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just saw an article-length post about how abusive people are just inherently abusive which. is the absolute wrong conclusion to draw about anything.
#nobody is inherently anything#and to ascribe actions to 'thats just how they are *shrug*' helps nobody#the post had some good bits about explaining the 'why' of some abusive behaviors#but capped it off with 'abusive people just Are and maybe they can change idk but its better to treat them as a lost cause' attitude#like. treating any category of person as just inherently worse than others reeks of reactionary thought#judge people by actions not by perscribed labels. thoughtcrime and inherent goodness/badness arent real.
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the girlypopification of bpd and rampant ableism in said community needs to stop tbfh. also if "narcissists create borderline children 🥺🥺" then by that logic do borderlines create narcissistic children? because it kind of makes sense if you think about it. theres no way you maladjusted assholes are never responsible for traumatizing kids, especially with the recent trend (i see it on tiktok mainly but i dont doubt it exists everywhere else too) of acting like having bpd makes u this. perfect fucking baby uwu victim whos soft and sweet and loving and Better Than Narcissists like. please get help you are traumatizing the hoes
#i was ranting to my friend w bpd (who HATESSSSSSS this trend more than i do) and we uh#came to the realization that my mom probably had bpd#it makes way too much sense. she was neglected and overlooked as a child#and has this nasty habit of either seeing me as a perfect amazing prodigy child#OR a monstrous lazy idiot fuckup actively trying to make her life worse#no inbetween.#so. UUUUUHHHHHHHHHH#that sure was a realization to have on Christmas Day!!#because that constant flip flopping meant i developed a VERY skewed sence of confidence that coexisted within two extremes#and it ended up making me not give a shit abt others' feelings since doing that would get me hurt#if i tried to please her itd hurt. so i stopped caring and only cared about myself and my emotions#so now i have Two Personality Disorders!!#also obligatory disclaimer no i do not think pwbpd are inherently abusiv#nobody is inherently anything#and to think that way is fucking stupid#im not gonna go around squaking about Borderline Abuse and call my mom a borderpath. im not an idiot#im just like. hm. funny!#but not funny 'haha'#funny 'stop pretending youre above being capable of hurt and that your actions arent harmful just bc ur mentally ill'
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shepvance plsplsplsplsplspls 🙏🙏
It is done :]
I just realized gheyre matchies with their ear+face markings
Sketch i didnt like
#no reposting#half life furry au#half life 2#half life opposing force#shepvance#alyx vance#adrian shephard#half life#half life fanart#asks#Art requests#anon#genuinely if nobody asked me to draw him I probably woulda never drawn him again/lh#also sorry this is more about the inherent sensory appeal of Being a furry#all of my furry designs have some aspect to them that makes me wanna pet them#alyx i wanna hold her paws..#adrians soft muzzle#barneys..everything#also gordons muzzle and her fluffy ears :]]]#if popular furry media has taught me anything its that the sensory experience of being a furry is the most important part#so like i think itd be really great if a big fuzzy sheep man hugged a soft fluffy cheetah lady i think thatd be sick
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No no, I don't think sex is bad because it's evil and dangerous, I'm not a puritan. I think sex is bad because its something men like to do, because they're evil and dangerous. Completely different.
#spitblaze says things#obligatory </joke>#some of u jumped ship directly from christianity to leftism without taking the time to deconstruct#what exactly the issues with your christian upbringing are#like just forget 'men and masculinity are not inherently evil and i dont mean in an mra way i mean check urself for terf brainworms'#for a second.#its fine to want sex. its fine to NOT want sex. neither is a more morally or ethically pure stance than the other. its personal preference#wanting to have sex is about as ethically dubious as having a favorite color. relax#nobody did anything lol i saw a post lamenting the anti-sex sentiments in a lot of online wlw spaces#and how much of it is bc 'it makes me no better than a man' as if that means anything#ladies. go cruise at lesbian bars. its fine. be free#anyway if a terf/swerf rbs this in complete seriousness im gonna kill everyone here and then myself#just kidding. im only gonna kill the terf
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Man I really wish I didnt feel bad abt sharing Leo lore outside of tumblr. It is what it is
#id love to feel okay talking abt him in servers or when chatting w others but i have the like#well hes not the commander so he'll be considered inherently less interesting to others and also he isnt Cool Enough in general#tumblr is fine bc im really just talking to myself and people fan choose to interact so i dont feel bad abt it#but I cannot imagine trying to talk about him literally anywhere else bc im like well nobody wants to listen to That#but its okay Like I dont need to its genuinely fine it can just be a little wacky when im sitting there like oh#im sure am the only one who hasnt participated in the talk abt their own oc....#I made an off hand comment about Shipping rytlock and leo in vc and nearly walked into the ocean#things to work on......#Me: Okay even tho it was a short sentence that was way too much information abt ur canon time to never say anything ever again
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well as you can see besides being ugly as all fuck I'm also extremely bitter so that doesn't help at all in making me appealing. but it also comes with the territory you see, being treated as a hideous freak of nature for your whole life kind of does things to your psyche.
