#no I’m not friends with well known terfs and if I am I have no fucking clues so please tell me

[rosethreeart]

Like I get it, I’m opinionated and I’m very vocal about my stances and I’m prone to being stubborn about it, but that still doesn’t make it okay to make shit up about me or my friends, especially considering a good amount of them are trans and/or queer in other ways.

[no-song-so-sweet]

I want to talk about Harry Potter.

Well. Sort of. I want to talk about Harry Potter in a roundabout way, in that, I want to talk about the reaction my friend group had when shit started really going down with That Bitch Rowling.

Because Rowling is a horrible person. She’s a TERF, a denier of Nazi Crimes, homophobic, anti-Semitic, the list goes on and on (and most recently, has been attacking a trans soccer manager, if my dash is to be believed? Somehow, she just seems more cartoonishly evil with each passing day). But this isn’t about That Bitch Rowling, not really. Or if it is, she’s merely a footnote in the story.

Harry Potter was, and I think this is true for many of us, a large part of my childhood. While the writing may be mediocre at best, it was wildly influential. I didn’t know a single kid that wasn’t hoping for a letter to Hogwarts. It was a Big Deal for a lot of people, and that included my friend group. My friend group, which is made up of members of the LGBTQ+ community. My friend group, which includes a young lady who we didn’t always know was a lady. I’m sure you can see where this might be going.

The day I got a tear filled phone call about That Bitch Rowling was, frankly, heartbreaking. She was mad because a woman she had respected up until now didn’t respect her. She wanted to get rid of her copies of the books, but didn’t want to donate them. I never want to hear her cry like that again. So I made a decision.

I told her to hold onto her books for just a little while longer. I phoned the group. I figured out when everyone could get together for a weekend, and when I had hammered out dates, I packed up my car, and drove the six hundred miles back to my childhood home.

In the passenger’s seat, was my set of Harry Potter books.

Excluding my trans friend, there were seven of us. I had made a plan, and my father had the space to enact it - I grew up on acres of land; complete with 200 year old oak tree, creek in the woods in the backyard, and a massive fire pit.

Nostalgia and youth, I find, paint everything with a rose tinted hue; if Rowling had just kept her mouth shut, I’m sure many of us would have looked back on the Harry Potter series with some amount of shame. But I don’t think it would have suffered the sort of fall from grace that led us to this point.

The fire pit is important for several reasons. For example, it had been the popular gathering place for my friend group of literal decades at this point. Small towns mean that you know everyone from a very early age. We lived right beside the woods, so we used the fire pit to burn the leaves, and the branches storms took down, of which there were many. And when the first six of my friends rolled down the half mile driveway that day, I had already collect enough wood to get a decent fire going.

Six of my friends. We told the seventh a later time. We wanted to be prepared, and anyway, we all had the same cargo (six sets of seven books joined mine on a rickety folding table). I put them to work collecting more firewood (is it really a good bonfire if you’re not risking setting the barn on fire?).

By the time our last member rolled up, I had a fire going.

She had her set of those damn books too.

(There is a visceral grief that comes from being let down by your childhood heroes, and I fully believe that That Bitch Rowling embodies the phrase “never meet your heroes,” because folks, as a general rule, I am not a fan of burning books. But I was prepared to make an exception.)

We burned our copies of the Harry Potter books that day, all eight of us. They were well read, beaten to hell and back, with cracked spines, and dents in corners, and pieces of the pages missing where we had bent down the corners one too many times. And I won’t lie to anyone. We cried. Tears of sorrow and rage, for the piece of our childhood that we were choosing to give up, because to keep it would be to disrespect the woman we had known and loved for longer than we’d ever had those books.

Letting go sucked. But it was the right thing to do.

When they were gone, we put out the fire, went inside, and built the pillow fort of our dreams. We marathoned Star Wars, and ordered too many pizzas, and had way too much soda. We fell asleep playing Risk, because that’s what our friend choose, and in the morning, I made waffles with chocolate chips and too much maple syrup.

I wanted to talk about this, not just because this is a fond memory for me (even though it is), but because one of my coworkers confessed to me that they hated Rowling, and everything she stood for, and they refused to have anything else to do with the Harry Potter franchise, but they just couldn’t bring themselves to get rid of the books.

I said I was happy to host another book burning.

But I wanted to write this down because I know that sometimes it’s hard to take that final step, to leave behind that last thing. So for anyone who needs to hear it, it’s okay to grieve the things we loose when we grow up. Letting go can be hard, but I promise you’ll end up better off. It’s been awhile since things really went downhill, but I maintain that, in this case, death of the author is nonexistent, and it is better to have loved and then lost, than to hold on too tight.

Don’t hurt yourself on the shattered remains of your childhood magic.

[rosebudprincess]

(enter CENTER STAGE.) rosebudprincess

the actress: rosebudprincess

hi! i’m gabrielle, otherwise known as gabby!

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི 🇵🇭 + 20 + genderqueer femme lesbian from southeast asia + she/they/he (pronoun indifferent, prefers feminine compliments) + sagittarius sun, aquarius moon, sagittarius rising + enfj/2w3 + hufflepuff

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི single + femme4butch, resident romantic vampire, red roses personified, princess with golden skin, raven hair and crimson lips + professional manhater, lesbian lover and butch defender

the audience: interactions

PLEASE HAVE YOUR AGE IN YOUR BIO. NO AGE IS IMMEDIATE BLOCK.

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི i follow and like from @honeyedpoppies

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི DNI: men, minors, terfs, racists, fatphobes, ableists, israel supporters (immediate block)

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི BYF: i primarily post/reblog lesbian and femme4butch content with the occasional girlblogging on the side. some content is nsfw/nsft. for fandom related content (see below) and other general related stuff, you can follow my main blog (@honeyedpoppies yippee!!)

