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I don’t even know what to say about this, Ik she a freak. sevfreaka,,,
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um... Garofano swearing.... aahahahah..... just fell to my knees
THOSE PARADEISOS FFFFFUCKS HEJFJTJGJGJ im so attracted to her it’s insane, this made me squeal like a baby. i cant believe she actually swears… do we think its only when she’s mad or also when she’s getting fu—
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Fertility goddess doing fertility goddess things, what’s ur end goal? Make everyone pregg? Pregg with big brood? Preg with many broods? Make everyone moms? How very very despicable,
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it is not! my end goal is communism
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People have strong reactions to the president's smiling visit to Parkland victims
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President Trump shared images from his visit to a Florida hospital where victims are still recovering after a gunman, armed with an AR-15 rifle, killed 14 students and three teachers Wednesday. In spite of the horrific tragedy, the photos show Trump smiling, happy, even giving a thumbs-up, while he posed with those injured, their families and first responders.
The president shared his thoughts in a tweet with several images with bedside survivors and hospital staff. He wrote, “Our entire Nation, w/one heavy heart, continues to pray for the victims & their families in Parkland, FL. To teachers, law enforcement, first responders & medical professionals who responded so bravely in the face of danger: We THANK YOU for your courage!”
But while the written message seemed heartfelt and appropriate, the Twitterverse can’t fathom why he looks so happy in the pictures.
Our entire Nation, w/one heavy heart, continues to pray for the victims & their families in Parkland, FL. To teachers, law enforcement, first responders & medical professionals who responded so bravely in the face of danger: We THANK YOU for your courage! https://t.co/3yJsrebZMG pic.twitter.com/ti791dENTy
— Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) February 17, 2018
People voiced their discomfort with the images POTUS, with wife Melania Trump, shared with the world. Some reacted to the images by calling them insincere and just a publicity stunt. Others tweeted that they found the president’s smile “creepy.”
Is this for real? Thumbs up, all smiles. Trump is so devoid of basic human empathy that he actually posts these creepy photos.
— Andrew Hoskins (@spectrum1) February 17, 2018
Why the hell are you doing a thumbs up!? Children were slaughtered in a gun massacre, it's a tragedy and you're grinning like a Cheshire Cat!!? What the fuck is wrong with you? Where's your dignity and respect for lives lost #UnfitForOffice #GunReformNow
— SarahⓋ (@slww8) February 17, 2018
Another Twitter user made a comparison with how former President George W. Bush privately visited the families affected by 9/11. He asked Trump, “Why would you make this a photo op?” Others agreed.
When Bush 43 visited the victims and families after 9-11, we didn't know anything about it until he left office. He wanted it kept private. No photos. No press. No recognition. He only wanted to comfort those in pain. Why would you make this a photo op?
— Rob Gorski (@The_Autism_Dad) February 17, 2018
Turning this into a photo op shows no class. The courage and eloquence of those FL HS students shows how small you are. Also for the love of God, stop smirking.
— Anita Creamer (@AnitaCreamer) February 17, 2018
Thumbs up? Big smile? This isn't a happy occasion and this isn't a photo op for you. You have no soul.
— DMZ (@grassrootsyaya) February 17, 2018
However, other users on the service thanked the president for his visit.
Pray for the families who were impacted in Florida. Thank you for being a great leader President Trump.
— CoreyJones (@CoreyLMJones) February 17, 2018
One commented that perhaps the visit had cheered the victims and their families.
MR PRESIDENT YOU PUT A SMILE ON THAT FAMILYS FACES IF IT WAS ONLY FOR A MOMENT “THAT WAS A BEAUTIFUL THING YOU DID “SO MUSH PAIN & SUFFERING THESE FAMILIES WILL BE GOING THROUGH ” THE AMERICAN PEOPLE THANK YOU AND THE FIRST LADY FOR COMING FOR A PAINFUL TRAGEDY “
— EDWARD ASHTON (@EdwardAshton30) February 17, 2018
Finally, some pointed out that despite the pressure to reconsider gun laws, the president has yet to address or comment on gun violence in the United States.
