#motherslife

[bookishpromotions]

Happy Mother's Day to all the Mothers, Step-Mothers, Grandmas, Aunts, Sisters, Cousins and Friends that step up to show a child what it truly means to be a mother.

💐👩‍👦👩‍👧💖

[delayeddreamsstillokay]

Why Being a Mother is Difficult?

Its been a year and 3 months since I became a Mother. I have 15 months-old baby boy who made me realize, that being a mother is not easy. Not because he is a fussy baby or something, instead, he is so cute, adorable yet very clever. Then why is this difficult?

1. Judgement

"You should do this ... " "I was ... you should try to ..." "Their mother is too busy, thats why her kids are troublesome"

Well, every mother is different. Maybe we could face the same storm, but not everyone is inside warm and strong ship. One is struggling to work because she's the only one can do the job, one another is trembling in the house cause she forgot when was the last time she have meals. And another mother is in a steady financial, good health, and a lot of baby sitter to support her, but who knows that his husband is cheating on her.

We all have our own battle. And eventhough you think it isn't hard for you, don't belittle it, cus it might cost a world for someone else.

2. Insecurities

Since I became a mother in this digital era, I felt afraid to get into my social app. I'm afraid that I might watch another mother do some stuff that I can't do. I'm afraid that I might watch another baby can walk and talk faster than my baby. I'm afraid that I might get jealous to other people's life.

I don't know, but at that time I was thinking like "These people just wanna show off", whereas, they just wanna share their happiness, right? That insecurities need to be cured by support, whether in words or actions. And of course, the positive seeds need to be grown inside our own heart.

3. Dedication

One of my dream, I can visit Nepal or Switzerland by my self before I turn 30. My another dream is getting master degree abroad. Thats why I like to read, to watch, to learn anything about it. My hobbies are reading books, going somewhere by myself, make friends from another country. But now, since I have family, I must prioritizing everything, and I bet a lot of mother would do the same thing. 

But maybe, not every partner understand this. Trust me, a husband still have their hobbies or at least they can do what they want to do with no guilty, as long as they work well, support their wife and their kids. But a mother? Always in a rush. Go to work in a rush because before she leaves the house, she needs to make sure the breakfast for whole family is ready while she prepare for herself too. Moreover, another mother will take her baby bath first. And then after work, no time for play or hanging out, she needs to get home fast. After arrived at home, "works" are not done yet. They work 24/7, thats why many of them know no more about hobbies.

But, despite all of those difficulties, being a mother is amazing. It might be cliche, but I learn sooo many things since I became a mother. I understand more, tolerate more, and I feel special about my self. I can get through this, at least I survive until now. I tried to create positivity inside me, from my self “I have a dream, and I’ll never  too late to reach it” Cause no matter how long it delayed, as long as I didn't cancel it.

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[aleesyaofficially-blog]

Mother: Why haven't you iron your clothes? Do you have any idea what time it is?        Me: Well I didn't know there are specific times to iron your clothes? Mother: I hate dumb kids.

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[sashaandthebear]

mommy's little helper

A lightning conductor of my saturnine spirits. (fun fact - just translated 'lightning conductor' from Russian - Gromootvod - 'thunder conductor'. What cultural connotation does the fear of the audible more than of the visual have...? end of fun fact)

'Mother's little helper'

Mental capoeira for the physically unfit and pretentious, or just an equivalent of my embarrassingly elaborated monologues, but with a 'delete' button, which somehow makes it even more self-indulgent.

Anyhow, have fun, love you, whoever you are,

Sashaandthebear

[4mumy]

Can you spoil a newborn or young baby? The answer to this question is No!' Young babies need lots of attention, and you might worry - or other people might tell you - that if you 'give in' too often or give too much attention, it will 'spoil' your baby. But this won't happen. In the first few months you won't create bad habits by responding to your baby's needs. Newborns cry because they have basic needs to be fed, held, comforted, and loved. Their needs are actually the same as their wants at this age. And it is your job to listen to your instincts and respond to those needs and wants as best you can. If that means toting your infant around in a sling while you do the laundry or getting up every few hours throughout the night to nurse, so be it. That won't spoil a newborn. Far from it. When you respond to your newborn's cries and try to meet her needs, you're teaching her to feel secure and confident. And that security and confidence will result in less crying and more independence in the long run. That's because young babies who feel a deep trust in their parents tend to develop a secure sense of self that helps them self-soothe later on. It's a little different with older babies. Once your baby gets to be about six months old, however, her wants will get more sophisticated and they may not be the same thing as her needs. For instance, an older baby may want to pull your hair or earring or she may want that TV remote with all the interesting buttons. In cases like that, it's good to set some limits and teach discipline-that way, your baby will be more capable of understanding the concept that Mommy doesn't always give me what I want, but she still loves me. For now, though, while your little one is still so young, remember that you can't spoil a newborn - but you can teach her to trust in you and the world. #pregnancyeducation #pregnancy #40weeks #thisispostpartum #firsttimemommy #pregnancyblog #nursesofinstagram #childbirtheducation #laboranddeliverynurse #9monthspregnant #parentproblems #parentingtips #parentingadvice #momtips #motherslife #parentinghacks #parentproblems #newmomlife #boobybaby #momproblems #4mumybaby #4mumy (at U.S.A new.york) https://www.instagram.com/4mumy/p/CXEMDaUKVJu/?utm_medium=tumblr

