#like kpop related said by an annoying kpop stan and i just can’t

[bandzboy]

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[soobirou]

s/o gets into an argument with them

anime-kpop-stan requested: Can you make a txt angst where them and there s/o is arguing and they used something that you used confidence to tell him and he used that against you? Sorry if it doesn’t make sense

anon requested: Can you make a txt angst where them and there s/o have an argument pls AND DONT FORGET YOU NICE KEEP GOING

pairing: txt x gn reader

genre: angst

warnings: none i think ?

word count: 536

a/n: thank youto the both of you two for requesting!! it’s not that long,,and i left a blank section in some of the quotes so everyone can fill in what’s relatable to them. but i hope it’s satisfactory ?? oh and enjoyyyy :D

＃soobin

in arguments, it’s you who does most of the yelling

while soobin is either trying to figure out a solution or getting annoyed by the whole argument

but today he could just not take it

“you know what yn?! just because _____ happened to you doesn’t mean you get the right to use me as your human punching bag!!”

not only are you hurt, but soobin’s hurt knowing that he was even capable of saying something like that

is pretty hesitant after, trying to figure out what he can say or do to make it seem like this whole argument never happened

pls make up with him :(( he’ll give you free kisses for a full year

＃yeonjun

arguing with yj is probably annoying for the both of you. like he’s upset and yelling, you’re upset and yelling

it’s just a whole mess

after taking a few hours to be apart and calm yourselves down, the both of you realize that having these small arguments isn’t worth it

“oh..is this about ____ ? because last time i checked, you’re not the only one with that problem!!”

after you’ll have to give him some time to cool off and clear his mind and after he does, yeonjun will feel so bad about it

he tries so hard to make it up to you over the next few days, even if you assure him that everything is fine

＃beomgyu

arguments between you and beomgyu are pretty rare buttt

he’ll usually just something weird that makes the both of you laugh

“what is it with you y/n?? you may have _____ but that doesn’t make you anymore special than anyone else!!”

give him a few minutes to to really understand what he just said

already can tell that telling some sort of joke is only going to make the atmosphere even more awkward and uncomfortable

if you start to cry though he’ll hug you so tightly and press small a kiss on your head or in your hair

before telling you that he didn’t mean to make you cry

＃taehyun

i can’t remember where i’ve seen this,,,but taehyun will call you out on serious stuff if you’re wrong abt it

this is how most probably all of the arguments start

and usually they’ll end with you two agreeing to disagree and moving on

“why do you have stubborn just because _____?!!”

he feels so guilty abt it,,,like it’s just tearing into him

which is why taehyun would want to have a talk about it

esp seeing as he views communication as a very important aspect of a healthy relationship

“please forgive me y/n. i really didn’t mean to hurt your feelings like that”

＃hueningkai

you and hueningkai get along suppeeerrr well, so it isn’t often that an argument happened between you two

more like it never really happens

but today he just happened to snap due to the stress of preparing for a comeback

“okay i got it y/n!! just because you weren’t babied you whole life doesn’t mean you have to push this onto me!!!”

not only are you surprised but kai’s shocked at his own outburst

queue instant regret

“y/n….i’m so sorry, i didn’t mean to yell at you like that” he’ll say before pulling you close to him and wiping away any stray tears

[staycatcher]

Loving Seungmin Hours

A ask game for lovely stays who bias Kim Seungmin of skz or suffer from his bias wreckory💓🤠

Use the hashtag: ‘loving seungmin hours’ so we can see all your answers!!

Note: if you can’t see any emojis, just ask the question instead! Also the examples I gave aren’t the answers I’d give, but just to help give you ideas how to answer them or explain the question!

🆒) How did you get into kpop? How did you get into Stray kids?

🚮) How trash are you for Kim Seungmin and stray kids on a scale from one to ten each? (Ex: 10 for Seungmin, 10 for stray kids)

🆙) What other groups do you stan? Fav songs from them?

🆕) When you first got into stray kids, who’s names would mix up or have a hard time remembering?

🆗) Who were your first stray kids biases before you stuck with Seungmin?

0️��) Whats the age gap between you and Seungmin? How does that make you feel? (If you’re not comfortable sharing your age, just say younger, older, or don’t answer!)

✊) Do you also stan Day6, if so what’s your fav songs from them? Do you have a day6 bias?

🧲) What about Seungmin drew you in?

🤔) Who else are your biases and bias wreckers besides Kim Seungmin? Aka who is threatening Seungmin for the ult title!

🤠) When did you realize Seungmin owned your ass heart and/or soul?

🔎) Pros and Cons of having him as your bias / bias wrecker?

👤) Does Seungmin remind you of someone, if so who?

☺️) Do you have any nicknames for Seungmin? What are they?

🐚) Fav aesthetics? (Ex: peaches, green, the smell of rain, laughing so hard it hurts)

📋) List a bunch of aesthetic things you think of, when you think of Seungmin, and a seperate one for skz! (Ex: for seungmin: sunsets, daisies, cookies, smell of old books. For skz: late nights, forest, cityscape, spicy food, smell of good cologne) (I had to keep it short lol)

📻) Dedicate a song to Stray Kids and explain why you chose the song! Dedicate a song to Seungmin and explain why you chose the song!

🎫) Have you ever been to a concert? A kpop or stay kids one? (IF YOUVE SEEN SKZ LIVE YOURE OBLIGATED TO SHARE IF YOURE READING THIS AND TAG @writenowskz in it;))

📢) Rant about how much you love him!!!

👋) Tell him off for ruining your life!!!

💭) Something about Seungmin that you think about a lot?

🗯) What’s your fav thing Seungmin’s ever said or done?

💬) If you met Seungmin, what would you want to tell him?

‼️) Whats something you want him to know / remember?

😃) Describe how Seungmin makes you feel using only emojis!

👀) Fav Seungmin moment? Fav stray kids moment?

💲) Have you bought any skz cds and which members’ photocard(s) have you pulled if so?

🔊) Songs that you think Seungmin shines in? (Can include covers he’s done!)

🎧) Fav stray kids song and album in general?

🎙) A song you want stray kids to cover? A song you want Seungmin to cover?

💽) Fav mixtape track? And what 3racha song do you want to be a future mixtape track?

🎬) Fav stray kids clip / video? Fav Seungmin clip / video?

📕) Fav era / concept for stray kids? Fav era / concept for Seungmin?

🙅‍♀️) Least fav era / concept for Seungmin? Fav era / concept for stray kids? If not applicable, what concept would you hope they and he never do?

👟) Fav outfit Seungmin has worn?

👞) Fav outfit other stray kids members have worn?

👠) Least fav outfit Seungmin has worn?

🥿) Least fav outfit other members have worn?

👕) A piece of clothing / outfit / something he and other members have worn that you want to steal?

👖) A piece of clothing / outfit / something he and other members have worn that you want to burn so it never sees the light of day again?

✂️) If you could style Seungmin, how’d you style him? (Crack Ex: I would make him wear 80s short shorts, cowboy boots, and I would slick back his hair with shiny, thick gel) Do it for the rest of the members as well, if you want!

👑) Fav hairstyle on Seungmin?

🎩) Fav hairstyles in the other members?

🖌) Fav haircolor Seungmin rocked? What is a color you hope to see him sport in the future?

🖍) Have you or do you dye your hair? Fav color you’ve dyed it, if so?

💋) Fav facial feature of his? How many kisses would you give him on that spot ;)? (2nd part optional <3)

😉) Fav physical feature of his that’s not his face? (Ex: I think he has nice shoulders)

🗣) What’s your fav thing about Seungmin’s personality? Fav quirks of his?

🍪) How do you feel about Seungmin’s mole?

🥛) Do you have any moles or beauty marks yourself?

😆) Fav Seungmin meme?

🥴) What meme / vine / tweet gives you Seungmin vibes?

😝) What’s something Seungmin does / has done that make you wanna yell “ME!”

😗) Out If all nine members, who do you relate to the most?

💌) Write Seungmin a confession / love letter!

💞) Fav ship with Seungmin? (Platonic and/or romantic)

💕) What would your relationship dynamic be like? (Plantonic and/or romantic)

💗) Do you personally think you and Seungmin are compatible? (Plantonically and/or Romantically)

💖) Would you rather have Seungmin as your best friend or significant other? Pick another member of stray kids to fill up the other title. (Ex: I would have Seungmin as my best friend and Changbin as my significant other)

💝) Do you believe in true love or soulmates?

❣️) What would you give him at a fan sign? (Ex: A flower crown and a letter)

💔) Saddest Seungmin moment / moment that made you emo?

❤️) Recommend your fav Seungmin content made by stay! (Fics, moodboards, edits, users, youtube videos, crack, etc)

🧡) If you had one day with Seungmin, how would you spend it? Where would you go? What would you do? Etc.

💛) What’s something about Seungmin that you think should be talked about more?

💚) What would be your dream Seungmin fan interaction? (Ex: he blows you a kiss at a concert)

💙) How do other Seungmin stans make you feel? Are you friends with any? If so tag them and tell them how much you love them!!

💜) Do you have a fav Seungmin au? (Ex: Prince! Seungmin)

💟) Ship yourself and your mutuals with the members of stray kids!

🖤) What’s something Seungmin does that makes you lose your mind?

🏆) If you fought Seungmin, who would win? (Physically and/or verbally)

🥊) What would be the cause of you and Seungmin fighting? (Physically and/or verbally)

⚡️) Which Hogwarts house do you think Seungmin belongs in? What is your Hogwarts house in comparison?

🛍) Pretend you’re going on a shopping trip with Seungmin. Which stores would you hit up? Do you think he’d be helpful? If he bought you an ugly jacket, would you wear it? (Wow I really threw Hyunjin under the bus lmao)

🧭) If stray kids landed in your hometown, where would you take them? (Yes you can sit next to Seungmin whenever you’d like ;))

🙄) How often are you blown away / irritated by other’s stupidity?

🍼) Are you babey? How does the word ‘uwu’ make you feel, do you use it?

😶) Do you have a resting bitch face? Resting sad face? Or are you cursed with an approachable face?

😐) What is your main emotion / emotion you feel the most? Does Seungmin change that?

🧀) Remember when Seungmin was an MC on After School Club? Did you like him on there? Did you miss it?

😎) Rapper Seungmin. Thoughts?

🕴) How does Seungmin’s Dance to day6’s shoot me make you feel? Have you ever done the dance yourself, if you haven’t pls do it now and share your experience!

🎤) Do you like to sing? Are you any good?

🎹) Do you play any instruments? How long have you been playing them?

🎼) Go to kaoroke song? How embarrassing are you at kaoroke?

🚘) Fav song to blast in the car? Who’s in the car with you?

🤘) What’s a song you really wanna see live?

💃) Fav song to dance to?

👣) How good are you at dancing / choreography?

📷) Do you like photography?

🎞) What are some of your hobbies?

🌟) What are your personal talents / skills?

🎓) How good were you at school? And what’s the most trouble you got yourself into at school?

⚾️) Do you play any sports? Support any teams? Fav sport? How do you feel about baseball?

🐶) Do you have a dog, or a pet in general? Can you please show us a pic of them if so?

👹) Are you the type of person to annoy or get annoyed?

👺) Are you the prankster or are you the one who gets pranked?

🤪) Everyone has a person who they tease. Who is someone you tease? (Unnecessary Ex: Seungmin teases Changbin)

😈) Evil Seungmin or Soft Seungmin?

💀) Fav evil thing he’s done?

😇) Fav soft thing he’s done?

💄) Barefaced Seungmin or Madeup Seungmin?

👔) Casual Seungmin or Dressed up Seungmin?

💣) Are you a hard stan or a soft stan? If you’re a mixture of both, tell us your percentages (Ex: 3% soft stan, 97% hard stan)

💉) Thoughts on tats and piercings? Do you have any or plans on getting any?

🔪) Kill or be killed? Die for or kill for?

🔫) Weapon of choice?

💪) Beat up or give a stern talking to?

🙏) How forgiving are you? Do you hold grudges?

💍) Do you prefer to woo or be wooed?

🌺) Do you blush easily / get flustered? Or do you make people blush / get flustered?

😳) Are you shy? What situations make you shy, if not?

😀) Things that make you :D?

🤓) Are you an introvert, extrovert, or ambivert?

☹️) Are you an optimist, pessimist, realist or opportunist?

💯) Are you a perfectionist?

🔮) Fav mythical creature? If you and Seungmin were mythical creatures / beings, what would y’all be?

⚰️) Vampires or werewolves? (This is a serious, valid question, okay? It tells a lot about someone)

🎃) Fav Holiday? How do you spend it? Any holiday traditions?

🍂) Fav season? Your fav aesthetics for that season? (Ex: Winter: snowflakes, fuzzy socks, hot cocoa, ugly sweaters, smell of cinnamon)

👻) Do you like horror movies? If so, what’s your fav and which are you excited for seeeing when it comes out?

🐭) Fav Disney movie? If Seungmin and yourself were characters in that movie, who would y’all be?

📺) Do you watch Kdrama? If so, what are your favs?

