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What are the ROs MBTI if you dont mind me asking, along with other characters ☺️
that emoji is so menacing, it's like you're pointing a gun to my head fr 💀
ronan bennett: INFP // the healer. cinnamon roll. pure and simple. most of the things that keep him up at night is thinking about how he can find a way to rehome every orphaned animal in the world. he will definitely cry if he comes across an injured baby animal and while they get necessary treatments in the veterinary clinic (which he drove to at 2 in the morning), he will be sniffling outside and overthinking everything. i would go as far as to say ronan is the waymond wang of the TCS universe, honestly.
célia dupont: ENTJ // the commander. she is definitely not the kind of person you'd wanna cross. besides the fact that she has been brought up all her life to fill the role of the CEO for her family's company, she is a natural leader and tolerates no nonsense. one of the only exceptions to her criticality and cool wrath is the MC who rarely ever faces her ire. célia is scary to almost everyone who works under her, which also doesn't help as she loathes those who bow and lick someone's shoes to get up the high charts. think blair waldorf or jude duarte but a lot less bloodthirsty.
s bakkoush: ENTP // the debater. was this even a surprise? cocky. smart. charismatic. they tick all the boxes for the aforementioned personality. they love engaging in banter with almost anyone when it comes to random things that neither of them would even remember the next day. S is also very competitive, never backing down from a challenge and always aiming to win. this attitude of theirs had greatly helped them in their career but hasn't made them too popular among their competition. but honestly? they do not care about that a smidge 💀 their personality is reminiscent of nick wilde and hange zoë.
i tachibana: ISTP // the virtuoso. their personality is largely individualistic and pragmatic. this all stems from the fact that they has spent most, if not all, their life fending for themselves. it was a ‘survival of the fittest’ kind of world for them and it didn't do their reserved and short-tempered nature any favour. tachibana is also very distrusting, and once their hard-earned loyalty is lost, it is lost forever. while the MC just chips away at the walls they have built, you can tell that they've complicated feelings about it along the story. levi ackerman and katniss everdeen would pretty much come close to summing up their personality.
as for the other characters, these might be a bit skewed cause i had to scratch my brain for them a bit:
james whelan: ENFP // the campaigner.
nebetah: INTP // the logician.
phaidros: ISFJ // the defender.
[redacted]: ISFP // the adventurer.
#asks#ronan is just like my gf lmao#makes sense cause i have a soft spot for INFPs#honestly i'm not very good at this MBTI thingy#but this is the best i could do 💀#bonnie nonnie#ro: ronan bennett#ro: s bakkoush#ro: célia dupont#ro: i tachibana#also heyyyy#how y'all doing#these crimson strings#ch: james whelan#ch: [redacted]#ch: nebetah
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Are there any functions youd wish you were best at or ones you perfer?
Good evening, anon! :)
In other people, I usually prefer Fe cause it makes communication so much easier as everything that's happening suddenly just makes absolute sense to me. Funnily enough, none of my closest friends are actually Fe users (an ESTJ, INFP and ESFP). But I typically have a soft spot for other FJs and do wish that I was a bit more secure in my Fe in a less chameleon-like way because I adapt too much to other people and always lose myself in doing so. Generally, I think I'm pretty strongly leaning into my lower Ti, which is only natural considering that I grew up in an NT household, and I find that we often tend to be a lot like our siblings or any other closely age-matched peers we spend a big lot of time with growing up. But when I compare my Ti skills to that of TPs, I do notice that I approach my Ti in a very Ni way and wish it was a bit more of a Ti-y kind of Ti, if that makes sense, especially because a lot of TPs often have quite an odd reaction to me (not in a bad way, just odd) and I want to live up to whatever expectations they have of me. With Se, this might sound a bit strange, but I actually like it as underdeveloped as it is. I mean, yeah, it does make me awkward and it surely didn't do me any favours in PE class back in the day, but engaging with our inferior functions is often a bit child-like in a good way and I like interacting with the sensory world like a child seeing it for the first time. You see wonders more clearly when you're oblivious to the everyday life. With Ni, I don't really know, to be honest. I don't notice my Ni all that much cause it's just the most natural thing in the world to me. I wish I had a bit more conscious control over it, but that's Ni, you know. I only really consciously notice it when I see it in other NJs and my mind just goes "Oh look!!! You're as deranged as me!!!! I love you!!!!!"
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✨MBTI Types as Movie Characters🎥
The Diplomats🎙✊ (NFs)
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ENFJ, The Protagonist
Professor Xavier // The X-Men Franchise
A franchise based on a fictional minority who struggles to fight for their rights and even their lives seems the perfect place to find an ENFJ at its core. Whether it's Patrick Stewart's older more suave performance or James Mcavoy's young passionate and fervent, Professor X, you can really see an ENFJ in their element. While even mundane everyday life can be brighten and motivated by Protagonists, they truly shine within struggle. Professor X's leadership skills are only a small part of his ENFJ aura. His ability to to understand and help each of his students and X-men is an ENFJ super power of their own. One act that comes not from a desire to be liked by others, but a genuine want to better other's lives. The passion and vigor portrayed especially by James Mcavoy's younger Xavier, is another clear indicator of a Protagonist. And I think we can all agree only an ENFJ would be lying at the feet of one of the most powerful villains ever imaginable without their powers OR wheelchair while half their team is out of the fight and STILL not loose hope or belief in their cause or their people. [see X-Men: Apocalypse]
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ENFP, The Campaigner
Captain James T. Kirk // The Star Trek Trilogy
While William Shatner's OG Kirk from the original series and that timeline's movie series, is probably more of an ENTJ, Chris Pine's rendition of the iconic Captain James T. Kirk in the new Star Trek Movies is absolutely an ENFP. Based around an alternate timeline, we see a different Kirk, one who grew up without a father and rough and lonely childhood. Not that this is a recipe for creating an ENFP, but it's a very different life than the OG Kirk had, making it clear this is set in an alternate timeline. In the first installment we see a very immature and unhealthy version of an ENFP. Kirk gets into bar fights by making smart remarks at a few Starfleet cadets, sleeps with random women, and unwittingly hits on his future Communications Officer. Through the movie he goes from so many different positions aboard the Enterprise (at one point even being shot out in an escape pod and stranded on a remote ice planet) it would make your head spin. This chaotic plot line shows Kirk's character development into becoming Captain. It's in the second and third installments we see a healthy ENFP in their prime. Kirk continuously puts the welfare of his crew and even a society of tribe like aliens, above his own. His "gut feelings" are usually in support of ideas that seem insane and dangerous to his first officer, Spock, (a definite INTJ) though always for a good or necessary cause and these ideas always work out one way or another. Kirk's deep care for his crew, chaotic actions, hilarious and utterly charming demeanor, and unbridled enthusiasm, makes him a fantastic portrayal of the Campaigner.
