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It's very funny to hear absolutely groundless accusations against radfems from people who know absolutely nothing about the movement they are trying to criticize.
and we're not even talking about those situations when something can be said objectively, for example, by one radical feminist to another, like “you're idealistic/your ideas are too liberal/you support capitalism/you don’t think systemically" and so on.
no, there's something completely different.
surely many of you who have come across content from radfem activists have seen these accusations raining down on us in absolutely unimaginable quantities (usually not even suitable for the topic in the video/post):
— ugh, those fascists again
— huh, she's a terf, we don't even have to listen any further
— well, an antisemitic
— pfft, you're misogynist
and other bullshit.
It seems to me that after something like this it's useless to continue any dialogue, because the person does not understand what he/she is talking about.
they all succumb to anti-women propaganda (or judge all radical feminists based on the seceral women they've met in person. Is it worth talking about why such behavior is problematic, or is it better not to even try, because it's suddenly "different situation"?) and don't want to open their eyes to obvious things.
they don't care that radical feminism has always been about internationalism. they don't care that we criticize gender concept and practices that harm women, and not transgenderists and women themselves. they don't care what we think and say, because it doesn't bother them like at all.
they won't listen to us because we are women. because they read somewhere that all women who are radical feminists are bad, so let's organize a witch hunt of the twenty-first century, hiding behind tolerance and protection of oppressed groups (and never mind that women have been oppressed for millennia and we have the right to talk about it, to expose a system that is fundamentally dangerous for us).
#radical feminism#radblr#radical feminist safe#radical feminists do interact#feminism#rene in english
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#TRANS ADAM HC STRIKES AGAIN!!! #if no one else writes it soon i might fuck it #i love this idea so much
please do and tag me, I'm obsessed with the idea
Husk isn't paid nearly enough for that bullshit
(he isn't getting paid at all)
may try to redraw it a little more properly later? errrr probably not
#also everyone plz tag me on any post you find about this#like it's such a funny concept you don't understand#the silly potential#the *angst* potential too#no way this self-centered idiot thought for a second that most people don't actually fantasize about changing genitals#y'all know the usual 'well of course everyone feels like that' about sexuality or gender#anyway plz i need that#hazbin hotel#hazbin adam#trans adam hc (hazbin hotel)#guess this is a tag now‚ what the hell am i doing
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I feel like the post I just reblogged pointing out the all-or-nothing in how many people interact with their deconstruction of systems of oppression is resonating for me right now with so many different moments in my life where someone decides that because some part of myself has access to some of the levers of control/influence/etc that come with the relationship to power, and decides what that must mean about all the other parts of me that might be explicitly refused access to those same levers.
It has happened in so many spaces/aspects of my life, and it can be so hard to feel safe and seen and trusting of others when that's my chronic relationship to being perceived - half truths and obfuscation.
It doesn't really change regardless of who's doing the assuming either. Like, where they land in relation to systems of power may influence which direction they lean in their assumptions about me, but even that is often inconsistent. Both sides of the equation (those who share my marginalizations and those who exist in spaces of closer proximity to power) will still do it nonetheless.
When I was doing my liminal social identities work in undergrad, this was actually a big part of the conceptualization we explored of traumtic alienation of self as individual from self as collective, and what it can do to people to exist in this liminal relationship with your environment and the people in it. As I'm starting to gather my thoughts about my stress modeling, this conceptualization is bubbling back to the surface. I'm finding myself meandering through it on both a path specifically my own, and in an effort to better understand what other paths may be available to people during their version of the process/experience.
Selfhood is so fragile, and so in need of balance between self-construction and co-construction for us humans, and that gives us so many beautiful, even spiritual, experiences of meaning making and generativity of self. It also createa many pivot points where we may find room in our path for vulnerability or blurring of self. As much as these pivot points can be distressing, I think they also sometimes become our foundations of change/personal evolution, when we find that through the distress of existing in shift, something meaningful is occurring or observable in our experience of self-in-transition.
I think something I've valued especially about my own relationship with self is its transience. It doesn't always end up somewhere I would be happy to sustain, but it always allows me a degree of comfort in complexity that I think has made my body-mind a safer place for me overall.