📽) Your Fav variety show? Have skz appeared on it, if so tell us your fav part of that ep?

🍰) Fav dessert? Would you share it with him or tell him to get his own?

♈️) Whats your astrological sign / birth chart (if you know your birth chart)? Are your signs ‘compatible’ with his? (Ex: I’m a Virgo and so is he so we’re comparible! I don’t know my birth chart so I’ll leave it at that)

👯‍♀️) Whats your role in friend groups? (Ex: Carefree gay uncle who’s house is the fun one to hang out at)

👄) What languages can you speak? Please say ‘hi, I love Seungmin’ in each ;)!

❄️) Have you ever seen snow in person? How do you feel about snow?

🌼) Fav flower and/or plant?

🌱) If Seungmin were a plant, what plant would he be? Why? (Ex: he’s a cactus flower, cuz he can be prickly to his members cough cough changbin cough but he has a heart of gold, and can grow despite the driest of deserts!) feel free to say which plant you’d be as well!!

🌾) Do you go on walks? Do you listen to music while you do it? Where’s your fav spot to go?

✈️) Dream vacation?

🐤) Are you a morning bird or a night owl?

🏞) Mountains or beaches?

☂️) Rain or shine?

🐱) Cats or dogs?

📱) Mobile to desktop?

💻) Vlive or YouTube?

🍽) Breakfast in bed or late night takeout?

🏙) Country side or city?

🎀) Play with someone’s hair or have your hair played with?

☀️) Do you burn or tan? (Either way please take care of your skin and wear sun block!)

☕️) Tea or coffee?

📖) Books or movies?

🔥) Cool or hot?

[cloudycrystalkpop]

50 questions tag

tagged by @mint-yooxgi ~

1. What takes up too much of your time? watching youtube tbh

2. What makes your day better? when people send me videos/photos of my biases

3. What’s the best thing that happened to you today? one of my favorite people on tic toc followed me back and said she liked my oc (and duet me since writing this!)

4. What fictional place would you like to go? Narina

5. Are you good at giving advice? yes

6. Do you have any mental illness? yes

7. Have you ever experienced sleep paralysis? oh goodheavens no. i’m a lucid dreamer that would horrify me

8. What musician inspired you the most? Gerard Way

9. Have you ever fallen in love? i would say no

10. What’s your dream date? walking in historic graveyards or dancing at something like Mardi Gras

11. What do others notice about you? my facial expressions

12. What is the annoying habit you have? when i get board i tend to start picking at my skin

13. Do you still talk to your first love? nope

14. How many ex’s do you have? two

15. How many songs are on your playlist? to many

16. What instruments can you play? none

17. Who do you have the most pictures of? probably myself? or haechan.

18. Where would you like to go before you die? Japan and Thailand

19. What is your zodiac? Taurus sun Gemini moon

20. Do you relate to it? to some extent 

21. What is happiness to you? the wind in my hair and the earth under my feet. the water on my fingers and the warmth on my back.

22. Are you going through anything right now? yep

23. What’s the worst decision you’ve ever made? i broke my ankle and then danced on it for a month. i can’t drive for long distances now or it swells. but i don’t regret it.

24. What’s your favorite store? oddities shops

25. What’s your opinion on abortion? your body your choice

26. Do you keep a bucket list? kinda

27. Do you have a favorite album at the moment? I am Who by Stray Kids

28. What do you want for your birthday? to see NCT127 with @nervousbby

29. What are most people’s first impression of you? mature and creative

30. What age do you seem according to most people? mid to late twenties

31. Where do you keep your phone while you’re sleeping? under my pillow

32. What word do you say the most? “lit”

33. What’s the oldest age you would date? three to four years older then me. which right now is twenty two

34. What’s the youngest age you would date? 18 (bc im an adult and i aint here to creep on kids) but in the future it would be two years younger then me.

35. What job/career do most people say would suit you? surgeon or doctor

36. What’s your favorite music genre? hip hop, kpop, and punk rock.

37. If you could live in any country in the world where would it be? idk, i’d like to study in japan

38. What is your current favorite song? Alligator by Monsta X

39. How long have you had this blog for? just over a year i think.

40. What are you excited for? moving out

41. Are you a better talker or listener? listener, but i will ramble about who knows what if you’ll shut up long enough to let me

42. What is the last productive thing you did? took a shower

43. What do you want for Christmas? don’t celebrate

44. What class do you get the best grades in? not in school

45. On a scale from 1-10, how are you feeling right now? 4.5

46. What can you see yourself doing in 10 years? mixing things with alcohol that probably shouldn’t be

47. When did you get your first heartbreak? when i was 10 my childhood cat died

48. At what age do you want to get married? hahaha, i doubt i will

49. What career did you want to have as a child? a vet

50. What do you crave now? happiness. that would be swell

i tag: @nervousbby @stan-magic @thisisgospelofthehorizon

[btsmutandstuff]

BTS Reactions

Being caught jamming to Shine - Pentagon

Request: the most relatable anon in the world: “Hey babe! I love your writing so much you're one of my favourites! Could i request a reaction? Bts catching you singing and dancing around to pentagon - shine and are a little jealous? Lol i was listening to it and felt guilty so i think it would be hilarious 💙”

A/N: goddam if this ain’t me... I love this prompt and I think I kept it mostly short and sweet and pretty fluffy.

Seokjin:

Jin knows, and ultimately doesn’t care, that you stan a bunch of kpop groups. Pentagon has been your most recent infatuation, and their song Shine has been cycling through your queue pretty frequently.

You had played it in the car with Jin, Jungkook and Yoongi the other day, and Jungkook was being a smartass, telling you how disloyal you’re being as a girlfriend to the eldest member of BTS. You roll your eyes and Yoongi quietly joins him, snubbing you for trading your boyfriend in for a newer model- all of Pentagon. You scoffed and shot back some sassy comments to the two trolls as Jin laughed his chirpy giggle, completely unphased other than finding the whole notion hilarious.

Since then, Jin has brought it up when he hears you playing Shine as if he’s caught you red handed each time. He trolls you with fake disdain, tells you he met a cute girl in the elevator, or goes full Dad and tells you he’s taking away your Jin privileges for the night. He’s of course joking, but you can’t help but laugh when he catches you this time. You were cooking something in the kitchen and decided to play it pretty loud, knowing it would draw him out of his room. He pokes his head into the kitchen, eyes bugging out of his head and his puffy lips open in shock.

“Jagi! How dare you!” he begins, his tirade ramping up. He comes over to you and gets right up in your face, poking you gently just under your collar bone like he’s picking on you. You can’t help but laugh as he starts losing it.

“How can you be so disrespectful to your boyfriend?! I’m so loyal and this is what I get in return?!” He shakes his head as he rambles, a smile creeping onto his face as you throw yourself into his arms, laughing harder and harder as he gets red in the face, eventually laughing with you.

Namjoon:

“Babygirl, I’m still your favorite rapper, right?” The question shocks you a little. You’ve been nothing but a stan to him from day one, as a musician and your boyfriend.

“Joon...” you say, tone questioning.

“Never mind, I’m just kidding,” he says, brushing it off. His cheeks are just a bit pink though, clearly embarrassed at revealing his insecurity.

“No! You know you’re my favorite and I’m not just saying that,” you say, reassuring him of what he already knows. He pulls you into a hug and sighs. You peek up at him. “Can I ask where that came from?” You feel his throat shift a little as he swallows before answering. 

“I heard you listening to that Pentagon group…that new song?” he says, suddenly way more casual than before. You would have bought it but he’s not looking you in the eye.

“Mhm….” you coax, knowing he’s probably not actually upset or concerned by this. He’d be more concerned if you only ever listened to him and BTS. He’s a tough guy and an intellectual on the outside but a softie when he’s alone with you.

“And I heard you talking to your friend and doing the “Yutoda” part and talking about his voice and how deep it is…” he spills, tapering off at the end as you start smiling and blushing a little. 

“What?” he asks, tugging on your wrists. 

“You’re so cute, Joonieeeee!!” you whine, pulling his arms around you again and laughing. 

“I don’t know what I’m doing,” he says, confused at your reaction. 

“Joonie, you’re jealous!” you say, reaching up and squishing his cheeks. 

“Umnot jealoush,” he mumbles as you mush his cheeks around his mouth. You smile and pull him into a normal hug.

“You’re my favorite still. Rapper and boyfriend,” you assure him.

“I know, jagi,” he says, rubbing your back a little. His hand stops.

“Wait…favorite boyfriend?” 

Yoongi: 

There they go again, the first six notes of “Shine”, plunked out practically perfectly. You whip your head around, annoyed and amused at Yoongi’s antics at the keyboard in his studio. 

“Seriously?” You look at him incredulously, fighting back the giggle in your stomach. He can be such a troll, but it’s that kind of subtle humor that’s infectiously funny, even to the butt of his joke. And lately, that’s you after he opened your car door to find you blasting the latest Pentagon hit. He ignores you, only smirking to show his satisfaction at getting on your nerves. He rolls some chords, seemingly dropping his joke, until you start to recognize the tune he’s improvising on. He hums a little in his soft voice and confirms the nagging feeling in the back of your head.

“Hmmm….nobody likes youuuu…” he sings quietly, turning a bit in his swiveling office chair to peek at where you’re fuming at him from the couch. You toss a pillow at him, your eyes wide and your mouth hanging open at how ridiculous he’s being.

“I can’t be a fan of another boy group now?!” you squeal, unable to keep from smiling at how amused he is with this little ruse. 

“I never said that,” he mumbles, working hard to hide his smile. “….more like a stan,” he says under his voice, just loud enough for you to hear.

“Well if I’m not mistaken, somebody seems a little jealous,” you say with a sweet tone to your voice, leaning back on the couch and refocusing on your phone. You bite your lip to hide the smile creeping onto your face when you hear his chair swivel around and the familiar scoff. 

“I’m not jealous.” You let his statement settle a moment, knowing he’s waiting for you to retaliate. You finally glance up from your phone to find him slouched back in his chair, facing you. He’s looking at you like as if you’re crazy but he’s also a kid, caught in a lie. You nod at him, innocent look to your eye. You know that’ll drive him nuts. You know how to push his buttons better than anyone. 

“I’m not, Y/N.”

“Totally, babe,” you say, smiling a little and blowing him a kiss. He rolls his eyes and turns around before you can see more than a glimpse of the smile spreading across his face. It’s silent for a moment until you hear him stifle a quiet laugh, then the same six notes that started this whole debacle. 

Hoseok:

You dance around as the chorus comes again, doing your best to imitate the signature move but failing miserably. You tell yourself it’s fine though, since the only audience you have is the half baked cookies you have in the oven as you jam out to Pentagon’s song. 

“Yutoda!” you say in your best man voice, waving your arms around as he begins rapping his verse. You turn to the oven and bend, checking on your cookie status as you bounce slightly to the beat; the song picks up a little as it reaches the final refrain. You do your best to attempt their move again, never quite getting the hand and kick coordination that they seem to have. 

“Ahem…” You whip around at the sound and find Hoseok in the entrance to the kitchen, hand slightly covering his eyes. You flush pink as you realize he’s been watching you long enough to see your sad attempt at the dance for this song, and you groan, turning away from him. He laughs and comes up behind you, hugging you. 

“It’s not that bad,” he says. You turn around to face him, eyes dead serious. Really? That’s what he’s gonna open with.

“I’ve always told you that I would love to teach you a dance!” he says, changing the topic quickly after freezing under your steely gaze. Your mood brightens a little at the fun, albeit a bit embarrassing proposition. 

“Really?” you ask, interest peaked and smile sneaking back across your face.

“Of course, babe! What song do you want to learn?” he asks, going over to your phone. 

“This one! How do they get their hands and feet to go the same direction? Also I feel like I’m gonna fall over every time I get close.” He pauses for a moment and listens, shrugging a little. You wait, expecting him to start the song but he doesn't. 

“I don’t know,” he says, occupying himself with looking through your playlist of songs. “I’ve never gotten it before. What about Fire? I can teach you that choreo easy.” You scrunch up your brow, momentarily confused. 

“Hobi you do that move like every other day. Every time you see Jungkook.” He sighs and puts your phone down, acting like you’re asking him to do a bunch of chores. He shuffles over to you and fidgets with your sweatshirt strings. 

“You don’t wanna learn my dances?” he says, voice quiet and a little whiney. 

“Seriously, Hobi?” he looks at you like he’s pouting, making you laugh a little. “Oh my gosh you’re actually jealous!” 

“I am not! I just think that the first time you let me teach you some moves should be to my music!” he blurts out, tugging on your wrists. You laugh and reach up to pinch his cheek, mimicking his pouty face. He’s rarely jealous and you can’t help but find it amusing. He’s not actually hurt or anything, he’s just being his goofy self.

“Ok how about we save this dance for the next time, and you teach me Blood, Sweat & Tears now?” you compromise, poking at his cheek. He smiles and hugs you, quiet for a moment. 

“I’d love to……except it’s already 10pm and I don’t feel like staying up until dawn,” he jokes, poking your side. You scoff at him, whacking his arm at his mean but funny joke. You weren’t that bad..right?

