#my wife and me

[digitalclowns]

SO!!! Now that the Grand Festival is over, let me share some of my favorite pics and experiences I got from it!

Me getting to watch all of the idols :’) I love them so much

Guys look it’s me (Marina) and my girlfriend (Pearl)

Pearlina is so me and @staticsunbeam istg I love them so much

THEYRE SO IN LOVE TOO LIKE

MARINA YOU ARE NOT SUBTLE!!!

(Also OTH are my faves can you tell)

ME AT THE GRANDFEST!!! I had the honor of playing, using the following weapons:

- Octo Shot Replica

- Krak-On Roller

- Order Heavy Splatting Replica

- Heavy Splatting

Having such a time at the Fest :)

ANYWAY THATS PART 1 BECAUSE IM ON PHONE AND THERES A PIC LIMIT SO EXPECT MORE

[sorta-responsible-lesbian]

My wife and me listening to Chappell Roan and Reneè Rapp during the whole month of pride is honestly so iconic of us

[marcelinesghost13]

[serial-unaliver]

favorite breed of post

[crabanarchy]

i miss cd drives. how could you just take her pussy away. likes its nothing

[peanutseagle]

Yeah. so. episode three

[mejkosmos]

hot people fw with spideypool AND poolverine btwbtw

[kensatou]

"we know how to move our bodies, but i didn't know how to manage my heart, so you need help for this"

hi we need to talk more about judo gold medallist christa deguchi.

[gentlemosses]

butch love letter

14x18in acrylic on canvas

[tortol]

i really think rose quartz is the voice of our times she was suicidal she was bisexual she was a libra she was fat she was horny all the time she was pink she went to war against herself she fumbles people who demand emotional intimacy from her she has a very loose grip on reality she loves everything and hates herself she somehow has mommy issues despite belonging to a species where mothers do not exist her boobs are self-made she was into soundcloud rappers she has committed identity theft and a hundred other war crimes she has several pet lions one of which is a zombie and she couldn’t break out of herself. peace and love on planet girl

[peachieons]

the deep sea creatures when a scientist shows up with a flashlight outta no where

[talaricula]

Things I've seen tumblr memeing about James Somerton doing à la "How did no one see how bigoted he was!" as if those things haven't been a significant part of tumblr culture for over a decade :

Presenting untrue and bordering on conspiratorial versions of (queer or otherwise marginalised) history without any sources

Completely disregarding and disrespecting any expertise on socio-cultural topics/humanities and distrusting academics and historians (incl. acting as if no academics or historians could be queer or marginalised)

Downplaying the role misogyny played in the historical oppression of queer women and concluding that queer men must have been more oppressed than queer women

Bi women are, at best, not as queer as "real" queer ppl, and at worst, simply equivalent to straight women

Despite nominal trans inclusivity, transmasculine ppl are functionally women when convenient (combined with the above, bi transmascs are functionally straight women)

Despite nominal trans inclusivity (bis), shamelessly attacking, threatening and actively endangering any trans woman who questions them or smth they find important (often by unfairly presenting her as violent or as a threat)

Having absolutely fucking wild and reductive takes about ace ppl, the oppression they face and their place in the queer community

Stating that marriage equality is an assimilationist fight while completely ignoring its direct roots in the horrifying consequences of the AIDS crisis for partners of ppl who died of AIDS

Praising western media creators from the past for queer coding even under censure and in the same breath condemning current non western media creators for being homophobic bc their representation isn't explicit enough

Blaming China for all existing homophobic censoring in western media

Assuming all queer media would be better told by western creators and by western standards

Only out queer ppl get to tell queer stories

Heavily criticising almost all queer media created by women or ppl they see as such (see above points about trans ppl) or involving/starring a significant amount of women for any perceived or real amount of "problematicness", but fawning over and praising and negating criticism of queer media created by and starring mostly or even functionally exclusively men (even when it could be argued that, you know, not involving/seriously sidelining women is a pretty clear example of misogyny which should probably be considered "problematic")

And I'm probably forgetting stuff or there's stuff I have internalised myself and don't recognise as an issue

Like idk but I feel like the takeaway from Hbomberguy and Toddintheshadow's videos should maybe be "be aware of such patterns in your communities bc they definitely exist" and not "this guy is uniquely awful" and I feel like a lot of the discussion I've seen surrounding this has been severely failing at that. Most ppl who've spent any significant amount of time on tumblr prob either have internalised at least one of those thought patterns, have had to de-internalise them, or have had to be extremely vigilant to not internalise them (which is done by, you know, seeking out other sources, which also seemed like an important takeaway from the videos)

[angelyoungss]

Reblog if you love what you seeing 🥰

[chez-cinnamon]

A Familiar Fondness...

Episode 3 will now be my personality for the next few days (Dad Kinger for the win !!!!!)

[cheekedupwhiteboy]

[phantom-shell]

You say you're tryin' to build a transuniversal polydimensional metavortex? Well that's mathematically feasible, I reckon! :D