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there's a lot of aphoic "joke" posts that circle around from time to time and i don't trust ppl who reblog any of them bc even if they don't intend it to be aphobic the post was made as a way to make fun of us and de-legitimize our identities. like Why would u want to spread that around lol
#text#discourse#aphobia#'ace nicki minaj moodboard' and 'sephora asexual friendly makeup' are two that are so frustrating cuz u try telling someone who refuses#to even try to understand aro/ace ppl that it's aphobic and theyre like lol it's just a joke its funny bc [whatever] like. Those were expli#*explicitly made to make fun of aspec people. because they don't like us and don't want us in their community . fucking sick of it#like. use ur brain. just bc something doesnt explicitly say 'all aspec ppl should kys' or something doesnt make it not aphobic#it's the aspec version of those trumed comics with like . a trans man not binding with long hair and they go haha look at this#trender LOL so cringe !!1! And ppl who can get how thats transphobic but not how other stuff is aphobic drive me crazy like ru just trying#not to understand. OK SORRY. RANT OVER.
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i have no problem answering wcifs but if you're gonna send me mean msgs in my ask box bc im taking too long to answer your wcif wherein you ask for the links of 18 separate outfits, thats not gonna make me "work faster" or whatever. i will simply not answer your wcif at all <3 i hope this helps!!
#like i understand wanting cc and typically i am very happy to help people where i can bc i know i have the free time unlike others#but there is this thing called respect have u ever heard of it?? like you don't just get to treat ppl like you are a raging toddler#throwing tantrums and expecting them to work faster just so you can download some pixel hairs 😭#im sorry i try really hard not to come onto tumblr just to complain bc i feel like i do this too often#i really just want this to be a place where i post about things i love ie my ocs but man ;-; that pissed me off like wtf#be nice??? is it that hard? is your ts4 cc really worth being an asshole over? ok rant over
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sometimes i feel so self conscious and intrusive for having crushes on famous irl people, but you guys take it to a whole other level. how are you guys ok with writing smut of real life people? or shipping ppl? like, those are real humans. with thoughts and feelings. why are you playing dollhouse with them? how are you okay with that? am i looking too deep into this??? ive had people write p0rn fics about me before. it feels disgusting and it made me cry. it's so uncomfortable. i don't know if im just sensitive or if you all lack common sense.
#idk. im blocking p much anyone who interacts with my art at this point#i understand being down bad for someone! TRUST ME i understand!!#but making pornographic art and fics about them...? that crosses the line for me#i hope anyone who does this gets better soon#bc to me it just looks like youre all lonely and obsess over unattainable ppl bc u dont see them as a real person#but im sorry to break it to u. they are real. and they deserve to be respected. not objectified#its totally ok to be madly in love with a celebrity (goodness knows i am) but like...please respect them as human beings#idk. sorry for ranting. im considering not uploading anything on here anymore#tumblr has become vile and uncomfortable and i dont feel good here
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btw I don’t know if this is a thing anyone is thinking about but I’m not gonna stop drawing Jimmy as a canary. It’s a lovely bird. It’s still something that’s been really important to his series. There’s no reason to drop the canary headcanon just cuz Lizzie fell into the void.