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི asks/anons are always open. dms are also open but please don’t be creepy, perverted or rude. sexual content is okay but at least introduce yourself first and strike up a conversation. playful flirting is okay!!

the screenplay: all about me

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི this blog is dedicated to the exploration of my sexuality (both in sexual and nonsexual ways) having recently discovered that i am a femme lesbian, this blog is for me to create friends in the femme4butch community but also to connect with other sapphics as well 🫶

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི besides that here are some of my interests + hobbies + recent hyperfixations: the color red, anything heart or ribbon shaped, roses in everything (scent, taste, etc.), love letters, lace and gingham, velvet and satin, vampires, princess x knight dynamic, 1920s and 1950s to 70s fashion, period dramas and regency romances, classic literature (austen, fitzgerald, shakespeare), fashion and costume history, musical theater (cabaret, chicago, burlesque, hadestown), harry potter and the wizarding world, interview with a vampire, marvel cinematic universe, grishaverse (specifcally six of crows/shadow and bone), disney animated movies (princess and the frog, frozen, hercules)

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི kinnies include but is not limited to stephen strange (mcu), lily evans (hp), nina zenik (soc/ck), megara (hercules), lestat de lioncourt (iwav), emma woodhouse (emma), tahani al-jamil (the good place), harleyquinn and poison ivy (dc), camilla morone (djats), cleo de nile (mh), stella (winx club)

behind the curtains: what to expect/i’m into

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི switch (sub leaning but currently exploring dominant side) bottom, femme4butch

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི brat, daddy kink (as a title), praise, breeding/corruption, primal play, guided/mutual masturbation, objectification, goddess like devotion, roleplay, somnophilia, free use, emphasis on being called princess + bunny + ma’am

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི ABSOLUTELY NOT: any play with bodily fluids, feet, noncon/dubcon, large age gaps

the prologue.

if roses were mortal, it would be she 🥀 connoisseur of lipstick kisses, forever smelling and tasting like roses, resident romantic vampire haunting the paintings of an abandoned library, raven haired princess adorned with gold and draped in crimson velvet.

ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི dividers by @cafekitsune ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀིྀི

[medeina-physis]

The human instinct to dehumanize

A warning to all of the insidious nature of bigotry and its path beginning with dehumanization

Now, I’m sure nearly all people have come across bigotry or discrimination of some form in their lives. Regardless of group, class, identity, or race, all have seen and experienced this facet of the human experience in some way or another. My question to you is: Do you think you are above it?

Let us see. Do you consider Terfs, for example, to be human? Probably. Have you ever said that TERFS are brainless, dumb, have but a single brain cell, or something else of a similar vain? I’d bet the answer is yes. If not, there is probably another group you can think of that you have. When you said or thought this, did you think this to be a fact? Did you feel that your statement could be applied to all who exist under that label. If I told you that it is perfectly possible for a TERF or similar to be an otherwise stand-up member of their society that regularly helps at homeless shelters or volunteers at an orphanage, would you be able to believe me?

See, there comes a point when we make sweeping generalizations of a group, any group, where we can either take these generalizations to be true, even subconsciously, or we can actively remind ourselves that they are inherently false. The fact of the matter is, we as a species have, to my knowledge, never uncovered any fundamental truths. All human knowledge, regardless of apparent complexity or simplicity, is inherently a model we have constructed atop the natural world. And a model, by its nature, is an imperfect reflection of reality. A reasonably good example is the hydrodynamics model of electricity. In it, we pretend that wires are pipes that electricity flows through, and we use this analogy to calculate the pressure and velocity of flow in certain areas, as well as other things. In any case, this model is just that, a model. It is wrong. Electricity does not flow through wires. It flows in the electromagnetic waves surrounding the wire, and are guided by the wires in a process I am not educated enough to attempt to explain. 

The point above is this, anytime you put a label on a group, be it that politicians are greedy, CEOs are monsters, Americans love cars, children aren’t responsible, young people are inexperienced, etc. you are ultimately creating a sweeping generalization that is wrong. Does this mean that such generalizations should not be used? Not necessarily. Generalizations, or models if that helps, can be useful as a means to help wrap your head around a concept. This is true both in STEM and with people. The important part is remembering that it is a generalization, a model, and that it is, inherently, flawed.

I’ll be the first to admit that I have been known to call republics morons or inhuman monsters both in my own mind and aloud. But the key is that I will then follow it up with a recognition that they are humans, they can changed, and that there are systems at play that I may not understand that lead them to make the decisions and statements that they do. I can still vehemently disagree with their policy, but I understand that they are humans, if heavily misguided. This is critical as it allows me flexibility if/when I run into someone in real life that holds an opinion that I would otherwise hold to be inhuman. For those of you reading, that person could be a parent or friend who, after you come out, turns out to be a TERF. All before then, they had been a good person, but this one thing is making them completely disassociate from you. If you try to deal with this with the assumption that, as a TERF, they are somehow naturally mentally deficient and thus incapable of understanding rational thought, then you will never be able to repair your relationship. If you instead recognize that they are a real human who can change, then you can talk to them and figure out what things in their lives have led to them coming to the false conclusion that you are some degenerate monster.

I suppose to sum up, be careful how you try to compartmentalize the actions of those you don’t understand, particularly for people whose actions are hurtful or dehumanizing. I’m not saying not to assign the labels, I am more than aware of how helpful they can be to cope with a stressful situation, I am saying to add a little sticky note to the wall you raise in your mind to remind you that, while useful, the wall is but a veneer, a helpful lie to get you through difficult times, but a lie all the same. This should allow you to, if not entirely transcend bigotry, at least be far more ready to accept when you’ve fallen into it, and then subsequently escape it. The worst thing you can do to yourself is convince yourself that you know the absolute truth about anything. There will always be something you don’t know, and that is okay.

And to be clear, the second you lose sight of this idea, and fall into believing that some group is truly described by the label you gave them, you have become bigoted. You have become the very thing you claim to despise. You have become the problem. Don’t allow yourself to do this. There is no group of humans on earth, no matter how they may appear, who are anything less than human. Everyone, I mean everyone, is worthy of compassion and respect in so far as, at the very least, the bare minimum acceptance that their feelings are real, and their needs are real. This may make you feel uncomfortable, this may make you feel icky, but it is nonetheless the right thing. Because the second you refuse to listen, the second you believe yourself a better authority on a person than the person themself, you have practiced discrimination. Do not invalidate another person’s experiences, they are every bit as real as yours.

