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A quote from Kat Rosenfield on the latest Feminine Chaos episode (for subscribers only):
The thing that's always struck me about that, sort of, paradigm of, you know, "fix yourself first, get yourself exactly right first, and then look for a partner" is it... you're creating like a rigid structure, um, that is gonna be that much harder to fit another person into. Like, if you're already crystallizing all of these things about who you are and what you want and, like, there will be fewer and fewer things that you're willing to compromise on because you're like, "No, this is my identity to be like this and to do this." But, you know, if you're getting married and you're incorporating an entire other human being into your life, you're gonna need to be able to bend in a lot of places that you won't necessarily be inclined to if you have waited until you're, like, thirty or thirty-five to... to try to find a person to share your life with.
That just... absolutely hits me in the gut, because it's precisely where, deep down, I feel a despairing conviction that I've gone wrong. The older I get, the more rigid I am, and the more set in stone and generally tied down my hypothetical partners are. (And I'm even beyond "thirty or thirty-five" by now.) This isn't the whole problem with me, but it feels like a huge part of the problem. I have a strong feeling that I screwed up, and that Rosenfield pressed her finger right onto exactly how I screwed up.
#personal#dating and relationships#kat rosenfield#my college gf and i got together when we were 17 and 18#our shared world just felt so much more full of possibilities#i'm not saying i regret breaking up with her#just... i wish i'd found more opportunities when i was younger?
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So I didn’t know who else to talk about this with but thought you might have some opinions as one of the top Portwell blogs. I just learned that Sofia and Matt have around a 5 year age difference and it’s honestly weirding me out that people are shipping them so hard. I absolutely love Portwell and get the age difference on the show but I cannot get behind an almost 24 year old man getting together a girl who just recently turned 18. Especially since they met when she was underaged. Like she just graduated high school and he’s old enough to have been out of college for at least a year and those are very different levels of maturity
Matt had a gf when he met Sofia. He was in a long term relationship. He was always just close friends with her until season 3 filming. Whatever happened between them it happened when she wasn’t underage. Both were home schooled and Matt didn’t go to college and it seems like Sofia is not planning to go either. They are both at the peak of their careers and that makes them very compatible along with their lovely personalities. Matt is not 24 yet, he is still in his early 20s and Sofia is not a child anymore. People can ship whoever they want as long as they don’t tag them until they make it official. And people can date whoever they want as long as it’s not like 18-26. I might have judged if it was like that because Matt would be pushing 30 if he was 26 but he is not and when he turns 26 Sofia will already be over 20. So this whole “being weirded out” situation is pointless when there are many great relationships in hollywood with the same age gap or even more for example Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds. He is 9 YEARS older than her and they met when she was 21 and he was 30 during the filming of Green Lantern. Bob Morley and Eliza Taylor (my biggest irl ship) have the exact same age gap with Sofia and Matt. Bob and Eliza met in an elevator when she was 17 and he was 22 and then they starred in The 100 together that got them fall in love with each other. They are married with a baby now. What i’m trying to say is there’s not an underage person here so the age gap is weird only because you make it weird. I support Sofia and Matt because i think they are cute from what i’ve seen in the stuff we got from easter until the end of april.
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13 - 18!!
Iapetus13: what’s something that made you smile today?
my dogs!! squished together on one dog bed! they got up before i could get my phone to take a picture though :/
14: if you were to live with your best friend in an old flat in a big city, what would it look like?
big windows, a tv and a couch with extra pillows and blankets for movie nights, a nice big kitchen with gas burners and plenty of room for all our food, lots of plants, my college roommate and i had a mix of blush pink (her favorite color) and pale turquoise (mine) and i miss that! art on the walls from thrift stores and friends on etsy, fairy lights on, overhead lights off, seasonal candles, the smell of something cooking, bookshelves and coffee table books.
15: go google a weird space fact and tell us what it is!
jupiter’s red spot is shrinking! it used to fit three earths now it can only fit one :(
you’ve heard of jupiter’s red spot, now get ready for saturn’s hexagon! a hurricane like storm thats been going on for decades.
speaking of saturn– one of it’s moons, Iapetus, has a dark side and a light side, but not just where it gets more or less sun, but actual coloration differences. some theories include space debris, volcanoes, and temperature differences, but no one really knows
16: what’s your favorite pasta dish?
i love to make mushroom carbonara, or penne with vodka sauce!
17: what color do you really want to dye your hair?
after dyeing my hair throughout most of high school and some of college, im really happy with my natural hair color! but i kinda wanna do a deep royal blue or a bright turquoise or maybe even green someday!
18: tell us about something dumb/funny you did that has since gone down in history between you and your friends and is always brought up.
mmmaybe when my roommate and i wanted to get taco bell but my old boss from the restaurant that wage-robbed me, and who would keep asking me to sleep on our futon whenever she was fighting with her gf (i offered it to her the first two times so thats how my roommate knew her lol), but anywayyy she was working at the taco bell so we had to sneak around and peak through the windows before ordering on the digital/no contact ordering screens they had just put inside the restaurant, i even put “carrie” as the name for my order, which ive never done before or since. but we made it out of there with our spicy potato soft tacos and with OUT any awkward conversations with my ex-boss! yayyyy...
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Spring 2019 Fan Fest Prompt List
Hey fan-festers!
We’re happy to say that we received 81 prompts this time around, and we spent the last few days distilling all those amazing and creative prompts down to a list of 63 prompts! (If you’re keeping count, that’s far more than last year’s 48!)
As with last year, we had some repeat prompts and prompts that were similar enough that it made sense to condense them under one item. Additionally, most of the prompts we distilled down to a few words for the sake of having a concise list! Again, like last year’s fest, we’re providing the full text of the original prompts under the cut, in case you’re looking for more details to get started!
You’re free to create any kind of fanwork based on the below prompts! There’s no minimum word count and no rules on what to create, or even how many - if you want to combine prompts, that’s cool! If you’re called to make more than one thing, that’s awesome too! The only limit is that this fest runs from now until April 15th - so if you’re creating something, make sure you post it and tag it with #bennguinfanfest so we can share it to this tumblr! If you’re posting to AO3, the collection is now open for submissions as well, so make sure to include your work there so everyone can find it!
One final thing: even if you didn’t submit prompts, feel free to participate and join us on the discord! We’ve set up a discord server here: bennguinfest on discord to stay connected, inspire each other, and have fun! It’s a great group and really active, so don’t be shy!
That’s it! On to the prompt list!
Matchmaking dogs
Space AU
Birthday gifts
Coming out/being together in the NHL
Acting like a couple (but they’re not actually a couple)
Tyler as a WAG
Transported to a parallel universe
Abducted by aliens
Superhero/Superpowers AU
Amnesia from an injury
Soulmate AUs: Color-based, name-on-wrist
Thirst follow/Met online
Drag AU
Time loops
Alternate histories
Cop AU
Reality show AU (Survivor, the Bachelor, Married At First Sight)
Jamie Poppins/Single dad AU
Supernatural races (vampires, werewolves, shapeshifters, etc.)
Omegaverse: Courting
Delivery boy/Uber driver AU
Tyler gets traded back to Boston
Breaking up & making up
Omegaverse: Bonding drama
Boring office desk job
Road trips
Protective Jamie defending Tyler
College/University AU
Tyler tries to be Jamie’s wingman
Lites’s comments affecting the boys
Taking care of a sick hockey player
Cuddle pile/team bed fic
Harry Potter AU
Fire alarm meet-cute
DnD/Hockey Mashup
De-aged after a fight
Bakery/Tattoo Artist AU
Friends with benefits - and then with feelings
Zombie AU
Homeless AU
Nerds are hot/competency kink
Omegaverse: scents
YouTube channel AU
Bridal shop meet-cute
Beard appreciation
Tornado warning
Figure skater mpreg
Self-conscious Jamie
Wing!fic
Winning the cup and a kiss on the ice
Lifeguard AU
Haunted farm
Animal daemons
Surprise/sudden parenting
Jealousy from dating/flirting with someone else
Secret relationship and almost getting caught
Long-lost childhood friends
"Come here."
“Close the door.”
“I feel like I can’t breathe.”
“It’s three in the morning and you want me to do what?”
“You could’ve died.”
“I thought you were dead.
Full text of the prompts under the link! If you have any questions, feel free to send us an ask - and as always, happy creating!
1. Matchmaking dogs: Tyler’s dogs want to get their human with a certain cow-eyed captain
“well this is really awkward considering the last time we saw each other, i was screaming at you to never talk to me again, but like, my dog recognized you all the way across the park and literally dragged me over here because she misses you so hi” AU
2. Space AU (ex. Star Trek, Firefly, or something else entirely)
3. It's Tyler's birthday and at first Jamie gives off the feeling that he's forgotten and this hurts Tyler but it turns out that that Jamie wakes Tyler up at midnight on his birthday with two tickets to an offseason trip
4. I want a fic that REALLY captures what it would be like if two NHL players were to come out in 2019. I'm talking teammate reactions, press reactions, social media, family, the whole shebang. I wanna see the real raw reactions and the struggle the guys would have to go through. I would also loooove if you could fit Jamie proposing to Tyler in there somewhere but it isn't a necessity.
Jamie has a hard time dealing with how public Tyler’s life is, with the insta stories and with random people filming him all the time. It feels like it’s only a matter of time before their relationship is exposed because of how much Tyler is in the public eye. Jamie doesn’t want to break up but it seems like that’s the only choice he has. He doesn’t want to do this so much that he calls a press conference and comes out of the closet.
Jamie and Tyler have been dating since 2014 and he’s tired of hiding it. So with Jamie’s consent he posts a cute photo of them being a couple and writes a heartfelt monologue about their story. And the whole hockey community blows up about it. And it’s kinda about how they deal with being and out couple and Tyler posting obnoxiously cute couple photos on his Instagram. Sorry this prompted is a mess I just want Tyler to be a troll and post cute cliche couple photos on Instagram of him and Jamie and the world loading their minds about it.
Jamie and Tyler come out to the team about them dating. Management wants to keep their relationship secret so they make Jamie fake date someone. And him and Tyler struggle with the stress that puts on them.
realistic consequences of being together with the team
5. Tyler and Jamie are super close but super oblivious to the fact that they act like a literal couple. Jamie has a gf and she hates the fact that it seems like Jamie cares more about Tyler than he does her.
6. Fluffy fic where Jamie still plays hockey, he meets tyler and they fall in love and tyler becomes an nhl wife/husband/boyfriend.
7. Parallel universes -- somehow Tyler (or Jamie) finds himself in an alternate universe where his life is radically different (for better or for worse) which makes him realize how much his relationship to Jamie (or Tyler) means.
waking up in the future/alternate reality fic
8. Jamie and Tyler are abducted by aliens and taken to a faraway planet where they are prisoners in a bizarro planet. Is it real or is it a nightmare though?
9. jamie and tyler are in danger and major trouble when their identities as superheroes are revealed and bad guys are after them.
powers/mutant AU (as in pick one, not all at the same time) One hides their ability from the other, and when the other finds out, its...not good
Superhero AU! Are they superhero partners? Is one of them a superhero and can't date the other because he has to keep him safe? Are they both trying to keep their secret identities secret from each other while simultaneously dating in both iterations? Up to you, or anything else!
10. Amnesia angst for the win - Jamie gets a particularly hard hit, wakes up and can remember everyone except for tyler (maybe not explicitly, say they can *remember* them, but not remember that they've been dating for eight months now) cue tyler avoiding jamie because its too hard him to be around him
11. soulmate au! people are born with blackmarks - on their hands, their faces, their skin in general - the black marks is the first place their soulmate would touch them. Jamie was born without a mark. Tyler was born with two pitch black palms. Years after tylers been traded to the stars, Jamie falls asleep, and tyler can't help but run his fingers through Jamie's hair, just once, and then he looks down at his hand and the tips of his fingers are colored, and so are the few strands of Jamie's black hair.
Soulmate au- either abo or name on wrist. No drama, just fluff!
12. Tyler thirst follows Jamie on insta. This can be hockey or non-hockey, but Jamie follows back and they start talking.
13. Rupaul’s Drag Race au. Tyler and Jamie are competing against each other but are constantly talking about how much they like each other/are attracted to each other in the confessional. They’re both single, so why not go for it? Alternatively, one is a queen and the other is a member of the pit crew.
14. groundhog day au (aka, tylers/jamies day keeps getting reset, again and again until they get together finally and wake up the next day)
15. alternate history, tyler is never traded to dallas, but they still somehow meet and fall in love anyway
16. cop AU, where in tyler the rookie transfers and get stuck with Jamie the sorta senior to show him the ropes. Jamie gets attached. And that’s...a problem, in their line of work. Or at least it is for him.
17. Survivor au- same or different tribe, as long as they’re the “showmance”
"The Bachelor" AU
Married at first sight au- either within the parameters of the actual show, or they literally get married the day they meet
18. Jamie!Poppins - tyler is a single father with a new baby and no clue of what he's going to do. enter Jamie Poppins!
19. Minotaur Jamie
The Dallas Stars are a pack of werewolves, and Tyler is the vampire that’s been traded to their team.
Shifter verse!! and ive got nothing else for this other than wanting to see tyler as a tiny lab puppy pls and thanks
20. Alpha Tyler and omega Jamie: “usually when I meet an omega I wanna bone, but with Jamie I wanna fucking hold his hand and feed him bonbons all day, what the fuck”
21. Jamie the delivery boy. Kay hear me out. Like he keeps delivering huge quantities of food to this particular house and it always seems like there should be more than one person. But there’s not. And Tyler orders. All. The. Time. Hopeful it’s jamie. But they’re both too dumb to ask each other out. Lots of pining
Uber driver! Jamie picks up Tyler from a one night stand
22. Tyler gets traded back to Boston AU - Everything hurts and nothing is okay. (except that at least one of them is retiring at the end of the season so it's actually more okay than they think) (also a future fic)
23. breakup and makeup but spanning over seasons - no cheese plots
24. Bond drama (abo) either they bond too quickly, like at the all star game or something and dont know ehat to do because theyre on different teams, or they really want to bond and its not happening as fast as they think it should
25. Boring office desk job
26. road trip to Montreal to visit Jordie
27. while out chilling at a bar celebrating a win, jamie and tyler are having a couple of drinks and when jamie gets up to go the bathroom, a drunk stranger and a couple of his friends decide to harass Tyler, upsetting him. A furiously protective Jamie intervenes and despite holding his own, Jamie is beaten up and him and tyler end up in a dumpster.