#warning: don’t open up these tags I went on a very heated and rather unrelated rant cuz I’ve been mad#trafficblr#life series#secret life spoilers#secret life smp#jimmy solidarity#also I’m sick of seeing ppl celebrate Jimmy surviving because they hate the canary curse fans like SHUT UP!!! LET US HAVE FUN GOD!!!#LIKE LITERALLY EVEN IF NOBODY CAME UP WITH THE CANARY METAPHOR WE WOULD STILL BE TALKING ABOUT HOW HES ALWAYS DYING OK WE DIDNT MAKE UP THAT#HE DIES FIRST HE JUST DOES. GOD. so what if some people make shakespeare sounding posts about the curse that I don’t understand. we are JUST#having fun and making connections where we don’t need to BECAUSE ITS FUN. NOT CUZ WE DONT CARE ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE. sorry for the past few#days I’ve been genuinely mad at this fandom’s growing hatred towards its own community.#LIKE IM FINE IF ITS NOT YOUR THING BUT GOD. WE ARENT EVEN DOING ANYTHING 😭😭😭 THE LORE LITERALLY WRITES ITSELF OR IS WRITTEN BY MARTYN LOL#I’ve just been getting SO TILTED man. like ohhh yeah okay ur right i said too much guess I won’t say anything anymore#does anyone else genuinely not know wtf ppl are talking about when they say a certain hc takes over everything about the character#cuz I literally see so much varied Jimmy content yet I’ve seen several ppl complain that ppl ignore aspects of his character in favor of#WHATEVER when I literally don’t see that happening to him. step out of ur circle or something I don’t even HAVE a circle man
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“kyle hates cartman he barely tolerates being around him”
bro you should try watching south park sometime it’s a pretty good show
#i genuinely do not understand how some people can be so vehemently anti-kyman that they can’t even see these two as friends#like??? are we watching the same show?#do you just look away whenever kyle and cartman are on screen together wtf#ok ok sorry for the rant i know a lot ppl don’t like kyman and that’s valid but when i see ppl just flat out ignore aspects of the show#like if you genuinely think kyle hates cartman and hates being around him idk what to tell you#/rant over#sp#kyman#wrentxt
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#ok so mini rant session#i am doing a bit better today - little less distraught over getting fired from a job i thought i was doing pretty good at and i was trying#really hard and genuinely enjoying#and just more baffled because truly i had no warning and i was completely blindsided#i was in the middle of a 3 month trial and i would have a review at the end in which i would be offered a permanent position if it went well#and i thought i was making my way towards that! granted i was still making mistakes but genuinely not of such a great scale i thought it#called for my immediate dismissal#that being said i was still VERY MUCH IN TRAINING. i had only been there A MONTH AND A HALF learning COMPLETELY NEW SYSTEMS#and i was told that i had been there a few weeks already and that i wasn’t catching on quick enough. that there were some areas i was#understanding and others i just simply wasn’t#and i asked what areas specifically so that i could learn more and try harder#and they didn’t give me a specific answer.#ok and so. so. i have this insecurity.#that at first impression people will like me. that they may think i’m pretty or kind or funny or whatever#but then they spend time with me or get to know me and realize that that’s all bullshit.#that i’m actually not pretty and im mean and loud and selfish and lazy and rude and etc etc etc#MASSIVE fucking insecurity in that like that’s why i genuinely don’t have friends or a significant other#and that genuinely i’m just a Bad Person#and when i was fired? i was told ‘a persons true colours show after a few weeks’#so that’s MAJORLY fucking me up.#when i was hired i was boasted to about my boss’s hiring process and how she’s ’only been fooled twice’#and the morning before i was fired in a meeting my supervisor told everyone that i was doing quite well.#so yeah i truly had no fucking warning. at fucking all.#hurt and confused and angry and baffled and did i mention hurt#anyways if you’re still here i’m sorry i know this is not a good look for me
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ASOIAF HOTAKE-Book!Alicent Hightower was not just an evil stepmother, who was a sexist!!!
This is going to be controversial in my opinion. spoilers for HOTD series...
Compared to show Alicent,book alicent was a much more 'evil' stepmother type,a person that definetely makes the reader to symoathize with rhaenyra more. I get it, but...
Alicent is the first queen consort from a non valyrian background that has succeeded in giving a king, dragon riding children and heirs for viserys and even then, her son, was not given the title of heir. She has succeeded in something my apologies that even ceryse, maegor's first wife 'failed' in.
Its my personal headcanon that the hightowers did feel like it's their fault that maegor took Alys harroway as a new wife. I'm sure they were made fun of by other lords, So when the hightowers finally got their respect back, by literally giving targaryen children to the crown, through alicent, they were ofc pissed off that their kids lost their birthright, and viserys inturn was allowing illegitimate children to take over westeros, through the strong boys.
Of course in the books the eminity between alicent and rhaenyra started way b4 rhaenyra even got married and in the books, I highly sympathized with rhaenyra, bc she really was the realms delight, she was popular at court, she did try to befriend and make allies at court,unlike the show rhaenyra, book rhaenyra knowing she was the first female heir did try to get allies, but in alicents perspective, I understand why she did what she did.
Listen, there is no question, the lords that supported alicent's "queens party" in the beginning were defo sexists who did not want a woman on the throne, but alicent had a definitive reason why she wanted aegon to be king, the targaryens are a family that has, before kinslayed. There was no reason for alicent to think that any of her children would've not been in danger from rhaenyra or her descendants. Aegon in the book also didn't want the throne, but what about his son, or other lords who do not believe in rhaneyras right to rule.
