promote the idea that taking part is just as important as winning. By rewarding effort and commitment, these trophies aim to encourage all kids to stay engaged in activities, helping to build their confidence and sense of belonging. The intent is to create a more inclusive environment where every child, whether they come first or last, feels motivated to continue participating and developing their skills.

The Case for Participation Trophies

Boosting Self-Esteem and Confidence: Participation trophies can play a crucial role in building a child's self-esteem and confidence. When children are recognized for their efforts, it sends a powerful message that their participation matters, regardless of the outcome. This acknowledgment can be a significant motivator, encouraging them to continue engaging in activities and striving for improvement. Positive reinforcement, such as receiving a participation trophy, reinforces the idea that taking part and doing one’s best is valuable, laying the foundation for a healthy sense of self-worth that is critical during their developmental years.

Encouraging Teamwork and Sportsmanship: Beyond individual recognition, participation trophies also serve as a tool for fostering teamwork and sportsmanship among children. By rewarding collective effort rather than just individual excellence, these trophies help instill the importance of working together and supporting one another. Children learn that while winning is great, the true value lies in the effort and commitment they bring to the activity. This approach helps cultivate a sense of camaraderie and teaches kids that success is not only measured by trophies but also by the relationships and experiences they share with their peers.

Reducing Pressure and Anxiety: For many young children, the pressure to win can be overwhelming and lead to unnecessary stress and anxiety. Participation trophies help to alleviate some of this pressure by shifting the focus from competition to personal growth and enjoyment. By creating a more inclusive and supportive environment, where the emphasis is on participation rather than victory, children are more likely to take risks, try new things, and develop resilience. This reduction in competitive stress makes the experience more enjoyable for all participants, allowing them to explore their interests without the fear of failure.

The Case Against Participation Trophies

Potentially Fostering Entitlement: One of the primary concerns surrounding participation trophies is that they may foster a sense of entitlement among children. When rewards are given simply for showing up, some argue that it creates an expectation of recognition without the need for genuine effort. Over time, this could lead to a mindset where children believe that they deserve praise and rewards regardless of their performance or dedication. Additionally, by shielding children from failure or disappointment, participation trophies may deprive them of important life lessons that come from facing challenges and overcoming obstacles.

Diminishing the Value of Achievement: Another argument against participation trophies is that they may diminish the value of true achievement. For children who put in the extra effort to excel, receiving the same reward as everyone else can feel disheartening. This uniformity in recognition might lead to a devaluation of hard work and the accomplishments of those who have genuinely earned their success. Critics suggest that by handing out trophies to all participants, we risk sending the message that striving for excellence is no more valuable than merely participating, potentially discouraging children from pushing themselves to reach their full potential.

Impairing Motivation and Resilience: There is also concern that over-rewarding children with participation trophies can impair their intrinsic motivation and resilience. When children are constantly rewarded regardless of their performance, they may become less motivated to improve or challenge themselves. Instead of developing the drive to work hard and overcome difficulties, they might come to expect rewards without effort. Furthermore, experiencing setbacks and learning from them is a crucial part of building resilience. Without facing the natural consequences of not winning or achieving, children may struggle to develop the coping skills needed to navigate future challenges, ultimately affecting their growth and development.

Psychological Perspectives and Research

Studies Supporting Participation Trophies: Research has shown that participation trophies can have positive effects on children's self-esteem and engagement. Studies suggest that when children are acknowledged for their efforts, it boosts their confidence and encourages them to continue participating in activities. This recognition can be especially beneficial for younger children or those who may struggle with feelings of inadequacy. By receiving a trophy, these children feel valued and motivated to keep trying, which can lead to greater involvement in sports or other group activities over time. The reinforcement of positive behavior through awards is seen as a key factor in nurturing a child’s willingness to engage and grow.

Studies Criticizing Participation Trophies: On the other hand, some research points to potential drawbacks of participation trophies, particularly concerning their impact on motivation and achievement. Critics argue that when rewards are given without regard to actual performance, it may undermine a child’s drive to excel. Studies have found that children who receive participation trophies may become less motivated to push themselves and strive for success, as the distinction between effort and achievement becomes blurred. This lack of differentiation may lead to complacency, where children do not develop the resilience needed to handle failure or the determination to improve.