28. A University fic where Tyler is out and proud and gay and Jamie is still trying to figure out his sexuality but he's having a hard time. No homophobic Jamie tho please, just a guy trying to figure himself out. Would love if he would rely on his family throughout the fic for advice.
I’m always a sucker for college au, or masters/PhD students etc
COLLEGE AU BECAUSE WE ALL NEED MORE OF THAT IN OUR LIVES
'the cops showed up to a party we were at and chased everyone away. You and I happened to run in the opposite direction of all our friends and got lost in some dark and creepy street.’ - College AU
29. Tyler finds out Jamie is gay (outed/comes out/whatever you prefer) and embarks on a wild but good-intentioned quest to find Jamie his perfect man.
30. Tyler is hurt by Lites' comments more than one thinks and Jamie is worried when he sees Tyler crying in private.
31. sickfic? jamie taking care of tyler is- like just how pathetic is a sick hockey player?
32. team bed au omg someone pls
33. Harry Potter au but not as high school student, just something in the magical world
34. "3am and the fire alarm in our apartment building went off and you look cold here is my jacket"
35. Hockey AU but they’re all dnd races. I would love to see half-orc Jamie, and goliath Bishop, and tiefling Tyler. Please be as creative as you want with this!
Hockey AU where instead of going out, a core group of guys plays dnd in their hotel rooms while on the road. Tyler and Jamie’s characters are getting flirty in game, and it’s starting to translate outside of it as well.
36. Tyler and jamie fight - a *big* fight, and the next day Jamie suddenly got a deaged tyler on his hands and no idea how to fix it
37. Jamie owns a bakery and tylers the new tat artist next door plsplspls gimme that slow burn bullshit with this one
38. ty/jam used to have a whole friends w benefits thing that went oh-so-wrong because one (or both of them) caught feelings—as one does—and the fic is kind of that aftermath and trying to repair the broken relationship.
39. ZOMBIES
40. Homeless AU w/tyler
41. Tyler is smarter than he leads people to believe, and Jamie is into privately nerdy Tyler
42. Abo verse surrounding scents. Tyler smells like the most delicious thing Jamie has ever smelled, but he thinks he shouldn’t bond with a teammate
43. Youtube channel
44. Designer and single friend of client at a bridal shop AU
45. Beard appreciation
46. a tornado warning hits dallas and everybody is ordered to seek shelter. jamie follows tyler back to his house and hide in the basement with the dogs, frantic and terrified.
47. Tyler is a figure skater, Jamie still plays hockey. They meet and fall inlove but whoops tyler ends up pregnant. The world still isn't 100% accepting of LGBTQIA+ people and even less accepting of men getting pregnant. Tyler feels down at some point cause he has to put his career on hold. but it all ends up great in the end.
48. Jamie feels self-conscious about his ass after some chirping from opposing players and it's up to Tyler to comfort him
49. Wing!fic
50. They win the Stanley cup and kiss at centre ice
51. Jamie's a lifeguard. They meet after Tyler basically drowns himself. (It's not an excuse to have Jamie kiss him. Its *not*.)
52. Haunted farm au- Tyler is a witch that lives on a farm where extremely weird things happen. He ends up rescuing Jamie and Jamie pledges his services for one year in exchange for his life. During that year, they fall for each other hard, but there are outside forces in the farm trying to keep them apart.
53. Animal daemons
Goose daemons
54. Marshall, Cash and Gerry turn into human kids (temporarily or not), Bennguin handle being sudden parents
55. Tyler having a serious boyfriend for a while and Jamie is jealous because he wants to date Tyler but he’s not ready to come out. And he’s also upset because everyone is taking it so well and nothing has changed and he realizes he really missed out. But in the end they still get together.
56. secret relationship and how they almost get caught - many many times
57. Childhood pen pal / long distance childhood friends?
58. "Come here."
59. “Close the door.”
60. “I feel like I can’t breathe.”
61. “It’s three in the morning and you want me to do what?”
62. “You could’ve died.”
63. “I thought you were dead.”
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Janelle Monáe and Tessa Thompson: 2015-2018 Timeline
2014/2015:
Tessa's dad introduced her to Janelle's music.
Janelle and Tessa officially met while auditioning for a part in the movie Joy.
April 13 2015:
Tessa was featured in Janelle’s music video as a background dancer for “Yoga” (x)
May 30 2015:
Janelle performed at the MOCA charity gala in LA - Tessa attended as well. (x)
August 22 2015:
Issa Rae, Justin Simien, Tessa, Janelle, and Angela Bassett hang out backstage at the Eephus Tour. (x)
November 7 2015:
Janelle received the “Equality Award” at the 18th Annual Women’s Event hosted by the Center in New York (NYC’s LGBT Community Center). Tessa presented her with the award that night. (x) (x) (x)
November 20 2015:
Janelle surprised Tessa on the red carpet at the Creed premiere - the film that really launched Tessa’s career. (x) (x)
November 27 2015:
In an interview, Tessa talked about Creed and her favorite singers. She talked about Janelle first: (x)
“I’m going to give a shout out to my friend Janelle Monáe. She is fantastically talented. I got the chance to give her an award. She sang her a capella rendition of “Smile” in a room for some friends, and she just killed it.”
December 2015:
Janelle, Tessa, and other friends took a trip to Mexico for Janelle’s birthday.
For the most part, Janelle and Tessa were very quiet in 2016, most likely due to the fact Tessa was on location for most of the year filming Thor: Ragnarok and Annihilation.
December 7 2016:
Tessa posts a pic on instagram and Janelle comments with hearts emojis (link is broken).
February 25 2017:
Tessa and Janelle both attended the annual Oscars Week “Sistah’s Soiree” at the Beverly Wilshire Hotel. (x) (x)
February 26 2017:
The night of the Oscar’s. (x)
August 6 2017:
Tessa posts a picture on Instagram, and Janelle comments a heart eyes emoji. (x)
August 22 2017:
Out with Rowan Blanchard. (x)
August 24 2017:
Boots Riley out with Tessa, Janelle, Carrie Brownstein, and Nate. (x)
August 26 2017:
Tessa and Janelle at Ava DuVernay’s birthday party. (x) (x) (x)
September 9 2017:
Tessa and Janelle at an outdoor music/film event in LA. (x) (x) (x) (x)
September 15/16 2017:
Tessa tweeted about Janelle. (x)
Later it was found out that Janelle did an impromptu performance and said the line Tessa tweeted about. You can see Tessa off to the right in the second linked video around the 1 minute mark. (x) (x)
September 16 2017:
Tessa and Janelle attended the annual Equality California Awards (EQCA’s), an award show that honors individuals who work to help create a more equal society for the LGBT community. (x) (x) (x)
September 17 2017:
The pair were seen cuddled up at the HBO Emmy’s after party. (x) (x)
Janelle later posted about it. (x)
October 4 2017:
Tessa quoted Janelle birthday wishes on Twitter. (x)
October 5 2017:
Tessa posted on Instagram pictures of the flowers she received for her birthday. Janelle just so happens to send flowers exactly like the ones Tessa posted about. (x) (x)
October 8 2017:
Issa Rae threw a last minute “Lemon Pepper Kickback” house party in Atlanta - Tessa and Janelle attended. (x) (x) (x)
Earlier in the night, Tessa, Janelle, and Amandla Stenberg attended a Nick Hakim concert. (x) (x) (x)
According to another concert go-er that attended Nick’s show that night, Tessa and Janelle were touching each other a lot and were calling each other baby. (x)
October 12 2017:
On Instagram, Janelle posted a screenshot of a conversation between her and “the love of [her] life” and referred to this person as her “partner”. She deleted quickly.
Many think Tessa sent the message because she had used the same phrasing regarding the Time’s Up movement in an interview (specifically the word endured), and worked closely with the Time’s Up movement that year.
Also from other receipts, we know they call each other baby/babe a lot.
October 20 2017:
Twitter user __theluckyyyone tweeted: @janellemonae is definitely next to @tessamaethompson.
October 22 2017:
Someone verified received an email from Janelle. Janelle mentions Tessa in the email. (x)
October 27 2017:
Janelle and Tessa were seen with friends for dinner, sitting next to each other (links are broken).
November 8 2017:
Janelle tweets about Tessa, her "talented friend” (x)
December 9 2017:
Out with Lena Waithe. (x)
December 14 2017:
Some mentioned that Tessa was in Atlanta.
December 15/16 2017:
During these two days, Janelle tweeted a lot. However, the tweet linked was the only tweet Tessa liked. (x)
Nobody is knows exactly when Tessa left ATL, but she was in LA the 17th for West World’s season 2 wrap a party.
January 3 2018:
Tessa was spotted in Atlanta. January 5 2018:
Both spotted at a café in Atlanta. The Twitter user who posted about it now has their tweets protected so I can’t link the tweet.
January 28 2018:
Janelle gave a Time’s Up speech on The Grammys stage, and a tweet storm from Tessa “supportive gf” Thompson followed.
January 29 2018:
Tessa and Janelle were seen at the Black Panther premiere together. (x) (x)
They later left together as well (you can see Janelle by Nate in the first video, and then Tessa running to catch up with Nate in the second video). (x) (x)
January 30 2018:
They were spotted having dinner together. (x)
February 5 2018:
Janelle and Tessa went live on Instagram.
Here are some of the best moments in gif form. (x) (x) (x) (x)
Zoe Kravitz also spilled some tea. (x)
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February 5 2018:
2 Dope Queens premiere. (x)
February 11/12 2018:
Tessa posted Instagram stories with Janelle and Nate. No one saved the video.
February 13 2018:
Tessa and Janelle attended the Annihilation premiere, and were photographed with on another on the actual red carpet. (x) (x) (x) (x) (x)
Lip readers were able to decipher some of what they said to each other on the read carpet. Note the the gif where Janelle says sorry babe. (x) (x)
February 16 2018:
The trailer for Dirty Computer was released. (x)
Here are two clips from it:
February 20 2018:
Janelle’s cover spread for W Magazine dropped. Jordan Peele directed, and Tessa approved.
February 22 2018:
Janelle released her first two singles off of Dirty Computer. Make Me Feel has been coined a bisexual anthem (Tessa’s words, not mine), and up until this point, it had been the closest thing we’ve seen to a coming out from Janelle.
Tessa also stars in the music video:
Credit for the next two gifs (x)
Credit for the next two gifs (x)
Tessa posted about it as well. (x)
February 23 2018:
Tessa did an interview with Entertainment Tonight, and in that interview she pretended she didn’t know what shipping meant, even though we know she’s familiar with different Internet lingo.
She was also heavily stumbled over her words before she was able to get a "we’re really good friends" out. (x)
February 24 2018:
Janelle tweeted about Annihilation. Peep Wondaland liking the second tweet. (x)
February 26 2018:
Janelle tweeted something romantic the same day they both attended the Wrinkle in Time premiere (no pictures were taken together).
Here are the tweets: (x) (x)
February 28 2018:
Tessa and Janelle both attended Alfre Woodard’s 2018 Pre-Oscars Soiree (x)
March 2 2018:
Tessa attends Janelle’s Fem the Future event. (x) (x) (x) (x) (x)
Janelle went live on Instagram, and it appeared throughout the whole event that wherever Tessa was, Janelle was right by her.
March 3 2018:
Janelle and Tessa attended the Essence Black Women in Hollywood Event.
Pictures: (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x)
Janelle revealing how her and Tessa first met. (x)
Janelle interrupted an interview Tessa was doing on the red carpet (and proceeded to hold Tessa’s hand) and presented Tessa with an award.
Watch Tessa try to contain her smitten smile from 2:25 and on after Janelle walks away... So cute.
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March 10 2018:
Tessa was in Miami for VCCarnaval Event.
A instagram story was posted that showed she was talking about Janelle with her friends. (x)
She left Miami that day.
March 13 2018:
Tessa tweeted about "Paddington 2 and chill."
Janelle was in London at the time doing promo for Dirty Computer, and later we found out that Tessa was also in London at the same time. (x)
March 18 2018:
Janelle wants her own Josie Radek (Tessa’s character from Annihilation). She later deleted the Instagram story. (x)
March 19 2018:
The twitter page @tessasgoats comes to life, and both Tessa and Janelle follow it. Janelle was liking many of the pictures the twitter page was posting. March 25 2018:
This is more so speculation, but there was an article/interview about Janelle that basically said that Janelle was the truth. After a short time, Tessa tweeted "the truth is so cute" - Janelle liked. (x)
There's also a response to the tweet too from Tessa. (x)
March 30 2018:
Tessa commented on Janelle's Instagram post with a rose emoji. Janelle replied to Tessa with a rose emoji. (x) (x)
Tessa also liked this picture within 3 minutes of Janelle posting it.
April 1 2018:
Tessa posts about an artist. Janelle followed it. (x) (x)
April 3 2018:
What Janelle’s Twitter page looked like that day. (x)
April 6-8 2018:
Tessa went out of her way to be at Nate’s birthday bash in Miami. She left the 8th, and tweeted about delayed flights.
April 10 2018:
PYNK dropped and Lena Waithe commented on Janelle’s Instagram, “That’s how you feel? Perfect.”
April 11 2018:
Ava DuVernay gave us some good tea when she posted this on her Instagram story. (x)
April 26 2018:
The day before Dirty Computer dropped, Janelle came out as pansexual the Rolling Stone. (x)
April 27 2018:
Dirty Computer’s emotion picture dropped. In Janelle's note to Tessa in the album booklet, she called Tessa her muse. (x) (x)
April 28 2018:
Justin Simien (creator of Dear White People) made a post on Instagram where he called them "wives" with a screen-cap of the PYNK video. He deleted it, and uploaded a new one with different caption.