 Jimin: 

You loved going on drives with Jimin because you got to hang out and play your favorite new music for each other. Sometimes the two of you would run errands and other times you simply got in the car and drove around just to spend time together listening to songs. Plus you knew Jimin would eventually end up singing to you; something that still melts your heart even after dating him for this long.

“Have you heard this Pentagon song?” you ask, grabbing the aux cord. He makes a noise but doesn’t really confirm anything. You eye him a little strangely. “Oh wait you totally have. You must have heard me playing it by now. I’m obsessed with it,” you say, brushing off his lack of comment and starting the song, miming the keyboard intro on the dashboard.

“You sure are,” he says, a little under his breath. You sing along to the song you’ve basically memorized. Not caring that he’s eyeing you while at this red light. Nothing could embarrass you in front of him anymore.

“Ooooooh this is my favorite part!!” you squeal and stick your hand in the air, as if you have to silence him. One of Pentagon’s members sings some beautiful high note and you can’t help but gush.

“Oh my god I love how high his voice is. Don’t you live that part?” you ask, expecting some normal conversation from the usually cheerful man. He kind of side smiles and shrugs his shoulders, mouth pressed closed. Strange, seeing as he normally can’t go 20 seconds into a song without taking a harmony part. “That’s it? Do you not like Pentagon or something? I can change the song..” you say, shrugging and ready to brush it off.

“No, it’s fine. Pentagon’s fine. Besides, if you’re so obsessed with them then they’re probably good,” he comments, keeping his eyes purposefully away from your gaze. You pause, wondering if he’s beingvthis obvious on purpose. Is he being a troll or is he actually jealous? Honestly, it’s hard to tell.

“Don’t get jealous, Jiminie,” you purr, teasing him with your tone of voice. He rolls his eyes.

“I’m not jealous,” he says, trying to remain casual.

“Come on...” you say, trying to get him to look at you. He finally gives in and meets your eyes, immediately smiling a little and breaking his overtly casual facade. “You know that if I’m going to swoon over anyone’s high notes, they’ll be yours.”

It’s corny, but you know that little reassurances like those mean the world to him. He smiles and squeezes your hand.

“I know.”

Taehyung:

Your friend sent you a link to their song a few weeks ago and it had been on rotation for you since then. Pentagon dropped a banger and now you can’t stop listening to it. In fact, it was playing in the car as you drove with your friend.

“Are we picking up Tae from rehearsal before dropping me off?” she asks, turning up the volume a little as you turn the corner.

“Yup!” You head down the block and pull over, parking and reaching for your phone to text Tae. A minute later he comes out and hops in the back, scooting forward in the seat to kiss your cheek and say hi to your friend.

“You’re listening to this again?” he asks, immediately recognizing the song that seems to be on loop whenever you’re around recently.

“It’s a good song!” you justify, knowing he can’t argue.

“Plus Pentagon is so spicy,” your friend adds. “I mean I don’t know about you but all I can think about when I hear this is them doing the dance to it and Yuto’s fricken low voice and UGHHH,” she babbles, completely unfazed by how candid she’s being.

“Oh please,” Tae says, taking a condescending tone of voice with your friend. They’ve always had a natural banter that usually leaves you cackling. “Someone’s gotten a little idol crazy since I last saw her,” he chides.

“Idol crazy? Let’s not get ahead of ourselves here, V,” she says using his stage name. “Maybe Pentagon crazy, but if I didnt know any better I’d say you were making assumptions about me, hm?”

Tae laughs and fakes a stinging pain where his heart is, clasping a hand over his chest as if he’s been wounded by her clap back. Soon enough you’ve pulled up in front of her building and parked. He hops out of the car as you say goodbye to your friend and slides into the passenger seat next to you. Your friend leans down onto the edge of the rolled down window, ignoring Tae and looking at you.

“Y/N, you should date someone from Pentagon and give me an in with the rest of the members,” she says, smiling sweetly and biting back a laugh at Tae’s shocked and horrified face. He’s always one for dramatics. You laugh and wave as she backs up.

“She would never!” he calls to her, rolling the window up.

“I’ll think about it!” you yell, just before the window closes fully. You hear her muffled laugh as she walks towards her building. You pull away and head home, Tae’s hand over your leg. A few moments of comfortable silence pass before you ask him how rehearsal was. You aren’t expecting his response to be a follow up question.

“You wouldn’t really date someone else right?” It’s so out of nowhere and unexpected that you look at him, wondering if you should laugh. “I mean you wouldn’t break up with me to...to try and date-“ he fumbles.

“No.” He looks at you with that goofy face, his eyes wide and his lips parted a little. He can be so naive sometimes. He really doesn’t get how entirely in love with him you are. “I wouldn’t. You know that,” you say calmly, squeezing his hand in yours. He smiles and immediately calms, blushing a little as he realizing how irrational his moment of doubt just now was. His hand slips from yours to your phone, scrolling through your playlist, you assume. The song changes and you smile, immediately looking at him to shoot him your best “Are you serious?” face. He’s perfectly pleased with himself, looking straight ahead and attempting to keep his composure as the first few notes of Singularity play.

Jungkook:

“Kookie, look at this!” you say, tossing him your phone from where you’re layed out on the bed, head opposite from his where he’s leaning against the headboard. The two of you had been relaxing on his day off, chilling at home and watching movies. He takes your phone and watches the video you had queued up for him. It’s a video of Pentagon doing Shine but as an acoustic version. It’s fun and colorful and the members look like they’re having fun with each other. He watches and smiles here and there. He hands your phone back to you before it’s over and you furrow your brow a little. You sit up and scoot closer to him, showing him again.

“Wait, but watch this part! They’re having so much fun!” you hold the phone for him to see the part you’re talking about. He watches and nods before looking at his phone again. “That’s it?” you say, expecting more of a reaction from him, at least on how the video is shot so well.

“It’s good,” he says, clearly not getting it like you do.

“Would you and the guys ever do something like this? I bet ARMY would love it,” you comment.

“Yeah, maybe. I don’t know,” he says, and you know he’s brushing it off.

“I just like how you can hear their voices so well. You can tell they’re super talented.” His interest seems peaked at that comment.

“Jagi, you can still edit a video that’s supposed to be acoustic, you know?” he says. You shoot him a suspicious look.

“I know!... and I don’t think I like your tone, Jungkook.” you say, sassing him right back. “I’m not saying you have to do it,” you begin, knowing how to peak his competitive interest. “Especially if you’re uncomfortable being that exposed.” He looks at you like you’ve accused him of treason. “You know, without all the mics and backup tracks and-“ you tease, getting cut of by him crawling over to you and poking your sides, making you laugh and squirm under him.

“Wait here,” he says, and gets up, leaving you flustered. He comes back a moment later and return with a guitar, the one Jin let him borrow to practice on. He pops back down on the bed and sets himself up, clearing his throat. “Get ready for the best acoustic version of War of Hormone you’ve ever heard,” he trolls, putting on a seductive face and strumming the guitar aggressively.

[jungblue]

rain is a really good song and it’s so underrated :(

agree! a lot of bts’ older songs with that vibe are underrated. that’s why i love ly her’s outro so much. that vibe gives me a lot of old school bts nostalgia

Anonymous said: Kale and mushroom and onions pizza? Some ppl don’t like just veggies on pizza but I think it’s delicious…😅

disagree ;;;; i’m a plain cheese pizza type of person lol

Anonymous said: 🗣📣BEING A FAN DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE TO OBSESS OVER, ALWAYS AND ONLY VOTE FOR, AND HAVE TO LIKE EVERY SINGLE THING RELATED TO A GROUP/PERSON. IF YOU LIKE THEM, THAT MEANS YOURE A FAN. NO MORE OR LESS THAN ANYONE ELSE IN THE FANDOM. Thank you for comeing to my Ted talk

AGREEEEE. honestly the only time i ever really go on twitter is during comebacks just bc i like to keep up with stuff, but that’s also the worst time for manager fans. like i have 17 aneurysms scrolling through those tweets with warped ass views on what a fan is

Anonymous said: People need to stop being disrespectful to other idols. Like asking for another idol during something they’re obviously not around for. Like hobi’s vlives and stuff. If you’re going to stan a group, you need to be respectful and stan each member even if they aren’t your bias.

agreeee. that annoys tf out of me. if someone’s doing a vlive, stop asking for other members. let them talk about what they wanna talk about. also just in general stop asking about bts on other group’s vlives. it’s embarrassing, and definitely annoying for the group you’re spamming

Anonymous said: Hobi shouldn’t feel the need to be 110% excited all the time and be screaming... not everyone can be that high tension all the time and I feel really sorry for him bc i always think about when he said he feels he has to be like excited bc of his stage name..

agree! i wish he didn't feel the need to be upbeat all time just for the sake of others. you’re allowed to seem down or even just sit there neutrally. being the life of the party is definitely exhausting, and i hope he understands that it’s okay to just relax and take time to himself

Anonymous said: Idk if anybody here cares but you know when a band member (not Kpop necessarily) leaves the group and goes to make solo music? Like Camila Cabello left fifth harmony? I feel like the solo music is always better than the group music and idk if it’s because that person gets more creative opportunities or what.

i agree, though i think it depends on the type of music you’re into. often times when people go solo from groups, they all do wildly different genres. so it just depends on your taste i think ;;;; plus once you go solo you’ve been in the industry in a while and grown as a person, so that could also be a reason

Anonymous said: Unpopular opinion: Just because I like to read BTS smut every now and then, doesn’t mean I’m thirsty for them. I just like if the story has a good plot and great writing. Like yours!!!! 😊

i agree. usually i’m not reading a story for the smut specifically. i just want a story. though there are admittedly times when i am just in the mood for a raunchy smut lol

Anonymous said: a lot of people disagree but skinny-shaming is a thing? i always get shit for being flat and having really thin arms.

i agree that it definitely can be a thing. i mean i’ve heard people say insulting comments about people being too skinny. some people legitimately can’t help it. putting on weight is just difficult for them. it’s unfortunate that people’s bodies are always under scrutiny 

Anonymous said: bangtan’s fashion is really fuckin nice but sometimes they wear clothes that are soooo eccentric(?) i mean, they pull it off but any non-celebrity person would look so weird njsjkncs like hobi’s oversized balenciaga shirt lmao

lolol i agree. like i personally would never wear some of the stuff that they do, but hey it’s what they like so that’s all that matters

Anonymous said: Jungkooks undercut 🤤

i agree with and support all undercuts lol

Anonymous said: Jungkook with tattoos ❣ (on that note all of them should be allowed to do whatever they want to their body its not up to anyone to approve or disapprove 💪)

agree that they should be able to wear / do whatever they want to their bodies without other’s opinions dictating them. just let them be

Anonymous said: Yoongi looks better with a lil bit of chub in his face

agree. they all look better with chub. though i’m the type of person that literally never notices a difference in their weights. people are like oh [insert member] looks like they lost too much weight, and i’m like they look the exact same to me but alright lol. though i don’t like speculating on things like their weight in the first place. they’re adults and they can handle their health 

Anonymous said: I think shipping is okay but I doubt any of bts would ever really be in romantic relationships with each other simply bc it’s unprofessional and could cause problems for the group

i agree, but i think most people involved in shipping think this. that it’s not serious. it’s just for fun. but it’s like with anything. the delusional fans get the most attention compared to the normal fans that keep to themselves and don’t harass people

Anonymous said: bts’ military exemption shouldn’t even be considered. they special, but they ain’t that special. ☕️

i agree, but i did read the article that this is in reference to, and it wasn’t just about bts. it was about kpop artists not getting exemptions like classically trained musicians, and kdrama actors not getting exemptions like theater actors, ect. they just used bts as an example to get people to click on the article. military service is an important topic over there, so whatever they decide is their business. i’m not korean, so i don’t have an opinion really

these were the opinions i didn’t get to last night! thanks to everyone that participated!

[ohwiseswami]

why people don’t take kpop seriously: a listicle

Invalid/ignorant reasons I’ve seen

large female fanbase

This is probably one of the biggest arguments I’ve seen for people not taking kpop seriously. This reasoning is invalid because it’s rooted in the idea that the thoughts and opinions of young women are invalid. You can even see this thought process with artists who feel like having male fans is more impressive/better than female fans. I completely understand that kpop fans period can be extreme and very annoying but that’s not exclusive to girls nor is it a reason to dislike the music itself. I personally can’t stand most artist stans but I can still respect artists enough to take their art seriously if that’s what they clearly want

lack of diversity, read: lack of white people

A lot of people complain that kpop doesn’t include enough westerners (which almost never means koreans born outside of asia, black people, southeast/southwest asians, etc.) as if white people must be included in all spaces. It’s dumb to have to say this but kpop doesn’t have to be white for white people to relate to it

because it’s korean

Yeah, I’ve literally heard people say this... Not only is this blatantly xenophobic but it also makes no sense? If you can listen to and enjoy Latin music, which is largely infused with, and (in the case of certain culture vultures) ripped off of West Indian music, you can get into korean music. I understand the language barrier can be difficult but I can guarantee you that anyone who sang Despacito, Gasolina, or any Daddy Yankee/Wisin & Yandel/etc. track had no clue what those songs were about

Also, the people who say this are usually trying to cover up for latent gender normativity/xenophobia and don’t want to like it because the fashion/performative element usually doesn’t conform to gender norms and simply focuses on korean/east asian people

Valid reasons I’ve seen

kpop doesn’t take itself seriously

This is actually pretty true and very valid. You can see this in the way idols respond to certain questions like, “what is your favorite song right now?” “Do you listen to your own songs?”, etc. For example, very recently in an interview, Bam Bam asked an interviewer what songs he sings in the shower and the interviewer said a GOT7 song and not only did Bam Bam looked at him with that u lyin face but he also said ‘oh come on, we know that’s not true.” Now you can make the case that it was just a joke (I don’t doubt it), but it’s not the first time an idol has alluded to not liking their own work or not thinking of their own work as impressive/real music/etc.

