#mainly bc i fear someone will come in my dms

[goodwitchhour]

stephen nedoroscik boyfriend headcanons

requested: yes / no

summary: what the title says baby !!!!

cw: idk man it’s mainly just some fluff!

notes: quickly wanted to do this while writing all of your stephen requests!! promise they’ll be up soon but uni is taking up a lot of my time for the next two weeks would also like to add that I am not, in any way, trying to disrespect stephen OR his 8-year relationship (tess ur an icon and ily, pls share ur secrets for having such a good relationship bc ya girl is desperate), this is purely for funsies & obvs fictional!!! let me know if yall want another part & what your own hcs are! okay byeeeeee

stephen nedoroscik x reader ♡

he fell first. he knows straight away if he likes someone and if he does then thats that and it was no different with you. he didn't have eyes for anyone else, especially after he learnt that you liked him as well

my guy is a little spoon. sometimes he’ll be the big spoon but he also really just wants a cuddle

speaking of.. hugs! all! the! time! will hug you from behind if you’re busy doing something or when one of you have just come home he’ll scoop you up like it’s the easiest thing ever

honestly can’t imagine ever fighting with him likeeee if one of you is upset then he’ll make sure you talk it out! will sit down with you and would be SO patient but he also won’t force you to talk it out if you’re not ready to — either way yall won’t be getting into a screaming match bc frankly I think he’d rather die

on the other hand, if the relationship is more new & fresh he might be hesitant to bring up problems in fear of potentially ruining or making things awkward between you

but once you become more comfortable with each other and your relationship he finds it much easier to come to you, especially because the trust between you is much stronger

will send you videos when he’s at practice! or he’ll actually facetime you and just be on call until it’s basically time to go back home to you! and if you're not busy then you're coming with him to the gym!!

sends you memes all the time! like if you go a few days without checking your dms on instagram or tiktok, trust that he has flooded with them with cursed posts

he will also send you photos & videos of kyushu ALL THE TIME!!! and if he’s away, he’ll ask to facetime just so he can say hi to him lol

will teach you how to play chess and will teach you about his favourite rubiks cube algorithms

will also teach you how to play rocket league if you don’t already know, like will do the whole sit you on his lap and put his hands on yours as his teaches you the controls

speaking of lap sitting, one of his love languages is physical touch fr! if you’re at home he’s practically smothering you but if yall are in public he needs to at least still hold hands or have a hand on your leg/arm/shoulder. he isn’t big on pda really but he also needs to be on your space in some way so it’s something he has to try & balance lmfao

like the scorpio he is, he’s very intense in his love for you! like he’ll keep things private about specific relationship details but he’ll still talk about you all. the. time. without compromising said privacy!! he gets especially good at keeping this balance during the olympics when the press are all over him

if you’re a gymnast like him then he loves training with you!! will help you with routines and vice versa

if you’re just a regular lil person then he loves hearing about your job! always ready for you to come home and unload on him about your day

andddd if you’re famous in some capacity then trust he’s the MOST supportive of you and your career!! like he is your n.1 cheerleader!! (side note… stephen x famous!reader anyone??)

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

wibta for getting a man kicked out of a rp discord server?

ok so like. im a minor. im barely a teen. under 16 kind of minor. this comes into play, so remember that.

there's been problems in the server with me before (MAINLY not my fault but i didnt make them better) so people dont rlly trust me.

so anyway, new guy in the server. giving me and my friends a weird vibe and he's certainly doing weird things. (such AS! bomb jokes, not spoiling what you need to spoil, and just lording it over us that HE'S AN ADULT WITH A MAJOR IN COLLEGE!!!!) didnt know what to do so we let it slide. he continued being weird like that but nothing big. kept mentioning how we all gave off minor vibes, even the adults (he was an adult btw)

i wanted to show a silly little outfit! (Nothing sexual, not even showing my face. Just neck down. Hawaiin t-shirt, tanktop, and jeans.) For some reason he compliments my collarbones??? he KNOWS im a minor (they werent even prominent in the pic. neck muscles ig?) Adults and kids scold him, yknow. He INSISTS he didnt know it was weird, but cmon, how do you make constant fetish jokes and NOT know?? youre an adult.

stuff happens, my sister hears ab it and messes with his rp character. she was mad and decided to yknow. bully the character. he blames someone in the server and it all blows up. so i have to dm this guy.

i explain it all and apologize, and he apologizes too (and trauma dumps, bit whatever) , but for the wrong thing? so i correct him and say "ermm...NO. its bc you made comments on my body?" long convo ensues, of him trying to explain he really doesnt know that its sexual and trying to change the topic.

