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best 6 books you've read so far this year go

yasss let’s go

1. chlorine by jade song

2. nothing burns as bright as you by ashley woodfolk

3. before we were blue by e.j. schwartz (dAmn these first three books…I really do have a type)

4. the lesbiana’s guide to catholic school by sonora reyes

5. conviction by kelly loy gilbert

6. boys don’t cry by meghna pant

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pls this is so kind of you, such important content 🤩 luke jumping this railing is now the number one best thing that’s ever happened (besides the life changing experience of seeing him perform his album live but u know).

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ARC Review: Say You'll Be Mine by Naina Kumar

4/5. Releases 1/16/24.

Vibes: fake dating but with good reasons, heroes with daddy issues, and justice against "that guy who's soooo nice and great and he won't make a move but I love him" guy

After finding out her longtime friend and crush (well, maybe more than a crush) Seth is engaged, Meghna decides to move on. I mean, she's going to be his best man--it's time. Although she doesn't hit it off with the grumpy Karthik, she is willing to take advantage when he agrees to be her fake fiance. She looks fully moved on from Seth, and he gets to shake his mom off his back. There isn't any drawback, right? Right?

This is a light-but-not-too-light contemporary, with a winning main couple and an emotional authenticity that was both engaging and... gentle? For want of a better word? Will please both the fake dating lovers and the haters (me).

Quick Takes:

--I have a real soft spot for a book where the heroine realizes that the guy she thought was THE shit, who never really made the kind of move she wanted but took advantage of her attention (keeping her on the hook, essentially) is... not the shit. This is one of those books, and it has the added nuance of Seth having zero real respect for Meghna's background and culture. It's not just that he doesn't really know her--it's that he doesn't even want to make the effort to get to know her on the most basic level.

That said, Meghna never comes off as pathetic during the story, which is honestly a credit to the way Naina Kumar writes and handles the story. She's vulnerable, yes. She's in denial, yes. But she's not pitiful. (This is also because Meghna is kind of a classic endearing romcom heroine--Say You'll Be Mine does read an actual romcom, which definitely can't be said of a lot of romcom books at the moment.)

--Karthik is a lot pricklier... and I imagine that some people may find that frustrating. But two things to consider: firstly, his prickliness makes it more satisfying when he gradually melts with Meghna and becomes emotionally connected to her. Secondly, his reasons ring true. At least, for me they do.

Karthik fundamentally does not want to emulate his parents' troubled marriage. He'd rather hold himself at arm's length, staying closed off to love, than risk recreating what they have (we love to read about men with daddy issues). As a someone from a ~broken home~ he really came off as authentic and relatable to me. He's not not overly angsty, he's really not an asshole. But he has walls, and they're deeply rooted in his childhood.

And I mean--again, I think it's incredibly important for that block to be there. This is overall a sweet, soft book, but Karthik's inner turmoil (and of course Meghna's relationship or lack there of with Seth) keeps it from being without stakes.

Ultimately, I want to stress--this is a really sweet romance. You feel that sense of knowing and comfort slowly rise for these two, until the extent to which they value each other is really clear. It's very comforting and kind of cozy, which works for this time of year especially.

The Sex:

The sex is sorta quiet here--just one more euphemistic scene towards the end, preceded by another kinda low heat over the pants action moment. (Which I did like a lot.) However, it does remain quite romantic, if not super steamy.

I really enjoyed this gentle yet entertaining romcom, and I especially liked Naina's writing style. She has a strong voice, and I definitely want to see more from her.

Thanks to Netgalley and Dell for providing me with a copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

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Hardshippers and what they write on bananas:

Silence: Those who do not remember history are doomed to repeat it or death's head from Puritan gravestone iconography

Ethan: I wish I had this in 1:6 scale or Time to make banana bread!

Harry: FABULOUS!! or Is that a banana in your pants, or are you just happy to see me?

Missy: It was Colonel Mustard in the conservatory with the ham sandwich.

Truth: 01101001 00100000 01100001 01101101 00100000 01100011 01101111 01101111 01101100 [I AM COOL in binary]

The Magister: NOMEN EST OMEN [A name is a sign {of a person's character}] or AUT REGENERE AUT SERVIRE [Either rule or serve]

The Stylist: Be gay; do crime.

