#my moms on the other side of the country
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guys im spending my 20th bday alone
#I fear they want me to end it#my twin brother's in another country#my moms on the other side of the country#my dad will go on a trip w his gf that weekend#my best friend is getting her wisdom tooth removed PLUS her mom is taking her back to her hometown the day before my bday#AND NOOWWWWW my other close friend is leaving to the us for a trip the day before my bday again.#KMSSSSSSS KMS KMS KMS KMS KMS#this might be my 13th reason im not even joking rn#! clearing mind .. 🫧
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Google search how to tell my family I wanna move states
#I'll stay in the region because I'm not leaving my mountains#Big Sis went to the other side of the country for school and Mom and Dad had a hard time#I just wanna go a few states north#definitely too far for a weekend trip#but i found a house and a potential roommate#i just need the money
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Alexithymic Jason and Percy who use Nico's ability to see souls to figure out what their emotions are because otherwise they do not know.
#percy calling nico: hey my mom says i look sad. i dont feel sad though#nico who can spot Percy's soul from the other side of the country at this point: you are sad. there were no eggo waffles in the freezer#percy jackson#nico di angelo#jason grace#happy talks pjo
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MY PARENTS ARE GETTING DIVORCED 🎉🥳🎉🎊🎉🎊🎉🥳🎊🎉🎊🎉🎊🥳🎉🎊🎉🥳
#DIDNT THINK SHE HAD IT IN HER#aksjakskan she was like ‘i don’t want to cause you grief’ like mom i hate the guy i am jumping for joy rn#truly thought she was gonna tell me that they were moving back in together. THAT would have made me move to the other side of the country#good LORD thank God praise the lord oh my goodness this is the best news i’ve ever heard#IT TOOK A YEAR GUYS#lindsay.text
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forever sad i couldnt see Ai and Mayu in la anime con...........sigh.........
#id have to fly to the other side of the country and i aint doin allat.....#well my mom aint doin allat
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my dads gonna be homeless again 🗿
#hes been applying for jobs for months but nobodys calling him back#hes been without his antidepressants and cancer treatments for months#he doesnt habe a car. hes literally gonna be on the streets again and i have no idea how to help him#i can take his cat and maybe store some of his stuff#but thats it#he doesnt have any family to help him#the only reason hes in florida is for me. and now all his family is on the other side of the country and he has no support#i dont know what to do or how to comfort him#i cant tell him its all going to be okay because its literally not. i dont know how to get him help#my mom would never let him stay in our house. we cant afford it and she wouldnt want him around#i jsut feel so helpless.#i dont want to lose my dad again#i know hes suicidal. hes attempted before and im so scared this will be the last straw
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feeling emotional
#my best friend’s mom passed away last june so this is her first mother’s day without her#and so to celebrate mother’s day this year she drove 3 hours back to our hometown#to buy and deliver mother’s day gifts to my mom and our other friends mom because the two of us live on the other side of the country#and i just 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭#i love that she feels loved by our moms and that she loves them
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#oh my gosh I wish my mom cared about my personal struggles as a gay/trans person the way she cares about strangers’ :)#that’s all I’m gonna say if I stay here to unpack any more I’ll be here forever but yeah lol crazy !#imagine crying about a 30yo gay dude on the other side of the country when you have an almost 30 yo son#that you either completely ignore or call overdramatic#gays r great when they’re not at home huh#mrow.org
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still heartbroken but cannot move
#i've understood a good while ago that kurdish people are alone in their suffering more than any other muslim people#i suppose bc our biggest oppressor being turkey which is such a beloved country among muslims just erases our struggle#bc any other oppressed muslim people i can think of are suffering either in the hands of non muslim nations or their own corrupt governments#so it gives them a lot more ''credibility''. like there are rules to oppression with credentials you have to meet in order to be valid#in order for your oppression your persecution the distruction of you home(land) the cultural genocide you experience to be valid and real#and cared about by the general muslim population. i have honestly and genuinely not seen any more silence than when it was about us#from the muslim community. i have to time and time again watch how people side with turkey praise their actions eat up their propaganda#and the lost lives arent lost lives but we're lying about them#and no matter how often this pattern is repeated and our very real suffering invalidated and thus ignored#it still shatters my heart an unspeakable amount when i witness it#especially when i then watch the muslim community condemn other nations for the same crimes turkey commits against the kurdish people#turkey does no wrong is the common narrative. and i always feel so lonely in my grief#i still remember october 2019 when trump withdrew the troops from rojava & gave turkey the green light to invade#they inflicted and still inflict immerusable suffering in the region. they bombed them only last week#i remember 4 years ago my mom on the phone with a friend who had fled from the region due to the syrian war#i remember her silently crying on the phone with my mom. she was on speaker. we cried with her#she was as helpless as we were just watching the news about turkey wreaking havoc. she still had family there#and this is just the smallest fraction of what turkey and inflicted upon the kurdish people. but of course it's all fake. we fabricate it#bc we're bored. our tears are fake our families getting bombed are lying. and turkey can do no wrong.#nesi rants
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sending love <3 twenties are lonely but u get there <3 i had that experience when i was 19 of like, all my friends leaving and i felt so profoundly lonely even when i was sticking like glue to new people, who are now my housemates and closest friends. it takes time but you'll make it there! sending so much love xx