Finally, he says something like "your collarbones just reminded me of a roman sculpture" ...💀 sorry bro what. huh. ermm. so i tell him "Hey 😁 dont." and he says "I just meant they're like a beacon of pleasing aesthetic" or something. UHH... so i tell the server mod and the mod says theyll kick him out bc they fear for my safety ig?

i got.someone else kicked oit and i regret it. im worried people will say that i shouldve been more mature and explajned why it was bad, bc he didnt know! im more worried that theyd be right.

SO! WIBTA for getting a man kicked out!?

What are these acronyms?

[messrsrobyn]

Ok nobody I’ve asked seems to give me a direct answer so I figured I’d just voice all my concerns with you? You don’t have to answer everything 😭😭

When it comes to fandom friends how do you move from just being moots to being friend friends? I saw a video you made about it when somebody had asked you a similar question but I’m really struggling with getting them to feel like friends and not just random accounts in my phone.

I’ve seen videos people have made and you guys are sharing jokes in the comments. I saw video of 3 girls that said “Us when anyone hates on mesrsrobyn” and you said like “Fan behaviour” which obviously shows that you’re actually their friend and you’re just teasing them.

Also how do you find people who are ok with you not responding all the time (😭😭😭) I’m just genuinely not active very much on any forms of social media. I was in a marauders gc and I was really happy thinking I was gonna make fandom friends but because I wasn’t active all the time they had a bunch of inside jokes I didn’t get and I kinda felt like an outsider.

Most of the people I see you interacting with online seem really cool and fun, so I’m just wondering where to find people like that. Just genuinely from posting?

I’m sure I’ve worded all this so strangely but honestly I’m sad because I’ve been in this fandom for 3 years in November and I have made no real lasting friendships. I feel like you yapping so much LOL

IK THE VIDEO 😭 my besties yup !!

this is long so i'm putting the lil dashy line thingy

i have v limited advice actually bc i don't think i've initiated many of my friendships in fandom?? despite how little i stfu, i'm a shyyy person. i get scared to text first.

my BIGGEST bit of advice is take. it. off. the. app.

i try to get discords mainly (bc i use it most) but once you take it off of tiktok or wherever you met it feels so much less like mutuals. like yes, we met in fandom but now we are discussing our plans for the day and getting to know each other as Robyn not Messrsrobyn.

i made most of my friends from posting !! i made my account as a whole to meet people and (ive been flagging a bit recently actually but) i always try to reply to EVERYONEEE. so most of my friends were just people that commented that i replied to, their name kept popping up in my notifs? boom. friends. one of them said they loved crimson rivers so next time i found an edit i sent it to them.

ALSO !! i'm so bad at replying.

servers im more active in i think, but just... dms? not very good at all. anyone that doesn't respect that or gets mad? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ i dont want them as a friend.

like it's frustrating i know! i hate the amount of lil red bubbles i have on every single app but it doesn't mean i value my friends any less and they all know that <3 we don't always have the time or capacity to reply and that's okie.

i tend to get it out the way immediately and test the waters. just a lil "btw i'm really sorry for my reply times! i'm not the best at it but feel free to double text me as much as you want" and always make sure that i follow up on everything that's been said whilst i wasn't replying.

im rambling a bit i fear but the right friends won't get mad at it, or make you feel less important bc of it. it might just take some time to find them but You Will.

i feel like i havent actually given much advice?? i'm genuinely so so so lucky to have found the friends that i have but i did nothing. i think i said in a few of my tiktoks rightttt at the beginning that my dms were open for friends and then i think? hope? that i've kept that energy going of like someone that anyone can message and i'll get back to them (at some point 😭 my tiktok dms are a mess but thats an issue for future robyn) so i've been able to just sit back and naturally find them.

i live by the motto of "the worst they can do is not reply" every time i send a comment or dm to a new person

we're all just losers reading fanfiction !! we all want lil friends to talk to about it so interaction and reaching out gives us that BUT it's the taking it off of the app that takes it from mutuals to friends imo.

this is UNNECESSARILY LONG omg. i never know how to answer these ones but i hope it helps a lil? <3 social interaction is NOT my finest point. potentially my worst i fear.