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INFJ, The Advocate
Remus Lupin // The Harry Potter Film Series
One of the best characters in the world famous fantasy book/movie series, David Thewlis does a fantastic job at capturing the INFJ that is Hogwart's defense against the dark arts teacher/werewolf. While Remus was only a teacher at the school of witchcraft and wizardry for a single year, he was one of the most impactful on the protagonist's character development. The teaching position of defense against the dark arts changes with every movie, usually aiding in the continuing plot line, and Remus is without a doubt the best one at the job. Not only does he become a mentor to Harry, but we also see him give each of his students (not just the famous ones) his full attention. The rare Advocates (only making up 2% of the population) have their own magical ability of sorts, in where they can intuitively read those around them and find what will help/inspire them; sometimes seeing something in that person, the person may not even see in themselves. Remus opts for a style of teaching that is best for each individual and doesn't rely on traditional conformity. In the third movie (his debut) we see the professor use a magical trunk that harbors a bogart, a magical entity that will transform into your worst fear. In his first lesson, he not only teaches his students to confront their worst fear in a safe environment (as he's by their side), but also teaches them to turn it into something ridiculous. While giving the young witches and wizards some truly INFJ wisdom. By barring the realistic nature of fear itself, he explains that even though fear will always remain with you that doesn't mean it can't be beaten or overcome. His vital role in the later movies as the voice of reason and the voice that always values the humanitarian principle (standing up for what's right), while still struggling to battle his own demons (lycanthropy of a corporeal nature) and never making it about himself, is a level of emotional organization Advocates do as second nature. With Lupin's wise diction, tranquil cadence, inner battles, and emotional intuition, he makes the perfect candidate for the INFJ spot on this list.
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INFP, The Mediator
Luna Lovegood // The Harry Potter Film Series
Another beloved character from the Wizarding Franchise, one of Harry's closest comrades, played by Irish born actress Evanna Lynch, the soft spoken Ravenclaw is a fantastic embodiment of a Mediator. She maintains a special and pivotal role in Harry's life. While he has Hermione to give him captain obvious analytical slaps in the face and Ron to serve as a reliable and dependable comrade; Luna provides Harry with much needed breaks from the intensity of the on going events, honest answers, and genuine reassurance. While most assume reassurance only comes in the form of compliments and agree-ability, Luna (and INFPs in general), show us sometimes you just need someone to tell you, you're not crazy. Her fierce friendship contains some of the best that INFPs have to offer. No matter if it's as a platonic date to a dinner party or fighting off Death-Eaters in the Ministry of Magic, we see her continuously be there for Harry, without even a second thought. And perhaps the thing that seals the deal for her INFP representation, is the ongoing relationship with the other students who over and over again grossly underestimate her, as her eccentric and unique conceptual ingenuity ends up providing some of the biggest plot developments of the films.
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[note: stay tuned for the sensing thinkers list]
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Congrats on 4K! Can I get a romantic 🎫 please for maze runner and Harry Potter male characters? I go by E, (she/her) I’m an INFP Sagittarius. I’m small and rather petite with mouse brown hair, blue grey eyes, and freckles. I’m introverted but can be loud and exciting around people I’m very comfortable with. I prefer to keep my circle small, finding it hard to make good friends, but once I do I’m loyal and willing to be there no matter what. I love music, movies, reading and writing and tend to get trapped in my head a lot. I’m typically quiet but am pretty sarcastic and my sense of humor takes some getting used to. I am optimistic almost to the point of being naive but I just choose to find the good in people and situations. Thank you!
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I ship you with....
Gally
- Meeting Gally was one of those things where you genuinely didn’t know where you would be had you not experienced it. Meeting Gally, to you, was like meeting your soulmate. You were both so similar and seemed to fit so well together
- At first encounter when Right Arm decided to take him in, you were both wary of each other. He was one of WICKED’s lab rats as others refereed to them as and Right Arm was just casually taking him in? To say it took you guys a bit to get used to the change was an understatement.
- When the two of you finally managed to soften up around each other, you were a delightful pair to both be around and see together.
- On missions after the two of you became closer, maybe even more than friends though neither of you agreed or denied, “friends”, Right Arm noticed just how well the two of you worked together. With Gally being apart of the on-site team, physically going to the site and al, you stayed behind working on the behind the scenes. The mastermind and soldier if you will
- Not only did Right Arm’s success in missions skyrocket after the two of you stopped fighting whenever in a five meter radius of each other, but you were all able to find his old friends again. Gladers as they called themselves but despite Gally being more than happy to help them, you were more hesitant on trusting on.
“One of them literally punched you in the face.” You argued after the Gladers had left for the two of you to talk.
“I deserved it really, I wasn’t the nicest person back in the maze.” Gally said as he rubbed his jaw, wincing ever so slightly as he did so causing for you to frown. “I’ll be fine, I promise. I’ll come back once we get back Minho.”
“I know, because I’m coming with you.” You replied. Gally crossed his arms across his chest.
“It’s dangerous-“
“And you’re going, so why can’t I?” You retorted causing for Gally to sigh.
“Fine! But no fooling around.” He reminded you before opening the door. “I don’t want to explain to these guys what your jokes mean, they’re quite clueless.”
I also ship you with....
Ron Weasley
- Ron always admired how your loyalty and talents from afar until one day he was paired up with you for a class. It was then that he finally got to talk to you in person.