Balancing the Pros and Cons: Given the mixed findings, many psychologists advocate for a balanced approach to recognizing children's efforts. While it’s important to encourage participation and celebrate effort, it’s equally crucial to help children understand the value of striving for excellence and the reality of competition. Psychologists suggest that awards should be tailored to a child’s developmental stage, with younger children receiving more inclusive recognition, while older children are gradually introduced to achievement-based rewards. By combining participation trophies with other forms of recognition that honor true accomplishments, parents and educators can foster a healthy balance that promotes both self-esteem and the drive to succeed.

Practical Approaches for Parents and Educators

Tailoring rewards to a child's age and developmental stage is crucial for fostering both confidence and growth. For younger children, participation trophies can boost self-esteem and encourage involvement, while older children benefit from the introduction of achievement-based awards that recognize their progress and accomplishments. Balancing these forms of recognition helps children appreciate the value of both participation and excellence. Parents and educators can further support this by promoting a growth mindset, emphasizing effort and improvement, and setting clear expectations and goals. This approach helps children understand the difference between participation and achievement, encouraging them to strive for personal growth while valuing their efforts.

In the debate over participation trophies, there is no one-size-fits-all answer. These awards can play a positive role in boosting self-esteem, encouraging teamwork, and reducing pressure, especially for younger children. However, they also carry the risk of fostering entitlement, diminishing the value of true achievement, and impairing motivation. The key lies in finding a balance that nurtures children's growth while teaching them the importance of effort, resilience, and striving for excellence. As parents, educators, and coaches, it's essential to tailor our approach to recognition, ensuring that while we celebrate participation, we also prepare our children for the challenges and rewards of real-world success. Ultimately, the goal should be to help our kids grow into confident, motivated individuals who appreciate the value of both effort and achievement.

[mitigatingchaos]

Just A Participation Trophy?

I don’t understand why humans celebrate their births. Everyone who is alive has been born. It is not special. A birthday party is just a participation trophy. -Harry Vanderspeigle

[poke-of-the-month]

November Normal Type Tournament

I would like to award the Finalist ribbon to Cashmere for getting 2nd place with 100 votes! This was such a fun event and I’m super excited to start up next month’s tournament!

I’m so so happy to announce that Rover has won 1st place with 113 votes for this month’s tournament! Congratulations to our Pokémon of the Month winner for November’s Normal Type Tournament!

Please don’t forget to vote for next month’s theme in this form here! The voting will be open until November 20th, when folks can then start submitting their Pokémon for the next tournament!!

[grits-galraisedinthesouth]

We have car chase QUESTIONS!🧐

Meghan SMOLLETT's security team flagged down a random taxi cab outside of a Hertz Rental Car storefront.

The driver picked up the 3 Meghans and 1 security guy, drove them around the block for 10 minutes, then dropped them off---- back at the same Hertz storefront where he was flagged down for the pickup. $50 for a 10 minute chase.

1-What disappointing news were they reading on Doria's phone BEFORE the hoax?

2-Maybe they saw The Princess of Wales was (still) TRENDING while The Meghans were the laughing stock in a Hertz dress?

3-Do they look worried about SECURITY? The Meghans arranged for the paparazzi to gather outside of the Hertz storefront and the photographers were planning to follow them out for dinner.

4-Why did they irresponsibly walk through the photographers via the street level exit instead of the Hertz garage?

They have been teasing the public with a car crash scene since megflix.

4-At what point during this enjoyable paparazzi frenzy did they initiate the Operation Paparazzi Chase Hoax?

5-What security team would irresponsibly assign his charges to some random bright yellow NYC taxi cab in an attempt to shake off the paparazzi?

In Megflix Meghan said "safety first." She mentioned driving into a garage to avoid the invisible paparazzi.

6-So why did they seek safety in a strange vehicle instead of the Heartz garage?

The Meghans used their histrionic press release to shut down the distribution of the taxi cab photos and video footage. They claimed the photos were obtained under duress yet the driver disputes those claims.

7-So what is the real reason?

8-If they are comfortable riding in random NYC taxi cabs (with the window rolled down) then why on earth should ANY government fund the cost of their security?

9-The freelance photographers told Backgrid that 1 SUV in their convoy was recklessly driving. Was that before or after the taxi cab ride?

10-In megflix, the Meghans used video footage that violated Diana's privacy, Catherine's privacy and others. Their law suits resurrected footage that violates Chelsey Davey's privacy. It has even opened the floodgates for their suckit squad to harass Chesley online.