May 2 2018:
Janelle arrived in Philly for Michele Obama's College Signing Day. Tessa was in Philly filming for Creed II.
They were spotted by 2 different people late at night. (x) (x)
After Tessa came out, this receipt dropped from that night as well. (x)
May 5 2018:
They were both in NYC but were staying in different hotels. Janelle was at The Mark, and Tessa was at The Bowery.
This was also the day of Janelle's 'Dirty Computer' NYC album release party. They arrived separately, and Tessa stayed for an hour. (x) (x) (x)
May 7 2018:
They both attended the Met Gala and the after parties. They were by each other the whole time. (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x)
May 9 2018:
They went to see the play Angels in America, and had dinner at Chez Josephine restaurant. (x)
People tweeted about it. (x) (x)
May 15 2018:
Janelle followed @thombrowneny (the guy who designed Tessa's outfits for the Met Gala).
May 17 2018:
Janelle followed Marc Anthony Thompson (Tessa’s dad). (x)
May 20 2018:
Janelle was seen in Philly.
May 21 2018:
Janelle tweeted about Sorry to Bother You, and Tessa retweeted it. (x)
May 23 2018:
Tessa posted a birthday video to her dad on Instagram. Janelle commented with a heart and Tessa responded with a rose. (x)
Janelle also commented on Tessa’s dad’s picture. (x)
May 24 2018:
Janelle posted a picture on Instagram with Michelle Obama, and Tessa commented on it. Jane replied with a rose emoji. (x)
May 25 2018:
Tessa being supportive on Twitter. (x)
May 28 2018:
Tessa’s friend’s dog dancing to PYNK on her story. (x)
May 31 2018:
Speculation so make what you want of this - While in LA (where Tessa lives) Janelle posted on her story saying "it's just not the same without you.” (x)
While in Philly shooting Creed II, Tessa then proceeded to post on her story, "misery loves company" while fake crying. (x)
Janelle then deleted her story after Tessa posted her’s.
June 3 2018:
Janelle liked a drawing with both of them from PYNK on Twitter. (x)
June 8 2018:
Spotted in LA. (x)
June 11 2018:
Janelle’s tour started in Seattle.
Tessa posted flamingoes on her Instagram story before it. (x)
June 14 2018:
There was a special screening of Sorry to Bother You in LA. Janelle came straight from Portland (she had a show there the 13th) just to support Tessa. (x)
There was an Instagram story (that no one saved) where you can see Janelle and Tessa by each other mingling at the after party. Janelle apparently also greeted Tessa with a hug and kiss on the cheek before she went in to the viewing.
June 15 2018:
Janelle tweeted about Tessa and Sorry to Bother You. (x) (x)
June 19 2018:
Tessa liked these pictures of Janelle on Instagram. (x) (x)
June 20 2018:
Tessa was in NYC promoting Sorry to Bother You, but two days later Janelle unarchived a photo where she’s wearing the same outfit Tessa was wearing while in NYC. (x)
June 26 2018:
Tessa put a pride flag in her bio on Instagram. (x)
June 29 2018:
Tessa came out as bisexual in an interview she did for Net-a-Porter. (x)
She also said this about her and Janelle: “We love each other deeply, we’re so close. We vibrate on the same frequency.”
It’s already been added previously, but this receipt came a day after Tessa came out. It has to do with the dinner date they had in Philly back in May. (x)
July 14 & 15 2018:
Janelle continued to promote Sorry to Bother You. (x) (x)
July 22 2018:
Tessa posted two stories on Instagram showing the crowd going crazy over her being featured on the screen while Janelle performs PYNK. (x) (x)
July 27 2018:
The two songs Janelle was featured on for Sorry to Bother You were released. (x) (x)
July 31 2018:
Tessa posted two flamingos on her Instagram story. Flamingos are gay symbol, specifically a symbol for lesbian marriage ( I’m not saying Tessa and Janelle are married). Flamingos also mate for life.
August 4 2018:
Janelle liked the last 3 pictures Tessa had posted (at the time) and unarchived an old picture of them with Zoe. (x)
August 22 2018:
Janelle’s hairstylist posted a picture of Janelle from her spread with Bustle. Tessa liked it. (x)
September 4 2018:
Tessa liked Janelle's video on Instagram. (x)
September 9 2018:
Tessa liked Janelle’s tweet. (x)
September 11 2018:
Tessa attended Janelle’s first show in London. There were a lot of tweets about her and Janelle. (x) (x) (x) (x) (x) (x)
People were also reporting that Tessa cried. (x) (x)
On TLC, an anon who was at the show posted this:
So I was in the London crowd tonight and had a pretty good view of both Tessa and Janelle. What a night! Really didn’t expect this. Tessa seemed to stand on top of a step or something so she was pretty visible. Nate was maybe 4 meters away from her by the mixing booth. A couple of things I noticed:
Tessa did not look at the screen when the audience cheered for her video clip appearance during PYNK. She kept looking away during moments like this throughout the evening. A couple of people took selfies with her so she must have been aware of people watching. She laughed a lot during I Got the Juice, particularly when Janelle told the crowd: ‘If I point at you - you will come on stage and you will dance!’ …
Tessa seemed to giggle and repeated Janelle’s pointing motion followed by a simulated lasso into Janelle’s direction. She was on the phone throughout the rhythm dance intro in the beginning of Make me Feel… We all know what happened next - she must have gone live soon after
There were a couple of moments where she was flat out beaming.
Tessa was laughing really hard when Janelle did the microphone dildo pose…
Note how Janelle snuck in an 'I see you baby’ at the end… Not sure if she meant the crowd or someone particular there
Tessa was watching the whole thing with her bright, beaming smile - that was definitely one of those moments when you could see that they have a connection. It was a great thing to see the two across from each other.
I remember watching Tessa’s reaction to the 'If I’m gonna sin it’s with you line’ and she was definitely singing / speaking along with the lyrics… and then Janelle inserted 'London’."
September 13 2018:
Tessa, Janelle, and Zoe caught dinner at Sketch (a restaurant in London). (x)
September 14 2018:
Janelle traveled to Berlin, but posted an Instagram story showing her new flamingo rings. (x)
A couple of hours later Tessa posted an Instagram story with a picture of a flamingo as well.
September 17 2018:
Janelle’s a Revolution of Love documentary was released on Youtube. It included bloopers and unseen footage from the PYNK music video. (x) (x)
It also featured Tessa talking about what she loves about Janelle. Kehlani, who’s friends with Janelle, liked the tweet. (x)
September 26 2018:
Janelle retweeted Tessa’s tweet regarding the Creed II trailer that dropped the same day. (x)
October 2 2018:
The night before Tessa’s birthday, Janelle tweeted this. (x)
On the 3rd (her birthday), Tessa posted a video on her story of her dancing.
October 3 2018:
Janelle started the day off by posting two images of flamingos on her story.
Janelle then proceeded to post this.
Lastly, she commented on Tessa’s post.
October 4 2018:
The day after her birthday, Tessa tweeted this in direct reference to Janelle’s tweet on the second that said, “Dance like a goat.” (x)
Dance like a Goat ended up being an actual song that Janelle and Wondaland created specifically for Tessa and her birthday. (x)
Janelle commented on Tessa’s post of her dancing.
October 5 2018:
Dance like a Goat finally dropped! (x)
News that Janelle had been cast in Disney’s ‘Lady And The Tramp’ reboot was announced as well.
When it was announced that Tessa was going to be in the movie she tweeted the following:
When it was announced Janelle was going to be in it as well, she tweeted the same:
Janelle had initially tweeted “woof woof” but then deleted it so she could match Tessa’s.
October 6 2018:
Some of Janelle’s likes regarding Dance like a Goat.
#janessa#janelle x tessa#janelle monae#tessa thompson#lgbt#make me feel#dirty computer#tessa x janelle
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Info Game
Well it’s my turn here we go
Last
1. Drink - Arozina green tea with honey and ginseng this runs through my veins
2. Phone call - My boo
3. Text message - Also my boo
4. Song you listened to - Well if you don’t count what I’m currently listening to, EOEO by UNIQ
5. Time you cried - This morning. I AM A VERY PASSIONATE SINGER AND I SAW A VIDEO WHERE THIS GIRL ON THE UNIT HIT A BEAUTIFUL, PERFECT HIGH NOTE. THEN THE GROUP DID AMAZING HARMONIES It was The Yellow group singing Jackpot. I got shook
Ever
6. Dated someone twice - when I was in 4th-8th grade and didn’t knw what dating was I went back and forth with the same guy every single damn year
7. Kissed someone and regretted it - Every boy I hooked up with during my senior year I was discovering myself through a hoe phase
8. Been cheated on - my ex cheated on me for 6 months of our 1 year relationship. Then called me a crazy bitch for calling him out on it and telling the girl he had another gf. I am still blocked on all of his social media
9. Lost someone special - I was raised by a single mother until I was about 7 years old. My step dad was the first man I had in my life to be considered a father, and in 2012 he passed away in a motorcycle accident. He got hit headon by a semi truck while he was planning a ride for our church
10. Been depressed - I am the shining definition of depression
11. Gotten drunk and threw up - I don’t touch alcohol because the yeast smell is disgusting
Fave colors:
12. Pastels
13. Not pink I have red hair so I grew up dressed in pink because “it made my hair look nice”
14. Honestly it depends on the day. Some days I have a favorite color, other days I have a different one.
In the last year have you…
15. Made new friends - do my coworkers count? I mean I’m around them 40 hours a week. That’s more than my family
16. Fallen out of love - I’ve been with my bf for over a year so I’ve actually done the complete opposite
17. Laughed until you cried - Totes
18. Found out someone was talking about you - Honestly I don’t remember
19. Met someone who changed you - I had an old coworker who made me realize just how gross some guys can be. He got excited when my bf left for China and asked me everyday if he could be my “temporary bf”??????????????
20. Found out who your friends are - Well I’ve only ever had two true friends so I guess I found out who my friends are years ago
21. Kissed someone on your Facebook friends list - My grandma and my boo?
General
22. How many of your Facebook friends do you know irl - Honestly a lot of them knew me through school, but I didn’t actually know them personally. I’ve gone through and deleted people eveyr now and again because I don’t know them and I don’t want them clogging up my feed
23. Do you have any pets - I HAVE SO MANY. Three cats: two grumpy old men and one excited young kitty. AND 3 BEAUTIFUL PUPPIES WHO ALL THREE COME RUNNING WHEN YOU SHOUT FOR THE BABIES TO COME HERE
24. Do you want to change your name - I used to. No one spells it right, or says it right the first time. When the teacher would do roll call on the first day of school I would know they were talking about me when they paused and stared at the list. It’s spelled Shaina. I’ve had Shayna, Shania, Shanna, and one girl at a starbucks spelled it Shanea. I guess it just makes me unique so I’ll stick with it.
25. What did you do for your last birthday - My bf and I took a small vacation up to Chicago and visited museums, aquariums, AND ATE HOTDOGS AND DEEP DISH PIZZA
26. What time did you wake up today - 12:30ish
27. What were you doing @ midnight last night - playing Detroit because Connor is a gorgeous puppy who needs protection
28. What is something you can’t wait for - I can’t wait to move out of my mom’s house in a month or so
30. What are you listening to right now - Generally, I’m addicted to (G)IDLE’s new comback. Literally and currently, my spotify is playing Cypher Pt 4
31. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom - Honestly I have a terrible memory so I don’t know
32. Something that gets on my nerves - Everything. But really, people who act like they’re better than you just beause they have more experience in something or have been somewhere for a long time. I have a coworker who thinks he’s right about everything because “He’s been working there a long time”
33. Most visited website - Gmail and CreditKarma. School just started so I’m obssesive over my email and I’ve always been obssesive over my credit score
34. Hair color - Dark red. Not most ginger’s red. As I’ve gotten older, it’s darkened towards a brownish red
35. Hair long or short - very long. It’s halfway down my back when I put it in a high ponytail and need at least 2 holders to keep it up in a bun
36. Do you have a crush on someone - nope
37. What do you like about yourself - I love my hair and my brain. My hair and eye color is a unique combination (brown eyes w/ red hair). I’ve always been extremely creative since I was little and that’s such a big part of who I am
38. Want any piercings - Ever since I was emo, I’ve wanted my lip pierced
39. Blood type - I have no clue
40. Nicknames - Depends on who you ask. My grandpa calls me little red, my friend calls me Shay, an old friend from high school caled me Shane Dog
41. Relationship status - Surprisingly taken
42. Zodiac - Pisces
43. Pronounce - She/her
44. Fave TV shows - Anything I watch is a fave tv show
45. Tattoos -None but I desperately want some
46. Right or left handed - Right. But when I was younger my cat bit my right hand so I couldn’t move it. So I can eat comfortably with any hand, but I only write with my right hand
47. Ever had surgery - Nope
48. piercings - The traditional one piercing in both ears
49. Sports - Dancing and I still love softball even though I stopped playing in th grade
50. Vacations - I high key want to visit Madrid and Mexico City.
51. Trainers - ???
More general
52. Eating - Last thing I ate was the best ramen ever for dinner
53. Drinking - Lipton green tea I love green tea
54. I’m about to watch - Well I’m currently in the middle of Bromance and Strong Girl Bong Soon
55. Waiting - to go to bed
56. Want - to transfer to my dream college that on the other side of the country...
57. Get married - I feel too young to be married atm. Plus my bf and I have only been together for a year. But if I do my uncle can legally marry me so that’s sweet
58. Career - Currently working as a cook at Applebee’s. But my dream career is to be a business owner of my own bakery. or a singer, I want to sing so badly but that’s unrealistic :/
59. Hugs or kisses - Hugs all day
60. Lips or eyes - I am just mesmorized by single lid eyes idk why
61. Shorter or taller - a bit taller. like a few inches
62. Older or younger - Older
63. Nice stomach or stomach - I’ve had both and I didn’t love myself either way. I’m more worried about feeling comfortable in my body so I don’t care about which one I guess?