An example would be queen Mary, the first queen reganant of england, she eventually executed her cousin ladyJane Grey bc lords were fighting for her to be queen instead of Mary. Jane never even tried to form a rebellion, but people would fight for her right as queen, and listen the rebels and Mary's enemies definitely didn't think jane could be a good queen, the rebels who were against Mary and her beliefs, just didn't want her, and eventually Mary was forced to execute her own cousin, so they'll stop.
Now listen...Alicent for sure wanted her son to rule, she was probably angry most of time bc out of all of andal and westerosi history, it just so happened that it was her children that were surpassed for a woman. In the books, daemon, even made fun of alicents children calling them half breeds, like if I was alicent I would definitely feel insulted, to think that her blood made her children worse and not true targaryens, so to speak.
That anger eventually leaned into hatred,in the books it's is my personal headcanon that alicent just started hating viserys through the end of his life, girl even left his body rotting for a few days after he died, and never mentioned him in her last words.
I'm not saying that alicent usurping was not a mistake, but she was definitely a desperate mother, who eventually did snap, from years of neglect and fighting for her sons rights and became desperate.
#yall need to understand her mentality#no one belived in the patriachy then ok...let alone rhaenyra of all people..#daemon just wanted to be king consort#sorry rant over#hotd#alicent hightower#house of the dragon#aegon ii targaryen#team green#asoiaf#rhaenyra targaryen#hotd spoilers
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#rant time#ok you know what im literally done bc if you’re going to act like my friend only when it’s convenient for you you’re not my friend!!!#like!!! hello??? do you realize how not ok it is to treat people that way??? to make comments that lift them up and make them feel like#they’re your best friend and then ignore them for the next two weeks or whatever??#seriously stop being so fake!!! you should’ve just been a mature person and told me that you don’t want to be my friend anymore instead of#whatever this is#like just tell me if i did something wrong to you and we can move on#because do you understand how terrible it makes me feel every time i’m in a class with you and all of your friends and you act like you’ve#never seen my face in your life??? and i’m just sitting there alone when years ago you would always sit by me when i was sitting alone#because you said you hated when people sat alone#yeah right ok girl i believe you!!!#of course you don’t understand that because you’ve never felt that way#you just ditch your friends every one or two years because there’s new people you like better#well guess what??? if you keep being a crappy friend those people will never be your real friends#like seriously who are you actually friends with??? you’re so fake!!! you constantly talk crap about all of your new friends!!! and then#the second they’re in the room with you you act like they’re your best friend for life#like no they’re not!!! not when you’ve said stuff like how mean and braggy they are and how you don’t want them to get leads over me!!!#well guess what if you want to ditch friends who are actually good people then you’re stuck with mean and braggy people so deal with it#and it’s not just me!!! i feel like you’ve treated everyone like this and it’s so not ok#so anyway i know I’ll say all this and then the next time you try to talk to me i’ll keep acting like it’s fine#but just so you know i think you’re the fakest friend I’ve ever had and i hope someday you get a taste of your own medicine#sorry for the rant lol#lav speaks
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i hate!!! labels!!!!! i hate society's need to put every bit of the human experience into arbitrary, meaningless little boxes!!! i hate taking beautifully unique experiences and shoving them into categories that will never truly fit them!!! i hate taking people's identities and comforts and using them to invalidate their personhood and experiences!!! every single human being is impossibly unique and there will never be a single other person exactly like them and that's beautiful!!! why!!! do we have to break everything down and put it into boxes that are never perfectly the right shape!!!! we are all unique and that makes us all the same!!! let people express their personhood and define their experiences in ways that are unique to them!!!
#spooky.thoughts#i'm sORRY I GOT HEATED AND JUST. AUGH.#this is NOT about individuals finding comfort in labels and shared experiences#this is about society's reliance on labels to define every single fucking thing about people's lives!!!#why do i owe it to anyone else to fit into a label???#why do i owe it to anyone else to give them a label to try and define me with???#and stop!!!! using labels!!! as a way to tell people they don't fit in to that label!!!!!#it makes me so!!!! hhhhrrghghghgh#okay. okay. okay. i'm fine.#i don't understand why we as humans have to try and categorize absolutely every little thing that shapes us as individuals#stop it. we're individuals for a reason.#and if we could just accept that every human experience is unique then i think we would all accept each other a lot easier!!!!#there is no us vs them if we are all just!!!! the same in our individuality!!!!#THE HUMAN EXPERIENCE IS VAST AND INCOMPREHENSIBLE AND YOU CANNOT DEFINE IT IN FORCED BOXES AND LABELS AND UNIVERSAL CONSTANTS#part of this is because i had to read about formalism in art history and it made me angry#part of it is bc i saw the post like. 2 rbs ago. one or 2. the one about friendships/qprs#i just can't tAKE IT ANYMORE#ok. rant over this time.#this time for sure.
