#lonelyasfuck

[skateordiebitch]

just wrote the cutest fic ever… this request ate down!!!! y’all aren’t ready. feeling #LONELYASFUCK

[roseandbullet]

the thing about never having fallen in love is the lingering question at the back of my head everytime I see a couple. Will I ever find someone who will treasure me enough to stay by my side at my worse? Will I ever be able to look at someone and think "this is it. This is my person"? Or will I just have to settle for something that's just comfortable? Nothing more, nothing less, and I'm not gonna lie, the thought of that really scares me.

[cris-abel]

someone talk to me.

[terrorjed]

Day 60 without sex:

I've begun contemplating fucking the exhaust pipe of my truck to feel the hot air blowing on my poor unused friend.

[awkwardindenver]

What to do when you’re lonely as fuck

Know the Symptoms

Do you go to restaurants and cringe at the sight of couples, disgustingly in love?

Do you imagine yourself doing cutesy things with the invisible partner you wish you had, like planning a weekend getaway to Estes Park?

Have you gotten tired of asking your friends and family to help you with things like giving you rides to the airport or give you career advice for the fiftieth time this week, when you know you could be burdening someone who is romantically-obligated to deal with your bullshit?

OR maybe you already have a partner.

OR maybe your friends are just MIA today.

OR  maybe you have no explanation for it...you just know you are lonely as fuck.

The Good News

Everyone can get lonely, even if it hits some of us harder than others. I wish more people talked about being lonely, because it wasn't until I read multiple self-help books including: Getting Past Your Break Up and How to Love Yourself (and Sometimes Other People) that I finally accepted: LONELINESS IS A NATURAL PART OF BEING ALIVE.  I know this is true, because I have felt lonely, regardless of my relationship status or despite how many people I connect with and love. Fortunately, in my experience, loneliness is temporary--as quickly as it descends upon your heart, it will eventually lift and then you can go about your day focused on other things.

Five Ways to Fight the Loneliness (Other than dating)

If you are currently in the grips of a downright pathetic but also extremely-normal lonely spell, here are some strategies that may help. It's totally okay to sit there and just feel it, but if you want to seek out the warm fuzzy feeling of company, here are five things you can try.

Go to a bar/restaurant to watch a sporting event. Getting out of the house to watch the Nuggets has done wonders for my mental health. Even if I'm alone, slugging down a freezing-cold beer, I feel connected to the other bar goers watching the 4th quarter as excitedly as me.

Pay for a spa service like a facial or a massage. Healing touch is a great tool for when you're feeling lonely as fuck. If the practitioner is taking their work seriously, they will probably even ask you how you are feeling. Don't feel guilty if you end up crying into the massage chair, like I did during a visit to Indian Hot Springs.

Call a relative who you haven't spoken to in a while. Talking with family is something that you can do at almost any time of day, it's free, and chances are, they might be lonely too. It might not be the same as sitting right next to them, but it can feel close to the real deal. I like to call my uncle when I need to get out of my own head. He always has cool stories about country-livin', like his new trailer or how he's preparing for the next storm. Alternative: if you're not close with family, you could always check on a close friend. Another Alternative: if your family or friends cannot come to the phone, write them a lovely letter!

See a popular movie in the theaters. When you see a film with lots of eager movie-goers all around you, it makes watching it feel like a team sport. I find this especially true during a horror movie or a comedy, when you can jump or laugh together as a group. I will look up from my granola bar and apple that I snuck in from home and see people a few seats over who I can pretend came with me.

Look at an event calendar from nearby rec centers, libraries/book stores, cafes, etc. and find a drop-in event you can attend. There is almost always a gathering of folks nearby if you look hard enough for it, and a lot of the time attendance is free!

Hopefully some of these ideas help you tough it out through your lonely-spell. I have been able to do all of them, and I don't make a lot of money or always keep normal hours.

[littlefoxelf]

#me #selfportrait #photodiary #photoaday #journal #lonelyasfuck #doesanyoneseeme https://www.instagram.com/p/B7J-aj1H3FF/?igshid=1ictp9hvcsnfk

[bambi-ives]

Bruh

I   l o n e l y      :,(

[kissmycherrylips]

Nobody wants me even for sex

[imokej]

Best wishes to my mum who gave birth to me X years ago and supposedly still doesn’t regret it.

[mvcourchene]

For once, I would like to have someone to love or someone to love me. #notmyself #lonelyasfuck #foreveralone #sadasfuck #toofat #notprettyenough https://www.instagram.com/p/B3clMb3FZxGUSyj2f9B_bUyI3U2I44HbuEnqSU0/?igshid=19rfbl33xdslf

[sarahstyle09yt]

My daily life.

This, my friends.

Is why I am lonely.

[emo-nightcore-neko-guys-blog]

TOP: the girl of my dreams BOTTOM: my real girlfriend

[eskels-goat-wife]

I need friend-o

Message me with random bullshit I dont care I just wanna talk to someone

[nutthinpersonal]

Do people ever genuinely like me ever, or...

[littlefoxelf]

#me #selfportrait #photodiary #journal #photoaday #depression #lonelyasfuck https://www.instagram.com/p/B7mggggH2B2/?igshid=k3earc8gba3z

[living-life-lonely]

I’m really not doing well and I just wish someone cared enough to help me