Staged photo ops and worthless words won’t stop gun violence. So easy for you to walk away and not take action to prevent Americans from killing Americans with automatic weapons.
You’re all hypocritical cowards @POTUS @GOP for accepting gun money
— Dr.Pulaski2017 (@DrPulaski2017) February 17, 2018
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Forget the fact that I don't eat that but I would do this! Bwahaaaa 😂😂🤣😂😜 **tossing fries at his feet** #menext #ohithoughtyouwerespankingthenaughty #haveimisreadthesituation #ihavemorecheek #youdownornah #callme #isaywhatimeanandmeanwhatisay #authenticallyme #igotjokes https://www.instagram.com/p/BzO3SPGHKgk/?igshid=vg6z0x41ohxy
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A high school threatened to ban students from prom for participating in gun control walkouts
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A New Jersey high school has retracted a threat banning students from prom, for participating in organized walk-outs in response to the Florida school shooting.
Principal Dennis Perry of Cherry Hill High School East explained the changeabout in a February 27th letter to the school, even inviting students to participate in an organized “walk” on March 14th, the same day as the national school walkout planned by The Women’s March’s Youth EMPOWER group.
A student at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School, where 17 students and teachers were killed in a February 14th shooting, protests in support of gun laws. (Photo: Getty Images)
Perry also announced a weekly meeting between students and teachers to discuss school safety and a letter campaign to victims of the February 14th shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, among other initiatives.
“I am formally retracting the statement that I made on Monday, February 26, regarding withholding participation in the senior trip, the senior prom, or graduation for participating in the “disruption” planned for that morning,” wrote Perry.
One day prior, Perry made the controversial announcement in the midst of a student protest in support of teacher Timothy Locke, who was reportedly placed on administrative leave after expressing concern about Cherry Hill’s lack of armed officers and comparing the school to Columbine High School, where in 1999, two students killed 13 people in a mass shooting.
A student also told Philly.com that Locke said, “The chances of East being shot up were high.” And Locke himself told the website that his bag was searched and he was ordered to undergo a physical and a psychiatric evaluation.
In an audio obtained by PhillyVoice, Perry said, “I am assuming that the purpose of the planned disruption was out of frustration because it was felt as though you were not being heard. Well, I do want you to have that opportunity to be heard, and I do want to hear you.”
He added, “Please know that those of you who opt into some sort of civil disobedience will be immediately suspended and you will lose your senior trip and prom if you are in 12th grade.” Perry did not answer Yahoo Lifestyle’s multiple requests for comment.
In many cases, it’s unconstitutional to punish student protesters. (Photo: Getty Images)
According to Edward Barocas, legal director for the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU), threatening to punish student activists is, in many cases, unconstitutional. “Schools cannot punish kids for skipping class to protest any more harshly than they would for skipping for another reason,” he tells Yahoo Lifestyle. “It would be unconstitutional to focus on the reasons for missing class.”
Threatening to ban protesters from prom violates two rights, says Barocas: The right to due process, which in this case, requires fair and transparent discipline procedures for an offense — not eleventh-hour bans — and the right to free speech.
Aside from the March 14 walkout, a “March for Our Lives” walk in Washington, D.C. is scheduled for March 24th, and a National School Walkout, on April 20th on the 19th anniversary of the Columbine shooting.
Cherry Hill is one of several schools to threaten protesting students with discipline. According to local news station KHOU, a district in Spring, Texas issued a statement that students who participate in walk-outs face in-school suspension, even while investigating a February 23rd threat to one its own high schools.
The Needville Independent School District, also in Texas, stated in a now-deleted Facebook post, “Should students choose to [walk out], they will be suspended from school for three days and face all the consequences that come along with an out-of-school suspension…We will discipline no matter if it is one, fifty or five hundred students involved.”
The good news is, student activism doesn’t seem to be a deal breaker for many prospective colleges. Hannah Mendlowitz, senior assistant director of admissions at Yale penned a February 23rd post which read, “Does Yale look unfavorably upon discipline resulting from peaceful demonstrations? The answer is simple: Of course not…I, for one, will be cheering these students on from New Haven.”