also going into shit in the tags as an extreeeemely jaded individual who's been on every side of the discourse and KNOWS it all VERY PERSONALLY so I know many people will find all sorts of different reasons to hate me (if they want ig) because I'm ~politically homeless~ at this point because I'm sick and tired of everything but whatever
(also fuck I ran out of space in the tags so another post maybe idk. )
#so. i get why people are against children transitioning i really do. and i have my own nuanced complicated feelings about it#but honestly. im beginning to believe id be more well-adjusted by now even if just a bit if i had started larping as male by 15.#would it fix all of my problems? no. but it would make a lot of things in my life much smoother and easier.#but i was sooo deep into raddie/gc shit that i had this fucking. complex about not wanting to troon because its ~cheating~#and 'omg all the butches are leaving!!1 butch flight i cant be one of them!!!1'#'i MUST be a good example for all the young girls!!!1' a weird sort of almost martyr-like complex if you will.#but as i get older im like... honestly man fuuuuccckkkkk this.#barely anybody expects straight or even bi women to abstain from dating men forever For the Good of Womankind#its not seen as Expected but rather Exceptional and Wow Amazing if you do.#and anyone who Expects it is seen as a ~crazy extremist~#meanwhile lesbians and especially HSTS are almost fucking Expected to sacrifice themselves for the ~greater good~#and ngl other lesbiams perpetuate this shit too.#oh you CANT transition even if you feel it'll make your life easier because because because#[arguments that would really only apply to OSA females transitioning]#[strawman] [misinterpreted stats] [unverified reddit posts]#and if all else fails 'think of how the very act of doing so will HURT ALL OF WOMANKIND'#no fucking wonder dysphoric lesbians develop an fucking insane martyr complex and start to treat hrt/transitioning like its fucking crack#'ill give into the temptation if i see a happy trans person ohh nooo so nobody should be allowed to troon'#like thats not fucking normal! you realize thats NOT FUCKING NORMAL right?#youre acting like a deranged christian who is so afraid of sinning by wrongthink#and disclaimer no. i dont inherently hate being female or a lesbian but with the way i am physically and mentally#i would have/have had a Much easier time integrating into society as a ~man~. just because of how i am physically and mentally.#now i wont say internalized homophobia/etc. NEVER has anything to do with transition or etc. but im gonna be real#for HSTS (which are extremely rare in the first place) thats often only a very small part of it at most.#its often more about making our lives easier and integrating better without having to completely remold our entire personalities.#thats the reality.#would we not transition if society have patriarchy/gender roles/sexism? perhaps. i wont deny that possibility.#the fact of the matter is however#that it wont be happening any time soon. so we just want our lives to be easier.#'oh but youre lying to yourself' not necessarily. i dont have a ~gender identity~ and im well aware of myself and my situation.