So I ask you, do you truly believe that you are above bigotry? Are there any groups that you jump to conclusions about before hearing their side of the story? Are there any groups that you assign personality traits to with complete disregard for their individuality? Please consider these questions deeply, and reflect.

Tldr: Discrimination is the result of blanket generalizations of a group without recognizing the inherent lie in such generalizations. Generalizations such as those are dehumanizing, and the core of what allows for bigotry. Reflect and consider, are you secretly a bigot? If so, rise above it—become better!

[writinggremlinskull]

About Hogwart Legacy

Tw for transphobia and antisemitism

I’ll begin by telling I didn’t buy the game. I don’t want to support Rowling in any way and I don’t want to support antisemitism and transphobia.

This is just an attempt to preach kindness. This is for the people who are hesitating to buy the game or already bought it but can still ask for a refund it or at least let a negative review. Not for the TERF crowd but for the people in-between.

I am not throwing accusation here but I know I got disillusioned with activism a few years back. This is me talking about my personnal experience and why not supporting this game matters.

I know the boycott can feel useless. Hogwart Legacy is breaking sales record, lot of streamers are playing it because it’s a really popular game and they want the money, lot of people are enjoying it.

I know ethical consumption is impossible under capitalism. I know the world seems fucked up right now and it feels hopeless at time. Trust me I know.

And yet, not buying this game still matters. Asking for a refund if you had it for less than 14 days and didn’t play more than 2 hours (this is the Steam Policy in my country, check what is it in your). Letting negative review is still possible. If you still hesitate to buy it, don’t.

You see, JK Rowling isn’t a corporation. Yes, boycotting Disney which has a monopoly on most of the entertainment industry is hard. Yes, when most of our food come from 5 companies, it’s almost impossible to boycott them because you need to eat, right?

But Rowling is only one person. One deeply rich person who uses her money in deeply fucked up way but just one and she’s been milking the Harry Potter’s cash cow for years because she didn’t write anything good since. If you don’t buy official Harry Potter things, her power lessen. Each pound not in a pocket is a pound which can’t harm anyone. Each pound matters.

You can not buy it. You can still ask for a refund and use the refund to give to trans right association. It isn’t too late.

Now, maybe all your friends play it. I don’t know what your social circle is like, peer pressure is a thing. Maybe you’re thinking I won’t make a difference, nobody seems to care.

This is why speaking out against the game is important. Show that it isn’t only a minority who cares. I’ll argue it’s more important if you aren’t yourself trans or jewish. If you have some degree of priviledge, you can use it. The more people speak, the better.

Speak out on social media. Tell your friend you won’t play the game and why. I’m not asking you to fight with them. Play it smart. Tell them “I’m disappointed, I thought you were better” if you know they value your opinion on these things. Nobody likes to think of their friends as prejudiced in any way but sometimes, being a good friend means gently telling someone ‘Hey bro, that’s a bit fucked up, don’t you think?”

Keep sharing the spoilers for the games.

I spoke of two reasons I can think of someone who, without being a TERF, could buy the game. Now, is the third one: you could want to because trans people and jewish people are being agressive about it.

Yes, it isn’t nice to be called transphobic and yes, some are very agressive about it.

I’m going to ask you something. Think about your own marginalized identity if you have one. If not, imagine what if you were discriminated against for something out of your control like being blond. Imagine if people like you had been harassed, discriminated against. Imagine having a doctor denying you medical care because you exist as yourself. Imagine people calling the cops on you because you EXIST.

I know a lot of you on Tumblr don’t have to imagine it because it happened, even if it wasn’t transphobia or/and antisemitism.

Now, imagine someone, a well-known writer, spoke against people like you vocally. Imagine she support laws against you and people like you. And there is this game out which will brought her a lot of money. And people buy it by the thousands, some because they are bigot and other because lot of people are buying it, me doing it won’t change things or the voices speaking against it seem so small, what’s the point or all my friends are buying it and they aren’t transphobic or antisemit isn’t it?

Won’t you be angry? Really angry? Won’t you lash out? Think about the last time you were that angry or the last time you were discriminated against. It sucks. It fucking sucks. People are not going to be nice and polite when they are scared and angry and at the end of their rope. They still deserve to be treated decently as human beings.

This is for the people who bought it or hesitate to buy it without being TERF.

You made a mistake or hesitate to make one but it isn’t too late to do something.

Ask for a refund. Share spoilers. Speak out on social media. Let negative review of the game. Point out the antisemitism and transphobia of Rowling, point out the antisemitism in the game, explain how the game support her.

Be kind to marginalized people. Be kind to trans people and jewish people and people who are both. Not buying this game, telling people you won’t buy it or thought about it ans asked for a refund, giving to trans right association instead.

It isn’t too late to choose kindness. It isn’t too late to show the trans community and the jewish community you are an ally. It isn’t too late to apologize. Choose kindness. You can still choose kindness.

[haunted-ex-rocket]

Rules

1. No godmodding. Don’t try to control my character, and don’t automatically assume he’s going to conform to what you want him to do.

2. Anon hate is cowardly and stupid. If you have an issue with me, my characters, or my roleplaying style, just message me about it so that we can work things out like mature and civilized folks. Any Anon hate will be met with shameless mocking and roasted like chestnuts over a fire.

3. Mun is 18+. While NSFW themes such as violence, blood, torture, and criminal acts MAY be present, smut will not be written unless it’s with a partner I know extremely well. If an rp gets to that point, I would much prefer a fade-out or time-skip. I am not personally comfortable with writing smut. However, cuddling, teasing, kissing, and make-out sessions are more than welcome.