The MIT admissions department said in a blog post, “We have already informed those who asked that, in this case, a disciplinary action associated with meaningful, peaceful participation in a protest will not negatively impact their admissions decision, because we would not view it as inappropriate or lacking integrity on its face.”
The University of Massachusetts – Amherst assured protesting students “We won’t hold it against you.”
Students: If you participate in peaceful protests against gun violence and receive school discipline for walking out, staging your protest, etc., please rest assured that you can report it to UMass Amherst, and we won't hold it against you. #ParklandStudentsSpeak
— UMass Admissions (@UMassAmherstUA) February 22, 2018
And the dean of admissions at Smith College tweeted, “We’ve got you on this side.”
To students worried about disciplinary action for getting suspended for standing up for your beliefs: we’ve got you on this side. #Smith2022 #ParklandStudentsSpeak
— Deb Shaver (@deandebshaver) February 22, 2018
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Blog: February 23, 2018 Here we go again. Due to another school shooting the powers that be and people who need answers to the school shooting phenomenon, are screaming for gun control. My heart goes out to the parents and families of the victims. I can't imagine what they are going through. That said, for those of you who don't know me, I've been a spot news photojournalist for more than twenty five years. I've covered stories ranging from parades to terror attacks and every heinous crime in between. I like to think of myself as an observer of people and circumstances. I will try to share with you what I believe is the cause of mass shootings including school shootings. People, IT'S NOT THE GUNS! Guns have been part of the American lifestyle since the very beginning. It's only in our recent history do we see this level of mass shootings and violence. Not only mass shootings, but violence in general, in all walks of life. What has changed to cause such a disregard for life? The gun didn't start talking to our kids telling them to kill! A gun didn't tell that man to put it to the woman's head so he could rape her. A gun didn't whisper in the ear of an armed robber to shoot the store clerk even though he gave up all the money. So, what changed? I can only look at this horrible time in our lives through my eyes. As a young boy of three or four, I wore a cowboy hat on my head and two six guns on my hips. I went everywhere with that outfit. I loved playing cowboys and Indians with the other little boys. Today that's not politically correct. When I was a little older I graduated to my toy Tommy Gun and played army with my friends. There was absolutely nothing real about what we were doing, it was all pretend, it was all for fun. How come there were no school shootings when I was a kid? We were playing with toy guns since we could walk! What Changed?! I wanted to join the Air Force after watching The Fighting Tigers Movie about WWII fighter pilots. I loved watching cowboy movies and war movies and so did my friends. Still, there were NO school shootings! WHAT CHANGED?!!! When I became still older, but still under eighteen I was into cops and robbers movies and mob movies, still, NO SCHOOL SHOOTINGS!! PLEASE TELL ME WHAT CHANGED?!!! Some people are going to call me nuts after they continue to read about my observations. Bleeding heart liberals started a campaign in the seventies to get rid of toy guns. No more six guns, no more Tommy Guns, no more cowboys and Indians and no more playing army. You see guns and those games weren't politically correct. But they did teach very valuable lessons. They taught team work, friendship, being dependable (in war you need to depend on your fellow soldiers) and gave you a sense of good and evil. All these lessons without desensitizing us to death. Playing those games strengthened our friendships, some, that lasted a lifetime. I for one, don't see anything wrong with that. We played in the streets, parks and empty lots. We played baseball, football and basketball. Stores were closed on Sunday, families got together for dinner and to catch up. We got dirty, bruises, chipped teeth and broken bones. But, we all lived. Even though we fought with each other when we were angry, we didn't look to kill each other or wipe out the school. Parents not only looked out for their kids they looked out for all the neighborhood kids. One would hear "Anthony, if you don't stop that right now I'm going to tell your mom" so, instead of having one mom we had ten. Now, for today's world. Our children are no longer playing outside. They are barricaded in their little rooms in front of the computer screen, tablet or smart phone. That's how todays kids communicate. In my opinion they are seriously lacking in face to face communication. Before I get too far into today's world I would like to make a list first and than address the list. Parents are too busy to pay attention to what their kids are doing, they both work. Very graphic war video games and games that glorify death. Very realistic movies showing too many death scenes. The internet and social media. The negative stigma of mental illness. This is my list into today's darkness as I see it. When I was a kid I had ten moms watching out for me, today kids have zero moms, they're all