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I canāt believe a boyfriend made a silly sex joke to lighten the mood after both partners had a moment of vulnerability. The audacity. The horror. The normalcy! Unbelievable. How dare a conversation about feelings turn to levity. How dare a couple have a light chat about trauma-related things over dinner that doesnāt turn into an incredibly deep heart to heart instead of a joke and moving on. Unbelievable. Iām never watching this show again! šš»
#911 spoilers#bucktommy#Evan buckley#Tommy kinard#look#as a queer person in a relationship with another queer person#both of whom have major familial trauma#trust me when I say you generally DONT WANT ever reference to your feelings and trauma to turn into a huge deep discussion#sometimes you just say something vulnerable#and the other person does too#and then you joke about it and move on#humour is powerful coping mechanism as well#one that is pretty common especially among guys#people need to freaking relax ffs#Tommy is not a horrible person for making a flirty joke#things were said and feelings were acknowledged#and then they moved on#this is all perfectly freaking natural#Buck is not some sensitive flower that canāt handle a silly joke about daddy issues#please I beg you all to look at this at a distance with some common sense#rather than the ābut Buck is traumatized and must always be treated delicately!!ā lens#and I am saying all of this as someone who really doesnāt give two fucks about the joke itself#Iām not into daddy kink idgaf#but if the idea that a queer couple isnāt allowed to insert a flirty joke to lighten a moment of vulnerability#then I donāt know what to tell you#you personally finding something innapropriate does not mean itās actually innapropriate#please just chill out ffs#no one wants to hear about how evil Tommy is for hitting on his boyfriend for months and months to come
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this is gonna be jumbled no doubt but iām thinking about my p3 twins/kotone lives au where itās likeā¦
okay, so makoto becomes the great seal and kotone gets to live. incredibly tragic, but things are okā¦ ish. enough. kotoneās surviving in the aftermath. then comes the answer, and aw shit, here we go again. when aigis summons makotoās orpheus, itās the first time kotone cries about losing her brother since march 5. and this snaps something in her and she becomes sort of very not well, so mitsuru has to intervene and unseat her as leader of sees, instituting aigis in her place. and thatās fine! itās whatever, itās fine.
so theyāre going about this bullshit again and kotoneās so obviously unwell that really only yukari can bridge that gap to her, and sees well. they sure get through it. until they learn about the keys and the ability to go back and kotone and yukari team up on team āgo back to the past.ā we all know why yukariās doing itāto see makoto again and save himābut kotoneās doing it so she can join makoto as part of the great seal like she was always meant to. and she does not tell yukari this!! not until theyāre fighting aigis and metis in the coliseum and yukari realizes oh, what? you want to go back so you can basically kill yourself? were we not good enough for you? was i not good enough for you? and kotoneās like that is NOT it you wouldnāt understand
in the end, when kotone realizes sheās being an idiot and makoto gave his life because he wanted her to live and continue to forge bonds like the ones sheās created in the past year, she sobs, again, apologizing profusely, no wonder mitsuru unseated her as leader of sees, sheās fucked up so badly. sees has to tell her that itās okay, really, they understand, and so kotone keeps going and lives another day, just like makoto wanted her to
#LIKE TO ME IT IS EXTREMELY COMPLICATED. AND I MAY NOT HAVE EXPLAINED IT WELL HERE. BUT#WELL SIMPLY I THINK KOTONE IN THE ANSWER AS A PARALLEL TO YUKARIāS DESIRE TO RETURN TO THE PASTā¦.#āif i could go back iād save his lifeā vs āif i could go back iād sacrifice mine alongside himļæ½ļæ½#what if we were really bad at handling grief AND we took it out on our closest friendsā¦ and we were both girls?#i have thoughts abt aigis in this too in the likeā¦ wishing she could help them move on more than she /can/#the destructive nature of grief and how human it is and how aigis is powerless to make it go away for them#ohhhhhhh yukahamugis you are so the world to me. anyway#kotone shiomi#yukaham#persona 3#p3#p3 spoilers#jupiter text
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the king shunned, the lion dead, the knight lost, the princess absent. but the wizard lives.
