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#love irl gay people#today i learned that a friend of mine has been in her own journey of bisexuality#that was really wonderful to learn#i am drunk but don’t worry it’s ok#bc i was safe and i got home just fine and was surrounded by friends and i even drank lots of water and brushed my teeth#and removed my makeup#all is well truly#but i am a little bit hungry#oh well#i’m gonna say that i’m not actually hungry and that it’s just the alcohol talking#that makes things easier in the long run LOL#ok good night it is bed time#anya.txt
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I understand people being curious/excited about when you’ll release your comics but demanding anything from you is unfair and I can only imagine makes you feel unmotivated to continue. Thank you for all you do and props for maintaining your boundaries 🫶
Aw thanks doll ♥️
Luckily I feel like I’ve got a good sense between real life and internet life. And even though I’m online like all the time, I know how to prioritize real life’s demands, duties, and fun times.
Even if those comments are a bit annoying, I am really grateful that the vast majority of the folks who like my fanart are kind and gracious 🥰
I still don’t really understand how I get all this interaction (ty algorithm?) but making fanart is my favorite pastime and I’m glad there are fellow fans who appreciate it! It’s all very sweet. Makes this corner of the internet a happy place for me 🌷
I’m also totally addicted to seeing fanart of hazbin hotel and I love fanfiction, cosplays, and the like. Fandom is so fun, and it’s great to see people be creative. So I try not to pay much mind to the “not-fun and not-helpful” aspects 😂
#that being said#even tho I know how to prioritize irl over internet#doesn’t mean I’m GOOD AT IT HAHAHAHA#I have so much gotdamn homework to do#but whatever I know I can get it done#I’m like the opposite of all work and no play#which is why I’m such a poor mfcker#but it’s fine#I don’t have much financial ambitions anyway#and once I get my job with a pension#im good to go ham in the off hours haha#but first grad school ugh#I mean grad school is actually really lovely#demanding but lovely people and I’m learning a lot#again Im just a greedy gal who wants to draw gay demons all the time#anyway#time for breakfast
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let me be your everlasting light
#title from everlasting light by the black keys#firesetter to cheer me up after a rough couple of days#sunsets are my favorite both irl and to draw#they are in love#wow gay people am i right#ttcc#toontown corporate clash#flint bonpyre#firestarter#pacesetter#graham ness payser#firesetter
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Doodle Request: Tyler & Jack The Narrator kissing and that would be Fight Club Yaoi
Most hormonal drawing ever
#artists on tumblr#digital art#illustration#art#pixel aesthetic#fight club#fight club 1999#narrator fight club#jack fight club#tyler durden#soapshipping#tyler durden x narrator#gay#I'm officially a closeted fight club fanartist#quarter of life crisis going well guys#thnx for request cause I never drew people kissing so this pushed me out of my comfort zone huhu#let's mot talk about the perspective and pose ajnsbe#they are having fun and being themselves#also gotta love top narrator he isn't actually a top but he tries his best#I hope irls don't find my tumblr#martyryo
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*sigh* im gonna wife her up
im gonna marry her
no one can stop me
#“her” being haley from stardew valley#i gave her the bouquet and i have some sunflowers for her :3#she loves them#crying why can't i pull people like this irl#AHSHFHDHS ON HER STATUS IT SAYS “GIRLFRIEND” SHEJDJD#I CANT WAIT TO MARRY HER#DHSJJWJS#sdv#stardew valley#sdv haley#ack she's so pretty too#im too gay for this#*is bisexual*#actually no im biro but whatever ¯\_(ツ)_/¯#chat ive played this game for like. 2 irl days#im so normal#is anyone reading these tags#if ur still reading this#comment “BABNA 🗣️💯🔥👹💪🏼” etc#>:)#babna 😨
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i understand the frustration with “i made this gay pairing cis x trans so they can still have biological babies” with no thought to other methods and how ppl assume thats the case when it comes to mothpool aus where mothwing is also the mother of the three, but also…. idk i kinda dont give a shit if someone wants to do that and i dont really think its inherently transphobic as long as its handled with care and respect.
what really concerns me about this debate is how some people are adamant that you cannot portray trans people having biological children in media or youre being disrespectful. and im gonna say as a nonbinary person who doesnt want children for themself- thats kinda fucking weird? like i understand that for some people, theyre trans themselves and theyre speaking from a place of dysphoria, and i absolutely get that, which is why i think the topic should be handled with nuance and diversity in trans characters, but like…. guys. pregnant trans men exist irl. trans women get people pregnant irl. trans ppl’s ability and right to parent and have biological children are being debated irl. we get denied the opportunity to adopt as well.