working, so there's no supervision when they are in the street. Ah, video games. When my kids were growing up, the games were pong and asteroids, simple right, not, my kids were blowing stuff up! Did it make them want to kill? No! Fast forward a few years, now there's Tour of Duty pink mist and everything. Well, the game won't make you want to kill but you know what, when a young mind gets a hold of a game like this, and they play it over and over and over again it's so life like it will desensitize that young mind to killing. Seeing blood and guts isn't as traumatic anymore. When my friends and I went to the movies we saw westerns and there occasional James Bond movie. How many of you have ever seen an old western? Lame right? The gun fight scenes have hardly any blood. Today, they get cut in half by a shotgun blast. With all the action in a James Bond movie I can't remember any scene in particular that was gory and bloody, but people did get blown up and killed. In todays movies all bets are off, there's so much blood, when you leave the theater you feel as if you're covered in it. Social media, the idea of it is great, the reality not so much. You have pedophiles trolling looking for victims, bullies attacking fellow students, people putting out false information about you and all this is done behind the safety of the computer screen. There is no accountability. In my day you took the risk of a black eye if you said something you shouldn't have. Everything that's good has an evil side like the internet. It's a great tool for research, making money, connecting with loved ones far away and the list goes on. You can also buy drugs, guns, sex, learn how to make a pipe bomb, a pressure cooker bomb and terrorize a fellow student to the point of suicide or in some cases mass murder. This brings me back to parents. I blame all the mass shootings on the parents. I don't care how busy you are with your job and life in general, your first responsibility is your child, period! It is your responsibility to know what your kid is up to on his or her social media sites. You as a parent have a right to have access to their account and its passwords. If a parent is paying attention to their child's behavior they'll know if they're kids are a little off mentally. It's a parents responsibility to get that kid help! Even though there might be a negative stigma attached to the child because of the illness, it's better than the loss of life. So, parents deal with it! Get your kid help! That said, the issue of mental health in this country need to change, there shouldn't be any stigmas attached to any health issues in these days and times. In closing, the reasons for the mass shootings and the school shootings are as follows. The extremely graphic and violent movies our kids watch and games our kids play way to young are desensitizing our kids to violent death. Don't kid yourself parents just because little eight year old Johnny isn't playing the game at home, doesn't mean that he's not playing it at little Frankie's house. Parents don't have a clue what their kids are actually up to. Parents also have to identify when their child is mentally stressed and get him or her help. Todays kids have very little interaction with each other face to face. They hide behind the anonymity of their computer screens. Kick your kids out to play in the sun maybe they'll learn some social skills and won't look to blow up the school. When a kid is mentally stressed and goes unchecked, is desensitize to death has no social skills, is bullied, shunned, teased by fellow students he or she will reach a breaking point to where they'll feel they're situation is hopeless and drive them to either suicide or homicide. People need to start to take responsibility for their own actions and the actions of your family. This is NOT a gun issue it's a social and a mental health issue. #menext, #angryparents, #neveragain, #guncontrol, #mentalhealth, #RadarPlz
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In Florida aftermath, US students say 'Never Again'
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In Florida aftermath, US students say 'Never Again'
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The students of Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School were well practised on how to respond in an active shooter situation – the school has lockdown drills, security systems and restricted entrances. But a sole gunman on Valentine’s Day was still able to kill 17.
From the school’s survivors, and other students across the US, movements have sprung up in its aftermath rejecting what has been dubbed the “new normal” for their generation. Thousands of teenagers, including many still too young to vote, have become grassroots activists. Social media has become a tool for their ideas and campaigns to spread.
Their calls for gun control are not different to those in the aftermath of other tragedies – but the maturity and voracity of the students publically voicing their demands has led many on social media to say this time feels different.
“In Newtown the students were so young they couldn’t stand up, but trust me – we are going to be the change,” Parkland survivor Alex Wind told the BBC.
As Wednesday’s atrocity took place, he was forced to huddle in darkness with 60 other students for over an hour and a half as shots rang out throughout their school.