4. Please be aware that I have a job that takes up most of my time and energy, and that I have ADHD and autism, and that I might not be able to reply for hours or days on end. If you think I may have forgotten a thread, feel free to message me politely about it, but please be patient with me. I’m trying my best! Sometimes my brain weasels just won’t cooperate.

5. This is a sideblog. I follow back from @foxytonic ~

6. Mun does not equal muse! Averis might do fucked up shit, including but not limited to breaking and entering, thievery, espionage, etc. Just because I write it does not mean I condone it. This blog will also deal with heavy subjects such as death, human experimentation, and PTSD. I will try to tag triggers appropriately, but if you need something specific tagged, please don’t be afraid to tell me.

7. When sending memes/starters from a multimuse, please specify which muse they are from, or I will choose a random one.

8. This blog will probably contain HP/Wizarding World content. Scroll at your own risk. But please know that I don’t support TERF bullshit. I’m tired of letting the internet police what I’m allowed to be interested in, and I refuse to let JKR’s actions kill the joy of my youth. She can suck it!

9. Don’t reblog/like starter calls or open starters if you are not a roleplay blog or have no intention of replying after I do. Don’t reblog closed starters or rp threads if you aren’t my partner.

10. Although I do research my muses before writing them, I don’t know absolutely everything about Pokémon, and I’m limited by what content I can find on the internet. I also tend to make shit up because I fuckin LOVE worldbuilding, though that won’t be as prevalent here as it is on my other blogs. Please be patient with me. I’m here to roleplay, not play Um, Actually.

11. I’m not here to start drama, nor am I keen on being dragged into it, HOWEVER, if you have a problem with my friends, you have a problem with me. Trying to pit me against a partner will result in an instant block.

12. If you’re a bigot of any kind or you support known abusers (I.E. Am*er He*rd), stay off my blog.

13. I don’t roleplay with people who FC hunt. If you’re only interested in my characters because of the FC I use, we’re not compatible partners. If I see a tag on your blog like ‘wanted opposite’ or ‘wanted partner’ or something to that effect, it will result in an immediate unfollow/block.

14. Because this is a Pokémon blog, you might expect battles to happen, which is entirely reasonable! However, I will freely admit that I am terrible at writing them because I don’t know all the ins and outs of the game mechanics. I’m trying to learn, I swear, but it’s a lot for my poor little brain to contain. In the meantime, if our characters do end up battling, I would prefer to do a timeskip and discuss who would have won in DMs.

[mage-of-black-robes]

Rules

1. No godmodding. Don’t try to control my character, and don’t automatically assume he’s going to conform to what you want him to do.

2. Anon hate is cowardly and stupid. If you have an issue with me, my characters, or my roleplaying style, just message me about it so that we can work things out like mature and civilized folks. Any Anon hate will be met with shameless mocking and roasted like chestnuts over a fire.

3. Mun is 18+. While NSFW themes such as violence, blood, torture, and criminal acts MAY be present, smut will not be written unless it’s with a partner I know extremely well. If an rp gets to that point, I would much prefer a fade-out or time-skip. I am not personally comfortable with writing smut. However, cuddling, teasing, kissing, and make-out sessions are more than welcome.

4. Please be aware that I have a job that takes up most of my time and energy, and that I have ADHD and autism, and that I might not be able to reply for hours or days on end. If you think I may have forgotten a thread, feel free to message me politely about it, but please be patient with me. I’m trying my best! Sometimes my brain weasels just won’t cooperate.

5. This is a sideblog. I follow back from @foxytonic ~

6. Mun does not equal muse! Raistlin might do fucked up shit, including but not limited to murder. Just because I write it does not mean I condone it. This blog will also deal with heavy subjects such as death and PTSD. I will try to tag triggers appropriately, but if you need something specific tagged, please don’t be afraid to tell me.

7. When sending memes/starters from a multimuse, please specify which muse they are from, or I will choose a random one.

8. This blog will contain HP/Wizarding World content. Scroll at your own risk. But please know that I don’t support TERF bullshit. I’m tired of letting the internet police what I’m allowed to be interested in, and I refuse to let JKR’s actions kill the joy of my youth. She can suck it!

9. Don’t reblog/like starter calls or open starters if you are not a roleplay blog or have no intention of replying after I do. Don’t reblog closed starters or rp threads if you aren’t my partner.

10. Although I do research my muses before writing them, I don’t know absolutely everything, and I’m limited by what content I can find on the internet. I also tend to make shit up because I fuckin LOVE worldbuilding! Please be patient with me. I’m here to roleplay, not play Um, Actually.

11. I’m not here to start drama, nor am I keen on being dragged into it, HOWEVER, if you have a problem with my friends, you have a problem with me. Trying to pit me against a partner will result in an instant block.

12. If you’re a bigot of any kind or you support known abusers (I.E. Am*er He*rd), stay off my blog.

13. I don’t roleplay with people who FC hunt. If you’re only interested in my characters because of the FC I use, we’re not compatible partners. If I see a tag on your blog like ‘wanted opposite’ or ‘wanted partner’ or something to that effect, it will result in an immediate unfollow/block.

[night-mare-fuel]

1. No godmodding. Don’t try to control my character, and don’t automatically assume he’s going to conform to what you want him to do.

2. Anon hate is cowardly and stupid. If you have an issue with me, my characters, or my roleplaying style, just message me about it so that we can work things out like mature and civilized folks. Any Anon hate will be met with shameless mocking and roasted like chestnuts over a fire.

3. Mun is 18+. While NSFW themes such as violence, blood, torture, and criminal acts MAY be present, smut will not be written unless it’s with a partner I know extremely well. If an rp gets to that point, I would much prefer a fade-out or time-skip. I am not personally comfortable with writing smut about 70-ish% of the time. However, cuddling, teasing, kissing, and make-out sessions are more than welcome. Please note that Damon is really into BDSM, which I’m not experienced with, but have read about. If you would like to go that route with him, I would prefer to discuss it extensively beforehand.

4. Please be aware that I have a job that takes up most of my time and energy, and that I have ADHD and autism, and that I might not be able to reply for hours or days on end. If you think I may have forgotten a thread, feel free to message me politely about it, but please be patient with me. I’m trying my best! Sometimes my brain weasels just won’t cooperate.

