#mlm asks

[into-the-mortuary]

1: on his shoulder, because lap makes my back hurt eventually whereas his shoulder is easy to reach and comfy

2: hoodies, however we give sweaters to him

3: netflix, we’re terrified of clubbing so some movies and a good snack sounds way better

4: denim, leather feels icky on us, and he has this really nice denim jacket that he looks great in and that he let us borrow once

5: their smiles when they’ve done something good and they’re proud of themselves :] my boy gets the happiest little grin and it’s adorable

6: not a tea fan :[

7: however it tastes on my boyfriend’s lips

8: brown

9: nope!

10: yep :3 it’s on my husband, don’t tell him though :3

11: rugby to watch, badminton to play

12: we mostly wear neutrals but we’re honestly more of a gothic colours mlm

13: sometimes, if it won’t make us dysphoric that day

14: our boy is taller than us, and whilst sometimes we’re annoyed about it because we feel like a backpack spooning him (/lh), it’s kind of worth it for the soft holds we get in return sometimes that make us feel like we fit perfectly

15: hand kisses, they feel more intimate somehow

16: hmmm, i’m not sure? we like our own one, which smells like biscuits?

17: restaurant date where we’ve googled the menu beforehand and chosen our food already, specifically this adorable little italian restaurant that our husband lives near because their food is beautiful

18: cabin getaway, only because we absolutely melt in the heat, which is not cute or sexy by any means

19: love, simon! first one we watched and it shaped us

20: we sort of do and we sort of don’t? we like the idea of it, of instant connection, but we also think it’s beautiful to build that connection and love together over time and to befriend each other before you realise a couple of months later that you’re head over heels and can’t imagine life without him

21: absolutely! we’re in love right now, and have been for nearly 3 years :] it’s worth it

22: we like both! but we love when he sits in our lap because we like to show off that WE got lucky enough for that a little :] he doesn’t know that though! sometimes it’s nice to sit in his lap and be held and shown off a little ourselves though

23: metal, we have matching metal bracelets

24: it’s hard to pick just one? but the first time he called us his husband is up there, or yesterday morning when we woke up all curled up against him and got to clean his flat together in the most purely domestic way possible :] sadly our memory isn’t the best, but we have many good memories with our husband

25: to the left usually!

26: we like the idea of keeping the most interesting last name, which (we’re sorry baby) is ours, and ours is already hyphenated so can’t be hyphenated again, so we’d probably stick with our own and let him stick with his if he’d like to :] we don’t need to share last names to show we’re married, our love shows it enough

27: we’re really awkward around kids, so sadly for us they’re off the table, and we worry that we aren’t mentally there enough to have a kid and look after them the way they need to be to have a stable life

28: we do! we hold hands with our left hand, we’re the hand on top and we interlock hands

29: hmmm, i don’t know? i’ll ask our boyfriend which ones make us blush the most

30: waking up next to him, because all the sleepy kisses and his clinginess are to die for :]

31: our exes /hj

32: watching our boyfriend do really domestic things honestly? something about it flusters us

33: coffee shop!

34: we’re usually big spoon, which is brilliant because we leave kisses all over our boy’s back and shoulders and it’s soft and sweet :] however sometimes we really crave to be little spoon and be held and kept safe from the world, we’re just too shy to ask

35: how pretty a boy’s hair is

36: yes we would!!! we need to get a vase but we would adore it!!!

37: the subtle ones are cute as hell :]

38: yes!! we asked our husband out, still amazed about it

39: his confidence, he gets the most beautiful grin ever and his eyes get all sparkly and he hugs us really tight

40: BITE by troye sivan, we know it’s sadder but it’s beautiful

mlm asks!

I never see these so I decided to make one lol~

Do you like resting your head in a boys lap, or on his shoulder?

Sweaters or hoodies?

Netflix or clubbing on a Friday night?

Denim or leather jackets?

What’s your favorite thing about boys?

How do you like your tea?

How do you like your coffee?

Favorite fall color?

Can you drive?

Do you have a crush?

What’s your favorite sport?

Are you a pastel, neon, or neutral color mlm?

Do you wear makeup?

Do you like boys taller or shorter than you?

Do you prefer hand kisses, or nose kisses?

What’s your favorite cologne smell?

Ideal date?

What’s more romantic: cabin getaway, or tropical vacation?

What’s your favorite mlm movie?

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Have you ever been in love?

Do you like sitting in a boys lap, or do you prefer when a boy sits in yours?

Metal or cloth bracelets?

What’s one of your favorite memories of being in love?

Do you tilt your head to the left or right when you kiss?

Would you like to take his last name when you marry?

Do you want kids?

Do you interlock fingers when you hold hands?

What’s a compliment you’d love to receive from a boy?

What’s better, waking up to him in the morning, or falling asleep next to him at night?

Any turn offs?

What makes you blush?

Coffee shop or dog park date?

Big spoon or little spoon?

What first catches your eye?

Would you enjoy it if he bought you flowers?

Do you think matching couple outfits are cute or cheesy?

Have you ever asked a boy out?

Which is cuter, him being confident, or shy?

What’s one of your fave love songs?

