#loveendings

[ilrestronzo]

Perché accettare la fine di qualcosa è così difficile? Perché si soffre per non far soffrire l'altra parte quando aspettare non fa altro che peggiorare la situazione?

[fixquotes]

"Motherhood: All love begins and ends there"

- Robert Browning

[adelakryvosheieva]

“True love stories never have endings.”

Richard Bach

This isn’t one of those stories …

He is like a sunshine trying to came tru after a long tropical storm, trying to overcome those heavy and dark clouds that won’t go away no matter the forse of the wind, that had just pulled up the trees from the ground and crushed down houses to that same ground like they were cartone boxes. She never could have imagined that one persone would be able to have so much effect and influence on her; one persone who could love and could hurt like no one else has ever done; one person in this world that she believed in and considered her family at the end would be her worst enemy at the same time. The last thing she could have thought is that someone could be so kind with so much anger inside, had so much light and darkness inside of that wonderful, most beautiful hart of his; She have never thought that one person could make her feel so broken and so perfect inside when she least expected it.

“That moment I saw him for the first time was something I will never forget. And from remembering how it went from the start it should have been very clear how our relationship would go on. He was walking towards me and the thing that came to my mind was “Oh, no. Why am I doing this?! I have should never agreed to meeting him.” and then “ok, just play it cool, it’s not like you have to see him ever again”. Those words were on my mind for the whole time we were together that night, and strangely enough, those thoughts have never left me and went with me thru the whole time we knew each other. Every little fight or disagreement, every hard moment or disappointment I would had that same feeling, those thoughts. And all I kept saying to my self is that we are never meant to be together because what’s the point?! We are not good for each other, we keep repeating every mistake we’ve made again and again. After many years we have given to each other I wonder what would happen if we would continued. But, the thought of having another five, ten or even more years together in that same massy way was unbearable or, could we have had everything we wanted and become better together?! He become my best friend and my family. For some reason I know his is my “home”.

Who is still didn’t get the image, and I know these are only the outside of happy but, he is the best example of an exiting, existing man who values the women he with and gives the vibes of being “the one” @johanneshuebl.  My fav #johannes huebl sundays

“Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence.”

—Vincent Van Gogh

Those years where rollercoaster. From massy to most wonderful moments. From desperate to happiness. As they started their relationship she knew he wasn’t “the one” and defiantly not someone she could have ever dreamed of for her self. He was the opposite; always on a go but, always late, didn’t care for his looks, massy and confused; not to say she was perfect in any way, but as at appeared to be, they have cared about totally different things, ignoring how other felt about them. She thought that they would never be good for each other; they were so different, so opposite one from another in every way you could think of.

“There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.”

—Friedrich Nietzsche

One of those days of madness she has decided to leave, yet another time. She has done it before for years she has been leaving when she felt not being welcomed or wanted or loved; or, in some cases she has left from where there were no room for rational and analyzed possibility to resolve a certain situation.

I choose to believe that I have done a right thing by making a choose to let go and that my decision wasn’t just irrational act in a moment, even if it was in a moment of yet another exaggerated and misunderstood situation between us. I choose to believe this way because it’s easier to keep living knowing that we weren’t a good match and that no matter how hard we would try it wouldn’t work anyway. I don’t say that I don’t regret or that I believe I have done everything right, but I cannot live and think that after all that pain we been thru and all the work we have done over the years I have now ruined our relationship and my life with my own hands. I cannot think that he could have been everything I’m looking for in a person by my side; to have innovation, fan, spontaneity, protection and love all from one man. Because if someone could have it all it would be him. So I just don’t know what was the right thing to do, I just choose to believe it was right what I have done. And that I didn’t just give up.

All those memories are just hart breaking. I cannot believe you are not here with me anymore. Times that you took my hand and I just wanted to cry even more from the love I felt, or imagined. I can now just dream and guess what you have felt, what you have thought. When you could sleep only by my side, holding me thru the whole night, tight to you, in your arms. When you kept fighting me because you wanted me to be stronger, better and make me do what I was scared off so I could become brave and free from my fears, from my self. Free from all those dark thought I believed for so many years. Your ways made me who I am today, so far away from you. And I don’t know why this is supposed to be this way. You are one persone I admire and dream of, at the same time the persone I am running away from. I don’t want to remember anymore of anything we build tougher, all that time we spent fighting about the smallest things. I want it all back, and I don’t. I can’t have it anymore, but I miss us so much it makes me want to do it all over again. Our insecurities, luck of trust overwhelmed our souls, but we were full of hope that one day it all would change and we could have the lives we secretly dream of. We just couldn’t admit it, we couldn’t say those words to each other without risking of being hurt, and we weren’t. We just kept going without saying anything, without a plan. I know you wanted it all worked out, and I know you didn’t know how, but you wanted me to be with you, in your own way you really cared about me.