- It was awkward it first, for him mainly since he kept trying to spew out random topics in hopes of you engaging in a conversation with him but you would keep your responses to a minimum. Over the course of a few more weeks however, he learned that you just needed some time to get used to him before opening up
- He was never one to be that into music or any of the arts really, but he had a soft spot for you and happily listened to anything you told him to with no complaints. His friends were impressed but also annoyed that he’d do anything for you in a bat of an eye meanwhile they’d have to wait for what felt like ages before he finally read that new story that came out or listen to that song they think he’d like.
“You’re whipped for her mate.” His brother, Fred teased one day as they walked towards the Great Hall for dinner.
“Who?” The oblivious red head asked, causing for his brothers to groan.
“E! Who else?” George replied. Ron seemed to brush it off, not quite believing what his brothers were saying until you walked by and shot him a quick smile before heading to your table. Meanwhile, Ron stood frozen in place with a lovestruck smile on his face.
“Smitten.” His brothers said in unison, breaking him out of his trance like state.
#idk how i feel about the hc im sorry lol#jens record shop#jens 4k follower celebration#(🎫) concert tickets#harry potter ships#harry potter matchup#the maze runner ships#the maze runner matchups
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Good evening my liege! 💖 I was intrigued to find out about you while diving deeper into tumblr hell so, I am here with a plead to ship me with nct and svt, of you'd be so kind ���
Alright so for starters, I'm an infp! I'm a generally well-mannered person with people I meet for the first time, borderline sweet and awkward at the same time. I like not to overinvest in first meetings with people and sometimes I think I am somewhat defensive of myself. My emotions always show on my face, both the good and the bad ones. So if someone does say something that I find offensive or whatnot, it SHOWS. I generally hate rude and offensive people all together, as well as people who are vulgar if we're not well acquainted first.
I'm not good at starting conversations and I usually just tend to listen to my friends talk most of the time. It's not like I have nothing to say but I really like listening to my favorite people ramble on about things they love or generally talk about their lives. Im a pretty good listener and I am always objective, even with my family. I won't hold back and I will give you my honest opinion in every case. I always try to see from all perspectives, maybe that's why I'm often somewhat indecisive.
That being said, I really don't shut up about things I love or my hobbies. I'm usually the mood maker of the group as I hate conflict and tension. I am a very sarcastic and cynical person in general and that reflects on my humor, which can vary from vulgar to very dark and inappropriate. Yes, the type of person that will try to hold in their laughter cause I made a mental joke to a funeral. I love witty, stimulating and deep conversations. I'm not that big on casual chitchat but it's okay most of the time I guess.
I'm the personification of open-minded and im also quite opinionated and I can back up my arguments if needed but I tend to avoid getting into heated conversations cause again, my mind reads it as tension. I love being around friends doing nothing and everything but most of the time, I find alone time to be very healing for my mind and soul. I find authenticity and weird little quirks that people have extremely attractive. I'm somewhat stubborn as well.
I also used to have stress and anxiety issues, not anything serious but enough that I had trouble sleeping at night. It was just a few years ago that I decided to not care about every single thing and have a more of a "fuck that" approach in life and honestly, I've never imagined that it would be so liberating. I regained my confidence, physically and mentally, it was an empowering process! I really do believe that self-exploring and healing is the no1 most important thing that someone can do. Love yourself first and foremost and fck what anybody thinks.
So, moving on xD I am a romantic and soft deep down, even though I try not to show sad emotions when around people. But you can be sure I cry at random rescuing dog videos, or videos with people helping each other. I love humanity but hate it at the same time? 😂 Idk if that makes sense, it is what I feel lol I love to learn new random stuff! I'm currently studying linguistics and uni and I aim to be a translator or interpreter, cause i love languages and the cultural differences that come with it. Hence my undying love for music of different genres and languages! Music relaxes me and I couldn't imagine going on without it for more than 3 days. While I do tend to listen to kpop which is more upbeat and experimental, I also LOVE Latin music and rock. I love love traveling around the world! My hobbies include drawing which I'm self taught, fashion and creative writing! I tend to daydream A LOT during the day and so many ideas pop up in my head. I love exploring other cultures' religions and beliefs as well as mythology. I always found it fascinating. I love plants as well! My room is basically a garden xD I also love mystical but also borderline creepy and gory stuff xD I call skulls "pretty" the same way I would call a puppy "cute" 🤣 I'm aware οf that but I can't help but enjoy the look of horror in people's faces xD
oh, I really enjoy observing people as well! Not in a weird way! Their mannerisms, the way they speak, their features. I also love thriller and horror movies the most as well as dark social drama ones. You know, with murders, suicides etc I like how in even the tiniest ways they depict our society as people and frankly, it's sad but I try to be optimistic and keep a positive approach in life. I also really appreciate stand-up comedy xD
Closing up this huge essay, some last things xD I, and I cannot stress this enough, am unable to flirt. Like at all. I can't even maintain eye contact for more than two Seconds. I wish I was kidding. Sadly I'm not 😂Weird thing is, turns out I am actually able to flirt but I'm not aware I'm doing it?? I'm a master at text flirting apparently lololol. What I am, is also called DENSE AS SHIT when it comes to couple things. True story, if you want to do the freaky with your s/o and you need me to leave the room you better TELL ME RIGHT TO MY FACE or else, we gon be there aaaaall night xD And its actually a remarkable feature of mine, considering how dirty minded I usually am lol
I also think I'm touch starved sometimes, like I really like hugs and cuddling and teasing but I'm not gonna ask for it🥺I'm a night owl and I tend to procrastinate a lot. I can't work efficiently if there's not a deadline, like I need that pressure on me in order to function xD My weak spot is actually to act whiny and needy and cutely in front of me. I can do ANYTHING that u ask me of when this happens. And if I show any resistance, JUST KEEP IT UP. I'm jelly on the floor when this happens. Idfk why, it just works?? My sister is abusing the sht out of this method 😭I can't say I make friends easily, cause I believe I do come off as maybe off-putting or weird at times, plus as I said if you're really cant shove your conversation in my face the first time we meet, imma be just an awkward ball of giggles and smiles and "can I go home now pls" 🤣 My general aesthetic / vibes would be sunsets on beaches, soft grunge, cottage core, lofi and hedge witch aesthetics!