#pokemon#swsh#champion league#cw: gore#hi! this one is also about being trans btw. but mostly it's abt stories#I think I was drawing this one like ''leon should get to have fun a little'' and it turned into. this#well. there are many things already! like I've been rotating the lion dance costume head as trophy thing in my brain since#that one doodle I did with that lion head#the original idea for this has the wreaths more prominent and also pizelated#and. it tried to incorporate something that needs much more delicate handling#than I'm currently capable of. so I shelved it for this instead#I think this piece is just like. fully linking the king-knight-beast-princess-wizard figures altogether for leon#u know what I think abt all that! u kno whats up#but also just a tiny bit. this was drawn with that whole once-a-month disk horse abt sexing skeleton remains#about which my only real thought is ''I gotta be buried in a solid metal salmon suit then''#well. if I were to be buried at all. I'm good to be thrown out for a natural meal as well of course#(technically) first piece after job babey!!#in the end the tiger wanted to be drawn first but this was started way beforehand#I think because I wanted something more ink-heavy. since my job art was almost entirely painted#to anyone who may come into my inbox or comment to ask why the bones shine: its cause theyre wet. congrats#have a good night lads! it's nice and cool to be gross sometimes
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They shoulda kept her white roots and made her intersex
#when we saw the imp girl with the fully black hair I was actually wondering if they meant to make her intersex#and maybe her hair was fully black but her horns just had the male pattern naturally#but. well. pride art came out and she's trans so there's that#Viv couldn't handle an intersex character at all ever#let anyone an intersex MAIN character#pffft. Millie āmainā character. barely#girl I'll save you don't even worry#helluva boss critical#helluva boss#words
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Girl, help, the book authors are trying too hard to be "hip" with the fleeting "teen lingo" and trends again, immediately dating their works before they're even released
#eye twitching seeing certain modern slang in for real published books unironically#tiktokian slang that is out of date within weeks#it's a pet peeve of mine but so is modern books mentioning tiktok or stuff at all esp. when not relevant in general#god it pulls you out of the illusion#turns it into this very set in stone time frame rather than letting it just be or resonate on its own which is fine sometimes if natural#you can't avoid some mentions of some things when setting it today but in these cases it's so forced#hello fellow kidz.jpeg vibe in book form#books#this isn't even specific to ya books i've seen it in adult books as well#booklr#petty as i am i once stopped reading a first chapter excerpt for mentioning spotify by name on page 1 i'm sorry#this other book though oh they've used online phrases and boomer insult 3 times and brought up tiktok twice it's on thin f-ing ice#ignore me i'm petty but don't ignore me because this is a legit problem in the media industry#don't even get me started on text speak in the dialogue or texting sections yeah#it's not quite as bad if it's some fake variation of an app or just generic about being online but mentioning by name oh i'm gonna explode#most times anyway#i have yet to see it handled well#this was about slang though so tangent but !! gaah
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You're doomed--may you never fathom who you are!
Oedipus Tyrannus, lines 1167-1173 (tr. Robert Fagles)
#qin su#jin guangyao#this play isn't even really about the incest! it's about the nature of fate and the cost of truth!!#because Oedipus doomed himself years before the play even started by trying to AVOID his fate#and dooms himself a second time with his well-intended pursuit of the truth because he cannot handle what he learns#meanwhile a critical choice that Jocasta's actor gets to make is when SHE finds out#is it somewhat earlier in the play? or is it before the play even begins?#because she and Oedipus have a good thing going#given the typical first-marriage age for girls Oedipus and Jocasta likely have the same or LESS of a gap than she did with Laius#and so you can absolutely play it as her knowing but not wanting to mess things up#sorry for the tag wall but ppl have such misconceptions about this play I need you to know why it workssss#thank u for coming to my Oed Talk
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How evil is arlecchino and what is she cooking
As of 4.2, Iām really curious what theyāre planning with Arlecchino as a character, especially as a villain/antagonist/morally dubious character, and how far/which direction they may go with that
Intuitively my impression is weāll see her do something way more āvillainousā than she presents herself as being for majority of Fontaineās AQ in front of us rightā(which isnāt a surprise given that, you know, Arlecchino nor the House of Hearth have never been presented as 110% ethical LOL) but I find myself not being in complete agreement with most analysis or speculation threads I see about Arlecchinoās morality and the like, level of sinister people seem to ascribe to her.