They dont really care about privacy rights, they care about manipulating facts to manufacture THEIR TRUTH.

No way would they give a random driver their lodging location.

11-What was the point of the 10 min trip around the block? Were they strategizing next steps?

12-What happened in 10 min around the block that made it "safe" to transfer from a strange taxi back to their SUV?

13-Where were their dinner reservations and for what time?

14-We know Meghan is capable of falling apart with tears from 1 or both eyes, so what's with her post-taxi cab facial expression?

The actress is not frightened or upset. She looks like someone searching for a rock that she can crawl underneath.

A walk of shame before an alleged 15 minute pit stop at a local NYPD station where no police report was filed. They basically stopped to get directions🤡

This seems like a psychological operation gone wrong. It reminds me of the day Meghan arranged for paparazzi to snap photos of her sitting with Ralph Lauren models (talking to the air) amongst Cressida and other members of the "glossy posse" at Wimbledon. The same week in 2016 that they want us to believe she was first introduced to Harry by Violet.

Unfortunately for her, she was assigned to the wrong seat but because she had arranged to be photographed, we were gifted with photos of her showing her complimentary ticket and angrily playing musical chairs because she was in the wrong seat.

We watched Meghan contact Serena's team (Jill Smoller) who allowed her to join them in the family box with Anna Wintour who offered her a sweater (she appeared cold wearing black SUEDE in July to advertise the off season RL dress).

My point---The Meghans arranged for the paparazzi frenzy but it backfired. The taxi cab photos and video footage expose them as liars and hoaxers.

They didn't file a police report or press charges against the big bad paparazzi.

15-Did they stop by the police precinct for damage control?

Was it a way to temporarily legitimize their hoax, thereby affording them enough time to make the front pages of the UK papers they claim to loathe?

The digital imprint and permanent digital search engines will be VICTIM Meghan in the ugly Hertz dress. Any criticism of her appearance, participation trophies or hoax is harassment because the papers were bullied (using of the "Diana Card") into printing the 1st side of the story.

"The one who states his case first seems right, until the other comes and examines him." // "The first one to plead his cause seems right, Until his neighbor comes and examines him." Proverbs 18:17

Let's see how they spin themselves out of this web of lies.

By the way, Sunshine Sachs represents Jussie Smollett and Tyler Perry bailed him out of jail and flew him out of Chicago to LA. Just sayin'.

[kraglynn]

Guess who just earned their spammer award.

[the-conscious]

Yeah, I lost my keys three times this week If I'm late again, I'll get fired My car battery is dead Guess I'll go back to bed I got pills I didn't pay again Now my immediate action is required Credit score 315 I don't even know what that means Participation trophies They messed me up, now I'm that guy I'm barely staying alive Got all of these neuroses But people say I'm a vibe So what's the problem if I suck at life? (I don't always suck that bad, do I?) Now 3 a.m., I'm playing words with friends I go to bed, but I'm way too wired Start a new job tomorrow Oh, wait! It's already tomorrow Wash my sheets for the first time in six weeks Found my airpods in the dryer Something is wrong with me Guess I'm just too Type B So overstimulated Now my attention span is shot And I don't know how to stop Routine is overrated I do what I want when I like So what's the problem if I suck at life? My mom tried to be my friend, I never learned discipline Got good at playing pretend, I swear that it's not my fault I wish that I could rewind, wish I had another try To finally raise myself right, I swear that it's not my fault Got all this wasted potential, mommy said I was special My crisis existential, no, it's not my fault Now I depend on these meds to calm the thoughts in my head This is as sane as I get, oh no, it's not my fault

Participation Trophies by madelline, 2022

[moghedien]

So I think in most things, Xan (the gith egg baby) would be like a completely average kid but Lae’zel would genuinely be like “Incredible. Few would be able to finger paint with such dexterity. You can see the images with clarity and passion that most artists would only dream to achieve.” because she would genuinely believe that but with everything he does

[dalishvoid]

My mom tried to be my friend,I never learned discipline Got good at playing pretend, I swear that it's not my fault

I wish that I could rewind, wish I had another try To finally raise myself right, I swear that it's not my fault Got all this wasted potential, mommy said I was special

My crisis, existential, no, it's not my fault Now I depend on these meds to calm the thoughts in my head This is as sane as I get, oh no, it's not my fault

participation trophies-madelline