[beebeethatha]

Semesta baik sekali... Memberiku banyak kesibukan... Memberiku banyak tuntutan... Hingga aku bisa lupa perihal kesedihan... -kopioppi- . . . #holiday #vesakday #dayoff #happy #motherslife #jaccuzi #blue (at Medan, Indonesia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CR_UY8EHWxn/?utm_medium=tumblr

[bookishpromotions]

Happy Mother's Day to all the Mothers, Step-mothers, Grandmas, Aunts, Sisters, Cousins and Friends that step up to show a child what it truly means to be a mother. 

💐👩‍👦👩‍👧💖 

[drtrenesemcnealy]

Moms, you still got it! Pull off those rags and add some spice to your closet. Check out my boutique, @lashaysdesigns, for your high-quality, women apparel under $39.95. Link in bio. #drtrenesemcnealy #lashaysdesigns #fergie #momsaresexytoo #momsaresexy #momlife #Moms #motherslife #mother #womenclothes #onlineboutique #onlineshopping #womenclothingstore #womenclothing #blackownedbusiness #blackbusinessowner #blackbusinesswoman #plussizefashion #smallbusinessowners #supportblackbusiness #smallbusinessowner #womenapparel #womenapparels #womenfashion #womenfashionstyle #womensupportingwomen #womeninbusiness #boutiqueshopping #clothingboutique #dresstoimpress https://www.instagram.com/p/CFFCvzLFtpk/?igshid=s2iw1zhp6nib

[motherscantina]

🎂 Happy Birthday Katherine!! Unbelievable to think Katherine hasn't greeted anyone at Mother's with her amazing laugh for 2 months!! Katherine, enjoy your coronabirthday and know that so many people CAN'T WAIT to see you again!! Hope you're getting a little R & R and that you get to spend your day with your awesome family. We 💚 You!!! . . . #coronabirthday #hostwiththemost #happybirthday #motherslife #happybirthday #felizcumpleaños #enlightenedhospitality #saverestaurants #ocmd #motherscantina #oceancitymaryland #hufflepuffpride (at Mother's Cantina) https://www.instagram.com/p/CAv0Ew-hYQy/?igshid=6w5av3ixyuvk

[indian-yoga-girl]

Hanging from trees. What better way to spend Mother’s Day? . I’m so grateful for all the people around me. Thank you @deepmalya @mayaxghosh . Pandemic notwithstanding, today was a great day ♥️ . . . . #pandemiclife #naturelovingyogis #outdoorlife #motherslife #fitgirlsofig #healthylifestyle https://www.instagram.com/p/CABrWRkDs2R/?igshid=1fmq3o8qv8s1n

[awesomeankit84]

Happy Mother's to all the wonderful Mother's out there👩‍👦👩‍👧👩‍👩‍👧‍👦♥️🌹 . . . #mothersday #mother #mothers #mothersday2020 #mom #moms #moma #momlife #momslife #momsday #mondaymotivation #momslove #motherslove #motherlovebone #motherslife #mothersdaygift #momstrong #mom #motherhood #momblogger (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CABeL6elT6-/?igshid=19sbwkbpt1jwh

[electronicscuriosities]

💓To all the mothers out there, the true heroes of our society! We’d like to wish you all a splendid #MothersDay.💓 Follow @electronics_curiosities #electronicscuriosities #mother #mothersday #respect #happymothersday #love #electronicsengineer #electricalengineer #mom #motherslife #momslove #momslove❤️ #quotes #motherslove https://www.instagram.com/p/B__6AnOgzT_/?igshid=12h1ekgion5cj

[armanbaruel]

“If I have done anything in life worth attention, I feel sure that I inherited the disposition from my mother.” — Booker T. Washington To the most hardworking and loving mother in the world, Happy Mothers Day Mama Nora!!! #mothersday #happymothersday #motherslove #mother #mama #celebration #loveandcare #appreciation #happylife #mindset #happilyempowered #motherslife https://www.instagram.com/p/B__fU_qjkgW/?igshid=1q4x8hwkjvesh