Okay so, I think that's everything and probably way more than u needed, so thank you for reading everything my stupid ass wrote❤️
hi! thank you for responding!
for nct, i think yuta would be a nice fit! yuta also likes rock as his favorite band is one ok rock which is a rock band. i feel like you guys would always listen to music (not always rock) and would enjoy making time go by like this!
for seventeen, i think you would match well with the8! the8 would be the type to enjoy exploring new cultures with you and new religions, he would also love to dress up with you and put together outfits with you!
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Hi! It's me again. I'm sincerely sorry for botching up the previous request application. So I'm sending in a better one for a bedroom matchup if that's alright.
I'm a 5'3" bisexual (male lean) female. Golden brown wavy hair till my mid back. Reddish brown eyes. Caramel complexion. Full lips. I also love a little mole on my lower lip on the left side. Lean hourglass. (Like I'm not curvy cause I'm chubby or anything, I'm curvy cause that's how my bones are shaped if that makes sense). Pisces and Slytherin. INFP-T personality type (Turbulent Mediator). Oh I'm a switch with a submissive lean.
Okay so in general, I'm drawn to people who have a strong personality. It could be anything, kindness, passion, dedication, intelligence. Anything that makes a person's personality stand out. I like to think myself to be open minded. I don't judge people. So I guess I'm also drawn to the mysterious and the bad boy type. Cause it's thrilling and intriguing to piece those kind of people together bit by bit. So I guess ppl who know how to keep me busy and occupied with fun and exciting things are on top of my list. This may sound a little selfish but the reason I like to be occupied is so that my mind does overwhelm me. The less I have to think for myself the less likely I'm to spiral out. So yeah I guess in the bedroom too I'll like to have someone who knows how to keep me grounded. I'm insecure about my looks and my mind. I keep fretting over that if someone sees me like how I see myself they'll think of me as a disappointed so in the bedroom I usually end up giving more than necessary. Sometimes I end up giving too much. Anyway since I'm a little submissive it's easy to get me to try new things I'm not against it or anything. But I'd like to have certain boundaries setup perviously. I'm not usually a brat. Until I'm extremely tired then I might say mean things that I don't mean. But if you call me mean things in the bedroom I'm for sure gonna cry. Like I've said before I get overwhelmed easily so the littlest of intimacy gets me all warm and fuzzy. But that being said I don't mind being manhandled from time to time. Also I actually look forward to aftercare. Nothing too dramatic maybe just some cuddling. Guess what I'm trying to say is that I like a good blance of soft and rough in the bedroom.
Sorry for making you do this again but your matchups are just *chef's kiss*.
Hello and welcome back, darling! The house is a lot cozier when you’re here (੭*ˊᵕˋ)੭* Let’s pick up where we left off - into the bedroom we go! ٩(◕‿◕。)۶
For some private time with you, I’ve invited over...
(Runner up: Ojiro Aran)
Our foxy captain is a very no nonsense type of person. He may come off as cold and stoic, but he’s really just unbothered my trivial things. He strives for improvement daily, and ensures he goes through the motions before reaching perfection.
- The main reason I chose Kita is because you mentioned that you always end up giving more than you can manage. Kita is, I believe, the only one who will REALLY, TRULY want ONLY what you can give, and will never expect anything more than that
- To him, there’s no point to sex if it isn’t perfect for the both of you, and how can it be perfect if you’re giving way too much of yourself?
- Would never ever take advantage of you. NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS!! Even if the opportunity presents itself, even if you offer yourself up, even if you say you can handle it - HE WILL NOT!!!
- He knows your limits better than you do, and is super careful in his approach when it comes to bedroom stuff
- Will constantly ask if you’re okay, and CAN tell if you’re not being truthful
- Feel free to communicate not only your wants, but also your needs. He will keep your boundaries close to his heart, and he will adapt to all of it, figuring out how to make things feel good for the both of you without crossing any lines (and if there’s anyone who can do this, it’s Kita)
- Peppers you with kisses and holds you close, no matter what position you’re in
- If you’re feeling a little adventurous or in the mood to be rough, he can totally see it in your face. He’d smirk and REVEL in your naughtiness for the night
- Kita Shinsuke manhandling you in the bedroom? Omigod I’m legit swooning 😩😩😩 ( ・ิω・ิ)
- Takes care with switching positions, flipping you this way and that, but puts just the right amount of pressure to make sure his grip is pleasurable
- He isn’t loud but he is breathyyyyy boyyyyy 🥺
- Once you guys have more experience in the bedroom, he’s perfected navigating your body. He knows all your sweet spots, so he’s capable of making you crumble at even the softest of touches
- Aftercare would be something he takes very seriously. This is something you two will never skip, because he thinks every step of this is necessary to ensure that was not only satisfying, but also safe
- Will hold you protectively afterwards. I imagine he also wants to talk about the sex, asks what could’ve been better, what went well, etc (yes, like an evaluation LMAO)
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So sorry for the long wait on this, my darling! I hope that met your expectations. Please feel free to visit again and again!
Thanks for stopping by! (ノ´ヮ`)ノ*: ・゚
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Match up (◕‿◕✿)
nAdDy sEnpAi if you’re still doing ikevamp matchups, could you do mine pleaseee 👉🏼👈🏼, school’s been really hectic and i need a pick me up 😔😔 here’s my updated info hehe 😚
I’m a female on the libra-scorpio cusp and a Slytherin, I used to be an ENFP but now I’m an INFP. Appearance-wise, I’m 5'2, i’ve brown eyes and caramel brown hair. I also wear glasses and I’m also quite tanned from being out in the sun all the time.
Personality-wise:
- I can be really enthusiastic about stuff I’m really interested in, such as history (especially world war history), sciences (but physics is trash to me) and anime (I’m a closet nerd hehe) .
- I can be really ambitious and competitive, and I would sometimes place unrealistic expectations on myself, leaving me mentally exhausted and stressed, but like i place these unrealistic measures on myself to strive to be the best
- I do try to chill and take it slow, but you know, sometimes i just can’t 😅
- I’m quite an open book to all my close friends
- I also tend to be really possessive, like I dont like people purposely trying to steal my friends (it happened a lot of times before) and i hate it when someone randomly butts into a conversation i’m having with anyone, especially if it’s a deep conversation
- I can be really awkward around people i don’t click with, but around people i click with, i can be pretty wild and will be able to hold conversations with.