Idk how to put it, especially in regards to her children I do agree they are not a wholesome found family, that Arlecchino is not above pulling strings or using them for her own ulterior motives, but I kind of hesitate on the idea she only cares about the Hearth children as a means to the end/things she can control and thereās nothing else going on with her characterization wise there. Iām not saying that impression seems remotely unreasonable or unfounded, but just that it feels thereās something intentionally missing in how we are supposed to conceptualize her as a person
My main reasoning for this hunch is the fact they have not elaborated on Arlecchino and the previous Knaveāwho Arlecchino is stated to have taken over the position from by force. The extra tidbits I think about are that 1) Arlecchino was previously an orphan in the Hearth 2) the previous Knave is described as way, way crueler to the children of than Heart than Arlecchino was from when she took control of the House
Often, peopleās major indicators that the House of the Hearth is kind of super fucked up are the NPCs we meet in world quests who are part of it and clearly suffering. But one thing I havenāt ever seen people mention w this that i think is a very interesting detail is, in The Very Special Fortune Slip Inazuma worldquest, where we stop this House of Hearth guy (Efim Snezhevich) from manufacturing tension between Watasumi/the Shogunate to restart the war with his other Hearth subordinates, at the end of the quest we get this dialogue that reveals he had been acting under the previous Knaveās directives:
Itās also mentioned heās employing this plan in an attempt to ārebuild the prestige of the Knaveā following Signoraās death, iirc? Now, see, the dialogue itself says that this is āassuming our captive is telling the truthā so who knows whatās really going on, but I find this a really odd/interesting thing to highlight. Iām a bit fuzzy on other world quests with Hearth members, and am not saying none of them were acting and subsequently being treated poorly by our Arlecchino, but like, this gives me a lot of questions especially when paired with implications this previous Knave seemed to be way worse
Like, what drove Arlecchino to take over? How unexpected and controversial was this within the House? Assuming the above information is all true it definitely says something this guy went rogue and acted on what the previous Knave would want and didnāt think our Arlecchino would greenlight it, which does feel consistent with the previous Knave being described as basically worse & crueler than our Arlecchino. It also makes me question how much house of hearth things weāve seen outside the main story are the work of our Arlecchino or if thereās a bigger divide of loyalty. Heck, I could be wrong but it doesnāt even seem like we know if the previous Knave is dead or not
This isnāt me saying Arlecchino couldnāt possibly be treating hearth children worse than she wants us to know, especially ones who arenāt her āfavoritesā the way the fontaine trio seem to be, but I really donāt feel sure about making a solid conclusion of her exact level of malice the way ppl r generally understanding it rn when it feels thereās going to be more about her. Just the idea of she, as a Hearth child, clashed with the previous leader who was known for being cruel, overtook their position and took on less harsh methods of leading that made at least some members with more power/possible closer proximity to the previous Knave go rogue and try to commit atrocities in the previous Knaveās nameā¦I feel this leaves a lot of room to suggest thereās more going on with how Arlecchino is as a person
I donāt mind if sheās just very evil and deceptive bc if she totally had me fall for thinking she was less evil than she actually was thatās fun tbh. But I feel people suggest thatās all her character could be with no degree of like, āsympatheticnessā or deep grey morality and that if her character did go there it would be automatically poor writing and genshin walking back on making a truly evil woman when IDK. I feel you can claim at this point they have left it open ended and itās never been completely confirmed sheās pure evil. Also sometimes I just get a hunch and feel cautiously confident in Genshin executing certain characters well. Not all characters, just certain ones. Especially given Fontaineās character writing being very good and a character like Lyney feeling very solid to me when any development with Arlecchino would likely involve him and his siblings as well, I honestly feel open to the idea of Arlecchino being satisfyingly written to be both villainous/morally dubious but āsympathetic/likable as a personā in ways outside of just her ruthlessness if that makes sense
If Iām wrong/they drop the ball with it more than I anticipate Iāll eat my hat but I am pretty excited about her character and which way they decide to go with it. I will say the only potential impression I have of where theyāll go with her has been wondering if it will go in a ācycles of abuseā directionāIād be surprised if they ever elaborated on Arlecchinoās character especially in how she feels about things and her also growing up as an exploited child of the hearth wasnāt relevant
#arlecchino#see my track record with said hunch with when I feel I should let genshin cook has been#for months truthing my vision of xiaoās speififc brand of internalized dehumanization induced suicidal ideation#and how genshin will one day he will get another quest of sorts thst develops his character towards#the idea heās allowed to live and enjoy peopleās company and this will likely#also come with following through on yaksha lore and when they do this they will do him SO well and it will be peak genshin quest#all of this Months before the existence of perilous trails was even rumored#and then I was soo stubborn xiao would show up in 2023 lantern rite w more character introspection to follow up PT#and also from the first fontsine teaser I was in the trenches for furina bc I felt so confident#the main storyline would handle her very well & if genshin went anywhere near the direction of her#not being a ātrue archonā & ppl were Wrong if they thought genshin woudlnt take her seriously#and HAHA. WWOOWOOWOWOEOEOOEOEE#I have also been sent into hysteria multiple times bc genshin keeps canonizing