The Hippie: [musical score growing flowers]

Night: [zombies or ichor-covered skulls]

Day: [detailed landscape cleverly incorporating natural variations in coloration on banana skin]

Allison: [little doodles of Black women with natural hair or two interlocking lesbian symbols]

Theo: This banana climbed Mt. Mansfield or THEO + ALLISON = <3 .

Meghna: RUNNER'S HIGH!!! or stick figure jogging

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SUNDARBAN - AMAZON OF THE EAST

The Sundarbans, a UNESCO World Heritage Site, is the largest mangrove forest in the world, located in the delta region of the Padma, Meghna, and Brahmaputra river basins. Spanning across India and Bangladesh, this unique ecosystem is renowned for its incredible biodiversity, including the elusive Bengal tiger, saltwater crocodiles, and numerous bird species. While the allure of exploring this breathtaking landscape is undeniable, many potential visitors often wonder: Is a Sundarbans Safari safe?

The Sundarbans is characterized by its dense mangrove forests, intricate waterways, and diverse wildlife. The terrain can be challenging, with its tidal rivers and swampy areas presenting potential hazards. Understanding the environment is key to ensuring a safe safari experience of your Sundarban tour package. The region's wildlife, especially the Bengal tiger, adds an element of excitement but also requires visitors to exercise caution.

One of the most important factors influencing the safety of your Sundarbans Safari is the choice of tour operator. Opting for a reputable operator that has a track record of safety and environmental stewardship is crucial. Look for operators who:

Have Experienced Guides: Knowledgeable guides are essential for navigating the complex terrain and understanding animal behavior. They can help you avoid dangerous situations and enhance your overall experience.

Follow Safety Protocols: Responsible tour operators will have clear safety protocols in place, including emergency procedures and guidelines for interacting with wildlife.

Prioritize Conservation: Operators that focus on conservation efforts not only contribute to the protection of the ecosystem but also provide a more responsible and sustainable tourism experience.

Wildlife Awareness and Safety

The Sundarbans is home to a range of wildlife, including the iconic Bengal tiger. While sightings can be thrilling, it’s important to remember that these are wild animals with unpredictable behavior. Here are some safety tips for your Sundarban Package tour:

Maintain Distance: Always keep a safe distance from wildlife. Your guide will provide instructions on how to behave around animals, especially if a tiger is spotted.

Stay in the Boat: When on a safari, remain in your boat unless directed otherwise. Leaving the boat can be dangerous, particularly in areas known for wildlife activity.

Follow Guide Instructions: Listen carefully to your guide’s instructions. They know the area and its wildlife best and can help you navigate safely.

Health Precautions

Aside from wildlife, health precautions are also essential. The Sundarbans is located in a tropical region where mosquito-borne diseases such as malaria and dengue fever can be prevalent. To protect yourself:

Use Mosquito Repellent: Apply insect repellent with DEET or other effective ingredients to exposed skin and clothing.

Wear Appropriate Clothing: Light, long-sleeved clothing can help reduce mosquito bites. Consider wearing pants and closed shoes to protect against insect bites and rough terrain.

Stay Hydrated: The humid climate can be draining. Always carry water and stay hydrated throughout your safari.

Weather Considerations

The weather in the Sundarbans can be unpredictable, with the monsoon season typically running from June to September. Heavy rains can cause flooding and make travel difficult. The best time for a safari is usually from November to February when the weather is cooler and drier. Here are some weather-related tips:

Check Forecasts: Before your trip, keep an eye on the weather forecasts to avoid traveling during adverse conditions.

Prepare for Change: The weather can change rapidly, so pack waterproof clothing and gear just in case.

Safety Gear and Equipment

Before embarking on your safari, ensure that all equipment and safety gear are in good condition. This includes:

Life Jackets: Make sure that life jackets are available for all passengers on your boat.

First Aid Kit: A basic first aid kit should be part of your safari equipment to handle minor injuries or health issues.

Communication Devices: Guides should carry communication devices to contact authorities in case of emergencies.