Whenever an idol is asked about their favorite music, they always resort to either k-hiphop/k-r&b artists or american artists. They almost never cite their own music or even when they make public playlists, you’d be hard pressed to find their own songs (or even other kpop songs) on those artists’ playlists

kpop is western pop if western pop was trapped in the early 2000s

i’ve talked about this before on this blog and so have many others so I’m not going to expound on this too much. Just know that all idols attend the United States School of Popular Music and pass ‘Adult Contemporary & Popular Artists of the 1995-2005′ with flying colors

cringey, repetitive, manufactured music and images 

Again, I don’t really need to say much here because some idol groups are here 5+ years later with music that hasn’t changed since debut. There’s no reason why Du Duu Du Duu should sound like Boombayah’s cursed twin, Blackpink. Also, why do many idols seem to have copy paste personalities? I blame this point mostly on the companies themselves for controlling idols to some extent but at some point idols are just inauthentic

insensitivity & widespread inappropriate behavior being swept under the rug

this deserves its own post but nearly every popular idol has said/done things that are absolutely deplorable, with some even having whole sexual assault cases and drunk driving strikes against them as if putting other people’s lives in danger is a fun hobby. Dating is not a scandal, getting a sun tan (??) is not a scandal, cursing is not a scandal. Racism IS a scandal, blackface IS a scandal, sexual assault IS a scandal, homicidal tendencies IS a scandal. I swear a lot of k-fans have some backwards as perceptions of reality. The latter, NOT the former is what turns i-fans off from kpop the most

All in all, I understand not caring for kpop but I also realize that some people just don’t like what’s unfamiliar.

[maergo]

1-100 if you feel like it and for any blanks ummm insert your favorite and unfavorite groups (every other) idk if you don’t wanna then don’t lol

Oh I’m in for it hahaha

When did you first get into kpop?I got to know about it in 2009 but actually got into it in 2012

Who was your first ultimate bias?Luna from f(x)

Who is your current ultimate bias?Jonghyun from SHINee, he’s been my ultimate ever since I really got into kpop and I doubt it’ll ever change

Any now disbanded groups you’d bring back?I don’t think I have any groups that I’d really bring back

What was the first artist/group you liked?f(x) was the first group I really got into

How did you get into kpop?Okay so in 2009 I was on this website for girls and someone posted a link to Wonder Girls’ Nobody, I listened to it and kinda liked it. Then for almost 2,5 years I listened to some songs every now and then until I had a friend over (that I got to know via the same website) who was really into kpop and because of her I started to listen to it more

Thoughts on BTS?They have good songs, other than that I don’t really care for them

Favourite girl group?f(x)

Favourite boy group?SHINee

Thoughts on EXO?It’s really doubte with them, during their first year I really liked them but got annoyed with both SM as well as their fans for throwing them into everyone’s faces so much

Who do you stan right now?SHINee still

What’s your favourite kpop ship?Jongho

Thoughts on Twice?Don’t care for them at all, I’ve heard a few songs but it’s not my thing

If you could join any k-pop group, which and why?None actually, the groups I would consider joining are slept on so I don’t think it’s really worth it

Give an unpopular opinion about something kpop related?I hate how some fans claim certain actions to be of a specific group when in reality those actions were already done before that group even debuted. Not gonna be more specific than this.

Thoughts on red-velvet?I like em

Favourite solo artist?How surprised will you be if I say Jonghyun?

Favourite female idol?Amber

Favourite male idol?…..Still Jonghyun

Most underrated idol in your opinion?Uh Minho tbh HIS VOICE IS BEING SLEPT ON

Which groups do you find are overrated?Okay so not long ago I was talking about NCT, BTS and EXO, that I thought they’re overrated, but for the past 3 days I’ve only been listening to NCT and I’ve come to like BTS their longs better too since a little while so I don’t really think I have any groups left that I find overrated, with EXO it has kind of gotten less too

Any groups you dislike?I don’t dislike any group

Own any merch? if so, what?I don’t, at least not official merch

Thoughts on Seventeen?Again, not my thing

If you could date one idol, who would it be and why?Either Minho or Jinki, they seem to be perfect boyfriends tbh

Can you speak korean?Other than some really basic words and phrases, no

Last k-pop MV you watched?NCT 127 - Touch

Who’s your bias in [Enter group name here]?SHINee - Jonghyun

Any groups you think shouldn’t have debuted at all?Any group deserved their debut

Favourite kpop songs?I’ll pick favorite songs from different groups/ artists, otherwise you’ll get an entire list with just SHINee/ Jonghyun-NCT 127 - Touch-Jonghyun - Let me out-Taemin - Danger-SHINee - Excuse me miss-Trouble maker - Trouble maker-Red Velvet - Ice cream cake-f(x) - Red light-SNSD - I got a boy-AKMU - Melted-Jaejoong - Rotten Love-TVXQ - Something

Do you prefer the old generation of kpop, or the new?I don’t really care for that, the new generation makes songs that are obviously more modern but the old generation does have really nice nostalgic songs

What song do you find the most annoying?I can’t think of one so quickly

What is your most favourite kpop song?I have so many but I’ll go with one that never tires me out and that’s Excuse me miss

Thoughts on Monsta X?I feel so boring hahaha they’re also not my thing

Favourite school themed MV?Don’t have one

Thoughts on Blackpink?Don’t like their songs

What fandom do you dislike the most and why?EXO’s fandom, like I said already their fans really pushed that group into everyone’s noses

Would you ever debut in a group if you had the chance?No

Who’s your bias wrecker in [Enter group name here]This would be for a group that I don’t like/ the least favorite group but it’s hard for me at all to get a bias from a group I don’t care for so I can’t answer this one

Top 10 k-pop songs?I really am in no mood to make an actual top 10 hahaha

Which MALE group do you think has the best vocal line?dare i say it, yes i do, SHINee

Which MALE group do you think has the best rap line?I don’t really care for that

Are visuals important to you when discovering a new group?I discover new groups to discover new songs so no, it’s not important to me

What’s your favourite photo of your ultimate bias?I’ll post it at the bottom

Your favourite group leader?The one and only Lee Jinki

What song is your guilty pleasure?I don’t think I have one?

If you could meet one idol and one idol only, who would it be and why?Unfortunately Jonghyun isn’t an option anymore, so then it’d be either Minho or Jinki. Do not make me choose between them, I can’t

Would you date you ultimate bias?Even before Jonghyun’s passing I always said no, I love him a lot but I don’t think I could handle such an emotional person

If you could see one group live who would it be?SHINee

Can you do any k-pop dances?No

Which idol would you love to go on a date with?The one and only Minho

What are your thoughts on idolxidol ships?If you want to ship idols, ship them. If you don’t, then don’t.

Do you think looks are important in k-pop?Yes, looks are pretty much idols their business cards

What’d your opinion on non-korean idols?In general or as in non-Korean idols that make Korean music? Because for the latter… Idc about it tbh

Favourite non korean idol?Adam Lambert

What idol would you like to be bestfriends with?Amber

Name 3 of your most disliked groups?I don’t know enough groups to really be able to make a list

which groups do you think deserved better?f(x)

Which concept do you like the most?I don’t care for concepts

Name an underrated solo artist?n/a

Who is the biggest ____ stan you know?this would be for SHINee again and I’ll answer me because I don’t know that many other SHINee stans

What was the first kpop MV you watched?Wonder Girls - Nobody

Fuck marry kill, ____, ____ or ____?This would be for my least favorite group but it’s kinda vague to think of any members myself so – pass

Favourite [groupname] MV?SHINee - View

Which FEMALE group do you think has the best vocal line?f(x)

Which FEMALE group do you think had the best rap line?Once again, don’t care for it

Who is the prettiest female idol in your opinion?Ailee I think

Ever written a fanfiction about your favourite idol? if so, what was it about?Multiple, but it’s been too long to really remember a specific one

Thoughts on mamamoo?Never bothered to listen to their music

Do you prefer cute or sexy concepts?Sexy, I’m kind of done with the cutesy stuff, it all seems a little too forced

If you could say one sentence to your ultimate bias, what would it be?‘You did well’

Are you actively trying to learn korean?No, never bothered to either

Thoughts on Superjunior?Literal legends

Which MALE group do you think has the strongest visuals?Pffffft idk, for personal taste I’d say SHINee 

Which FEMALE group do you think has the strongest visuals?really have no idea 

Which MALE group do you think has the weakest vocal line?n/a

Which FEMALE group do you think has the weakest vocal line?n/a

How old were you when you got into kpop?16 when I really got into it

Do you have any friend at your school/work who are also into kpop?No

Do you consider yourself a kpop fan or a kpop STAN?Fan

Do you prefer english songs or kpop songs?I like both equally

Who is the most handsome male idol in your opinion?Jonghyun

Who is the most overrated idol in your opinion?Kai

Any groups you think deserved a certain award they didn’t get/n/a

Thoughts on fanwars? have you ever contributed in one?They’re fucking dumb and immature, no

Do you agree with saesangs, do you think you’re one yourself?No and no

Thoughts on koreaboos?That’s not something I ever think about

Any kpop songs/groups you cant stand?No

Favourite maknae? Don’t have one

Thoughts on the maknae of [groupname]?I’m at least favorite group again right? Idk

Thoughts on the leader of [groupname]?Favorite group again > Jinki’s soft and needs to be protected at all costs

Kpop song that’ll never get old?Replay

Ever met a kpop idol/group? if so, who and where?No

Are you planning on seeing a group in concert soon?No

Any groups that haven’t been to your country/state that you’d wish would come?SHINee

Most disliked group concept?Don’t care for concepts

Thoughts on SNSD?I’ve had a while that I liked them, then got annoyed with certain members and as of lately I’m back to accepting them again lol

Favourite 2009 song?RING DING DONG MY JAMMMM

Any idols that have retired from kpop you wished would come back?No

Favourite song by your favourite solo artists?Jonghyun - Let me out

The favorite picture:

[serendibidibidis]

ARMY

In response to This I wanted to give everyone more information as to what I’m referring to.

When they say “one incident” I assume they are referring to This post I made a few days ago

So I am here to bless you with ARMYs being problematic thanks.

“…Then there are the fan wars inside the fandoms that are always saying that "xxx is better than xxx at dancing/ singing” and there are the toxic fans that say “xxx is so ugly, why is he even in this group? ” I really just don’t get why they can’t be chill and just get along. And also, when others voice their opinions saying “I like this song better than that because it’s more of my genre”, army’s will just go at them even if they are in the same fandom. It’s really sad.“

"As a BTS stan myself, I’ve considered unstanning just because of the fans…” “…Like others have mentioned before, the fandom is extremely toxic. They constantly belittle other groups (especially senior groups who have actually paved the way for Kpop) to make BTS seem superior, can’t argue rationally or take criticism, seem to think that anyone who is not an ARMY is the enemy, and consider legitimate issues to be a joke (i.e. the fact that Psy was actually the first Kpop artist to be awarded a BBMA, and that the claim that BTS was the first Kpop act in history to win said award was incorrect). The amount of ignorance and disrespect that is in the fandom is almost sickening; you could tell a BTS fan that they’re not being correct and they’d fight you about it. I love the boys so much but it makes it hard to stan them when the fandom is so toxic.”