64. Hookup or relationship - relationship. Hookups will still text you every month asking if you’re single yet so you can hook up again. They’re too stressful tbh
65. Troublemaker or hesitant - Little of both
Have you ever
66. Kissed a stranger - Unfortunately yes
67. Drank hard liquor - I’ve had sips of my mother’s wine that is it
68. Lost glasses - I’VE LOST LIKE 3 PAIRS OF GLASSES SOMEHOW???
69. Turned someone down - Yes
70. Sex on first date - Another unfornately yes
71. Broken someone’s heart - Not that I know of
72. Had your heart broken - The first boy I loved broke my heart when I was 15
73. Been arrested - I cry when I get pulled over for not wearing a steatbelt. I’ve never been arrested
74. Cried when someone died - my step dad dying came as a shock. I did the whole stare into space, sit down and continue staring, then sob. It was like a tv show
75. Fallen for a friend - nah
Do you believe in
76. Yourself - Kinda
77. Miracles - Hell ye
78. Love at first sight - I used to, but then I learned that that is not love.
79. Santa Claus - I did until I was almost in high school
80. Kiss on first date - My first date iwht my bf, he hugged me goodbye and gave me a little kiss on the should r that was really cute. So if it’s those kinds of kisses yes
81. Angels - Totes
Other
82. Best friend’s name - Katlyn and Alex
83. Eye color - Dark DARK brown
84. Fave movie - The Harry Potter series. ALl day every day
85. Favorite actor - I really like Benedict Cumberbatch for some reason?
Wow that took me forever. There’s more about me tho!!! I better go to bed because it’s almost 1 and I have a class tomorrow at 9 kill me
~Admin Red
#admin red#pray for me#i can't drink caffiene because it gives me panic attacks so tomorrow is gonna be fun#large amounts of caffiene anyway#gonna be walking into class trying to stay awake by drinking a nice iced tea#then I have to stay there for 3 hours#and stay at the school even longer because i need to do stuff for my online classes
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Can you just do all of the questions? If you don’t want to that’s fine ☺️
1: is there a boy/girl in your life?-I’ve got many girls/boys in my life but if you mean romantically then no
2: think of the last person who hurt you; do you forgive them?-ya I’ll always crawl back to them
3: what do you think of when you hear the word “meow?”-already answered this one
4: what’s something you really want right now?-physical human contact
5: are you afraid of falling in love?-I think so tbh? Like I’ve only had a hard crush on three people
6: do you like the beach?-ya! It’s neat
7: have you ever slept on a couch with someone else?-I think so? If I did it was with a friend
8: what’s the background on your cell?-answered already
9: name the last four beds you were sat on?-mine, my other bed, my brothers, our exchange students
10: do you like your phone?-it’s ok. iPhones kinda suck
11: honestly, are things going the way you planned?-hell no, not at all
12: who was the last person whose phone number you added to your contacts?-probably my ex boss
13: would you rather have a poodle or a rottweiler?-Rottweiler
14: which hurts the most, physical or emotional pain?-definitely emotional
15: would you rather visit a zoo or an art museum?-art museum by far
16: are you tired?-always
17: how long have you known your 1st phone contact?-a couple months
18: are they a relative?-no
19: would you ever consider getting back together with any of your exes?-hell no
20: when did you last talk to the last person you shared a kiss with?-probably last week
21: if you knew you had the right person, would you marry them today?-no, the wedding needs to be planned first
22: would you kiss the last person you kissed again?-hell no
23: how many bracelets do you have on your wrists right now?-0
24: is there a certain quote you live by?-answered
25: what’s on your mind?-my crush, college debt, prom, drumline, wolverine
26: do you have any tattoos?-no but I’ll be getting one in a few months
27: what is your favorite color?-either dark red or mint green
28: next time you will kiss someone on the lips?-fuck if I know
29: who are you texting?-my group chat
30: think to the last person you kissed, have you ever kissed them on a couch?-yes
31: have you ever had the feeling something bad was going to happen and you were right?-many times
32: do you have a friend of the opposite sex you can talk to?-I do but I don’t trust them enough so technically no
33: do you think anyone has feelings for you?-idk I read into things too much so I think someone does but in reality probably not
34: has anyone ever told you you have pretty eyes?-many times 👀👀
35: say the last person you kissed was kissing someone right in front of you?-I’d be happy because he finally moved the fuck on
36: were you single on valentines day?-yep
37: are you friends with the last person you kissed?-more acquaintances
38: what do your friends call you?-Aleewee
39: has anyone upset you in the last week?-many people have
40: have you ever cried over a text?-definitely
41: where’s your last bruise located?-my leg
42: what is it from?-slipping and falling on ice
43: last time you wanted to be away from somewhere really bad?-right now
44: who was the last person you were on the phone with?-stepmom
45: do you have a favourite pair of shoes?-ya, my black vans
46: do you wear hats if your having a bad hair day?-bad hair days don’t exist for me
47: would you ever go bald if it was the style?-I’ve wanted to entirely shave my head for a few years so probably
48: do you make supper for your family?-nope
49: does your bedroom have a door?-yep
50: top 3 web-pages?-???idk
51: do you know anyone who hates shopping?-yes, one of my close friends
52: does anything on your body hurt?-my ass and my leg
53: are goodbyes hard for you?-very
54: what was the last beverage you spilled on yourself?-I can guarantee it was coffee
55: how is your hair?-messy because I’ve been laying down
56: what do you usually do first in the morning?-pet my kitty
57: do you think two people can last forever?-I hope so but at this point I’m not sure
58: think back to january 2007, were you single?-I hope so, I wasn’t even 10
59: green or purple grapes?-neither
60: when’s the next time you will give someone a big hug?-I’m not sure
61: do you wish you were somewhere else right now?-hell👏yes👏
62: when will be the next time you text someone?Probably in like 10 minutes
63: where will you be 5 hours from now?-sleeping in bed
64: what were you doing at 8 this morning.-going to class
65: this time last year, can you remember who you liked?-my ex, or at least I thought I liked him. I was wrong
66: is there one person in your life that can always make you smile?-yes! All my friends
67: did you kiss or hug anyone today?-I hugged my dad
68: what was your last thought before you went to bed last night?-probably had to do with quicksilver or Loki tbh
69: have you ever tried your hardest and then gotten disappointed in the end?-many times
70: how many windows are open on your computer?-2
71: how many fingers do you have?-10
72: what is your ringtone?-some stupid IPhone jingle
73: how old will you be in 5 months?-18
74: where is your mum right now?-at home
75: why aren’t you with the person you were first in love with or almost in love?-we moved on from each other
76: have you held hands with somebody in the past three days?-probably
77: are you friends with the people you were friends with two years ago?-yes!
78: do you remember who you had a crush on in year 7?-I don’t think I had one
79: is there anyone you know with the name mike?-one of my family members
80: have you ever fallen asleep in someones arms?-yes, once in a friends
81: how many people have you liked in the past three months?-2, I moved on from one because I realized he was a trash person and now I like someone who isn’t a trash person
82: has anyone seen you in your underwear in the last 3 days?-no
83: will you talk to the person you like tonight?-sadly no
84: you’re drunk and yelling at hot guys/girls out of your car window, you’re with?-My close friends
85: if your bf/gf was into drugs would you care?-yes, I can’t stand drugs
86: what was the most eventful thing that happened last time you went to see a movie?-my family member yelled “hey it’s me!” When captain America came on the screen
87: who was your last received call from?-exchange student
88: if someone gave you $1,000 to burn a butterfly over a candle, would you?-I’d feel terrible but yes, I need to pay for college somehow
89: what is something you wish you had more of?-time
90: have you ever trusted someone too much?-yes
91: do you sleep with your window open?-no
92: do you get along with girls?-yes
93: are you keeping a secret from someone who needs to know the truth?-definitely
94: does sex mean love?-to me, yes it does. Or at least heavily like
95: you’re locked in a room with the last person you kissed, is that a problem?-na were p cool with each there
96: have you ever kissed anyone with a lip ring?-nope
97: did you sleep alone this week?-yep
98: everybody has somebody that makes them happy, do you?-yes
99: do you believe in love at first sight?-I’m not sure tbh, sometimes yes sometimes no
100: who was the last person that you pinky promise?-exchange student
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2017
1. What did you do in 2017 that you’d never done before? i’ll try to do this chronologically again: so at the beginning of january one of my best friends left to study abroad in rome which was sad and i missed her a lot. i saw rory scovel do stand up. i took an animation class which was fun for the first few weeks until i failed it lmao. actually my classes from jan to march did not go so well tbh but whatever i made it through. my sister came to visit me the weekend before st paddys day which was super fun and then we saw panic which was soooooooo fuckin rad i love them still wow! i went home for spring break and visited a local winery w my dad which was a lot of fun and then a week later uhhh me and @carrot-gallery became gfs!!! and my whole frickin life changed bc i love her so much wow!! but then a week after that i turned 22 and spent my birthday alone! which i tried to pretend didnt make me sad but by the end of the day i was very sad about it and thats when my sweet gf called me to sing happy birthday and i sobbed on my couch and ill never forget that!!! so okay then spring quarter classes started and i was a part of depaul’s visiting artist series which was super cool... i met a lot of new awesome people (both at depaul and the industry ppl that were our guests!) and made some great friends in that class! i was a house manager and camera op which was super fun. i went to a screening of my fave professor’s short film which was also rad. i saw a ghost story at the chicago critics film festival, which was amazing. i saw idiocracy in 35mm and then mike judge did a q&a! the very next day i was house manager for depaul’s student film festival at the music box! i saw chris gethard do a live recording of beautiful/anonymous and then also do some standup, that was awesome. i saw day wave live!!! amazing! i spent an entire dystopian day dealing with megabus. that was hell! i sat at an outdoor amphitheater and even tho i couldnt really see him i got to listen to seu jorge sing david bowie covers and life was magical for a few hours. my sisters came up to visit me and we saw aladdin the musical and had our minds blown, it was soooo fun! i went to the chicago pride parade for the very first time but i went by myself and at one point i was sitting on the curb just crying! not a high point but still memorable. i won a ticket to an advanced screening of the big sick where kumail & emily were there to do a q&a after the movie.... had a fuckin blast OBVIOUSLY and then saw the movie 9 other times in various theatres. i also made it into a commercial FOR the movie i just loved it that much lmao! i moved into a new (and my current) apartment! lorde released melodrama and fucking murdered me in my own home. otherwise i had a pretty uneventful but anxiety filled summer bc of financial aid stuff so that really sucked. i saw good time w taylor and the safdie brothers were there to do a q&a and they were such interesting guys i could listen to them talk for hours honestly. my mom and sisters came up to visit me and we took our mom to her very first cubs game which was sooo so much fun and they won that day too!! it was awesome and we had a great time :) watched the eclipse (or tried to anyway!!) fall quarter classes started and i honestly kicked ass at them, i got on the deans list (i almost typed honor roll lmao i mean its basically the same) i hung out with ari again which was cool!! we went to the aquarium! me and taylor saw beach fossils which was honestly the most buckwild concert ive ever been to i think, it was good shit. i got jobs at AMC (which i have since quit lmao) and starbucks and left my job at the paint place which was bittersweet! me and taylor saw mbmbam live!!! so fun!! and we watched trolls that night and goofed on it so hard!! i went home for thanksgiving and found out my big sister is gonna have a baby this year!! :D i saw mike birbiglia do stand up! which was soooo incredible of course (except i felt bad bc my mom was supposed to come w me but she couldnt go! so i brought taylor lol) UMMMMM MY DAM GIRLFRIEND CAME TO CHICAGO TO VISIT ME AND STAYED FOR A WHOLE DANG WEEK AND IT WAS THE BEST THING EVER SHE MAKES ME SO HAPPY WE HAD SO MUCH FUN AND I MISS HAVING HER RIGHT NEXT TO ME EVERY SINGLE GOSH DANG DAY <3 ;_____; and that was my year!!
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year? last year i said id like to read at least one book each month and watch at least 100 movies - i did neither! im keeping the movie resolution though bc cmon 100 movies should be EASY for a film major wtf am i doing!
3. Did anyone close to you give birth? no but it will happen in 2018!
4. Did anyone close to you die? not a person but we had to put down my sweet doggo, flash :(
5. What countries did you visit? still none :/
6. What would you like to have in 2018 that you lacked in 2017? More confidence that I actually deserve to be in college and that I can do this shit and I’m awesome <– that was my answer from last year and the year before but yeah. same. also money.
7. What dates from 2017 will remain etched upon your memory, and why? ummm march 25 when me and gf became gfs and also dec 17 when she came to visit :)
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year? putting myself out there by doing VAS/Premiere, getting on the deans list for the first time since freshman year and then also getting a new job
9. What was your biggest failure? this summer i didnt do shit besides wallow and cry and it sucked!
10. Did you suffer illness or injury? nope
11. What was the best thing you bought? every movie ticket and the bras i bought for natalie ;-)
12. Whose behavior merited celebration? natalie’s because she’s amazing and works so hard!!!! and she can always cheer me up and im so in love w her
13. Whose behavior made you appalled? mine bc i could never just get my shit together and do my homework when i was supposed to :) < thats from last year but lmfao same!
14. Where did most of your money go? RENT, movie/event tix, food, in that order
15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? THE BIG SICK, the new season of sv, p much all of the events that i listed in the first question lol
16. What song will always remind you of 2017? umm honestly probably any song from melodrama
17. Compared to this time last year, are you: a) happier or sadder? b) thinner or fatter? c) richer or poorer? I’m a. happier, b. probably thinner? or maybe the same idk, and c. definitely DEFINITELY poorer
18. What do you wish you’d done more of? read and write and watch movies and write and read about movies
19. What do you wish you’d done less of? Spending money and also being bitter about everything for no reason <– last year and the year before that AGAIN and also same!