Cultural Considerations

Understanding the local culture and respecting the communities that live around the Sundarbans is also part of a safe safari experience. Engaging with local communities can provide valuable insights into the ecosystem and wildlife conservation efforts. Here are a few cultural safety tips:

Respect Local Customs: Learn about the customs and traditions of the local communities and engage with them respectfully.

Support Local Businesses: Consider purchasing local crafts or food items, which can enhance your experience and support the local economy.

Emergency Preparedness

No matter how prepared you are, it’s always wise to have an emergency plan. Discuss with your guide what to do in case of various emergencies, including:

Wildlife Encounters: Know the steps to take if you encounter a dangerous animal.

Health Emergencies: Understand the nearest medical facilities and how to reach them.

Weather-Related Issues: Be aware of how to respond in case of sudden weather changes, such as storms or flooding.

A Sundarbans Safari of your Sundarban tour packages can be a thrilling and enriching experience, offering a unique glimpse into one of the most remarkable ecosystems on the planet. While safety concerns are valid, many of these can be addressed through careful planning, choosing reputable operators, and adhering to safety protocols. By respecting the wildlife and environment, and taking health and safety precautions, you can ensure a memorable adventure in the heart of the Sundarbans. With the right preparation, you can explore this beautiful region safely and responsibly, creating memories that will last a lifetime.

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Shri Venkateshwara University marked Anti-Tobacco Day by organizing a seminar & awareness rally highlighting the harmful effects of tobacco consumption

Shri Venkateshwara University and VIMS Multispeciality Hospital marked Anti-Tobacco Day by organizing a seminar on the detrimental effects of smoking and tobacco consumption.

Renowned doctors took part in the seminar to educate the public, especially the youth, about the harmful effects of tobacco consumption and advised them to avoid using tobacco.

Further, we conducted an awareness rally to ban smoking & tobacco in the entire country.

The Venkateshwara Group Founder President Dr Sudhir Giri, IAS Mr. Rajesh Tyagi, Pro Chancellor Dr Rajeev Tyagi & the ADM Mr. Surendra Singh inaugurated the event by lighting a lamp to Goddess Saraswati.

The Additional SP Mr. Rajeev Singh, Dr BN Singh, Dr Mahendra Singh & Dr Habib Ur Rehman joined them to unveil the seminar & awareness rally on the occasion of Anti-Tobacco Day.

Dr. Sudhir Giri, the Founder President of the Venkateshwara Group, emphasized that the students and faculty members at both the Gajraula and Meerut campuses will organize an awareness rally and urge people to quit smoking altogether.

Under the Healthy India Campaign, VIMS, & Shri Venkateshwara University will jointly conduct the anti-tobacco campaign.

The keynote speaker & outgoing CMO (Haryana Govt.) Dr Mahendra Singh informed that how dangerous tobacco consumption is can be gauged from the fact that every year over 70 lakh people lose their life because of smoking. Out of these, over 40 lakh fall prey to pulmonary cancer alone.

Dr Mahendra Singh is presently working as Associate Professor in the Department of Community Medicine.

Mr. Rajesh Tyagi, the DM and IAS Officer, confirmed that the Venkateshwara Group not only provides outstanding higher education but also promotes social causes for the welfare of all.

The Pro Chancellor Dr Rajeev Tyagi affirmed through the message No to Smoking Yes to Life the Venkateshwara Group will appeal the Government to ban tobacco in the country.  

Renowned Doctors Dr HK Singh, Dr MK Banerjee, & Dr Namita Jaggi from Delhi also addressed the national seminar. Later, the students conducted street plays on the harmful effects of smoking & appealed to people to quit smoking.                

Those present included Dr Habib Ur Rehman from the Department of Community Medicine, Programme Coordinator Dr BN Singh, HOD Dr Mahendra Singh,& the Assistant Chief Spokesperson Dr Alankrita Jain.

Dr Rupayan, Dr Komal Saini, Navneet Kumar, Vikas Kumar, Manish Kumar, Gajendra Singh, Pravendra Kumar Bhartiya, Rahul Agnihotri, Arvind Kumar, & Sudesh Chaudhary were all present.