[our-mlm-experience]

Need reassurance. Is it bad of me to have a preference for trans men over cis men? I still like to date cis men, but I just prefer trans men. Somebody told me that it makes me a "chaser" because I'm a cis man. I just think it's beautiful that somebody would *want* to become a man is all. It's not that I actively "seek out" trans men. I just find myself to be more attracted to men who just so happen to be trans. Trans men are always so handsome and attractive to me. I've always found trans men attractive. I think it's more of a confidence thing, because the trans men I've been with always have this confident aura about them.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again.

Having preferences does not make you a bad person.

[greyhounddbites]

What's Skam about, I see it involves boys making out and I'm now interested

Skam is originally a Norwegian coming of age show but I skipped the first two seasons and went straight to the third since that's the one with "boys making out." It follows Isak [figuring out his queerness causing him to battle religion and navigate his friendships] and Even [openly queer but faces his own internal struggles].

I watched the full Norwegian one because I love how the language sounds [Even's "halla" is so attractive and sweet and I also enjoy how he's always trying to make eye contact with Isak] but the French remake is more popular. It's understandable because I had to watch the 3rd episode in French since I couldn't find the Norwegian one, which arguably has one of the best scenes.

Warning though, a lot of underage drinking and drug use.

If you watch it please let me know so I can have someone to chat about it with !! I'm even down to stream it on discord just to watch it again with someone lol !!

[sleepymothboy]

alright boy riddle me this. ur abt to kiss a boy who wears glasses. what do you do before kissing him. the answer may not be as simple as you think

- @origin-of-symmetryy

push them up and gaze longingly into his eyes. there is no wrong answer here

[bloodspillmlm]

I WHEEL OF NAMESED IT smart 😎

Ghost, Ghoul, Troll, Faerie ✨

TEEHEE

ghost- not at all but sometimes i’ll reach out to people LMAO 😭😭

ghoul- depends on the date, if we’re going somewhere secluded i like to be outside but i don’t like to be around toooooo many people so inside dates can also be nice :>>

troll-i don’t have a lot but i don’t really like people who can’t match my energy LMAO your crazy has to match my crazy

faerie- HHTNGNFNFN THERES SO MUCH BUT…..boys voices….🥰🥰🥰😔🥰🥰

[arlosworld91]

What would be an ideal date or day for you?

(MLM question for you!)

Ooooo fun question!!

My ideal date would be a whole day, we would wake up and have a warm and hearty breakfast with some tea.

We would go to a bookshop and maybe a coffee shop afterwards.

Go to the seaside or go to the countryside and relax looking at the clouds or the sea cuddling until we are tired, listening to music and podcasts, talking about whatever comes to our head.

Go home and have a nice dinner and chill watching a movie, cuddling.

There’s many other date ideas but this is what came to mind.

Thanks for the ask!! :D

[f4gwithf4ngs]

you should do 5, 11 and 16 from the mlm asks :3

5. do you prefer to have boys lie on your chest, shoulder or lap? 🌾

if i’m sitting up, shoulder or lap. if i’m laying down, chest. (this is my cop-out way of saying i like it all. i ADORE physical touch)

11. eboys or soft boys? 🥀

again, this is suuuchhh a cop-out answer, but i love both! although i will say, looking back on the eboy/soft boy trends on tiktok, horrifically cringey. but when it comes to the actual aesthetics i like both :]

16. talk about the guy that made you realise you like boys 🧩

to be completely honest. i don’t think there was a guy?? like i remember in my first year in high school i was identifying as Queer/Unlabeled (since the only attraction i had had at that point was to feminine or androgynous people) and then one day i was like “actually guys are pretty too.” and then it was “i can’t picture myself dating a girl”

although i thought i had a crush on someone but turns out i was just envious of how cool she seemed and how many friends she had. lmao. she’s cool tho

[achilleanauthor]

For the mlm asks:

1,5,11,15,21.25

:)

I may be repeating these but they're fun to do so I don't care.

1. Do you like resting your head in a boy's lap or on his shoulder?

Lap, absolutely. I want to stretch out on a couch with my head in his lap and feel his hand brushing through my hair... it would be so nice.

5. What's your favourite thing about boys?

The warmth of their bodies and how excited they get when they talk about their interests!

11. What's your favourite sport?

Not a sport person, but I like archery. It's relaxing and I only have myself to worry about.

15. Do you prefer hand kisses or nose kisses?

Hand kisses would be so romantic and sweet

21. Have you ever been in love?

I don't think so, I've never had feelings become that strong before

25. Do you tilt your head to the left or right when you kiss?

Tilting to the right feels more natural :3

[switchyftm]

For the latest ask game: 33, 47, 59, and 78

33: What your favorite part of your body - erm, quite like my body hair, my eyes and my T growth

47: Most attractive celebrity? - Eerrmm I love Mathew grey gubler, Tomer Capone, Colin firth, taron egerton, mathew lillard and Thomas Gibson. Okay I’ll stop - oh wait, Andrew Scott hahaha

59: Would you give your significant other unrestricted access to your Tumblr for a day? Hell yeah, I met them on here so like there’s nothing he doesn’t see me post and vice versa. I’d give him unrestricted access to anything on my phone etc, got nothing to hide from them.

