#mlm asks

[our-mlm-experience]

Need reassurance. Is it bad of me to have a preference for trans men over cis men? I still like to date cis men, but I just prefer trans men. Somebody told me that it makes me a "chaser" because I'm a cis man. I just think it's beautiful that somebody would *want* to become a man is all. It's not that I actively "seek out" trans men. I just find myself to be more attracted to men who just so happen to be trans. Trans men are always so handsome and attractive to me. I've always found trans men attractive. I think it's more of a confidence thing, because the trans men I've been with always have this confident aura about them.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again.

Having preferences does not make you a bad person.

[g0blin-mlm]

You really are a go to for sweet and adorable yearning posts

!!! Thank you <3 I just love to ramble lmao, and also that people can relate!! I have so much fun posting all my little gay thoughts 😌

[arlosworld91]

What would be an ideal date or day for you?

(MLM question for you!)

Ooooo fun question!!

My ideal date would be a whole day, we would wake up and have a warm and hearty breakfast with some tea.

We would go to a bookshop and maybe a coffee shop afterwards.

Go to the seaside or go to the countryside and relax looking at the clouds or the sea cuddling until we are tired, listening to music and podcasts, talking about whatever comes to our head.

Go home and have a nice dinner and chill watching a movie, cuddling.

There’s many other date ideas but this is what came to mind.

Thanks for the ask!! :D

[achilleanauthor]

14, 17, 20?

how long have you know you were mlm? ✨

Nearly 4 years now!

I answered 17 already :3

who is your favourite fictional mlm? 🍃

Nick and Charlie from Heartstopper, Marshall Lee and Gary from Fionna and Cake, and Husker and Angel Dust from Hazbin Hotel. Also my ocs, Qovu and Isaac

Thanks for the ask!! What are your answers?

[greyhounddbites]

What's Skam about, I see it involves boys making out and I'm now interested

Skam is originally a Norwegian coming of age show but I skipped the first two seasons and went straight to the third since that's the one with "boys making out." It follows Isak [figuring out his queerness causing him to battle religion and navigate his friendships] and Even [openly queer but faces his own internal struggles].

I watched the full Norwegian one because I love how the language sounds [Even's "halla" is so attractive and sweet and I also enjoy how he's always trying to make eye contact with Isak] but the French remake is more popular. It's understandable because I had to watch the 3rd episode in French since I couldn't find the Norwegian one, which arguably has one of the best scenes.

Warning though, a lot of underage drinking and drug use.

If you watch it please let me know so I can have someone to chat about it with !! I'm even down to stream it on discord just to watch it again with someone lol !!

[sleepymothboy]

alright boy riddle me this. ur abt to kiss a boy who wears glasses. what do you do before kissing him. the answer may not be as simple as you think

- @origin-of-symmetryy

push them up and gaze longingly into his eyes. there is no wrong answer here

[bloodspillmlm]

I WHEEL OF NAMESED IT smart 😎

Ghost, Ghoul, Troll, Faerie ✨

TEEHEE

ghost- not at all but sometimes i’ll reach out to people LMAO 😭😭

ghoul- depends on the date, if we’re going somewhere secluded i like to be outside but i don’t like to be around toooooo many people so inside dates can also be nice :>>

troll-i don’t have a lot but i don’t really like people who can’t match my energy LMAO your crazy has to match my crazy

faerie- HHTNGNFNFN THERES SO MUCH BUT…..boys voices….🥰🥰🥰😔🥰🥰

[colourofthekites]

2, 11, and 21?

2. favorite mlm song? - Honey by Troye Sivan probably, talk about a banger

11. what's your favorite album? - Ooh I would say The Quantum Enigma by Epica

21. kiss on the lips, cheek or forehead? - All three! I like kisses!!

Questions

[stale-box-of-queerios]

Blue - What's your favorite part of being LGBTQ+?

Silver - What's advice that you would give to your younger self?

Turquoise - What's one thing you would change either about the mlm community or people's perceptions and treatment of the community?

Gold - What would your personal ideal future be?

Pink - What was your first crush and/or the first person who made you realize you might be mlm?

blue - i just love the community in general <3 it’s nice having one combining thing that holds us all together

silver - There’s no “right” way to experience gender, you’re valid as hell <3

turquoise - i HATE people who derail mlm posts with “Ew men” or similar things. It’s obviously not made for you, don’t judge others

gold - working as an animator with my own apartment, living with you blink blink teehee

pink - my first crush was a boy in my homeschool group when i was 5 <3 i’m still in contact with him he’s super sweet

[our-mlm-experience]

a pair of thigh highs with the mlm flag pattern on them would go hard asf you get what i mean

Oh fuck yeah.

