#no job

[killthekilljoy]

Nandor's army feels like analogy for me after wwdits ends

[dudja]

Lol

[somethingusefulfromflorida]

[t0j1stan]

Uhm js realized I haven't posted in a while and I'm being dry so I bless you with...Toji memes! 😋

[trolley-problem-memes]

ok this one is a vent, sorry yall

[princesskitten2497]

Well… I got fired on Thursday and now I don’t know what to do with my life. Just want to be high and have sex all the time.

[areyousanta]

I swear I might lose it.

[teganorsara]

milk crates — pigeon pit

like a dog tugging on a rope I don't even know where I'd go if they let go is that a train?

[mangomoody]

I’m actually sobbing right now- I finally got an email back from a place I wanted to work at on the same day I applied but they wanted me to take a test for possible scenarios that might happen while I work there. And- like I took that test last this Tuesday week and they didn’t email me back 😭

Did I fail that badly that you won’t even email me back??

And now he’s looking at me knowing he lives rent free in my home!

[amitoyshandmade]

[thirdeyewar]

my fav bag

[sio-writes]

I have just sat on, and broken, my apple pencil 😭 🕯️🕯️🕯️

[coochiequeens]

Of course the nephew sucks. Why else would the parents want him to stay with the aunt just for "a change of scenery" and say that's an equally good reason as hosting his sisters when they were attending college.

Dear Prudence,

I comfortably live in an area with a very high cost of living. My older two nieces came to stay with me after college while they were trying to figure out their places in the world. Their “rent” went into savings so they could start out with a bit of a nest egg. They were expected to clean and to pay for their own food. We didn’t have a problem, and they both went on to have successful adult lives.

Their brother is another story altogether. He basically coasted through high school and then failed to do anything. No job, no interest in education, no interest in anything but video games—he hasn’t even gotten his driver’s license yet. He is 22. My sister has babied him his entire life. My brother-in-law is at the end of his rope and demanding something be done. My sister thinks that sending him my way for a change of scenery will inspire him. She says it is only “fair” that I help my nephew, as I did my nieces.

My sympathy has limits. My nephew refuses to see a doctor so any root cause like depression is not being addressed. My sister has offered to pay me until her son gets settled, but I am not willing to live with a lump lounging in my living room playing video games night and day. How do I have this discussion with my sister?

—Not a Launch Pad

Dear Launch Pad,

Your sister’s belief that you are obligated, in some way, to put up her children in the big city is ridiculous, of course. You are not! If you do not want to host a third of your sister’s children, rent-free, for some indeterminate amount of time, that is totally fine.

But I would not expect your sister to respond well if your stated reason is that her daughters were cool but her son sucks. And if you really enjoyed the company of those young women, and were pleased to be part of their young-adult lives, I’d remind you that you don’t really know that much about their younger brother or what he would actually be like as a houseguest. Maybe he would be a lump. Or maybe he would in fact find the city (I’m assuming) a welcome change in his life. There’s every chance you might similarly enjoy building a relationship with this young man and helping him along his way.

Or maybe you are not interested in the hassle! If that’s the case, a simple “I’m so sorry, but I just can’t host your son right now” will suffice.

—Prudie, hospitably

Anyone else think she should be upfront, even if boymom isn't going to like it? What the hell is she going to do if the parents kick him out but they leave him at her doorstep so they can tell themselves they didn't really kick him out?

[lunasberry]

living in my family home is so exhausting.

it drains my energy, more and more.

I wish that I would be able to function normally so that I can earn money and move out.

It's going to take some time until I can move out. I'm afraid that I won't have any strength left by then.

[silly-jewels]

New small Kpop business!

BiO:

10/13/05

libra

called me Fhay

Hi, I'm new at this so bare with me. I'm currently a college student and having no luck with finding a job, this small business is my last option to get a couple bucks to put food on my table. At first I was into the money but upon working and failing many times, I found out how much I love seeing it come to life. it would be great to support me. if you can't buy anything, No worries! you could follow me instead :D that way I'll keep you posted and you supported me for free. So stop by sometime and look around as I post my creativity, it means a lot. :-)