Alex and four of his friends founded the Never Again campaign in the immediate aftermath. Now over a dozen of them are tirelessly campaigning and making the rounds on US cable news networks to share their message that the school’s survivors will not back down.
Image copyright Alex wind/NEVER AGAIN
“It is absolutely insane that a 19-year-old cannot purchase alcohol but can walk in and buy an AR-15 – a weapon of war, by all means a weapon of mass destruction,” he said.
“You don’t need this to protect your home or your family, its absolutely absurd you can sell it commercially.”
They have announced the March for Our Lives to take place on 24 March, in conjunction with the Everytown for Gun Safety, calling for the prioritisation of children’s lives in the gun control debate.
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Media captionOn Saturday student Emma Gonzalez, an organiser of the march, told lawmakers: “Shame on you!”
Student Cameron Kasky, also 17, said the group’s aim is to “create a new normal where there’s a badge of shame” on politicians accepting donations from gun lobbyists.
“My message for the people in office is: You’re either with us or against us. We are losing our lives while the adults are playing around,” he told CNN.
The group are encouraging other students around the country to join with them and protest – a movement that is already happening online.
Lane Murdock, who is 15 and lives in Connecticut, was one of the students who saw events in Florida and felt mobilised to try and make a difference.
“When I saw the news the most saddening thing was that it felt normal,” she told the BBC.
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“I’m from Connecticut where Sandy Hook happened – I’ve been surrounded by this reality all of my life.”
She, like other US students, has grown up learning lockdown drills since she was in elementary school. She remembers her first at seven years old.
“We all hide in the safest corner, huddle together with our knees up against our chest while our teacher turns off the lights, closes the blinds and locks the door.”
She had the idea to launch an online petition for a national student walk out on the anniversary of the Columbine attack. After a “whirlwind” few days, Lane’s campaign has garnered tens of thousands of followers and signatures.
The teenager, who says she has ambitions of being a journalist, is now liaising with national advocacy groups to make sure any strike action is cohesive and effective.
Her mother, Bari, says that she is “beyond proud” of her daughter.
“If anything is going to change, it is up to our youth. We’re failing our children – I hope it takes off,” she said.
Another student hundreds of miles away from Wednesday’s attack, Violet Massie-Vereker, had her own simple and provocative idea to draw attention to the reform debate.
Following on from the success of the #MeToo campaign, she proposed a twist exposing the reality for student and parents’ concerns with #MeNext?
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She stood with a sign outside her high school in Pelham in New York alongside several other students and local parents.
“A number of people have told me it’s frightening and powerful, and really sends a message,” the 16-year-old told the BBC.
She said at her high school, the shooting was followed by a special assembly, where the principal gave an address to students where they went over their lockdown procedures.
“He told us, I wish I could assure you that nothing could happen here, but I can’t,” she said.
Others have joined in their social media campaign, posting pictures themselves or of their children online with their own signs. Their Facebook page now has over 10,000 likes of its own.
“It’s a drop in the bucket within the debate, but I sincerely believe this is the beginning of the end. Students should harness their fears to help promote a change.”
In West Michigan, teenagers from Kalamazoo Central High School started their own petition titled “Students Fighting Guns Since Adults Won’t”. It has almost 50,000 signatures.
Julia Kemple-Johnson, 17, said the idea came from a discussion between friends a day after the Parkland shooting. She said they felt like they were having a discussion about gun violence every other week.
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Image caption Mackenzie Jones, 15 from Chesterfield, Virginia joined in the online #MeNext? campaign
“I can’t remember a time when I didn’t know about mass shootings,” she told the BBC.
“Our teacher told us that Columbine was a wake-up call at the time, but we were born after that and we are just so used to it, so desensitised.”
They are trying to work with groups from Colorado and connect with survivors in Florida. Their aim is to contact their local state representatives asking for the introduction of mandatory waiting periods for background checks, and a review of semi-automatic weapons.
In Maine, students from Mount Desert Island High School held their own silent protest to the attack.
The networks are growing hourly, and the groups’ teenage organisers are trying to intersect to create cohesive action.
Tweets by survivors from Wednesday’s Florida attack are now being met with hundreds of shares and messages of support from their national peers.