5. This is a sideblog. I follow back from @foxytonic ~

6. Mun does not equal muse! Damon might do fucked up shit, including but not limited to murder. Just because I write it does not mean I condone it. This blog will also deal with heavy subjects such as death and PTSD. I will try to tag triggers appropriately, but if you need something specific tagged, please don’t be afraid to tell me.

7. When sending memes/starters from a multimuse, please specify which muse they are from, or I will choose a random one.

8. This blog will contain HP/Wizarding World content. Scroll at your own risk. But please know that I don’t support TERF bullshit. I’m tired of letting the internet police what I’m allowed to be interested in, and I refuse to let JKR’s actions kill the joy of my youth. She can suck it!

9. Don’t reblog/like starter calls or open starters if you are not a roleplay blog or have no intention of replying after I do. Don’t reblog closed starters or rp threads if you aren’t my partner.

10. Although I do research my muses before writing them, I don’t know absolutely everything, and I’m limited by what content I can find on the internet. I also tend to make shit up because I fuckin LOVE worldbuilding! Please be patient with me. I’m here to roleplay, not play Um, Actually.

11. I’m not here to start drama, nor am I keen on being dragged into it, HOWEVER, if you have a problem with my friends, you have a problem with me. Trying to pit me against a partner will result in an instant block.

12. If you’re a bigot of any kind or you support known abusers (I.E. Am*er He*rd), stay off my blog.

13. I don’t roleplay with people who FC hunt. If you’re only interested in my characters because of the FC I use, we’re not compatible partners. If I see a tag on your blog like ‘wanted opposite’ or ‘wanted partner’ or something to that effect, it will result in an immediate unfollow/block.

[feathers-n-fangs]

1. No godmodding. Don’t try to control my character, and don’t automatically assume he’s going to conform to what you want him to do.

2. Anon hate is cowardly and stupid. If you have an issue with me, my characters, or my roleplaying style, just message me about it so that we can work things out like mature and civilized folks. Any Anon hate will be met with shameless mocking and roasted like chestnuts over a fire.

3. Mun is 18+. While NSFW themes such as violence, blood, torture, and criminal acts MAY be present, smut will not be written unless it’s with a partner I know extremely well. If an rp gets to that point, I would much prefer a fade-out or time-skip. I am not personally comfortable with writing smut. However, cuddling, teasing, kissing, and make-out sessions are more than welcome.

4. Please be aware that I have a job that takes up most of my time and energy, and that I have ADHD and autism, and that I might not be able to reply for hours or days on end. If you think I may have forgotten a thread, feel free to message me politely about it, but please be patient with me. I’m trying my best! Sometimes my brain weasels just won’t cooperate.

5. This is a sideblog. I follow back from @foxytonic ~

6. Mun does not equal muse! Griffin might do fucked up shit, including but not limited to murder. Just because I write it does not mean I condone it. This blog will also deal with heavy subjects such as death and PTSD. I will try to tag triggers appropriately, but if you need something specific tagged, please don’t be afraid to tell me.

7. When sending memes/starters from a multimuse, please specify which muse they are from, or I will choose a random one.

8. This blog will contain HP/Wizarding World content. Scroll at your own risk. But please know that I don’t support TERF bullshit. I’m tired of letting the internet police what I’m allowed to be interested in, and I refuse to let JKR’s actions kill the joy of my youth. She can suck it!

9. Don’t reblog/like starter calls or open starters if you are not a roleplay blog or have no intention of replying after I do. Don’t reblog closed starters or rp threads if you aren’t my partner.

10. Although I do research my muses before writing them, I don’t know absolutely everything, and I’m limited by what content I can find on the internet. I also tend to make shit up because I fuckin LOVE worldbuilding! Please be patient with me. I’m here to roleplay, not play Um, Actually.

11. I’m not here to start drama, nor am I keen on being dragged into it, HOWEVER, if you have a problem with my friends, you have a problem with me. Trying to pit me against a partner will result in an instant block.

12. If you’re a bigot of any kind or you support known abusers (I.E. Am*er He*rd), stay off my blog.

13. I don’t roleplay with people who FC hunt. If you’re only interested in my characters because of the FC I use, we’re not compatible partners. If I see a tag on your blog like ‘wanted opposite’ or ‘wanted partner’ or something to that effect, it will result in an immediate unfollow/block.

[shakespeareofficialaccount]

You know it’s easier to just block people and move on. I follow your blog but it is honestly so exhausting to read the back and forth between you and other blogs. I get that what they are saying is not something either of us like or agree with but my god, harassing strangers over and over is taking things to an unnecessary extreme. I’m afraid someone you or others harass might actually hurt themselves and no matter what they believe that is a shitty thing to wish on a literal human being. I’ve known people who have hurt themselves after getting harassed online and it is devastating. It destroys a family and causes all around trauma for everyone who was close with them. It’s fucked up to encourage this. I’m sorry to say I will be unfollowing and blocking your account because I just can’t be associated with that or with people who think certain types of people deserve harassment. It’s just really triggering for me to see and I hope you can understand why it’s bad even if these people fundamentally disagree with you. It’s time to be the bigger person and stop giving the rest of us a bad reputation because you don’t know how to curate your own online and experience. Sorry for the long ask I just wanted to tell you why I feel I have to unfollow. Hope you get to a place in your life where you can understand how harmful your words can be even if you thing someone deserves them.