#one day i will understand how to convey self in a way that is Mine and also Effective Communication#but lord knows it ain't today#it's always so interesting to me the way people decide to position me in their social/power schema#the funny thing i think is that even as a toddler people seemed to assign me a seriousness and gravity of social value that was both#irrational and inexplicable and in many cases wildly inappropriate#apparently one of my auntie's got in a bad way of 'consulting' me like her personal spiritual guide when I was like#two years old????#and she had to be like#you can't keep talking to my toddler about this stuff#that's an extreme one but like#it's also in line with the trend#i don't think people realize how dehumanizing it feels to be Assigned Moral and Social Weight and Value like that#it makes it so painfully clear to me that i am expected to manage to accommodate everyone's needs while never having#or at least never expressing or acknowledging in the presence of others#any needs of my own regardless of their impact on me#sometimes I think people assume that I went into the fields I did as like. a white knight type motivation#or like#that going into the field is what's made me the way I am#and like.#not really. it's more that I knew my role in life was 'other people's emotional regulation/go-to anchor' as long as I've had self-concept#and at a certain point you've been playing that role long enough that your options are either#become a subject matter expert and contributer to the field#or fucking kill yourself#because you certainly can't keep doing what you're doing#i dunno. i guess i just wished there was anyone in my life i trusted to see me as the fully complexified and messy human I am#i might feel a little less like i'm the only real thing in my life#anyway i think i'm gonna go. dissociate out of existence for a while before i get the kind of suicidal that's going to worry wifey#i don't think i can cope with needing to regulate her out of an anxiety response right now and i understand that means i can't need care atm#you ever just get the feeling that you're drowning under the weight of the needs you just can never seem to meet? i do.
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my mom [not here but just, in general, very very frequently]: I didn't do christmas cards on time/ at all, I am SUCH a piece of SHIT, LMAO
her sister: you know I've often wondered if we're not all neurodivergent, which would explain everything 🤔 either way it's completely understandable and absolutely okay that you're doing the best with what you've got💕
#it's so funny how much of my shame is inherited from my mom loudly decrying herself constantly and without provocation lmao#my mom: haha look at us rocking back and forth like we're CRAZY lmaooo something's WRONG with us LOL#me who hadn't even noticed until that very moment that other people don't sway back and forth while standing still: wh. okay???#thanks for leaving me out of THAT insecurity until I was an adult and old enough to think you're being weird instead of absorbing it#my mom often does an... understandable thing that I also feel the reflex to do sometimes#which is acknowledge my shortcomings so people understand that I Know I'm being [shitty/ disappointing/ frustrating/ etc]#but man she does it SO much and leans on it SO hard with no concept of collateral damage#my mom: I forgot to do that thing because I'm a STUPID DIPSHIT ASSHOLE MORON. GOD. lol.#me who also forgets things and is unintentionally inconvenient and frustrating sometimes: ........ yeah#most of my 'you SHOULD Just Be Able To Do Thing and should be ashamed of yourself if you can't because it's EASY'#comes not from neurotypical people who don't get it but from my mom who feels the same way about herself :Ia#anyway I feel like there was another time on facebook that more clearly illustrated#this really specific dynamic of my mom going 'haha I also do that! because I'm stupid and terrible!'#and then my aunt commenting directly after her like 'I also do that! I think the whole family's Just Wired Differently and it's okay'#uh in unrelated news I don't even know if I'm gonna manage a card this year. I haven't started one :')#just being alive has been too overwhelming this season and it's really frustrating but whateverrrr#about me#posts from facebook
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sorry for oc posting . it will happen again
#personal#anyways i think odette swings wildly between reacting 'inappropriately' to death and being a very good grief counselor#she contains multitudes. she does both simultaneously#someone dies and she goes Sad! Oh Well There's Other People ^-^ but when faced with someone else's grief she wants to comfort them#and she's actually quite skilled at it! it's the one social niche she's very proficient in#she just also. frequently does not register Death. or Dying. or someone Being Dead#growing up in an environment where death is very explicitly not an ending has made it a bit hard for her to grapple with--#--the reality that most people very much do believe death is a permanent End#she'll go We can just put a spirit into their corpse innit why is this a problem . and everyone else has to go That's Scary......#on that note i think it takes her a minute to like. Understand assassination as a concept. which is funny. To Me#she said well sure you kill people for a living but they can just be brought back anyway so what's the point ???#girl who was surrounded by necromancers 24/7 for 30 years: what do you mean you guys don't have necromancers. where the fuck are they