[joonberriess]

@gukiebaby saying i should go bald for wanting a little angst drabble of jk getting caught cheating is beyond fucking crazy because me personally I don’t like angst either but i REALLY wanted to see oc’s reaction so… I’m gonna give you the same energy right back too 👩🏽‍🦲 you better find some good ass hair growth because chile…

everyone wants to see oc’s reactions and i don’t blame em but like i said IM NOT INTERESTED in the slightest writing for it😪 i’ve literally tried to trust me but it’s just so fucking boring to me i cannot bring myself to write it LMAOO (idk if you saw but i mentioned that i started this blog for smut mainly😭😭) but anyways it’s never that serious and im sure bby wasn’t pointing directly at JUST you so let’s not start bc i fear this will just make me laugh bc it’s the internet when has anyone ever taken someone they don’t know serious? we can move along bc we’re grown ass people, y’all wanna fight go do it in the DMs instead of coming in my inbox lmao im not here for it SKSK.

[ragnarachael]

top 5 tom hiddles looks!! could be from red carpets, photo shoots, interviews, etc

welcome to rachael is just rambling about her love for tom as an actor. there's no other things i ramble about more than this in my alone time at 3 am when i'm alone with my cat.

i ramble too fucking much for my own good. i'm sorry.

let's open the file, shall we?

1.) 2013 tom SPECIFICALLY AFTER THE CORIOLANUS RUN listen, i am a woman of my word and when i say i love coriolanus!hiddleston? i MEAN IT (honorable mentions here: also the tom hiddleston livestream when national theatre live dropped the coriolanus watch stream in what?? june 2020? i can't remember but i literally watched that livestream during work and that was the highlight of my day)

2.) BETRAYAL ERA! betrayal era hiddleston was during one of the roughest times of my life, and honestly i'm glad i had something to fixate on while going through it all. i mean. look at this.

this was my computer's fucking background for three months. tom. charlie. zawe. i miss them.

and of course i can never leave out this interview with joshua horowitz. he is the only man i trust to interview tom in any shape or form.

3.) tom from these two interviews here and here

the first is a thor ragnarok interview with buzzfeed where he's with jeff goldblum!! i love their banter and i just. tom so lovely. thor: ragnarok and infinity war tom press supremacy.

the second is from IGN! i put them together bc they came out around the same time! but,, he's so sassy. i love the man (honorable mentions for this era: the interview with lad bible, seb, letitia and tom judging stunts and this bad boy which is tom and chris doing a would you rather. i quote the whole "i'll be doctor strange, seNd YA BÆCK IN TIME—" and also "you're cheating. no, you're cheating, i'm taking this away from you" all the fucking time to myself sdfjhdfs ugh i love them)

4.) RECENT TOM IS SUCH A GIFT TOO???

to get into specific interviews for this Era i just love to death while you've got me here rambling: this interview here

to start with: ugh love the sweater. my favorite thing in the world. love that. ANYWHO

i love when actors/people i admire can just sit down and talk about their experiences. this is one of my favorite tom interviews just FOR THAT category in my brain. even if we were snubbed of him talking about the night manager in this one (if i remember correctly, it's been so long since i've watched this one) i'm literally in LOVE hearing about his thoughts on his films. i could sit and listen to him talk about it all fucking day.

once again, josh horowitz on his podcast happy, sad, and confused with special guest tom hiddleston tom just. he sounds like such a profound person, he's a celebrity, he could never be on our level! how could he?! and then you sit him down to talk and he's really just US but in the spotlight. this podcast episode proves that even MORE for me. he talks about that tom hanks movie cast away (2000) and he makes it seem like the most AMAZING SERIOUS HEARTFELT FILM when literally my first thoughts seeing this movie was "oh god i would literally DIE if i ever ended up on an island like that." i listened to this at work during a truck shift one night and god i had some good laughs to. tom is a literal ray of sunshine in this. it's so good.

5.) THE MIGHTY FIVE! this fucking talk that i have watched more than i have breathed probably

i. love. tom's. relationship. with. josie. maybe it's because i've watched coriolanus a BILLION TIMES, maybe it's because i've seen them in interviews together or they talk highly of each other, whatever it is, i love it.

the opening literally just talks about his time at drama school, and as someone who has almost ended up auditioning for an acting/drama school, it's so lovely to just. hear an actor to talk about their education. listening to this talk made me realize that yeah, if i had the time and the commitment for it, i would absolutely throw myself head first into acting. but i'm far off from where i would like to be for that, and this talk i come back to makes me realize that i would love to eventually be able to pursue this wacky wild dream i have to go to a drama school or something like that. this talk really just. stuck with me. i love the hell out of this talk.

also tom not being allowed to be a giraffe because he already was a giraffe really makes me chuckle.

anyways. ahem. how was that for answers? whoops?

ask me what my top 5 things are and i’ll answer!