78: If you had a penis/vagina for a day, what are five things you would do? Well as a trans person I’d jsit enjoy living my day lmao. If I was with my partner then I’d defo have to experiment with as much sex as possible. Just experimenting how different things feel ig. I’m not 100 percent sure

[jellysshitpoems]

14 and 29 for the asks?

HI ANON thank you for asking :DDD

14, taller or shorter boys?

I don’t have much preference in terms of height, I say, like a lier. TALL BOYS HIT ME UP DMS ARE OPEN ‼️‼️ IM 5’5 AND A HALF I WILL STAND ON MY TIP TOES TO KISS YOU IF NEED BE ‼️‼️‼️

29, compliment you’d like to receive from a boy

Any compliment, just anything nice. Please just be nice to me 😅 although if you compliment my taste in music Im proposing immediately.

[spideysense-and-anxiety]

🌈mlm asks🌈

1,10,15,17

1. Do you enjoy playing with boys hair?

Yes, please

10. Are you more sporty or arty, and do you prefer sporty or arty boys?

I feel like I'm very 50/50, it's either one or the other (I do want to try rugby but I think.its get knocked to the ground SO FAST) IM THE WORST PERSON TO SEND ASKS TO I dont mind, I like both??? Just probably not someone who is 100% one and hates the other with a passion

15. Expose who you have tumblr crush on

No one yet smh. But someones out there getting closer to the whole twirling hair kicking feet lmao

17. Do you tend to like masculine, feminine or androgynous boys more?

Masculine or like masculine androgynous??? Yknow??? I'm just not that into feminine people 🧍‍♂️like masc women are what keeps making me go from gay to bi to gay

[moonwritesstuff]

For the mlm asks; 1, 5, 14, 17, 22, and 29 :)

1) Do you like resting your head in a boys lap, or on his shoulder?

Honestly I love both. If I had to choose I'd say that I prefer resting my head in a boys lap because I feel like it's a more intimate and deep gesture. It's something "reserved" to people which feel emotions for eachother, anyone can put their head on my shoulder but I wouldn't let anyone put their head on my lap.

5) What's your favorite thing about boys?

My favoritr thing about boys is probably their hair. I love boys with fluffy curly hair that I can touch. Something I really like are also their smiles...boys have such pretty smiles.

14) Do you like boys taller or shorter than you?

Being 150 cm makes it REALLY impossible to find someone shorter than me. I like boys that are taller than me because it makes me feel protected. I wouldn't reject someone who's the same height as me though :))

17) Ideal date?

I have many: picnic date, movie date, museum date...all "nerdy" types of dates really. One that I would really like would be having a picnic on the beach while watching the sunset.

22) Do you like sitting in a boys lap, or do you prefer when a boy sits in yours?

I prefer sitting in a boys lap as it makes me feel safe and loved. I wouldn't say no to a boy sitting in my lap though.

29) What's a compliment you'd love to receive from a boy?

"You're more than enough" is something that I would love to hear from the person I like. I feel like everyone should show appreciation towards their partner and empower them.

Thanks for the asks! I hope to receive many more <3

[our-mlm-experience]

a pair of thigh highs with the mlm flag pattern on them would go hard asf you get what i mean

Oh fuck yeah.

[greyhounddbites]

For the mlm asky thingy

2 5 14 22 35

2. Sweaters or hoodies?

Hoodies for sure

5. What's your favorite thing about boys?

I enjoy when they're sweet and mean it. I feel like a lot of guys are performative nowadays so I'm looking for a real sweetheart !!

14. Do you like boys taller or shorter than you?

Taller, which I don't think is very hard since I'm 4' 11" In a perfect world my bf would be 5' 3" or less so we can share clothes :)

22. Do you like sitting in a boys lap, or do you prefer when a boy sits in yours?

When a boy sits in mine, I enjoy being the more gentleman like out of the two of us :)

35. What first catches your eye?

Probably hair and face shape. I certainly have a type for guys with thin faces and brown/black hair 🚶‍♂️

[punkrock-bottom]

For the MLM asks: 17, 29, 32, 39, 40?

17. Ideal date?

I’m easy. Let’s grab drinks and then show me your favourite spot in the city

29. What’s a compliment you’d love to receive from a boy?

If a guy can call me sexy and make me believe it, I’m all theirs

32. What makes you blush?

One time I went on a date with this older guy and he called me a good boy in public and I turned so red I had to excuse myself to go splash water on my face to cool off :|

39. Which is cuter, him being confident, or shy?

Confidence all the way but there’s a fine line between confident and arrogant

40. What’s one of your fave love songs?

To this day I still maintain that Iris by The Goo Goo Dolls is a queer love song

[bloodspillmlm]

i'm not a coward 🤬🤬 12, 35, 39

THE WAY I THINK I KNOW EXACTLY WHO THIS IS LMAO

12. neutral colors because i love me some dark greens and reds >:))

35. EYES 🤤🤤🤤🤤 not in a weird way i just love a boy with pretty eyes

39. shy boys can be cute but confidence is so attractive fhdnfngmdhajandnf