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WHAT was the thing del toro said about the human experience and stupid quippy one liners i can NOT find it
#also and this is less important i am fighting for my fucking life out here#trying to be like. yes i understand everyone makes mistakes and has an outlier in their work#because ive heard SO MUCH about how AMAAAAZINGGGG of a director/filmmaker he is#but unfortunately the first and only exposure to his work i have had was tales of arcadia and while#trollhunters was good the rest of it was okay to mediocre and the movie finale was so fucking abysmal im just like.#this guy? this is ur guy? the guy responsible for this?#ok no trollhunters wasnt just good THAT was actually phenomenal. i have my gripes with the ending but trollhunters was fantastic#3below was just pretty bad. i actually like toaWizards but i know a lot of people didnt#the movie. i cant fathom how this movie happened and got the green light at every stage of development#ANYWAYS RANT OVER IM SORRY I JUST DONT KNOW WHERE ELSE TO MENTION THIS#back to topic. wheres that thing he said i need it rn please#mine
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fuck you people who fake tourettes fuck you people who say they want tourettes fuck you people who have made having tourettes into smthn cute quirky and desirable!!!!! i’m mad!!!!!!!! fuck you fuck you fuck you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#this goes for any disorder or anything like. fuck off.#if you think faking this shit doesn’t matter then try like. actually asking ppl that have it???#tried to explain that i had tourettes to my last employer. they thought i was faking it lmfao#bc they had seen people on tiktok faking it so often. they thought i just WANTED to have tourettes. and i didn’t#get the understanding and kindness i deserved until i could explain my dx and who i got it from#so they could know i wasn’t lying. i shouldn’t have to do that much to ‘prove’ my syndromes and disorders#just bc SOME PEOPLE think it’s cool to act like they have shit or they want to have shit. like NO!!! you’re ACTIVELY harming the communities#and you don’t even fucking care!!!!#my tics hurt!!! they hurt so damn bad some days and i’m one of the LUCKY ONES that has gotten less severe with age!!!#and im medicated!!!!!! and i still have days where i just wanna lay down and cry and never leave my room#some of my tics are cute ones. those tics DO exist. i have a few and have had others over the years that are gone now#but then i pop my joints out of place. pop my jaw out of place over and over. snap my head to the side. and again these are MILD compared to#SO MANY OTHER PEOPLE with ts#bet y’all don’t fucking WANT those tics. bet you don’t WANT to be hitting yourselves full force amd bruising ur skin constantly#i’m sorry for ranting in the tags but holy fucking shit this pissed me off#saw some shit on tumblr and tiktok and im. hooooo buddy. fuck you so bad.#ok. i’ll shut up now. tourettes isn’t fucking quirky.#rant tw#tw rant
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I love my job but i rally will never understand the phenomenon of when some coworkers/people that work in different departments alongside u like. Decide they dont like u lol. Like i get along with nearly everybody so so so well but there are these 2 ladies that have been so needlessly cold/rude to me and for what. Why would you create a hostile work environment on purpose like does that not just make your own life harder lmao
#theyre nurses too like....idfk what it is theyre treating me like an idiot that doesnt take covid seriously???#i am literally the only person i know that still masks up in public + wven wears gloves if im going to a place that has high touch areas#yet ive been reprimanded twice for wearing gloves in an elevator (i didnt argue bc it was a fair assumption that i was working w cleaning#chemicals even tho i was actually wearing a fresh pair cuz i didnt wanna get my bleeding fingers to stain the sheets of the beds i make#which was pointless to argue w cuz i DIDNT WANNA BE RUDE LOL)#and then again on friday for wearing a cloth mask which Again was fair bc i shouldve been wearing a paper one#but ive been double masking with the paper + cloth now and this bitch is literally ignoring me when i greet her or wish her a good day#like she Rolled Her Eyes at me when i greeted her today WTF?? i still dont even know her name lol#she didnt even introduced herself or say hello or welcome like. she and this other nurse have just decided i suck infinity#i straight up Do Naught Understand like wtf do u gain from being an asshole. i didnt argue i thanked them both for their reminders like.#ok guess ill go fuck myself dam!!!!#ennyways a little worried now cuz i kinda got annoyed when she did that to me today i was just like 'ALRIGHT😐' and kept walking myself lol#whatever rant over sorry its just on my mind cuz its just so unnecessary#theyd know i take this shit seriously if they spent more than 15 seconds acknowledging my existence :/
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In a Min loving mood tonight