[dclia-blog]

hi everyone, my name is kris and i’m super excited to get plotting with everyone! below the cut is some info about one of my favorite muses to play, cordelia von jenner!! like this if you want to plot and i’ll come sliding into your dms, or just hmu yourself!! i won’t be on until tomorrow bc i have my formal tonight but i’ll try to be on mobile!!

☆ · ˚ . ✦ . ˚ { GIGI HADID, 22, SHE/HER } spotted! CORDELIA VON JENNER making their way down the streets of the ues. i swear, every time i hear VERSACE ON THE FLOOR by BRUNO MARS, i think of them. the FEMALE is currently a MODEL. though everyone knows them for being BUBBLY & PROTECTIVE, page six says they could be DEFENSIVE & MATERIALISTIC. according to gossip girl, SHE SLEEPS WITH WHOEVER SHE CAN TO GET MODELING GIGS, but that could be a rumor.

so first things first, cordelia is the most materialistic, air-headed, and naive girl you’ll ever meet tbh. she’s kind of a bitch bc of how she was raised, but she doesn’t mean to be usually. it’s only when someone’s pissed her off that they should be worried of the tiny blonde’s wrath.

her modeling agency makes her go by delia, but i’m down w her being called cordelia, delia, cordy, whatever you want really. idgaf.

cordelia was born and raised in beverly hills, california. her dad is a big hollywood agent so she’s been in the background of a few movies before because of him, and her mom is a world-class plastic surgeon who is very focused on their family image and sees everything very critically, including her daughter. she wanted for nothing materially, but she always just wanted them to pay attention to her. their careers were both very involved, so she was mainly raised by nannies. she’s an only child and her parents were hoping that she would follow in their footsteps either in medicine or business, but she chose to go to nyu for art before dropping out to model full-time.

because of her parents fame, she was constantly in the tabloids when she began to act out in high school. she’s experimented in drug use, sex, underage drinking, table-dancing at popular nightclubs. as much as her parents despise it, cordelia enjoyed the publicity.

she made it through high school as queen bee. she thrived in artistic subjects and participated in musicals, plays, yearbook, cheerleading, and art club. she was head cheerleader, lead in the musicals and plays, and prom queen, basically ruling the school by her senior year--mostly because, though many loved her, many feared her as well.

she started modeling shortly after arriving at nyu, having been discovered in the streets by an agent. she started modeling full time by her sophomore year, abandoning school altogether. she has been incredibly successful thus far, but not without a little help. while she can book many jobs without any additional help, she’s been known to be the girl to do anything to book a gig--including sleeping with the client. she now lives in a penthouse suite by herself with her chihuahua, phoebe, bc she loves the extravagant things in life.

she falls for people incredibly easily and is a notorious dater, which often leads to getting her heart broken. she’s been cheated on many times, she’s been lied to and manipulated. it hasn’t stopped her, though. she craves love like she craves air, and loves to be in love.

she’s got a lot of issues with abandonment, feeling like she’s not good enough or pretty enough. she usually covers those with her narcissism tho. her mom especially left her with these after years of pointing out her flaws and offering her surgeries to fix these flaws. it’s gotten worse since she began to model. she wants her parents approval more than anything and it takes its toll on her emotionally. she’s very depressed and it breaks through her fake exterior sometimes.

don’t take her for soft, though. the bae can go from the nicest girl you’ll ever meet to ice queen in 2.2 seconds flat. she’s low-key inspired by pre-boarding school serena van der woodsen from gg, cher from clueless, and regina george from mean girls if that tells anyone anything

some possible connections for her that i would LOVE are exes for sure bc we know she would have many, a squad that she rolls with bc what model doesn’t have one??, a best friend that she shares everything with, someone that wishes for her eternal failure, an agent, fellow models, hook-ups, photographers, clients (or “special” clients *winky face*), a love/hate relationship that usually ends up with them sleeping together, a frenemies friendship. i’m open to pretty much anything!! like i said before, just like this and i’ll come to you!!