#my dads in the hospital.
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#my dads in the hospital.#im really worried. everything is bad right now#my moms like $200 in the hole#and hes about to be homeless#and i feel so helpless. i did so much today and yet i feel useless#i feel so trapped#every time things start to feel ok and i get into a rhythm something goes wrong again#im so sick of this
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One of my biggest nitpicks in fiction concerns the feeding of babies. Mothers dying during/shortly after childbirth or the baby being separated form the mother shortly after birth is pretty common in fiction. It is/was also common enough in real life, which is why I think a lot of writers/readers don't think too hard about this. however. Historically, the only reason the vast majority of babies survived being separated from their mother was because there was at least one other woman around to breastfeed them. Before modern formula, yes, people did use other substitutes, but they were rarely, if ever, nutritionally sufficient.
Newborns can't eat adult food. They can't really survive on animal milk. If your story takes place in a world before/without formula, a baby separated from its mother is going to either be nursed by someone else, or starve.
It doesn't have to be a huge plot point, but idk at least don't explicitly describe the situation as excluding the possibility of a wetnurse. "The father or the great grandmother or the neighbor man or the older sibling took and raised the baby completely alone in a cave for a year." Nope. That baby is dead I'm sorry. "The baby was kidnapped shortly after birth by a wizard and hidden away in a secret tower" um quick question was the wizard lactating? "The mother refused to see or touch her child after birth so the baby was left to the care of the ailing grandfather" the grandfather who made the necessary arrangements with women in the neighborhood, right? right? OR THAT GREAT OFFENDER "A newborn baby was left on the doorstep and they brought it in and took care of it no issues" What Are You Going to Feed That Baby. Hello?
Like. It's not impossible, but arrangements are going to have to be made. There are some logistics.
#idk what to tag this#worldbuilding#writing fiction#historical fiction#fantasy#a real-life example: my dad (a pediatrician) was once entrusted with the care of a baby who was born with a rare condition#this was in a place without great hospital/medical access and anyway they were going to fly the baby over#and he specifically asked them to bring the mother and baby#they show up with baby and...the baby's uncle#and he was like. y'all. do you think I asked for the mom to come just for fun??? We don't have formula here. what is the baby going to eat?
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Favorite place in the world
#fanart#twisted wonderland#twst fanart#digital art#malleus draconia#twisted wonderland malleus#twst malleus#lilia vanrouge#twisted wonderland lilia#twst lilia#Tomorrow marks two months since my dad has been admitted to hospital and we still don’t know when he’s coming back home
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shawn spencer secretly writes fanfiction, and that’s why crazy shit keeps happening to him
#psych 2006#psych#shawn spencer#fanfiction writer curse#sorry i’m late on this chapter a serial killer kidnapped my mother#excuse all the dinosaur talk in this update i recently unearthed a fossil#my dad was shot so i’m updating from his hospital room
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I was crying from pain at the emergency room and the nurses were bitching about me not dying so they couldn’t help right away even if I kept passing out and had been there for a long time, this sweet old Russian lady who was also admitted since earlier stood up and walked next to me and kept comforting me and asking how I was holding up, she kept checking in on me and being so sweet and going around asking if everyone was doing ok or just distracting family members of patients with nice conversations. She called out the doctors and nurses for not caring, she sat next to me and kept making sure I was ok and then gave me her phone number when she got discharged so I’d follow up with her. Honestly my day coulda been hell today but this one lady made it so bearable it’s not going to be remembered as a bad horrible traumatizing time, I got to meet an actual angel and I’m so happy about it.
#pix habla#kindness really goes a long way guys#I’m in my bed crying about this lady#I didn’t know her but that didn’t matter to her#I hope she’s always healthy and blessed#she also xD managed to get the nurses to give her a turkey sandwich after making her wait for so many hours what a legend#I’m not shit talking about medical staff btw I know it’s a hard job#but it got ridiculous the moment my dad got desperate because I was passing out and throwing up foam#and the nurse scolded him and scolded me while I cried about being in pain even though I kept apologizing#the emergency room guard also gave me shit for being on the floor trying not to pass out#like idk the lack of humanity was just 🧍♂️ so much worse than usual#but then I met this lady and she kept me company and kept me distracted from it all#she even got some of the nurses to be nicer and in a better mood somehow#I know it’s not an easy job ;; but compassion and kindness they go a long way#and that’s so important#Alissa you’re my cat scan Twinsie for life#tw hospital#I was high on morphine telling my friends about her and telling her they thought she was so sweet and she was so happy about it#augh#she blew me a kiss when she left too 😭#guys I swear … I met an angel#like#what else could she have been#(๑′̥̥̥▵‵̥̥̥ ૂ๑) ok ill shut up now im just really emotional about her forever
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gojo is literally so clingy in the mornings, he will pull you back into bed once you try to get up. he will bury his face in the crook of your neck, murmuring that it’s too early. and he’ll make you stay there for an extra hour just cuddling if he can (and it doesn’t help when you feel a bulge rub against your ass).