#f/o:💙hide in your shell🎹#tape entry circa 1980#i was going on a rant before abt how i love every part of him including the obnoxious smug bitchy parts#that all those parts of him i love too because thats HIM#theres nothing too bad abt him being that way its just a part of his personality and its cute and endearing in ways tbh#and ik how to talk to him because i understand how his mind works#plus he doesnt actually get as angry as he did in the astro-queue ep because that was specific circumstances#but ik very well when to step in if he was ever to act so cruel again towards ryan#but hes not ACTUALLY like that and hes gotten better abt acknowledging his part and finally being able to say sorry#and hes been shown that he is just... SO so so... caring... and so sweet#the way hes able to comfort and calm someone down... reassure them that its ok#just god the way he talked to kez when she was blaming herself get me feeling so soft#the gentleness in his voice too... god i adore him i LOVE him mi bebe... mi peluchito...#i so badly need to hold him close and press kisses all over him#esp on his pretty face on his nose and to squish his soft cheeks dghfjs#i want to run my hands through his messy hair in the mornings 🥺💙💙#i adore him i adore him i ADORE HIM#i want to be sat next to him as hes putting together a song on his synth#maybe we can play something together 💙💛#ik our voices would sound so nice together...#his soft sweet voice and my deep soulful singing i think would be so nice...#just to spend a quiet moment w him i just need to be by his side#to make some kind of stupid joke that just makes him bust out laughing 🥺💙💙 he has such a sweet laugh...#i just want to see him smiling wide and to look at me w those gorgeous dark eyes and to see in them just how much he loves me
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ngl people keep bitching about tumblr's choices to basically skullfuck their own UI as if the average user has any bearing or influence on the choices made and its starting to irritate me.
it can't be unique as a platform because shareholders and investors are generally high risk to maintain and most corporate teams do whatever the trend is to play conservatively to old men with money who have no idea how the average user interacts with social media. they literally hire everyone to do that research for them.
and you can insist that tumblr is worse; but it isn't and has always been like this. I understand the frustration, and I even agree with it. But can we stop being naive for five minutes and accept that no matter what if a social media platform is funded by corporate wealth hoarders that they will never give a shit what you personally enjoy doing with a website at least?
i use tumblr because it works and for no other reason. if it stops working for me, I follow the rules of capitalism and fuckin leave. This is why the free market sucks! because its blind competitive growth that means ultimately extremely nothing, and CEOs can just claim failed websites as tax deductible expenses if and when they fail.
They will tell staff they care about user retention. The staff believes them. They are being lied to, and so are you. Use the service as long as it is useful to you. That's it.
#like im sorry i just am about to start blocking mfs that keep regurgitating this shit#'wahhh tumblr is trying to be twitter' YEAH because twitter WORKED#and its only NOT working now because it was bought by an attention seeking 12 year old who didnt want to to be twitter to begin with!#like i understand that we prefer a different blogging platform but god the status quo really does not and will not care about that#you dont affect their bottom like the way you think you do!#so at least acknowledge that its not a question why they dont seem to do 'rational' things!#capitalism is not rational!!!!#and what you see as rational socialization is not how corporations view profit margins! sorry!#idk running a business has made me extremely jaded about both sides of discourse like this bc people always act enraged or confused#like this is new shit we are just now stumbling on instead of it being historically how social media has worked forever#lmao#ok sorry rant over lol
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oh yes you were at court! i forgot that was at the start of that post lmao. i've been to court twice when i was super young for drinking underage and then smoking lool it was so boring and long and shit but thankfully you were just there for moral support, i hope it wasen't such a bad thing your friend had to deal with! I remember seeing you post about moving but i forget if it was TO or AWAY from your parents but that clears it up. I totally get you on that though, i'm living at home right now and i feel kind of similar about not feeling comfortable in your own home. Its a bit different for me, but similar enough. Hell my stepdad even sleeps in the living room too! hes always done that so ive always felt like i had to be on eggshells when night time hit. I used to sneak smoking in the backyard back in the day myself, i got caught once when i was in highschool he made me throw all my pieces out which sucked big time. ahhh i love that, art! you should totally show more stuff on here too, at least if you're comfortable and its not stuff you'd wanna sell, i would absolutely love to see any of