[g0blin-mlm]

have you had any success with your dating application thing i’ve been thinking of making one but idk if it’s worth it lol

I’ve met some very nice people and made friends which is very cool I think!! I don’t have a romantic partner (yet hopefully) but it’s also a little harder for me to get romantic feelings than other people I think so?? But I think having one has been sorta fun??

[arlosworld91]

mummy: do you like sharing clothes with your partner?

vampire: do you prefer when he makes the first move?

werewolf: do you fall in love quickly?

orc: do you prefer a boy who is scary on the outside and sweet on the inside, or do you prefer bad boys?

troll: what are your deal breakers?

Feel free to answer any of none of those :3

lol I was so confused about this until I realised it was an mlm ask thing.

mummy: do you like sharing clothes with your partner?

Probably would heh!

vampire: do you prefer when he makes the first move?

I would, it is too nerve-wracking, I want him to make the first move!

werewolf: do you fall in love quickly?

Well considering I am demi, probably not? Sometimes I can.

orc: do you prefer a boy who is scary on the outside and sweet on the inside, or do you prefer bad boys?

Why not both heh, but no in all seriousness definitely the scary on the outside and sweet on the inside.

troll: what are your deal breakers?

I really don't know, I feel like there would be a lot of things. First thing that came to mind is just being plain disrespectful.

Thanks for the ask!! :D

[achilleanauthor]

do you prefer to have boys lie on your chest, shoulder or lap? 🌾 eboys or soft boys? 🥀 talk about the guy that made you realise you like boys 🧩 do you tend to like masculine, feminine or androgynous boys more? 🐚

Shoulder, though I'd love any of those

Soft boys :)

It was a concept of a guy I made up in my own head that I projected onto some ocs

I guess androgynous, but I love all three

Thanks for the ask :) I'd love to know your own answers

[loverboy-ant]

Mlm ask game:

10. Do you have a crush?

17. Ideal date?

27. Do you want kids?

10: not atm, but this one guy seems interesting

17: playing minecraft together (it's my special interest and would mean the world) but i also love the drive in

27: it's complicated. i've always imagined kids but i'm unsure about raising them in this world or at least the US

thank you for the asks!! i love the format you used of putting the question as well, it helps a ton

[jellysshitpoems]

For the asks: 4, 17, and 35!!! ^_^

4. Denim or leather jackets?

Oh good lord don’t make me choose. I have issues with both, because if you over do the leather or the denim it just looks tacky (no Canadian tuxedos here, and sorry anyone with a thing for a lot of leather I don’t get it🤷) But in terms of just jackets… I STILL DONT KNOW it depends on how its worn!! Like, leather in a biker kinda way?? Im on my knees. denim jacket in a cowboy way??? I will send you photos of my man titties oh my word 🤭🤭

17. Ideal date?

Drinking. Maybe weed. Movie at home and some cuddling. Hell yeah.

35. What first catches your eye?

Not eye, but to be completely honest, smell. Cologne, shampoo, perfume, whatever the fuck. If someone smells good, I could sit next to them and just drown in the smell forever. I have a genuinely sensitive nose, so if you smell nice Im immediately in love.

[f4gwithf4ngs]

you should do 5, 11 and 16 from the mlm asks :3

5. do you prefer to have boys lie on your chest, shoulder or lap? 🌾

if i’m sitting up, shoulder or lap. if i’m laying down, chest. (this is my cop-out way of saying i like it all. i ADORE physical touch)

11. eboys or soft boys? 🥀

again, this is suuuchhh a cop-out answer, but i love both! although i will say, looking back on the eboy/soft boy trends on tiktok, horrifically cringey. but when it comes to the actual aesthetics i like both :]

16. talk about the guy that made you realise you like boys 🧩

to be completely honest. i don’t think there was a guy?? like i remember in my first year in high school i was identifying as Queer/Unlabeled (since the only attraction i had had at that point was to feminine or androgynous people) and then one day i was like “actually guys are pretty too.” and then it was “i can’t picture myself dating a girl”

although i thought i had a crush on someone but turns out i was just envious of how cool she seemed and how many friends she had. lmao. she’s cool tho