I suppose this is what happens when people don’t really know who they are and can really see them selfs and what they want.

“True love is not a hide-and-seek game; in true love, both lovers seek each other.”

—Michael Bassey Johnson

If you have ever experienced this type of dynamic and if you have ever wandered if you have done the right thing or who is wrong (accepting that there are mistakes made by both sides, always) in the actual relationship non being successful and stressful, who is the one bringing everything down and demolish your effort, that’s assuming that there are actually successful relationships with respect and consideration from both sides.

Let’s immagine a weight scale with two people on opposite sides of that scale, putting all their issues and unresolved baggage on each side (witch we all have, there is no escape from it).

On one hand we a person who has been born into a situation with no support or care, who had to grow up alone and, almost, resented by his family. Who has done all in his power to get attention and validation to be accepted or, even, noticed. How do you think this persone has grown up, who has he be become? Graduated from very prestigious university with high standards and lots of competition (again, the need to be better, smarter and faster to be accepted and recognized has increased) this person has become successful, accomplished and admired. But, some how not yet satisfied. So, his baggage that he puts on those scale would be abandoned issues and constant need for love, approval, admire and, most of all, his need to be “the one”, to be accepted. To some of you it might be not that heavy, but if you consider that those issues have never been acknowledged, they have transformed in one’s constant need to be special and “first” that would never be fulfilled, not that it is impossible but, because no one has that mach love and patience to be around, to give to whom only loves him self and needs your daily proof of it.

On the opposite side we have a persone who has also grown up alone and has been that way all her entire life. But, in in this case, not because there weren’t people around her to love and care for her but, by choose. Obviously, there are abandoned issues as well, being left by one parent and the other one was almost never present because of how much work needed to be done for being able to provide, the only way to cope in this case was the decision to never accept anything from anyone if it is not with the “real” reason, so to be alone was better than to be in “pity” company because (and, here where I really see personality traits) her mind has decided that no one has time or willingness to be around without no good reason that could justify their presence. The only logical weight that has been added to her side of the scale, in this case, would be a childish behavior were she would reject whomever come her way and has developed a believe that in order to be with someone, to be loved and accepted it had to be earned and deserved in natural, very honest way. That if she couldn’t see she would consider being “played” and it was one of worst feelings for her self-esteem.

WHO weighs the most? Who is “heavier”?!

In all honestly the dynamics of both could very well be a learning point and push for growth and improvement. It could have been something special for them, even for the people around them. But, It does not work if they don’t see it or, maybe, only one of them are willing to do something to change the pattern of abuse, disrespect and constant dissatisfaction.

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart.”

—Helen Keller

The immagine as per always are form my fav @pinterest

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Soulmate "True love stories never have endings." Richard Bach This isn’t one of those stories … He is like a sunshine trying to came tru after a long tropical storm, trying to overcome those heavy and dark clouds that won’t go away no matter the forse of the wind, that had just pulled up the trees from the ground and crushed down houses to that same ground like they were cartone boxes.

[thaiteastacey]

The journey into loving myself

My heart and my mind are suffering.. it has been this way for several months now. I’ve lost my motivation to study, to care for myself... as much as I’ve tried to keep strong and pretend I’m okay I know I’m not. 

The things that have happened are very personal, but what I will say is that I do need therapy now. I have become obsessed, scared, and lonely during this part of my life. 

The person I dedicated the most trust to in my life has lied to me for years even during the most intimate and special moments of our lives. I was turned to and blamed for finding out. I put myself in a position to beg for them to understand what they did wrong, I was lost and confused. They would have never been sorry if they didn't get caught. 

I have been with someone who has been gaslighting me and making me feel crazy. Sadly I have become obsessed and depressed now. Not a day goes by where I wish I wasn't here anymore but I know my daughter needs me...she is the only one keeping me alive.

I know its the hardest thing I have to do in my life but I have to learn to love myself before a man. My daughter and myself, I don't want to make the same mistakes my mother did when I was a child. To be more of a woman than a mother.

All I can say is try to think about your significant other and think if its really worth it to do things behind their back.. let them go if you are just going to hurt them.

I had to let go myself even if I didn’t want to deep down inside. I feel as if my other half was never with me for all these years and its a ghost. God.... as i’m writing this my tears are swelling up.

