#my giving love language is giving gifts and words of affirmation

[mygnolia]

FOR THE REST OF MY DAYS

୨୧ -› how enhypen loves you + love languages :)

pair -› enhypen x fem! reader | wc -› 600 | no warnings! | library

lee heeseung loves you before he even realizes it himself. he loves you because he pushes back your hair and wipes away a smudge of your lipstick before his heart grows incredibly tight. he loves you like it’s second nature, because it’s easy to care for you, but even easier to simply exist around you. he loves you because you bring him comfort, like a warm spring day accompanied by a sprinkle of rain and descending petals. if eternity was a choice, he’d spend the rest of it with you ~ quality time

park jay loves you with quiet ardor, wanting to keep you all to himself. his hands trickle by your waist, his touch as a sign of your proximity, and you feel his breath ghost over your skin when he gets close. jay loves to love you, and he’s happy when you’re happy. he grins at you like you hang up the stars in the night sky, his eyes twinkling with affection whenever you’re around. jay promises that he’d do whatever you want, swearing to run marathons or cross oceans to be with you for a lifetime. ~ acts of service.

sim jake falls hard and fast, tumbling to kiss the earth you stand on (metaphorically!). he loves you like he loves the air and smiles when he sees you anywhere, finding you perfect in every way. people don’t lie when they say jake would be the best boyfriend, because he seeks you out in every crowd like an unspoken lifeline. his gaze always makes sure you're safe and sound; he clings to your touch like it’s law and runs his thumb over your knuckles to soothe your unease, anywhere, anytime. ~ physical touch.

park sunghoon loves you through his reassurance and promises. his pinky connects to yours for the first time when he tells you something unimportant, and yet something in you knew that he was being genuine. he laughs around you like there's no weight on his chest, effortlessly basking in your shared smiles and shared memories. he promises to cherish, appreciate, and love you, and something about the raw devotion of sunghoon's love makes you believe that he will forever be honest with what he tells you--always. ~ words of affirmation

kim sunoo gives himself to you in full, with his heart on his sleeve and his emotions all on display. there's never a dull moment on your mind when you're reminded of all the sheer adoration he holds in his sparkling gaze when he glances over at you. even when your fingers are intertwined and he feels your heartbeat thrum from underneath him, he takes it as a symbol that your love is real, and palpable, and absolute. and knows that he would spend the rest of his time with you, in the quiet of your love. ~ quality time

yang jungwon notices all the little things about you, his lips pursed every time he becomes an observer in your life. he looks out for you in more ways than one--catching you when you stumbling, wiping the condensation off your cup, or covering hard corners in case you don't notice. he cares in his own way, always attentive to how you feel and making sure you're okay; you're safe in jungwon's arms, with a security blanket of love around your shoulders whenever you're with you. and jungwon will always look out for you, no matter what. ~ acts of service

nishimura riki pours his feelings into everything he gives to you. his joy comes from your face when it lights up, and your appreciation for his little gifts is a treasure he holds close to his heart. he's not the best with words, getting flustered when you pour your feelings out for him or when it comes to crafting romantic paragraphs in response, but he’s attentive to everything you gaze settles on. he saves your smiles and pockets your happy moments with him as a reminder that you're content in his embrace, and he craves for you in every room you're not in ~ gift giving

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love languages don’t exactly pair w the passage it’s more of what love language they have

[throwing-in-the-towel]

not that anon but re: greaser love languages, I have my own thoughts and I wonder if anyone would agree… 🤔

darry and soda - I agree with your takes that they’d be acts of service and physical touch respectively LOL

pony - quality time (or even words of affirmation I could see for him given the whole writer thing but I think QT fits better…) idk how to explain what I mama for him like I do for the rest but

johnny - I def think words of affirmation is him. he’s so quick to reassure pony when he drags himself down (cough cough DAMD) and consoling him after he gets jumped, defending him when they come home late before RITFr, #the letter… he’s very comforting

dally - this may be controversial so cancel me if you want to but.. HONESTLY… I think his LL is gift giving. walk with me here guys! giving johnny the blade and the bar of chocolate, giving pony the jacket off of his own back. giving them both the only cash he had, buying them lunch after he finds them at the church (at least in the book/movie) he’s an asshole but he really did just give them shit the entire time we knew him skdhjs

two bit - quality time (or acts of service ummm guys help me out LMAO) but (in the book/movie at least again) he’s just hanging out with everyone! going to the movies with the trio, walking them home, accompanying pony to the hospital, hanging at the curtis house literally every day, he just wants to chill with the ones he loves !

steve - actually I don’t really know about him… he has a little bit to do in the book but honestly in most mediums he’s just kinda there to chill with the other guys and soda (rip best friends stoda 🙏) so I guess…. Also quality time?

toss this ask in a fire or something if you don’t feel like answering but I thought it might be fun to chime in hehe 🤓☝️

im so walking with u for dally’s being gift giving. you have my attention.

[aithusarosekiller]

Dorcas and Regulus are one of my favourite friendships so here are some fun hcs!

