#mindsets matter

[free-my-mindd]

[emmcfrxst]

jason todd swears like a sailor whenever you ride him. the visual of your body on top of his, the feeling of your hands on his chest and your cunt fluttering around him, the sweet sounds of your moans and mewls— everything about getting ridden makes jason’s dick hard and turns his brain to mush

[equill]

Sukea stuff

Extra: realization

It’s been a while

Panel 1: smile

Comic 2: Caught red handed

you’re his son

Extra: conversation

he just picking on him

Comic 3: You’re grounded.

[venti-death-watch]

aventurine’s this very interesting combination of incredibly cunning, calculated, & brutal tbh while also having intense self esteem issues. he views every relationship as transactional and has no issue with using people to stay on top. he’s never left survival mode; considering his childhood, maybe he’s always been in it.

‘gilded’ describes him so well. not only is he still in a birdcage with his fancy clothes and riches covering up that he’s still in a place where he can’t escape, he also uses his persona to hide his perceived worthlessness underneath

[carlyquotes]

[willowser]

i think every time bakugou sees you, especially if it's been a minute, alarm bells are going off inside his head, for him to be intimidated, and all he can think is oh no pretty oh no oh no pretty very pretty oh god very pretty oh no.

[a-schmoozer-and-a-dummy]

when Angel and Husk get together- properly together, “i love you” together- Angel finally has to face the fact that what Valentino is doing to him, is abuse.

he knows that it’s bad, it’s fucked up, it’s an unhealthy power dynamic- but he’s never thought of it as abuse because at one point, a long time ago, he consented, and he signed that contract with a fairly decent idea of what he was getting into, and if this was abuse then he wouldn’t have signed up for it, right? right? and it’s not that angel is too dumb to see it for what it really is. Angel knows that Valentino is abusive and we see that when he stands up to him at the club and when he tries to get Val to ignore Charlie when she comes to the studio- but what gets me is the fact that Angel focuses more on protecting his friends than himself. Angel’s threshold for abuse is “you can do it to me, not to my friends,” and in a way isn’t that kind of consent in itself, right? so Angel isn’t really being abused, even though he openly admits to being exploited, right?

that’s what he desperately tries to tell himself, at least, even when he does try to break himself so Valentino can find another toy to play with.

so, no. Angel doesn’t think of himself as a victim of abuse until he gets closer to Husk, until he starts dating Husk, until Husk is asking for consent just to kiss him and holding him in a way that doesn’t make him feel caged in and letting angel bitch and moan all he wants. Angel doesn’t see himself as a victim of abuse until Husk apologizes for raising his voice at him during an argument and holds his shaky hands after a nightmare and listens to Angel when he asks for time alone.

and that makes going back to the studio that much harder.

because he finds has someone who will listen and respect his boundaries. he has someone who asks to touch him, even when just holding his hand, and someone who knows him well enough to make him a drink in advance when he gets home after a long day. he has someone who makes him want to get sober, someone who makes him believe in this whole redemption thing, someone he doesn’t have to perform in front of.

it’s hard to go back to Valentino. it’s harder knowing that Husk will be there at the end of the night, regardless of how fucked up Angel feels.

[shyrule]

the boy! inspired by @triforce-of-mischief:

very loosely based off of this panel from @/linkeduniverse:

and with text/textless versions:

[icewindandboringhorror]

Little bright colored outfit with a fun vest ~

(shoes from ebay like 10 years ago. everything else is thrifted)

[zippyzstuff]

[starmocha]

You know, it's funny how Sylus is very casual and nonchalant about people robbing him, but he gets highly offended if you think he's poor (spend only $1 million).

[free-my-mindd]

Having a healed enough nervous system so that you don’t lose yourself each time someone disregards you, dislikes you, or invalidates you is true peace. Choosing to stand in your authenticity without the urge to prove or change any opinions of you is truly powerful.

[beccawise7]

Take a moment.

Breathe.

Enjoy the beauty in this world.

Reset.

Then begin again.

~beccawise7💜🖤

[raining-at-ease]

[accio-victuuri]

wang yibo - exploring the unknown interview with cheng er 🎤

Q: What is the biggest setback you have experienced so far? Is it what you wanted but didn't get?

WYB: No

Q: You want nothing that you can’t get?

WYB: Yes. I do what I like, but that doesn't mean that everything I like will accomplish smoothly. When I was learning street dance, it was considered unpopular by everyone. When I wanted to learn it, my parents also refused.

Q: So later, were your parents persuaded by you or willing to support you?

WYB: I remember this very clearly. When I was eight or nine years old, it was in winter when I was getting an IV drip in the hospital and saw a street dance competition on TV. I thought I had to learn this. I like it very much. At that time, I persisted in dancing. I was very persistent. I have been dancing all summer from 1pm in the afternoon to 9pm in the evening. If my parents hadn't seen my persistence and my talent in dance, I wouldn't be who I am now.

WYB: I don't believe that I can't complete it, but I know it's just a matter of time. Just like when I was skateboarding, I did a very difficult move many times and finally succeeded. It became like picking up many terrains, and all the skaters knew how to do it, so try again and again and again, and will succeed in the end.

[sukibenders]

Some fans: Eloise is such a fake feminist, doesn't she see how some girls and women enjoy marriage? Doesn't she see how her privileges give her luxuries others don't? She's so selfish. She doesn't even use her words to support other women!

Also same fans: I wish Eloise would stop talking, like her speaking about feminism at every turn is getting old. Can't she just be quiet and let everyone enjoy the fun? Like yeah talking about women's lack of personhood without a male figure in society, or how they can't go to university, or how sometimes they marry men who will only hurt them but need to for their status is sad to see, but THE ROMANCE-