my exact ideas of my favorite character dynamics#and often exceeding my expectations that I thought were jsut wishful thinking#yes I predicted exactly how xiao would interact w Venti & zhongli on screen yes I predicted#the exact nature of hat radish friendship no I was wiped out on the floor#by nahida enrolling wanderer in college & calling him hat guy & zhongli saving xiaoās life#& xiao having hardcore social anxiety from zhongven flirting with each other st the dinner table#this sounds so conceited. see I often donāt know What genshin is cooking but k feel sure in knowing when soemthing is going to be#a shitshow or mediocre or when we need to let them cook. even if it takes 6+ months#TRUST ME <ā guy who has been waiting on genshin to cook for several characters for multiple years and is still sure I will get my food#am I crazy. yes. am I also often right when I have hunches on when genshin is going to suck and when itās going to be good esp character#writing wise. often yes#one day I will annihilate genshined impact with my bare hands#genshin#fern.txt#fandomferns
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this could be kuwameshi if you guys would like. take my hand and trust me
#yyh spoilers in tags#like major spoilers ok#which ig i dont usually tag but whatever#the if i had to choose between the world and you it's you thing happened. and it was KUWABARA like hhhhgghh#yusuke makes him forget his honor code sometimes and i need you guys to see that with me#bc it makes me wanna fling myself into the ocean over and over again#kuwabara literally is like you need to be alive bc otherwise im nothing idek who i am. please let me punch you#and he wails this multiple times#and yusuke would burn down the world himself if he thought it'd help his friends we all know that#and doomed by the narrative? mmm with the ever escalating world ending nature of being a spirit detective thats kinda there#throw in the sudden demon-human age gap post yusuke death 2 and you've got some narrative dooming in a way#but not enough for me to well and truly call them doomed by the narrative#yyh#yu yu hakusho#kuwameshi#kazuma kuwabara#yusuke urameshi#ofc i can handle you at your worst thats basically you all the time is Very kuwa to yusuke#and maybe we can figure out what the hell ur problem is over dinner sometime is Very yusuke to kuwa#actually i should draw that. or make it a textpost or something#but like turning up the protectiveness/possessiveness thats already there with them in line with the whole#'ive watched you die' trauma they Both have means that like. i think they would Need to have each other around for a period of time#in the wake of sensui's bs perhaps. and then yusuke cuts it all off and they start to get a bit healthier about it. hm#i think about them all the time it's like if typicsl shonen rival/bestie homo-ness was kind of scary and painful#like they love each other but the ways they hurt each other and hurt over each other drive me fucking insane
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I know this might not be very popular but I would've loved to see Feyre ruling over the Night Court all by herself after acowar.
It would've been such an interesting concept and gut wrenching at the same time.
bonus: imagine her being also pregnant with their son... I'm making myself cry for no fkn reason help
#just imagine her trying to keep her court running but also grieving at the same time#going into the CoN and facing their cruel nature#misogynist and racist faes that lives there calling her half breed/human filth like they did with Rhysand and not taking her seriously#because she a woman#and that's when she becomes as cruel as every other courts think of Night Court's rulers#the IC moments that would ensure#and when she's about to give birth...#do you remember the bridgerton scene in s2 and violet screaming that her husbands should be there while being in labor?#that she can't do this without him?#yeah well now I'm full on subbing#someone should write a one-shot for this#because my heart can't handle a multi chapter for it#feysand#pro feysand#pro feyre#pro feyre archeron#feyre archeron#feyre cursebreaker#high lady feyre#high lady of the night court
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Thereās going to be a live action.
Hehehā¦ I THOUGHT THAT WAS A JOKE FROM THE BEGINNING OF THE YEAR NOT ACTUALLY REAL.
Writing quality will be anywhere between hunted or skybound.
Casting as a whole might actually have to be the canon looks for everyone.
Everything within me is screaming about the casting because it can go inline with fandom thinking, or very wrong. And weāll be stuck with it. We donāt have to justify design headcanons but once that comes out I see potential for more harassment over it because of the canon looks.
#I could be over thinking this#but also Iām not handling this well#Iāve just enjoyed seeing the variety of design differences we can have purely because every character is a little yellow person#Iām including the Morro and Jay thing#ninjago#all of this is peacock leak level shit here#the casting for the other movie has scarred me for life and Iāve lost trust in recasting for certain characters#looking specifically at Jay because to me that voice was so off.#and nya slightly that one made me feel like she is just naturally one of those#ā¦ I donāt know how to say it other than the film trying very hard to frame her as a tomboy#nothing wrong with that peruse#just felt a little too ooc#that peruse is per se I just canāt change it right now
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are tears good for the skin because if so boy howdy do i have quite the skincare routine going on
#text post#listen to me right now#when you get a dog you get a dog for the rest of that dogās natural life#and nobody fucking tells you how difficult the end of that life gets#emotionally i mean#iām fairly certain that mickey had a seizure tonight and iām not handling it well :)#anyway heās ok now and getting 10000 pets from me and my tear soaked face
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For the people asking if I'm okay, I'm fine!! Where I live it's just heavy rain but in other places there are floods and although it's not as extreme as it's been in Valencia (because there they didn't give them a damn warning btw!) it's still pretty worrisome in some zones.