‘The most toxic fandom ever. When you say they’re annoying, they fight you like a 12 year old. They can’t even take criticism…’

“Honestly one of the worst fandoms I’ve ever seen (and the Skeleton Clique exists, so that’s saying something). Most of them have to remind you 24/7 that they’re ARMY’s (especially in non-kpop related youtube comment sections) and mindlessly threaten people who don’t like their music or even "worse”, fans of other K-pop bands (especially when they’re EXO-L’s). They use the fact that they won a Billboard award to mindlessly insult and harass other fandoms, while simultaneously “defending” BTS from non-existent hate, which is just stupid (like seriously, since when is “guys, please stop spamming BTS’ related stuff” on a video about strawberry jam hate? ). Some of the reasons why I left ARMY, I still listen to BTS’ stuff though, a toxic fandom is not gonna hinder me from listening to good music…“

'Their fans made me not like BTS anymore. Sad, right?…’

"Holy Crap. These people ate the most toxic people I have ever come across. They’re rude, perverted…”

'I was a ARMY before, I didn’t realise what their fandom’s true colours were. Firstly, their dirty minded. Secondly, THEY ALWAYS MUST MENTION BTS IN SOMETHING LITTLE TO NOT RELATED. Third, they only CARE about their own fandom. Whenever another group wins a award they go 'bts deserved it more’ and they keep boasting about the awards they get…’

“Honestly, I have a hard time liking BTS since this is one of the most annoying fandoms ever. It basically ruined the group for me since it’s always about being way over the top over the group or just being way too arrogant about them in the first place. Don’t get me wrong. I love their cheoregraphy and music but I absolutely cannot STAND the fandom whatsoever. I have liked BTS since 2015…” “…I guess what basically has happened is that the bad apples ruined the whole tree. Smh…”

(read more Here)

TW: rape, sexual assault.

YES I have to point out the fact that the content posted by ARMY is extremely triggering. Please tell me how that’s not problematic when they are literally making rape jokes.

(1) Photoshop…

(2) milking out a 'joke’ and turning it into this?

(3) not only are you encouraging minors to engage in sexual activities… *THEY AREN’T OLD ENOUGH FOR A REASON*** that’s a picture of a minor 🤗 ARMYs can try to pretend like none of the boys were sexualized before they turned 18, and then pretend like none of the boys have seen their tweets filled with sexual harassment yet go and BASH any woman who breathes 'too close’ to them. Whilst you slut shame western artists because they show too much skin for BTS to see, behind closed doors you sexualize bts more than anyone else.

(4) if your mentality is “he’s brushing teeth that reminds me of dick” you are literally the type of person you assume every women around bts is and who you demands stay away from bts.

(5) The shit ARMY tweets/comments to bts is sexual harassment. Y'all say shit I’ve been cat called with. THAT IS A PROBLEM Spend 20 minutes just looking through comments or replies and you will understand how constant it is too.

(6) this was made by an ARMY

Please ARMY defend this, to ME of all people.. Someone who has openly stated on her blog she’s been raped & sexually assaulted. Please ARMY justify this to me! “Oh they’re not a true ARMY” if they’re supporting bts aren’t they ARMY being that’s all ARMY means is bts fans.. Because they said something out of line they get 'kicked out’ because if that’s the case I know more than 70% of ARMY wouldn’t be ARMY anymore.

(7) ARMY literally spammed one of my favorite people with death wishes when she changed her blog name because she no longer was posting strictly about bts.

(8) ARMY literally shitting on senior groups

(9) ARMY being racist

(10) ARMY photoshopped kookie so other ARMY would blame Exo-L because what better way to get "revenge" then too fake an idols death?!

I've made my point clear that it's more ARMY than not. However I very easily could continue this argument. ARMY is problematic and it's on multiple occasions. It's not a small group of ARMY. When almost every K-pop fan can tell you about a shitty interaction they've had with an ARMY that's more than just a few. ARMY has ruined bts for my friends and is very close to ruining it for me. It's not like I'm a new K-pop fan either. I know a problematic fandom when I see it.

[onlygotafewdollas]

You have great taste in music! I really like R&B-style songs too! My playlist is so long bc whenever I hear a kpop song I like, I just it to the playlist rather than my library. Pdx101 is the first (and only) survival type show I've seen, it was simultaneously great and awful, but I'm glad I watched it. Yeah, evil editing can be annoying and it's unnecessary, I'm more interested in watching the performances and seeing them put them together and having fun -carat anon 1/?

I've heard of Immortal Songs, but I haven't watched it, I've seen clips where svt was on it tho. Being indecisive is something I can honestly relate to. I'm sure you'll make the right decision regarding the carat bong tho. I like talking to you too, it's fun! We seem to have quite a bit in common. Also, nope I'm a ghost, I died twice, after both MV teasers, this comeback is gonna slap me with a ton of bricks. Oh I've heard of Vincent Blue I think! I saw him on Youtube, I think he did a cover of something that I really liked, I think Jimin Park was also in the video maybe. I'll definitely give it a listen! Lmao I could totally see Seokmin being like "let's walk!" and I'd be like, "seriously? do we have to?" but then he'd make some cute puppy dog face and I'd cave. Hmmm I'm not sure if Shua would've watched YOI, I haven't seen it either, I'd rather watch something like BNHA with him Okay Sims is so good! That was one of my favourite things to do with my friends when I was younger, playing Sims alone is fun, but with other people, it's a whole different experience. I feel like Wonwoo would enjoy it and find it really amusing. YES OMG THE SECOND TEASER, I'M EVEN LESS READY NOW. LIKE ARE THEY TRYING TO KILL ME? Oh that must've been really hard on you, I got into kpop around that time so tbh it felt weird to get into SHINee plus I don't really stan older gen groups. But I really like Key's solo debut! Honestly that whole album is so good. Omg I love Monsta X! I got to see them in concert last month, it was honestly the best experience I've ever had, they're unbelievable on stage. Who's your bias? Mine's Jooheon. I stan a lot of groups, and listen to a whole lot more, maybe I have a problem lmao, but svt are my ults. I love that you went with dog breeds, they all fit so well! You did a good job for such a difficult question haha. I had fun looking up pics of those dog breeds since I haven't heard of some of them. Is it safe to assume you prefer dogs over cats or are you an animal lover who loves all animals? What's your favourite animal outside of those? Oh Anne! My name spelt backwards is Anne J. I'll let you figure that out lmao. We're getting close to the reveal now? When is it supposed to be again? -carat anon 

1. Ahh thanks!! R&B just hits different LOL. I think it really allows for singers to show off their voices and technical talent. Def def def check out Vincent Blue tho! 

2. Same with the whole drama and evil editing thing. Honestly the only reason I started watching Under 19 was because I was really bored and was interested in how some of the boys would perform but it started to get kinda dramatic with guys leaving and getting kicked out and blah blah blah so I tend to stick with other kinds of entertainment shows.

3. I literally just saw the second teaser and I’m gonna have to agree with you on this one, I’m dead too. Don’t even know how I made it this far as a carat without actually dying from shock from how freaking amazing they are. Hit is gonna be such a frickin bop. DROP IT ALREADY YOU COWARDS

4. oh YUP Seokmin could ask me to do anything and I’d do it willingly, no questions asked. I’m also definitely the friend in my group that insists that we can walk no matter the distance so he wouldn’t even have to try that hard with the puppy face but let’s be real I’d fake being annoyed about it so he’d give me the puppy eyes LOL

4. Ooh yes BNHA!! Or maybe even like SNK, Tokyo Ghoul, Death Parade...or we could tackle having a Naruto marathon LOL. I was caught up with Naruto at one point but then I stopped watching it and now I’m totally lost again hahaha. I also started rewatching One Piece last summer and got to episode 400 something...maybe I’ll get back on that again,,,

5. Man my parents only let me play educational computer games when I was younger so the only experience I have with sims is watching other people play! I could see the appeal tho

6. Yea, Jonghyun’s death was something that really made me stop and think about how life can be so uncertain. It was really rough bc he was one of my biases and his funeral was on my birthday that year too and idk I kinda just didn’t really know how to continue being a fan of theirs after that. But like I said, I recently got back into them and just relish the fact that his voice has been immortalized through their older songs :’)

7. DAMN HOW Y’ALL BE AFFORDING KPOP CONCERT TICKETS?? I know someone that’s gonna be seeing Svt in Seoul for Ode To You and I’m over here with my broke ass tryna figure out how to save for if they ever come to the states sdlkfjsdjflsdkfjsldkf 

8. My bias is Hyungwon bc he’s like...a living meme. There’s that one gif of him sipping his starbucks and looking all shady and it makes me laugh bc I’ve totally done the same thing before and actually do it pretty frequently LMAO. But I also really like Shownu. Have you watched his mukbang series with M2??? That show got me through the last few weeks of college I swear to god, and especially the eps where Wonho was a guest star had me DEAD 

9. Yea I don’t like actively stan a lot of groups but listen to a bunch here and there so I get what you mean! I guess for a while I was really into SNSD but it never got to the point that I’d say I was a stan. Svt and SHINee will always be my true loves (though yea Monsta X is creeping up there too)

10. HAHA THANK U I picked dog breeds bc I was gonna do animals but I feel like that’d get boring bc like everyone says Jun and Woo are like cats, Hoshi calls himself a tiger and ppl think he’s a hamster, Mingyu is a puppy, etc. So I figured since I love dogs a lot and I also love svt a lot....why not combine the two lolol

11. I do love both dogs and cats (and all other animals) but if I had to only choose one to have as a pet I’d go with a dog for sure!! They’re just,,,so pure,,,precious BABIES. My favorite dog breed is probably the samoyed! I love that they have those cute smiles. Just thinking about it makes my heart melt :’) But other than dogs, I had a phase where I was SUPER into pandas. I think part of it was that I identified with having really bad dark circles and always being tired LOL. Lowkey I still am obsessed with them but you can’t pet pandas soooooooo...

12. So...Jenna? Unless I’m somehow a dumbass? LOL

We really do seem to have a lot in common, so I’m excited for the reveal! If I remember correctly, it’s on the day that Hit gets dropped heh 

But also with the whole carat bong thing,,,I heard they might not be selling V1 anymore???? So???? I might be forced to buy V2???? idk man idk 

[canaryatlaw]

