#mlm fetichization

[my-fancy-hat]

I think people are taking the panic barganing too literally but the subtext of a potential SA trauma from Denji wouldn't be out-of-pocket considering his abusive relationship with the yakuzas and his father evoking in this repulsion toward men/misandry. The thing is, Denji doesn't like Yoshida at all, he finds him annoying and an asshole, but if it comes to Nayuta, he's "willing to have gay sex" if it secures her safety. Guys, I think it's an example, an hyperbole of that statement: he is capable of doing anything for his loved ones, to the point to do the thing he idolizes and respects the most (sex) with another man. Since he couldn't do much to protect Aki and Power in the past, his dignity, integrity, desires and preferences aren't important to him anymore. That's heartbreaking.

[deeearmiks]

Welcome to my stuff ☆

Hello, sweetheart! I'm Mika, your new writer here! I'm 18, agender and gay <3 I'm gonna write some character x gn!reader or male!reader, so if you are a female assigned, pls, dni interact or see this as an fetichize thing, it's gonna be an safe place for mlm/nblm like me.

Usually, the reader will be afab, and will use He/They pronouns.

WARNING: English isn't my first language, so, this gonna be an experiment to me too!

"Mika, can I request to you?"

The answer is: Of course, sweetie pie! The fandoms that I can write is:

☆ All for the game (Books)

☆ Avatar: The last Airbender

☆ Boku no Hero Academia

☆ Black Clover

☆ Blue Lock

☆ Bungou Stray Dogs

☆ Chainsaw Man

☆ Creepypasta

☆ Dead Plate (Game)

☆ Demon Slayer

☆ Ensemble Stars (Game)

☆ Fairy Tail

☆ Free!!

☆ Hades (Game)

☆ Haikyuu

☆ Hazbin Hotel

☆ Jujutsu Kaisen

☆ Kuroko no Basket

☆ Mystic Mensagers (Game)

☆ Nana

☆ Number 24

☆ Obey Me

☆ Stardew Valley

☆ Physical Exorcisms (Game)

☆ Project Sekai (Game)

☆ Re-Main!

☆ Tsurune

☆ Twisted Wonderland (Game)

☆ Voltron

☆ Wave!!

But you can request me other things too! I will see a lil bit about and write to you <3

So this is all, good to meet you, dear.

XOXO, Mika.

[szczurherbacany]

I’m not in the steddie fandom but that whole takeover of a mlm ship to make fetichizing content for cis women (who on top of that have rarely unpacked why they think perceived femininity is inherently submissive) happened in two of my ships in Star Wars, so I just wanted to say, I feel you, and your anger is justified

Thats another thing thats annoying me in all this! making one men more feminine depending on their sexual position just reinforces gender roles, thats all. they usually make it so incredibly sexual as well, its geniuenlly weird how they dont see a problem with it

im sorry this has happened to your ships as well, but im glad to see that at least some people know how it feels, i have felt incredibly isolated in my opinions, so its nice knowing that im not the only one :,)

[tomiokagiyuufirststan]

My intro:

My requests are open

Rude,racist,Homophobic etc.. people please dni

I use she/her pronouns

I will write bl/gl/straight ships BUT i will not write detailed Bl smut why? Cause i think that as a girl i have no right to write or write that it's feel like i am fetichizing them.

don't give request who are too nsfw.

People who make fun of religion or any religious people who are queer dni

People who fetishize bl or gl dni.

People who stand for isreal dni

People who make fun of others interest dni.

Request who have incest,an age gap who is too much,pedophillia,problematic,murder and victim will not be taken.

I will write nsfw(not detailed),fluff,angst etc...

People who hate on a boy/ girl cause she /he get on the way of a wlw /mlm ships are allowed just don't be too much or write hate

[silverxcristal]

Javivi

Javivi is the ship name thing real

Hey anon, imma be serious explaining this; the whole "top/bottom of the relationship indicates the order of the ship name" is rubbing into Fujo//hi and Ya/i terms and ideas, which are a fetichization of mlm couples that at the long run and exposed to impressionable people it had been normalized and affects irl gay people.

