#multigenderphobia

[cripp-tid]

reminder that "lesbian means attraction to non-men" is not as inclusive as you think! you're inherently leaving out multigender people, certain butches, and lesboys. like, some of us ARE male. "queer attraction to women" is a much more friendly definition

terfs fuck off and die challenge

[chroniccoolness]

the current trend of people acting like anyone who identifies as a fagdyke, a boygirl, genderweird or genderfuck is a transmisogynistic/misogynistic asshole is kind of insane to me considering the majority of those I have met in my life are transfeminine people or are butch women who have a very complicated relationship to their gender. like. come on

[chemicalarospec]

>joined my university's minecraft server discord (did not know such a thing existed. how awesome) >can only choose one set of pronouns (he/him, she/her, or they/them) >greet pleasantly, ask why, say I use any pronouns >they change it

I am making the world a better place one tiny thing at a time. ^-^

[songbird-swordlily-blog]

Reminder that trans people can be transphobic too lmao

“Some trans men are women.” You are literally just transphobic.

[contradictory-label-culture-is]

Contradictory label culture is not giving a shit if people hate yoi

"You can't be cis and trans because (30 paragraphs of exclusionism, intersexism, multigenderphobia and sex essentialism)

And I respond with a picture of a photoshopped green cat going "squngle dongus gleeble narp squimmgly swarp" and smoking 500 cigarettes.

(because don't owe any entitled dumb fuck a debate about my life and my business and I need to go to my job. And I can go be a wage slave with slightly more joy in my heart because I know I wasted some exclusionist bigoted idiot's last hour by doing literally nothing, and their effort is a complete waste because I'm only going to be even more cistrans)

Honestly cistrans is the funniest thing to hate on, like c'mon do you not understand how multigender people work?? Their birth sex doesn't just disappear. Lesboy and Turigirl hate is weird obviously but i understand how you could get on the hate train, bi lesbian? Maybe yeah everyone tells you that you can't be both so I get it, straight lesbian? Ok... Maybe. Cistrans?? C'mon seriously? You can't think of one way someone could be that?? Y'know like .. a Bigender person identifying as both their birth sex and a different gender?? So yeah fuckin stupid they can't think of nothing.

[somecunt]

You know how there’s comphet for lesbians, trans men, and transmascs (These aren’t the only groups that experience this, but they’re the only ones I’ve heard discuss it. As the term roots from lesbians and as a trans male I searched into it further for transmascs, anyone can experience comphet)

How about compulsory gender binarism for nonbinary, genderqueer, and transneutral communities, or compulsory gender conformity for binary trans men and women? These aren’t the terms but the current vocab to discuss the experiences.

There’s also, which can be related to compulsory gender binarism, multigenderphobia. The idea that multigender people are only one of their genders rather than both/all. An example being the exclusion of men from women spaces without consideration for many multigender people who are both men and women.

As someone who is transneutral, a trans male, MLM, and genderqueer, I’ve felt a need to be gender conforming to be valid in my identity and not disgrace others that share it, and to lean toward transmasculinity in gender identity, as neutral, nonmasculine, nonfeminine genders weren’t/aren’t respected, as well as to be heterosexual to again validate my gender and trans identity.

[punkeropercyjackson]

If summer were cannon, do you think they would have a Comic? When do you think it would have been created? Would it be a popular comic among the DC fandom?

Like i said i'm gonna remake my Summer incarnations post for you my dear son but to the last question Summer would be a pretty famous character but not exactly common knowledge if that makes sense?Like if you know a bit more about comics than people who aren't into superheroes it's impossible for you to not know about him and in the fandom he's VERY popular but there is a big group of weirdos who give him the Orihime treatment-That is to say he's canonically an extremely interesting and cute and feminist character but allistics gonna allistic💀With added misogynoir and multigenderphobia too.Jaysumm is pretty much in the same sitch as Ghostflower-His biggest and most beloved ship and rarely is it hated but Jason simps sure as hell hate Summer for stealing their man LMFAOOOOOO

[cripp-tid]

Hey! I can sorta-kinda explain. I happen to be a transmasc lesbian myself actually, so hopefully this makes sense, haha.

So, for me, the line between "butch" and "transmasc" gets blurred a lot. Like, I want to be percieved as masculine in a "gender way" and as a "presentation way". It's not just "oh, male is my gender", it's also like... "male is an experience, a performance, it's the way I dress", etc.

I'm very attracted to women, but it doesn't feel straight. I see myself in women, because I've been a woman. I think maybe there's a part of me that still partly identifies with femininity on a deeper level than I know how to express properly. Which is why I consider myself multigender.

But, no matter which gender I'm closer to, I know that my sexuality is "lesbian". That's just Part Of Me. I know it the same way a cis woman dating another cis woman knows it; it's just instinct. It's home for my soul.

I can't, in good faith, identify as heterosexual. I think there are definitely plenty of straight trans men out there, and they deserve to be respected and appreciated! I'm just not one of them, I guess.

Sorry this got so long, I just wanted to share, haha. I'll delete this response if you want me to!

reminder that "lesbian means attraction to non-men" is not as inclusive as you think! you're inherently leaving out multigender people, certain butches, and lesboys. like, some of us ARE male. "queer attraction to women" is a much more friendly definition

terfs fuck off and die challenge