okay it’s midnight and I should get writing because I can’t sleep in all day tomorrow which would afford me the ability to stay up later (that sentence was horribly phrased but I’m too lazy to fix it so oh well). today was pretty great! some stuff not ideal but overall still pretty good. I woke up to my alarm at 9 and got dressed and got prepared for our first quest of the day, which was trying to get yet another pair of concert tickets for a KPop band Jess wants to see. This was one she cares slightly less about so we weren’t under quite as much pressure to get the good seats, we were just aiming for the cheap ones. So I put our usual breakfast order in on ubereats and it arrived shortly after she did at around 9:30, the tickets went on sale at 10. Since we’ve had not great experiences trying to get tickets up to this point we wanted to try to maximize our chances of getting them by using multiple accounts (which is probably cheating but tbh idgaf I’m sure the ticket scalpers are doing much worse with many more tickets) so I had my main one up in my main browser and then the one attached to my old email up in another one (it was funny, I logged onto it and it was under the name “Ann”- my mom’s name- and the credit cards stored on it expired in like, 2012 😂) and then Jess had hers up on the chromebook. Unlike the other ones thus far this one wasn’t doing the thing where they had a virtual queue form 10 minutes beforehand, so it was just whenever they decided to let you in. The lack of a virtual queue was objectively a good thing because it meant there weren’t as many people trying to get tickets, but it also meant it was just totally random with everyone who was there at that minute. But thankfully we got in after not too long and Jess was able to snag two tickets before anyone else clicked on them (because it does this really annoying thing where the page with refresh with the available tickets and you’ll click two but when you try to go forward it says somebody else already got them and then refreshes your page and it’s a pain in the ass) and after some slight panic over getting the right credit card the tickets were ours for the least amount of money, so we were pleased with that result. May is gonna be crazy, as it stands we have at least 2 concerts (well 3 for Jess being that she’s going to BTS twice) in the same week and are very likely going to end up with another when the Monsta X tickets go on sale on Friday (and of course for them we’re trying for Chicago and New York, so it might involve a NY trip as well). so that’s gonna be a lot, but nothing we’re not used to haha at this point I think we thrive in chaos. So once we had that taken care of we grabbed our things and headed out to Jess’ car. In case I forgot to mention this up to this point we were cosplaying as Ariel and Snow White in their pajama outfits from Wreck It Ralph 2 which is 100% a lazy cosplay but I really give zero fucks because it was comfy and easy. So we drove down to the convention center, this isn’t in the one that most of the Chicago cons are in out by the airport (northwest of downtown in the top corner of the city) but rather C2E2 is in the convention center that’s adjacent to the loop that happened to be the place that they used for my law school graduation and bar swearing in, so I’ve had some very different experiences in this building, lol. I did my make up in the car and was fairly pleased with how it turned out. Once we got there there was some confusion about parking, we were originally planning on parking in one of their lots that’s right connected to the place so we didn’t have to walk in the cold (we were leaving our jackets in the car so we didn’t have to carry them all day; I was in shorts but was wearing my extra thick ice skating tights underneath them so it wasn’t terrible) but that didn’t end up happening so we had to walk in the cold a little bit but we managed. Later in the day Jess mentioned that apparently all of their parking had filled up and there were people with tickets who couldn’t get in because they didn’t have anywhere to park, so the con probably oversold their tickets in that sense. So we got in fairly easily, it was already opened at this point since we were doing the tickets that delayed our arrival a bit. So we start walking the show floor a bit and then decide we should check out artist’s alley first, but try not to buy anything on our first walk through, just consider stuff. the issue of course is that artist’s alley is generally full of great art, but I have literally no room on my wall for anything haha and I still have to hang up my 3 photo ops from London (though they are only 6x9′s instead of the standard 8x10′s so hopefully that will make it easier) and my Matt Ryan one from Cleveland. so I could really only consider very small things, lol. but there was a lot of cool stuff, always a pretty great assortment of different art styles and subject matters. I spotted a few things I may come back and get tomorrow, we will see. I really wanted to see if they had any art from The Cursed Child but I didn’t see anything, besides one drawing that I’m pretty sure was supposed to be Draco but could conceivably be Scorpius from the way he was drawn (but he was with drawings of the original trio so probably not). still a cool drawing though. so that took a while, though definitely less time than it did last year. So after that we went in search of anybody we might know that was there but didn’t see anybody, so we started wandering the show floor. Now, in terms of not needing to buy anything, this was even worse because the solid majority of it is clothing, and we both already own way too much clothing, especially comics related lol. so we made our way through most of everything, some cool stuff, not managed to refrain from buying anything up till that point. We had checked the schedule for panels at one of the smaller stages (their main stage panels are super crowded and there wasn’t anyone we cared that much about) and Colin Donnell (aka Tommy from Arrow) was doing one at 1:30 and it was like 12:50 at this point, so we went over to the little row of food vendors they had and managed to get some decent food for lunch that we sat and ate before returning to the panel stage and managing to find seats right before it started. It was pretty entertaining, he is very pretty in person, though that’s probably not a shock to many. He talked about Arrow of course but also about Chicago Med being that that’s his current show and it is after all filmed and set in Chicago. He also talked about his background doing Broadway which I wasn’t aware of so that was cool to hear about. one of the questions they asked him was like “if you’re on jeopardy, what category would you want the final jeopardy question to be from?” and I was like “musical theatre trivia” (answering somewhat for myself but also for him) and right after I said that he was like “broadway trivia” haha so I felt validated, that is definitely what I would choose given that question. So that lasted about half an hour and was pretty fun. After that we went back to wander the rest of the show floor that we hadn’t made it to yet, most notably a few KPop/Anime/etc. themed booths that were wild, Jess ended up getting into a conversation with these like high school girls about going to BTS and they were like, unironically fans of them when Jess is only a very ironic fan, and they were like “oh who do you stan??” and then the girl said she stans the one guy Jess hates and I busted up laughing at all of it, I couldn’t stop myself, it was truly hilarious. they were talking about the concert and what nights they were going and the girls were like “oh yeah Sunday’s gonna be tough you know because it’s a school night!” and I just fucking died because they’re clearly like 15. So that was very amusing. Jess ended up convincing me I needed one of the hats they sold at that booth, they were the snapback style with the big plastic letters attached across the top which said “THICC” in pink and I got it for the pure reason to wear to ClexaCon next month and it’s gonna be great, I of course put it on as soon as I bought it too. We then went upstairs to where they host the main stage panels just to check it out, there were a lot of people in very long lines, and I was glad I wasn’t in one of them. So we hung out up there for a while just to chill out a bit. We ended up heading back downstairs to see if we could locate an internet friend who’s working the con but we weren’t able to find her today (probably will see her tomorrow) and ended up finally seeing some people we knew, so we sat with them for a while until they ended up heading out, and after that we did a little more wandering before deciding to call it a day, it was a little earlier than we’d normally leave but Jess was feeling kinda crappy and there wasn’t really anything else we were dying to do so it made sense to just go home. Drove back and got dropped off, I changed into comfortable clothing and didn’t really have anything I needed to take care of so I ended up sitting on the couch and watching the last four episodes of season 5 of The Americans, stopping somewhere in there to make two eggs for dinner (which was a bad plan, I go through weird phases with food and I had convinced myself that I was fine eating eggs but I really wasn’t), and then before the last episode to shower before returning to finish it. This season happened to have a fairly brutal finale, in my opinion at least- trigger warning here for self-harm/suicide. So the plot was basically that they had befriended this family that had just defected from the Soviet Union and for some mildly important reason they wanted at least the wife and their son to go back, so one of the methods they employ is using their fake spy son (not their actual child) who had originally befriended him make things at school really bad for their son to the point where he would be so miserable that his mother would want to return to Russia with him. Well, it didn’t look like it was working, and their fake son ended up advising his friend to “slit his wrists” in order to get his parents attention enough for them to take him back, and the spy apparently “showed him” how to do it without hitting an artery, and the spy is calmly recounting this to his fake parents, saying he was going to do it at 7 pm that night, right when his parents were supposed to get home. Of course their majorly alarmed but were split on what to do because they didn’t want to compromise the mission, but the dad ends up storming out of their fake home and walking to their friend’s home and are trying to get in when his parents arrive, and so they get into the house and sent the spy son up to the other son’s room, and a second later you hear him yelling for help, so they storm upstairs to find the boy unconscious on his bed with blood all over his arms and bed. And I mean, I knew going into this episode I would probably see this (they left the previous episode at a cliffhanger about them intervening) but I really was not prepared for that image. And then of course his parents start freaking out and his mother is just next to him sobbing while everyone is scrambling to call 911 and try to bind his wounds the best they can until the paramedics get there and like.....the whole thing just made me so mad. To be fair, the main characters were very alarmed that this was used as a tactic and think their fake kid way overstepped in doing telling him to do this, but the whole idea of basically risking sacrificing the life of a child for a part of your mission that was not even very critically important meanwhile you go home to your own children.....like how as a parent could you ever live with yourself?? And I mean, I know these are spies that regularly just shoot people, some innocent some not, but like, interfering in this boy’s life to make him absolutely miserable and it culminating in something as horrible as this really just pissed me tf off. and I mean that’s for obvious reasons, this is an intersection of two issues I care deeply about, mental health advocacy and the wellbeing of children. So that whole storyline left me pretty angry. And I mean I know, it’s fiction, this didn’t actually happen, but just to see the callousness to the life of a child portrayed like that was really disturbing to witness. But I finished the episode and then turned the tv off for the night and started getting ready for bed, and shortly after I started writing this and now I am here. It’s almost 1 am and I have an 8:30 alarm set, so I think it is time for me to go to bed. Goodnight babes. Hope you’re enjoying your weekend.

[aimber]

why you (!!! yes u) should stan amber j liu

by someone who has a discrete math prelim within a week and doesn’t want to look at any more finite automata

alright kiddos buckle ur seat belts im going to learn u a few things about this human bean. disclaimer i was not Paid to do this and therefore this is Completely Unbiased i have only been handed a spreadsheet of numbers so this is all objective information analyzed by the most reliable Science out there trust me thnks

1. she is kindhearted

she cares so much abt the people around her omnbmxmg

she stands up for what’s right omg lOOK AT HER DEFENDING SULLI (and also basically standing up against the guy’s misogynistic points of views when he was like y’all fx/girls/ppl need to lose weight or some BS like that)

LUNBER GIVES ME LIFE

2. she is friendly to everyone!

LIKE SHE MAKES FRIENDS LITERALLY ON COMMAND

look look it’s jen from buzzf**d and amber meeting this was the Highlight of 2017 omg

[insert the 2937482 gifs/videos of amber being friendsly with like. every kpop star ever. lmao u name it she’s their bud, their pal 4lyfe]

3. she has been through struggles and has risen despite the hate and oppression of conservative korean society.

idk if i can find a lot of gifs on this but throughout the years people have asked her things like (1) are you a boy (2) why do you dress like a boy (3) *insert subtle homophobic/accusatory comments here* (4) people bugging her about “u sure ur not a lesbian????” and etc. etc.

and knowing the homophobic/conservative society of korea, it must have been so so so difficult to stay true to herself when she first came to this foreign country. (if u listen to borders (her song) u can get the gist) and even today, there are still annoying people (cough김구라cough) who keep bugging her about how she dresses. if she doesn’t want to disclose her sexuality then so be it--yet people keep questioning whether she is “really straight” or not, which honestly is all bs just leave her alone lmao dis girl just wanna dress how she wants jfc.

BUT DESPITE IT ALL (and on shows she has said, multiple times, that she has dealt w bullying and this kind of ignorance since a very young age) she doesn’t change herself for others. she is always 100% The Real Amber Liu and even gives so much kindness to EVERYONE (even people who might annoy her by asking her ignorant q’s) ashdgmz

here she talks abt the realization that hit her after years of the ignorant comments -- all that matters is loving yourself!

also note: amber is taiwanese-american, grew up in LA. she can’t even speak the language. so on top of the struggles of being an international trainee/kpop star, she had to break thru the language barrier and still be able to defend and express herself. which honestly is Really Hard if you think about it. and she’s reached this level of peace and success and idk i’m just so Proud :’) she is so strong aaahhhhh

4. she’s genuine! 

she’s never afraid to show herself on tv. she’s alw true to herself w/o worrying about how the Public will perceive parts of her/her personality

(AND THUS HELLA RELATABLE)

lmao same

BTW EVERYONE WATCH HER RANTING MONKYE VIDS and her wtp vids and actually just ... just stan her ok (jk u do u. do what ur heart desires go eat that tub of ice cream)

5. SHE’S FUCKign hot

aesthetic as FUCK

this wink makes me want 2 impulsively buy plane tickets to LA/seoul

im obsessedw watching her performances (Again I Must Remind You this is all based on facts. pure facts this entire article is unbiased)

THE NIKE ADS THEY KILLED ME!!!

i thnk she knows shes hot.. .. .. .

6. and cute

her smile makes me want 2 cry n die but also resurrect myself so i can possibly see her again

like actually her smlie makes me want 2 die is this ok idk how to tell my dctor

SHE’S SO GOOFY

SHE LOOKED SO GOOD THROUGHOUT THIS ENTIRE VIDEO:

this gif makes me emo:

LOOK AT HER GETTING ALL EXCITED ABT DETACHABLE STICKER THINGIES ON A BACKPACK

her smile again.. . .. .. wow So Perfect

7. and swag

fierce. amberocious.

wow i dont even know where this gif came from honestly

AMBER IN SUITS AMBER IN SUITS AMBER IN SUITS

HOLY SHIT

8. she takes her popularity as a responsibility to influence others positively

like she NEVER drops the opportunity, when she’s given a spotlight, to say something inspirational/motivational to her fans. she constantly wants to push us to do better, love ourselves more, asdhzgmd

9. she loves what she does! (and does the right thing)

look at this bb

HER SONG BORDERS WAS SO GOOD in terms of lyrics and such AND IT MEANT SO MUCH TO HER look at her on stage q___q u can tell How Much It Means omg HOW MUCH SHE HAS BEEN THROUGH :’( omg omg

<borders> and <beautiful> are my fav songs of hers b/c they’re so True to her life and her story and it’s also inspirational and u can just feel how much she has been through and how much she wants others to feel less alone through her song..... see #8 b/c it ties into what she wants to do with her music. asdhgzm

AMBER JOSEPHINE LIU IS SO PURE AND KINDHEARTED AND FRIENDLY AND BEAUTIFUL AND ASNDGMJ I DON’T CARE SHE’S TOO GOOD FOR THIS WORLD almost on par with puppos T___T

so ya. go support her thx

(and listen to free somebody by luna)

[kimdaily]

I looked through your blog to see what was going on and, damn, it's like people forget you're a real life person, too. It always sucks to see big blogs like you I admire feeling stressed because of Tumblr. Like people need to realize that while this is a bangtan/namjoon blog, this is also a personal blog and you're not going to have the answers to every single question. (And I honestly don't understand anons who continue to follow you if they're only going to send hate).

Anonymous said:@ the people who are sending negative comments and suggesting this blog to be deleted etc. - First of all, I’m sorry that people like you have to exist. Try to imagine being dragged by dozens of anonymous assholes every single day in a place that’s supposed to be enjoyable? Please go invest your time and energy into learning how to become better human beings, bc it’s honestly so lame to be investing so much into making someone’s day even worse than it already is. Sab, stay strong

kjjownsme said:I love your blog and everything you do for those of us who enjoy your comments and content but you owe no one a damn thing.

visualseokjin said:‘take a break. like permanently.’ lmao people are so fucking rude. i’m sorry for them and sorry that u have to deal with them. i just wanted to pop in and say that your presence and everything you do for this fandom is so appreciated ;; and i hope the bad apples don’t manage to push you away from something that you love.