I got accusations of homophobia and hate asks and I’m the harasser? Dude, I put the TERF on DNI and said she was violating TOS. I can say that if I want, nothing wrong with that. I wasn’t even all that rude, considering how disgusting she is. She also invalidated pans, aspecs, trans people….and as someone who thinks they’re ace and pan/bi, it’s fucking horrible. Also, she called it a mental illness, and that’s also fucking horrible. I got called slurs, and told to keep quiet, and had my friends be treated in absolutely abhorrent ways. I do not try to harass people, anon. I stand up for what I think is right by spreading awareness, and the backlash makes me defend myself. I stand up for my friends, who do not deserve the crap they get from random anons seeking to poke their noses into others’ business. I get anons, telling me things like this or worse, and I speak my mind. Honestly, I don’t mind you unfollowing and blocking me at all, if that is what you think of me. I am sorry if it made you uncomfortable, but let’s get this clear: I never asked you to follow me, or watch this ‘back and forth’, or associate yourself with me. You did so of your own free will, and are hence allowed to unfollow me whenever you wish. This is, however, my blog; I may say what I want here. In my humble opinion, an unnecessary extreme would be treating a trans man as a girl, and his defenders as, quote unquote, ‘stupid bitches’. It’s more than a little hurtful to have your and your friends spoken to in such a way by random people. FYI, I’m a minor, too, so a lot of this is quite new to me. I’m sorry if I triggered or offended you. Please consider this from my point of view: the exact same things you mentioned previously (self harm, depression, etc) can happen to me as well, or anyone faced with things like this. Really, it wouldn’t be the first time I’ve considered that. This is a grey area you choose to talk about, but I will accept it and move on. You are, by the way, encouraging this TERF harassment in some way with your asks. Thank you for your kind hopes, anon. I wish you the same.

[serpentinebrando]

1. No godmodding. Don’t try to control my character, and don’t automatically assume he’s going to conform to what you want him to do.

2. Anon hate is cowardly and stupid. If you have an issue with me, my characters, or my roleplaying style, just message me about it so that we can work things out like mature and civilized folks. Any Anon hate will be met with shameless mocking and roasted like chestnuts over a fire.

3. Mun is 18+. While NSFW themes such as violence, blood, torture, and criminal acts MAY be present, smut will not be written unless it’s with a partner I know extremely well. If an rp gets to that point, I would much prefer a fade-out or time-skip. I am not personally comfortable with writing smut. However, cuddling, teasing, kissing, and make-out sessions are more than welcome.

4. Please be aware that I have a job that takes up most of my time and energy, and that I have ADHD and autism, and that I might not be able to reply for hours or days on end. If you think I may have forgotten a thread, feel free to message me politely about it, but please be patient with me. I’m trying my best! Sometimes my brain weasels just won’t cooperate.

5. This is a sideblog. I follow back from @foxytonic ~

6. Mun does not equal muse! Jett might do fucked up shit, including but not limited to murder. Just because I write it does not mean I condone it. This blog will also deal with heavy subjects such as death and PTSD. I will try to tag triggers appropriately, but if you need something specific tagged, please don’t be afraid to tell me.

7. When sending memes/starters from a multimuse, please specify which muse they are from, or I will choose a random one.

8. This blog will contain HP/Wizarding World content. Scroll at your own risk. But please know that I don’t support TERF bullshit. I’m tired of letting the internet police what I’m allowed to be interested in, and I refuse to let JKR’s actions kill the joy of my youth. She can suck it!

9. Don’t reblog/like starter calls or open starters if you are not a roleplay blog or have no intention of replying after I do. Don’t reblog closed starters or rp threads if you aren’t my partner.

10. Although I do research my muses before writing them, I don’t know absolutely everything about witchcraft, and I’m limited by what content I can find on the internet. I also tend to make shit up because I fuckin LOVE worldbuilding! Please be patient with me. I’m here to roleplay, not play Um, Actually.

11. I’m not here to start drama, nor am I keen on being dragged into it, HOWEVER, if you have a problem with my friends, you have a problem with me. Trying to pit me against a partner will result in an instant block.

12. If you’re a bigot of any kind or you support known abusers (I.E. Am*er He*rd), stay off my blog.

13. I don’t roleplay with people who FC hunt. If you’re only interested in my characters because of the FC I use, we’re not compatible partners. If I see a tag on your blog like ‘wanted opposite’ or ‘wanted partner’ or something to that effect, it will result in an immediate unfollow/block.

[quaintnecromancer]

1. No godmodding. Don’t try to control my character, and don’t automatically assume he’s going to conform to what you want him to do.

2. Anon hate is cowardly and stupid. If you have an issue with me, my characters, or my roleplaying style, just message me about it so that we can work things out like mature and civilized folks. Any Anon hate will be met with shameless mocking and roasted like chestnuts over a fire.

3. Mun is 18+. While NSFW themes such as violence, blood, torture, and criminal acts MAY be present, smut will not be written unless it’s with a partner I know extremely well. If an rp gets to that point, I would much prefer a fade-out or time-skip. I am not personally comfortable with writing smut. However, cuddling, teasing, kissing, and make-out sessions are more than welcome.

4. Please be aware that I have a job that takes up most of my time and energy, and that I have ADHD and autism, and that I might not be able to reply for hours or days on end. If you think I may have forgotten a thread, feel free to message me politely about it, but please be patient with me. I’m trying my best! Sometimes my brain weasels just won’t cooperate.

5. This is a sideblog. I follow back from @foxytonic ~

6. Mun does not equal muse! Jett might do fucked up shit, including but not limited to murder. Just because I write it does not mean I condone it. This blog will also deal with heavy subjects such as death and PTSD. I will try to tag triggers appropriately, but if you need something specific tagged, please don’t be afraid to tell me.

7. When sending memes/starters from a multimuse, please specify which muse they are from, or I will choose a random one.

8. This blog will contain HP/Wizarding World content. Scroll at your own risk. But please know that I don’t support TERF bullshit. I’m tired of letting the internet police what I’m allowed to be interested in, and I refuse to let JKR’s actions kill the joy of my youth. She can suck it!

9. Don’t reblog/like starter calls or open starters if you are not a roleplay blog or have no intention of replying after I do. Don’t reblog closed starters or rp threads if you aren’t my partner.

10. Although I do research my muses before writing them, I don’t know absolutely everything about witchcraft, and I’m limited by what content I can find on the internet. I also tend to make shit up because I fuckin LOVE worldbuilding! Please be patient with me. I’m here to roleplay, not play Um, Actually.