- I tend to procrastinate a lot, and people say i look intimidating but i don’t feel like I’m intimidating.
- I can be really sensitive to other’s emotions and i tend to put others before me, so like my close friend always told me that i’m too much of a giver, like I try to please everyone else and ignore myself
- My love languages are physical touch and quality time
- I can’t stand people who are attention seekers or just aim to be public nuisances as i feel that they’re just really irritating and it gets on my nerves, especially those people who are just doing stupid things to be popular (which is lowkey why i think tiktoks dances are dumb, like seriously i dont get the hype, but i do like tiktok meme videos tho)
- I listen to a lot of different genres of music, but i especially love classics (mozart and chopin are my favourites) and pop.
- I can really insecure at times, because i always feel that every other girl out there is better than me and i’m just a plain and ugly, and partially because i got bullied when i was younger about my appearance
- I like dressing up and putting on makeup occassionally, but i do act like a tomboy most of the time (ie. I hate skirts, like i really dont like them and i have no idea why, but jeans are supreme).
- I also love playing the piano and singing as well, even though i’m not that good at it :D
- People tell me that I’m very curious and persistent, constantly pushing until i get answers, but i do know my limits.
- I’m also very passionate about things I love, and i would do anything to protect people that i care and love.
- I’m also very affectionate and supportive towards my close friends and people i love. - I do have trust issues and I often feel like i do not deserve love and that I hate people who betray my trust.
- I’m ok with pda, but not anything overly affectionate, like hand-holding and kissing is ok, but not making out 😳😖
- I also tend to be pretty forgettful, and i’ll not eat for hours to get my work on hand done (whoop pretty unhealthy but :0)
- I’m also really sarcastic when i want to be, and i can’t hold a poker face to save my life (i swear i always start laughing like 2 seconds in) and I tend to sass people a lot, especially if I’ve had a bad day
- I’m also pretty fiesty and I hate people stereotyping me for my gender (i.e like when someone says that “oh you’re pretty good for a girl”) like what does my gender have to do with my ability? Like there is zero correlation
- My sense of humour is kind of twisted at times but i really love memes and i tend to crack inappropriate jokes sometimes
- I’ve been told that i come across as really flirty to some guys but it’s because i can be really touchy feely to my friends
- I’m also quick to anger, especially if i have a bad day, i hate people who nag and i hate people who put down others
- I’m kind of touch-starved, so i really like hugs and cuddles, but I’m also ticklish so my friends tend to tickle me when hugging me
- I can be a daydreamer at times, like I would get stuck in my own fantasy world when i shouldn’t 😂😂
- I’m also a drama queen around my friends, I dont have a lot of them in real life because of some rumours that others spread, so i only have a close circle of friends i really treasure and would do anything for them
- I also tend to bottle up all my anger and negative thoughts, and would sometimes like explode on others even though I don’t mean to
- Sometimes I don’t really think before I say or act, which is why sometimes I can come off as a bit rude or unfeeling but it’s just me and my impulsiveness
Fun Facts:
- i really love food, especially sweets (dark chocolate and dango is my life)
- i really hate horror movies (I’m usually pretty brave, but horror movies just get to me so much ergh) but i love chick flicks and adventure flims
- I’m also a hopeless romantic, which is why even little romantic gestures can make my heart flutter
- My hobbies are reading, writing and shooting (only air-rifle though)
- I used to be pretty athletic, I still am, but to a lesser extend now, because i injured my left knee playing volleyball in the past. It’s on it’s road to recovery, but it still hurts quite badly when i overexert myself.
- I love artic foxes and cats, dogs are too energetic for me 😅
- I’m also a sneaker hoarder and I love collecting and wearing sneakers hehe, heels are like torture devices for the feet i dont care even if they make me taller
- Coffee over tea anyday, no offense to peoples who like tea, but a fresh cup of brewed coffee is one of the best things in the world 😚
- I’m really terrible at drawing, I’m not gonna kid you. When i was younger, my art teacher threatened to fail me because im really terrible at drawing. 😂
- I’m also very injury-prone and a bit clumsy, which caused me to have bruises occasionally
- I’m kinda bad and math and physics, but like if you take your time to explain to me then I’ll understand a bit more lol, my best subject is like chemistry
- my ideal date would just be cuddling with my boyfriend, and either watching a movie together or bookshop date hehe
uwu i would be super grateful and happy if you did my matchup uwu thank you sm sending you all my love and hugs and cuddles 🥰💖💕
Hi hi, lia! ❤I’m so happy ya requested! 😆Hehe, I hope you enjoy it love, and I hope this cheers ya up! Love ya lots, and I hope you enjoy it! ❤😊
So I match you with……………. Isaac
Oh, the first time Isaac spotted you in the dining room, introducing yourself to everyone, he was paralyzed with fear. You quite possibly looked more intimidating than anyone he has ever met in his whole entire life, and that’s saying a lot considering you were standing right next to his pure blooded vampire, sire. Comte spotted Isaac hiding behind the doorway of the dining room, peaking in to catch a glimpse of their new guest. You instantly turned around when you heard the blond vampire beckon, someone closer, whose name you know all too well. He had been the cause of endless amounts of math and science homework over the years.
Your eyes locked with his for a split second, but moments after you met his rosy eyes he darted them to the ground. “I-s-saac Newton, n-nice to meet you.” You gave him a shy smile and took his outstretched hand and shook it, before you could even say a word, Arthur budded in and interrupted. An action which caused you to feel slightly irritated, Isaac looked up at your face and saw that you were starting to become awkward with being the centre of attention. The two of you still held hands when the physicist decided to pull you into the kitchen with him to give you a moment of peace. You smiled when he is a very soft meek voice confessed that he didn’t really like crowds or loud people, a little fact that the two of you bonded over. And before you knew it, you and Isaac were now sitting in the kitchen chatting away in a deep conversation about your mutual dislike of overcrowded places, bullies and plain old public nuisances.
The next day you decided to curiously explore the mansion. You came across a great big library, and you felt as excited as a kid on Christmas day. They had every and any book you could possibly wish for. You decided to spend the day doing something you absolutely loved, and that would be... reading. You had found yourself an old outdated science book, and you were honestly so fascinated at how little had changed in terms of scientific principles over the years. You were so invested in the book you were reading you didn’t even hear Issac walking in. He was on the hunt for his little hedgehog.
