#makingmylifebetter

[makingmylifebetter]

https://www.tumblr.com/makingmylifebetter/760330756889395200/shippers-be-like-jk-cant-be-with-tae-bc-why?source=share

i saw this take of yours and i genuinely felt like finally someone who'd ask real question or wonder the same way Shippers actually should.

The way no one asks why was jm playing WHO to jk in AYS after it's pretty much done. and if not for the show maybe jk wouldn't even have listened to it before it's release?? I'm still not over the "If it's not for the show we wouldn't be meeting" and "When i was free i didn't called you (look for u or wtv translation shippers wanna use) and when you were free you didn't look for me" because that does tell something. U know there were time where jkk had time off together yet they didn't look for e/o for example when jm and hobi went to jin to meet him at his base the same time jk had his day off and he was probably out with tae for bowling (There were pic circulating of TK on the same day jihope went to jin so ppl assumed it's most probably from same day and a day before jk also said he's having a day off and jm also was live and said he's going to jin with hobi) So when they said that they didn't look for eachother when they were free this example does prove it atleast for ME. I'm not saying ppl should be up e/o's business 24/7 but there are things that ppl should know about e/o if you're going to consider them couple. forget about couples bro jungkook didn't even bother going to any of jm's MV set or music show. what's disappointing is jm didn't ask any other members to visit him again but did only to jungkook when he stopped by at jm's practice but jk despite being free couldn't do that. idk how after hearing their convo in the car anyone thinks they were still couple at that time.

https://www.tumblr.com/makingmylifebetter/761577410630221824/more-and-more-disillusioned-with-shipping?source=share

Imagine one member telling jk he's missing him and jk going to meet him be it from sk or from US doesn't matter (and i know jen was with tae in that Hawaii trip because ppl already had seen them in Feb 2023 at that time so i ain't even making it about TK and Jkk romantically or anything) VS jm telling him to visit him again which is their own comp at hybe but jk didn't. i know it's not my place to feel bad/disappointed on behalf of jm because at the end of the day they're good friends and have Enlisted together but knowing how much these little things mean to jm idk if he was disappointed or not or maybe he wasn't expecting anything from jk in the first place because jk does help jm in other forms like jm asked jk to do the bg vocals for letter and jk did so Maybe he doens't expect anything else but still knowing how much jm has been there for jk throughout the yrs, was with him before his debut in NYC, said sorry to jk that he couldn't make it to jk's mini concert and all one would expect something from jk but alas. We all know jm was more busy given he was working on 2 Albums and had more involvement in them than jk so jk could have made some time for jm as well given he's spent alot of time with tae nd his frnds plus his 97liners so i expected him to make some time for jm as well.

I expected many possibilities like one not being in this that head space or them taking time away from e/o but thing just never adds up.

Anyways, in all my yrs of being in jkk spaces i never thought of them as they're dating but i always thought they were the closest of all members but what happened since last year idk if i consider them even that. They're good friends who share some common interests and who care/love eachother like other members do.

Im glad this resonated with someone else.

The thing is idk what I think.

1 I’m new to BTS.

And 2 it’s very much not that serious to me. Like I have my own theory abt their relationship (imo they dated or hooked up or whtv, either way they were romantically involved a long time ago though, they haven’t been in a looooong while). But that theory takes up less than 0.00001% of my brain. I don’t really think abt it, I don’t really talk abt it much, it doesn’t hold any meaning in my life bc I know these are real people with complicated lives that I know virtually nothing about.

What I do know if that shippers take it way too far and it leaves me - a grown woman who’s a member of LGBTQ community living in a homophobic country - very uncomfortable. They’re invasive, delusional, take an extremely voyeuristic approach to others personal lives and don’t take “no” or “I don’t want to discuss it” for an answer. That they do t accept any new information that doesn’t fit their narrative. They don’t leave just at “I think they’re together” but go on a crusade to prove it (as if they could).

Ig I just feel like I don’t belong in any of these ARMY spaces bc I’m not a shipper but I’m also not completely against even jokingly insinuating abt them dating anyone and I’m also never going to say that they’re perfect and above criticism but I also love them dearly. These posts were just mostly abt me and how I come to terms with it all.

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[the-scrunchymamalife]

So I found this on my computer in one of the folders that their father uploaded from his phone. This was taken May 11th, 2017. This depicts what and how my life has been since majority of Odyns life. I have both kids, always. This was before our major issues came to surface. We have never recovered since. I have never had a picture taken of me/us where I have not taken it myself. I was very surprised to have found this, though it doesn't change anything, I'm happy to have this one picture of my life. #momlife #athena #odyn #mylife #thepasthurts #singlemom #icandothis #makingmylifebetter

[krystallaine85]

#truth #godisgood #godknowswhatsup #makingmylifebetter #uright #mybad

[lookalivelove]

Welp!!!!

I think things are looking up!! Still hard but I finally know my work is paying off!!!!

[thehighlife1990]

What are you afraid to try? I was afraid to get back to the gym after my son was born. Afraid that it would hurt to much or that the pouch was going to be there forever but I tried and I remember how I love the gym and then I decided to become a #beachbodycoach. It may be hard and it may seem like a lot of work but helping others is my passion. I'm a recovering anorexic and being healthy actually eating is a great accomplishment and I want others to see how healthy eating and workouts can help them as well. #beachbodyfitness #coach #healthylifestyle #gymlife #fitfam #sharingmyloveforhealth #makingmylifebetter

[lifelikeabarbie]

More adulting going on today, cleaned out all the un worn stuff from my closet, this pile is clearly ridiculous. Phase 1 of 2016 resolutions to declutter my life in full swing! This was my January goal and I am actually sticking to it! #howiamspendingmysaturday #clutter #cluttermustgo #makingmylifebetter #wintercleaning #iownwaytomanyclothes #whydoifightitiwearthesameblackteereligously

[lookalivelove]

There is NO REASON

Okay, so I am writing my paper I will do some of my husband’s work for him I will go to work tonight Maybe I will go for a jog tonight or tomorrow

Tomorrow I have my job interview I have my suit and paperwork all ready I have thought about the interview questions It will happen or not happen, whatever

Right now I am going to just write this paper and drink a cup of water

[lookalivelove]

I have

Not smoked in 12 days Gone to yoga every day for four days in a row Kept up on everything kinda Bought and eaten fruits and veggies Went to church last week, going today So, like, I'm doing it, right?

[lookalivelove]

Okay this day

Was muuuuuch better But still scary Scary forever Or at least for the next two weeks I ate all the food in the house but I don't care fuck that not my number one concern bro I went to yoga I didn't smoke I'm doing homework It's fine just fine baby

[lookalivelove]

Today so far

Is still scary, but I am getting it done bro

[lookalivelove]

Today was

Stupid, garbage day. But I went to yoga I didn't smoke Tomorrow is scary

[lookalivelove]

I did not smoke

I had a job interview. I went into the city. I got dressed. I did it again today, friends

[lookalivelove]

I am making my life better

Three days no smokes Organized my closet Did my homework Helped husband with his homework Have a job interview tomorrow refuse to be scared