While i get the topic is sort of back to joke about (especially between adults who were into it when we were teens and didnt knew best on the old internet), 1. The lack of a tone indicator mentioning is a joke and 2. The unknown age by the anonymity makes me uncomfortable to discuss the subject

And even if is another fellow adult, I would rather discuss and joke about it either in private (being friends only) or public on an adult space (sadly surrounding nsfw)

Thank you and please

[firsttarotreader]

"No, anon, they weren’t, they only do that because it’s a queer couple and mlm sex" / 👈🏻 THIS. I dont think there would be all that commotion if it was a short about a straight couple and to me that's the biggest proof of gay fetichism. Commenting stuff like "OH MY GOD I NEED TO SEE PEDRO HAVING HIS BACK BLOWN UP, OMG I WANT TO SEE TONGUE KISSING" like... 👀 Karen, gay intimacy is as normal as straight intimacy, being gay is as normal as being straight 😒 and you know that some are saying stuff like P being "perfectly choosed" to play Silva or that he and Silva are extremely alike, right? and you know why they are saying it, right? 😑 after everything Pedro went through in high school and God knows what else in the following years now he gained fans with this level of mindset 🤦🏻‍♀️ and these "fans" swear on everything they are supporting by acting like that 🙄 nooo, Karens, you are simply fetishizing and gay/bi people dont want to either being harrassed/excluded nor fetishized, they want to be treated as normal as straight people are because what they are and do IS normal 🤷🏻‍♀️

Why did I know they would say every single thing they’re saying now for a loooong time already?? Oh, yeah, because I know the loonies in the fandom! ☠️☠️☠️😅😅

[far-butter]

Ok so I liked all these queued posts about Geraskier and had fun sharing them but on a serious note...I have very mixed feelings about how they will handle Netflix!Jaskier.

I really want him to be more than another gay bait and it would mean so much to have a male bi/pan character on screen that is not actually evil/predatory or featuring only a random minor character or being some dead ex mentionned once in a drunk conversation...but at the same time I fear that if they do that, they’ll just make him crush on Geralt forever and honestly I like the fanship but I’m super not into that on screen. It’s not a good bi/pan rep if Geralt is gonna resume treating Jaskier like garbage or brushing him off and hurt him in the show. Having a mlm on screen being rejected by a straight main protag (because I doubt they’ll show Geralt as anything else) is no better than the Bury Your Gay trope or the gaybaiting ('cause sure leaving some blurred lines in relationships like in Xena and Gab’s also works to not invalidate the fans hc but honestly? That is a coward-ass move and I’m tired of it. If you’re not gonna make explicitly gay characters then don’t tease them as such. What is the problem with making it clear that the characters are gays and commited in the first place, ‘cause I have some guess? Imo do that right or just don’t.).

Maybe it’ll be an unpopular opinion but I’d prefer Jaskier being straight on screen rather than hurt and rejected and exposed to “no-homo” Geralt again and again, because it’ll just be repeated spits at mlm fans and another step away from the books (in which, even though the relation is never being comfirmed as more than friendship, at least there’s strong feelings between these two and neither brushes the other off. It’s one of the blurred line I mentionned before but you can definitly see their relation to whatever level you want without it looking hurtful and unhealthy, especially in Jaskier’s side. If I remember well you can pretty much do the same wih Yen and some other female characters). If the Netflix team wants to treat women well and do them justice, then maybe they should pay some damn respect to mlm too (and honestly y’all who ship eralt and Jaskier should give a damn about a fair treatment of at least Jaskier, and should want him in a healthy reciprocated relationship because otherwise you’re just another creepy fetichizer of gay men and not an ally of any kind). I want real rep not brownie points.

The best solution with how much they change the characters’s behavior now would be to have Jaskier moving on and giving him a boyfriend that WON’T die horribly (yeah. Well. Not to spoil but we all will be fucked with our feelings in later seasons anyway so no need to add more salt in the wounds, thank you fucking much). Not that he’d be any less bi/pan with a gf, I’d just stop calling them cowards if they made a bold and clear statement like this. At least the homophobic haters could canonically piss off.

All of those Geraskier more-or-less serious reblogs were great but at the same time I can foresee a disaster coming about how Jaskier’s character arc will be handled (despite our cinnamon lord Joey Batey taking no shit and very counsciously using “them” in interview when talking about Jaskier’s crushes and hinting him as both pan and polyam).

[sheisbeautyweareworldass]

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[heleizition]

to be fair cassie was not the first girl who joined the young justice (it was greta) and the founder members of the yj are just timkonbart so idk why do people think the fandom hates cassie because no one said anything bad abt her at all... wish people could stop being a jerk abt these kind of things, not everyone has to like what you like and its okay!!!

that wasn't my point lol but anyway im not saying the fandom hates her at all or that i hate timkonbart, far from it, but the pattern of the girl characters being put aside in favor of male only ships has been one ive seen repeatedly through years and through fandoms and it makes me uncomfortable and annoyed but like not at the shippers or the fandom just at Things in General that im certainely not qualified to explain with the right words

[chiliconsharls]

so were erasing polo's bisexuality huh? is that what were doing? in the year of our lord 2020??