#thank you for asking btw i'm naturally a very anxious person so it's been hard ngl#it's a natural disaster but i truly hope we keep spreading the word of what truly happened#and it's that they didn't handle this well at all and pelple were in the streets when they shouldn't have#i received two alerts this morning of possible danger and heavy rain telling me to not go out#but people in valencia didn't!!!!! and they're not even doing anything to fix what's broken anyway#it makes me furious#please try to spread information and ways of donating too!
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Something we liked about mouthwashing is that it had characters which fit into the āostracized by societyā group but made it very clear these people were much different from the actual perpetrator. Itās too often āsocial fuck-upsā are lumped together, giving true abusers a place to hide. Pointing that shit out as what it is and that itās very much NOT the same as, say, being an alcoholic, meant a lot to us. One is a place somebody lands in, the other is an act the person in question has full control over.
#really our only criticism of the game was how little we saw of anya but at the same time we also respect the games handling of her yknow#her attitude and whatnot felt completely normal for a victim and her distant nature added to her disconnection from the abuser#itās tricky these situations where we donāt get enough of the victim but we canāt help but feel a little forgiving too#because coming from a victim pov itās hard to see your experience picked apart for an audience#this and. the game felt incredibly violent towards the abuser which we felt pushed Anyaās feelings pretty well#we find art seems to associate curly with the forcing responsibility upon the abuser but truthfully#especially given Curlyās push over nature.#that want for the abuser to take responsibility felt much more like the voice of anya and eventually swansea too#we think Anyaās upset and anger can be felt at every moment#we think often media around the abuser has a tendency to make you sympathize#and also sideline the victim in the process#but here it didnāt feel like that nd thatās why we feel a bit different yknow#it felt anya was hidden out of respect . withdrawn from the viewer because thatās how sheās been made to feel#and in regard to you playing as the abuser. there was never once a moment we were made to feel bad for him . even when his past struggles#are brought up. itās all complete malice down to the core#and we liked how mad the game - anya - everyone - felt#we appreciate when media feels like its creator is shouting their own feelings at you#nonetheless we wish so bad we couldāve seen more anya . she was so sweet#we think if you come out of this game fixating on Jimmy and curly youāre stupid lol#writing
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wow the legend of dragoon has not aged very well lmao, the gameplay is really damn good but the writing makes me go š¬š¬š¬ like half the time
#bought the ps5 port since i heard they fixed it#holy shit the amount of casual sexism in this game hjsgjdjgjg#and the way it affects not only the dialogue but the gameplay as well#all the women have less hp bc of their āweak frail and inferior female bodiesā i guess#not only do we have an awful damsel in distress/love interest but the men are constantly like#āahaha it's only natural because you're a Womanā¢. your feeble femoid body can't handle all thisā#personal
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Friendly reminder this is a Kim Jihyun love-zone!! We appreciate him over here!! This is a safe space for people who just want to find content of Jihyun and adore him peacefully.
I will not tolerate any slander or hate on him at all. If you donāt even like his character or dislike/hate him, this is not the place for you.
#jihyunie <3#lou rambles#jihyun and his fans get behind me Iāll protect you#he deserves the world and that is a fact#I will not tolerate any slander or hate on this man#this applies to other characters as well#theyāre all fictional#feeling that much hatred and centering your interests around something you hate is unhealthy for yourself and those around you#talk about the things you love more and focus on who you love more#you can feel and have your own thoughts#thatās natural and healthy#and youāre allowed to state your opinions and talk about whoever you want#but handle it and do so in a mature manner#mystic messenger#jihyun kim#kim jihyun
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i think I'm gonna try using tumblr less if i can
I'll probably fail and you're still gonna see me online a lot but. yeah I'm gonna at least try to make my visits shorter
#seeing things abt The Situation is making my mental health really really bad#and well. ppl are posting abt it. naturally. they should tbh it's an important topic i just can't handle seeing it#that being said I'm gonna sound really dramatic but it's true:#if you see i haven't posted anything at all for like 2 weeks in a row that means i probably died or at least got seriously hurt
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