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#not to be weird and parasocial#but it’s so trippy to me that when she was planning the tour years ago#London was going to be a homecoming show#and was going to legit be her hometown show#and now it’s a place she used to live in#time doesn’t it give some perspective etc#and I wouldn’t be surprised if a year ago she was probably dreading this run a little#and now she’s surrounded by all her friends and family#including her ***** who she didn’t even know when this tour was planned#(because at the time she thought she was going to ***** someone else)#like time is not real and also all things will pass etc
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not to sound like a boomer, but I need some people to learn how to write emails in a semi-professional (at the very least) format so you're not cold emailing a business/potential employer/any other stranger about formal matters in the exact same way you'd DM a close friend on instagram
the formality/language can loosen up in the email chain once you've established a rapport and you match the other person if they're being less formal, but please don't have the very first email you send a stranger be written in all lowercase ultra-casual sms slang with no greeting or signature and a billion emojis
#this sounds like a 'argh kids these days doing [insert exaggerated story they don't actually do in reality]' kind of thing#except that I've gotten soooo many emails like this#there's a reason that I don't have my DMs open on any socmed and it's bc they attract people getting way too casual/parasocial immediately#and forcing people to write out an email both filters out 90% of weird impulse messages and also throws them out of that casual headspace#except that I can actively tell when this fails and someone is treating emails as if they're the same thing as DMs
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SYDNEY BOY CHRIS (and Sydney Girl Berry)
#he's so. he's so........ he is so..................................................#SO#he even goes to all my fave food joints....#OUGH#so lucky i have some weird thing about seungmin bc the parasocial delusions bang chan inspires are like. lets not talk about it#lmaooooooo#bang chan#christopher bang#stray kids#skz#skz gifs#bystay#createskz#jesskz#stray kids gifs#skzedit#skzco#skz talker
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Small doodle! Have fun to the VAs and fans who’ll be at SDCC.
#dragon age#dragon age the veilguard#lace Harding#Neve gallus#lucanis dellamorte#emmrich volkarin#DAtV#my art#wish I could go but ah well#across the globe as always#hope the folks have fun#super excited to hear Lucanis and Emmrich’s voices#but I don’t think it’ll affect my affection for them#if anything it’ll be more fun#also hope fans don’t get too weird with them#esp after I’ve seen what happened to the bg3 fandom and VA parasocial nonsense
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Here's a cute cat and some tits or whatever
#it's just gonna be selfies and shitposting from now on#no more parasocial oversharing cuz someone made things weird#i shouldn't be sharing as much as i do anyway tbh
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Comes out of the parasocial relationship covered in blood & filth saying "you should see the other guy ;)", meanwhile the other guy is posting my weird ass anon messages to their followers, exhausted with my shit & perplexed as to why someone would say that to strangers
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Have been seeing some.. questionable interactions with the BG3 cast on social media and feel like this needs to be said.
Actors (VAs) are not their characters. That line seems to become blurred especially with such an open cast that is actively sharing and commenting with fans and on fan content. These are people who have partners and children at the end of the day. We have to be respectful of that if we want to make the space comfortable for THEM to exist in and want to interact.
#bg3#baldurs gate 3#this is mostly pointed towards tiktok thirst posts of niel#and also uncomfortably parasocial bordering on hitting on cast members#and halsins va being a wildcard and getting some uhhh weird comments bc he's being silly and it being taken the wrong way#anyway my two cents
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Feel so sorry for dick, Jason is out there doing all the most sick and twisted and personal things he can to ruin his day and dick is like I literally don’t know you
#leave him alone Jason it’s weird#parasocial relationship#we talk abt dicks identity crisis but what abt Jason’s#who would he be if he wasn’t stealing dicks old ill fitting selves
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dear God, please take all the suffering of the Dead Boy Detectives cast, double it, and give it to Netflix executives
#stares at people getting parasocial about Jayden Revri. and people getting upset at George Rexstrew for deleting his Insta#people are also being proper weird about Joshua Colley and shipping him with one of his co-stars in another movie#how do people actually bring themselves to ship real fucking people who have not said they are dating. you are an absolute weirdo#also didn't Jayden accidentally post his number at some point?? i heard#and in general. how gutted they all must be about their show's cancellation#they are going through it#ace's random thoughts :)#dead boy detectives#dbda#the dead boy detectives#dead boy detective agency#the dead boy detective agency
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EVERYBODY SHUT UP!! Luke releasing a rock-arrangement of Liliana…. actual tears running down my face there’s no way I can be normal about this
#not to sound parasocial but he did that for me personally#what if I said Crushing Defeat to be posted 2 May in honour of The Sonf That Made Me Weird?? haha jk…. unless#oxventure#oxventure-adjacent anyway idk how else to tag this
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Guys did anyone else think it was a little weird when in the TIT after party live stream when they said "What if Dan and Phil just fused?" And then they just literally fused and the chat chanted "FUSION" for the last thirty minutes of the live? I just don't see anyone talking about this part.