in a climate like this, are we SURE we want the stance on rewrites and headcanons in the silly cat books to be “if you portray trans characters having children, especially with a gay couple, youre a transphobic freak no matter what!” does it really matter? especially if its being done by a trans person handling the topic with nuance who has a lot of trans characters with varying perspectives?
obviously yes, remember that thats not the only way certain gay couples can have kids, remember that not every trans person is fully comfortable with it and keep that in mind, remember that surrogacy and adoption are also perfectly valid ways to give fan babies- but remember that there are OPTIONS. not that you need to condemn the idea of transgender parents in the first place unless they fit the very specific criteria of “proper transgender representation” and anything that dares deviate from that is proof the op is a transphobic monster (bonus points if theyre a trans creator bc i mostly see trans people getting shit for this and it kinda pisses me off. although idm if cis people do it either as long as theyre handling it with respect)
#and this isnt getting into how trans mothwing outside of mothpool is a really good way to read her character#sorry. remembered the shit bonefall got despite being trans as well and got annoyed#that especially annoys me bc hes got plenty of surrogacies but the second hed touch a trans pregnancy#‘’no you cant do that!!! you freak!!! obviously you only see trans people as a loophole for gays to have babies!!!’’#also my gf and i were talking and obviously take this with a grain of salt bc this is our experience#but…. i think a lot of the ppl saying this……. havent really talked to trans women?#dude some of the ones i know LOVE the idea of getting people pregnant#did you know trans women have sex? did you know trans people in general have sex?? did you know trans people irl wanna start families?#did you know that? did you? or do you black out at the idea of a trans woman being anything but strictly pure and nonsexual#and OBVIOUSLY this is not every trans woman. some do have dysphoria around the idea#but im genuinely starting to wonder how these people act around irl transgender parents#whether they had kids before or after coming out#bc ngl. the attitude that thinking about this makes you a transphobic pervert?#directed at trans people making content for themselves?#im starting to think you all just dont want us to reproduce. if we reproduce we arent ‘’good’’ trans people#because a ‘’real’’ man wouldnt carry a child. a ‘’real’’ woman would carry the child. and god forbid the gays even THINK about reproducing#and being around children!#if we have children then we’re doing things that might make cishets look at us and declare we’re not perfect#we’ve proved we’re not just identical to cis ppl!! (and therefore deserving of respect!)#idk. i think this was mostly a case of tumblr going ‘’oh someone said no to this so lets push this to an unhealthy extreme!!’’#and i cant help but notice nobody really brings up nonbinary parents at all in this discussion#not that we have it ‘’better’’ or anything for that but yknow. are we supposed to swear it off?#is the idea of us having kids inconcievable? or worse…. does it mean we ‘’picked a side?’’#so its not even worth getting mad at a pregnant nb person bc ‘’well thats a woman so who cares’’b#HMMMMM.#ohhhh i bet they also get mad if you make transfem pregnancy possible too. no winning#idk really think about it when you go ‘’you can NEVER EVER portray a trans person starting a family. bc REAL trans people would never.’’#ohhh you probably get mad when trans ppl dont get surgery for one reason or another dontcha#whether we want to or its not in the cards for us for whatever reason like cost and such#(while also getting mad if we do bc we cannot win in this no matter what)
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people making such a big deal out of bucktommy possibly kissing in front of everyone at the wedding as if tim and the cast haven't explicitly said there are no more 'coming out' scenes and that they don't want to make it this big thing, meaning the rest probably will not have much of a reaction other than 'oh that's great ily' and a .5 sec conversation about it. trust the writters! they never disappoint
#911 spoilers#listen i get that in Real Life it would be a Big Fucking Deal but we're talking fantasy world#where if people don't want to make a big deal of it... they won't!#bet buck will be like 'hey so this is tommy... my date' and everyone will be like 'ok cool'#and fucking move on no questions asked! and i love that bc that's what we want for us irl#let the gays be gay whenever and wherever#if you think buck should not be free to kiss his date whenever then just unfollow me for all i care#maddie would not care and so i won't either
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listening to my love songs playlist on spotify cuz i want a boyfriend but cant talk to people 🙃
fuck social anxiety lmao
#and im homeschooled so i dont even have the chance to talk to people irl outside of family#and i dont want a long distance relationship#i need cuddles too much lmao#mlm#mlm yearning#gay#ftm t4t#t4t yearning#mlm love
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Y'all realize it won't be besties then reveal angst kiss right? It's gonna be 4x04 cranked up a notch. Buildup then reveal that makes everything feel crazy.