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#i love living in the 21st century bc i cwn just make memes to cope#but it's soooo stupid like . yeah. i'm turning 20 soon. and i feel like i have no actual close interpersonal relationship#i'm not my favourite people's favourite person#i feel like. it's stupid to say i'm unwanted bc i'm sure i'm not#logically i know some people like me. but i feel like. there's nobody who would choose me as their first choice#and i feel like it's bc there's smth inherently wrong with me#but i guess that's what it's like#idk least i can do is recognise how i feel and recognise that me thinking ''i would do anything to feel wanted by somebody'' can put#me in harm's way. i can't just Not think that bc i really truly would. but i can at least recognise it and use that self-awareness to#like... i dunno keep myself safe i suppose
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Well whenever the topic of a characters age comes up its either the most awful conversation youll ever with anybody ever or a genuine discussion of their character but its mostly the latter. You just gotta close your eyes sometimes
#and most of the time its a character that does not need a defining age or if theyre inherently young or old.#i have to prepare myself when i see it come up. i swear. it does nawt matter. yellow guy can be anything you want#like oh my god yellow guy. worst fucking case of this ever next to flowey NOBODY WINS#like those two specifically. do not talk to anyone who's adamantly one over the other it gets fucking insane
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the way dain refers to them as the 5 sinners of khaneri'ah even though in almost religion or religious concept to include the idea of sin it's an established point that all humans are inherently 'sinners' due to being human im going insane
#youguys get me right. you get me. right.#HAWUHWAUHUWAHUH#yeah these mfs are evil. but we've seen more insane shit from other characters and gods and whatever and theyre never referred to as#'sinners'#SORRY!!!!!!! IMINSNAE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#sin is treated as something everyone has and i think its insane that nobody's talking about this. Please talk about this#if anything. the personal accounts of these mfs (aside from dain) have been#exceedingly chill#skirk treats surtalogi like a loser dad.#rhine is described as cold. yes!! mean. yes!!! but is it a sin to just. not be the best person??#we've met people with FAR worse attitudes#idk guys but i think even just ei deserves this level of hate#she spent 500 years stripping her people of their ambitions by taking their visions#which also has. really horrendous psychological effects like oh mygod#and plus. the whole idea of isolating them from all of the rest of teyvat??#do you know how FUCKED that is#but we've never openly acknowledged that!!! no!!!!!!!!!!!#THE POINT IS THAT THEY'RE SINNERS BECAUSE THEY'RE HUMANS. THEY AREN'T INHERENTLY WORSE THAN HALF THE OTHER#CHARACTERS IN THIS GAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#they're horrible yes. but there are (miraculously) worse people#crepe rants#cataclysmic quintuple#rhine
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some musicians are weird
#nobody here lol#just. i find it interesting how i take my music pretty seriously and sometimes i get carried away anxiously#but i can always be aware at the end of the day it's just music right in doing my best etc#and some people are just. act like playing a piece a certain way or playing scales a certain way is like#inherently inferior to other ways of doing it and it's like okay chill.#someone forgot to take their people are different/stop assigning weird hierarchy to ways of doing things pill#also there's no reason to be that mean like. ever#if you can't say anything nice etc#there's criticism and then there's being an asshole#bluebird.txt#and also. it's like i take my shit seriously and sometimes it feels like other people don't but then it feels like THEY take FAR too seriou#seriously#things that actually don't matter in the long term at all
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Remembering that anon who was asking why you had a crush on your manager when you’re married 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
LMAOOOOOOOOO omg yeah that person was wild. i hope they got their shit worked out because that was such a funny response to that. maybe they were twelve years old, and imo that's a fine outlook to have on the politics of relationships when you're a kid because everything is black and white when you're a kid. if not.... well.
I was talking to a friend about this and honestly, it's just so obvious to me how one of the roots of that kind of thinking is how little trust there is in so many people's relationships, and that's just so sad. my default setting with my wife is to trust her. never once since knowing her did i ever not trust her, i've never even thought about it, never. both not to cheat on me yes, but also not to judge me or accuse me of something i didn't do, no matter what i say. she can tease me for it affectionately, but i know she won't change her perception of me and who i am. can't imagine living any other way, personally.
also like.... imagine being so boring that you don't have crushes like that's crazy to me. that's mean and i promised not to be mean but like well!! why limit yourself to appreciating only one flower when the world is blooming with beauty?
#also as Billie eilish said#people should be jerking it.#that's supplementary to this point but like goes hand in hand#with the original question posed in that poll#putting my soapbox shit in here cuz it's annoying but#you just have to trust people as the default. that's the social contract of life#if you walk around thinking people are guilty until proven trustworthy and keep them on a short leash#they're always going to fail you and ~betray~ you because nobody likes to be treated like they're inherently evil#you have to enter into a relationship willing to fully and openly trust until proven otherwise. not the other way around#and i get that i'm a lesbian so girls are just far less likely to cheat than men who cheat for a myriad of reasons that#don't have anything to do with their wives#but still idk man just not the way to go through life buddy. and that's on YOU to sort out. don't put that shit on someone else
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“Some time, Flowey would have to figure out why that was, but it was low on his list of curiosities at the moment.” this… doesn’t make sense? why is “what the heck is up with my friend favorite toy what makes him behave the way he does” below “what happens if i force this guy to kill people?” don’t you say a few paragraphs later that you like finding out what makes people tick? what part of this screams “finding out what makes papyrus tick?” this screams “author needed papyrus angst potential.”