Anonymous said:The people who say you’ve been mean and rude can go fuck themselves tbh - you’ve are soft and cute and so sweet you don’t deserve this shit

Anonymous said:I will be sad but understanding if you decide to delete. I came to this blog for bts, stayed for you, and now I check your blog everyday. You could just reblog pictures of walls and I’d still have notifications on and get hype every time you post. Your posts regarding school and stress comfort me and your bangtan posts distract me from my own stress from school. I appreciate you and this blog so much- thank you for putting up with bullshit messages and negativity for so long. 

mxbebes said:been following you for a while now and i would say i’d miss you on my dash a lot of u left ♥ if that’s the choice you need/want to make i support you but if it’s over uncertainty about posting what you want all i can offer is the advice to screw anyone who tries to dictate what you want to put on /your/ blog maybe turn of asks/anons for a while if it gets to much or get into the habit of blocking the assbags who seem entitled to tell u what to post ♥ anyway ily a lot u would be missed if u left

Anonymous said:Hey I love your blog but if you think deactivating would put you in a better mental state then maybe that’s what’s more important. But I hope you know that you’re an amazing person who’s blog has done some good. I always glossed over Namjoon until I saw you and your posts. Now he’s one of my favorites. I’m sorry anons have affected your enjoyment on here. Just know you’ve got followers who care about how you feel, whether that means you leaving or not.

baepsaeling said:i haven’t been following you for very long but honestly the amount of shit you’re getting is ridiculous. but since you say Tumblr is your getaway place - maybe throw this blog on hiatus and start a smaller blog for the time? in either case, please don’t be afraid to give yourself a break. we all need one, occasionally. i hope stuff is gonna clear up and you’ll feel better soon! 💖

Anonymous said:hello please stay strong you’re my fav namjoon stan. if you really cant take it, take a break for a little bit and come back for us please? We love you

bukedo said:Hello~ I’d like to say that i’ve only started following you recently and up to this point i haven’t regretted anything of it, as a blog for Namjoonie you have been one of the best and i understand why you are upset/mad and tbh i would be too … I always look everything up before i ask around and only ask when i don’t find any answers. All the things about Namjoonie are very easy to find and people shouldn’t keep bothering you 💜 (Stay perfect ! 💜💜)

Anonymous said:You’re super amazing, your blog is super amazing and tbh all the salty haters just need to go get lives… I mean at what point do you think its ok to harass someone on tumblr… I mean, it’s tumblr… If you’re going to be a lil bish at least get of anon and have the guts to say it to someones face.

lunalilymoon said:i’m so so sorry i love you and your blog and namjoon but do what is best for you ❤

gogomaki said:Hon… please stay strong! I love you! ( ´ ∀ `)ノ～ ♡

Anonymous said:I don’t know what has happened and I don’t need too. I’m sorry for whatever has happened and I believe you deserve a break… ❤❤

Anonymous said:@ the people who are always buggin you for updates or askin what namjoon did: there is this lovely site called google where you can get most if not all the answers ur lookin for plus there are like 3456658 different update blogs that would probably love to take ur questions. shocking i know. also if some of yall hate namjoon so much what tf are you doin on an obvious namjoon stan blog talking shit like are you stupid?? and sab can be as sassy as she wants shes a fucking human with emotions okay!

Anonymous said:i want u to feel better, but i know nothing i say can. just… always try to look on the bright side of things, okay? as corny as that i

Anonymous said:Delete your blog then. I never saw you as someone holding every action Namjoon did I saw you as an actual human being. A human being who breaks down who stresses out who gets angry. Who has EMOTIONS. I’m sending this and I’m not going to sugar coat shit and tell you it gets better. Because nothing ever does unless you work through it. If you delete your account, don’t do it then regret it. Im sending this in as anon cause you may not answer but I’m not going to give you a sugarcoated response

hoshyoung said:Please remember that your own mental amd physical health is more important than running this blog. I know lots of people will support whatever decision you make, including myself. We just want you to be happy and healthy No matter what, I wish you all the happiness in the world!! 💕💕💕💕💕 (I’m sorry for all of the people who are being selfish and rude, you deseve so much more than that)

Anonymous said:hi bae~ i literally just got online and was ??? omg why is my ult namjoon blog stressing??? so i read what you said and i feel so sorry for you :((( i can’t imagine getting so many asks about someone you stan, especially negative asks. i get so exhausted just reading someone being nasty / bringing up joon’s past, so i can’t imagine how tired and frustrated you must be to have all that in your askbox. i just wanted to drop in to say that i love you very much!!! [ 1/2 

Anonymous said:I’m so sorry. I used to be one of your old anons that checked on you and also talked to you a lot, but I guess I haven’t been doing a good job of that lately. I’m sorry. I should’ve gotten off of my lazy ass and come check on you, because you’re very important to me. I think you’re absolutely amazing, and you’re so kind and nice to everyone. I hate that you feel this way, I know how hard you’ve worked. But if you decide to stay, I promise to start writing you cute messages again. I love you ❤❤

Anonymous said:Sab I’m sorry you have to go through with this negativity! I love your blog and love you personality! And i don’t know if this will lighten your mood even just a tad but I have a random question for you: who do you Stan more Ryan or Kumamon?

Anonymous said:I’m sorry you’re not having a great time on Tumblr as of late for a variety of factors and that people are belittling your comments down to a sentence. Just wanted to say hi, and send you my well wishes. I love seeing you on my dash, both kpop related content and otherwise. It’s nice seeing the blogger behind the blog. Also, you have a superb playlist. I hope your crazy school project does well, despite that I know you’re not thrilled about being part of the whole thing. #Sabjoon2k17

thornyrosebush3 said:I know I’ve never messaged you before (anxiety) but I just wanted to let you know that whatever decision you make will be okay. If you do delete your blog to make the pressure and stress go away, that is okay. I’m not here to tell you ‘not to delete your blog, everything will be okay’ because I want you to feel comfortable no matter what decision you make. -M.

Anonymous said:I really would like to get to know you more and chat with you because I honestly think you are such a wonderful person. But I feel like I would be imposing on you by chatting with you like a friend I feel as if it would be rude because it’s almost like being overcomfortable? But I love your blog and would love to get know you ☺️

Anonymous said:Project start flooding your asks with nice things so that you don’t have to read all that sh*t is a go . :)

bangtan-world said:I love a human being, and that human being is called Sabrina.❤

Anonymous said:I give you so much props for the amount of patience you have and I’m sorry that you have to deal with annoying/rude anons :( anyone that sends you hate can come and fight me! Pls keep being an amazing ❤️

Anonymous said:I’m sorry for all the things your going through. If I could do something I would. Here a change from all the things your getting. How are you? Hope you have a good night/day.

Anonymous said:Are you going to start a new account? Because like you said it wouldn’t be fair for you to have to start over because of hate. But I really love your blog and I understand and really hope that your okay.

hobismole said:😩 your selfie killed me why are you so freaking beautiful?? Also I’m sorry that people are treating you like this you deserve so much better! Don’t worry too much about what other people think and do whatever decision you feel is right for and your blog 💞

Anonymous said:hellooooo, just dropping by to say that i appreciate you & your blog very much! im new to BTS and your blog is among the first few ones that i followed. :) dont let the haters get you down, there’s plenty of us here who like & appreciate you! \o/

Anonymous said:I think you should just turn off anon asks so if people want to really know the answer to their shitty questions they have to be willing to have their identity known (and I know that me being on anon writing this is ironic 😂)

Anonymous said:I’ve just come back from a tumblr hiatus to see you sad and!! No!! I’m so sorry people are not treating you and your blog how they should and it’s pushed you to feel like wanting to delete. I hope you know you’ll be missed but if you feel it’s what you have to do we understand!! Stay strong like we know you can and do what you feel is best!!

Anonymous said:What’s your favourite nose shape? Mines the ones that look kinda too long but are turned up at the end and are really cute. Hope you can get over the negativity

Anonymous said:Your own mental health and comfort is important too. while i can’t give any concrete solutions for you, at least know that there is this anon who supports your decision either way. stay healthy and safe 'kay?

Anonymous said:we’ll miss you darling. please be safe and do what is healthy for you because that is the most important thing! i’m sure you’ll get many more nice messages before you go besides this one but if not i’ll keep sending these until you feel better! if you want to come back we’re always here. much love, a quiet anon who loves seeing you on their dash ❤️

Anonymous said:I’m sorry your blog is surrounded by so much negativity. In an attempt to at least make you smile, or get to know you, what kind of things do you like? Movies, tv shows, Kpop groups, artists? I’d be more than happy to ask you things about yourself 💕

i-am-wordaholic said:Do what u have to do sweety. Don’t hand over ur peace of mind for anyone. If that means closing the acc then… that sucks but it’ll have to be. You wouldn’t want Namjoonie to keep doing smth that makes him unhappy cuz he feels he owes it to ppl, right? So, don’t do it to urself either. Fighting!!!

reprobateravenclaw said:Oh. My. God. Wtf? Like I get it's nice to be nice and stuff, but honestly, you don't have to be. You can just tell someone to fuck off when you don't wanna discuss smth. You don't hold any sort of responsible behaviour to anyone. Yeah sure, be nice and all, but slam them to the pits of hell if you wanna/need to. Just saying. Take it easy. Being mean isn't always bad when it comes to you. Like, if you're someone who cares about what people say to you,its essential to know when to be a bitch.

Anonymous said:hey :) i saw all those posts you just made, honestly i have no idea what happened to you but don't give up on tumblr if it's the thing that made you happy once (if this makes sense...) there's still a lot of us that appreciate everything you do! ily x

Anonymous said:hi! i've never sent any asks before so i Hope This Is Okay but i saw what was going on and i'm so sorry that that's been happening to you. that sounds Ultra Mega Shitty and :( if you want to delete/deactivate i wont stop u if u think its the right thing for u b/c ur happiness + health are the Most Important !! i just wanted to tell u that i love ur blog lots and lots!! you're one of the first bts blogs i ever followed :') thank u for blessing my dash and being a Gr8 :') i hope ur doing well!! :)

Anonymous said:I just saw you're going through all this shit. I have followed you for awhile and I'm like so invested in your life in a weird way? It's hard to explain. I just want you to be able to breathe a little and not feel so overwhelmed. I know how life can make you feel like you're barely keeping your head above water. I hope you get some rest and are able to just chill a little from all this. Love you!!

thank you guys so much, I genuinely want to thank you all of such kind things. tomorrow is a new day, we’ll put all this in the past and look forward to better days. 

I care about you all so much and hope you have a fantastic bright day, thank you so much again I wish I could hug you all for sending me such nice things it means more than I think you could ever understand. I love you, you guys are the reason I come on everyday hopeful and a full heart. 

again sorry  for everything, I just it’s been weighing heavy on me for the past two or so months and I sadly finally cracked and had to let it out. 

[brekineee]

tagged by @cha-inyeon @hakyeon-go-go & @royalbins (thank you!!)

a) Always post the rules. Answer the questions asked then write 11 new ones b) Tag 11 people and link them to the post. Tell the person who tagged you that you’ve answered their questions.

There’s A LOT of questions since I got tagged three times, so i’ll put them under the cut~

1. Favorite boy group choreography?

On and On - VIXX

As a dancer, I absolutely LOVE watching dance practice videos from kpop groups. This is definitely one of the reasons why I fell into the kpop hole because I watched this VIXX dance practice video daily since it was just so good. ALTHOUGH IT ISN’T MY FAV ERA, this choreography still gets to me. I love all of their choreography though!

2. Favorite girl group choreography?

Cheer Up - TWICE

HAH....oh shoot I’m not even really into any girl groups oopsies. Thanks to my friend, though, TWICE is the only girl group I really stan. This is my fav song from them so I’ll just go with this ;D

3. When did you get into kpop?

October 2016. @ VIXX thanks for dragging me here

4. Do you watch anime? If so, what’s your favorite?

YES! I was a 100% anime blog before kpop took over haha. My favorite is Noragami

5. Favorite book?

Currently, my favorite book is called The Program

6. Favorite movie?

Big Hero 6 SOBS I love Disney movies

7. Who’s your ultimate kpop bias, and why?

SCREAMS AT THE TOP OF MY LUNGS CHA HAKYEON!!! VIXX was the reason why I got into kpop. My first song was On and On and I kept staring at N in the MV (probably because of his hair color? It stood out a lot to me). It became really hard not to look at him in the videos I watched of them performing. It seriously feels like he’s trying to make everyone look at him. His stage presence always captivates me. Behind the scenes though, he’s just a huge dork that loves his members more than anything. He’s overall a great leader, and that’s what I love about him the most. I would go on and on (haha get it vcbvklclv) but this is already going to be too long so...

8. So far, what do you think was the best comeback or debut of 2017?

 ALTHOUGH I DID ENJOY TWICE’S COMEBACK, Ravi’s solo debut tops everything for me tbh.

9. What’s your favorite thing about where you live?

lol the only thing I like about where I live is that it’s not as overcrowded as other states are in the U.S. ??  Definitely not as scary either. We’re still #1 in binge drinking though so YIKES

10. Dream vacation destination?

I’m a huge musical nerd, so I’ve always wanted to go to New York!! I finally am getting the chance to next year though, so I’d say my main vacation destination rn is between Europe and Japan. I want to go to both so badly!! Idk if I’ll ever go to Japan though ;w; Europe is much easier because my mother has been there several times~

11. What’s one kpop song that is really underrated, but that you love and just can’t get enough of?

Don’t Tease Me - SPEED

sobs I fell for a disbanded group cvbkjclblc.. THIS SONG IS SO GOOD THOUGH and this performance....omg I love

1. Spring or Fall?

Spring!

2. What’s the weirdest place you’ve fallen asleep in?

Don’t think I’ve ever fallen asleep in weird places

3. Do you prefer listening to music using headphones or speakers?

I always use my headphones! Mostly because I don’t want my parents listening to my music that’s in different languages LMAO + I’m an editor so I have to like repeat sections of a song over and over while editing and that would get annoying to people around me.