20. How did you spend Christmas? working at AMC which i hated every second of :)
21. Did you fall in love in 2016? yes with my amazing girlfriend @carrot-gallery
22. What was your favorite TV program? silicon valley, AMERICAN VANDAL, the good place, great british bake off
23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year? nah just politicians who like. actively want me to die lol
24. What was the best book you read? bitch,
25. What was your greatest musical discovery? mitski like why the fuck did i sleep on her..... tbh thats about it bc i still listen to the same music i did 10 years ago
26. What did you want and get? I wanted a steadier/better paying job and i have it!
27. What did you want and not get? idk i wanted to be financially stable on my own and i still dont have that
28. What was your favorite film of this year? ugh i hate this question! ok in no order: THE BIG SICK, GOOD TIME, A GHOST STORY, GET OUT, THE FLORIDA PROJECT
29. What one thing made your year immeasurably more satisfying? uhhh having my sweet girlfriend by my side each and every day
30. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2017? sometimes chic, always sweaty
31. What kept you sane? Sydney, my best friend in the entire world. (This was my answer from last year and the year before that and the year before that AND THE YEAR BEFORE THAT but it still holds true) also everyone in the sv discord chat still AND natalie of course of course
32. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? kumail nanjiani duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, taika waititi, and martin starr always and probably more but i legit cant think of anyone rn lol
33. What political issue stirred you the most? yikes all of it. all of the issues (this was from last year but same lmao)
34. Who did you miss? i miss my dogs and my family and my girlfriend 35. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2017. You can set goals for yourself and talk about it all you want but it’s nothing until you actually start working towards it and doing something about it. <– answer from last year and the year before that and the year before that, still true!! imma keep that. also idk just like, there are good days and super bad days and ive survived all of them so its just a reminder to myself that ill be okay.
36. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year. These days will all seem better in time Waiting on that hindsight
#2017#personal#sorry that my answer to the first question is SO LONG but i did a lot this year!#and its fun to recap anyway#also this has been sitting in my drafts for a week lol so here ya go
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1:Is there a boy/girl in your life?Yes
2:Think of the last person who hurt you; do you forgive them?No
3:What do you think of when you hear the word “meow?”“I want that meow” (I love puns)
4:What’s something you really want right now?Pancakes
5:Are you afraid of falling in love?Depends? I kinda think so? My mind and heart are complicated.
6:Do you like the beach?Yes
7:Have you ever slept on a couch with someone else? Yes
8:What’s the background on your cell?Lock screen is my gf and my home screen is my bestie and me
9:Name the last four beds you were sat on?What?
10:Do you like your phone?Yup
11:Honestly, are things going the way you planned?Hahahahahaha!!!! No, not at all, end me now I am fucking miserable
12:Who was the last person whose phone number you added to your contacts?My biological dad
13:Would you rather have a poodle or a Rottweiler? Rottweiler
14:Which hurts the most, physical or emotional pain?Emotional
15:Would you rather visit a zoo or an art museum?Art museum, I don’t like zoos bc seeing caged animals makes me cry
16:Are you tired?A better question would be “when are you not tired”
17:How long have you known your 1st phone contact?Honestly, I don’t know who this person is so she was probs a one time project partner who is forever forgotten
18:Are they a relative?No
19:Would you ever consider getting back together with any of your exes?No, I get fucked over too much
20:When did you last talk to the last person you shared a kiss with?Tonight, we call each other just about every night if we can. We said our goodnights ❤️
21:If you knew you had the right person, would you marry them today?No, I want more time to be an independent adult before moving into that
22:Would you kiss the last person you kissed again?Most definitely! No questions asked!
23:How many bracelets do you have on your wrists right now?0
24:Is there a certain quote you live by?We all make bad decisions for temporary happiness
25:What’s on your mind?Music
26:Do you have any tattoos?I wish but soon
27:What is your favorite color? I tell people purple but my fav color is actually red
28:Next time you will kiss someone on the lips?I will kiss her anywhere she wants
29:Who are you texting?No one now bc I’m the only one awake
30:Think to the last person you kissed, have you ever kissed them on a couch?No, just my bed
31:Have you ever had the feeling something bad was going to happen and you were right?Always
32:Do you have a friend of the opposite sex you can talk to?Yes
33:Do you think anyone has feelings for you?I hope my gf has feelings for me or this would be so awkward
34:Has anyone ever told you you have pretty eyes?All the time actually
35:Say the last person you kissed was kissing someone right in front of you?Then I’d be single and that someone would have a black eye
36:Were you single on Valentines Day?No, but I wish I was
37:Are you friends with the last person you kissed?Yes
38:What do your friends call you?Votato
39:Has anyone upset you in the last week?Yes
40:Have you ever cried over a text?Yes
41:Where’s your last bruise located?Idk, I have a new one everyday
42:What is it from?Idk? Battling demons and the patriarchy in my sleep?
43:Last time you wanted to be away from somewhere really bad?Now
44:Who was the last person you were on the phone with?My friend Aly
45:Do you have a favourite pair of shoes?Yes, they are boots
46:Do you wear hats if your having a bad hair day?Sometimes?
47:Would you ever go bald if it was the style?Nah
48:Do you make supper for your family?My mom would never eat anything I make even though I’m a pretty good cook
49:Does your bedroom have a door?Yes
50:Top 3 web-pages?HuluNetflixApartment searches
51:Do you know anyone who hates shopping?Meh
52:Does anything on your body hurt?My head
53:Are goodbyes hard for you?Yes
54:What was the last beverage you spilled on yourself?Water
55:How is your hair?Shaved short on sides and the top is burgundy/purple
56:What do you usually do first in the morning?Hit snooze
57:Do you think two people can last forever?Yes
58:Think back to January 2007, were you single?Yes
59:Green or purple grapes?Purple
60:When’s the next time you will give someone a BIG hug?In 2 weeks when I see Her again
61:Do you wish you were somewhere else right now?Yeah, sleeping next to my gf and holding her in my arms
62:When will be the next time you text someone?Probably in the morning bc She sends me good morning texts
63:Where will you be 5 hours from now?In bed sleeping
64:What were you doing at 8 this morning.Getting ready for work
65:This time last year, can you remember who you liked?I was dating someone but I didn’t like them tbh so no one probably
66:Is there one person in your life that can always make you smile?Yes! I’ve mentioned her a lot so far lol
67:Did you kiss or hug anyone today?No
68:What was your last thought before you went to bed last night?I hope I can wake up in the morning for work because I’m going to bed late
69:Have you ever tried your hardest and then gotten disappointed in the end?My life
70:How many windows are open on your computer?My friend at another college borrowed mine for tonight so I can’t answer that tbh
71:How many fingers do you have?10, 5 on each hand
72:What is your ringtone?Kingdom hearts piano
73:How old will you be in 5 months?22
74:Where is your Mum right now?Florida (aka Satan’s armpit)
75:Why aren’t you with the person you were first in love with or almost in love?I got fucked over and will never trust this person ever again
76:Have you held hands with somebody in the past three days?Sadly no
77:Are you friends with the people you were friends with two years ago?Not all of them, like 2 of them maybe
78:Do you remember who you had a crush on in year 7?Nope
79:Is there anyone you know with the name Mike?Yeah two of them, a guy and a girl. Girl is Michaela but we call her mike for short
80:Have you ever fallen asleep in someones arms?Yes and I never liked it until I met her
81:How many people have you liked in the past three months?2 people??
82:Has anyone seen you in your underwear in the last 3 days?My roommate
83:Will you talk to the person you like tonight?I just did
84:You’re drunk and yelling at hot guys/girls out of your car window, you’re with?Probs my bestie/ squad
85:If your BF/GF was into drugs would you care?Yes, I don’t want their health to be affected or deteriorate
86:What was the most eventful thing that happened last time you went to see a movie?Everyone screamed, and some random guy played with my hair without my permission
87:Who was your last received call from?Aly
88:If someone gave you $1,000 to burn a butterfly over a candle, would you?No
89:What is something you wish you had more of?Stability
90:Have you ever trusted someone too much?Yes
91:Do you sleep with your window open?only if it’s hot
92:Do you get along with girls?Sometimes
93:Are you keeping a secret from someone who needs to know the truth?Mmmm...idk? I’m pretty honest
94:Does sex mean love?No
95:You’re locked in a room with the last person you kissed, is that a problem?Definitely not!
96:Have you ever kissed anyone with a lip ring?No
97:Did you sleep alone this week?Yes :(
98:Everybody has somebody that makes them happy, do you?Yes
99:Do you believe in love at first sight?I believe in infatuation at first sight
100:Who was the last person that you pinky promise? My bestie, I promised him I’d watch a specific movie with him after I got home from work
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ooh ooh babe do all the questions
aha ok 😆
1: Is there a boy/girl in your life?
Yeah, babe its youu
2: Think of the last person who hurt you; do you forgive them?
I feel sorry for her, but I don’t think I can ever fully forgive them
3: What do you think of when you hear the word “meow?”
Homeowner
4: What’s something you really want right now?
To live in fc again
5: Are you afraid of falling in love?
Not anymore
6: Do you like the beach?
ye ☺️
7: Have you ever slept on a couch with someone else?
I’m pretty sure you and I have done this babe
8: What’s the background on your cell?
Me and my gorgeous gf kissing in front of Sleeping Beauty’s castle in Disneyland
9: Name the last four beds you were sat on?
idk??
10: Do you like your phone?
Yeah, I’ve had it for the past 4 years so
11: Honestly, are things going the way you planned?
Ahaha Nope 😅😅
12: Who was the last person whose phone number you added to your contacts?
My other best friend’s new number
13: Would you rather have a poodle or a Rottweiler?
Poodle
14: Which hurts the most, physical or emotional pain?
emotional i guess, tbh i haven’t really been in much physical pain 😕
15: Would you rather visit a zoo or an art museum?
zoo!! I like looking at all the cute animals
16: Are you tired?
almost always
17: How long have you known your 1st phone contact?
Like alphabetically, I’ve known the first person on my contacts for about 5 years. Chronologically, they would have to be my parents so basically all my life
18: Are they a relative?
Alphabetically, no. Chronologically, yes
19: Would you ever consider getting back together with any of your exes?
Nah, one of them I wanna stay away from, the other one deserves someone better
20: When did you last talk to the last person you shared a kiss with?
Today 😘 hi babe
21: If you knew you had the right person, would you marry them today?
I’d say yes but we both have to go through college first ya know 😅
22: Would you kiss the last person you kissed again?
hells yeah!! babe i hope you know i’m always waiting to kiss you
23: How many bracelets do you have on your wrists right now?
none, just my watch
24: Is there a certain quote you live by?
not really
25: What’s on your mind?
Just wonderin how this next year is gonna turn out for both of us
26: Do you have any tattoos?
nope
27: What is your favorite color?
Purple
28: Next time you will kiss someone on the lips?
if you let me babe 😅
29: Who are you texting?
Me bro and sis, and you
30: Think to the last person you kissed, have you ever kissed them on a couch?
Yes i’m pretty sure we’ve done that 😆
31: Have you ever had the feeling something bad was going to happen and you were right?
yeah, sometimes i am unfortunately right 😔
32: Do you have a friend of the opposite sex you can talk to?
son
33: Do you think anyone has feelings for you?
i’m pretty sure you have feelings for me babe 😅
34: Has anyone ever told you you have pretty eyes?
you did ☺️
35: Say the last person you kissed was kissing someone right in front of you?
i mean i’ve seen you kiss your ex-bf so
36: Were you single on Valentines Day?
not this last year ☺️
37: Are you friends with the last person you kissed?
best friends 😘
38: What do your friends call you?
by my name? or a hoe
39: Has anyone upset you in the last week?
myself, lowkey my parents
40: Have you ever cried over a text?
yes
41: Where’s your last bruise located?
on my boobs 😒
42: What is it from?
my gf
43: Last time you wanted to be away from somewhere really bad?
idk
44: Who was the last person you were on the phone with?
my mom
45: Do you have a favourite pair of shoes?
just converse
46: Do you wear hats if your having a bad hair day?
bruh i wear a hat even if i’m having a good hair day
47: Would you ever go bald if it was the style?
i dont think so
48: Do you make supper for your family?
i help
49: Does your bedroom have a door?
yeah?
50: Top 3 web-pages?
tumblr, youtube, amazon
51: Do you know anyone who hates shopping?
babe thats you irl
52: Does anything on your body hurt?
no
53: Are goodbyes hard for you?
depends on the person but generally yeah
54: What was the last beverage you spilled on yourself?
water
55: How is your hair?
manageable
56: What do you usually do first in the morning?
either take a shit or wash my face
57: Do you think two people can last forever?
i’m counting on it
58: Think back to January 2007, were you single?
yes 😆
59: Green or purple grapes?
purple
60: When’s the next time you will give someone a BIG hug?
the next time i see you babe
61: Do you wish you were somewhere else right now?
in fc and not all the way up here
62: When will be the next time you text someone?
later today i guess
63: Where will you be 5 hours from now?
still at home
64: What were you doing at 8 this morning.
sleeping
65: This time last year, can you remember who you liked?
nobody really
66: Is there one person in your life that can always make you smile?
my girl 😌
67: Did you kiss or hug anyone today?
nope just my dog
68: What was your last thought before you went to bed last night?
my gf is cute and i wanna talk to her tomorrow
69: Have you ever tried your hardest and then gotten disappointed in the end?
yeah aka ap exams
70: How many windows are open on your computer?
1 window, 2 tabs
71: How many fingers do you have?
10
72: What is your ringtone?
idk
73: How old will you be in 5 months?
still `18
74: Where is your Mum right now?
at work
75: Why aren’t you with the person you were first in love with or almost in love?
girl: things got bad between usguy: he wasnt the right person for me and i wasnt the right person for him
76: Have you held hands with somebody in the past three days?
no
77: Are you friends with the people you were friends with two years ago?
yeah
78: Do you remember who you had a crush on in year 7?
no i was just trying to live
79: Is there anyone you know with the name Mike?
nope
80: Have you ever fallen asleep in someones arms?
my girl’s arms ☺️
81: How many people have you liked in the past three months?