They're both really judgemental but not too showy and openly rude about it so they make a perfect gossiping duo

I think they'd both have some reservations on physical touch around most people but they're totally comfortable around each other no matter what

I also like to think they dated for a while before they realised they were queer bc they were trying so hard to convince themselves they were straight

They bond over knowing every quidditch strategy under the sun but not in a snobby jock way, in a nerdy theory way

They both like the same types of music so they'll sit and listen to it together when they want to get away from everything

She's one of the only ones that he is allowed to visit over the summer. Usually he's expected to stay at home to help his father with political matters or isn't expected to fraternise with others outside of important gatherings and school so not to taint his image, but he always manages to get away with visiting Dorcas

Dorcas has a few younger brothers so they bond over siblings and irritating stories

Ofc they also bond over their irritating athletic gryffindors too but that's a given

Green and purple duo

They can communicate through eye contact and hair fiddling entirely. They'll have full conversations without opening their mouths once and nobody knows how they do it

They weren't friends until 4th year bc they were never really in the same circle before. Dorcas fell out with her old group and Regulus was just sort of there and they both went 'you're kinda cool' and started to hang out

Dorcas' love language is gift giving and Regulus' is words of affirmation and they always manage to find a perfect mix of the two

They have a bad habit of not addressing arguments and just moving on like they never happened but surprisingly it hasn't come back to bite them yet

They were both friends with Dirk Cresswell for a while before they eventually formed the main emeralds group but even though he was smart and funny, he was NOT a good friend to them, when they finally got rid of him they knew they'd never stop randomly bringing it up and giggling over it

[mattyriddlesbitch]

What would be the boys love language.

"I really like quality time." -Enzo

"I prefer gift giving." -Draco

"Words of affirmation are my favorite." -Theo

"I'd die for physical touch." -Mattheo

"I'm big on acts of service." -Blaise

"Love languages are dull, but if I must pick, I'd say gift giving." -Tom

[blurrycow]

PAPYRUS AND CHAMOMILE

papyrus ⇢ if you put your ‘on repeat’ playlist on shuffle, what’s the first song that comes up? what do you like about it / associate it with?

I’m using my iPad right now so I can’t use Spotify rn (its not on my iPad…. rip) but I’d say the song on repeat the most currently would probably be Loved You A Little by the Maine featuring Taking Back Sunday and Charlotte Sands (something something IT IS THE BEST SONG WITH COLLABS I HAVE EVER HEARD DONE,, the voices blend together so well and they don’t only get one verse they are always there throughout so much that they sound like one whole band not three different artists and I think that is so so cool, I love this song so much, the one part where it is JUST charlotte is so good)

chamomile —> what kind of things do you like receiving as gifts?

hm. I love little gifts of like, chocolate or foods I like (my friend bought me wafers once and I was like I LOVE YOU FOREVER), and also handmade things!!!! like not even things that do stuff just little useless things of enjoyment!! I like the thought that someone got or made me something because it made them think of me. It’s super sweet. Also, fics-

[saturns-satellites]

Inarizaki Members As Love Languages

Kita: acts of service

Atsumu: physical touch

Suna: quality time

Osamu: gift giving

Ginjima: words of affirmation

[andersdotters]

Oddly enough, in terms of love languages, I don't think Diluc would have physical touch ranked at the bottom.

[ceryulean]

Ivantill week day 5: Love language(s)

These are just my headcanons! Obviously to each their own interpretations!!

[quokkabite]

pov: us

reminder that u are doing the best u can at the moment and that's okay!! i love u and i hope ur day got better 🫂💙

FIRST OF ALL‼️‼️

i love u sooo much 🫶🏼

second of all, that’s so us x9 🫂🫂🫂

[strawberrisoulmate]

i saw this super cute 50s strawberry dress on pinterest and i couldn't resist doodling my baccano insert in it 🍓💕

[isekyaaa]

I was talking to my sister the other day about love languages and how for me, I rank low on Acts of Service and I was thinking how that like... portrays me as a selfish person. At least that's how I perceive it.

From a young age, I was taught that a good person does things for others. That a good person is self-sacrificing and always willing to help. However, while I was supposed to treat other people like that, I was never treated like that in return. Growing up, I remember having to do everything myself. Though my siblings were given help, that was a luxury never given to me. If I want something, I have to fight for it. I have to do it all myself. I'm not allowed help.

Being raised like that made me despise the idea of acts of service. To do things on your own is to grow as a person. You learn, you adapt, you improve. The more you help and baby someone, the more you hinder them. But it's also made me way more stingy with my time. I'm spending all of my time doing everything on my own that I don't have the time to work in the service of others. I want to spend my free time for me. I've done so much work already. Let me be lazy. Let me be selfish. I deserve it, don't I?

The worst part about people that rank high in acts of service is that they're so transactional about it. They act with the expectation that you'll act in return. They set themselves up for failure. They cannot comprehend that other people don't rank highly in it, so they'll use their acts of service to hold people hostage through guilt tripping, etc. "I did this for you, so why aren't you doing it for me?" It's a disgusting mindset that I absolutely hate. I hate it when people use this thinking against me to force me to act in a specific way.

Okay I got distracted with that last paragraph, but the fact that I don't rank high in acts of service often makes me feel guilty from time to time. I don't want to do things for others, even in my family. I don't want to. I'm selfish. I don't want to give up my time for them. I don't see the point in doing things for them out of my goodwill. I should be that way. I should be better. But I'm not. And I don't want to be.

[sailoreuterpe]

One of my favorite things to do is to just compliment someone. It gives me such a fucking rush. The little kick of dopamine from giving a genuine compliment is bliss.

[yearning-butch]

“I want to be so full of love that it’s bleeding out of me” says girl who doesn’t know what to do with all the blood

[inertia-m]

top 3 love languages : acts of service ( nothing better than making someone's life easier ) quality time ( it's not about having free time, it's about freeing your time ) gift-giving ( it's a thoughtful gesture... you find something and think of someone who'd love it and just give it to them )