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reddit is such a great reminder that cis people do not understand gender or anything about modern gender theory at all. like no hate. i get it. but oh my god
#teeth.txt#post with a lot of people struggling with the concept of a non binary trans woman#and shockingly few people in the comments uh. explaining it#it was a fair question like the person who asked was like 'my friend just came out as a nb trans woman what does that mean'#but oh god the comments. lord.#'umm but that doesn't make sense that's contradictory#how can someone be non binary and also a woman??'#which like ok yeah not something you would just Know but#just kind of a peek into how my life is VERY different than yours lol#also you're a little annoying sorry to say. but not sorry because you are a redditor.#like yes i know it's not reasonable to expect that people understand concepts that they probably largely don't care about#it's just a lil funny#idk this sounds meaner than i think i want it to be#but also the tone of some of those commenters did feel a little bit 'god these stupid trannies don't understand the meaning of WORDS'#not that that was the intent but idk. it was not reading as charitable/self aware
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I'm fucking frothing at the mouth
#personal tag#Tiktok#video#BRO.....#WHEN I SAY I WAS STARING IN DISBELIEF FOR THIS ENTIRE FUCKING VIDEO#You don't understand... My dad used to have a version of this same concept that was like written 20 years ago in “modern language”#I can't believe they made another one#also game for this video every time they say a misappropriated aave twrm take a shot#“way past his beekeeping age' tho. wZ kindof funny
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ay three months till paychecks celebrates one year of being update-less 🔛🔝
damn this ask about to make that another year imagine that!!
#it's a good thing i don't live by your expectations!! crazy concept i know#i know you're probably just trolling but on the off-chance you're not i hope you understand#that no writer is gonna suddenly want to update if you speak like this to them btw#the funny part about this is that i was literally debating on posting a wip
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Perhaps surprisingly, Ghost is actually quite merciful in a fight!
In general, they're a lot more reactive than they are proactive.
They do always give it their all in battle, and I suppose in that sense they could be considered rather ruthless. They'll never "go easy" on an opponent, since they don't actually know how to. They've never been in a situation before where doing such a thing would be relevant or useful. Everything they've fought during their life has either been Infected, a lesser creature that they're hunting for SOUL, or a highly skilled warrior that warrants them using their full capabilities. If someone asked Ghost to go easy on them in a spar, they'd probably just be confused about what that even meant?
The closest thing they've experienced to "going easy" on someone is simply not wasting unnecessary resources on a weak opponent. For example, if a lone, regular Vengefly has decided to harass them, Ghost isn't going to bother expending their gathered SOUL and Void with a spell when it'll fall in one hit from their nail.
Though, they are also cautious about how Void affects non-Void beings when they're around someone they care about not killing. Hornet has probably drilled it into them enough that the substance their body is made of is extremely dangerous to regular bugs dgshshfs. Plus they've seen examples of what Void can do to a bug from sources other than themself. Fortunately though, their Void infused spells (Abyss Shriek, Shade Soul, Descending Dark) are generally still safe enough to use in spars!
But, whether they fight and how long the fight lasts actually depends entirely on the other person. Ghost doesn't typically make the first strike or initiate a battle, and in cases where they do (such as the Mantis Lords fight), they make their intentions very clear with a challenge first. They aren't one for sneak attacks.
If someone attacks them, then they will fight back with all their might. But, if their opponent stops fighting, then they will too.
Against Infected foes, this usually means a fight to the death anyway, since due to the Radiance's influence, the enemy will not stop trying to kill Ghost until they either succeed or die trying. But against uninfected opponents like Hornet and the Mantis Lords, they can surrender, retreat, or even talk to Ghost safely without Ghost trying to go in for the kill. Even if that opponent was intending to kill Ghost themself. And for Infected and uninfected opponents alike, if they stagger, then Ghost will stop and wait for them, just to see if the fight is done or not.