1
82: Has anyone seen you in your underwear in the last 3 days?
nope
83: Will you talk to the person you like tonight?
hopefully
84: You’re drunk and yelling at hot guys/girls out of your car window, you’re with?
i can barely yell at people i know, less strangers
85: If your BF/GF was into drugs would you care?
yeah
86: What was the most eventful thing that happened last time you went to see a movie?
my brother didn’t actually fall asleep during the movie and kept asking questions about spiderman 😆
87: Who was your last received call from?
my mom
88: If someone gave you $1,000 to burn a butterfly over a candle, would you?
yeah 😅
89: What is something you wish you had more of?
driving experience
90: Have you ever trusted someone too much?
like i really trust my gf but idk if you could say its too much
91: Do you sleep with your window open?
nope
92: Do you get along with girls?
ye
93: Are you keeping a secret from someone who needs to know the truth?
probs?
94: Does sex mean love?
generally, not really. in my case, yeah cuz its only with a person i trust
95: You’re locked in a room with the last person you kissed, is that a problem?
no 😆
96: Have you ever kissed anyone with a lip ring?
i dont even know what that is
97: Did you sleep alone this week?
like the last time i slept with my girl was sat/sun night and today is friday so technically no?
98: Everybody has somebody that makes them happy, do you?
ye babe thats you
99: Do you believe in love at first sight?
crush in first sight
100: Who was the last person that you pinky promise?
i dont remember
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1. Are looks important in a relationship? Done
2. Are relationships ever worth it? If I thought the answer was no, I wouldn’t be in one so...
3. Are you a virgin? Not since almost a year ago
4. Are you in a relationship? Yes and she’s perfect
5. Are you in love? See above
6. Are you single this year? I am not
7. Can you commit to one person? Can have and am
8. Describe your crush done
9. Describe your perfect mate Its my gf of course she’s perfect
10. Do you believe in love at first sight? Nah. You have to know someone to love them.
11. Do you ever want to get married? I could see it happening. I wouldnt mind if it didn’t. Its way too early inn my life to think about shit like that
12. Do you forgive betrayal? Done
13. Do you get jealous easily? Done
14. Do you have a crush on anyone? Guys I think I might hhave a crush on my gf
15. Do you have any piercings? I want some
16. Do you have any tattoos? I want some
17. Do you like kissing in public? Not if other people are doing it, but so much yes if i’m doing it
20. Do you shower every day? Who tf doesn’t
21. Do you think someone has feelings for you? Guys I think my gf might have a crush on me
22. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now? My gf is asleep so mayybe she’s dreaming about me. (also my bff thinks about me she’s gay andcool)
23. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months and not cheat? I’ve done it before
24. Do you think you’ll be married in 5 years? Doubt it. I won’t even be finished with grad school
25. Do you want to be in a relationship this year? I want to be in the one I’m in
26. Has anyone told you they don’t want to ever lose you? Ye
27. Has someone ever written a song or poem for you? done
28. Have you ever been cheated on? not that I know of. Since I trust and care about my exes, I will believe they didn’t unless evidence happens
29. Have you ever cheated on someone? done. but it bears repeating. no. I could never
30. Have you ever considered plastic surgery? If so, what would you change about your body? Nah. It’s too expensive
31. Have you ever cried over a guy/girl? Yep
32. Have you ever experienced unrequited love? Ye boi
33. Have you ever had sex with a man? No
34. Have you ever had sex with a woman? well all of them are nbs. so... i guess also no?
35. Have you ever kissed someone older than you? yep
36. Have you ever liked one of your best friends? yeah friendships are how crushes start for me. not my current best friend though
37. Have you ever liked someone who your friends hated? More like one asshole friend who tried to slander the relationship, seduce me out of it, and then when it ended for other reasons, almost immediately accused me of trying to sabotage thier relationship for just being friendly
38. Have you ever liked someone you didn’t expect to? I never expected to like anyone.
39. Have you ever wanted someone you couldn’t have? All the damn time
40. Have you ever written a song or poem for someone? Ye. I recorded a cover once too. I might do that again but would have to choose the song.
41. Have you had sex so far this year? This is the year in which I have had the most sex.
42. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander? As long as the person I’m kissing wants
43. How long was your longest relationship? 2 years, 3 months, 29 days but it was on again off again a little bit
44. How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had? 4, but #3 is the same person as #4
45. How many people did you kiss in 2012/2013? none
46. How many times did you have sex last year? In 2016? No more than like 7
47. How old are you? 18, 19 in 8 days
48. If the person you like says they like someone else, what would you say? I would cry
49. If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, what is your favorite thing about him/her? can I say everything she is so cute and perfect oh my god and her sense of humor is great i could just lay around all day watching youtube with her
50. If your first true love knocked on your door with apology and presents, would you accept? far as I know, he has nothing to apologize for. I’d be impressed he made it from (Iowa?) to NYC tho. And i love presents i always accept them
51. Is there a boy/girl who you would do absolutely everything for? Yep. She my gf
52. Is there anyone you’ve given up on? Why? Ahngst person. I’m through putting up with their bullshit about abandoning people who care about them. They hurt multiple of my friends, irreparably. They avoided us when we happened to run into them in the coffee shop they work at but then turned around and started low-key stalking my bff. they don’t deserve any affection from me. I don’t hate them, but they can’t be part of my life healthily anymore. Maybe as friends, much further down the road, but they havve to put in the work for that because hell if I’m reaching out to them.
53. Is there someone mad because you’re dating/talking to the person you are? Last time I dated her there was.
54. Is there someone you will never forget? most people
55. Share a relationship story. with the person I’m currently dating, before we were dating, wee were both up late at night talking, and she told me to go look at the stars which were pretty, and she was pretty high and so we went to go get food because she was also hungry and we got chicken nuggets and a pie, and then we laid in a field together and watched the stars
56. State 8 facts about your body I’ve got hands, those hands can type, I’ve got some hair, I have a nose, I have functioning (but not well) eyes, im tall, I’m p skinny because teenage metabolism and I like destroying my body recreationally.
57. Things you want to say to an ex #1: how is things in iowa ya nerd. #2: sorry for putting you through some shit, but I’m glad you value what you got out of it. #3: I love you more than anything thanks for asking me back out.
58. What are five ways to win your heart? gotta be cute, then be really nice to me, then hold me in your arms, thentalk with me for hours on end and finally share memes with me
59. What do you look like? Haha nope
60. What is the biggest age difference between you and any of your partners? 1 year 2 months 4 days
61. What is the first thing you notice in someone? whether they are a human or a lizard
62. What is the sexiest thing someone could ever do for/to you? real talk, I’d kind of like someone (who i love and care about) to get on top of me, tie my hands up above my head, slap me a little and call me names. maybe have me wear a collar too. while i struggle to try and touch her. (OR, you know, a loving and caring relationship, the sexiest thing of all)
63. What is your definition of “having sex”? most sexual contact counts
64. What is your definition of cheating? having a romantic or sexual interaction with someone who is not your partner, that your partner either doesn’t know about or doesn’t condone. flirtinng can count
65. What is your favourite foreplay routine? passionate, rolling around the bed/floor makeouts, neck biting, hickey receiving (and to a lesser extent, giving). teasing. lots of teasing.
66. What is your favourite roleplay? Never done any of those. I don’t think that’s really my thing. (My least favorite is daddy/daughter play)
67. What is your idea of the perfect date? spending any time with my GF whatsoever
68. What is your sexual orientation? asexual, but i’m really sex positive. like. sex is nice but i’m not attracted to anyone
69. What turns you off? trypophobia images. bumpinig heads into places they shouldn’t go. condom breaking. parents coming home thats a big one.
70. What turns you on? being bitten, being pushed down, being challenged in a sexual context, driving esp at night, the idea of doing things in someone elses bed (as long as its clean and they don’t find out), holding hands
71. What was your kinkiest wet dream? I haven’t had a wet dream in a long time, and the last time i did, it was about fucking a chair so.... eh
72. What words do you like to hear during sex? any variant of “oh that feels so good oh my god mmm yes right there don’t stop fuck me harder” and various pleasure moans
73. What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you? love and cherish me forever.
74. What’s the most superficial characteristic you look for? does she have a face i could stare at all day and not get bored of it?
75. What’s the sweetest thing anyone’s ever done for you? romantically, making out in the backseat of a moving car. platonically, driving the car so me and the other person could make out in the backseat even though we were supposed to go home. There’s more i’m sure but I can’t think of them
76. What’s the sweetest thing you’ve ever done for someone? dunno.
77. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships? some age differences are okay. some are not. For instance, I’m gonna be 19 next sunday (not tomorrow) and my GF is 17, 18 in october. That’s an okay age gap. 16-20 is not. It has to do more with experience than age, though, since a 16 year old is a child in high school, and a 20 year old is a grown adult in college
78. What’s your dirtiest secret? who I lost my virginity to
79. When was the last time you felt jealous? Why? my gf commented positively on the photo of one of her past crushes. recently. I was worry but I trust her and I know she loves me
80. When was the last time you told someone you loved them? last night
81. Who are five people you find attractive? my gf, my girlfriend, my significant other, my partner and the girl that I love (they’re all the same person)
82. Who is the last person you hugged? shit its been a while i don’t even know
83. Who was your first kiss with? my first bf
84. Why did your last relationship fail? she wasn’t in the right place to be dating at the time. but she is now, and I love her more than anything
85. Would you ever date someone off of the Internet? iunno
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Tagged by: @omuii le geef
Rules: Answer these 92 statements and tag 20 people
LAST: 1. Drink: coke
2. Phone call: probably my mom
3. Text message: to my girlfriend: ^_^
4. Song you listened to: Free -6LACK
5. Time you cried: uhhhhhhhhhh I think it was two weeks ago when I was frustrated with my family for not treating me like an adult
HAVE YOU:
6. Dated someone twice: nooo
7. Kissed someone and regretted it: yes but I barely count it as a kiss lol. I was in 8th grade and gave my boyfriend a peck on the lips and the whole thing was so forced it was stupid
8. Been cheated on: don't think so
9. Lost someone special: yes
10. Been depressed: heck yeck
11. Gotten drunk and thrown up: yeah I was at a party with some friends in college and it was a great party most of the people were LGBT and everybody was really chill but I just really wanted to get wrecked lol. I started with beer because I thought that was all they had but then I found out they had Smirnoff ice and I started drinking those, and I played a drinking game with shots of Long Island iced tea.... best party ever even though I did get sick twice
LIST 3 FAVORITE COLORS:
12-14: I can't believe this is just a clever way to skip my favorite number in the questions but ok: ultramarine blue, lime green, umm. Plum purple? Not all at once lol
IN THE LAST YEAR HAVE YOU:
15. Made new friends: yes
16. Fallen out of love: yes (only romantically)
17. Laughed until you cried: yes, usually because of The Squad, my Skype group
18. Found out someone was talking about you: yupperooza.
19. Met someone who changed you: hmmmm. I followed someone on tumblr does that count?
20. Found out who your friends are: yes
21. Kissed someone on your Facebook list: my gf ;)
GENERAL:
22. How many of your Facebook friends do you know in real life: almost all of them, so around 200
23. Do you have any pets: Sasha, a 6 year old border collie-husky mix who is black with blue eyes (she's a little brat who tries to trip everyone by tackling their feet), and Gretchen, a 11 year old German shepherd mix with a big belly (and a bigger heart) and a curly tail
24. Do you want to change your name: yeah, my legal name is both too feminine and too biblical. Hopefully someday I'll get to change it legally to Peri.
25. What did you do for your last Birthday: I honestly don't remember :') it was probably boring
26. What time did you wake up: I woke up at 9 surprisingly well rested
27. What were you doing at midnight last night: watching Jupiter Ascending which is one heck of a movie
28. Name something you can’t wait for: going to visit my geef in New Jersey again
29. When was the last time you saw your mom: I'm sitting next to her on the couch watching family feud right now
30. What is one thing you wish you could change in your life: GIVE ME THE HECKENING MOTIVATION!!!!
31. What are you listening right now: G-Mix: Russel on Spotify. I'm goin through all of their playlists. B)
32. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: there were a few different guys named Tom at the campgrounds we used to go to every summer.
33. Something that is getting on your nerves: my LACK!! OF MOTIVATION!!!!!
34. Most visited website: tumblr, YouTube, kimcartoon
LOST QUESTIONS. I JUST PUT IN RANDOM INFO ABOUT ME
35. Mole/s: a few on my arms
36. Mark/s: fuckin perpetual acne and scars from it on my shoulders and back : ) a birthmark on my left side and supposedly one on the back of my neck but ofc I've never actually seen it -squints- a few freckles here and there
37. Childhood dream: to be literally every fucking profession. I wanted to be a princess, a fire fighter, a veterinarian, a cop, a psychiatrist...
38. Hair color: brown
39. Long or short hair: short, I look like one of the Beatles lmao
40. Do you have a crush on someone: does my gf count 👀
41. What do you like about yourself: I'm a good friend and I got a nice body 😘
42. Piercings: just 2, one traditional piercing in each ear. I really want a bar of some kind, at least one cartilage piercing.
43. Blood type: O+
44. Nickname: saoirse, seersh, peri, peridot
45. Relationship status: taken by my gf 46. Zodiac: sexy, sexy Sagittarius ;)
47. Pronouns: they/them or... ya know what idc actually any pronouns lol
48. Favorite TV Show: Steven Universe, Rick and Morty, Community 49. Tattoos: none YET
50. Right or left hand: right-handed though I am slightly better with my left hand at frisbee for some reason
51. Surgery: once I had a surgery on my tooth that never came down because the teeth on either side were too close together.