4. Fluffy sweaters or shorts?

Gosh....both? I live in a state that’s almost always cold so I do really enjoy wearing shorts in the summer, but I do love me some fluffy sweaters too.

5. If you had no responsibilities, obligations or restrictions for one day, what would you do?

tbh I would just do the stuff I usually do daily which is sit on my computer and relax LOL

6. Fiction or Non-Fiction?

Fiction

7. Which VIXX member do you resemble the most?

I wish it was Hakyeon but tbh....I think I relate to Hongbin the most? I’m like just as shy or awkward as he can be sometimes. I do things that make me laugh over how cringey I am. He’s also pretty savage and at school people are always telling me I am too even though I don’t really think I am? LOL. He also makes the best type of “judging” faces and I do that a lot too haha. Definitely not as beautiful as Hongbin, but out of the 6 members, I think I resemble him the most personality wise. Okay maybe Hakyeon a bit actually

8. What’s the first thing you learned to cook?

IDK ...cookies? 

9. Hyde or G.R.8.U?

G.R.8.U

10. A quote that resonates with you?

“Even if life is painful and tough, people should appreciate what it means to be alive at all.” - Yato (Noragami)

I swear he’s the weirdest character in this anime/manga, but he always has the best quotes & this one is one of my absolute favorites ;w; 

11. Are you a planner or an improviser?

Mostly an improviser tbh

1. Is the bias you have now your original bias?

Yes! I started out with Hakyeon and I’m still with him~

2. How did you come across your bias group?

Like I’ve said, I’m an editor. A group of editors edited with one of their songs and I liked it so much that I started looking into the artist behind it and became WAY more obsessed than I expected I would ever be with them.

3. Do you have more than one ultimate bias? If so, who are they?

I mean I have biases in other groups, but just Hakyeon when it comes to ultimate.

4. What’s your favourite number?

3

5. Do you show any of the stereotypical traits of your Zodiac?

Yup! I just looked up some traits, and for the negative ones I found that Libras “pretend to be pleasant sometimes as they don’t wish to displease anyone” which is 100% me tbh. Positives would be friendly, witty, and outgoing mostly.

6. What are your goals for this year?

Make a lot of new friends on here & continue to talk to ones I’ve already made! Also to actually finish some of my personal editing projects that I haven’t been able to do ;-; Maybe even improve on my gif making too~

7. Do you stick to New Year’s resolutions?

I never really make any.

8. What color hair would you most like to see on your bias?

UHM.....I seriously love Hakyeon with his usual black hair, but I’d think it would be great to bring back silver or blonde Cha omg please

9. Do you have more than one bias group?

Nahh.. I like other groups, but VIXX will always be my main.

10. Which group’s light stick do you think is the prettiest?

I haven’t really looked at other group’s light sticks so...VIXX

11. What’s your favourite album photobook?

Chained Up photobooks

my questions:

1. Very first group you really got into?

2. Have you ever changed biases in a group? If so, what group, and which members?

3. Is there something you do on a daily basis that reminds you of kpop?

4. Do people in real life know about your interests and life online?

5. Has a kpop group ever made you want to try something new/different?

6. What was your first comeback with your fav group?

7. Favorite VIXX ship/pairing?

8. What are your favorite artists besides ones in kpop?

9. What is something that you find absolutely adorable about your bias or something really cute that they do? Also, answer the same question, but about your friends.

10. Favorite place you’ve ever been to?

11. What is a special talent that a lot of people wouldn’t think you’d have but do?

tagging: @saltykong @tranquies @kongflower @achahakyeon @smilange @nxnight  @hansanghyuked @tvixx @hongpeenus @hyuksmovingcastle @sprouthyuk

(Sorry if you were already tagged. Also, you don’t have to do it ofc!)

[busaned-blog]

dude your tags on tht post abt hobi+jin not having any lines (+ the discrepancy in ppl's reaction to those awful distributions) is WHEW coldblooded but accurate. ive also seen it happen, ppl leaving bc they can't GET WORK in their own group, and beyond hating awful distributions for wht they are, theyre bad for group longevity esp w/jin whos getting his college degree, who i cld see walking away frm bts w/work+network options even outside of ent. industry. like, bight cherish wht u got rn, dang

Hello anon, thank you so much for your message! It’s nice to know some people actually read my tags I guess haha. I’m not gonna lie, at first when I read your message I was thinking of not replying… simply because we all know tumblr tags are messed up (especially on mobile) and I did not feel like people interpreting my response as hate towards Bangtan or to any of the members. But then I realized that for me in my heart I know my feelings about this whole situation are not based on hate towards either of those so I decided to respond anyways and I just hope that I will word everything correctly so that people reallize I am not a hater. It will be a long response, because as I said in my tags I have a lot of feelings about this, so I’m putting it under a read more :)

When I reblogged that post we’re talking about and put all those tags in, I was extremely angry. I can’t lie about that right now, because I was. Maybe it’s a petty response, but in a song that is 4 minutes and 34 seconds long you just cannot convince me there was no room for Hobi at all. That there was no room for him to get like four lines on his own or for Jin to have more than the two he did? Especially when some members take up like half the song? I just refuse to believe that I’m sorry… And especially to realize, if you look objectively, that the difference in ‘talent’, to put it as such, in Bangtan is not that big let’s be real. They are all extremely talented and no one is 1000 steps above the rest at all in my opinion.

I’ve been a fan since about July 2015, a little after the Dope era, so I have been around for four comebacks now (and a hell of a lot of other groups’ members leaving/groups disbanding) and I’ve said this before on twitter: I feel like the line distribution is getting worse in stead of better with Bangtan. Run was sort of okay for me, especially if you keep in mind the idea of main/lead vocals and sub-vocals, but after that it just got worse and worse imo. And apparently, judging by the response to Hobi having no lines in Spring Day and Jin having barely any solo lines in BST, people really don’t give a shit and want to disguise it under the ‘I love ot7 so let me reblog some posts complaining about the awful line distribution and be done with it’.

The outrage on my dash with the Hobi situation was pitiful, because (and maybe I follow the wrong people who knows) the only ones actually being mad were Hobi stans and some Jin/ot7 stans. The outrage for Jin was basically non existent and it still pisses me off till this day. And the biggest discourse was that people needed to just basically shut up and support Bangtan because otherwise, and wow guilt tripping much?, they would hurt Hobi in the process too. And I get that we all have our favorites, we all have our ranking of the members whatever, but how can you look at this situation and just not realize how damaging it could be in the long run? How damaging it could be for ot7. You don’t have to love and cry and yell about Hobi and Jin as much as you do your bias, but to stay mostly silent cause it doesn’t concern your fave? I just can’t relate…

I’m a Jimin stan, but that means to me I am realistic enough to realize I have nothing to worry about with him. That he will get his lines and his screentime and the attention from his fans. So why should I be blind towards the mistreatment of some of the others? Because I’m settled? Because Jimin is my bias so I have no worries? And I’m not trying to say people who don’t stan Hobi or Jin feel like this, but this is really how it comes across to me. And then everyone, and this annoys me the most, wants to hide behind one of two defenses, a) Bangtan love each other more than anything and they want to stay together forever so awul line distribution won’t break them up and b) Bangtan have a lot of creative control so they probably decided this was best for the song…

Which is funny, because in the same breath they want to oppose haters, which they should don’t get me wrong, by saying ‘don’t hate on *insert their bias here* because it’s not their fault, Big Hit makes the decisions not them’. Excuse me? But that is not how this works. You can’t want to claim they have full creative control and make the decisions themselves and then turn around and say it’s actually Big Hit. It’s either they make the decisions themselves and they are basically assholes for ignoring Hobi, and more specifically Jin in like every song, or they are all subjected to what Big Hit wants.

But to come to the actual point: whether people want to close their eyes to this situation or not, in the end this could be damaging for Bangtan. Do you really think Minzy from 2ne1 didn’t love her group and her members? Do you really believe that guy from Teen Top that wants to leave doesn’t love his group and his members? Do you really believe that someone like Minzy, to take her as an example, who was in one of the biggest girl groups in kpop, just casually decided to leave? Do you not think that she didn’t realize that if she left she will probably never have the income she had with 2ne1 again or that she most likely will never ever be as popular as she was when in the group? Yet she freaking decided to leave anyways, because as you said she got no work! And ofcourse she wanted some, even if that meant not living the live she did with 2ne1, but it would be at least some sort of a life. And this happens to idols all the time, and then they, shocking I know, leave… Awful line distribution, and awful equal promotion, will be the death of any group no matter how much they love each other and the fans or how successful they are.

And I just wish as a fandom we could collectively come together on these subjects a bit more. You don’t have to be a Hobi or Jin stan to be critical of Bangtan’s efforts and in this case their line distribution. And there is also nothing wrong with being a critical fan and trying to let them and Big Hit know that no fan is going to leave if they make everything a little bit more fair. I just don’t want it to come to Bangtan’s contract renewals in a few years and having one or two of them even contemplating leaving. As you said, Jin is graduating soon and many people in the industry have already said that he is a lovely person, easy to work with, funny, clever, hard working and on top of that a lot more multi-talented then people want to give him credit for. You really believe he has no chance of a career outside of Bangtan?

Let me say something positive though for once. If we move beyond the line distribution and take a look at the promo, Big Hit gives me a little bit of hope. 2016 has been a rather good year for all of them in my opinion. Yoongi had his mixtape, Jin had Law of the Jungle and some other variety shows, Tae had his acting, the Taejin OST (where they both proved even more that Bangtan’s line distribution is shit), some MC jobs for all of them on music shows, etc. I think that if you would write it down then their promotion seems to definitely be sort of equal, which gives me great hope that Big Hit will at least always try to promote them equally in that area. But it also seems to me they want them stuck in certain positions: Hobi being the dancer, Jin being the visual, Jungkook being the main vocalist etc. When they are so much more then that!

So what I’m trying to say is that I’m not trying to convince anyone that Hobi or Jin are going to want to leave over this whole thing, but please can we all for once as a fandom acknowledge Bangtan’s shortcomings and realize that if nothing changes (because this is not a one time thing with them), and if we don’t try to voice our concerns, it could come to a Minzy situation (or any other group member that has ever left their group due to disrespect basically). I just don’t want them in the future to break up or have some members leaving, and then have everyone cry their eyes out for a day when we could have done something about it now…

This became so much longer then I wanted to, and I probably didn’t even say everything I wanted to say, so I’m really sorry. And I mostly ranted about nothing you were talking about in your ask, but I needed to get this all of my chest. I always say this and I will say it again: I love Bangtan with all my heart, and I don’t plan on abandoning them anytime soon, but these comebacks just slowly become a little less enjoyable and I will keep hoping that next time will be better. That next time I won’t have to sit through the music video waiting for a glimpse of Hobi or Jin or anyone. I just want Bangtan to reach their full potential, because I really feel they haven’t yet, because I think they are 7 wonderful individuals who deserve nothing less.

[lunamxdness]

♡ answer the questions and tag 20 blogs you’d like to know better (don’t feel obligated to do it tho, I know it can be annoying)

Tagged by the beautiful cutie pie @zipng (I read what you said and it made me all happy inside)

sign: Libra  

height: 164cm, I’m not tol nor smol and that’s okay

last thing googled: “kpop stans”, don’t judge me

favorite music artist: I don’t know anymore so check out my last.fm, it’s the same as my url.

last TV show watched: Not a tv show but I watched Honey & Clover last night, does that count? I don’t really watch tv shows.

what am I wearing right now: Crop top and shorts  

when did I create my blog: 2016 lmao

what kind of stuff do I post about: I don’t post, I just reblog jrock/vkei, pictures of the beach, skies, flowers, animals, quotes I relate to, music that makes me feel something, usually just beautiful things.

do I have any other blogs: yxsu is my blog for movies

do I get asks regularly: no lol, no one likes me here

why did I choose my url: because it’s the title of one of my favorite DEAD END songs

gender: female

pokemon team: (ok I had to check this bc I forgot) it’s valor!!!

favorite colors: black and black?

average hours of sleep: lately? Just 5-6, it’s sad…I need to go back to highs- I mean, college.  

favorite characters: Okay, so it all starts with Matsunaga from Drunken Angel, then there’s Douzi from Farewell my concubine, Okuyama from The Face of Another, the character of Takeshi Kaneshiro on Fallen Angels (I can’t remember his name), lately I’m reading a lot of manga and I will have to name my dearest Nana Osaki, Shinobu Morita (from Honey & Clover), Kurama (from YYH) and I guess that’s all…I’m sure forgetting about someone here.  

dream job: I can’t choose just one. I want to write, not really sure about what, because lately I feel both comfortable writing small pieces of fiction and investigations. I’m deeply interested in cinema, so it would be nice to do something related to that too…but music is also my passion. And then there’s architecture, which is a big part of my world. There are so many things to do, I feel I would be happy to at least do one of these.   

I want to tag @rasenchuu @heavens-color @mischasera @cyathigerum @missimbalance and @shvka that’s all???