geto isn’t clingy in the same way gojo is. instead he tends to settle for touches, but it’s all the time — an arm around your waist, a kiss to your forehead, laced fingers, a leg thrown over his, a hand resting on your thigh. even in the mornings, if you wake before him, he finds his way to you and wraps his arms around you, fingers taking over your task as he’s content just having his arms around you.
#sab speaks#I’m sleepy#I’m off work but my sister had her babyyyy and I was at the hospital all morning#so sleepy#may do some new!dad gojo headcanons later
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Meme Prompt 10
#dcxdp#dpxdc#prompts#meme#memes#I have art for city spirit Gotham on my blog somewhere lol#Gotham handing Bruce his future kids & several baby liminals: Grandbabies :)#Bruce who is barely surviving on his own while Alfred is in the hospital: What.#Bladhaven & Arkham Asylum: Little brother >:)#Bruce now even more sleep deprived and near tears: wHaT#Danny Ellie Jazz & Jordan: Clockwork this wasn't what we meant when we said we needed new lives-#Dick Jason Steph & Cass who were orphans on the streets: We're gonna commit a murder!#Gotham literally would not let Bruce hand them off to the authorities & people helping with the rescue efforts#Duke & Tim whose parents can't be found (oh how weird Gotham mutters while shoving the Drakes away): Mr Batman sir we found the dino nuggie#Barbara who literally started following the Batman around: Hi Mr Vigilante did you know my dad says most of his coworkers are taking mob $$#Bruce is so relieved when they get liminal enough that he doesn't have to use words#Alfred when he returns is gonne be so shooketh#gotham
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#ofc patrick being in the hospital bed is also giving male mom but he just gives neurodivergent dad even more so#this is so sloppily done but i was like WHAREVER THIS IS HOW THE PHOTOS CAN SIT ITS FINE#my post
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atp phil’s like “ffs i wish i could hit you with a car then i wouldn’t have to be stuck with your annoying dramatic ass 🙄”
#winning the idgaf war every day of the week#good for him#phil doing the least because he’s too hot and cool and pretty and funny and famous for this shit#he has better things to do with his time#why would be take care of the dumbass who got him 3 lamps 🙄#also the way that i feel like our parents are fighting and trying to get us to pick a side-#“TELL HIM HOW BAD OF A PERSON HE IS FOR NOT TAKING ME TO HOSPITAL”#“NO YOU TELL HIM HES BEING A WHINY OVER DRAMATIC LITTLE BITCH”#mum dad please don’t put us in this position we can’t do phivorce 2.0#dan and phil#dnp#phan#dan howell#daniel howell#amazingphil#phil lester#danisnotonfire#yeet my deet#yeet my deenp#d&p#danandphilgames#tmogar#bog#image description in alt#dnp described
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daddy (1, 2)
#was gonna make a whole dad/daddy compilation but like. today's not that day sjdfs next time <3#cw food#dan and phil#daniel howell#danisnotonfire#amazingphil#phil lester#danandphilgames#dpgdaily#phan#parallels#dnp gifs#my gifs#WHY DAN WENT TO HOSPITAL - Dan and Phil play The Sims 4: Season 2 (12)#Dan and Phil are Dating Boys
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countdown to lixie’s bday
↳ d-6: a year of skz talker
#stray kids#felix#lee felix#felixleenet#createskz#bystay#staysource#jypartists#malegroupsnet#yongbok#lee yongbok#stray kids gifs#stray kids felix#skz#my.gifs#felixbday2024#have these posts queued up since last week#sorry they're gonna be a little lackluster#was planning on working on them some more but i've been at the hospital all week with my step dad bc i'm his power of attorney
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I finished my second quilt! It's for my grandma :)

Like the first quilt I made, I just used charm packs - bundles of pre-cut fabric squares with patterns that go well together.