#i don’t hold anything against the author!#the fic was written in like 2015#nobody could write papyrus back then#mainly i’m just using this to poke at this general idea that papyrus is weak and flowey is the manipulator#which tragically is way too popular still#i swear#look up the papyrus & flowey tag on ao3#it’s 80% finaglc copycats#not that they can’t be good!#and the authors put effort into things and characterization is a lot better than it used to be#but the concept itself is inherently flawed.#that’s what i’m trying to illustrate here#flowey is not a good life coach#hey why did i put the real post in the tags
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saw a new type of online emo.. talking about how theres less and less og emos but then saying how gatekeeping sucks but also how new "emos" are watered down versions and dont know the origins but they also gatekeep them from anything og emo like what do you want then. genuinely what do you expect lmao also emo is dead anyway and original emo has been dead for a decade and half really you should be happy at least some kids are willing to still go this route
#nobody cares emo started in like the 80s from punk#the kids yearn for 2020s scemo based on late 2000s early 2010s wave that claimed mcr is emo#does any of this matter? literally doesnt#and bringing up that anything emo is political since it came from punk which is inherently political is hard to work with since#i dont think all those emo kids back then and the new ones now gave a fuck about politics ever. its been about dressing up and music and#not changing the world#plus anyone will get called emo by a normie now and everyones gonna be hated the same whether youre a 28yo#og emo or if youre a bunny hat 2020 tiktok emo#to others youre both cringe and lame#also im officially never again using the term emo on myself from now on even as a joke bye#thoughts are being thunk
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moiraine & mat + hug
He knows, objectively, that she's short, even though her presence looms tall in his mind, but he wasn't expecting her to feel so small, let alone fragile, weak: she's nothing in his arms, and it makes him hold her closer.
She's barely conscious, still, though he doesn't know how long it has been since Siuan pulled her from the mist; she's barely responding to anything at all, just an occasional whimper at Siuan's voice, a frown at sudden, echoing noises - the most, it seems, she can muster.
But still, he holds her close - closer than he would otherwise like, Light knows he never wanted to get this close to an Aes Sedai - because he cannot guarantee her her life, any of their lives, but he can guarantee a safe embrace until they meet whatever fate awaits them.
[three sentence fic meme]
#absolutely nobody:#me: hey wanna think about moiraine's muscles atrophying as she spends a year getting psychologically tortured#wot#wheel of time#wot book spoilers#towers of midnight#mywot#i think it counts as#moiraine x siuan#even though that is an inherent fact of anything wot that i write#also. 137 words#birgittesilverbae#ask meme
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Always been interesting to me that the moon is likely the first or second thing you'll notice, unusually close, next to the Erdtree. We never really get any insight into what the moon is other than it having something to do with fate, even though we have an ending involving it. Just makes you wonder if it's really any better, a different fixed object now in the sky instead of planted in the earth.
#me vs elden ring#it really does not cohere#it's more forced and absurd because you can literally marry Ranni but you can't get any elucidation on what that means#in dark souls 1. In bloodborne. It makes sense. Nobody knows anything about anything by design.#anyone who *does* know anything generally wants to kill you in bloodborne because you are an inherent threat to their agenda#this works for some things in Elden Ring but other things it's just awkward how people talk in flowery ways to dance around subjects#for no reason other than to be obtuse
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Being multigender really is just struggling to not let people pick one of your genders over another yknow
#like i gotta prove that im a man with all my might because nobody irl thinks im one#but if i insist too much then they forget im also a woman#and being both a gnc woman and gender conforming man makes it really difficult#because one theres always gonna be things about me people will consider inherently feminine no matter what#my figure. my voice. etc#so at best theyll consider me andorgynous or a feminine man whos also a woman#its complicated. i dont get much dysphoria but most of what i do get is social#and just. frustration that so few people will actually see me the way i want to be seen#like im nonbinary yes but i dont go by they/them and both binary genders equally apply to me#yes im a man and yes im a woman no i dont fluctuate between them im both 100% of the time#yes i consider myself masculine and no i do not relate to femininity#no i dont want to quote on quote try harder to be masculine. i just am i like how i look and i feel masculine and thats good enough#i have adhd and doing the bare minimum to manage my health each day is hard enough#do i look like i want to do anything else#idk why i went on a ramble but anyway. wish i could magically make people see me and my gender the way i want to be seen
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