You were awoken from your book reading trance when you heard the sound of a vase smash against the floor. Startled you turned your head towards the loud crash only to see a very distressed looking Isaac. You are naturally sensitive to other emotion, and very much a giver, so it only took one glance at Isaac’s troubled face to prompt you into action. You noticed that he had cut himself on the fallen vase and he was now down crouched on the floor trying to retrieve his terrified hedgehog, who had gotten himself caught at the bottom of one of the large bookcases.
Wordlessly you laid on the floor beside Isaac and peered under the bookcase, when you spotted little Harry cowering in the dark corner tangled in a ball of wool. Your hands and arms were much smaller than Issac’s, so you were easily able to reach under the bookcase and secure the little hedgehog. Both of you sat up as you cradle the scared little animal in your hands, trying to untangle the wool that was wrapped around his body. “My God, Harry, I was worried sick about you, please never disappear like that again.” both you and Isaac breathed a sigh of relief at the now rescued critter.
That is when you looked up and noticed that Harry wasn’t the only hedgehog who had been injured, “Isaac, your hand!” You stood up and offered Isaac a hand up, you then gently took his hand in yours and led him to your room. You sat him down on your bed and gently started treating the injury as Harry had made himself comfortable, now sleeping on your pillow. While treating Isaac’s injury, you started chatting away with him. You could see him blushing profusely from embarrassment so you decided to tell him about the book you were reading before the whole fiasco. At the mention of the science book, Isaac instantly perked up and met your enthusiasm ten fold. After his wound was wrapped and treated, the two of you sat in deep conversation for the second time that week, chatting all about science and your mutual love for the subject. And that my dear friend is how you and Isaac had become good friends
Since that day, it wasn’t uncommon for the two of you to be sitting across from each other in the library, reading away. Usually, Harry would be nestled in your lap as you and Isaac enjoy a quiet afternoon together. Some afternoon the two of you would just simply sit in silence and read while other afternoons were filled with laughter and conversation between the two of you cuties.
As the days went on Isaac had noticed a very curious fact about you, and that was how forgetful you were. He had noticed that you would go hours and hours without eating or drinking something which strangely enough, was the exact opposite of him, who required minimum routine of five meals a day. It was this curious observation that had started the habit of the two of you dining together every day. Something which both of you really enjoyed, especially now that the two of you were determined to find the best sweets in all of Paris. Every day without fail, at lunchtime you and Isaac would go out to town to try a new cafés for lunch and sweet. These café crawls usually involved Isaac showing you around Paris, visiting book stores together and leisurely walking beside the Seine. You honestly loved spending time with this hedgehog, who had seemed to have completely opened up to you.
Isaac loved your inappropriate jokes and twisted humour and would bust out into uncontrollable laughter whenever you would crack a joke. One time as the two of you were sitting on the fountain’s edge eating some ice cream, you saw a man falling up stairs. As hard as you tried, you couldn’t keep a poker face, it just wasn't in you, especially when Isaac had just witnessed the exact same scene and was now looking at you and snickering. Of course, being the sweet angels you were, you rushed to see if the man was alright, however, your walk home with Isaac was filled with jokes and endless laughter of the days events.
Ooh how Isaac had fallen head over heels for you, his favourite thing in the world was to hear you sing and play the piano. He would silently walk into the piano room whenever you played, and just let the beautiful sounds wash away his weariness of the day. He would shower you with endless compliments, even more so, when you would deny them, saying that you aren’t that good. These playful little banter fights usually end with him tickling you. He usually won’t give up until you admit that you are the best singer and piano player in the whole mansion. Cue Mozart walking in like challenge accepted.
The night Isaac finally confessed his feeling for you was on, one warm summers night. The night started of with Isaac taking you out to watch a musical concert. He knew just how much you love music. Before he had met you, he had never really bother taking the time to listen to music, as he had always been far to absorbed with his own work, to stop and smell the flowers. However since meeting you, he found himself utterly enjoying going to the opera and musical concerts and letting himself just get absorbed by the sound of music. He loved the way your eyes gleamed as you watched and listened to the performance.
After the concert, he lead you out into the garden, where his telescope had been all set up. The two of you sat together and stargazed while Mozart played some romantic classical music in the background, which was arranged by the resident hedgehog himself. Somewhere between the beautiful sight of the stars and the gentle melody playing in the background. Isaac build up the courage to finally reveal to you just how madly in love he was with you. He then produced a bunch of red roses out of thin air and resting in the roses was a card with a hand-drawn meme ( courtesy of Sabastian) asking you in the most hilarious way to stay in the past with him. The two of you met in a sweet kiss and the rest of the evening was spent cuddled in each other’s arms under the stars.
Both of you are pretty touch starved creatures, so expect to be cuddled, snuggled, kissed and hugged whenever Isaac comes across you. Like if Isaac spots you in the garden hanging laundry he will give you the biggest hug from behind, kiss your neck and then tell you how much he loves you, before he is off with Napo to teach the children.
Don’t worry about your impulsive behaviours, bottled up emotions or a quick temper. Isaac might be new to the whole human behaviour thing but he is very in-tune with your emotions and he will instantly pick up when you are feeling upset or angry. He will aim to fix every and all problems immediately, especially if it is causing you hurt or upset. This also counts for when you are over stressing yourself, about putting too high an expectation on yourself. If he sees you getting angry, stressed or frustrated, he will pull you into his arms and gently stroke your hair, you can’t be angry when you are being so gently held and loved. Isaac will sit an listen to all your troubles.
He always encourages you to communicate whenever you are having negative emotions so he can help you through it the best way he knows how, with cuddles. He would usually make you a cup of coffee and pull you into his lap and cuddle you, as you unpack everything and anything that had upset you that day. He will patiently listen and leave small little kisses on your cheeks to remind you that he is there for you and will support you no matter what
He loves your competitive side, even more so when you use it to win a bet and beat Arthur. HE also loves how open-minded you are. The two of you often teach each other new skills, for example, you have been teaching Isaac how to shoot while Isaac has been patiently teaching you maths and science.