52. Hair dyed in different color: never :c
... yet 53. Sport: I used to be in track/field for one year in middle school, I was horrible at it but I did the 200, high jump and long jump. When I say I was bad at it I mean I was Literally The Worst on the team by far. I like to watch hockey especially in the arena because it gets WILD in there. You get to hear all the crazy shit all the drunk fans are saying and watch people get into fights and yell at each other 54. was there a 54 before bc i lost it i guess? and i just copy-pasted the whole thing
55. Vacation: a nice little cabin in the woods with hiking trails around it would be perfect 👌 I'd also like to go on a cross-country road trip someday
56. Pair of trainers: these black ones with neon laces that I wear to work, my favorite ones right now that are black with stars that glow in the dark (I don't wear them to work so as not to wear them out), a pair of black converse and a pair of black and teal vans, both of which I've had for years MORE GENERAL:
57. Eating: nothing right now
58. Drinking: coke
59. I’m about to: READ A FUCKING BOOK FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 2 YEARS
61. Waiting for: me to get my shit together
62. Want: a raise? No? Damn. motivation??? .... shit.
63. Get married: someday, u know it -finger guns-
64. Career: artist/illustrator if I HAD THAT FUCKING MOTIVATION 👏👏👏 i have been wondering how I would do as a plumber tho.. 🤔
WHICH IS BETTER
65. Hugs or kisses: hugs
? 66. Lips or eyes: eyes
67. Shorter or taller: maybe.. a LITTLE taller????????????? if ANYTHING??
68. Older or younger: I am 19 and too far in either direction is Uncomfortable 😐
70. Nice arms or nice stomach: What Does This Mean (in general tummies are nice tho)
71. Sensitive or loud: hm?? I'm sensitive to loud noises???? I really don't know what this means
72. Hook up or relationship: relationship
73. Troublemaker or hesitant: "i’m a hesitant trouble-maker" -my gf and honestly, same
HAVE YOU EVER:
74. Kissed a Stranger: no
75. Drank hard liquor: hell yea
76. Lost glasses/contact lenses: I've briefly been unable to find them but I always find them again
77. Turned someone down: yes have you ever been friends with a Nice Guy
78. Sex on the first date: what is this... Sex
79. Broken someone’s heart: probably since I've turned people down
80. Had your heart broken: yeah
81. Been arrested: nope 😏don't plan on it either
82. Cried when someone died: umm I cried like a week after someone died does that count? My emotions are delayed sometimes
83. Fallen for a friend: ;) ye
DO YOU BELIEVE IN:
84. Yourself: barely
85. Miracles: not technically
86. Love at first sight: sometimes
87. Santa Claus: again not technically but I think he's a good symbol for kids and in general positive vibes during the holiday season
88. Kiss on the first date: yeanoooo.. it takes a while for me. When in doubt just ask. And listen to my response lmao (someone kissed me after I said no and MMM 😬)
OTHER:
90. Current best friend name: I can't just pick one 😫I have like 10 REALLY great friends I trust with my life
91. Eye color: grey-green
92. Favorite movie: the only movie I can think of right now is Jupiter Ascending because i just saw it last night and it's the first movie I've seen in months lol. OH FUCKING HECK INTERSTELLAR THATS MY FAVORITE MOVIE I LOVE INTERSTELLAR
NOW, TAG 20 PEOPLE: imma do what tessa did and tag the last 20 mutuals in my notes so don’t feel obligated to do this or even read it! also if you don’t want me to tag you in these in the future let me know and i’ll do my best to avoid it. @gordamnramsey, @mysteriousquartz, @celestialmoonlights, @viviannevendetta, @carryonmywaywardplanet, @jamesxfilesthemeroach, @lordsardine, @woahdaleks, @prettythinker, @belleweather, @squidego, @reck2468, @sexyninjakitty96, @animeandmanga-bearcat, @thesamanthagossamer
im actually gonna cut it off there at 15 bc i don’t have that many active mutuals lol oK HAVE FUN EVERYBODY make sure to tag me if you do this!
#long post#tag meme#text#mine#cursing#i don't normally tag cursing but for some reason i did it a LOT in here so#alcohol#i also talk abt that quite a bit here lol#about me#i hope everything is done and i didn't forget to edit something bc THIS POST IS BEING EJECTED INTO THE VOID
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i am in a Mood so i am gonna talk about myself! don’t mind me
01: tell me the truth, what made you start liking the person you like right now?
she’s dorky and beautiful and we have a very similar sense of humor and she always appreciated my sense of humor. she’s so funny she makes me laugh all the time. and also she’s so so so smart
02: what on your body is hurting or bothering you?
my chest kinda hurts bc i feel anxious
03: what was your last thought before going to bed last night?
i was really stressed about this summer class i’m taking and how everything in my life kinda sucks right now
04: what are you listening to?
Face // BROCKHAMPTON
05: what’s something you’re not looking forward to?
closing at work tomorrow bc we close at 11 on saturdays and the girl i close with is super shy so we like don’t talk so it’ll go by so slowly
06: where do you think your best friend is right now?
probs at home chillin w her mom
07: have you kissed anybody in the last five days?
yes
08: favorite song?
uhh idk if i have a favorite but Thank God For Girls by Weezer has been my jam lately
09: kiss on the first date?
why not
10: is there one person you want to be with right now?
:/
11: are you seriously happy with where you are in life?
not at all. i’m gonna fix it but right now i’m extremely unhappy
12: is there something you would like to say to someone?
yeah
13: what are three things you did today?
took a test, cried, made my parents tell me their wild college party stories over dinner
14: would you rather sleep at a friend’s or have them over?
at a friend’s, my house is lame
15: what is your favorite kind of gum?
i like the trident melon one
16: are you friends with any of your ex boyfriends/ girlfriends?
not any of em no
17: what is on your wrists right now?
my tattoos ???
18: ever liked someone you thought you didn’t stand a chance with?
yeah and now i’m dating her
19: does anyone have strong feelings for you?
yes
20: are you slowly drifting away from someone?
yes :(
21: have you ever wasted your time on someone?
yeah fuck that
22: can you do the alphabet in sign language?
i used to be able to
23: how have you felt today?
suuuuper anxious n like on the verge of tears. and now i’m like just sad and tired
24: you receive $60 without any reason, what do you spend it on?
probably birthday gifts for two of my friends i forgot to buy birthday gifts for
25: what is wrong with you right now?
so many
26: is there anyone you’re really disappointed in?
yeah a little
27: would you rather have starbucks or boost juice right now?
neither
28: why aren’t you in ‘love’ with your last ex anymore?
never was, he cheated on me and he was ugly anyway and also i’m probably gay
29: how late did you stay up last night and why?
uhh i think like 1 AM, doing stats shit and talking to my gf
30: when was the last time you talked to one of your best friends?
yesterday we got breakfast together!!
31: what were you doing an hour ago?
having dinner w my family at a restaurant and listening to my dad tell a story of when he got kicked out of a bar for pissing out a window
32: what are you looking forward to in the next month?
i’m going to go to this music festival w a friend so that’s cool. gonna try to hang out with friends a whole bunch
33: are you wearing jeans right now?
jean shorts yeah
34: are you a patient person?
yes to the point where i stop taking care of myself which isn’t good
35: do you think you can last in a relationship for three months?
yes if i really like them
36: favorite color?
cerulean
37: did you have a dream last night?
i had a lot of super vivid ones last night but can’t remember any of em now
38: are you wearing jeans, shorts, sweatpants, or pajama pants?
jean shorts
39: if someone could be cuddling you right now, who would you want it to be?
my gf or my dog
40: do you love anyone who is not related to you?
yes
41: if someone liked you right now, would you want them to tell you?
not really bc i’m in a relationship
42: do you like meeting new people?
yes but it also makes me extremely nervous
43: are you afraid of falling in love?
a little. more afraid of fallin out of it
44: ever self-harmed or starved yourself?
yeah
45: has anyone ever told you that you have pretty eyes?
yes
46: have you ever felt like you weren’t good enough?
oh all the time
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Tag!
I was tagged so long ago, and tbh I forgot since I'm not on here a lot lol. But I was tagged by @madhattercharlie Thank you! Rules: You must answer these 92 statements and tag 20 people THE LAST: 1. Drink: Peace Tea 2. Phone call: Probably my mom idk I don't do phone calls lol 3. Text message: My friend to see if we were hanging out that day 4. Song you listened to: Death To Your Heart by Blood On The Dance Floor 5. Time you cried: A few weeks ago probably 6. Dated someone twice: My ex gf, we dated about 4 times I think, but we're still good friends now 7. Been cheated on: I don't know if I actually have been, our relationship was really compicated lol 8. Kissed someone and regretted it: Never did that 9. Lost someone special: No people have passed, by my first cat died six months after we got him due to an incurable disease 10. Been depressed: I don't think I was ever depressed 11. Gotten drunk and thrown up: I've never even had a drink, I'm still underage haha LIST THREE FAVORITE COLORS: 1. Pastel pink 2. Pastel Blue 3. Pastel yellow IN THE LAST YEAR HAVE YOU... 15. Made new friends: yeah but only online lol 16. Fallen out of love: yeah 17. Laughed until you cried: Several times 18. Found out someone was talking about you: Nope 19. Met someone who changed you: Nope 20. Found out who your true friends are: Nope 21. Kissed someone on your facebook list: Nope GENERAL... 22. How many of your facebook friends do you know in real life: Most of them since we went to school together 23. Do you have any pets: Three cats, a dog, and three fish 24. Do you want to change your name: Nope. I used to because in school everyone thought raina was pronounced like rihanna and it annoyed me a lot lol 25. What did you do for your last birthday: I don't remember what I did on the day, but the day before I went around town with my friend and we got balloons 26. What time did you wake up: 9:30 am 27. What were you doing at midnight last night: Reading I think 28. Name something you cannot wait for: To be 18 so that I can finally do things(i've always wanted to drive from sunrise to after sunset but my mom hates the idea) 29. When was the last time you saw your mother: This morning when she left for work 30. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life: I wish that my dad could stay out of trouble so he could be with us 31. What are you listening to right now: My entire tablet shuffled, currently it's playing Metronome by Jay Park 32. Have you ever talked to a person named Tom: Not that I know of lol 33. Something that is getting on your nerves: Nothing I don't think 34. Most visited website: Probably colorcodedlyrics.com since that's about all I use the computer for lol 35. Elementary: Finished 36. High School: Haven't gone yet 37. College: Very far in the future lol 38. Hair color: Medium brown I guess lol but soon to be pastel pink 39. Long or short hair: In between 40. Do you have a crush on someone: Nope 41. What do you like about yourself: My eyes 42. Piercings: Ear piercings, yes. Anywhere else then no lol 43. Blood type: I have no idea haha - 44: Nickname: None currently but one of my old friends had like five for me 45. Relationship status: Single 46. Zodiac sign: Leo 47. Pronouns: She/her 48. Favorite tv show: Probably Lucifer even though I haven't watched it in forever 49. Tattoos: No but I want one when I'm older 50. Right or left hand: Right FIRST... 51. Surgery: Never had one 52. Piercings: Ears 54. Sport: None 55. Vacation: Spokane washington 56. Pair of trainers: Not sure??? MORE GENERAL... 57. Eating: I really love noodles 58. Drinking: Peace Tea 59. I'm about to: Probably get breakfast 61. Waiting for: BTS's next comeback 62. Want: A house instead of a trailer 63. Get married: Yeah eventually 64. Career: I hope to be a paralegal someday WHICH IS BETTER... 65. Hugs or kisses: Depends 66. Lips or eyes: Both 67. Shorter or taller: If it's a guy then taller, but if it's a girl then any height is fine 68. Older or younger: Doesn't matter as long as it's not too much of a difference 70. Nice arms or nice stomach: Doesn't matter either way 71. Sensitive or loud: Somewhere in between 72. Hook up or relationship: Relationship 73. Troublemaker or hesitant: Troublemaker but knows when to chill lol HAVE YOU EVER... 74. Kissed a stranger: Nope 75. Drank hard liquor: Nope, underage 76. Lost glasses/contact lenses: Only for about five minutes 77. Turned someone down: Yeah like 8 times until I finally realized I liked her too 78. Sex on first date: Nope 79. Broken someone's heart: Probably 80. Had your heart broken: Yeah 81. Been arrested: Nope 82. Cried when someone died: If my cat counts then yeah 83. Fallen for a friend: Yeah DO YOU BELIEVE IN... 84. Yourself?: Sometimes 85. Miracles: Nope 86. Love at first sight: Not really 87. Santa Claus: Nope 88. Kiss on the first date: Depends on how much I like them 89. Angels: Nope OTHER... 90. Current best friend's name: Addy and Cheyenne(I couldn't leave out one, they're my two closest friends) 91. Eye color: Hazel but gray when I cry which I think is cool lol 92. Favourite movie: The Witness as well as The Breakfast Club I don't have 20 to tag but I'll do the people I can think of @hamster-hosh @heoni @pentagonjuho @yixings-legs @diraisyah @ndbmk @j----nope
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omg ok tbh i forgot that i reblogged that ask thing but thank u fren here u go
1. spotify, soundcloud, or pandora?
spotify
2. is your room messy or clean?
um ok so my room at my mom’s is technically the office and just full of mine and everyone else’s storage so it isn’t really my room i guess and my room at my dad’s is nearly empty and i haven’t been there more than a couple times in a while and i’ve been crashing at friend’s and family’s houses and living out of a suitcase for weeks so i’m just gonna say i don’t really have a room
3. what color are your eyes?
dark brown
4. do you like your name? why?
alright well this is complicated because i hate the name emily and lately i’ve been going by emmitt for a while and it’s just weird because i feel so disconnected from emily and not super connected to emmitt either and i feel like i should just be a nameless person because i hate being referred to as anything tbh
5. what is your relationship status?
happily in a relationship with someone i really care about
6. describe your personality in 3 words or less
a detached mess
7. what color hair do you have?
my natural dark brown color
8. what kind of car do you drive? color?
ah it’s a purple mini van that’s rusting and dying
9. where do you shop?
target lol
10. how would you describe your style?
almost exclusively button ups and baseball shirts
11. favorite social media account?
tumblr probably i use this the most out of all of them
12. what size bed do you have?
queen
13. any siblings?
i have 2 sisters
14. if you can live anywhere in the world where would it be? why?
i honestly have no idea how to answer this question i don’t have a dream destination or anything
15. favorite snapchat filter?
omg probably the cute cat one that changes ur voice cuz my friends look so cute when they use it
16. favorite makeup brand(s)?
i don’t know anything about makeup
17. how many times a week do you shower?
every day sometimes multiple times a day
18. favorite tv show?
buffy the vampire slayer and dollhouse kill me
19. shoe size?
idk i’m pretty sure i’m a 6
20. how tall are you?