I used two charm packs (5" squares, not 10") from Fat Quarter Shop. Would recommend! Not expensive, lots of pretty packs, and fast shipping. The light blue and light maroon border and back are just whatever Joann printed cottons, and the binding is plain black cotton.
Using charm packs definitely made this project pretty easy. Just arrange the squares in a pretty pattern and sew them together (well, there are smart ways of doing that, and owning an iron is highly recommended, but whatever). I hand-sewed the binding this time. It was actually way easier and faster than I thought it would be.
#quilting#sewing#crafting#speaks into the void#i need to get pictures of my first quilt#my mom has it stored away somewhere because she doesn't want to use it because it'll get dirty >:(#she should use the nice thing i made!#but maybe she doesn't use it because it reminds her of dad... i made it for him when he was dying in the hospital earlier this year#he did love that thing for the last few weeks of his life at least#and now my grandma is probably dying 🙃#i need to stop making quilts for dying people#my next one is planned for my mom and i don't think she's actively dying yet so hopefully that'll break the trend
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Going back to my roots
#i also have to talk about my lore now#its a staple of these posts#i guess I can talk about how my sister broke her femur playing sharks and minnows#I'm not even stretching the truth she was LITERALLY just playing sharks and minnows and two people fell on her#We were at like a day camp so they got me to go over and one of the first things I hear aside from her screaming#is her friend asking if she sprained her ankle#Anyways ambulance blah blah blah hospital blah blah blah surgery blah blah#she was really loud when they were setting it so I just left and played mario#when she was in the airport this guy tried stealing her wheelchair like why would you even want to touch something a seven year old has#she had crutches and rods in her leg for like a year she's fine now#My dad tells everyone she broke it playing touch rugby and I think that explains the kind of person he is#red vs blue#rvb#rooster teeth#rvb wash#rvb tucker#felix rvb#rvb tex#sister rvb#rvb carolina#tweet
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“I am a puzzle of longing, piecing together affection in the echoes of absence, where every touch feels like a quest for the love I never knew.”
#daddy issues#father#father issues#family issues#i hate my dad#girl interrupted#girl interupted syndrome#cigarette#cigarsmoker#sad thoughts#sadgirl#sad aesthetic#my dad#mommy issues#mental hospital#mentally unstable#pinterest#girl thoughts#girly post#girly blog#hell is a teenage girl#girlhood#blogging#shitpost#depressing shit#girl blogger#blog#screaming crying throwing up#aesthetic#lana del rey
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Ghost x Jade Style Swap! 💀🌹 (Dress as your S/O)



First GhostJade post of 2024! *(੭*ˊᵕˋ)੭*ଘ YEEEEEEE I MISS DRAWING THEM.
Just a silly drawing of Ghost Jade swapping their clothes 🤣 Inspired by this IG reel that I saw earlier today of couples dressing as each other. I thought it's a fun drawing and it really was!
(Ghost looks like a regular bloke for once 💀)
Hope you love it! 🌹💀

#WAAAHHH I REALLY FORGET HOW MUCH DRAWING THEM MAKES ME FEEL HAPPY HUAHHH#I just got home from the hospital. Dad's been sick and me and my fam literally has to spend the new years in the hospital it was crazy#but he's fine now and back home!#and now#i'm back on my bullshit#hope yall don't forget about me#call of duty#call of duty modern warfare#cod mw#cod#simon ghost riley#cod mw22#call of duty modern warfare 2022#charlotte jade le jardin#ghost x jade#ghostjade#ghost x oc#sleepyconfusedpotato art
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Ace drives like a madman and gets the worst road rage during traffic
I can't decide if Sabo would side with ace and be equally pissed at other cars or be holding onto the seatbelt for dear life
Luffy is just hanging out tbh
Face timing the strawhats being like "ace is driving :DD'
And them responding with varying degrees of "dope", "good luck", and "HES BREAKING SO MANY LAWS RN WTH???"
Ace driving is nothing compared to Sabo though, he has a very specific brand of road rage
One car cuts him off once and Sabo Will find every single opening available to cut that car off and inconvenience them for as long as they share the same route
Weeks later he sees that car at a gas station and he stares at them with his big eyes and just goes "you mother fucker you cut me off on my way to work"
The strawhats make a mental note to never let Luffy drive if his brothers are the one teaching him to drive
#asl brothers#one piece#monkey d. luffy#portgas d ace#sabo#im meant ro be going to the hospital for surgery rn#but with my dads road rage im not sure ill even get there#had to get one last post in though lol#i might die but not before i make it a one piece post
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