I have to repeat to myself I am strong, I am worthy, Allah is with me. 

[heyitsyana143]

The Poem You Never Knew About

Each morning, the only thing that I look forward to

is reading a message coming from  you.

That one message that says, "Good morning" makes my day,

I can only tell you the same thing because I have no words to say.

I became speechless though I have lots of stories to tell,

When I'm with you, I feel like everything is well.

Holding your hand makes me feel calm,

I feel safe when you wrap me with your arm.

I don't think of what others might say,

because I'm happy that you don't let distance get in our way.

You lived too far, but you still come to see me.

I sneak and not tell anyone that you're the one I came to see.

I know it's a bit unfair in your part,

but good things take time and I want you to be a part of my heart.

So I'm willing to take the risk just to be with you,

I can only hope that you'll never get tired of doing the same way too.

And hopefully one day, I'd say to you...

that wonderful three words, "I love you!"

[avesta-asiwa]

Aldo Cipullo. The creator of one of the popular love symbols of the modern world. While many couples confessed their love to each other with his LOVE wristbands, Aldo was suffering from a night-time pain. He resisted to sleep until three o'clock at night. But he was experiencing the pain of his relationship, which ended a few hours ago. When he did not sleep, he was wrapped in paper. Only in this way could he forget the love wreck he had experienced. Aldo made his ending relationship immortal with that design. Despite the decades that passed, he became a secret hero of an unending fashion thanks to a love ending. We owe a lot to this painful love story that brings life to the love collection. #aldocipullo #cartierlove #love #allweneedislove #loveend #endlesslove #loveyou #historyoflove #lovestory #heart #heartbroken #cartier #lovely #youandme #jewellery #jewelry #jewels #jewellerydesign #jewelrydesigner #gold #elizabethtaylor #unforgettable #illustration #muse #cartierlegacy #legacy #treasure #jewelrymaking #designer #lifestory https://www.instagram.com/p/CODWVHxlU58/?igshid=1dvrnp32uummt

[lotushearts-blog]

Night after night, lying together but so careful not to touch. To not acknowledge that The Loving Days were gone: vanquished with the steel of those cold words. We both knew we could never come back from last night’s Knowledge. It was best if we just continue treading water in our cold existence.

[urflyness1]

You not getting ish..... #loveends #loveandhate #overyou #hadenough #movinon https://www.instagram.com/p/CEk5JftBtgI/?igshid=154msqi3kg3qk

[ahwritesblog]

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[musingsofasinglelady]

Love Lost

As my current relationship is reaching it’s inevitable end, I am left to ponder what this love has taught me. I think it has only taught me one thing: I need to love myself despite my many flaws. No one person can do that for me and I need to do 100% of my saving. Love, as great as it might be, cannot do that for me. I think I gave our love (or maybe it was just my love) a fair shot to survive. I could sleep knowing that I did all that I could for it. Even though I knew deep down inside that it could never survive, I still tried. Granted maybe I was trying by myself and we all know that no love can survive that. He must have loved me too, right? I hope so. Even if he did, maybe it’s just not enough. I’ll always be thankful for our time. No matter how bitter it must taste now. He deserves better. I deserve better. The end. 

For our time, thank you S. It might not have ended how I would have liked it to, but I’ll always hold our precious memories with the gentlest of care. I will always wish for your happiness even if it doesn’t include me. 

[avesta-asiwa]

Aldo Cipullo. The creator of one of the popular love symbols of the modern world. While many couples confessed their love to each other with his LOVE wristbands, Aldo was suffering from a night-time pain. He resisted to sleep until three o'clock at night. But he was experiencing the pain of his relationship, which ended a few hours ago. When he did not sleep, he was wrapped in paper. Only in this way could he forget the love wreck he had experienced. Aldo made his ending relationship immortal with that design. Despite the decades that passed, he became a secret hero of an unending fashion thanks to a love ending. We owe a lot to this painful love story that brings life to the love collection. #aldocipullo #cartierlove #love #allweneedislove #loveend #endlesslove #loveyou #historyoflove #lovestory #heart #heartbroken #cartier #lovely #youandme #jewellery #jewelry #jewels #jewellerydesign #jewelrydesigner #gold #elizabethtaylor #unforgettable #illustration https://www.instagram.com/p/CAeQmmjlDEa/?igshid=19z72ol515jqo

[jixifox]

So when it’s all said and done, #Loving vs #LoveEnds #poetry you will really see that the “Heart Lies” by @jixifox #jixifox FREE LINK IN BIO #HeartLies (at Poetry Society of America)