#misandry is valid

[dollmaxxxing]

Men literally rape dead bodies, it's not about clothes get a grip

[liberate-women-now]

Nothing like listening to men talk to reignite the fire for my hatred of them.

[angel-cryptid]

how do you expect me to not be disgusted by men if daily I see them trying to defend rape and pedophilia

[iatemenfordinner]

Main blog: @dollmaxxxing

[dollmaxxxing]

Women should be allowed to kill their rapists

[religion-is-a-mental-illness]

Ladies, I don't think you understand how little validation men get. Like, women will get compliments just for being a woman. You'll get validation for being a certain gender. That's an amazing thing, that's a crazy thing.

Like, men will get hated on just for being men. Understand that men will get their first flowers typically at their funeral. They get very few compliments over the course of the year, genuine compliments. And they get almost no validation in their relationships. It's usually about their women, their female.

Women are flooded with attention, compliments, positivity, you know, from a young age. And that's an amazing, beautiful thing. But you guys gotta understand, like, men don't really get that. And that's why when you compliment a guy, it lights him up. Men really, like, go through a lot of stuff. Men are expected to provide support, take care of themselves with no reassurance from the world whatsoever. It's very difficult sometimes for men.

A man will remember the time ten years ago when someone told him that his sunglasses were cool.

[liberate-women-now]

Death to all sex buyers btw.

why is this such a common opinion?

why is "men will be unable to not rape unless they can buy access to a woman's body" something people just say without realising how insane that sounds

[punkeropercyjackson]

How do people think Percabeth has 'transmasc4transfem swag' though.Annabeth literally refuses to tell Percy she thinks he's handsome and he cringes at having to play the boyfriend roles for her

[pansnovydinnia]

tumblr people are so progressive when it comes to women, either trans or cis. but the moment another conversation about man's struggles starts, there surely will be at least 11037k people telling that those struggles are not real and by existence they're deeply misogynistic.

no. not everything applies to women, trans (trans fem too) or cis. stuff happens to other people, too. and we have to acknowledge all oppression, every flavor of it, even if some is "lesser" or something. (fuck you if you think we have to compare everything in order it to be valid)

being trans man and hearing "T is a poison and dick is a plague on person's body"

being cis man and hearing "if you're a man you're probably violent misogynistic and angry, and you have all the privileges"

being non-binary and hearing all the binarity people come up with every day just to reinforce gender roles and gender as a whole

i can continue with every example, you can continue too

this doesn't undermine others struggles, it never will, and if you think non-woman person talking about their problems automatically means they're misogynistic... I won't say bad words here, but know: you're so fucked up you can't imagine.

[dollmaxxxing]

sex work is not work, it’s always exploitation (consent can not be bought)

[liberate-women-now]

I can’t tell if you’re shitting on separatism or talking about a specific instance that happened where a radfem victim blamed or belittled a woman needing abortion. If you are talking about a radfem who did that then just say that? Also “Freyja the Male Slayer” “Maggie the Heterosexual”?

Like I legit haven’t seen a radfem victim blame or shit on women needing abortions, let alone a whole wave of them doing that to where it warrants a post.

I just can’t help but wonder what the hell you saw that made you write this?

if your "radical feminism" is centered around a future revolution where women rise up and kill men and we liberate all women from their hetero relationships rather than focusing on real issues that affect real women that are alive and suffering right now, then you are literally useless. sorry. pipedreams about breaking away and starting a matriarchy are legitimately useless when you belittle het women when they need abortions, or victim blame when a woman's husband starts beating her. you live in your world of hypotheticals where you're Freyja The Male Slayer, while Maggie the Heterosexual Housewife volunteers at her local women's domestic violence shelter every weekend does 10000× more for women than you ever will.

[abearinthewoods]

Its so annoying how often I'll see a blog have post after post after post after post so succinctly call out how the ways we view men and masculinity can be harmful to queer people, only to come across an op post explaining how misandry doesn't real.

Trans/intersex/agender/nb person: The way """progressives""" treat us as the worse of the worse of cis men and cast our actions under the shadow of stereotypes about cis men kinda sucks actually. What happened to equality and ending stereotyping and prejudge?

cis man: yes. I agree i have always hated this and think we should join hands as allies in the fight against misandry and androphobia.

Trans/intersex/agender/nb person: lol misandry doesn't real you silly mra.

[yourlocalxenomorph3]

just firing off some rent-lowering shots

"transandrophobia" and "transmisandry" are stupid terms to describe phenomena that can just be boiled down to transphobia or good ol' classic misogyny but repackaged

[genocidalfetus]

Brain Rot Thot I guess....

Femme V and Male V are both awesome. What's not awesome is elevating one by putting the other down. Not saying anyone I follow/follows me does this, but I have seen it happen and often times it's femme V players stating that male V is the inferior V or the 'invalid V' and that sucks ass and bums me out. I'm cool with Femme V getting recognition and getting put on merch and promo material. She looks badass and she's earned it. However, there is no need to put down male V in the process(once again not calling out anyone, just stating an observation I've seen here and elsewhere). Personally I would have preferred it if both Vs had been on the cover to begin with, and if both Vs got a promo trailer and everything at the start.

Just my thoughts on things...

[catradoraism]

people will claim that misandry exists and then fully ignore the nuances when a man says he hates women vs when a woman says she hates men

[frog-wash]

man I don't know what the hell is going on with other parts of transmasc tumblr but y'know I figure I'll make a post about it just in case cause I've mentioned it a few times and I wanna be clear

I don't use the terms transandrophobia/transmisandry because they imply that androphobia and misandry are systems of oppression that affect all men, cis and trans, and that is simply ✨not the case✨

however I do use anti-transmasculinity (ATM) because it was coined by a Black transfem to talk about things like transmascs/trans men being excluded from discussions and resources because of statements like "men can't get pregnant/men don't menstruate/men don't experience gender-based violence" that conflate "man" and "cis man" and leaves no room for the nuance and experience of transmasculinity. additionally, ATM names the issue of statements like "women and femmes" where they again do the above.

i.e. actual issues where the language used erases transmascs/the transmasc experience and actions that exclude us from our communities

sooooo yea that's exclusively what I'm talking about when I say things about ATM