It's gonna be wanna make a move anyways but don't know if I should/I shouldn't and THAT'S what adds to the angst of finding out about the feelings AND the lie.
It's gonna be momentum. It's gonna be romance regardless. It's gonna be they fall in love even deeper even if Will had been telling the truth, they just wouldn't get together/in time if it weren't for the painting. The pining will be there tenfold, the painting. Isn't the story. It's just the final straw. It's just the permission.
They fall in love in every universe. Even the same one twice. (Three times)
#i love the way you love#bc i just re realized#byler#stranger things#byler <3#Get you a ship where the reason they're angsty is because they can't not fall in love with each other#but remember guys it only works if it's gay queerness justifies everything straight ships are bad at because it actually has stakes#forbidden love doesn't happen irl to white straight people and furthermore “so scared of being hurt i hurt others” is bot forbidden love#it's a you problem#byler tropes#FORBIDDEN LOVE!!#BUT THEY CAN'T HELP IT!#THEIR LOVE PERSEVERES DESPITE THEIR EFFORTS!
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how can I stop internalised homophobia I can’t take this anymore
#I WISH I WAS STRAIGHT SO FUCKING BAD 🔥🔥🔥🔥#or for homophobia not to exist that would be cool#I love being alienated from my friends and jokingly called slurs and told to stop acting so gay and questioned constantly on why I don’t#have crushes and hear threats about beating people up if they’re ‘a homo’ and be treated like a joke or second class human and told to#fix yourself and to regularly see banners irl calling gay ppl filth and animals and#and to know nothings gonna change bc the lgbtqaisjsjsjs community is a fucking joke#lol everything aside if anyone knows actually helpful ways to help please lmk#internalized homophobia#comphet#compulsory heterosexuality
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i hate the lgbt community you cant go to a single event or website that has gay people without running into someone named sunny and 8 times out of 10 they're a toxic sludge of a person
#IF I KNEW IT WAS SUCH A COMMON NAME I WOULDNT HAVE CHOSEN ITTTT#irls have NEVER heard of someone named sunny and then i stepped out of my hs bubble and every gay/trans person on earth has my name#to my mutuals named sunny you are cool youre the 2/10 normal people and i love you#kaya.txt
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i just came out to a real life person and i think im having a heart attack
#IT WAS SO UNPLANNED I HADN'T THOUGHT ABOUT IT AT ALL I DIDN'T EVWN THINK WE WERW FRIENDS??#she lives in the building next to mine and we go to tui together to divide the auto fare and we've been walking home 2-3 dino se#and she likes kpop and kdramas#but like there isn't that Spark yk like oh ny god i love u best friends forever its a little awkward and formal still#but we were talking about something and oh my god#when we reached home we were standing uski building ke neeche and she was like i want to introduce you to my childhood bestie i think you#two will like each other#and i was like kinda weirded out like um are we that close yet i thought we were just classmates 😭😭#so i asked ki oh why all of a sudden#and she's like 'i like you' and i look at her and laugh and she said STOP LAUGHING i don't meant it like that im straight ok#and idk something in me snapped i was like oh are u homophobic too?#but pls she didn't know what it meant 😭 so i explained ki do u hate gay people then#she said no no ofc not SO I JUST BLURTED OUT KI good cause im bisexual#THE SHOCK ON HER FACE OMG im saying this now in freaking out now but at that time i said it really coolly and proudly without fumbling#my voice didn't drop down to a low volume or waver or anything (which im so proud bc she's like the first irl person ive come out to face#to face??????? i mean obv childhood friends don't count they're all gay#but anyway she was like OH and then SHE FUMBLED she was like oh nice i respect u very much and it was so awkward i was like haan haan shut#up just don't tell anyone very few ppl know 😭and she wasn't done she was like so as i was saying#we're growing old and real good friendships are getting harder to find and i like you (stop laughing!!) and i hope we don't jinx it#and she literally touched a wooden table lying there and said touchwood???? 😭😭😭😭😭#now i am thinking why did i tell her she's so extroverted she talks to everyone we go to the same tui this town is tiny#she could tell everyone my parents could find out#but also a part of me is relieved cause im so sick of hiding something that is such a small yet imp part of me#and if she tells everyone then cool maybe there'll be more queer people i can't ve the only queer person in this town and we could be#friends and my parents eh they'd never believe something like that they'll ask me if it's true and ill say nah just rumors dumb kids#and they'll believe me because they'll want to believe me so bad#so no harm#i still don't feel very bestfriendy with her but maybe my standards are too high 😭 idk ig i can't see myself being friends with her#for a long time if we weren't forced by circumstances and i don't like her that much but im happy i got to say it#literally said it omg 'kyunki main hu. bisexual' FUCK THAT FELT GOOD