If their opponent insists on fighting, though, then Ghost will never retreat themself, no matter how badly they get hurt. They'll keep fighting until their mask breaks, and even beyond that once they have Void Heart and can survive without it. Even in simple sparring matches. Self-preservation... Is not their strong suit dhdhshf.
This also means that my Ghost would not have killed the non-aggressive Infected enemies under most circumstances. In particular, they definitely never killed the other maggots (False Knight's siblings). Not only were those guys non-aggressive; they were sapient, terrified of Ghost, did not want to fight and very clearly showed this by actively running away. Ghost did not kill them. There was no reason to. Hell, I always feel really bad killing them for the Hunter's Journal entries lmao.
Regarding the Hunter's Journal entries, actually, for the enemies that they wouldn't have killed many of (if any at all), and perhaps even just in general, I'm inclined to say that Ghost still has the entries written down, but did so after just observing the specimens rather than killing them? Plus maybe also by inspecting the bodies of already dead creatures, like how you get the Garpede entry.
At least the initial entries anyway, which I like to think were actually written by Ghost. They probably don't have any of the "second tier" entries physically in the journal, considering that some of them (e.g. The direct quotes from the Warrior Dreams) make no sense for Ghost to know. But for the ones written specifically by the Hunter, maybe Ghost would pop by to show him their journal from time to time, and that's when he'd give them his input on Hallownest's creatures?
#ooc#.🪲#🪲 headcanon | ghost#((i'm torn on whether or not my ghost would have the hunter's mark gfdhf))#((on one hand. i'm not a huge fan of them *not* having 112% in their 'file' (...or. 108% (no pantheons) for their dream no more verse) ))#((BUT. realistically. they wouldn't have it. because they wouldn't have killed things to the extent that the hunter requests in-game))#((as i already said. there are some enemies that they wouldn't have killed at *all*))#((though i should note. ghost's 'mercy' and them not killing creatures unless they attack first isn't like. a kindness thing or anything))#((nor is it a desire to not fight. they quite enjoy sparring with strong fighters actually!))#((post-game they'd pretty much always be up for a spar and may even challenge others to some themself))#((instead it's kinda just. more of a logic thing? they see no reason to attack something that isn't threatening them. so they don't.))#((though if they needed more soul to survive? then yeah they'd hunt down even a passive creature like a tiktik or boofly))#((but there are so many aggressive infected creatures in hallownest that they can usually get enough soul just from fighting off those))#((and ghost 'showing mercy' in boss fights isn't like a conscious ''i'm choosing to spare you because it's the nice thing to do'' thing))#((it's a ''oh ok i guess we're done fighting now'' response. kinda just going with the flow))#((they might not even really understand the concept of 'mercy' actually unless it's explained to them))#((which. has potential for a funny thing actually. like someone comments on how ghost can be oddly merciful yet also so ruthless))#((and ghost's kinda just like ''? huh'' dgdgdhf))
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Hey um. Here's the thing. The Clone Wars movie but. Asajj is a Jedi Master. Don't ask me how or why. Quinlan Vos is Dooku's assasain/Sith apperantice. Asajj is on Christophsis with Obi-Wan and Anakin. Her new padawan is about to arrive. She (Ahsoka) arrives. Ahsoka says Yoda sent her to be Anakin's padawan. Asajj doesn't get it. Obi-Wan is smirking in the background. Anakin also doesn't like this. He says he doesn't need a Padawan. Said Padawan and Anakin go to take down the Separatist shield generator anyway. Asajj and Obi-Wan go to negotiate with the Separatist General. Anakin and Ahsoka take down the generator like they do in Canon. Asajj & Obi-Wan fight the Separatists. Ahsoka tells them they need to go find Jabba's son or however it happens. They go together, but Asajj is also there. Everything goes the same as it does in the movie (Quinlan filling Asajj's place) but Asajj and Anakin argue much more. Until the landing platform scene where Quinlan now is starting to cut through the door. They see the Twilight. Asajj tells Anakin and Ahsoka to run with Rotta the Hutt while she holds Quinlan back (yeah Quinlan has a homoerotic fight with Obi-Wan first). They (Ahsoka & Anakin) go to Tatooine. All that shit happens. Asajj, Anakin, and Ahsoka go before the council to figure out what happened with the Padawan mismatch. Asajj really doesn't like Anakin. She tells the council he isn't responsible enough to have a Padawan etc. Anakin agrees yet he already bonded with Ahsoka so he doesn't know what to think about it. Asajj is hellbent on having Ahsoka as her Padawan basically. The council asks them both to exit the room so they can ask Ahsoka privately. Ahsoka has no idea bc she bonded with both of them. The council decided to do something that has been rarely done in Jedi history and let her be the Padawan of them both. Because it's war and weird things are happening anyway. Asajj and Anakin have to deal with it. It's funny as fuck. Workplace comedy. Romantic comedy but not romantic. The Clone Wars is much better. They're all idiots. Boom. Just made TCW interesting for myself.