#it's just so weird like idk :/#seeing them fuse on live was kind of parasocial idk#dan and phil#daniel howell#phandom#phil lester#phan#terrible influence tour#dan and phil terrible influence#dan and phil tour#dan and phil tit
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In case you missed it, Jaiden just uploaded a new video! Congrats to her for 10 years of beautiful, funny, and heartfelt storytime animations!
#Jaiden Animations#Jaiden#Jaiden was one of the first YouTubers I ever watched consistently#(The second; to be exact)#I literally never used to use YouTube. I don't know why it just didn't interest me#and the idea of following content creators was weird to me.#''Why be interested in them? They're just random people. I'm just watching their videos I don't really care who they are or what they do''#(I actually had that mindset until VERY recently)#The pandemic made me watch a lot more stuff and after getting my arm twisted by a friend into watching a certain SMP series#I started watching Phil + Techno because I liked their characters#then I was like ''Oh they're pretty funny people even outside of RP. I like them.''#and then I sorta understood why people liked creators for more than just their content#The parasocial thing is still odd to me#but I understand it better now and WHY it happens now that I'm closer to the whole content creator sphere than I was before#Anyways long tags. Go watch Jaiden's video#Youtube
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Honestly one of my favorite stupid reddit takes was that guy who said George should have been more grateful that he got to witness John and Paul's relationship up close for so many years. Girl he almost murdered them and so would I and so would you.
#he was deadass like 'cant believe how ungrateful he was that he got to witness that friendship up close when we'd all kill to do that'#girl youd kill IF you did that#honestly though it was kind of a weird take#I understand people who think he should have been grateful to get to be in the same group as them#i don't agree but i understand#but this felt like such an extreme example of a fan projecting their own parasocial weirdness onto people who actually knew these guys#like you realize john and Paul aren't a theme park right?#the beatles#george harrison#paul mccartney#john lennon#beatles#shitpost#op
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ally being a stabilizing force at the table rather than a supreme agent of chaos is truly wild to watch
#never stop blowing up#dimension 20#i try to keep myself in check w this stuff and not be weird w respect to public figures#but i’m sorry i am so parasocial about ally beardsley i just am#i’m deeply invested in this absolute stranger#and am so chuffed to see how they’ve evolved as a player and how they’re establishing their role within this new adventuring party#ally beardsley ur good at your job what can i say
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FUCK Liam Payne! I will no longer support OT5 and I don’t even want a 1D reunion anymore. It’s so disgusting how so many of you defend these boys actions, but especially Liam, in light of everything that has come out. Maya Henry has every right to speak about her experiences. And it’s gross that I’m seeing literal threads and tweets upon tweets of people calling her a liar and saying all these horrible things. You’re proving Liam right! “No one will believe you anyways and the fans will always defend us!”
Is that not absolutely horrifying to yall? That this man is weaponizing his fanbase against women that he has treated poorly? And yall continue to enable him! Everything Maya said in her recent TikTok was true! Yall defend this abuser because of boy band nostalgia? What the fuck is wrong with some of yall? It makes me sick. It’s always “believe women” “believe victims” until it’s your fave, right?!
We don’t know these people! “He would never do that…” YOU DONT KNOW HIM! These parasocial relationships are going too far.
What’s scary is based on some of the stuff Maya said, I wonder if this is only the tip of the iceberg with Liam. He’s probably done so much shit we don’t even know about. Maybe even the other boys???
I know I’m ranting and no one probably cares but some of the tweets I saw defending Liam were so triggering and upsetting. Trending hashtags like #FreeLiam and #WeLoveYouLiam when a woman CONFIRMED that he abused her is just so sickening. This is why women don’t come forward. This is especially why victims of celebrities and people in power don’t come forward. Because this is how they’re treated. Maya literally even confirmed that Liam and his team have tried to silence her and didn’t want the book to come out. I just… there are no more words.
This whole situation is so triggering… I’m so angry and upset.
Fuck Liam Payne and Fuck all of yall defending him.
#Liam Payne#maya henry#one direction#tw abuse#if she is lying why isn’t he suing for defamation#because she’s not lying#Liam is an abuser and yall need to accept that#I will never support him again#and I’m side eyeing all of the boys who will continue to associate with him after this#there’s no way they or their teams aren’t seeing the accusations#and I’ve been feeling weird about Zayn too ever since the alleged incident with Gigi’s mom#and some women have implied some stuff about him too so I just#and apparently Niall is a cheater which we been knew#Louis and Harry have their own share of drama#the older I get the more the parasocialness is wearing off thank goodness#we don’t know these people#I wouldn’t be surprised if 5/5 are actually horrible people at this point#don’t even get me started on none of them speaking on Palestine#I could go on and on#this situation with Liam is just so messed up and fucking with me#like we knew since Maya’s book came out but still#to hear some of it from her own mouth is different kinda#the stories she could probably tell#I feel so bad for her and hope she is in a place of healing and this doesn’t set her back#end rant
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Sometimes you remember Brennan Lee Mulligan and Izzy Roland are parents and you’re okay.
#d20#brennan lee mulligan#maybe we all just took a parental bullet so that kid can have the best time#the bedtime stories#parasocial relationship getting kinda weird#not even jealous just like really happy this kid is going to be okay
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