#none. nor do I want any.

[sskinlikepuffpastry]

while i do agree that saying rhaenyra’s inheritance is rightfully hers based on the fact that her daddy said so is incredibly weak and very much entitled of her (i can literally talk about this at length) it’s also a weak take to say she isn’t the rightful heir because of *checks notes* ah, misogyny. like, come on.

[blusical]

"i miss drunk kane" yeah uh considering the shit that he'd fucking get into whenever alcohol was involved, I'd rather NOT people miss that era, actually!

[izzy-b-hands]

Was doing okay holding back all of the fear re: the potential election outcome until literally this second what the fuck to my brain lmao

[girlfriendsofthegalaxy]

if i could be a real cunt for a moment about instagram interior designers: i do not understand “dopamine decor”. putting things you like in your house without regard for the public’s opinion??? that’s what you’re supposed to do anyway??? it’s your house not the public’s house???

[bibleofficial]

where is my fat husband

[yanderespamton78]

when a regretevator headcanon pisses you off so much that you become a feminist

[spooky-dice]

“fhjy is not sad” some of us are lonely and in tuition deficit!!!!!!!!!!!!

[girlwonderous]

honestly I would like to see a kinda anti-climactic jason leaves the batfam fic where it’s not rly a moral or mental health conflict but Jason just witnessing some event within the batfam and having a lightbulb moment of being like ‘wow I don’t like or enjoy hanging out any of these ppl’ and he just peaces out and goes back to doing what he wants and starts actually enjoying being a 20-something and leaves the bats to be miserable on their own

[caliclover]

nalu needs to stop reading stuff that makes hyr mad. friendly reminder to protect your peace and to not let your emotions overcome you to the point you sink to the opposing side's level. la paz sea contigo

[licorishh]

Most people really don't seem to understand that friendship is a two-way street.

They expect you to wait on them hand and foot as they rant about and constantly pour on you either their issues or their passions and when you finally have something you'd like to talk about you get a "Man that sucks :/" or a "Cool" in return.

Find somebody who doesn't do that. Then you'll have your best friend.

[28whitepeonies]

What's the matter with Louis? Genuinely happy people aren't surgically attached to a cigarette and an alcoholic drink in every photo taken of them.

Mate I dunno what you thought you were going to get from me but as someone who enjoys both cigarettes and alcohol on the odd occasion, and has very limited patience for policing other peoples habits, this response probably isn’t it.

If you don’t enjoy pictures of Louis enjoying alcohol and nicotine to the extent you see it as there being something wrong with either Louis or anyone else, then I would suggest that that problem lies with you, and not with Louis who is posting pictures of his life as he chooses. The commentary this fandom loves to engage in around all of this causes direct harm to real people and just adds to stigma.

You have choices too - you can choose not to engage with those pictures if you find them distasteful, you can choose to learn why the idea that you have the right to police the choices of others is harmful, you can choose to continue to go through life setting yourself up for angst when you can’t control the lives of celebrities. I can’t control you like you can’t control Louis, we’re all just strangers, but I know that when I shuffle off this mortal coil I won’t have spent much time trying to control the habits of a stranger.

[sunlightfeeling]

Saw the girlbossiest car ever…

Bubblegum Pink Mercedes Benz

The driver was also applying lipgloss using their rear-view mirror…what a queen

[facelesspassport]

One of my firmest beliefs is that "safe spaces for men" will not solve the issue of male radicalization and patriarchy. If you want men to stop becoming terrorists you need to target the true source of misogyny: male socialization. Once a young boy is taught by his parents that women are inferior to him he is doomed to bigotry, because he lives in a world that will constantly reinforce this idea and reward him for agreeing. As for adult men who are already misogynists, the only way to convert them to feminism is to stop coddling them (and yes, I see all of the "safe spaces for men"/"male mental health" discourse as coddling). Coddling abusers only enables them (and yes, bigots are inherently abusers)! You can not convince an abuser to change by coddling/gentle guidance as this will only embolden them. We can only make men change by holding them accountable for their behavior as a class, period. I think that the best way to do this on a mass scale would be via reeducation camps, but we all know that westerners would see that as unethical somehow. So, our next best bet would be forcing our governments to create feminist programs that aim to do the following: stop domestic violence, "reform" abusers and rapists with court mandated abuser counseling, and educate young people on gender studies, safe sex, and relationship practices. China has a program called "the Ministry of Health and Family" which was created to stop misogynistic violence, and once it was instated their domestic violence rates plummeted. China did not create safe spaces for men to reduce terrorism- they held them accountable and it worked. We should follow in their footsteps. EDIT: I added screenshots and whatnot. nothing to see here, really Im just kinda seething.

I took screenshots of these comments that i made under the original post because I just knew that OP would block me after I wrote this- not because its any harsher than the other replies (in fact mine was pretty tame compared to some of the responses) but because I am spitting straight facts and OP is a misogynist. I just wanted to repost them here for my own safe keeping and sanity ig. I didnt care for the idea of discussing this with OP directly since I knew they wouldnt be interested in a feminist POV, but I was hoping that my comments would be seen by the audience. It bothers me when people make these huge discourse posts and then block certain commenters solely because they dont want their friends to see the opposing responses. It especially bothers me in this case because as we speak OP is fiercely & performatively "debating" with TERFs who obviously wont change their minds- yet they blocked me immediately (though I wasnt interested in directly speaking with them) because they knew my comments made them look bad, and Im willing to bet that they told themselves they "felt unsafe" or something to justify it.

Like, just say you hate women and go... :EDIT over

There should be actual self-help spaces for men (and especially young men) that aren’t just alt-right recruitment centers.

As a person who was a dude the places I wanted to go to with kind people (usually queer people) had at least a few people saying that “men are trash” or “men are inherent dangers” with no pushback and it scared me.

I’m decently emotionally mature and realized that just because some outliers were assholes didn’t mean the whole place was terrible but what about younger or less emotionally mature boys? They see “oh men are trash” and see no pushback then think “Oh. These people do not like me for something I cannot change. These other people (Jordan Peterson fans) like me for who I am (they don’t but they say they do). I will go to the place I feel safer and happier.”

Without a kind safe space for boys then they will go to these toxic places. I used to read a good amount of posts on r/Teachers and a lot of them are saying the boys don’t respect them, love people like Andrew Tate, so on and so forth. This is what happens when the only “safe spaces” for boys aren’t actually safe.

[n3ongold3n]

Love that my therapist is generally pretty unavailable and felt the need to get needlessly sassy with my health insurance via mail after i tried to to solve things together like - you know - an adult. So now they denied me payment for the therapy i already started shortly before christmas. And of course he's on one of his month-long absences again and i only have one month to dispute the denial. Love that. Love that for me.

[29121996]

for the record ibrlly never undersrood how someone watching u could like makw u feel naked or . like theyre fucking Really Peerjng ibto you. until recently and i Hate This !