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It’s ‘hating time zones and missing my best friend’ on main hours so since @england-would-fall and I are the cutest people ever please enjoy my pair of our matching crocs. Yes, the jibbitz are references to our fanfics, and her initial. Get you a bestie you can match crocs with. T, you’re my favorite human and life is infinitely better with you in it. 💖
#if people can’t tell I’m queer irl they just have to look at my socks#t I love u I hate that ur asleep when im awake and vice versa#Gay on main ♥️💖#blog
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I think we should bring back basic etiquette lessons such as shutting the fuck up when you’re watching a movie in a group that is not exclusively your friend group 🙂
#welcome to another Mick Airs Out Their Grievances and by god is it a VERY long one#prob best if u don't expand the tags#am I being maybe a bit meaner about this than I would be for any other movie? maybe but pac rim is one of my favorite movies of all time#so I think I get a pass on this one.#one of the groups on campus is hosting movie nights & I went to this one bc I've only ever watched pac rim on my laptop and wanted to watch#it on a larger screen. yay yippee I love this movie!#there r maybe 10-ish of us in this room and a three person friend group is sitting on the couch one of whom has seen the movie and two who#have not. okay so far so normal.#and then the movie starts and they won't! stop! fucking! commentating! the whole fucking movie!!! I don't have a problem with doing that#when I'm in just my friend group because I know that I can tell my friend to stop talking or pause the movie or whatnot but not when I'm in#a large group w people I'm not good friends with ffs#and the comments aren't even funny or anything they're all oh this is JUST like in iron widow!! oh they're SO gay and autistic!!! and#they're talking so loud about this that it completely drowns out the movie audio which has already been turned up a few times#like. be considerate!! some of us want to yknow actually listen to what's going on and not whatever bullshit you're saying#I nearly walked out three or four times before I actually wound up doing so#I may have been a bit of a bitch at the end but I don't care. I got up to leave because this was not an enjoyable environment and one of#them offered to turn the movie down if it was too loud. this caught me a bit off guard since I expected them to still be so wrapped up in#their convo and. well. I may have said 'it's not the movie that's too loud' before closing the door#this also reminds me a lot about my issues with online shipping culture and it bleeding through into how we interact with media irl#this is probably heavily influenced by my aromanticism but I'm so sick of people constantly reading romantic relationships into everything#AND placing more importance on those relationships than any other form. I don't mind romance in media. I think if done right it has great#emotional impact on a story but when a movie is running and when other people who may not want to hear it are in the room watching it too#is not the time to be loudly saying 'he's autistic!' 'they're in love!' 'she has a crush on him!'#I have my own interpretations of the movie some of which agree with what they said and some of which don't but that's beside the point of#knowing how to coexist politely in public#anyway. I think they were awful and annoying and they ruined my night out.#I think I'm just so incredibly mad about this because I love the movie and I was looking forward to watching it in a group of people who#found it cool as well while still having some modicum of politeness#I almost wish I had been meaner but that's the extreme annoyance talking I think#hater hour over love u guys bye
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i rlly like my new co worker bc do you guys know how refreshing it is to hang out with another queer guy multiple times a week irl
#i love all my friends and the gay ppl in my phone but i did really need more regular irl interactions with fellow fags#and i dont mean just like going to the club but actually hanging out with someone and possibly befriending them#leevi talks#our last summer trainee was a cishet guy and he was alright but we were not on the same. like. not page but#we were clearly two very different people who saw the world in wildly different ways and had nothing in common#we werent even work friends. just co workers#he was alright tho like he wasnt a bigot or anything! but not everyone needs to be more than acquaintances
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nyc phannies before I go to sleep, you should know that I heard one of the venue ushers for the merch line saying 'this is amazing, they're all so compliant!'
dads raised us well 💙
#GOOD NIGHT LITTLE GAY PEOPLE FROM IRL#I will discuss more tomorrow#sometimes I love the phandom#phan#personal
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