it 🖤i've dabbled in writing poems and things i planned to make songs, although only recently. I've always wanted to be a musician but my attempts at learning guitar over the years have never ended up lasting long and i try to learn singing but i just dont really think i can. plus i was always afraid of self expression so i never wrote until a few years ago. i still do, because music is so important to me (which is why i did pick 🎤!) and it makes me so happy but yeah. i have 2 shows im headed to in a few months even so im so excited 🥰my day though has been so boring, i mostly played video games and watched youtube videos. watched another episode of a show i've been watching called Silo, which i absolutely love. im so surprised you had room in your tags still after myself lmao, but i do that same thing i always talk in the tags! also i'm giving you tons of hugs and kisses 😘🥰 - 🎤
Hi hi hi ☺️ how are you doing lovely? 🥰
#I’ve actually never even been inside a court house or room (still haven’t since my friend didn’t even see a judge thankfully)#but it was interesting ngl walking in especially felt like I was at an airport lol#sorry to hear you had to deal with it twice :( I hope it all ended up ok!#also sorry that you understand the pain of not being comfy in your own home#it really really fucking sucks ngl#dude I would have been SO pissed if my parents made me throw out my pieces 😭😭😭 like 1 that’s my babies and 2 that’s fucking money!!!#lol I was caught in high school too once or twice (but I was a dumbass and smoked inside LMAO still can’t believe I did that????)#I still remember my mom walking in while I was spraying the room and I just fucking fell to the floor for some reason 😂😂#my moms friend was over and apparently told my mom ‘I’m getting high from the fumes’ and ughhhhhh I was so mad#it’s funny now cause wtf who says fumes????#show art like more of my Etsy paintings or my personal paintings?? honestly I don’t have thaaaat many personal paintings#I have one that is a tree that is probably my favorite and I have a few pour paints that I saved when I was first starting#if you’re ever comfortable and want to share a poem or two please feel free to send me them!! (lmk if you don’t want me to post it)#I’ve always been in awe of people who can write poetry or lyrics#I’ve wanted to write songs ever since I can remember tbh and I did back in high school#I had a few classes that I actually wrote songs in but it was just the instrumental - I could never figure out the lyrics#almost failed a class cause I couldn’t figure out the damn lyrics lol#trust me I totallyyyyy understand wanting to learn an instrument but it not *clicking* buuut I personally think singing is different#don’t get me on a rant about how I think it’s sad how most people don’t sing or do art because they aren’t ‘good’ at it#also singing is sooooooooo subjective (think that’s the right word lol) so I think anyone can sing if they want to#music is important to me too!! what type of music do you like to listen to?? like do you have a fav genre or even a fav artist/band rn?#2 shows??! like concert???? who are you going to see?! fuck I’m so jealous! I don’t even remember the last concert I’ve been to ☹️#I’ve never heard of silo but maybe I should check it out! I’ve been looking for a new show to watch ☺️#sorry it took me a lil bit to reply to this :(#my depression was hitting me HARD the past few days#I’m feeling a lil better now but still kinda funky#I’m dogsitting Wednesday-Sunday and I’m super duper excited for that!!! just gotta get to Wednesday ☺️#thank you for the hugs and kisses 🥺🥺🥺 they’re super appreciated 🤗#you’re amazing 🥺 I’m squeezing you and giving you the bigggggggggggest hug 🤗🤗🤗#🎤 anon
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i also never "hated" being a woman. in fact i spent a long time trying to be a girl in different ways - being a tomboy, a girly girl, a lesbian, bisexual, straight - i didn't transition to escape oppression or whatever. sure i have some trauma, who doesn't??? the trauma actually made me postpone my transition, not run straight into it. if you call me a woman, that's fine, i love women, i find them respectable and im honored you think im cool in the way women are. im not one, but im flattered! we love women here! most of my friends are women! my mom and i have a great relationship! i have plenty of strong powerful women to look up to in my life! i just don't think terfs take the time to get to know any real life trans people who actually transition fully and live their lives that way. some terfs I've seen accept that there are at least SOME transsexuals in the world but others just straight up deny our existence entirely. which is so baffling to me.
#barks#transphobia#ok NOW rant over LOL SORRY#i get in a mood sometimes#i just dont understand their thought process like if its none of those things then why would i be trans??#i have gender dysphoria. i transitioned to no longer have gender dysphoria or at least decrease the amount that i had#im not making any claims about why or how im trans - genuinely idk. im not a scientist or a doctor#all i know is i have dysphoria and so i transitioned. its that simple really it is
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