He low key loves how possessive you are and is just as possessive over you. He absolutely adores you and will remind you of that every single day.
He loves holding your hands and giving you small kisses on the cheeks whenever the two of you go out together. He honestly can’t believe it when you feel insecure about the way you look, “You are honest to God, the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met.” Will tickle you and shower you with kisses and loving words whenever you are feeling insecure about yourself.
He will always snicker when your feisty side comes out. Like whenever you sass the men at the banquets for spewing gender based stereotypes and being ignorant. Once they have been put in their place, Isaac while still laughing at the hilarious smack-down you just gave the ignorant men will always give you the sweetest kisses, “God, I love you so much.”
Isaac legit loves everything about you from your quick temper to your clumsy streak. You best be sure this hedgehog is ganna be right by your side whenever you clumsily injure yourself. He will legit sweep you off your feet and nuzzle into your neck, all while making sure you didn’t injure yourself too severely.
This boy loves you to the moon and back and would do anything to make you happy. If you are overexerting your injured knee you best be sure he will piggyback you to his room and do everything in his power to ease away the pain. Even if that means taking a soothing hot bath with you.
Often the two of you cuties can be found cuddled together, each reading their own book. Both your love languages are physical touch and quality time so Isaac is happiest when you are nestled near him simply spending some good quality time together.
Other potential matches…………. Comte
I hope you have the best day lia! Sending ya all the hugs! ❤❤🌻 @i-sleep-like-napoleon
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Can you please type the members of loona ?
Awww yes,I like them a lot !!! Although I haven’t seen them that much interacting or just existing, so here are my guessings, some of them are likely to be changed, others I’m 100% sure!
MBTI LOONA
Heejin - ISFP
This girl is the embodiment of ISFP girls, she’s kinda bohemian creative, chilling and peaceful but also a dork lmao. Everything she does is aesthetic and.. most important, she uses Fi clearly to me. She knows what it is right for her and what is not, and she seems like the kind of girl who would stand up firmly for her values.
Hyunjin - ISTP
I spotted her MBTI type like 0.2 seconds after knowing her lmao. She’s silent, introverted and unattached but she’s also super savage and sometimes even harsh. She’s extremely independent and her Se is so obvious. She’s competitive and likes sensitive pleasure (e.g. EATING A LOT). This is a stereotype but she’s kinda tomboyish also, although her image in LOONA is like super delicate, we all know the real Hyunjin…
Haseul - ESFJ maybe ENFJ
I haven’t seen yet a clear proof of her using Si or Ni, but I’m leaning towards Si because of… statistics lmao. And also, usually, you notice when someone uses Ni because they’re… pretty “special”. Anyway, Haseul is a mother, she’s extroverted and always like to have fun with girls, to take care of them… and she has also that “dad-ish humour” that we usually relate to ExFJs . Also, she uses Fe all the way, she’d go down a cliff for other’s feeling before her own :(
Vivi - IxFx ??? Maybe INFx
Vivi is a mystery to me. I only know she’s Introvert for sure, but although she seems timid or shy, she actually has confidence in herself and she gives me the vibes of a woman with a strong hidden temperament, which leads me more to INFJ than INFP, who are more likely to be soft-tempered. Anyway, when I get to a conclusion, I’ll update this!
Yeojin - ESxP (probably ESTP)
Yeojin is still very young but she’s for sure extraverted, physically active, daring, striking and engages with the very moment, aka SHE USES SE for sure. What leads me towards ESTP and not ESFP is that she has confidence we usually see more in ESTP females (eg. Compare Red Velvet’s Joy (ESFP) with CL (ESTP)). Yeojin has strong confidence in saying what she wants and I don’t see the characteristic sensibility/empathy that healthy ESFPs have.
Kim Lip – ESTJ
Kim Lip is literally a dad. Like, if Haseul is the mom, she’s the Dad. She is sometimes harsh and always straightforward, and doesn’t hesitate to call her members out. She’s usually the one obsessed with cleaning, organizing and getting the shit done in LOONA, so she uses Te for sure. She also talks A LOT so she’s clearly extraverted and structured. I don’t see in her any patterns to think she uses Ni so, ESTJ.
Jinsoul - INFP
This pure soul is INFP for sure. Like, she is unbothered half of the time, the other half she’s in the clouds. Also she’s extra af because she doesn’t care what others think about her as well as she is being happy and being good with everyone. She speaks really slowly, as if she’s chewing all mixed thoughts she has all at a once, so she’s more likely introverted. Also she’s not that oriented to lighten up the mood as her ENFPs fellows, she’s just happy in her bubble. To me, her Fi is so soft but it’s there, and her Ne is pretty obvious ‘cause she’s… so random and weird lmao.
Choerry – ENFP
Another pure soul who lives to brighten up the moment. She does not bother for ANYTHING???? At first, I thought she could be ESFP because I didn’t see her that Intuitive but after I while I decided to type her as ENFP because of his unreal optimism. Choerry also lives in her own world but she wants everybody to be part of it, that’s why she shares all her thoughts and spreads love anywhere she goes. Lovely and lively!
Yves – IxTx ???
THE BIGGEST MYSTERY IN LOONA IS MISS HA SOOYOUNG. I only know she’s introvert because she doesn’t share his feelings and thoughts that much, neither is talkative in general. She has like a cape around her and that’s why I think it’s the most difficult to type. Yves sometimes seems organized, comparing her with the other LOONA members, but that’s because she’s pretty mature. So I wouldn’t say yet she’s xxxJ, ‘cause I also see her engaging well with the scene, the present moment and her senses (ISTP?). She’s feminine, determined, brave and driven, and doesn’t seem very emotional, so I leaned towards her being a Thinker too. But… if you ask me, I can see her being more INFJ than INTJ. That’s all I can say.
Most likely types??? ISTJ, ISTP, INFJ.
Chuu – ENFP
Almost the same description as Choerry, they are both the sunflowers of LOONA. She’s so demonstrative, caring, squishy and loveable!!!! Also, she never gets mad and their ideas come up to her without warning so she uses Ne a lot.