Also present were Aniket Pant, Hammad Ali Ahmed, Misal Ahmed, Fardeen Aftab, Farzana Bano, Samia Farheen, Meghna Panwar, Shagufta Khan and the Media Incharge Mr. Vishwas Rana among others.

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As India slowly wakes up to the horrors that were inflicted on eight-year-old Asifa Bano in January, collective outrage is gathering steam. New hashtags are trending every day. Horrifying details about the crime are emerging to shake us out of our consciousness. Armchair activists are leading the shout to get justice for Asifa.

Rightly so. It is impossible not to be moved to tears after reading the terrible details about the Kathua rape case. From being drugged, to being gangraped by men who wanted to ‘satisfy their lust’, to being strangled and bludgeoned to death in two horrific attempts, to her tiny withered body being dumped in a forest, Asifa was treated to inhumanity that is unimaginable. Like many others, I am also walking through my days unable to shake off her brutalised face. How can our nation produce such depraved souls? And how can they be protected under the guise of religion and nationalism? How did we go from #BetiBachao (save our daughters) to #BalatkariKoBachao (save our rapists)? Today, we are seeing the true face of India and it is ugly.

Protesters demand justice for Asifa. PTI Photo

But what is even more disgusting is to call Asifa 'the new Nirbhaya'. Why? Because it shows us that we haven’t learnt our lesson. We haven’t had enough. We haven’t changed. When we call another rape victim by the name of India’s most brutalised rape victim, it shows us that we’ve made peace with the brutality of rape and with what happens to its victims. How can we reduce the victim of rape to a moniker?

When the Supreme Court awarded a well-deserved death sentence to the four convicts who brutally raped, mutilated and murdered 23-year-old Jyoti Singh Pandey, we called it a ‘day of victory’ for India. The death sentence was supposed to send a strong message to rapists and perpetrators of sexual violence. It was supposed to stop them from committing further heinous crimes. It was supposed to set a precedent for India. It was supposed to demonstrate that India could protect its sisters, daughters and mothers in a dignified and fair manner. It was supposed to be the beginning of justice, equality and safety to all the women in our country.

But, did it? Look at where we are now. Back to square one. Where is the change? There is none. It would appear that Jyoti Singh’s verdict has taught us nothing. Our candle marches, our protests, our outrage, has come to nothing. The relentless work of selfless activists, lawyers, citizens, and NGOs, who fought long and hard to ensure justice, has meant nothing.

Because today we are still seeing incidents like Kathua and Unnao. We are still reading about horrific cases like Rohtak, Jisha, Bilkis Bano, among many others.

Because we really haven’t had enough, have we?

We read incidents of rape every single day; obviously because a woman is raped every 20 minutes in our country. Yet, we react only when the rape is grossly heinous. Our anger is as cheap as our lives. As a nation, we’ve become desensitised to rape. We still need gross human violations to have our collective conscience shaken. We still need brutality to be inhumane for us to realise our humanity. We quantify rape as ‘good rape’ and ‘bad rape’ and make time only for the rarest of rare cases and the most brutal of brutal crimes. We forget that rape is rape, and should be met with revolt, no matter what the severity.

In Saudi Arabia, they behead men for rape. In China, they castrate men. In North Korea, it’s the firing squad. And we — the rape capital of the world — just seem to love our rapists. We are lenient with the way we punish them. Our great ‘Anti Rape Bill’ requires proving offense beyond a reasonable doubt, while giving the accused the benefit of doubt. We do not have effective laws; they exist but are not implemented, like the POCSO Act. We have a low rate of conviction. We do not use stringent punishment. We even fight against capital punishment for men who treat the lives of women as flimsy. We do not use fast track courts. We have only one judge for every one lakh people. Our schemes help women in distress after the crime is over, not to prevent crime. Knowing all this, the rapists take a chance. They continue raping, because they know there’s a bigger probability that they’ll walk away scot-free than be indicted. If there’s no punishment to a crime, why will the criminal stop?

More so, we glorify rapists by saying ‘boys will be boys’. When Mulayam Singh Yadav says ‘boys make mistakes’, when Abu Azmi says ‘even women are guilty (of being raped)’, when ML Sharma says ‘there is no place for women in our culture’, we make them household names instead of punishing them for incitation. We normalise rape in our culture. Bade bade deshon mein aaisi choti choti baatein ... hoti rehti hai, right? (Small squabbles happen in big countries).