[yeshihellodani]

Okay, I'm gonna post this, probably it's stupid (perhaps it definitely is) and maybe I might delete it later because it's 2 am and my english is bad so probably this won't be coherent, but I have come across these posts on the obikin tag and it has become frustrating.

The fact that people don't know how to differentiate fiction from reality is outstanding to the point that's it's not even funny anymore, and the amount of them accusing people who like or interact with the ship of being pedophiles and groomers is even more upsetting.

No one is normalizing grooming, no one is glorifying pedophilia, and no one is fetichizing mlm relationships. Most of the obikin shippers are against these stuff and would report that shit to the authorities if they see it happen on real life, because that's the thing, it's fucking fiction not the real life, these aren't real people, these are fictional characters living in a fictional world.

Also, most of the content of obikin is about when both Obi-Wan and Anakin are ADULTS and that one of them develops their attraction towards the other at the beginning or in the middle of the clone wars (when Anakin is no longer Obi-Wan's apprentice and is a Jedi Knight and a fucking general, tho there are exceptions, however it's treated like something complicated and complex. No to mention that sometimes is where the creator themself can project onto the characters and maybe vent on them, have that in mind).

In no way is fetichizing mlm relationships because most of the people who ship it are lgbtq+ people themselves.

They are also using the whole argument of: "oh but they are convincing and exposing children of this type of content and therefore confusing them and manipulating them 😭😭" I'm sorry, but most of the obikin blogs and content are 18+ y'know? Stuff that is made by ADULTS FOR OTHER ADULTS, it's not their fault that minors are sneaking into their blogs and creations even when they have explicitly implied that it is not for kids. They have also leave the corresponding trigger warnings, content warnings and additional tags when they post a drawing, edit, gif or fic to precisely prevent from children stumbling across that content.

Listen, if you don't like obikin because it's not you thing or it squicks you or because it triggers something that's totally valid and okay, and you are in your right to elaborate on why it doesn't suit to you and why you want to avoid it (there are content that I personally dislike and gives me the ick, I myself feel uncomfortable when people ship Obi-Wan and Anakin when they are still in their master/padawan dynamic, so I just avoid it most of the time) but for the love of God don't go harassing people and accusing them of shit that it's not true, you don't know that person and what are they up to, so there's no way of you knowing if they are actually the monsters you think they are.

People tend to forget that fiction is there to explore stuff that is unethical and questionable in real life without hurting anyone, that sometimes people enjoy that content not because they think it's okay but because to them it's interesting, intriguing, because they are just curious, and sometimes they even consume it because it's comforting to them (something they can vent to when it's associated to something traumatic or unpleasant they went through).

[eyeaesteria]

There's something wrong about the way cis straight girls are approaching heartstopper and it's cast.

I'm not shaming them for enjoying the show, ofc, but there's a thin line between genuinely liking a story for the plot and fetichizing mlm (and also erasing the wlw subplot) relationships.

Not only that but the way the same people are completely dismissing Charlie's character and body shame the actor.

Seriously people, stop. Watch what u r doing and how you approach the REAL PEOPLE behind the show.

If you can't be nice, at least be quiet.

[lmanberg]

No but like as a trans mlm, the heavy fetichization of gnf makes me sick

The worst part is that we get shut down each time we try to talk about it ://

This is just liek fujoshis back in 2015

No literally they remind me so much of yaoi girls it’s gross

[jorgecrespo]

sad truth: if we get a Ismail season and they happen to have a girl love interest, the fandom would melt into flames and probably create discourse about erasure, queerbaiting,etc. bc god forbin an nb character doesnt fit their weird fetichizing standards for lgtb+ content. I think just want another mlm season, and will pretend to be interested in nb struggles.

You're 100% right and we all know it

[fuckmessier16]

I was remembering that in 2019 I was into this girl (oh, i talked about her here, it's Peach), we wete about to go to the queer parade and i was choosing a sexy lingerie to wear, extra femme, you know? I wanted to be a hot girl.

Now......... I want to be a hot goth boy, you know? Plus i dont even know if im into girls right now, but im super into guys AS A GUY

But i feel like a fraud, i feel like a cis girl fetichizing mlm

[fatoudixon]

I'm tired of women fetichizing mlm stories. I'm so so so tired. It's so gross. We have so many mlm representation in the media and that's great! But the moment it's the turn for wlw, no one talks about it... I was SO excited for Shay to be Isak and see a wlw story in Skam Austin with a black character, and then it never happened.

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