#daily asajj thought of the day#it would be so funny you don't understand#asajj ventress#ventress#disaster lineage#anakin skywalker#ahsoka tano#tcw#the clone wars#clone wars#sw#star wars#star wars au#sw au#star wars the clone wars#wrote this instead of sleeping#the clone wars movie#tcw movie#the concept of ahsoka as asajj's padawan has been stuck in my mind#it would be so funny#i already said that#like two times#i've thought about this au so much already#i would write a fic if i didn't have two asajj wips i was actually planning on continuing#they would hate each other#so much#this might only be appealing to me but it's extremely appealing to me#co-parents AU fic
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I know it’s a funny joke on this webbed site to be like ‘haha I know my blorbo better than the person who writes them’ but it is no longer a joke for me. I know ork-0 better than rob david and I need to break into mattel to save him right now
#not putting this in the main tag because I don't want to be the stop having fun police for any cgi enjoyers but like#the gap between who ork-0 actually is as a character and who the showrunners think he is is so wide it isn't even funny#legitimately not even being /j right now how do you come up with the concept for a character but not understand them on a fundamental level
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one unanimously good thing about the ff7 remake though is that i see more and more people realizes that Cait Sith/Reeve is such a funny character worth talking about. Hell yeah.
#underrated fav#like people usually don't talk about him much while he's just such an interesting character with a very funny concept#seeing so many people in glee about him is the one thing that matters#thank you for understanding#the original poor little meow meow#ichatalks about ffvii#ichablogging ffviirg
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I feel like I have to apologize for reblogging from a random ass person but sometimes I go to people's to study them then I find content from a deactivated person and it's like fuck! I have no choice now
#ive done this a few times where i go to peoples blogs reblog stuff under a tag then leave#funnier this time because i blocked them but yeah i only looked because... roth and tif a shipper?.... i don't understand#i think it's really funny how Roth just isn't like romantically compatible with any other character in the entirety of ff7 media yet#maybe that's just because i see him as aroace but also like#he either almost killed them or killed someone close to them or actually killed them or the character just doesn't really know who tf he is#the only one i can see is like ... an geal.. during cc#but even then i think they're better as besties#i have Views on character relationships i think aewith and Roth should be lab siblings and vinky is roths fathership ended with hooj now vi#nky is my dad#im censoring characters names like this so they don't come up in tags because i don't want random people to try to talk to me#i should make a tag for when i text post ramble but i rarely ever do this anyways#its just 1am and i can't sleep rn#roth and tif a is the funniest ship concept ever actually because roth doesnt even know who the fuck she is he killed her dad then pushed#her down the stairs#you know the ' you took everything from me ' ' i dont even know who you are ' yeah
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oficially diagnosed with adhd babeyyyyyyy
#this is so funny to me cause if you asked me a year ago if i thought i had adhd i would confidently have said no#but then in the middle of a therapy session i could almost see the imaginary lamp over my therapist's head turn on#and she said you know what? i think you should investigate if you have adhd#and i was a little skeptical about it but i mentioned it to my parents and they were like hold on... she's right#and then on the same week i was hanging out with a newly made friend and outta nowhere she stopped me and asked if i had adhd#so i was like welp... maybe i do#and then i made a psychiatrist appointment who sent me to a neuropsychologist to take multiple tests involving logical thinking memory#attention span etc etc#i did very high on logical thinking but the attention part was low and the memory part was average#which means i can't pay attention well but the moments that i do i retain and can understand well#it explains a lot cause i had literally no trouble with school like i was top5 students in my school