11. I’m not here to start drama, nor am I keen on being dragged into it, HOWEVER, if you have a problem with my friends, you have a problem with me. Trying to pit me against a partner will result in an instant block.

12. If you’re a bigot of any kind or you support known abusers (I.E. Am*er He*rd), stay off my blog.

13. I don’t roleplay with people who FC hunt. If you’re only interested in my characters because of the FC I use, we’re not compatible partners. If I see a tag on your blog like ‘wanted opposite’ or ‘wanted partner’ or something to that effect, it will result in an immediate unfollow/block.

[cursedphoenix]

1. No godmodding. Don’t try to control my character, and don’t automatically assume he’s going to conform to what you want him to do.

2. Anon hate is cowardly and stupid. If you have an issue with me, my characters, or my roleplaying style, just message me about it so that we can work things out like mature and civilized folks. Any Anon hate will be met with shameless mocking and roasted like chestnuts over a fire.

3. Mun is 18+. While NSFW themes such as violence, blood, torture, and criminal acts MAY be present, smut will not be written unless it’s with a partner I know extremely well. If an rp gets to that point, I would much prefer a fade-out or time-skip. I am not personally comfortable with writing smut. However, cuddling, teasing, kissing, and make-out sessions are more than welcome.

4. Please be aware that I have a job that takes up most of my time and energy, and that I have ADHD and autism, and that I might not be able to reply for hours or days on end. If you think I may have forgotten a thread, feel free to message me politely about it, but please be patient with me. I’m trying my best! Sometimes my brain weasels just won’t cooperate.

5. This is a sideblog. I follow back from @foxytonic ~

6. Mun does not equal muse! Tanc might do fucked up shit, including but not limited to murder. Just because I write it does not mean I condone it. This blog will also deal with heavy subjects such as death and PTSD. I will try to tag triggers appropriately, but if you need something specific tagged, please don’t be afraid to tell me.

7. When sending memes/starters from a multimuse, please specify which muse they are from, or I will choose a random one.

8. This blog will contain HP/Wizarding World content. Scroll at your own risk. But please know that I don’t support TERF bullshit. I’m tired of letting the internet police what I’m allowed to be interested in, and I refuse to let JKR’s actions kill the joy of my youth. She can suck it!

9. Don’t reblog/like starter calls or open starters if you are not a roleplay blog or have no intention of replying after I do. Don’t reblog closed starters or rp threads if you aren’t my partner.

10. Although I do research my muses before writing them, I don’t know absolutely everything about witchcraft, and I’m limited by what content I can find on the internet. I also tend to make shit up because I fuckin LOVE worldbuilding! Please be patient with me. I’m here to roleplay, not play Um, Actually.

11. I’m not here to start drama, nor am I keen on being dragged into it, HOWEVER, if you have a problem with my friends, you have a problem with me. Trying to pit me against a partner will result in an instant block.

12. If you’re a bigot of any kind or you support known abusers (I.E. Am*er He*rd), stay off my blog.

13. I don’t roleplay with people who FC hunt. If you’re only interested in my characters because of the FC I use, we’re not compatible partners. If I see a tag on your blog like ‘wanted opposite’ or ‘wanted partner’ or something to that effect, it will result in an immediate unfollow/block.

[solo-returned]

1. No Godmodding. I play my character, you play yours, NPCs are fair game!

2. NSFW content will be present. I’ll tag triggers, but not NSFW. I don’t do smut unless it’s with someone I trust and know extremely well, but I’ll write most of what leads up to it. (Making out, getting handsy, etc.) If things get to a point where I’m no longer comfortable writing, I’ll probably request a timeskip or fade out.

3. Mun does not equal muse.

4. As I said I tag triggers. The tagging system I use is (trigger tw) with no parentheses. If there is a specific trigger you would like me to tag, shoot me a DM. I don’t have many triggers, aside from graphic motor vehicle accidents.

5. I have a job that stresses me the fuck out. Five days a week. Unpredictable timing. I don’t always have the spoons to be online and/or productive. I might disappear for days/weeks/months on end. That isn’t my intention, of course, but it’s happened before and it’s likely to happen again. Please be patient with me. If it’s been a while since my last reply, shoot me a DM, but please be respectful about it.

6. If you send Anon hate, you’re a coward. Say it to my face or don’t say it at all.

7. Constructive criticism is always welcome! Just don’t be an ass about it. I do research my muses before attempting to play them, and while I don’t know everything about Star Wars, I don’t need anyone trying to subject me to an involuntary game of Um, Actually.

8. I don’t format my posts a whole lot beyond bold, italics, strikethroughs, and/or fun colors, and I probably won’t always use icons. I do try to cut my posts, but I mainly am on mobile, so I may forget from time to time. I don’t like using small text or unnecessary spacing. I don’t know how to use fancy fonts other than the ones in the normal dropdown menu. You can do whatever you want, as long as I’m able to read it without my eyes hurting.

9. Please don’t kill my muse without my permission. Ask first. It’s just rude not to.

10. I ship chemistry. I’m not going to force my muse on anyone who doesn’t want him, and that doesn’t just go for sex and romance. That being said, I play him as being bisexual and he can be a flirt. If your muse isn’t interested, tell me. If your muse is interested, tell me!

11. Likes are fine, but please do not reblog my roleplay threads if you’re not my partner. It clogs up the notes and makes it hard for me to find replies.

12. I don’t do drama. I’m not here to make enemies or get involved in discourse. I’m here to dick around and have fun. If you’re looking for trouble, do me a favor and go somewhere else.

13. Don’t try and start shit with my friends. If you have a problem with them, you have a problem with me. I’ve known most of them for years now and I trust and love them deeply.

14. If you are a TERF, homophobe, biphobe, acephobe, racist, antisemite, any other sort of bigot, or you support Ambe.r H.ea.rd, get the fuck off my blog. You will see no mercy from my block button.