Go Won – INTP
Difficult one also but probably INTP. Introverted, shy, reflexive, has an extra side… just as Jinsoul but she’s less emotional and demonstrative. Struggles with talking in public. She keeps most of her thoughts to her. She’s pretty calm also, doesn’t like drama, conflict or attention.
Olivia Hye – ISTJ
My girl!!! She’s pretty young too but I’m sure about her type. Hyejoo is level-headed and determinate. Ambitious and at the same time, independent. What makes me think she’s ISTJ and not ISTP is that she takes things very seriously, like, she’s so hard-working and detail-oriented. Also this is a personal opinion but a lot of females ISTJ have a seductive aura because of their confidence and resolution, an aura that I can easily see in her (e.g. Solar from MAMAMOO)
thank you for asking!!!
I love MBTI and kpop soooo if you have any more questions??? hehe
#loona#loona mbti#kpop mbti#loona mbti types#kpop mbti test#girl groups#heejin#hyunjin loona#haseul#vivi#yeojin#jinsoul#choerry#kim lip#chuu#yves#olivia hye#go won#mbti#answered#ask an esfp
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How INFPs & ISFPs Process Emotions
How INFPs and ISFPs Process Emotions
INFPs and ISFPs are extremely concerned with maintaining emotional integrity and inner harmony. They have very deep, powerful emotions and values that they adhere to in every aspect of their life. They are guided by their personal morals and strive to live an authentic life. While their emotions are strong and deep, they are very private and they don’t readily share them with anyone.
INFPs and ISFPs use their emotional understanding of themselves to connect with others. They can easily empathize with people by imagining how they would feel in various situations. They are deeply concerned with the objects of their concern, and they tend to take up the cause of people they feel are oppressed or misunderstood in some way.
When IFPs spend time with others they love to connect on a very deep level. They have very little interest in small talk or gossip. Emotions don’t scare them and they are capable of deep personal understanding.
These two types are very focused on authenticity and are less concerned with social niceties or saying or doing anything that is inauthentic just to make other people “feel good”. They will be who they are, and although they prefer harmony, they are more concerned with staying true to themselves. They have an independent set of morals and are less influenced by external pressures or environmental values. IFPs have a strong belief in personal freedom and expression, and they tend to be soft-spoken unless one of their values is violated.
How they make decisions: When IFPs make decisions, the first thing they consider is their values – “Does this align with what I feel is right? How will this affect others? How will this impact me? How does this experience broaden my own personal understanding?”. IFPs will also consider the feelings and desires of others, but they place more importance on staying in tune to their values and personal morals and beliefs.
How they handle their own emotions: IFPs are very private about their emotions. They have a strong awareness of what they feel, and can easily identify their emotions. They like to process emotions on their own and may retreat into a quiet place where they can deal with them independently. They often like to channel their emotions into some creative form; writing, artwork, poetry, dancing. They need to be allowed to have space and quiet to ponder how they feel, make sense of things, and find solace in their own ideas and thoughts.
How to have a good relationship with them:
– Be as authentic as possible. These types are very quick to spot phoniness, and they can’t stand anything fake.
– Respect their emotional experience and their values. Listen when they talk about their values and the causes that they believe in. These are extremely important to them.
– Don’t be afraid to talk about your emotions with them or be honest about your need for emotional privacy.
– Do not dismiss their feelings as ‘irrational’ or silly. Remember that their emotional intelligence is a strength, not a weakness.
– Be careful and gentle when dishing out criticism. Remind them of what you do appreciate about them.
– When they need to discuss their feelings or problems try not to ‘fix’ it for them. This only will make them feel worse. Just listen and acknowledge their feelings.
– Give them space and time alone to sort out their feelings.
– Don’t gossip around them. They hate gossip. (other types: source)
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How INFPs and ISFPs Process Emotions
INFPs and ISFPs are extremely concerned with maintaining emotional integrity and inner harmony. They have very deep, powerful emotions and values that they adhere to in every aspect of their life. They are guided by their personal morals and strive to live an authentic life. While their emotions are strong and deep, they are very private and they don’t readily share them with anyone.
INFPs and ISFPs use their emotional understanding of themselves to connect with others. They can easily empathize with people by imagining how they would feel in various situations. They are deeply concerned with the objects of their concern, and they tend to take up the cause of people they feel are oppressed or misunderstood in some way.
When IFPs spend time with others they love to connect on a very deep level. They have very little interest in small talk or gossip. Emotions don’t scare them and they are capable of deep personal understanding.
These two types are very focused on authenticity and are less concerned with social niceties or saying or doing anything that is inauthentic just to make other people “feel good”. They will be who they are, and although they prefer harmony, they are more concerned with staying true to themselves. They have an independent set of morals and are less influenced by external pressures or environmental values. IFPs have a strong belief in personal freedom and expression, and they tend to be soft-spoken unless one of their values is violated.
How they make decisions: When IFPs make decisions, the first thing they consider is their values – “Does this align with what I feel is right? How will this affect others? How will this impact me? How does this experience broaden my own personal understanding?”. IFPs will also consider the feelings and desires of others, but they place more importance on staying in tune to their values and personal morals and beliefs.
How they handle their own emotions: IFPs are very private about their emotions. They have a strong awareness of what they feel, and can easily identify their emotions. They like to process emotions on their own and may retreat into a quiet place where they can deal with them independently. They often like to channel their emotions into some creative form; writing, artwork, poetry, dancing. They need to be allowed to have space and quiet to ponder how they feel, make sense of things, and find solace in their own ideas and thoughts.
How to have a good relationship with them:
– Be as authentic as possible. These types are very quick to spot phoniness, and they can’t stand anything fake.
– Respect their emotional experience and their values. Listen when they talk about their values and the causes that they believe in. These are extremely important to them.
– Don’t be afraid to talk about your emotions with them or be honest about your need for emotional privacy.
– Do not dismiss their feelings as ‘irrational’ or silly. Remember that their emotional intelligence is a strength, not a weakness.
– Be careful and gentle when dishing out criticism. Remind them of what you do appreciate about them.
– When they need to discuss their feelings or problems try not to ‘fix’ it for them. This only will make them feel worse. Just listen and acknowledge their feelings.
– Give them space and time alone to sort out their feelings.
– Don’t gossip around them. They hate gossip.
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