up until 9th grade cause we didn't have#to do any long term studying or projects or whatever#but then in high school when things got more complicated and i HAD to pay attention to understand concepts things got much harder#i couldn't just logic my way out of exams anymore and also i had way more classes#like when i had afternoon classes (two times a week) i literally just gave up cause i knew i couldn't pay attention#but i mean i still passed every class with no final exams or anything but i went from a 90% student to a 65% one#(except in humanities i love you humanities)#and then i got into college and the pandemic hit and online classes were absolutely awful like it was truly bad for me#i was a portuguese major for a year and a half and i honest to god don't remember 5% of what i was supposed to know#again i did well on my tests and stuff i had a 88% average but like#that was solely from panicking pre due dates and crying and doing the little reading i absolutely had to do 10 hours before the exam was due#and then immediately forgetting everything the second i hit send#i think there were maybe 5 ocasions during the whole year and a half where i was able to actually pay attention during an online class#most of the time i tried for like 3 minutes and gave up#and it really made me sad cause i thought i was just a lazy ass throwing my college experience away#which made me extra upset cause i was studying in like basically the best college in the country#and it's a public one so the people were paying for my studies only for me to throw it all away??#anyway it was a tough time for me mentally and this diagnosis makes me feel so relieved#like when i can't pay attention it's because of the way my brian opperates and not my character#my post
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sighs and begins to quietly sob in a corner as I think about what life decisions had led me to this path
#tadc#tadc au#tadc harlequin au#harlequin au#y'all don't understand.....#THE AMOUNT OF WORLDBUILDING AND LORE AND STORYLINE I'VE DONE FOR THIS AU#BECAUSE I HAVEN'T REVEALED IT FULLY YET#NOT TO FUCKING MENTION#THE CAINE X POMNI MAJOR ASPECT OF THIS AU#AS A CONCEPT#NONE OF YOU UNDERSTAND TO THE ABSOLUTE UTMOST DEGREE#HOW MUCH I'VE WORKED ON THEM AS CHARACTERS#THEY ARE THE MOST FLESHED OUT OUT OF THE BUNCH AND IT'S NOT EVEN FUNNY (it is)#IF I TOLD EVERYONE EVERYTHING I'VE DONE FOR CAINE AND POMNI YOU WOULD ALL BE LIKE#“Ziku I think you're slowly going insane we may need to call the mental asylum”#SCREAMS INTO THE VOID#IT'S BEEN 4 MONTHS SINCE THIS AU WAS CREATED (I think)#I'M GOING TO SCREAM AND CRY /POS
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liking Lute is a curse when you live in this fandom, really. love my girl but eventually you will always run into an [redacted] fan and it's humanly impossible to feel peace after that
#stupid dawn rambles#obviously not all of them. but always one of them#liking Luggie is a thousand times worse cause your peace is taken away twice#actually. liking any woman in this misogynistic fandom is the same as being punished for every single one of your sins#seriously this is one of the worst fandoms I've ever seen in my entire life. I will never stop being surprised#if you think it's bad it can always get worse#absolutely every single wlw ship will always be haunted by an obsessive spirit of someone who#is incapable of interact with other posts without mentioning their poor handsome baby boy#since when did it become normal to be this inconvenient#I mean it's the internet. but these people incredibly always manage to cross all possible limits of the unbearable#and it's always those people who love to use that ridiculous sentence every time they say an atrocity#“uhmmm it's about something that doesn't exist it's not really hurting anyone”#me when I don't understand the concept of art and just repeat random phrases to use when it suits me#anyway. funny because if it were us harassing them they would come out crying#and talking about how they can't stand living in this fandom anymore and how terrible the bullying is#this ALREADY happens actually ❤️ and it's always a delight to see#what these people don't realize is that they reproduce the exact same behavior as the people who harass the creator and the crew#but anyway. I would like to study certain brains of this fandom in a lab to see if there are even any folds at all#or if it's a koala using their account#just a little rant#phew I feel lighter
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