5’1
21. sandals or sneakers?
sneakers
22. do you go to the gym?
no lol but i do plan to start going once i actually move in to my new place and get settled
23. describe your dream date
i want to spend a day in chicago with emily doing whatever we want just walking and wandering into stores and go to a zoo or a museum or navy pier or honestly just anything at this point i miss her so much i don’t care what we do as long as we’re together
24. how much money do you have in your wallet at the moment?
$6
25. what color socks are you wearing?
they’re both different variations of black white and light blue
26. how many pillows do you sleep with?
at least 2
27. do you have a job? what do you do?
yeah i recently got a job in the mental health field and i work primarily with adults with various mental illnesses in a 24/7 supervised living area at the moment it’s mostly individuals dealing with schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, depression, and borderline personality disorder and i help them with symptom management, building the skills they have chosen to work on in their treatment plans, and help them carry activities of daily living so they can become self-sufficient and can transition out and live on their own
28. how many friends do you have?
ah i mean i know i have a lot of friends but as far as really close friends i know i can count on and will most likely always have around i’d say i have about 8
29. whats the worst thing you have ever done?
ah fuck well i went through a really destructive phase in my recent past where i was just in a bad place and i withdrew and lashed out a lot and was super emotionally unstable and i hurt a lot of people and i regret it
30. whats your favorite candle scent?
omg i have no idea i usually just smell all the blue ones and go from there
31. 3 favorite boy names
elliot (this is my favorite name in the world probably)
max
derrick
32. 3 favorite girl names
bennett
caroline
sara
33. favorite actor?
i thought about this for a solid 5 minutes and no one is coming to mind i’m gonna leave this blank
34. favorite actress?
eliza dushku and alyson hannigan kill me every time i watch dollhouse or buffy i’m in love with her
35. who is your celebrity crush?
amber liu
36. favorite movie?
selena
37. do you read a lot? whats your favorite book?
i used to read a lot when i was a kid and the music of dolphins by karen hesse has always stuck with me for some reason idk if it’s my favorite but when i was a kid i checked it out at least once a month on our elementary library visits and even now i always find myself thinking about it
38. money or brains?
well if u don’t have money u can’t survive in this capitalist society so i mean
but if this question is asking what i want in a person i’d want the smart
39. do you have a nickname? what is it?
my family calls me mimi and tbh it’s the only thing i actually feel comfortable with weirdly
40. how many times have you been to the hospital?
i’ve been to the hospital multiple times to visit people but i don’t remember actually needing to be there myself besides when i burned my hands as a child
41. top 10 favorite songs
this is def subject to change depending on my mood at any given moment but for right now:
hold me tight by bts
house of cards by bts
lie by bts
all mine by one ok rock
deeper deeper by one ok rock
we are by one ok rock
decision by one ok rock
clock strikes by one ok rock
como la flor by selena
moon river waltz by shinee
42. do you take any medications daily?
no i had issues with family and insurance so i had to stop seeing my psych and taking meds
43. what is your skin type? (oily, dry, etc)
dry
44. what is your biggest fear?
my mom having anything else bad happen to her
45. how many kids do you want?
this is most likely not going to be my choice lol i don’t have a number in mind if i do have kids
46. whats your go to hair style?
short and whatever it wants to do when i get out of the shower
47. what type of house do you live in? (big, small, etc)
well i don’t really live in a house rn but my mom’s house is huge she just moved in and it’s crazy big i’m so happy for her also the house i’m gonna move into soon is p small but still cute
48. who is your role model?
idk probably my mom she’s been through a lot and is still going strong
49. what was the last compliment you received?
“you’re so sweet, you know that?” from a client
50. what was the last text you sent?
“nini
51. how old were you when you found out santa wasn’t real?
tbh i have no idea i was probably in elementary school
52. what is your dream car?
something that runs, is either blue or grey, and magically doesn’t cost me anything to drive it
53. opinion on smoking?
it smells terrible and i don’t like to be around people who smoke
54. do you go to college?
yeah i just graduated
55. what is your dream job?
i have no idea i don’t know what i want i haven’t really thought that far ahead but i love my job so far so i’m alright with where i’m at
56. would you rather live in rural areas or the suburbs?
i don’t really have a preference as long as i’m with and near people i care about
57. do you take shampoo and conditioner bottles from hotels?
i don’t think i’ve ever personally done that
58. do you have freckles?
yeah i have a couple scattered around
59. do you smile for pictures?
i make this weird stupid half smile face and i can’t stop
60. how many pictures do you have on your phone?
761
61. have you ever peed in the woods?
i have not
62. do you still watch cartoons?
i never want to not watch cartoons
63. do you prefer chicken nuggets from wendy’s or mcdonalds?
i don’t like chicken nuggets from anywhere
64. favorite dipping sauce?
wait for what
i like soy sauce for potstickers
65. what do you wear to bed?
usually shorts and a t shirt
66. have you ever won a spelling bee?
no i’m terrible at spelling out loud
67. what are your hobbies?
i like to dance idk not much else tho i guess
68. can you draw?
nooooo
69. do you play an instrument?
i played guitar once but i forgot everything smh
70. what was the last concert you saw?
the bts wings tour
71. tea or coffee?
tea
72. starbucks or dunkin donuts?
dunkin donuts
73. do you want to get married?
yes
74. what is your crush’s first and last initial?
e g
75. are you going to change your last name when you get married?
i’ve thought about this actually and i’m mostly just hesitant about how difficult it would be to change my name on like all the legal paperwork and like bills and work things and it just sounds super complicated but i wish it could be easier because i hate where my last name comes from and if i married my current gf we would literally have the exact same name and we would be able to confuse people even more and i just think it would be funny
76. what color looks best on you?
black i think
77. do you miss anyone right now?
yes oh my god
78. do you sleep with your door open or closed?
closed always closed
79. do you believe in ghosts?
yeah i do
80. what is your biggest pet peeve?
ok i get so mad when i go to a friend’s place who has long hair and i’m walking barefoot through their house or i’m sleeping over or i’m under a blanket or something and it just makes me so mad when i feel dumb long single strands of hair in my toes i hate it so much it makes me so mad idk man but this happened to me last night and i’ve been thinking about it ever since
81. last person you called?
ah well the last phone call that i was on was with the director of all the residential living things at my work
82. favorite ice cream flavor?
idk probably chocolate and vanilla with caramel
83. regular oreos or golden oreos?
regular oreos
84. chocolate or rainbow sprinkles?
no sprinkles pls
85. what shirt are you wearing?
black and grey v neck t shirt
86. what is your phone background?
a picture of my gf i took a while back of her from a distance with the river and sunset in the background
87. are you outgoing or shy?
shy with everyone besides my friends
88. do you like it when people play with your hair?
only like a very specific like 2 people but when it’s anyone else i get really uncomfortable with being touched and you’d think that people wouldn’t just come up to you and start touching your hair and telling you how soft it is but it’s more common than you think and it makes me want to d ie
89. do you like your neighbors?
my nonexistent neighbors r gr8
90. do you wash your face? at night? in the morning?
i always wash it in the morning but sometimes i wash it at night too if i feel gross from the day
91. have you ever been high?
nope never
92. have you ever been drunk?
yes
93. last thing you ate?
a blizzard from dairy queen with pieces of brownies in it
94. favorite lyrics right now
ok i’m gonna be honest and just say i’m not in a place to listen to music rn i’ve been listening to exclusively podcasts and i have not listened to a song and not zoned out completely during it in a very long time and no lyrics are coming to mind
95. summer or winter?
summer
96. day or night?
night
97. dark, milk, or white chocolate?
ah milk or white i guess i’m not a super big fan tho
98. favorite month?
june cuz my birthday also gay
99. what is your zodiac sign
gemini
100. who was the last person you cried in front of?
my dad
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1. What’s your middle name, and do you like it?Rachel, its okay HAHA2. are you artistic?depends what kind cos i cant draw for shit but i can do makeup??3. Have you had your first kiss?yes4. What is your life goal?be happy5. Do you have any experiences with a famous person?i mean ive seen 5sos 1d and mcbusted in person if that counts6. Do you play any sports?horse riding, i want to play more though i actually really like sports7. What’s your worst fear?demons8. Who’s your biggest inspiration?jacksepticeye9. Do you have any cool talents?my makeup looks great sometimes10. are you a morning person?yes11. How do you feel about pet names?theyre cute to a point, im not about that 'cupcake sprinkle sugar bean' life12. Do you like to read?if the book is good yes13. Name a list of shows that have changed your life.none have changed my life thats a bit far14. Do you care about your follower count?i used to but not anymore15. What’s the best dream you’ve had?i recently dreamt my gf was back home again16. Have you ever kissed someone of your same gender?yes17. Do you have any pets?yes, 3 dogs, 4 cats, 1 horse and soon to be 1 hamster18. Are you religious?no lol19. Are you a people person?noooo20. Are you considered popular?considered by who HAHAH bc my gf thinks im pretty cool 💁🏼21. What is one of your bad habits?biting my nails22. What’s something that makes you feel vulnerable?during and after ive had a mental breakdown23. What would you name your children?Lily, Ava24. Who’s your celebrity crush?taeeeee25. What’s your best subject?nothing academic rip26. Dogs or cats?dogs27. most used social media besides tumblr?youtube28. best friends name?ellie29. who does your main family consist of?idk what main family consists of but i see all my family a lot so my mum, brother, dad, grandparents, aunty, uncle, cousins30. Chocolate or sugar?both31. have you ever been on a date?yes32. Do you like roller coasters?some types of them33. Can you swim?ye boi34. What would you do in the event of an apocalypse?i would be a badass mf and protect my loved ones and animals35. Have you struggled with any kind of mental disorder?yes, am currently struggling with a few and likely always will be36. Are your parents together?no37. What’s your favorite color?baby blue38. What country are you from/do you live in?England to both39. Favorite singer?bts40. Do you see yourself being famous some day?nope41. Do you like dresses?yes but i need to work on my confidence when wearing them42. Favorite song right now?deeessspaaacito43. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable?yes, very44. How old were you when you first got your period?1245. Have you ever shot a gun?nope46. Have you ever done yoga?yes47. Are you a horror girl?if this means horror film then yes48. Are you good at giving advice?kind of? with some things im not though49. Tell us a story about your childhood.near my house me and my friends had this den that was like a cave in the ground and it was sooo cool we spent hours in there everyday and its still there50. How are you doing today?im okay51. Were you a cute kid?not to be up my own ass but yes52. Can you dance?secretly yes53. Is there anything you do that you can’t remember ever not doing?looking after animals54. Have you ever dyed your hair?nope too scared55. What color are your eyes?blue56. What’s your favorite animal?ooooo i cant pick one i have so many57. Have you ever made a huge fool of yourself?lots of times, ellie n jess know this best58. Do you have a good relationship with your parents?its complicated but kind of59. Do you have good friends?wonderful ones60. Are you close with anyone of the lgbtq+ group?yes61. What’s your favorite class?in college it was Zoo Management62. List all the tv shows you are watching.RuPauls Drag Race, The Walking Dead, Your Lie in April63. Are you organized?yes64. What was the last movie you saw? Opinion?i cant remember65. Which tv character do you relate to most?not a tv character but Ryan from BuzzFeed Unsolved is literally me as an asian male68. What are some things that stand between you and complete happiness?my hell brain69. If you received enough money to never need to work again, what would you spend your time doing?travelling with my gf70. What would you change about your life if you knew you would never die?god idk71. What would you do differently if you knew that no one was judging you?iDk72. If you could start over, what would you do differently?i dont like these deep questions73. Would you break the law to save a loved one?yes74. When was the last time you traveled somewhere new?the other week when i went to Wadswick 75. When you think of your home, what immediately comes to mind?my dogs76. What have you done to pursue your dreams lately? How about today?i applied for a hnc77. What did you want to be when you were a kid?a vet78. If you dropped everything to pursue your dreams, what would you be risking?everything?? i dont knOW79. When did you not speak up, when you know you really should have?when i was being bullied, shouldve beat that bitch into the dirt80. Describe the next five years of your life, and your plans, in a single sentence.travel and be happy and be with jess and around animals81. What would happen if you never wasted another minute of your life, what would that look like?well id get a lot more done82. If you could live forever, how would you spend eternity?id spend it with jess then when she died id kill myself HAHAHAH that sounds so dark83. How would you spend a billion dollars?travelling, on a house, animals84. If you could time travel, would you go to the past or the future?the past, i dont wanna see the shithole of a future until i have to85. What motivates you to succeed?literally nothing86. What dream that you’ve had has resonated with you the most?a lot of them cos theyre v realistic, i dont like it87. Would you rather live in the city or the woods? Why?woods BUT not a creepy woods where id get killed, just a nice forest, and because i hate how busy cities are88. Do you believe in life after death?im not sure89. What teacher inspired you the most? How did they?none they can all suck my ass90. What’s your fondest childhood memory?the one about the cave den91. If you could have dinner with any one person, living or dead, who would they be and why?jacksepticeye bc i luv him sm92. What would you have to see to cry tears of joy?when people come home from fighting abroad to their kids or dogs93. What is the hardest lesson you had to learn in life?idk how to sum it up94. What do you think happens after we die?i have no idea95. What would you do if you would be invisible?pretend to be a ghost and scare people96. What’s something you can’t do no matter how hard you try?DRAW97. Would you want to choose the sex and appearance of your offspring?no i like surprises98. How did your first crush develop?i cant remember99. Is there a feeling you are trying to ignore? What is it?yes always lmao, paranoia, anxiety, worry100. Do you live or do you just exist?so deep oooOoOoooO i dont care
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