thanks bestie <3 yeah i feel like ive just never really been in a place where i had like a solid group of friends, like even in high school i had a friend group but even then i never felt truly close to most of them and sometimes (like rn) i just get really in my feels about it and im like maybe im just never going to have that like maybe im just never going to meet a group of cool girls who all actually like me. maybe that’s just not my path in life. and it’s fine like im fine and i like myself so im okay with being alone but it’s just lonely sometimes
#like im 23 and my only real friend is my mom who lives on the other side of the country#like that’s depressing as fuck lol.#answered#bougainvilea
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bad time at the gyno very very bad time :(
#i might have to get surgery on my uterus#this wretched thing does nothing but cause problems !!!!#im so so sad and scared and miserable#and i hate that i have to do this alone#cause my sister is on the other side of the country my dads not gonna wanna talk about it my moms gonna make it about herself#what about me u know#i have a couple of friends here and my mutuals are so sweet and great sure#but i don’t wanna burden any of them..#cause this gets kinda heavy u know#i’m so sad#snow.txt
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if it weren’t for 9/11 my folks wouldn’t have gotten together 💀
it's so weird to me that everyone on this website is a human person outside of their weird internet niche so rb this with a random bit of your lore
#tw 9/11#so ma was in nyc when it happened and pa was in los angeles#they had originally met as middle schoolers in the 80s on a navy base#in 2001 -about 13 years later- they started talking over email and became like…online friends kinda#ig they mutually liked each other but nothing had happened- they were on opposite sides of the country#but after the attacks pa bought a plane ticket from la all the way to brooklyn to make sure mom was alright#and then after a nice trip where they hung out and had fun…he pulled over the car and kissed her on the drive back to the airport#ma moved to los angeles pretty soon after (not JUST for him! she also did pilot school! but mainly for him lol)#and uh yeah they’re happily married now and have been for like 20 years#like three years ago on 9/11 my dad was telling me about it and he paused and said “woah if it weren’t for 9/11 you wouldn’t have been born#reblog tag#rambling#personal stuff#i guess
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I remember one therapist I saw a few years ago asked my mom (she went to the first appearance with me) and then me if my dad ever raised his voice at me when I was young. I don’t think he ever did, and my mom agreed. But now I know why I feel apprehensive to loud noises. It’s my grandmother (from my mom’s side and pretty much all of her family) that talks really really loudly
#my grandma and my mom are staying here for a few days for a doctor’s appointment and I forgot how loud my grandma talks#I live in an apartment complex and you can hear everything form the other apartments when you are in the kitchen or bathroom#so my brother and I have become more mindful of the volumen at which we talk#my mom sometimes forget but then she remembers and lowers her voice just a bit#my grandma has been here a few times but she doesn’t care bc she just talks loudly#she lives and has always lived by the country side in big houses with a lot of people#so she got used to talk really loud#it’s a bit annoying bc we are used to peace and quiet#and right now it’s annoying bc my brother and I are both working from home and have meetings and stuff#I am the lucky one bc my office space is in the spare room while his is in a nook by the living room#so it’s not a closed space#tldr: I don’t like loud noises and I’m 90% that it is bc I grew up with a lot of people yelling around me
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My granddad died in February and my grandma only told me today. Damn dude
#i wasnt reallyclose to him but its still really sad#not her fault i think her memory is not so good anymore and she lives on the other side of the country from me. idk#i have some of his floral watercolor paintings hangin on my wall. he was a good artist and it made him happy to do#this is on my dads side. never had a granddad on my moms side
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I appreciate everyone's prayers, I've just been informed she passed away. My mother and I reached out to multiple relatives trying to figure out where she was in hospice but unfortunately no one was able/willing to tell us so it's unlikely she was able to speak with a priest or received last rites before the end. Please pray for the repose of her soul.
If you could spare a moment, please in your charity pray for my great Aunt Dorothy. There's miscommunication between the family, but it's likely she's near death. She was raised Catholic but was made to give up her faith when she married decades ago. Please pray that she is able to speak with a priest and receive last rites before the end.
#the frustration is she was probably no more then an hour away#that side of the family just refuses to communicate#her daughter outright ignored a text from my mom#we had to learn about her death indirectly from another relative on the other side of the country#God have mercy
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i mean yeah i've had some really bad experiences w border security, especially as a child, but people in the us arguing that they can't travel to other countries or whatever because "mexico border security is highly militarized" when the ease with which us citizens can cross into mexico is basically a trope in hollywood... ok
#also my worst border experiences were related to border security thinking my mom was a soviet spy or some shit#also on one occasion i think they wanted to make sure she wasn't kidnapping us. it was.#bad! like#we ended up getting trapped in germany for weeks#and it cost us so much#especially because like#my family was broke on one side and on the other#like... czech currency is sort of.#like we're really one of those countries people go to because they can take advantage of how cheap things are comparatively#since we don't have the euro#but anyways#yeah. that post is so annoying lol
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