This subversion is demonstrative in the new video by The Quint where we see the cavalier attitude of men and women, boys and girls, about rape. From saying it is consensual to saying ‘ek haath se taali nahin bajti’ to saying that girls are responsible for getting raped, it shows us the pervasive attitude in Haryana about rape. We’ve made it a ‘culture’. And, no. This is not about Haryana. Or Uttar Pradesh or Jammu and Kashmir. This is not about Hindu rape or Muslim rape. This is not even about the BJP or Congress. This is about what we've become. Nothing but animals. Because we continue to make women the repositories of shame in these matters. Because it is women who remain victims even after so-called justice has been delivered. Because the extent of violence and inhumanity of sexual assaults against women is not only continuing, it is increasing.

So what about Nirbhaya is there to really be proud of? Yes, the December 2012 case was considered a landmark verdict, the second of its kind in India after the Shakti Mills gangrape case. Yes, it provided retribution not just to the rape victim but also to our nation’s outraged citizens. Yet, one of Jyoti Singh Pandey’s rapists, the juvenile who allegedly inflicted the most serious wounds, is now free. We haven’t even put to use the Rs 3,000-crore Nirbhaya Fund to improve the safety and dignity of our women. Isn’t justice delayed, justice denied? Clearly not enough has been done in the case for us to nonchalantly evoke 'Nirbhaya' again.

'Nirbhaya' means fearless. The only people who were fearless in Asifa’s case were the perpetrators — the rapists who did the crime and the police who covered up the crime. How can we equate the two? 'Nirbhaya' evokes dignity, at least in death if not in life. Let’s give Asifa that, in death if not in life, before we call her 'another Nirbhaya'. Let's scream and shout and protest until we get justice for Asifa. Let’s do that before we become dead as human beings. Let's do it before we fail all the women in our country.

Asifa is not 'the new Nirbhaya', because there should be no 'Nirbhaya'. Let’s never forget that.

The writer is an award-winning author, columnist, feminist and TEDx Speaker. She tweets @MeghnaPant

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kuppu i am sick and i need book recs that i can finish in a day. also i lob u

why is everyone I know falling sick 😭

1. oyé by melissa mogollan (it's so fun and emotional and amazing)

2. these letters end in tears by musih tedji xaviere (devastating)

3. dial a for aunties by Jesse q sutanto (hilarious and will keep you hooked)

4. the subtweet by vivek shraya

5. we are okay by nina lacour

6. final draft by riley redgate

7. boys don't cry by meghna pant

8. star-crossed by barbara dee (this one is middle grade and soooooo wholesome and gay)

9. pretty little liars (it's trash but ADDICTIVE trash. perfect sick read. also surprisingly progressive for 2006)

10. nothing burns as bright as you by ashley woodfolk (in verse but so so beautiful)

ok I also have a bunchhh of plotless sapphic romances but I don't think those are your thing so I won't list them lol. lob u too get well soon da

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times like this I wish I could draw bc I'm picturing him in football padding but the shoulder pads are bread loaves

oh i LOVE the idea of protective bread padding. i also can't draw but i took the liberty of playing a bit of paper dolls in an attempt to bring this concept to life.

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Feminism is not about being a ‘type’. It’s about exercising your own choice of representation, discourse and agency.

- Meghna Pant, Feminist Rani

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Meghna Kaur (shetroublemaker) back to her usual habit of making trouble in our pants😍 (Enhanced and Edited)

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Bhojpuri songs abusing Rhea Chakraborty float on social media - Times of India

Bhojpuri songs abusing Rhea Chakraborty float on social media – Times of India

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Rhea Chakraborty became the target of a vicious hate online campaign recently when several Bhojpuri songs abusing her were released on the internet, recently.

The music videos, which were also shared on several other social media platforms, blame Rhea for actor Sushant Singh’s death, call her names and even threaten her with rape. The offensive songs have been viewed several thousand…

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Meghna Pant: Duality

“I festered with this duality of love and ego, where ego scorns the very love its seeking and then despairs in its absence.” —Meghna Pant.