15. I don’t send in passwords. If I can find your rules on mobile, I read them. Sometimes over and over again. Sometimes I revisit them just to make sure I remember them correctly. But if you follow me and you have a password in your rules, I’m not following you back. Sorry. Messes with my anxiety brain.

[immortallibrarians]

1. No Godmodding. I play my character, you play yours, NPCs are fair game!

2. NSFW content will be present. I’ll tag triggers, but not NSFW. I don’t do smut unless it’s with someone I trust and know extremely well, but I’ll write most of what leads up to it. (Making out, getting handsy, etc.) If things get to a point where I’m no longer comfortable writing, I’ll probably request a timeskip or fade out.

3. Mun does not equal muse.

4. As I said I tag triggers. The tagging system I use is (trigger tw) with no parentheses. If there is a specific trigger you would like me to tag, shoot me a DM. I don’t have many triggers, aside from graphic motor vehicle accidents.

5. I have a job that stresses me the fuck out. Five days a week. Unpredictable timing. I don’t always have the spoons to be online and/or productive. I might disappear for days/weeks/months on end. That isn’t my intention, of course, but it’s happened before and it’s likely to happen again. Please be patient with me. If it’s been a while since my last reply, shoot me a DM, but please be respectful about it.

6. If you send Anon hate, you’re a coward. Say it to my face or don’t say it at all.

7. Constructive criticism is always welcome! Just don’t be an ass about it. I do research my muses before attempting to play them, and while I don’t know everything about libraries or pocket dimensions, I don’t need anyone trying to subject me to an involuntary game of Um, Actually.

8. I don’t format my posts a whole lot beyond bold, italics, strikethroughs, and/or fun colors, and I probably won’t always use icons. I do try to cut my posts, but I mainly am on mobile, so I may forget from time to time. I don’t like using small text or unnecessary spacing. I don’t know how to use fancy fonts other than the ones in the normal dropdown menu. You can do whatever you want, as long as I’m able to read it without my eyes hurting.

9. Please don’t kill Leo or Rilien without my permission. Ask first. It’s just rude not to.

10. I ship chemistry. I’m not going to force my muses on anyone who doesn’t want them, and that doesn’t just go for sex and romance. That being said, flirtation will probably happen. If your muse isn’t interested, tell me. If your muse is interested, tell me!

11. Likes are fine, but please do not reblog my roleplay threads if you’re not my partner. It clogs up the notes and makes it hard for me to find replies.

12. I don’t do drama. I’m not here to make enemies or get involved in discourse. I’m here to dick around and have fun. If you’re looking for trouble, do me a favor and go somewhere else.

13. Don’t try and start shit with my friends. If you have a problem with them, you have a problem with me. I’ve known most of them for years now and I trust and love them deeply.

14. If you are a TERF, homophobe, biphobe, acephobe, racist, antisemite, any other sort of bigot, or you support Ambe.r H.ea.rd, get the fuck off my blog. You will see no mercy from my block button.

15. I don’t send in passwords. If I can find your rules on mobile, I read them. Sometimes over and over again. Sometimes I revisit them just to make sure I remember them correctly. But if you follow me and you have a password in your rules, I’m not following you back. Sorry. Messes with my anxiety brain.

[mechanakin]

1. No Godmodding. I play my character, you play yours, NPCs are fair game!

2. NSFW content will be present. I’ll tag triggers, but not NSFW. I don’t do smut unless it’s with someone I trust and know extremely well, but I’ll write most of what leads up to it. (Making out, getting handsy, etc.) If things get to a point where I’m no longer comfortable writing, I’ll probably request a timeskip or fade out.

3. Mun does not equal muse.

4. As I said I tag triggers. The tagging system I use is (trigger tw) with no parentheses. If there is a specific trigger you would like me to tag, shoot me a DM. I don’t have many triggers, aside from graphic motor vehicle accidents.

5. I have a job that stresses me the fuck out. Five days a week. Unpredictable timing. I don’t always have the spoons to be online and/or productive. I might disappear for days/weeks/months on end. That isn’t my intention, of course, but it’s happened before and it’s likely to happen again. Please be patient with me. If it’s been a while since my last reply, shoot me a DM, but please be respectful about it.

6. If you send Anon hate, you’re a coward. Say it to my face or don’t say it at all.

7. Constructive criticism is always welcome! Just don’t be an ass about it. I do research my muses before attempting to play them, and while I don’t know everything about Star Wars, I don’t need anyone trying to subject me to an involuntary game of Um, Actually.

8. I don’t format my posts a whole lot beyond bold, italics, strikethroughs, and/or fun colors, and I probably won’t always use icons. I do try to cut my posts, but I mainly am on mobile, so I may forget from time to time. I don’t like using small text or unnecessary spacing. I don’t know how to use fancy fonts other than the ones in the normal dropdown menu. You can do whatever you want, as long as I’m able to read it without my eyes hurting.

9. Please don’t kill Anakin without my permission. Ask first. It’s just rude not to.

10. I ship chemistry. I’m not going to force my muse on anyone who doesn’t want him, and that doesn’t just go for sex and romance. That being said, I play him as being bisexual and he can be a flirt. If your muse isn’t interested, tell me. If your muse is interested, tell me!

11. Likes are fine, but please do not reblog my roleplay threads if you’re not my partner. It clogs up the notes and makes it hard for me to find replies.

12. I don’t do drama. I’m not here to make enemies or get involved in discourse. I’m here to dick around and have fun. If you’re looking for trouble, do me a favor and go somewhere else.

13. Don’t try and start shit with my friends. If you have a problem with them, you have a problem with me. I’ve known most of them for years now and I trust and love them deeply.

14. If you are a TERF, homophobe, biphobe, acephobe, racist, antisemite, any other sort of bigot, or you support Ambe.r H.ea.rd, get the fuck off my blog. You will see no mercy from my block button.

15. I don’t send in passwords. If I can find your rules on mobile, I read them. Sometimes over and over again. Sometimes I revisit them just to make sure I remember them correctly. But if you follow me and you have a password in your rules, I’m not following you back. Sorry. Messes with my anxiety brain.