Whether meaningful change is enacted from the emotional response remains to be seen, but thousands of students without the power to vote are doing their very best to make their voices heard.
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hello good friend,bear with me because this is going to be a lot of text.....so i know this girl from my friends group, she isnt part of the group anymore but was a few years back when se dated one of the guys out the group...all the time i had known her she had a boyfriend so i simply had no interest whatsoever. but a few months back she broke up with him and moved to another city to start studying...at the end of march/start of april we had a birthday of a mutual friend the group was quite big and it was held in a local pub so lots of people to talk to and laugh with but she clearly showed an extra amount of interest in me.now i want to state i am 21 years old and never dated a girl in my life for the most simple reason: i never met a girl that could get it going for me so i never took the first step of approaching etc etc etc...around half past 3 in the morning she decided to leave because she was tired, i was completely hammered so saw no good coming from me bringing her home. and we didnt see each other for about a month and a half.now there was a party in my town and she also decided to go. the evening before the said party we (the girl, my friends and i) did go to a kind of preparty and had fun but nothing happend between me and her, the next day right about 2 oclock we started drinking at a friends house, now the flirting and teasing became really clear to me and continued until the night ended. i walked her home and gave her a "kiss" but i needed to rush home because i had to work within a few hours.next day i wake up got a text from her (she was in a groupschat with my friends) she enjoyed the 2 days and thanked me for bringing her home, she invited me to a party at her place the next week. we continued texting that whole week (i know i know, but i didnt have any experience at all so keeping the texting up was a big big step for me)and then friday evening i drove with 2 friends to her place, we grabbed a bite to eat and had a few drinks before heading off to the party... oowyeah and had my first ever kiss and first kiss with her when we were in her room (nothing memorable other than intertwined fingers while walking the way back happend)when we got back my friends (2 only this time) sat another hour or so before they decided to go home... the girl and i didnt feel like ending the night so we decided to go to a bar in town to just have fun and drink something (i was with the car and as i am a trucker i dont drink and drive so for me it was no alcohol and for her neither as she didnt drank it because i couldt also)when we got back at her home we started kissing for about a good half an hour or more and then i drove home...next day woke up had already gotten a few text and was quite feeling the man to be honest... i really liked her.she was going on vacation that sunday so she needed to do a little shopping, we decided to see each other 2 weeks later.later that day my friends and i were chatting about having a bbq and because she was still in the chat she started to say it was a nice idea etc so i texted her "you want to come?" she did and i brought her.. my friends drank quite a few beers that night and were misbehaving to say the least... yelling etc so my friends parent werent happy. she kissed me infront of my friends so i thought we were quite comfortable... also the teasing involved her saying she had alot of options and asked where my side chicks were... she sometimes openly texted another guy infront of menext day we teased a little back and forth because she was on the bus... but then my friends started complaining in the groupchat about the mess of the night before... even though they didnt mean she was involved she took it rather personally and texted me she couldnt handle the drama and though it was best to just let be... she even canceled the "date" we had in 2 weeksi texted her monday to feel it out but got a cold response so didnt do anything with it and stopped texting her...wednesday she texted me she was having fun and was sorry she couldnt text as much because she had only wifi in the lobby and asked how my week was going...told her a few things just the minimal because i had no idea what to think of the situation... but she seemed a lot colder then before so i was tired of this and told her i had fun the last 2 days and would like to see her again suggested an activity and a timetable...she said she enjoyed the 2 days but she didnt know if she was up to the drama with all thos old friends etc etcto explain her ex spilled every detail of their relationship so she was seen as quite a slut for sometime...i texted her i understood and that if she wanted to do something together she could text me.. to put the ball in her court so to speak....that was the last thing we texted to each other and it has been a week ago... now i am a truckdriver so i have A LOT of time to think.... and its driving me crazy to be honest.my questions are these:do i contact her? bear in mind i have only spoken or texted her, not called or whatsoever.if i dont... how do i get her out of my mind because when i am working (about 10 to 15 hours a day) i cant get her out of my head....thanks for reading this huge amount of text and hope you have some light on this matter... via /r/dating_advice
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